Sunday, April 27

A Public Fondle

A while ago I saw something that put a big smile on my face.

I was taking a walk by myself and I saw a young heterosexual couple meandering slowly ahead of me. Maybe early twenties or late teens? Without particulary knowing I was behind them, the girl reaches down and grabs the boy's ass and gives it a long lingering squeeze. As I passed them I glanced back quickly and smiled at the couple. The boy was very nicely turned out: nicely built, clean cut, and hair coiffed. He looked a bit sheepish as I glanced back. The girl had the look of the cat who had caught the canary.

What do you think? Was she just trying femdom on for size or was her boyfriend already bending over for spankings and peggings and expected to service his dommy gf in every way imaginable?


Have any of you seen similar scenes on the street?

30 comments:

  1. I don't know the answer to the question but Irene like to grab my balls in public when she is pretty sure she won't be caught - like under the table at a restaurant. Sometimes she will give a pretty fair squeeze making it a challenge not to react.

    I do love the photo. It's our favorite position (except maybe if I am being spanked), except Irene will usually have her knees in front of my shoulders and sometimes on my chest. She will sometimes read for awhile but it usually does not last too long as she really does like it when I am giving her those slow wet kisses between the legs.

    Rosco

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    1. Yes, balls are fun. Sooo sensitive, aren't they?

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    2. And prominently 'displayed' if you care to make david wear a cock ring.

      The home improvement stores (Home Depot, etc.) carry stainless steel rings of varying diameters in their hardware section...

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  2. I can't think of any recent spontaneous occurrences in public. But I did have to smile last night at one very public display.

    I was at performance of our city's ballet company doing an evening of modern dance. At one point the ballerina had her male partner on his knees crawling, as she dragged him by his tie off the stage. It was a striking display of Dommy-ness in front of several thousand generally prim and proper ballet fans.

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    1. Shame on you for those naughty thoughts at such a cultured event.
      But I'll bet 100's of other were having the same thoughts in that audience!

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  3. My wife avoids doing this kind of thing in public where it might embarrass others, but when it can be done discreetly, she does not shy away from petting me on the butt, slapping me lightly (or even hardly, if I was too "naughty") or from petting the "front" (she likes giving me an erection this way).

    This is a way to remind me that my body is hers, especially the "bottom" and "front bottom". ;-)

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    1. Embarrass other? Has she no concern over embarrassing you?

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    2. I actually enjoy "embarrassing" L. (as you do, I am sure!) when I spank him when it may be heard (e.g. in hotel rooms) - or actually witnessed by my sister, or by one of my (few) close friends.

      J(2)

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    3. @Julie: My wife grew up in a somewhat conservative family, and, despite her kinks, still has some conservative reflexes. One of them is that you do not do sexual things in public; so for instance she refrains from spanking or sexual moaning in hotel rooms, because she does not want to be overheard by the neighbours. It's not that she finds sex shameful, but she finds it improprer to inflict it on unwilling third parties.

      On top of it, we are careful when in places we could be recognized.

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    4. I totally get both points of view. If i get a bad vibe from somebody, I won't go there, but if I get a good one, then off we go.

      For my part, I would love to hear and see other people get a bit kinky with one another.

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  4. I think their expressions tell the story -- he's already somewhat submissive and they're both loving it. Her playing with his butt in public is the give-away.

    For some reason, spanking and especially, pegging / anal sex cause the inserting party to feel possessive about that butt. Fucking it makes it mine! And because it's mine, I like to play with it in public, so everybody else knows it's mine.
    So is he getting pegged? And spanked? oh yeah! Young people these days!
    The photo is great, any guy whose girl plays with his butt spends time on his back, sucking clit.

    tomas

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    1. I agree with your interpretation, tomas. It was definitely an "I own this" look!

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  5. Hmmm, some girls just like to squeeze their guys bums...but I would like to think that she has total control of him! More girls should give it a try...they have no idea how obedient and attentive us guys can be if they just make us aware that they expect it!

    I'm going to pay more attention to couples now....hopefully I'll see something that I can share!!

    Respectfully,
    doc

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    1. But I think it's a special statement if she grabs his buns in public like that. As if he were the "girl" in the relationship!

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  6. I prefer to tease my hubby. Public punishment or humiliation is not y cup often. I prefer that in private at home and if there is company it can only be trusted persons like his sister. However I do ensure he knows who is the boss at all times. We have secret signals whereby I allow him a toilet break. Sometimes during a party or an outing it is fun watching him squirm in discomfort until I gesture that he may go and pee. A few times I have made him wear a bra under his suit. I make sure the strap is tightly clinched but the shoulder straps are loose. I casually tug and release the elsticstraps which cause him to tremble. Or just pull down the shoulder straps and see him struggle to pull it up without attracting attention. Since he isn't allowed to go to the loo sans consent, it amuses me watchbhm struggle. When other men sometimes remove their jackets, hubby is forced to sweat it out lest his bra shows thru his shirt.

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    1. I do love the idea of this bathroom and bra wearing control :)
      Sara E

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    2. It could happen to my david. He has the right bra for it!

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  7. Maybe there should be a special 'secret butt squeeze' like a Mason's handshake, that all doms know about so Doms can signal in public 'this is my subby'.

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    1. I am thinking the butt squeeze is that signal!

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  8. your guess good as mine or anyone you never said how bf responded when she did that ass grab maybe you did need re read the post

    i havent had lot of chance see that kind of stuff in public might turn me ne wanting the girl do same to me might have urge ask her do same to me tell her i like being spanked too

    Mike
    madison ohio

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    1. He reacted submissively, so i think that bolsters the case.

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  9. Thought you might enjoy this theory on men's shopping habits vs women.

    Men Shop as hunters women shop as gatherers
    http://www.marketwatch.com/story/men-shop-as-hunters-women-shop-as-gatherers

    emily

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  10. Interesting post...I had my bottom tanned last week and as we chatted after a long session over her knee we both agreed that the scene may have a dirth of spanking fans coming up being is the younger generation into the scene or has spanking just become a matter of fact to them but I would think that spanking is not on their minds and we all need to bring it back to a boil ......not sure the younger folks get the fun of a sound spanking.
    Always
    Ron

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    1. Oh I hope it's not old fashioned (except in the good sense). I still think an OTK spanking is a very humbling experience for a boy, and hence is timeless!

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  11. Hello Julie, I saw two public displays of Fem/Dom last week. The first was just a few blocks from home. A fellow was standing in front of his house talking to three women who were in a car. His wife came out the front door of the house, walked right up to him and gave him a full force crack across his behind. He jumped aside and she entered the car after giving him a quick little kiss. The car drove off with four laughing ladies inside. As I passed, we exchanged greetings and he walked back up to his house, and I continued on. FLR around the corner? Who knew?
    The second instance was on a crowded big city street on Sunday afternoon. A 20 something couple was walking along "arm in arm" with a twist. She hand a good grip on his right ass cheek and her fingers were well down in his cleft. He was holding on to her arm as she led him along at a purposeful pace. This was not a stroll but more of a march. He was following with full consent. She had smile of satisfaction on her face and he looked like a man who knew perfectly well what was about to happen the his little hiney. Perhaps a spanking was in his future. Maybe a pegging ? Who Knows?? I hope they had a good time!

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    1. How wonderful! It's everywhere!

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    2. The hand on the butt, finger tingling the cleft, is exactly what my wife does when it's possible to do it discreetly. She likes that because 1) she likes playing with my butt in any case 2) it gives me an erection. My wife loves giving me erections...

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  12. Hello,

    Allow me to offer my 2 cents. My ex-wife was pretty vanilla about things. She was not in to spanking or femdom. But she did like to gram my butt from time to time. It was more "mine" then femdom.
    I do like your sharing.

    pie pie 4 now
    pieclown

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