I met a very interesting lady the other day. A recovering alcoholic, quite overweight, and with a blue Mohawk hairdo and some facial piercings. We got to talking. She was very open about her past life and her alcoholism, and she mentioned that she was a pro domme for a time (but no longer). Based on that past, and on how open she was, and that I just got a good feeling from her, and that we really had no shared circles of friends, I thought I could confide in her. So I did.
We went for a coffee and I shared with her how I spank and otherwise have BDSM-type fun with my husband. She was tickled and told me I did not look the part and she was quite surprised. She's a butchy type lesbian, but she says she very much enjoys domming men and misses that aspect of her past life. I asked if she wanted to come over and spank my husband sometime... (fingers crossed)
Well, on the spot she said she'd love to! She was going away for a bit but is returning next week, and so the fun only awaits the scheduling.
She is really not david's type at all, but I think I think it would be humiliating for him to be spanked in front of and by a woman he wouldn't choose to sleep with.
I have not shared this meeting and conversation with my husband yet. My thought would be to spring her on him as a total surprise, ideally with us "catching him" red-handed in some very compromising misdeed, and then role playing a scene with him.
Here's my plan so far.
I will arrange it for a day I know david is free, and confirm that with him, then tell him I have something fun planned for him. Then the day of I will tell david that we will have some role playing fun later that day. This is actually not that unusual. We are less spontaneous then it may seem and often we actually schedule our playtime - hey, we are both busy!
I'll tell him that he should find some dirty nasty porno on the web of women being spanked, put in bondage, degraded, fucked in the ass, and so on. I'll tell him that at exactly 6pm (or whatever) he should have a screen full of the stuff, with lots of tabs on the browser. He should be at the computer with his pants and undies down around his ankles and rubbing his dick, and to make sure it's good and hard, and a bit leaky if he can manage it, but not to dare cum. He should also have on headphones and be either listening to loud music or to a loud sex video.
That's when we'll walk in on him!
I'll go through the scene all in detail with my new friend, of course, so she'll know exactly what to expect and how to react.
david will have no clue, I guarantee it! He will assume that we will just be role playing the two of us by our lonesome, as we have not had much third person action recently at all. He'll be taken totally by surprise and off guard by my new friend's presence. And I think a bit intimidated by her size and demeanor. She definitely has the look of an angry feminist who could deliver a brutal beating to a poor boy's backside!
The setup will be that I have specifically forbade david this activity, especially in regards to viewing images that degrade women. david thought he could get away with disobeying me because I told him I would be home two hours later than I actually was.
david and I will discuss this part of the setup, as it would apply to a role play between the two of us equally well (and is a game we often play together).
The setup with my friend will be that we met each other at a meeting for a charity that helps abused women get a leg up. She will be a somewhat radical organizer of the group. I would like to become involved as a volunteer. We were planning to go out and discuss it, but they messed up our restaurant reservations so I invited her back to our house for a bite instead. She will not be amused when she sees my husband masturbating to images of women being abused!
I'll make him keep his pants down around his ankles as I scold him harshly in front of her. I will want to impress on my new friend how I do not take matters such as these lightly. I will tell her the methods I use to bring my husband back into line when he so severely misbehaves like this. She will applaud my methods and volunteer to help bring this potentially abusive male to heel.
I will let her know in advance that david can take a hell of a beating, and requires no warmup. Then I will sit back and watch the fireworks. I'll give her a safeword that I will use if I think he can't take it. I won't be quick to use it though. I want his little buns beat black and blue this time, and I want to watch him howl!
So what do you think of my plan? Awesome, no? Any additional suggestions for fun-filled activities for david during this scene... heh heh heh.