Thursday, January 3

taught to whom he belongs

In my Sister "Milks" Husband post I described how david received a very kinky Christmas gift from my sister Susan. I followed it up with the post david's reactions, where my husband confessed to me that he expected to be "taught his place" by me immediately afterwards, as I have done under similar circumstances in the past. I probed a bit, and he said that he thought he should be. I thought that was very sweet of him.

I heard about a method of punishing children where they choose their punishment for themselves, and thought I should try that method out on my bad little boy. So I asked him what did he think was appropriate as a means of teaching him to whom he belonged? I can't remember the conversation exactly, but here is some dialog that pretty much approximates what was said.

He first said just two words very quietly: "the strap"...

"How many strokes?"

"50".



Fifty is a lot. I swing the strap hard, and after 50 strokes he won't be sitting comfortably for days.

"Poor baby! That'll hurt a lot and really remind you I own you, won't it?" I said.

"Yes ma'am".

"And is that everything?" I asked expectantly.

"no," he said. "I should get a spanking first, with the hairbrush, maybe 100 strokes of that?"



"Ok, 100 with your hairbrush across my knee, and then 50 with my strap." I confirmed with him. "Your little tushy will be soooo red and sore by the time I'm done with you!"

"and..." he went on,

"Yes?"

"and... I should... ummm... be dressed, ummm... like a girl..."

He was really blushing now! Ha Ha! I have always forced him into girl clothes. He was embarrassed to admit that this should be part of his lesson!

"What kind of girls' clothes?" I asked him, just to torture him a bit more.

"You know... Panties. Bra. Stockings. that sort of thing"

"The whole nine yards, eh?"

"Yes ma'am" he said.

Goody! The garter belt! I do like a target...



"And is that all?" I asked.

"One more thing... the, you know, ummm, the strap-on dildo?"

"I see..." I said, "you think a long hard ass fucking on a sore bum will remind you that you belong to me, is that it?"

"Yes ma'am..."

"Just anal intercourse, or should you have to suck on it first?" I asked him.

"suck on it first, ma'am" he confirmed.

"It'll make you gag if I do that." I stated.

"Yes ma'am."

"And you know I'll have to use Adam, don't you?" Adam is my biggest dildo.


"Ohhhh.... yes ma'am"

And you want to know what? david got exactly what he asked for. During the proceedings I must have asked him a hundred time "who owns this pretty little ass?" and each and every time he answered, "you do, Julie, you do!" I think he got the message.

33 comments:

  1. Miss Julie

    Look Like You have David Well Trained By Way He Respect You More Then Ever Seem Like He has It Down Pact Too About His Punishment Spanking he Get From You When Ever He Need Be Punish

    Iam Sure Anybody Ass Be Well Sore If Get 100 Spanks With Hairbrush And Then 50 with Straps or any other Implement like Hands They be One Sorry Man When All Over But be Thanksful For It Too Mostly Knowing The Female Care Enough To Give What They Need Even If Wife Or Girlfriends


    I will do as you say think what i want say in my head before i post or double check before i post to your blog so you be able to read what i said i never was good with these things in school there no excuse for me not being able too
    Mike
    Madison Ohio
    age 41

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    1. Well that's a very big improvement, mike, so thank you for taking the extra time! But it's ok to mix the small and the big letters. Use a '.' when you would take a breath when speaking, and start the next sentence with a big letter. Just like I did just now!

      The 100 with the hairbrush does not bother him much. Oh sure he squirmed and ouched a lot, and he got red all over, but after a 100 stroke hairbrush spanking, his bottom recovers pretty fast.

      The 50 with the strap is a different matter altogether! He knows he couldn't even take the 50 without being "warmed up" by the 100 before, and he wanted to take the full 50 for me. I made all the strokes of the strap low down on his butt, just above where his thighs and his butt meet. He was bruised purple after I was done, and I get to enjoy that for about a week or two before it goes away.

      Every time he sits down during that time, he will be reminded to whom he belongs!

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  2. Did you ask him while his lips were wrapped around 'Adam'?

    J: "who owns this pretty little ass?"
    d: "ewrwekfmr ders"

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    1. Of course I did! I love making him say things when I know he can't, and making him say them again and again. It must be sooo frustrating!

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  3. Hi Julie
    This is beautifully written and I have been there. My wife from time to time spanks me just to remind me “ who controls your bum” It’s usually the hairbrush followed by corner time and then round two with her strap. Once she also used her cane but I have never experienced the full treatment that David did. The vast majority of my spankings are for specific misbehavior but it seems the ultimate proof of a wife’s authority when she spanks just to remind you that she controls your bum. I find it interesting that it was David himself who realized it needed to be done and asked for it. There are times I have felt that way too but not had the courage to ask for it. I think that when a man gets to the point he knows he needs a spanking and can ask for it, he has become a truly well-disciplined husband.I envy him a litle

    Alan

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    1. I know what you mean. Both partners have to know intuitively the difference between asking for a spanking because the man wants a sexual thrill (which is fine, but different), and asking for a spanking because your man needs to feel properly "owned".

      I find he becomes extremely submissive in the lingerie, which I really like, and I know that he feels most "owned" of all when he is made to bend over after a long hard strapping and take it like a woman.

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  4. You two again have taken us to a new level, wow. The brush first, otk panties, garter belt, strapping, butt fucking....lord that is heavenly. Must ask respectfully ma'am, did you get off?

    This is just so erotic having him choose his spanking, love it.

    Always
    Ron
    Just amazing ma'am

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    1. Not this time. After I was done I felt he needed some TLC from me, so I undressed him, cleaned his bottom up myself, and tucked him in for an early bedtime.

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    2. Amazing so loving and caring yet strict and stern....the perfect lesson ma'am. Thank you
      Always
      Ron

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  5. Wow! Amazing post (as always!) Julie...what an incredibly submissive experience that must have been for david, and sounds like You very much enjoyed reestablishing Your authority! Lovely writing and incredibly hot stuff, You are an inspiration!

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    1. This time I never felt as if I had lost any authority (unlike some of the other public play scenes, where I sometimes feel a bit insecure afterwards). This time it was david who was feeling insecure, as if I was giving him to my sister and didn't want him back, so I was glad that I could correct that impression in a most authoritative way!

      Also, I really, really enjoy being dominant, and the more real it is the better. This one felt very real, as opposed to just being a scene, so I really got excited doing it.

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    2. i can tell You really, really enjoy being dominant. :-) i know what You mean about times that feel more "real" versus scenes, and while i absolutely adore the fun J and i have playing, it is wonderful to every once in a while have things "go up a notch" as it looks like You got to do here.

      It was a wonderful series of posts, thank You for sharing them! :-)

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  6. Boy, David is one tough hombre!
    I would've yelped at the first smack!
    How does he do it . . . ?
    Ah, now I know.
    His love for You.

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    1. He has no choice in the matter, ricky.
      His needs drive him to take whatever I give him.

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    2. MMMmmmMMM....
      Oh, excuse me, I was drifting.
      What was that You said?

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  7. Hmmm maybe david would sit better after that in some soft diapers and frilly panties lol.

    Ashley

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  8. That's quite an evening! Lucky david

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    1. Yes, he is "lucky" he married a woman who can swing a strap!

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  9. Miss Julie,
    I'm writing this with Dianne's consent and approval.
    I just want to say hooray for David for not only knowing what he should get but also asking for it nicely. I need to be more like David and learn my place in mine and Dianne's relationship. And that being the sub in a relationship is not a part time thing and that I don't have free reign to write things or do things I want in hopes of her not getting angry. And that is a lesson I will soon be learning I'm afraid.
    Again I congratulate David for not only being brave enough to ask for such a severe punishment because he knew he needed it. But also for taking it without objection. I can learn a lot from him about what it truly means to have your wife in control of you and what she expects. As your post show you have David trained very well and I know that is where I need to get to with Dianne.
    Great post as usual and rest assured I'm sure Dianne will make sure I learn how to behave and obey more like David.
    Bob S.

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    1. Poor bobbie, always gettin' into trouble. What'll it be this time? Panties for a week? The strap? A long hard pegging?

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  10. Dear Ms. Julie, I am amazed at the level that your relationship has attained. It is just beatiful.

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    1. Thank you! Lovely comment that made me feel warm.

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  11. yes, I don't doubt he needed a lot of private attention after being handled by another woman - can't blame him for wanting a bit of a "security" boost and considering the naughtiness of it all, that sounds like just the way to deal with it. It's very clear to whom his heart belongs and it's very sweet and caring of you to reassure him so emphatically. I suspect that he not only is having trouble sitting but even leaving your side or letting you go to work in the morning!

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    1. Yes. Every since I started punishing him I have noticed that he takes better care of me.

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  12. I take it david has become "accustomed" to Adam...any plans on obtaining Adam's larger "cousin"...??

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    1. I might just have to look into that...

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  13. I know it is important for us guys to feel like we are in a safe place relationship wise and you seem to have knack for making david feel like you are an attentive mistress. Each time he sits down for the next couple of weeks he will be reminded of that attentiveness.

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    1. Nonsense. You boys heal quickly. A 50-stroke strapping leaves him sore for, like, less than a day!

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  14. He must have felt really guilty to ask for such a harsh punishment. Good for him that he knows what it worths to be yours and that he wanted to honour it !

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    1. I have him well-trained, for sure. He knew he could not get away with a handjob without paying for it, so I guess he just got it out of the way.

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    2. Well at first I thought David was lucky but now I think he is very lucky to have a wife always eager to remind him to whom he belongs like you did LOL.

      After this I am sure he has no doubt that he belongs to you.

      Lily asks me often lately when we scene to whom I belong, and I always answer "to you Lilly...". I guess she learned a few things from you again.

      Oh and we got a copy of Adam too..... but will let Lilly tell yo about it.

      Thanks for sharing this.

      -dan

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