Wednesday, June 11

Husband bathed and spanked

I gave david a good scrubbing with a bath brush, and then an equally good spanking afterwards!


Before I get into that, first a little update on my new adventure. My lady friend appears to be getting a case of cold feet. She has a new girlfriend who is not quite as adventurous, and she doesn't want to do anything behind her back. She is in a bit of a dilemma. The new adventure is not dead yet, but I would judge it on life support. I'm not pushing hard, so we'll just have to see.

Meanwhile, I have a husband who needs regular spankings, and so that is just what he got the other day. I can't wait for flaky people to make up their minds if they want to play. There's work to be done! Husbands to be spanked and shamed!

I told him in the morning, before we left for work, that he would be getting a bare naked spanking that evening. I told him that it would be a very hard spanking, and that it would be very hard for him to take, but that he would be taking every last stroke I decide to give him. I told him that I would be expecting him to pleasure me afterwards. I whispered in his ear that he would be licking out my pussy, and then using his tongue on my asshole, until I came two or three times. Then I went to work with a little happy grin on my face. Let him think about that all day long!

We got home in the evening and prepared ourselves a little dinner. Nothing was said about the impending spanking. After dinner I told him that I felt sorry for him, but that it was time for his spanking. I ordered him upstairs to go get ready for me. I told him to get upstairs and into a hot shower, and that I would be up in a moment to wash him myself

I had previously decided that I would give him a good soapy scrub all over before his spanking starts, followed by some kind of shaming corner time. For the washing, it's not that he is particularly dirty, it's more that it is a very maternal thing to do to a male, and puts him the right submissive state of mind to accept a very hard spanking. Shameful corner time just adds to that.

I followed him upstairs after cleaning the kitchen. I opened the shower door and a haze of steam came out. "Get yourself all soapy", I told him. he stepped out of the stream of water and soaped himself up. I then used the long-handled bath brush and scrubbed him very properly. No, I didn't beat him with it! (This time, anyways). I used it to scrub him. I scrubbed his chest and underarms, then his cute little tummy, and then low low down on his tummy. I then got to his private parts. They need to be especially clean. It seems to really perturb him when I scrub away at his private parts with that bath brush. Especially his testicles, and even more especially the tip of his penis. What a baby!

I told him to turn and bend over so I could continue his scrubbing from behind him.


I then used the bath brush all up and down his crack and all over his bottom hole. I made him reach behind and hold himself open for me when I did that.  I pushed the bath brush bristles up between his legs to do that hard to reach bit between his anus and scrotum. Then I had a second go at the undersides of his testicles and penis shaft (and apparently the underside of his sensitive tip as well, by the fuss he was making!).

Despite the discomfort of the stiff-bristled bath-brushing, he was still rather hard. How delightful. As a bonus, his little bumhole was clean as a whistle.


Good thing, as it would be getting some unwanted attention later on. I was determined that he would be spanked thoroughly, and all that area between his cheeks and near his bum hole that normally gets off Scott free would be reddened and sore by the time I was done.

I told him to rinse off and come out to get his spanking.


I marched him still damp to the bedroom wall by his ear. I got out Adam (my big pink dildo), stuck it into his mouth, and told him to stand with his hands on his head, giving head to my dildo against the wall. Adam is a real mouthful for david, and heavy as well, so he needs to suck very hard to keep it from falling out.


I told him that if Adam falls out of his mouth, if he uses his teeth at all on Adam, or if I catch him taking his hands off his head at all to help keep Adam in his mouth, then he would be hogtied naked and left in the dark bathroom until bedtime, and we would try again in a week for his spanking.

In the meantime he would be getting a lot of practice holding Adam in his mouth, a half hour each and every day bare naked against the wall while I watched TV. And too bad if we have visitors ;-)

I then left him and told him he will not hear me when I come back, which may be at any moment, and so he better obey me. He knows I am perfectly capable of what I threatened, so I knew he would be good.

My philosophy as a Domme is never threaten a punishment you are not willing to carry out, and always carry out a threatened punishment if earned. david knows this about me by now. I don't kid around with stuff like this. Consistency is so important in training your male.

I left to do a little more tidying in the kitchen, and then came back upstairs again (quietly). I was kind of hoping I would catch him slacking, as the promised consequences would introduce a new punishment dynamic that would shake things up and allow me to reinforce with david that my threats are not to be taken lightly. But he was good as gold, and was struggling valiantly to hold Adam correctly and without help from his hands.

If you ask me, there's nothing so sexy as a damp naked (hard) man standing against a wall with his hands on his head, struggling to hold a big cock in his mouth. I definitely wet my panties seeing that. He was not aware of my presence at first. We have carpet and I was in my stockinged feet. I just watched him struggling to hold position for a minute or so. I love that he struggles so hard to obey me. When I told him to turn, I could see his mouth making a big "O" around the dildo with his lips a perfect circle around its girth. He also had a big erection. He looked so gay like that, and I told him so.

I took the dildo from his mouth and asked if he wanted a good hard fucking with it tonight? He said he did not (he was genuine in that - we have a smaller dildo he generally enjoys up his ass - not Adam). I told him in that case he better continue to obey me and behave during his spanking, or we would end with a solid five minutes of hard fucking.

With these preliminaries out of the way it was time for his spanking.

I had decided that this evening's program would be a no warm-up spanking with a hardwood paddle, then a hand spanking to his inner crack and thighs with him in the "wheelbarrow position" (I had never tried that, but saw it recently on Banjo's BBS and wanted to give it a try). I would end with a caning with him face down on the bed. I promised him a hard-to-take spanking, and I was determined to deliver the goods.

I sat on the end of the bed, and pulled him across my knees. I then put my right leg over the backs of both of his, locking him in. I demanded his right hand, and bent it up between his shoulder blades. His head was practically on the carpet, and he was jackknifed across my left knee. His upper thighs and lower spank spots were perfectly exposed to me.

For this spanking I would use a newly acquired paddle I had yet to take for any serious spin.


It's round and made of quite thick hardwood. Poor baby.

I started in with the paddle. No warmup. Just hard strokes to his sit spots: right, left, middle, repeat. The paddle is big enough that when I target the center at his sit spots, the lower edge spanks his upper thighs. And oh my goodness did he wail! From the first spank to the last. He wailed and struggled, but I was holding him very firmly. Even though he is bigger than me, when I had him in this position I truly felt I could control him. He did start begging for it to stop. And as you may know about me, I love that begging!

It wasn't terribly long by spanking standards, but it sure felt long to him. I started to think about letting him up once I thought I heard genuine tears in his eyes. But I needed to make sure, so I carried on until there was legit sobbing and frantic cries of "no! no! please! no!".

A word on safe play. I know david well by now. We have been playing very regularly for over two and a half years. We initially had safewords. "Yellow" for slow down and "Red" for stop. We don't really talk about them any more. If he said "red red red" I would stop. If he said "yellow" today - well I don't think I would slow down. I'd probably go harder on his ass. But he didn't even try to say "yellow". He yearns for a true "disciplinary" experience. That's his kink. Along with the public humiliation thing. And if that's what he wants, well it's not my ass getting dusky red, bruised and blistered!

I pushed him off my lap onto the floor. There were real tears in his eyes. yay. He clutched his cheeks and just lay there on the floor, in a sort of fetal position, breathing hard and still half sobbing. What a little bitch.

"I'm not done with you yet!" I told him in a forceful voice. Get up here, I told him. He didn't know what we were doing, and so it took a bit of prodding and male acrobatics to finally get him into the "wheelbarrow position".


I could really admire up close the damage I had already inflicted on him. His spank spots were as red as I had ever seen them, and the very tops of his thighs were quite discolored and looking like they would bruise up nicely. I put the paddle away and just used my hand. But hard. I spanked up and down his thighs. And inner thighs especially that this position is so great for getting at. david is sooo sensitive on his inner thighs. You have to move his junk out of the way to spank there. So I just sort of grabbed a handful with my left and pushed it to the side while my right hand slapped his inner right thigh right up to the crease where his scrotal sac attaches. Then I switched hands. He was yelping and wailing again, with just hard hand slaps!

You can also really easily access the area between his ass cheeks, deep into his crack. so I parted his cheeks and also spanked up and down each side of his ass crack. Especially the skin nearest his bumhole. I found no online image of the view I was getting, but here is a female approximation.


Yup. Penis, testicles, bumhole, all perfectly displayed. And see that white area around her bottom hole? Was not white after I was done with my david! If it ever happens with my new lady friend (and maybe even her girlfriend?) then I will want to put david in this position over my lap and have them watch from over my shoulder as I spank his inner thighs and inner crack.

The wheelbarrow position spanking really rounded out the redness nicely. He was now red from stocking top to mid ass and everything in between. But I was not done yet!

I relocated my david to face down across a pillow on the bed. I stripped down to my bra and panties and got my punishment cane.


It's fairly thick and has a handle part wrapped with leather. I put the cane down across the midline of his bottom cheeks. david was so cute. he grabbed at the comforter with his hands making cute little fists, and bit down on the comforter as well while making funny "nnn... nnn... nnn..." sounds getting ready for his caning.

I gave it a good swishy swing and brought it down CRACK across his little red rump. I was rewarded with a little line, a comforter-muted scream, and some furious pillow humping to chase the sting away. Ha Ha!

I lay the cane back down onto his bum, which was his signal to settle down. He started mewling again into his comforter. I tapped his bum lightly a couple of times saying "up up" as I did so. david arched his lower back and presented me his bum most submissively for his next cane stroke.

A big backswing, a big swish, and CRACK, less than an inch below my previous line and almost perfectly parallel with it. david screeched again and flattened his ass into the pillow trying to escape the searing pain, and when that proved singularly unsuccessful went back to humping the pillow. I added several more similar strokes. Some higher and some lower. I made him arch his back and put up his ass for each and every stroke. After about a dozen his ass was shaking as he held it up to beg for his next one, please. I also alternated sides of the bed, trying to even out the "far cheek" effect in that manner.


The caning on top of the slapping and paddling left a red and purple base coat with dark dusky tram lines across his ass. he would certainly be feeling the effects for several days to come, and I was hoping for at least a week with the marking.

Deciding he was more or less done I scooted onto the bed beside him. Kneeling there, I pulled him gently across my thigh. I started giving him light hand spanks. Once I lingered behind and just gave him a little itching type scratch with my nails. That got a reaction of "oooh oww ooooh", so I kept going. Poor baby was laughing and crying at the same time as I gave his tender, reddened skin a nice healthy itchy scratch!

I rolled him over onto his back and moved him down the bed a bit. I stripped off my panties and straddled his face. Then I just told him "lick". He started licking and lapping at my pussy. He is such a pro at that. Ladies out there reading this, I highly recommend a submissive and well-spanked man for great oral sex! I guess I was a bit worked up by david's spanking, because I came very quickly from the licking. In about a minute I'd say. After I came, I recovered a bit and then eased back down on his face and told him to keep going. Next one in another minute or so. And both were good ones too!

Then I sat more upright on him and put my asshole on his mouth. reaching over, I picked up my Hitachi Magic Wand (always nearby and at the ready!) and started pleasuring myself with it as I instructed him to lick out my asshole. I talked dirty to him the whole time as I pressed the Hitachi against my clit. I can't cum just from him licking my asshole, but the combination of the Hitachi on my clit and the ass licking really makes me wild. Both the feel of his tongue burrowing up inside contributes, but also the thought of my "making him" lick me in that dirty, dirty place. Those things together make me wild. And I came again. Three times in maybe five minutes. All mind blowing good orgasms. I love spanking david.

But that was it for me! I put my Hitachi aside but kept my asshole on his mouth and insisted he continue to ream me. I thought david deserved a little something something, so I spat on his cock and started rubbing it with my hand as he continued polishing my butt hole with his tongue. I got a little fatigued bending over like that and so sat up more on his face and told him to finish himself up. He managed to get a hand out and down to his cock. I spat on his cock again for lube and he started rubbing it furiously. I egged him on by calling him a dirty ass-licking slut, and so on. I also told him that next time we did this I would have some girlfriends over and really show them how to keep a husband in line... (he loves that kind of public shaming talk).

He exploded hot white cum all over his tummy. The rules for david are the same as the rules for you subby guys reading this blog. Scooped up and into the mouth. Every last cummy drop. And then every drop swallowed like good little whores.

Yes, you heard me right boys. If you haven't cum yet, do it now. Right now. And then swallow it all down for Julie.

;-)

Well that was it for my little solo spanking adventure with david. We'll see how the marks develop. I'll go back to more spontaneous, little spankings for a bit now, playing the "domestic dommy wife". Plenty of opportunity as spring cleaning is by now overdue!

73 comments:

  1. If I've been "naughty" ( a word she enjoys using), the bath is afterwards, squirming in the tub while being washed like a child is a reminder who is in charge. She washes me just like a child, dries me off, and then it is corner time. I have no choice but to do as told, the one time I put up a struggle while being bathed, she pulled me from the child and over her lap I went for a very hard wet bottom spanking and then back in the tub to continue the bath. I do not resist anymore and take my punishment. That time also meant after my time facing the wall was completed I had to wear my pj's the rest of the day and do chores.

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    1. That sounds very nice for you, that your Wife takes the care to show you your place like that.

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  2. i alway want be spanked with bathbrush i need buy a new bathbrush so i can get my spanking with same way david got his i heard bathbrush spanking hurt real bad but i want experience one anyhow

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    1. Oh, they do! I would think a bath brush would be a great weapon for a self-spanking. Who don;t you go ahead, buy a bath brush, and give yourself fifty nice hard ones while you think about me?

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  3. Julie,
    You continue to amaze me as you surpass yourself with hotter and hotter scenes!
    I love the the spanking right down in the spread crease, making it red everywhere including the wide spread puckering hole.
    I dream of being spanked and whipped hard enough to leave marks for a week. And to top it off (or bottom should i say) ass licking with verbal humiliation is outstanding!
    I am of course hard and dripping precum after reading this, but I have taken a vow for my wife that I will not masturbate to orgasm. I must save my orgasms for when she allows it.
    Thanks once again for sharing this hot tale.
    mrbill

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    1. I am happy you save yourself for your wife, though the "dripping precum" sounds like you are playing with fire, young man!

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  4. Is Ma 'am's desire to dominate growing beyond Her husband and extending to other males? Eg "Yes, you heard me right boys. If you haven't cum yet, do it now. Right now. And then swallow it all down for Julie."

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    1. I enjoy e-domming my subby readers, absolutely!

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  5. Ms Julie,

    Maestro Julie is better. My awed respect Ma'am. *curtsy*

    lill ( Ms Julie's punished sketch slut ) jo

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    1. That's the same sort of spanking you would get, lill jo, if only I could get my hands on you!

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    2. I think I'm honored and terrified at the same time Ms Julie Ma'am.

      lill ( Ms Julie's punished sketch slut ) jo

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  6. I was only once spanked after taking a shower and it was terrible....it seemed as the worst experience in my life. I live a FEMDOM marriage and there fore we don't have any safe word. Moreover when I'm spanked it is for punishment so I rarely get a playspanking....the only good think is that my wife is now always warming me up before starting the real punishment.

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    1. A warming up can help make the subby experience the punishment for a much longer duration I have found. It's a real tradeoff, though!

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  7. Now that the warmer weather means open windows...are david's wails and cries able to be heard by nearby neighbors or passersby?

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    1. Air Conditioning - but nice thought!

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  8. What a splendid evening! I've been fascinated by the idea of being put in the bath and scrubbed red raw with a firm bristled brush for almost as long as I can remember. I always thought I'd get spanked with the bathbrush after, but I'm sure a paddle and hand work just as well ;) And that Banjo drawing is one of my favorite artworks, must have been great to try it out.

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    1. That sounds like an easy fantasy to play out. I'm sure there are many women out there who would love to scrub you all bare naked to red raw!

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  9. Our relationship centers primarily on sissy maid service. That includes both household chores and personal service - massages, manicures, pedicures, and, of course, other more intimate forms of service.

    Feminization is central to our relationship. Corporal punishment - usually spankings - is connected to some need for correction or discipline.

    Being on my hands and knees, having my skirt and petticoat lifted up over my back knowing that the riding crop is coming next followed by being mounted and taken with her strap on like a true girl is about the ultimate in submission and feminine feelings.

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    1. Yes, nothing like having to be on the receiving end of hard anal intercourse to teach a true girl her place.

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  10. Whouaaaa!!!! que article!
    je doit me confesser, la scene ds la salle de bain ou David doit tenir le gros god dans sa bouche m'a excite au dela du soutenable... et l expliquation de la punition si le gode venait a tomber m a acheve... j etais tellement excite que j ai sperme avant la fin de l histoire... ouffff je pense que je merite une punission...

    bravo Ms Julie, vous etes parfaitement perverse!! quelle chance a David de vous avoir!!

    Rom

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    1. J'espère que vous avalé de toute façon?

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    2. Malheureusement non,
      bon je relis l'article et je corrige mon erreur !

      Rom

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  11. Unless I missed something, it seems that the bath brush was used only to "scrub" him , while that thick paddle and the cane were (later) applied to D's derrière - quite effectively, I'm sure!

    I don't own of those long-handled bath brushes, but I have been tempted many times to buy one - and to use it on "you know who"... Any "user comments" are welcome!

    J(2)

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    1. Here's the trouble with my bath brush. The end flies off the handle if I swing it. Look for one where the brush end is attached solidly, or else glue them together. But when holding together the bath brush is a formidable spanking tool!

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    2. Thanks for the advice! I went and bought one yesterday - and gave it a first (careful) try earlier this morning. It didn't fly apart, but L. (who got a VERY sore derrière) is not happy about my purchase ! I will use it again - but only when he really misbehaves...

      J(2)

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  12. You are a Goddess! Amazing writing and a true story I hope...

    New Lover in Boston

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    1. Ha Ha! As "true" as any role playing scenario. It's just play between my husband and me.

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  13. Bathbrushes? Are we talking about the same thing?

    Irene - my wife/mistress/librarian/equestrian/sororitypresident - employs a number of spanking implements, depending on her whims. It is the usual assortment of crops and paddles except maybe for the delicious birch branches we bought from caneiac.

    But in all case she likes to take a bit of a swing. With the longhandled wooden bathbrush we have, it would be way too hard and do way too much damage - even for real punishment. Maybe that is the line between "intense" and "severe", but I don't want to do anything that requires a trip to the doctor or hospital.

    -Rosco

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    1. Don't be silly! No responsible domme would ever put their subbbie in the hospital. I have learned over many spankings of increasing intensity and by observing the aftermath and through communicating with my husband what he can take. I think you are a bit of a pussy, though, rosco, and can probably take a lot more spanking to your rear end than you think you can. I have certainly surprised myself over the past couple of years how much david can take if the swats are delivered accurately to his spank spots, and a long handled bathbrush, while super intense, would never get my man anywhere near the hospital when used correctly!

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  14. Ms Julie

    Awesome account of david's spanking.

    I have enjoyed your blog.

    Would it be acceptable to ask you a question about wife s and whether to know if they are very quiet dominant.

    I would like to send my question via your gmail account.

    The question will make sense and I really would like a Dominant Wife's point of view.

    Thank you

    Respectively

    Stephen

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    1. Absolutely, stephen. Please feel free to email me.

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  15. do i really have givemyself 50 nice long hard smacks spanks dont know if i could do them properly for you i yet go buy new bathbrush but i will going make sure good hard wooden one sturdy too

    mike
    madison ohio

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    1. Yes you do, mikey. Some nice hard swats for me, please. Don't injure yourself, but that bum better be red!

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  16. Loved your post, it was great as always.  You take such great care of your husband!

     

    While I think that scenes should be highly variable and unpredictable, I personally have always preferred for a very strenuous scene to have a behavioral focus – usually, in the absence of a better excuse, an "if you ever" type of arrangement.  But you sound like you had a great time with the scene you had and I certainly had a great time reading about it!

     

    As far as bath brushes (one of my favorite toys, though a little harsh, aren't they?) a company called Ecotools has an inexpensive bamboo one – it's a little lighter and makes up for it in sting.  My favorite is a one-piece model from Wal-Mart but they seem to seldom carry it, or at least not reliably – but it really packs a smack!  Earth Therapeutics has a "dry skin" brush that's famous for its stiff bristles if you're doing scrubbing and should provide a real, heavy swat as well.

    I wanted to ask about david's corner time, if I may:

    You seemed to (really) like the idea of his not being able to meet the challenge – since it seems that he will comply if at all possible, though non-compliance, or especially cheating, might be even more fun – are you thinking of trying to "set him up" to let you carry out your threat or something like it?

     

    I completely support that you have to carry out the threats you make but when I think of myself in that situation I know that even with great effort I'd fail miserably (I only breathe about 70% through my nose and don't know if I could do that for 5 minutes, even).  While I know it's unlikely, since you would choose a goal that is at least reasonable (coming back to "don't make threats you won't carry out"), if you'll indulge me in this hypothetical (up to you, of course), how would you foresee this playing out if he was so far from compliance/ you completely misestimated what was achievable?  Would you be thrilled by his continued effort despite no chance of success?  Or frustrated by continued failure?  How would you react to his declining enthusiasm and frustration, which would be understandable but maybe unacceptable?  Would you consider modifying the goal so that it might be met with enough effort (say, three times at ten minutes)?  Would you get his input on modifying it?  What happens at the end of the week – do you extend it due to such dismal performance or move on?

     

    Lastly and probably most importantly, any experience with or ideas on salvaging something like this that's not working out?

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    1. Yes, I like scening around misdeeds as well, however this time I felt like making him take a very intense spanking just because that's what I wanted at the moment.

      Thank you for the bathbrush tips. I will start searching out a more appropriate one. Hmmmm... I wonder why that "perfect" bathbrush is always sold out at the Walmart...

      Regarding corner time, I give him "free choice" if he wants to obey me or if he wants to misbehave and suffer the consequences. I think this time he had had enough consequences for the time being already, and so chose to obey. But I genuinely do enjoy when he tests me. I put him back in his place quickly!

      As to your hypothetical, if there is some reason he cannot carry out a punishment I would definitely modify it and blame myself for picking something that I could not practically carry out. I would probably assign myself some penance in that case, such as, yuck, bending over and letting him use my pussy with vigour. It would be silent penance, though, in that he would not know it was my penance. He would think it was just something I wanted to do.

      As for salvaging, only good communications can do that, and maybe starting back at the beginning with a focus on what makes HER comfortable, not necessarily what satisfies your fantasies in all their no doubt intricate complexity.

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    2. What a fantastic response! You are a wonderful writer, and a good teacher !

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  17. You are just freakin amazing, hot crap and ouch.....thank you ma'am
    Always
    Ron

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  18. Ms Julie,

    I just finished eating my cum like a good little subby...yuck! But I'm proud to do it for you!! Of course I was fantasizing about polishing your asshole with my tongue!

    Btw, you said...

    He yearns for a true "disciplinary" experience. That's his kink. Along with the public humiliation thing. And if that's what he wants, well it's not my ass getting dusky red, bruised and blistered!

    ...I could be off-base, but I believe david is completely in a state of submission to you now and it's not so much a kink anymore. Lucky guy!!!

    Thank you for sharing and for being strict with david and us lowly followers!

    Respectfully,
    doc

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  19. Oh my... !! :D

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  20. You have been neglecting his penis punishment

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    1. I gave him a good scrubbing to that part of him!

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  21. Hiu compared to this story---our experience is nothing but i will add it anyway--I am in a veryhappy marriage with a great wife but once in a while I get my naked butt paddled---I will one typical example----I went for a few days with college friends and we hired strippers one night---This is wrong from our religious beliefs---as well as hurtful to my wife---who totally deserves better conduct from me--After a while I was so bothered i just plain told her knowing full I would get my naked butt paddled--andI didand it hurt---but i had it coming----Any others who would or would not do as I did??

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    1. Strippers???!!!! Without your wife's permission???!!! If you were mine I'd have those strippers back, make you pay them, have YOU do a strip tease for them, and then make you do a little lap dance face down across my knees, and then across any of their knees who care to participate as well! That'd learn you!

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  22. re"out with the boys: same thing has happened to me--for some stuff I have done with my male friends I get my naked butt paddled right out of the shower--We have a great marriage and a high sense of trust so i always end up telling her knowing my bare butt is going to get paddled----No hairbrush--just a skiiny piece of wood I picked up yrs ago in the she had to paddle me---It hurts like crazy---but i got it coming and she has a right to vent her anger and frustration---on my bare butt! A great wife is worth a few damn sore butt paddlings

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    1. And you love it, don't you slut?

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  23. Miss Julie, I get spanked once a month with a wooden bath brush by a mistress! By the time she gets done spanking me, my butt is very sore + has marks on it that last for days! This is the worst thing that I have been spanked with! However, she said she is looking for something else to spank me with that is just as bad or worse! I can't imagine what that could be! John G.

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    1. A howling bare bottomed boy. Perfect.

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  24. Miss Julie, I am being told that I will be receiving a very severe spanking with the wooden bath brush very soon for being naughty! She is also looking for something else just as wicked as the bath brush to use at the same time! My butt is going to be bruised for days! I must admit, I probably deserve it! Actually, I probably deserve a hard spanking before seeing her! Not sure what I can do about that! Any thoughts on an item or me getting a hard spanking before, I would love to hear them! Thanks! John G.

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    1. I always favor a belt whipping. Leather and wood are a good combination. And sure, a nice hard hairbrush spanking beforehand would get your nice and prepared for your beating.

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    2. Miss Julie, thanks for the advice! I will make sure to have her whip me with my belt in addition to spanking me with the wooden bath brush! That should really mark up my butt! Also, I just bought a wooden hair brush for her to try! It's amazing that you said hair brush! Now, should I try and find someone to spank me with the hair brush before seeing her or do you suggest I spank myself with the hair brush before having her spank me! Also, when she whips me with my belt, would it be more effective if she doubled the belt? John G.

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    3. I usually prefer doubling the belt. I keep it single-tailed only when I am aiming for sensitive bits, such as asshole, cock, or balls.

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  25. Miss Julie, I have been told that I am getting my very severe spanking this Thurs Sept 10! Sooner than I expected! She said that I should expect mostly the wooden bath brush! However, she said that I would also be getting the belt, silicone paddle, riding crop, hair brush + wooden dowel! I have a feeling that I am going to have a hard time sitting for awhile as the effects will probably last for days! Also, I probably will not get a chance to get that hard hair brush spanking, that you suggested before hand, to prepare me for this spanking! John G.

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    1. How delightful! Women can be exceptionally cruel with a subby boy, and I hope she will be. What is your relationship to her?

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  26. Miss Julie, most of the time she is very cruel when she spanks me! She usually leaves welts and other marks on my ass for days! The last couple of times that she spanked me, she also spanked my cock and balls with a silicone paddle and riding crop! She is someone that I see once a month for a spanking only! It is always up to her how severe the spanking is and lately they have been extremely severe! So, when she says that this Thursday's spanking will be a very severe one, I can count on it being just that! John G.

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  27. Miss Julie, I did get spanked last Thurs! She was true to her word! It was very severe + she used everything that she said she would! She went harder and longer with the wooden bath brush! I was sore for days! Not only was my butt red, but there were welts + black + blue marks! She even spanked my cock some with a silicone paddle, which almost made me lose control! She talked about the possibility of having another woman watch or join in next time! John G.

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  28. bathed/spanked-----Sometimes my wife bathes me and it is fun,gentle and relaxing as well as sexual---We both like it----In the rare instances my conduct with my male friends is so offensive to her religious sensibilities I take a bare ass apddling---and it hurts---I am totalling consenting but it still hurts----A bath from her is great----a bare paddling is real punishment---(which I have earned) The two are nev er confused in our house----Children may be in teh house when she baths me---a paddling is always just the two of us











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  29. Miss Julie, I have already been spanked once since the last time I wrote! That was at the end of Oct. She always seems to add new things every time, but the result is the same, a red, sore marked ass! I will be getting another spanking the first week of Dec. I wonder what she will add this time, but I'm sure the results will be the same! John G.

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  30. My wife doesn't like to spank me, although she excels at tease and denial. I don't think I could handle your really intense spankings, but I wish I could have your redden my ass good. I will go use my bath brush on myself right away, while thinking of you sitting on my face.

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    1. Of course you can "handle it". I would promise you that you would not get injured, you would rightfully believe me, then I'd tie you up (consensually) and you wouldn't have much choice in the matter. It would hurt like hell, and I'd make you cry your guts out, but right after I'm done, you're be a little sore but perfectly fine!

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  31. Just a question: With in a very good and long marriage--I have earened ad gotten a few bare ass paddlings from my wife--they were for good reason--no argument--It was right out of shower--I just bend over and hold my shins and i admit it sire hurts----No one else knows itis totally between us---so there is no embarrassment or shaming jsut a damn sore butt----Doies any guy reading this take a paddling/spanking??? Does anyone else know? If so who would know?

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    1. You've come to the right place. Plenty of people get spanked by their wives (mostly for fun!), and plenty more have some people know (a sister seems to be the most common).

      Though, you're unlikely to get many responses with your comment posted way back here in my blog! Ask again on a newer post!

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  32. When my wife gives me a bath it is romantic---When I get paddled she is justly angry and she paddles my naked butt and it really hurts---nothing romantic totally far from it so while I get bathed its for romance and we love it----a paddling is the opposite I deserve it but my bare butt hurts like crazy!

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    1. I think the difference is that I never use paddling as "real punishment". We are always just playing (although pretending it is a "real punishment" in every significant sense), so the two mix well with us.

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