Wednesday, August 28

I had to spank david today

The title of the post says it all. sigh.

The ceiling lights have been burning out one by one in our bathroom. I asked him months ago to replace the bulbs when the first one blew. Well now three out of four are blown and I reminded him forcefully a week ago. Still nothing. So I spanked him.

I would call this spanking real FLR, not scening.

I took him to the bathroom. I scolded him. I told him he would be getting a spanking. For real. And if the bulbs weren't replaced tomorrow, he'd get the strap. For real.

I went to get the spanking hairbrush. Then I sat on the straight-backed chair, pulled down his pants, put him across my knee, lowered his underpants, and then hairbrush spanked his bottom. No warm up. The first spank was hard, as were all the rest of them. This spanking without warmup seemed to really punish him.

I gave him about 200 hard whacks on his bare bum. He turned first red and then purple and then went white in the centers of his spank spots. He was apologizing and begging for it to stop from almost the first spank until the last. I was determined to punish him, though, and I did.

After I was done I took him into the dim, gloomy bathroom. I made him lie face down on the floor. I used light nylon ropes to tie his hands behind his back, to tie his ankles together, and then I hogtied him by pulling his ankles to his wrists.


I left the bathroom, turned out all the lights, and shut the door. I told him I'd come to get him in an hour. I informed him that if the lights weren't replaced tomorrow, he'd be getting the strap across his legs and bum as hard as I could swing it, and then he'd be spending two hours hogtied in the dark.

I guess we'll have to see what tomorrow evening brings. If the little bitch wants to play, we'll play...

74 comments:

  1. Lovely story, and how very reasonable you were to him. But it makes me wonder i you spank him regulary enough to prevent this from happening?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I enjoy his occasional misbehaviour!

      Delete
  2. Short but very sweet Ma'am

    Does david often forget to do chores? Maybe he was looking for a spanking and got more than he wished for.

    lill (Ms Julie's punished sketch slut) jo

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. No, he wasn't looking for it, but he found it all the same...

      Delete
  3. I suspect that you will be having a little more light in your life......If it were me, they'd be up already....You're so strict.....!!
    Kind regards,
    Gary.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Strict? Bah! I let him get away with it for months!

      Delete
  4. Sounds uncomfortable.

    Irene often ties me up and leaves me after a sound spanking/paddling/whipping - with one of her toys shoved up my bottom and sometimes with her panties in my mouth. She gets pretty much carried away with the whips especially these days. But it is almost always on the bed and I even will take a nap while I await her return.

    But it is pretty much a prelude to sexual activity. Punishing seems to turn her on to no end - so when she returns it is time for some reverse cowgirl pussy licking followed by intercourse amidst perhaps a bit more discipline.

    She says she wants to just punish me with no sex after in theory, but never gets around to it.

    Best,

    Rosco

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I didn't stick anything up his ass this time because I know the little slut likes it. This was punishment.

      Delete
    2. Try a stainless steel dildo or butt plug and put in ice water beforehand. It makes me whimper in a big way when Irene does it to me.

      Delete
    3. Nice! I will try that. Thank you!

      Delete
  5. Does he pee himself when left hog tied? Might be time for diapers!

    Goddess Gretchen

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I suppose if I left him long enough...

      Delete
  6. Hi Julie,
    I have been spanked like this, hard long and fast, bare bum, with a thick brush until I just surrender to my wife’s authority and let go. Thankfully every spanking is not so severe but I have got enough of them to know how he feels and what he will do now. He will be marked for at least a week and he will remember it for a long time (and the bathroom lights will be replaced as well as anything else you order him to do for the next week or so). He has been disciplined and he won’t be confused about that.
    But I have read your blog a long time and it seems you like to go back and forth between erotic fantasy scening and real discipline. You have a remarkable imagination and ability to play out scenes but you also seem to be a very serious disciplinarian when motivated to do so by David’s behavior. I wonder if at some point you won’t decide to focus on one or the other. My wife and I started with erotic play then mixed in occasional discipline. Eventually I found the two confusing and so did she and we made spanking strictly for discipline. Sometimes I miss the erotic spanking but my wife thinks I need the discipline more than the turn on and I agree with her. Today sex and spanking are completely separate for us with no sex at least 24 hours after a spanking. You are an amazing women and maybe you can continue to mix the erotic with the disciplinary but we couldn’t

    Alan

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. For me, it's the same physical act, but the emotional context is so very different.

      Delete
  7. guess real punishment spanking happen between you 2 awesome people my guess is he will be replacing the bulb in bathroom so the bathroom will have more light and be more bright he know your serious too about what you said

    i am sure that real life punishment spanking taught him vauble lesson and he will for now on listen and do what you say iam shocking knowing he know you spank him alot he never thought of how he would get a spanking from you for not listening

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I don;t think spanking works for changing behaviour, it was just a "wake up call" that the lights needed changing!

      Delete
    2. sometime nothing wrong with wake up call spankings they can work just as much of any kind of spanking too guys would need lot of wake up call spanking from wife or gf i know i be nervous and scare if you or any female wanted give me wake up call spankings and change of behavior spankin can come another time

      even feel like i be nervous or scare anytime female said she going to spank me hard and good like i mention to you before i am thinking if in front of female face to face and knowing iam going over her lap for spanking make me nervous too bad part is even if you ask for the spanking the female would be glad to tan spank a guy butt knowing it not her butt getting spanked

      Delete
  8. Dear Ms. Julie,
    I appreciate your noting the difference between this real FLR punishment and scening (and I physically sympathize with david's experience). I am curious, was the hogtied "time out" something you have used for true FLR punishment in the past as well? Does david experience it that way?
    Thank you,
    WhMs

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I am good with ropes, having had a bit of a sailing background, but this is the first time I've hogtied him. I have used light rope bondage around his ankles and wrists when standing against the wall in timeout. It's sexy for the first 5 minutes for him, after that it's booooring punishment.

      Delete
    2. Wow, that's something worth knowing--I'm introducing my wonderful Wife to sailing up here in our northern Michigan retirement, it may have more benefits than we'd counted on! Thank you for clarifying the role of tying up in david's punishment.
      Best,
      WhMs

      Delete
    3. When he's in timeout and not tied I imagine him saying to himself that he's in timeout like a little bitch but only because he allows it. When he's hogtied in the bathroom, he isn't goin anywhere, if he 'allows it' or not.

      Delete
    4. That's very interesting, the difference you describe there, you physically controlling the situation with ropes vs. david acquiescing without being tied. It shows up in our FLR in different circumstances, and my wife comes down sometimes on one side, sometimes the other. For instance, her choice has been for my chastity to be strictly honor system, no belt similar device--she wants me to "give" that to her. On the other hand, when she spanks me, she prefers the control feeling of pulling down my panties herself, instead of me doing it as an act of submission.
      As always, a pleasure hearing your thoughts,
      WhMs

      Delete
  9. Hmm,
    It seems that Your hubby might have had a real
    Punishment spanking...?

    I would hope that those lights are changed!

    Scening is one thing, real punishment is another
    I guess it was time for him to learn the difference .


    Hotbottominnj

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Soemtimes my scenes can be more intense than even this, but the energy I gave off was definitely punishment energy.

      Delete
  10. WOW!!!!!!!

    You are awesome!!!!!!!

    ReplyDelete
  11. Ms Julie,
    He definitely deserved it and you deserve to be obeyed. And it certainly drives home the idea that you don't like to be disappointed! I'm actually squirming in my seat at the thought of your discipline.

    Respectfully,
    doc

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. It was lazy, and laziness deserves punishment. Strict punishment.

      Delete
  12. WOW, breathtaking....I love to hate long and very hard otk spankings with the brush, well done ma'am, love it.
    Always
    Ron

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Yeah, he wasn't having much fun at the time either.

      Delete
  13. I am surprised you waited so long to "blow a fuse' ! In our household, L. would have had his derrière whacked (or flogged) after failing to replace the first bulb!...

    J(2)

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Perhaps that's laziness on my part then? OMG!

      Delete
    2. This is rather uncharacteristic of you, isn't it? - especially since "months" had apparently elapsed before you decided to take action!

      Some domestic chores (e.g. doing the dishes or shopping for groceries) must be performed on daily basis -under pain of of immediate retribution. The list of L's weekly chores (cleaning the bathroom, scrubbing the kitchen floor, mowing the lawn, etc.) is delivered - and "printed" on his bare backside with the martinet - when he brings me my breakfast each Saturday morning, and any slackness in his performance of such chores is swiftly sanctioned with a sharp use of the martinet, the kitchen spoon or the maple switch.

      Changing a lightbulb would rate as a "daily", or at worst "weekly" task, wouldn't you say?

      J(2)

      Delete
    3. Tomorrow is Saturday -and it's going to be a "long weekend" here in the US. The "list" may be longer than usual... Then again, if the weather stays nice, J(2) may decide on some outdoors activities - such as a long hike in the hills (and you know what this frequently entails...

      L.

      Delete
    4. I don't usually have david be my slave. I pitch in my part and sometimes do some of his too just because I want to. Bulbs are his job, though, and I do enough other things around here that he can just bloody do them!

      Delete
    5. I see your point! I, too (believe it or not) do some of the work in our household! I just expect L. to do the sort of chores I prefer not to do - or fall within a certain routine (replacing light bulbs would fall in that category...)

      fyi: L. was so diligent today that all of his weekly chores were completed before sundown (with only three dozen lashes of the martinet needed to be applied), and this means that the rest of the Labor Day weekend is ours to enjoy (and, yes - a hike in the woods may be on the program!)

      J(2)

      Delete
    6. The hike on Labor Day was cancelled because of inclement weather - and an indoors session with the 'Italian bridle' was scheduled instead! As a result, L. was in his best behavior over the next few days (the stripes left by that belt on his derrière served as an effective reminder!) and he needed no further 'attention' on my part until this past weekend, when he was subjected to his usual chores (and punishments as needed!) - as well as to one of those 'trips in the woods' that I will lead him to as long as the weather permits... and maybe for a while therafter...

      J(2)

      Delete
    7. The weather on Labor Day weekend turned out to be rainy, but J(2) made up for it with some indoors "activities" which - aside from the regular weekend chores - left my derrière in what she calls "a proper state"!

      The next (and latest) weekend, however, was bright, sunny - and suitable for a trip to a lakeside location where I got the harshest switching I had endured since July, when she and her sister had taken turns to flog my derrière in Burgundy!

      And yet, the martinet was used - as usual - on Saturday morning... and yet again tonight (along with the hairbrush!)

      L.

      Delete
    8. It's a good thing that I decided to bring home the switch I had cut (and used!) last week, as L. somehow forgot(?) to bring me the "usual" supply from the nearby wood!

      He paid for it with a dose of the 'Italian bridle' -and has now dutifully brought home a dozen sturdy switches (now soaking) that will be applied, as I see fit, to his sorry derrière over the next week or so...

      J(2)

      Delete
  14. I am betting the light bulbs will be replaced. Not that I wouldn't enjoy reading about the strapping you would give him.

    Easytopick

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Light bulbs ALL replaced with those fantastic LED bulbs that will never blow out. Ha Ha!

      Delete
    2. Darn It.

      Easytopick

      Delete
    3. Julie,

      Today, one of those LED bulbs blew out on me. I've only had it 8-9 years. For David's sake, I hope that he bought a later version .... or do I?

      Delete
    4. Damn! For the money he spent they better last forever!

      Delete
  15. I must agree that David's punishment was well deserved. My strict wife gives me a daily maintenance paddling to ensure that I don't forget any of my household duties like changing bulbs. I am given severe corrective canings with the tawse or crop for even minor disobedience such as not waiting for permission to sit down at the dinner table. For such extreme laziness in failing to complete expected duties; in addition to an extreme belting, my wife would lock my chastity pouch on for a month with only limited hygiene / toileting breaks of a few minutes several times per day - fortunately it is now more than 2 years since I have been so forgetful as to be placed in chastity for an extended time by my wife.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. You should count yourself very lucky that she does not lock you up for longer.

      Delete
    2. Yes Ms Julie,

      I agree that I am very lucky and am grateful that the corrective discipline that I am given by my strict and loving wife is always consistent, fair and appropriate.

      Delete
  16. Hmm...
    You don't think David was being a bit of a smart ass using lights that won't need replacing Ma'am? Covering his ass you might say.
    lill (Ms Julie's punished sketch slut) jo

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Not at all. We won't have problems with bathroom bulbs anyways (though he may need a spanking based on how much money he paid for those things!)

      Delete
  17. Ms. Julie

    This is the type spanking I can definitely relate to and I'm sure david didn't enjoy it one bit. This is how all of my spankings are from Dianne hard from start to finish with no warm up. And they stop when she feels I've learned a lesson not when I think I have. She's never hogtied me but I have spent an hour with my nose in the corner before afterwards.

    I know you don't think spanking can bring about real behavior change but I can assure you in my case it did or still does. As it obviously got your point across to david as well since the light bulbs got changed. I won't try and lie and say the thought of spanking isn't exciting anymore but when it comes right down to getting a real disciplinary spanking it's not enjoyable at all. Yes spanking is spanking be it a scene or for real. But a real spanking like this for misbehavior has a whole different emotional aspect to it and can bring about real change. Or at least it does for me.

    bob s.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. We can agree that spankings like this bring about short term behavioral changes, just as, say, putting your balls in my hand and squeezing would likely make you do anything I wanted you to!

      Delete
  18. Julie,

    I am not surprised that the bulbs were replaced. Punishment like you administer is not to be sought as it is the true thing. I would have likely considered finding an all-night store after you untied me following the punishment. I would certainly not take any chances on facing the strap at full force.

    ReplyDelete
  19. Great job Julie!!!

    Procrastination was one of the things I had to deal with Bob on several times. I would say that and anger issues were the two biggest things he's been spanked for several times. But I'm happy to report he's gotten much better in both areas now.

    Dianne

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Speak softly, carry a big strap!

      Delete
    2. Don't know why but that statement made me laugh and shiver at the same time.

      Right to the point again

      Delete
  20. I had a similar one from my wife, she used the bath brush for a very long & hard spanking on my bare bottom. She gave me round the clock spankings for 12 days ( we had 2 weeks vacation, she stopped only 4 days before end of vacation to give time for my bottom to heal before work). These round the clock ones are very intense, I could be spanked 10-15 times daily with what ever implements available (hairbrush, bath brush, spatula, belts, hangers, cord, cane, slippers & sandals, hose,.....).
    The good part is after first 2-3 days, she stopped the spankings after 6pm, where rubs cream on my sore ass with her feet (she never uses her hand, she says I do not deserve it, even for face slapping me she uses her slipper, and for cream rubbing it her feet after I kiss & lick them begging for mercy). Later on we have sex (often her fucking me twice & me fucking her once).

    ReplyDelete
  21. Thought you might like these for her workout's
    High heeled sport shoes

    http://www.alibaba.com/product-gs/940782455/Latest_Wholesale_women_high_heel_sports.html

    Emily

    ReplyDelete
  22. Apropos of nothing at all, happy Labour Day to you in the Great White North, and happy Labor Day to us down here in the colonies.

    V Strelnikov

    ReplyDelete
  23. Julie
    My girlfriend became angry with me last night. I was, to a small degree, flirting with another girl. It honestly was not much. But my girlfriend said she was going to put me in a chastity belt. I didn't even know they were real! I've been searching the web and came across your blog. Can you help me? What's your advise? I'm scared. A chastity belt!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. You should be scared. I guess there'll be no jerky-jerky for you anymore. If spankings turn you on, imagine how you'll feel getting spanked across her knee with your poor little dick straining against that chastity belt? Painful I imagine! Ha Ha! That'll teach you to be unfaithful to your girlfriend.

      Delete
    2. In my FLR the selection of a chastity device was always going to be my wife's decision. If I had been so presumptuous as to select and purchase my own chastity device I have no doubt that my wife would have assumed that I wanted to wear it. I am grateful that my wife selected a leather locking pouch which is relatively comfortable to wear, although it does create a rather embarrassing bulge in my trousers. A metal plate built into the pouch ensures that I cannot rub myself through the pouch; hence there is no possibility of jerky-jerky.

      Delete
    3. At some point, my wife confessed masturbation with fantasizing about another man; in addition to being punished (with ginger) where she had sinned, she suggested I put her in a chastity belt during my next business trips so as to teach her. We however did not find a suitable model (most belts are unsuitable for being worn for several days, including using the toilet).

      Delete
  24. Hey, in our household the great procrastinator is my wife - particularly for paperwork (we had a few narrow misses, and occasional real ones, because of this unfortunate tendency of hers). I've spanked her quite a few times because of this...

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I approve of all little subbies, male or female, getting their come uppance!

      Delete
  25. how hard do you hit with the hairbrush? amazing how he can take that amount of spanking!

    ReplyDelete
  26. I just have one simple question in response to this. Why is it that you allowed so much time to pass from the time when you asked him to change the light bulbs, to when you punished him for not doing so in a timely manner?

    I mean my position is that regardless of it being a FLR situation,, he should have changed the lights within ONE WEEK!


    Wiseone

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Despite the impression from the blog, we are mostly vanilla and only "play" at FLR'ish scenes from time to time. But I was fed up that time!

      Delete
  27. God damn, that was mean. Our recent exchanges made me feel so much better about what you do, and then I stumbled on this dark little number. Didn't know that you would jump into real FLR mode like that. Didn't seem horribly consensual.

    200 blows and hog-tied on a bathroom floor in the dark. Sounds like the beginning of the next Saw or Hostel movie.

    How often do you do that sort of thing to him?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. My you're the delicate little flower!

      It's all ultimately consensual and my husband likes it when I surprise him in an over-the-top way from time to time for a "actual failing"

      After a spanking david needs time to process in a timeout of some sort. For this one I got to practice my roping skills!

      Delete
  28. Do you work in Public Relations or Marketing?

    ReplyDelete