Sunday, February 26

Teaching him to whom he Belongs

One thing Sue said that stayed with me: "he seemed to need more discipline than I could provide to him by myself." No, that's not how this pro domme thing started. It was my idea because I wanted to do certain things in a three-way that I was not comfortable asking Sue to do. It's her fault, not mine. But things like this, once said, take on a life of their own: "Mr. Mayor, can you confirm that you do not beat your wife?"

It also got me thinking. I really want to make darned sure david knows he is not free to visit professionals whenever it pleases him.

So yesterday I sat him down on the couch, and very sweetly told him that, unfortunately, I felt I needed to remind him to whom he belonged today. I told him that he had visited another woman without me present, and I was concerned that there might be confusion about this issue. Poor david swore up and down that he only has eyes for me, and that it was my idea, and he would never have done it without me telling him to do it, and so on. I told him that I am sure his head knows all that, but that I was concerned that his pretty little bottom might be confused. It was funny then listening to david try to defend his rear end! Of course I was messing with him, but isn’t that what it's all about?

I had wanted to do a certain thing to him for a long time now, and I thought this would be a perfect opportunity to unleash. You will see when I get to it!

The first thing I told him was that I felt I needed to get my strap out again and make sure he would have trouble sitting for a couple of days. david looked a little panicked at this. I had not used my strap on him for almost three months now, but he sure remembered that last strapping! I could see his eyes pleading with me, but I was standing firm. He kept repeating that he knows he belongs to me, and I kept repeating that I'm not sure his rear end knows, but it will after it gets strapped good and hard.

I took him up to the bedroom, had him strip naked, and made him lie face down on the bed with his hips over a couple of pillows. Then I got some nylon rope and tied his wrists to the headboard on either side of the bed, tied his ankles together, and tied them to the foot of the bed. Then I took a belt and wrapped it very tightly around his thighs so that his legs would not come apart. I didn't want him spreading his legs inadvertently and me accidentally strapping the backs of his balls. Then I stuffed a pair of panties into his mouth, and used a second pair to tie around the back of his head to keep them in. As I did this I told him "no safe words from me, baby. You’re going to take what I give you. You just keep squirming and begging through that panty gag so that I know you're ok."

In his visit to the pro domme, he had said how helpless and scared he had felt being completely immobile, knowing that she could do anything to him she wanted to. I wanted him to feel that same way with me. With her he had not been gagged, and he had had a safe word. I wanted to go a step further with the panty gagging and no safe word. I wanted him to be more scared of me than he was of her.

I got the strap out, and without any preliminaries whipped it very hard across both his cheeks. I used a full arm tennis swing and was rewarded with a muffled scream, a rectangular strap mark on his ass, and some very unmanly fanny wriggling. His pro domme did not mark him at all, but I sure would. The last time I strapped him (three months ago) I did 75 whacks and went up and down his legs as well. That was overdoing it. This time I confined myself to just 40 and all on his ass. I alternately aimed the tip of the strap to each cheek, though the far cheek still got the worst of it. I had decided after his first strapping that I was going to reserve the strap for special occasions, and never "play" with it, but rather keep his fear of it extremely high. Mission accomplished. By the end his ass was a mess of crimson, black, and blue, and he had tears in his eyes. After his 40 I asked him to whom this ass belongs? I heard a muffled "You! You!" from behind his panty gag.

I was not done with him yet, though, not by a long shot!

I untied him and ungagged him, and then ear-marched him over to the bathtub. I pushed in the plug and told him to get in and lie on his back. He had no clue. It's a little fetish of mine to pee on him. I had not done that yet, and I had decided that today was the day.

I stripped off my sweats and panties, put one foot outside the tub, and the other on the far side up on the lip. Then I squatted down (thank you exercising!) and let loose a stream right on his face. He closed his eyes and screwed up his face, but I told him to face up and open wide. He obeyed and opened up his mouth, and pee started splattering into it. He could not bring himself to swallow any, so he just sputtered it out as soon as it went in. By this point there was a little pool of pee in the tub. I told him to turn over, put his face in it, and stick his ass up. I then directed what I had left onto his beaten-up ass and privates and asked him again to whom that ass belongs? He said it belongs to me, but he had to speak into the pee puddle so it was not very distinct.

That was very, very hot for me. My pussy was tingling like mad. I can now say that there is nothing that makes your boy more your bitch than pee'ing on him like that. You do that, you own that ass!

I got back up and told him to empty the tub. In case you are wondering, it's not as disgusting as it sounds. I have a very healthy diet, and my pee is nice and sweet smelling, thank you very much. I told him to get into the far corner of the tub. I took the spritzer, turned the water on cold, and hosed him down like the monkeys in the zoo (poor monkeys!). That made him jump worse than anything I had done previously! I kept the cold stream on him and made him turn around and around. By the time I was done his penis and balls were tiny and all shrivelled up! Ha Ha!

I told him to get those little peanut balls out of the tub and follow me. I did not let him dry himself at all, so he was shivering all the way back to the bedroom.

"So you like getting your asshole beat by strange women, do you?" I asked him rhetorically. This was one thing he had asked of her that he had not ever asked of me, so I was a bit pissed off with that. I had him kneel on the bed and told him to spread his cheeks open nice and wide with his own hands. Then I got out a little skinny belt (see the picture below) and proceeded to whip it down into his bottom crack.

After some experimentation I decided the best angle was head on so I knelt with my thighs on either side of his head facing down his body, and gave him his bumhole whipping from that position. I experimented with the belt doubled-up and single-tailed, and thought single-tailed worked best with a shortened-up grip. It got so that I could whip down pretty hard, getting some real yelps from him. Once I got into my groove, I gave him a couple of dozen strict ones right down on that naughty bumhole. That'll learn him!

While I was doing that I scolded him for not telling me that he wanted his bumhole whipped and made him apologise repeatedly. "You know you’re getting fucked next, I hope?" I asked him. I had him hold his spread-open position while I got my strap-on around my hips. I lubed it and him, and proceeded to really teach him to whom he belonged!

My "equipment"

54 comments:

  1. Dear Ms. Julie,

    i'm sure he now definitely knows to Whom he belongs! Does he understand just how lucky he is to have a loving yet very strict Goddess to take him, i hope he does! Thanks for sharing Your story, it gave me a thrill that someday, maybe, i too will be taken and owned by a Woman such as You!!

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    1. I too hope that one day you get properly owned, boi.

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  2. Hi Julie, I'm glad you've got your belt out again, I think you should use it every week, and as for whipping his bum hole! thank God Kate does not read this, John xxx

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    1. I think the hard strap-whacks hurt him more, but I'm sure the skinny belt to his bumhole was way more embarrassing!

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  3. DAMN

    Submissive Husband

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  4. Thank you for the pic of "your equipment" (and strap). It really helps with the mental vision of what david endures.

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    1. It's a pretty blue dildo, isn't it? Sort of glowy.
      That skinny little belt is only good for "vertical" whippings. Way too wimpy for a horizontal strike.

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  5. There is something every powerfull about peeing on your sub. The first time I did it I was angry at hubbette and stupidly when I told him I was pissed off he reply was " it
    was better to be pissed off than pissed on". I exploded. He was marched out to the yard, tied naked, spread eagle and I pissed all over him. The rush was incredible. I left him in the hot sun until the urine dried and then sprayed him withe garden hose.

    All I know is after pissing on him I felt completely in charge and horny as hell. BTW, I did send you an e mail so hceck your spam. I have few ideas for you to surprise David so e mail me.

    QG

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  6. It is amazing, the similarities between my Wife and yourself Miss Julie...Q never holds back when spanking me...even in play!...And pissing on me...makes Her horny as hell too!...She has always had something of a bathroom kink to Her...She has already taken your toothpaste idea and used it on me...Q lubed up Her largest butt-plug until it was minty fresh...and then planted that bad boy inside my rectum...So i'm sure it won't be long before She takes one of Her thin, little belts to my asshole...just like you did david's...Yes, david and i are two, very lucky men to have loving, Dominant Women in our lives...And by the way....nice cock!

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    1. How wonderful and inventive that Q used a toothpaste covered butt-plug. Einstein (toothpaste-covered butt-plug) didn't come up with his theory without standing on the shoulders of Newton (toothbrush up the bumhole). That's how progress is made.

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  7. Wow, even though I've never really gotten into spanking (per an earlier post) you make it sound soooo sexy I want to try it. Although after your description of how david felt I'm sure tears would be in my eyes as well. I might not feel all that good immediately after but I'm sure after the pain goes away it would give me lots of erotic moments to think about in the days and weeks to come.

    I can't imagine being tied down so there is nothing you can do but endure the pain and to think the woman is thoroughly enjoying herself as well, it would make me feel so submissive. I echo other readers on how lucky he is to have you.

    I've pretty much given up on finding a woman like you. I mean let's face it, you are one of a very few who understand the sub-missive's needs, have a devilish mind and an adventurous spirit to follow through. Giving david what he needs but enjoying it yourself is the ultimate fantasy. I guess my only outlet will be to read about your adventures so keep them coming.

    Let's see, spanked with a strap, smacked on your hole with a belt, taken from behind with a dildo and then pissed on - I'll be thinking of this for weeks. Thanks for sharing.

    bt

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    1. While I doubt you would enjoy the kind of spanking I would give you, I think you would definitely need it and deserve it. Oh, but in your case, bt, the strap, the bumhole whipping, and the dildoing would be carried out in a room full of cheering women, each taking a turn whacking your naughty ass, pinching your tiny penis, and reaming you good and hard!

      (there, something more for you to think about as you play with yourself. Ha Ha! ;-)

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    2. I think so as well. Maybe one day I will get one by someone as loving and strict as you. I remember my earliest fantasies as a child and it had to do with getting a whipping by some pirates to save a girl I knew - basically allowing me to be punished instead of her...so this fantasy has been on my mind for quite a number of years.

      I think the most erotic of your adventures has to do with being humiliated in front of a woman - your adventures with your sister are incredible. Far more humiliating to be punished and naked in front of someone you know instead of a pro dom but as I read it you are going to make it quite the experience for david. I look forward to hearing about it.

      Yes, being whipped and fucked by a group of women would be the most humiliating/erotic experience of my life. The closest I got was being made :) to serve three of my women friends dinner in panties and a frilly apron. A bunch of teasing and fun but nothing more sadly...

      Yes tiny penis and only good for amusement by you and your friends - aah if only :)

      bt

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    3. So how is it that you got into the position of being in apron and panties serving a bunch of women, and NOT get spanked???

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    4. I'm sure if you were there it would have been very different and a lot more exciting - especially for me :)

      bt

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  8. Miss Julie,

    Wow, what a great follow-up session with david. Simply brilliant but also sends such a strong message of how much you love and care for david. Keep up the surprises as it is the "fuel" for subby hubbies.

    Shades

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    1. Well, partly motivated by the "green-eyed monster" to be completely honest. He does need to know to whom he belongs!

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  9. Julie, I have a few ideas for you. Does subby read your e mails?

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  10. Miss Julie,
    I've been reading for a while now, but I have been remiss in not commenting on your posts. My Mistress and I both have derived stimulation and inspiration from your chronicles, so I feel compelled to say "thank you" for sharing!

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    1. My pleasure! Thank you very much for the compliment.

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  11. With dildoing, I suggest you fuck his ass with you high heel, also the front tip of your shoes.
    John

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    1. May be also take off the shoes and fuck him with your foot, imagine your toes playing inside his ass hole -very humulating-
      Go ahead GIRL

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    2. I do want to keep it safe, so I might pass on the high heel jammed up his keister sole-deep (!), but a bit of teasing along those lines sounds like fun.

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    3. I am a bit surprised that you do not kick his ass much, or am I missing something

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  12. Amazing ma'am, love the strapping and wow, ending with the dildo, heaven. WOnderful lady you are and he is so lucky. He would be nuts to even think of another.

    Thanks
    Ron

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    1. Ha! It's the nature of you horny boys to think of other women. Any woman who doesn't believe that is fooling herself. A wife's job is to set boundaries. That's what I was doing with david: "You may do this, this, and this specifically; and, even though I gave you permission, afterwards you can expect a helacious beating, pee in your mouth, and a hard fucking just so you don't get too comfortable."

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  13. Great post, very hot. Thanks for sharing.He is a lucky guy. Do you keep him in chastity at all?

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    1. No chastity. I let him cum whenever he pleases. I think it's very fun that he tugs on his penis while looking at Internet porn. But if I catch him red-handed, he gets a spanking for it!

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  14. WOW! What an unbelievably hot post Ms Julie! It's always good to take Your man in hand and remind him who he really belongs to, and i'd imagine that after this session he won't soon forget it! And i'm sure he is grateful for it...if not i know You'll come up with ways to remind him of his true place. =-)

    Any more concrete plans for You to accompany david on a visit to a pro? i'd imagine that would also help take any green-eyed monsters away for You, and probably be a helluva a lot of fun as well! =-)

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  15. hello Miss Julie, thank you for another great post in the training of your husband. Have you thought about allowing david access to a blog of his own, so he may share his feelings with other submissive males.
    have a great weekend, toy

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    1. He can barely read much less write.

      (Just kidding - but I'm the more ejicated one in the family!)

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  16. You ma'am are wonderful and just so lovely

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    1. Why thank you.
      That little comment just warmed my little heart!

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  17. fantastic post, fantastically hot! A yes, so appropriate to let him know - so very clearly - what he can and can't do - plus, if you have a bit of jealousy, go with it!

    If I might suggest something you may want to consider trying, if you put him on his back and have him pull his knees up and apart, while not the most attractive pose, you can get great access to his asscrack with the benefit of face-to-face time as you singletail his asshole. A cushion under the hips may help or if he's limber enough, have him put the soles of his feet togerher, wrap his hands around them, and pull them hard toward his face. Also good for milking, with his semen filling his navel.

    Just a thought - I certainly don't mean to imply that you need to take direction from me!

    John S. MacLeod

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    1. Maybe have david take up wood-working...so he can fashion something like this? It looks like it should give you an "all access pass" to whatever you'd like!

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    2. Very nice idea, john, thank you!
      I've also seen photos of men in the pose you describe, but getting milked so that they ejaculate onto their own faces. Ha Ha!

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    3. Hey!

      Imagine my shock when I followed that link and found a woman there! Not amusing! ;-)

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  18. Might I make a suggestion as to your next bum hole punishment? cut a thin switch and use it to whip between his cheeks the tip can work wonders on his balls

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  19. I also do some frequent - often daily - spanking of my guy for various offenses. We tape them and offer them up on clips4sale. Not so much for the money, because the reaility is they're so cheap and such a surprisingly small market, that they only cover enough for new toys and dinner out once in awhile. But my guy believes that there is SO little F/m spanking clips out in the world - of a more "maternal" and very real nature, that he truly wants to share his "good fortune" - but not at the expense of SOME built in privacy. If we just posted them out everywhere for all the world to see for free, they could end up in the wrong hands and get posted on YouTube, or something, and he is ultra paranoid about being "outed". People tend not to give stuff away they paid for, even if its just 4 or 5 dollars.

    Anyway, I think the readers HERE would love to see our clips. Even just to know this can be more than fantasy. Costs you nothing to look. ;)

    Anne
    http://clips4sale.com/47666

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    1. Hi Anne,

      The videos look like great fun. I'll be sure to go check one or two out!

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  20. Dear Miss Julie,

    What a beautiful and exciting sight that must have been for david, lying on his back in the bathtub facing up toward the exquisite bottom of the Woman to whom he belongs!! And then to have Her golden shower rain down upon him - so decadent and so humiliating! You have certainly outdone yourself this time!! I can only dream of that happening to me.

    mike

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    1. That's funny... david did not look happy about it at all!

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  21. Next time, just sayin'...

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    1. Excellent training method for teaching a man to deep throat better!

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  22. Miss Julie- I didn't get a chance to write last week, after was nearly caught masturbating and spewing my seed all over panties to this post!! Omg, this is the hottest post ever,maybe... Love you guys!!
    Devoted hug!

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    1. Oh goody! I find it the highest compliment when you guys soak your panties with your jiz while reading about my adventures!

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    2. Mistress Julie - I was only too happy to comply! :) Soaked, indeed!
      Have to catch up today :)

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  23. VS here

    I read in a Special Forces Field Medical Handbook that the closest thing to a sterile solution in a combat situation was urine. One could soak one's scalpels, etc., in the solution to keep them clean.

    No mention of the taste, obviously.

    Viktor Strelnikov

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    1. Oh it's very healthy for a subby boy!

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