Thursday, July 31

Feminine Males

The other day I was trying to open a jar, and then david came and opened it no problem. Got me thinking...

What if women had this genetic thing that made their muscles somehow more efficient than mens'? Dating back to cave times. Women would still be smaller and sleeker, and men more bulky, but we would be way stronger.

I imagine women would have had their way with the men. If we saw something we liked, we would have stalked it down to the stream, and then pounced! Put the men on their backs, stripped off their clothes, teased their little clitties until they were hard, and then ridden them! When the inevitable babies came, we would have tossed them to the males to take care of. Don't want to? Do you want this stick across your ass? I thought not. It would have been a survival skill for men to lactate and feed the babies. yummy

As society developed, "men" would have likely been called women, and put into subservient roles. I don't doubt that fashion would have been 100% opposite of what it is in our world. "Men" would be in skirts and dresses to allow easy access to their genitalia for sex, or asses for punishment. Large breasts in "men" would be sexy, and so they would put on bras and falsies to lure us women.

But if they pissed us off? Oh yes, the belt would come off and we'd give them something to cry about!

Hmmmm... A girl can dream!

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  1. Yesterday, I brought the cane to my gf and bent over the sofa arm but she did not go along with me and said she got bored and wanted to be treated like a woman by having just conventional see without the need to spank her bf everytime she wanted to have sexy to get him horns.
    I got very upset and told her she needs to be punished if she does not go as usual, she told me I will not do it because I love her luscious bottom and will not like it marked or bruised.
    Any way we had sex without spanking and she asked me to be rough and act as if I M taking her by force.
    I guess my gf is not a dome although she used to give me nasty spankings that put me into real tears and many times tied up spanked crying and sobbing uncontrollably.
    She also kept on provoking me to slap her face, but I did not and eventually got pissed off and put her over my knee with a firm grip lowered her panties and gave her on light slap then let her off just to show I can do it.
    She told me she likes her man to be responsible and in charge which I do for the first part as I can handle well life situations but I do not take charge at home as I get my own coffee rather than asking her to make it for me also I ask her to spank me which she did because I used to guide her through the spanking but with the cane and me crying uncontrollably, she does not feel like it.

    What to do Julie?

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    1. I discovered that my gf mom still spanks her despite being 20 years old, during see I saw some marks on her bottom which she said caused by her mom's flip flops.
      How I see where the confusion comes from, I told her that she will spank me otherwise I will give her punishment spanking like her Mom and slapped her as with my flip flops (heavy rubber Brazilian ones size 11) a couple of times so she gave me a nasty canning and told me that she would use to ask to let go the anger she has from her mom spanking her.
      I told her it is simple either she spanks me and we have good sex or I punish her as with my flops like her mom.

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    2. Or...
      You can just talk to each other and have some safe, sane, and consensual fun!

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    3. My gf is not a Dom by nature, but a bit of a sub, so to get her to spank me is to top her from the bottom.
      It is not ideal but I love her and won't look for another gf just to get spanked in a typical Dom sub environment.

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  2. Interesting fantasy. Have you ever come across Eric Stanton's Princkazons series? I think you'd like it

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    1. Looked it up just now. Fun stuff. Though I would prefer to retain my sleeker smaller looks, but just BE stronger!

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  3. I like your dream Ma'am. Im not sure what all that testosterone would be used for though. Maybe the wimpy males would wrestle each other for their wives entertainment with the loser getting a spanking good prize.

    lill (Ms Julie's punished sketch slut) jo

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    1. Yes. Loser male spanked by winner male!

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  4. My wife would share with you that she has the best of all possible worlds. In guy mode I do all the normal guy things - mow the lawn, move furniture, maintain the vehicles, etc.

    In "girl" mode I clean the house, do the laundry including the hand laundry, and devote myself to my wife as her maid.

    I brush her hair, give her great foot and body massages and very professional manicures and pedicures.

    Sexually I concentrate on my wife's pleasure and she would tell you I am an especially gifted "lesbian" lover. We both love several strap on scenes from virginal bride to sexy, flirting upstairs maid. I give but never get oral and I receive but never give penetration sex.

    We share a love for feminine fashions, pretty clothes, well done makeup and high heels - among other things. I read women's magazines to keep myself up to date.

    I get my period every month when she does. Having my period sends me deeply into submission and seems to enhance my femininity.

    All this works for us and has through the 30 plus years of our deeply wonderful relationship.

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    1. Is your "period" an enema and a tampon?

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    2. The enemas re-create the cramps and bloating most women experience with their periods.

      After expelling the second enema I wear a tampon and a pad in my panties for my first day and a pad every day for the next six days.

      I buy all our feminine hygiene products and frequently have to carry my own very pretty purse when I make those purchases.

      I don't enjoy my periods but between the connection to my wife and the deep submission and feminine feelings I have during my periods I have come to appreciate this monthly ritual in our long and terrific relationship.

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  5. Don't think you'll get much complaining from your followers about that "dream", seems most would "assume the position" especially we were powerless to stop you.
    (much like your "teacher story" Think you need a sequel...)
    jim

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    1. Completely powerless. Weakling males!

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  6. AWESOME. Bring on the caveman days! Could this be the start of another amazing fictional writing by Julie?

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    1. No. Too exhausting. I need to concentrate my libido on more tricks and treats for my husband!

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  7. your feminine male e-subby misses you <3

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  8. Oh my... the things i'm picturing. Seeing your point, lol cd sara

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    1. Yes. A totally different world. And I don;t think there would have been such a thing as "male liberation". Can you ever see us more powerful women giving up the right to spank our males? Never!

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  9. only far feminie i would go is wearing female panties one she own or she help me buy for me to get spanked in bet she would enjoy looking down at my panties cover butt as she spanking it good smiling to herself

    mike
    madison ohio

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    1. Who care how far YOU would go, young man??? You will dress in whatever Mistress tells you to dress in, and that includes bras, stockings, blouses, short little skirts, makeup, and wig. Then you'll blush!

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  10. Who thinks of these things other than you. Your mind works in mysterious but kinky and amazing ways. Wow, Julie!

    Ricky B.

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    1. I know! And I don't think I've ever read that particular thought anywhere. What can I say? I have a talent!

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  11. Can I play Devil's Advocate? Do we women need muscles like Sly Stallone to prove we're the stronger sex? My own sub is 6 foot 3, weighs 17 stone and has a fantastically well developed body. I am 5 foot 2, weigh less than 9 stone and I'm almost 20 years older than him. Now unlike you, Julie, I don't sissyfy my sub, but I can control him with a look, a snap of my finger or a quiet command. he is mine to do with as I please, so he is punished and fucked regularly. I've owned him for nearly 3 years, and in that time he's been taught to serve me as I wish. I've had to resort to monthly milking to prevent unauthorised spurting. This is done on the last Saturday of each month. The rest of the time he's cocklocked 24/7. And the result of this training? he's putty in my hands! The more I abuse him, the more he wants to serve me! Strength comes in various guises. Mine (and yours I suspect, dear Julie) is the best kind - swift, cruel and oft applied! Hugs, licks and kisses from Ms O XXxxXX

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    1. I get your point and I totally agree with you. We don't need to be stronger physically to get our way, boys being as they are so easily lead around by their cocks. But it would be fun for a change of pace!

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    2. I agree totally, Julie about men being led around by their cocks! I'm convinced that's where most of them house their tiny brain! I make sure that when I'm tugging on my subby's cock (on the rare occasions that it is out of its device) My nails find the smooth purple helmet and dig in! It usually brings tears and smiles. I'll leave You to work out who cries and who is happy!
      By the way, The Explorer, I do not appreciate being called "girl"! I'm a Woman - and you'd better remember and appreciate that. Understood?
      Hugs, licks and kisses to you, Julie dear.

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    3. Ah yes! Fingernails into the tip. They don't know whether to smile or cry!

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    4. I do love that image of a big submissive male dominated by a smaller lady. I think I've drawn it once or twice or ... actually quite a lot.

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  12. All Dominant Women have this fantasy, Hunky men who are totally docile and subservient to their better half's. Sometimes I wonder if the would would be better off??

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    1. May I correct your assertion that my comment is a fantasy, Michyle? My sub is not docile, he's conditioned to accept my domination of him. It helps that he's a pain slut, and he's punished every night as well as being fucked most nights as well. But I have trained and conditioned him into doing and accepting things that he doesn't enjoy as much as punishment and being my bitch. When I first met him, as subservient as he was even then, he had a healthy regular sex life, with several girlfriends whom he fucked and who had no idea of his submissive tendencies. I'm sure it won't be a shock for you to learn that he's never fucked me! he's 100%hetero, but I've trained him to lap up his filth when he's been milked, and my present training regime involves the art of cock sucking to completion with the help of a bi gentleman friend. Fantasy? Nope, just cold, hard reality!! Ms. O

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    2. And it sounds like fun for all concerned!

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  13. Very interesting Ms Julie. So essentially, men are women, but with protruding clitties.

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    1. Yes. And "pussy" would be the slang term for his back passage!

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  14. You would make quite the corporate leader, Julie. :)
    All the best,
    pete

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    1. Hmmmm? Not sure ANYTHING in my blog is fit for corporate leadership!!!

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    2. Not in Your blog for sure, lol But(t) in the story i wrote You certainly are a leader. :)
      pete

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  15. My suspicion is that women want men who are strong competent confident fit and do what they are told. As a male I think the idea that a submissive man is feminine and should be dressed as a woman is odd and I think actually somewhat degrading of women.

    My suspicion is that women do not need physical strength to control men but for some reason they the women do not step up to the mark. In general it seems that women give hints where men simply need to be told exactly what is required. It is almost like the more direct a woman is the more likely the man is to comply. But most women lac the courage maybe to be direct.

    On a titillating note, I am not quite sure what anonymous is on about in the first two replies. I know the spanking of the older teen / young adult is the fantasy of the internet. Perhaps more so now that physical punishment is all but gone. So let me titillate myself and possibly you from way back when I was a teen just out of high school with a car and my first girlfriend and discovered that she was caned because I brought her home late. Still a fond memory although at the time I was shocked and although the caning was administered by her father it was her mother who would demand her daughter feel the 'rod of correction'. We were both going to church and that was the language of the time. enjoy the thought fellow kinksters. BTW it was over clothes and I did not witness it. She told me later.

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    1. Over clothes? How horrible...

      The dolling up of some males is done for kinky punishment purposes. In particular, males who are not really into cross-dressing per se, but get turned on by being humiliated, well they get very humiliated by that treatment, especially when there is another woman around to witness it (data point of exactly 1 here, so I may be inappropriately generalizing!)

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    2. I have read where a number of people think that men who feel embarrassed and turned on at the same time when dressing as women are in fact "degrading" women.

      I do not agree. You cannot know what is in the mind of such a man. Personally I am into enjoying my kinks rather than analyzing them (with crossdressing playing a somewhat minor role), but I really don't feel any antipathy toward women. But I am sorry that it bothers people.

      I have also read that some people find the word "panties" objectionable. Again, I am sorry that it bothers people.

      Best,

      Rosco

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    3. great point! Whatever turns you on that doesn't hurt anybody else!

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  16. Spot on Julie, not many women have the "balls" or interest to orchestrate any such scenarios. You are a rare breed, and quite talented at cracking the whip-as it were.
    If only we could clone you....
    j

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  17. Interesting post and an interesting thought experiment. Your conclusions are most probably right, if the woman had this genetic advantage then the society would be female-led. However I'm not sure about what would these women be like...

    Maybe right now they would be exactly like the men of the 21th century and we (the weaker sex, the males) would be more like the women who live now in the developed countries of the real world. :)

    In this case, a class of women would act in leading roles in our society (most of the politicians and CEO's would be female, I guess), but there would be a huge amount of men who would want to prove and show to everybody that they are as good as the females (or even better) in a wide variety of things.
    And while most of the females would suffer from some identity crisis, subconsciously lamenting over their lost supremacy and total control, the (liberated) men would gain an advantage in the educational sector and even in the labor market... etc, etc.

    Sounds familiar? :)

    As I see it, this is what is happening nowadays. The females are equal according to the laws and the legal system (at least, in the developed countries) and they want to prove themselves that CAN do the same, even do it better.

    And it seems that they can. This "yes we can"-attitude is true for the sports too.
    Of course this is the area where the men has a big genetic advantage over the women, but if you compare the number of men and women / boys and girls who are actively sporting, especially in the young age groups, you would be surprised...

    While we still have this physical advantage thing, you have a mental advantage: it must be acknowledged that you are more determined and diligent than us.

    Of course this hardihood to keep yourself fit is not always enough to beat a man...but sometimes it is.

    I am a man...so theoretically I have a "genetic advantage"... and still I'm sure that I'm weaker than 70% of the girls of my age....and yes, it could be really humiliating.

    I mean, REALLY.

    I'm not fat or something like that, but everytime when I try to work out (I try it from time to time) I have to give up after a few days because of the strains.

    And I don't want to go to the gym, because I don't want to be humiliated by the girls who are way muscular than me. :O

    Sometimes I imagine that if I would have a Mistress, only she could order me to work out hard haha. :D That would be good!

    Until then I have to accept that I'm a part of the weaker sex...

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    1. Good comment!

      It's true, I keep myself fit by working out in the gym a lot, including weight bearing exercises.

      And you're right, whenever I see an out-of-shape guy at the gym, humiliation comes to mind. for instance, loser in the push-up contest gets "taken" in the middle of the gym by the winner. Imagine the poor out of shape macho guy as he strains in a panicked state to try to do just one more push-up while I'm still going strong!

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    2. How many pushups can you do at once?
      For me, it's about 20...maybe 25 if I'm in panic :D

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    3. I practice Yoga and Pilates, so my push ups are with my hands right next to my breasts, lowering and raising up in a very slow and controlled manner, and hovering just off the ground in chaturanga each time. If you haven't been practicing that I doubt you'd squeeze out more than 2 or 3 of those, and then I'd be squeezing my dildo in to your butt!

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    4. Hmm...But I asked "normal" pushups so it's not an answer to my question. :D

      Anyway, I don't really know the meaning of some of those words you used, although I took some yoga lessons in the school ~10 years ago, when I was 15... but come on...2 or 3? Doesn't seem like too many, even for me.
      So it is either impossibly difficult to do these pushups or it would be easy, even for me...

      Anyway, I would take a try. Could you send me some instructions or video on how to do these special pushups?

      If I fail, then I would do as many exercises as you wish as long as you wish as a punishment.
      If I win, then you have to admit that you are weaker. :D

      What do you think?

      I can make a video about my attempts as an evidence and I can send it to you, so you don't have to believe me that I can do the pushups ;)

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    5. You should Google the chaturanga position.
      For the pushup, Pilates style, put your hands right next to your chest and then pushup to a plank position (legs straight, arms extended, hands and toes on ground, back straight). Then slowly lower (5 seconds) until you are just hovering off the ground. Hold for 5 seconds. Then slowly push back up again (5 seconds) until your arms are extended. Repeat.

      Knock off a few of those and let me know how many you can do. Full 5 seconds for the lower, for the hover, and for the raise (15 seconds total). You should start back down ASAP because the plank is just resting!

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    6. Damn Julie, it's not a normal pushup... IT'S IMPOSSIBLE to do more than 3 of that in a row...!!!! :O :(

      Can you do more of this?? Please tell me you don't...

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    7. Well, it helps if you've practiced Yoga and Pilates for a decade... Now, where is that strap-on dildo? Oh, there it is. Pants off mister, bend over, yup, right in the middle of the gym, sliding it in, yeah it hurts, thrusting now, in, out, in, out, bang, bang, bang, bang, ... ;-)

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    8. Hey Julie, please don't do this with me. :D :P
      By the way, how many can you do of this?
      Honestly...

      I'm veeery curious.

      If you say 4, I would probably say...OK, nice trick :D

      If you say more I would probably say: please train me, Mistress! :D

      I would like to do hard and exhausting exercises, just because you said so. :D

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    9. I don't usually do this specific exercise, but I do all the elements of it in my practice. I'll give it a try and see. For sure more than you, though!

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    10. How can you be so sure? :D

      Oh wait, this topic is so complex... In my first comment I made a guess that I'm probably weaker than most of the girls, now when you proved me that it's true it's just so difficult to accept it...
      I can't accept it...!

      What is your usual practice? I want to compete with you! Okay, you could beat me in pushups, but what about abs training?

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    11. I tried it yesterday. Did 8 nice ones.
      My usual practice is ashtanga vinyasa.

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  18. Whatever, but the best bottoms to spank will always be females bottoms. Miles will never have fuller and luscious bottoms like females

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    1. I see the appeal, but there is also an appeal to taking a "big strong" man and making him cry like a baby!

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  19. I am a small sized male 5 feet 4 120 pounds, my wife is 5 feet 7 140 pounds.
    She spanks me whenever she feels like it, but she says my skinny bottom makes it difficult for her use wooden paddles as the wood would hit the bones instead of flesh, so she uses canes, leather and rubber implements.

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    1. Maybe she can buy a baby sized paddle for you? Or better yet, you should make her one so she won't miss out on adding wood to her arsenal!

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  20. guess if i dont obey and listen to order of what females or you female want me to wear i am just going get a good spanking to where cant sit comfortably for awhile might even be more painful then was going to be

    mike

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    1. That's right, mike. if you don't obey and put on your punishment clothes promptly and properly, you'd get turned across her knee and made to obey.

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  21. My strict wife likes to use feminization to humiliate me. I must wear a satin thong over my chastity belt that is a CB silicone sheath locked to the cock ring of my leather butt plug harness. My discipline paddlings are often witnessed by my wife's female friends.

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    1. How marvelous. I'm sure her friends enjoy watching you wail!

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  22. My gf is a very simple lady, she just puts me otk and spanks me with whatever handy. Her hand, hairbrush, slipper or any footwear, wooden spoon. Most of the time it is her slipper being the most handy thing to use rather than tingling her hand in hand spankings.
    Sometimes when in bed, she would make me lay in a position that her foot is available for me to kiss during spanking, she uses this trick when she wants to give long hard spankings without worrying about holding me in position to prevent kicking and wriggling.

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    1. Interesting. I shall have to try that!

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  23. Do you whip David back, or just spank his bottom?
    Do your spankings involve face slapping?

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    1. Not seriously on his back. Sometimes I use the flogger to whip his shoulder blades, but that's more just for fun than punishment. I do like slapping his face. Nice and hard!

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  24. Under the surface female authority is transforming society to accept a superior female led society.

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  25. I hope you'll be patient with me while I'm learning how to be a woman. Some of this clothing is really confusing. Am I supposed to wear the garter belt over my panties? It looks sexier that way, to my eye at least. Or should I wear it underneath to facilitate your pulling my panties down?

    jeffie

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    1. I like them over the garter belt because he loses them soon enough. But I agree they look better under.

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  26. if you say so Miss Strict Julie i would end up withsore redspanked butt anyhow over her knee i just hope she doesnt set timer and stand with paddle/ hairbrush in her hands

    mike

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  27. Yesterday my go told me about an play idea where she spanks me as usual then to bring in another man to spank both of us. I did not like the idea but she insisted and ordered me over her knee and spanked me very hard with the heavy hairbrush saying she will not stop till I say OK, I kept on refusing and she kept on spanking, my bottom turned black and blue and even blended a bit but she stopped only when she got her arm strained.
    She rested for some time, then she brought the cane and told me to bend over the sofa arm saying she will go on until I agree. I told her no way to involve another man snapped the cane from her and told her if she insists I will spank her and hit her 3 times with the cane, she immediately kissed me and we had great sex.
    The whole thing she was worried I could be a bi cuckold which she can not live with and wanted to test that.

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    1. Go figure. I WANT my david to be a bi-cuckold but he won't do it!

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    2. Julie - I've been happily working my way through your blog for a few weeks now -- thanks for that! I just have to know...in the year-plus that follows this post, does david ever consent to servicing a man???

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  28. We had a neighbor with long hair and she always kept a hairbrush in her purse that she sometimes used to groom her hair, but later on we found out that she uses it also as way to keep her children and who knows may be the hubby as well disciplined while out.
    At home, it is her slippers as she keeps many of them, one for bathroom, one for her bedroom, one for walking inside the house and sandals at door for short errands to nearby supermarket or neighbors.

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    1. Seems like someone you want to get to know better!

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  29. Love the post, thank you ma'am
    Always
    Ron

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  30. Excellent blog. Keep it up.
    I have a similar lifestyle but not good at writing like you.

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  31. Omg Julie, I felt asleep reading your blog last night, an i dreamed i woked up with a red butt, and a red butt plug in my ass, then a strong female sillhouette with blonde hair, was waiting to squeeze her strap inside my red butt, i moaned, and came, helplessly, then sent to the corner with the dildo still in my ass, then i woke up, what do you think Julie?, was it you?

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  32. well if you do so i better bleive it or i might end up with red sore swollen butt from good spanking from you and other punishment you decide for me be same if any other strict female be doing to me

    mike

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  33. And a delightful dream it is, Ma'am! I love the way you think!

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  34. Darn it, who invented those jelly flip flops, they are worse than leather straps and belts

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  35. Dear Ms. Julie,

    "Just enough to make sure that he learns who uses the cock in this marriage, who bends over and takes it like a bitch, and who decides when the fucking is over."

    This blows my mind!

    ds

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    1. It's a principle for any dommy wife to love by...

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  36. One thing your little sissy might like to look into for his trainer is fitbit. It helps keep track of his burned calories, steps, stairs, and weight, measurements, and calorie intake. You can log basically any food you want and it keeps a database of the food for easy reference. So if he has 5 M&Ms he can log 5 etc and it calculates the calories for you if its not already in the database. If he gives his trainer his username and password she can also keep tabs on him from afar.

    Emily

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  37. Oh and any thoughts on thinking about costumes for your sissy hubby, maybe you could post a poll for us to choose from

    emily

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