Tuesday, October 22

Exciting development with trainer!

A VERY fun development with david's trainer. I just had to write about it today!!!

Some of you have asked after david's personal trainer, Michelle. She continues to see him once a week, mixing in training with kink. I trust her a lot and often times I am not even in the house while a training session is going on. It's fun to come home from work and see him being put through his paces, Michelle often with riding crop in hand. When I arrive she will usually put on a little show, and spank him in front of me. david positively loves his sessions with her, which are really mostly work with a bit of play thrown in just to keep it interesting.


I have gotten to know Michelle quite a bit better myself. A very interesting young lady. In addition to the personal training which is her legit career, she also supplements her income professionally as a "switch", which means she will see (generally older and well heeled) gentlemen to either spank them or be spanked herself. She mainly keeps to her "regulars" nowadays, and doesn't seek out new men, preferring to work on getting more vanilla personal training gigs. The type of personal training she does with us is unique.

Earlier today, after training, I had just gotten home from work. She asked if she could discuss something with me, in private. Of course! She sent david away upstairs to shower and told him not to come down until called as she had something to discuss with me.

The conversation was sooooo interesting that I just had to share it with you guys. I feel a bit guilty sharing it here, even through our anonymity (Michelle is not even her real name), but you readers are my kinky family, after all, and I owe it to you all to share!

The gist of the conversation is that she has a  partner, Brian, with whom she's lived for over five years now. Brian is comfortable with what she does, and is kinky in his own way, but Michelle confided in me that she wants more from him.

Michelle and Brian fight quite a bit, according to her, over all sorts of silly things. She told me that she sometimes pushes his buttons just to get a reaction from him. She has admitted to me that what she really wants is for Brian to just take charge and spank her instead of getting angry and fighting. However she cannot get Brian to understand the concept of DD. He thinks what she wants is some kinky bottom pain thrown in during sex (which she does want), and that's what it's all about. She is having a lot of trouble communicating to him the concept of DD.

She offered all this up to me in the hope of getting some advice from me. I am older and wiser ;-), and she admires the relationship I have with my david, which she views as totally DD.

We discussed various things, but in the end what she really latched onto was my offer to explain to Brian what he was missing. I even offered up to demonstrate to him how Michelle should be spanked, and to supervise his first DD spanking of her (I must confess to this whole situation turning me on greatly, so it was not altogether an altruistic offer!)

We discussed using david as the demo model, but we decided both men would be quite uncomfortable with that! Instead, we decided that we would arrange for me to go over to their place, give Michelle a spanking, and explain some things to Brian regarding how she would like to be treated, trying to get him to spank her as well. We were pretty confident that he would not object to me spanking his little partner in front of him!

I told her there was only one problem with the plan. And that was that I needed to understand how she wanted to be spanked, what turned her on, so that I could communicate that to Brian. I also told her that I did not want to go in cold and have the demonstration be the first time I spanked her.

"Well that's easy to fix, Ma'am" she said to me as she got up and came over to stand beside me. I made a bit of room and she draped herself across my knee. I lowered her Lulu's and was scandalized to see she wore nothing underneath them! She claimed that is how they are supposed to be worn, saying it in what I thought to be a very cheeky manner!

As I spanked lightly we discussed what she liked and disliked. I had spanked a couple of girls before, and have always liked it, and this was no exception. Even though I am not particularly bi, I think spanking is sort of universal (either that or I might be more bi than I think - I will have to give it a serious try sometime to find out for sure!).

I decided I needed to test her limits a bit. I stood her up and made her stand in the corner (tee hee!) and went upstairs to fetch the hairbrush and the belt (both implements she had mentioned in connection with her idea of DD - I guess those are pretty universal for North Americans anyways).

I went up to the bedroom where they are kept and there was david sitting up in bed reading his Kindle. "What's going on down there?" he asked with a big smirk.

"None of your business," I told him as I got out the hairbrush and strap in front of him, and marched back downstairs with them. [He has pestered me repeatedly since, but I will not share. I told him if he asks again, he'll get the strap!]

I gave Michelle a "YELLOW" safeword and told her I would spank with the hairbrush increasingly hard and fast until I got it out of her. She took a very good spanking, but broke down after about a hundred with me going pretty hard towards the end.

So that was her limit. I was determined that for true DD purposes her spanking needed to be a bit beyond that - she agreed. Then I bent her over the arm of the sofa and belt whipped her. It only took about twenty increasingly hard ones of those until she was safewording me! Ha Ha!

I did learn that she was super sensitive on the backs of thighs, and was very scared of the belt hitting anywhere near her lower back (ever hitting her anywhere above the mid-line of her bum projected pain into her tail bone). So she has a relatively narrow band to work with, right on the sweet spots. Any lower or higher or to the sides would be more torture than punishment, and needed to be avoided. I was very glad I could work all this out with her before seeing her and Brian together!

She thanked me for the wonderful spanking, we hugged, and we agreed to meet up at her place Thursday after work to have our discussion with Brian. I am very excited!!!!

37 comments:

  1. Since the strap was applied AFTER a fairly hard spanking with the hairbrush, isn't the measurement a bit biased? ;-)

    In our household, we have a preference for family-style implements and spanking style- that is, the kind of punishments that might have been applied to unruly boys and girls 60 years ago. Since we are a franco-american household, the "martinet" and the hairbrush naturally feature prominently (though we use other items: slipper, spatula, cutting board as paddle, ping-pong paddle...).

    How hard would it be to find an old-style paddle, by the way?

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    1. Yes, may have to try the strap out on a freshly warmed up bottom!

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  2. Are you sure David didn't peek from upstairs Ma'am? The sound would have been too much to resist surely?
    lill (Ms Julie's punished sketch slut) jo

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  3. So Julie do you see this possibly becoming a threesome situation where you dom Michelle along with Brian?

    Sandy

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    1. Definitely! I am hoping I can entice Brian to participate and then I can sit back and watch the fireworks!

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    2. Then maybe you can persuade Brian to dom david (along with you & Michelle) turning it into a kinky fourway. After he spanks her, and the three of you harshly discipline david, you can watch them have sex while they watch you with david (per your 25Sep post)...won't that be HAWT...and oh-so-humiliating for david?!! Of course david wouldn't be allowed to watch anything as he'd be blindfolded

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  4. Hey Julie,

    I have recently discovered your blog and love your creative, playful, stern, and loving chastisement of david. The descriptions are quite vivid. You are both very lucky.

    I know that the main goal on Thursday is to educate Brian a bit, but you do realize that this latest turn of events presents an opportunity to mess with david a bit. He knows that you likely tanned Michelle's backside the other day, but he has no idea why. Now you are going over to her house after work; quite suspicious don't you think? He is clearly curious so why not play into that.

    One option would be to refuse to say anything other than you came from Michelle's and leave it at that. He will be dying to know what happened. You coukd play it up by returning a bit dishelveled or with a lipstick mark accidently left near your left ear. Another possibility would be to mention that you met Brian, Michelle's dominant and bi boyfriend to discuss future training (david does not have to know the truth). So many possibilies in fact.

    T.

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    1. Great ideas, but I think it will be more fun to tell him exactly what I'm doing! Poor boy will die of frustration knowing he's not part of it!

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  5. Looking forward to seeing how this turns out, would't' it be great if you can bring Brian on side, nurture and develop his DD side. You never know he may be your answer to your previous post, a real "Adam" for David

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    1. Ooooh... I don;t know about that...

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  6. Dear Ms Julie,
    I applaud your considered and practical approach to determining how a DD spanking should be administered to david's trainer. As a subbie who is aroused by a moderately severe application of the strap to my rear; I recognize the importance of having clear delineations between i) an arousing spanking, ii) a DD maintenance spanking, and iii) a severe corrective punishment DD belting - without this, as you write, turning into torture. While it is important to avoid torture when punishing the sub, it is also necessary that if maintenance spankings are to be part of DD training that the last few strokes exceed the subbies pain threshold. In my case this involves my strict wife ending my maintenance spankings with a series of concentrated,rapid, sharp blows to the sides of my butt cheeks leaving one or two welts on each side as a painful reminder to be obedient.

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    1. Yes, I agree... tears not torture.

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  7. I am beyond excited but wondering, was this the first spanking you have given to another lady but wow, this is just incredible and hot as hell. Happy spankings and what a terrific advneture for you.
    Always
    Ron

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    1. This is actually the third woman I spanked, so I'm an old hand!

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    2. Well never doubt your hand was just curious about the bottom, well done ma'am, nice.

      Always
      Ron

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  8. Julie

    Very nice of you to help Michelle out. You may become the Mother Teresa of domestic discipline.

    Like many submissive men, I enjoy seeing one woman dominate another - both because the female tush is such a beautiful thing and because women scream so nicely.

    I would like to see my wife Irene spank another woman for flirting with me but then make her watch the more serious punishment she inflicts on me.

    Best,

    Rosco

    PS - we just bought the "share" double dildo - a funny looking device but (after a few humorous moments trying to find the right position), she had a nice orgasm while violating me from behind

    http://www.babeland.com/share/d/1424

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    1. I think subby men would like to BE subby little women, which is why they are turned on watching a woman spank one!

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    2. You are probably right at least most of the time.

      I do get turned on when Irene calls me her "pussy girl' or other simliar things.

      And I do fantasize about being a sassy college freshman coed in a miniskirt and sexy panties with a pert round bottom pledging a sorority where the older members understand the many lessons I need to learn. Or maybe being the new member of a women's volleyball or rugby team and getting the spanking I deserve in the locker room. And in either case they discover how wet my naughty pussy is.

      How confusing.

      In reality I am a large man. The only thing I have in common is a bit of a naughty streak (and perhaps some girly lacy pink satin panties) - and getting spanked and violated by my mistress of course.

      best,

      Rosco

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  9. Julie: I mentioned this to my wife. We are a switching couple and her opinion is that, in order to give a proper spanking, it is better to have experienced it (she extends this opinion to sexual penetration...).

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    1. Oh my! Do you think I should spank Brian then? Ha Ha!

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    2. Well... maybe yes.

      Didn't you get spanked yourself?

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  10. Julie,

    Great post and I admire your ability to teach others. I'm sure when bob reads this post he will get very excited fantasizing about you spanking Michelle. I doubt he'll comment about that excitement as I think I've finally drove that lesson home after many hard spankings. But I wouldn't be a bit surprised if he doesn't come and ask me for one of his special spankings after reading this. And I'm proud to say that those are becoming much more frequent than the discipline spankings these days. I guess boys are never to old to learn a lesson.

    Dianne

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    1. Awww, you should let bob out more, Dianne. I have such fun with him and his very loose thoughts!

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    2. It's not worth disrespecting Dianne. I'm glad you enjoyed my comments and I still very much enjoy your blog. But unfortunately my bottom doesn't enjoy the results of my loose comments.

      bob s.

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    3. But do you still masturbate to my blog, bobbie?

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    4. No Ma'am not without permission anyways.

      bob s.

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    5. Bob, Bob, Bob.

      My wife says that one of the good things in life with me is (nearly) daily intercourse; she jokes that it's a kind of right of the married woman and that the best place for my penis is up her vagina. Of course, this does not work if I spend myself in masturbation.

      Thus I'm not to masturbate when I'm with my wife, at least not without her approval. That's common courtesy.

      (When we're not together is another story; then masturbation by itself is no problem but the prohibition, for both of us, is that we should not engage in realistic fantasies about somebody not our spouse.)

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  11. Goddess Gretchen24 October 2013 at 23:37

    I think it's time to break out the diapers for all of them!

    Goddess Gretchen

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  12. Ok, I am definitely hiring a private trainer.

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  13. love see you give spankings out to naughty female or any female think it suck when female who want spanks cant get husband or bf to spank them and have go to someone like you something tell me you wont spank female as hard as you do to david or those other naughty boys

    i for one would walk up and ask you for a spanking if i had chance you might laugh at me then say follow me as you then with smile in eyes and face toss me face down over lap and spank away on my soon be burning behind

    been missing in action on here cause was in hostipal had surgery done end up hostipal for 22 days

    mike
    madison ohio

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    1. Oh dear! I hope you are feeling better now, mike. I send you virtual spanks and kisses and get well hugs!!!

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    2. thanks you miss julie yes iam feeling better i enjoy your hugs kisses and virtual spanks they felt good

      but i have to admit i enjoy all my nurse some had great butt i wanted reach out and touch some of them even wanted be spanked by few nurses lol

      mike
      madison ohio

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