Friday, May 29

An Epic Spanking for my Husband

I conducted an epic spanking for my husband the other day and thought I would share it here. His ass was very messed up and I had him begging for "mercy, mercy, mercy" by the time I was done with him.


Here's what instigated it. We're getting a bathroom renovation done and we have a "bathroom designer", Francesca, helping us to lay it out and pick the materials. david has always wanted one of those toilets that spray water up your ass and then dry you automatically. Only thing is that it's actually quite expensive. We were having our final meeting with Fracesca and we had to make the final choices. I made him beg me a little for it in front of Francesca. As I acquiesced I said,

"Fine, you can have your little toy, but I will make you pay for it after Francesca leaves."

"yes ma'am" he said to me.

Francesca just sort of smiled a bit and ignored our exchange. I imagine she thought I would make him perform some sexual favours on me. That was indeed part of what happened. She might have been surprised, however, at what came before: an epic ass beating. I wasn't really upset with david. He can be such a little boy at times, and a spendthrift one at that. Perhaps more upset with myself for indulging him? At any rate, it would be his ass paying the piper.

After Francesca left I told david to go have a shower and then to wait for me in our bedroom. When I got there he was very clean and sitting on the side of the bed with a white towel wrapped around his waist. I made him stand and drop his towel. His penis was semi erect.

I kept him standing there naked as I gave him a very strict scolding. I was wearing jeans and a white blouse that showed a fair deal of cleavage. I channelled that lady in the hotel room I blogged about a little time ago and really laid into him. Finger wagging. Very loud. Very stern. As I scolded I could see his penis getting harder and harder. Ha! That's how you know you have a subby on your hands!

I sat on an armless chair and pulled him across my knee for a hand spanking. This pinkened his butt.

I reached for my big paddle and gave him a very intense paddling.


My goal was low spank spots angry red with whites in the middle. Mission accomplished amidst much howling from my man.

Then it was face down on the bed for a good old fashioned application of strap oil to his already brutalized butt cheeks. After a good leathering I picked up my rubber strap and used that. It has great "wrap-around" ability, and I used it to wrap around into his inner cleft. I also made him spread his legs wide, tuck his balls away, and used it to wrap around onto his inner thighs which he did not appreciate at all.

I then picked up my thing that is cross between a riding crop and a dog whip is the best way to describe it. I severely striped his ass with that. He was howling and rolling away. I told him he needed to hold still for twenty and if he did not we would start all over from one. I wound up giving him over one hundred strict ones with that whip to his ass and thighs. I had to back off  a bit on the last twenty or it NEVER would have ended. He was SOOOO frustrated that he couldn't last through twenty at a time. Each time we re-started he kicked his feet and pounded his fists on the bed, literally cried, and begged me "Please Julie, please no more!" But as he was doing that he moved his ass back into position and even raised it for the next restart of his twenty dog whippings. I don't mind his begging and carrying on. It turns me on in fact. I only care that his ass is obedient to me.

I think I am one of a relatively small percentage of women who can really enjoy whipping her man this hard. I have definite sadist tendencies. I don't care if he's at his limit, or even beyond it. He won't be permanently injured, I am good enough that I can guarantee that. He will be suffering, though, and for real, and I can also guarantee that. Those weren't no crocodile tears!

After the whip I decided he needed more from my little hard spiky rubber paddle. I put my knee on his back, made him spread his legs wide with his balls tucked up, and continued on going to town on his ass and thighs, especially his inner thighs. His voice achieved a certain pitch of "frantic" as I pulled on the skin with my one hand, flattening it out, and whacked hard as I could down onto it. I did that at the crease where ass meets thigh, effectively eliminating the crease which exposes virgin skin unused to direct smacks. I also did this to his inner thighs, pulling the skin towards the outside and smacking down on the taughtened inner thigh skin. This had him screaming for mercy, bucking under my knee, and kicking his legs like a little froggy.

I got off him, picked up the heavy leather tawse, and made him count out the final twenty.


I delivered each and every one to more or less the same place: low spank spots on the under-curve of his ass. For each one I whipped as hard as I could maintaining good aim, with a twist at the waist, a full arm movement, a whip of my wrist just before contact, and a full-on follow just like Venus Williams or sister Serena might do.


Even on his messed up ass, each stroke still painted a vivid rectangular mark. His ass was getting a grade-A sizzling! After each stroke he screamed, pumped his ass, called out the number followed by a "Ma'am" and then raised his ass for the next stroke. I had to repeat stroke one because he did not say "One Ma'am", and so he got twenty-one instead.

After that final dosing of strict ass punishment he rolled into a foetal ball clutching at his punished cheeks and wailed like a baby. I would have none of this. I grabbed him by the ear and conducted him back to the spanking chair where I again took him across my lap so I could finish him up with my hand while admiring my handiwork. This time he was feeling my hand a lot more! He was very sensitive to a pinch and scratch, and especially sensitive to hand spanks when I again tautened his inner thighs and low crease. Even my hand spanking had him begging for me to stop, which was unusual.

After having my (very considerable) fun with him, I put him on his knees and comforted him.


Then I led him to our bed, put him face up on it, stripped myself, and sat on his face looking down his body. I made him very thoroughly eat out my asshole as I used my Hitachi to get myself off THREE times in a row!!!


While he had shrivelled during his spanking, being made to eat out my asshole brought his cock back from the dead. I decided I would be merciful and allow him a release.

I used restraints on his wrists and on his ankles. I had him face up on the bed. I tied his wrists up above his head to the headboard. I then used a rope to pull back his feet towards the headboard also. This made his cock point directly at his face and displayed his punished ass and thighs for my enjoyment.

I got out some lube and started vigorously jerking his cock.


At the same time, I lightly fingered and spanked his prominently displayed asshole and balls with my other hand. To "encourage" him, I told him that if he didn't cum soon he wouldn't be allowed to cum at all, and instead I would get the dog whip back out and use it on him in his heels over head state, and that if I did that his asshole and balls would not escape my cruel little whip. I knew all I needed to do was to say something like this and as I did so I could in fact feel his excitement grow.

"Right in your face, you little slut!" I taunted him. "Open your mouth. OPEN IT!"


The first spurt hit him right in the eye! Oh dear. I adjusted my aim and got most of the rest into his mouth, with some splattered around his face. I milked the last bits out of him and onto his lips, and then scooped up all the cum with my hand and fed it to him. House rules: if he spurts he eats.

After I let him up, oh my goodness but was he ever sore. He usually makes a dash for the bathroom to wash the taste of cum out of his mouth. This time he kind of hobbled towards the bathroom with his legs spread wide like a little cowboy in chaps after a hard days' riding! I can report that he had genuine issues with sitting down the rest of the evening, and I felt a little smirk come on each time he rubbed at his inner thighs, which were the most sore. By next morning he was still a bit sore and a bit bruised in some of the more tender spots. Too bad he had a massage therapy appointment later that day. His therapist always bares his thighs and cheeks.


She would definitely see the lingering evidence of a well-disciplined husband (nothing she has not seen already). Perhaps the massage will help the bruises heal quicker?

So, long and short of it is that he will be getting his bum-washing toilet, but I truly believe that he paid for it in full.

Man but I love beating his ass raw!

53 comments:

  1. OMG!!!!! I am aching, and feel a sympathetic burn just reading this. I used a massage therapist several years ago who was a Dominant. She did not spank me as she preferred to stick with her own subs, but saw my spanked bottom and always commented. She was absolutely professional during the massage.

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  2. Far, far more than I could endure. My wife seldom gets past 20 of anything before she loses interest or is afraid she's damaged me.

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    1. Ah yes. So many women don't seem to really ENJOY inflicting pain...

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  3. LOVE the way you discipline your hubby! Gloria

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  4. My most severe spanking involved six strokes of the cane. Welts were left even though the skin was not broken. The whistling noise a cane makes before striking is both frightening and erotic.

    I am always spanked on all fours on the bed. A riding crop is my wife's I instrument of choice. Her friend Liz has caned me twice. I cried like a little girl after the second
    stroke.

    I am always dressed pretty and that always includes a petticoat or a crinoline. The ritual of raising of my skirts over my back is very sensuous and sends me deep into subspace.

    My orgasms always include swallowing. Girlish and humiliating.

    We love your blog!

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    1. Seems pretty mild - 6 - no matter how hard. Imagine if you had to endure 36?

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  5. I would be interested in hearing how long it took for the marks to disappear. I am flabbergasted.

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    1. That's the thing. He heals so fast. Little trace a day later. Literally no trace two days later. That's why a husband's butt and thighs are where "nature intended" he be punished. Intense agony during. Hardly any effects soon after.

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  6. Hello, Ms. Julie,
    I definitely think you're right when you say "I think I am one of a relatively small percentage of women who can really enjoy whipping her man this hard." I trust my Wife's judgement of what's truly best for me and for our marriage when she decides how hard to spank me, but I must admit I sometimes wish she'd decide on a past-my-limits whipping such as you've described. Very rarely do I wish that *during* my punishments, however. Thank you as always!

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    1. I have spoken with some women who feel the same. They enjoy doling out the spankings up to a point, but at a certain point it just strikes them as brutal and they don't enjoy it any more. I don't have that, and I mean at all.

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    2. I spank my husband but sometimes feel it has not been effective. I have left go a few times and the effect on him was dramatic.I would like to do that more often but how do you know when to stop . He begs and whines after the first ten so that doesn't tell me much and he has only cried twice so I can't count on that. I do not punish him until I have cooled down and know spanking him angry is wrong because I would be out of control. I am not afraid to spank him hard and long if necessary even beyond real tears. But how do you know when he has had enough?

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    3. Just work him up to it, a little more each time: a little longer, a little harder each time. This will build your own confidence that you won't injure him, and will teach him the lesson that he actually can take it and emerge with no permanent ill effects. Just be careful of your aim. Concentrate on the center of his ass cheeks and on the undersides of the cheeks. Don't wrap around unless you mean to. Remember that the tip of the implement does the most damage, so keep that nice and centered and then go to town. You can also alternate with giving him lighter spankings some of the time, which will keep his interest high.

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    4. Ms. Julie, your apt phrase "...teach him the lesson that he actually can take it..." made me realize a lot of the answers to this lady's question have to do with what she might mean by "necessary" and "enough".

      Ma'am, since you mention not spanking him angry, it suggested to me part of your idea with those word might be "he has had enough... to change his behavior/attitude," or "if necessary... to convince him I'm serious about (some issue in the relationship)," in addition to enough as "reach some physical limit." My Wife spanks me both as actual punishment, and as a mildly to fully erotic exercise she sometimes calls "rebalancing" our FLR. What's enough for each of us to feel our relative places back in balance may not be enough for me to understand how badly I've screwed up or for her to feel justice has truly been served. Her feelings and perceptions (or yours, or Ms. Julie's) are just as/more important to necessary and enough as mine. And as Ms. Julie points out, she's learned over time she can be much more severe with me than she'd have thought early on. Restraints were helpful. In cases of actual punishment, it also helped to have a facet in addition to a beating--the two times I've been made to sleep on the floor at the foot of the bed really brought the point home. Best wishes to you, and appreciation to Ms. Julie.

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    5. Great comment. Thank you!

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  7. My wife and I recently returned from a 3-day outing at a private cabin in the woods, during which I was on the receiving end of 5 spanking sessions. Individually, none were as severe as this one, but my bottom looked much like David's by the time she was finished with me on the last day. I think I took nearly 60 strokes with the cane in just that last session. I couldn't get enough and kept asking her for more - "thank you, ma'am; may I have another please"? - handcuffed and hung from the open front door. Thank you Julie for sharing these detailed accounts, which nearly always make me hard, but also provide great ideas for new ways my wife can punish my bare bottom!

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    1. What an image! 60 with the cane while dangling from the open front door! Love it.

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  8. Hi Julie,
    And I quote: “I don't mind his begging and carrying on. It turns me on in fact. I only care that his ass is obedient to me”. That describes perfectly my wife’s attitude toward spanking. She doesn’t care how much I beg or carry on as long as I keep my bum in position for her and lift it to the paddle when she tells me to do so. She would not call herself a sadist but she never stops until she feels satisfied and every ‘serious spanking” (which is a trip to the bedroom and on the bare) goes on and on until I have stopped struggling and lie quietly. One difference with David is I don’t heal as quickly and am marked for at least five days after a serious spanking. She likes this about spanking me and makes me “display” every day until they are gone as well as sometimes wear a pair of her panties.
    Alan

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    1. Just thank your lucky stars she does choose to "display" you to any of her friends!

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  9. Have you eve made him cum, with or without your assistance..THEN given the hard spanking> believe me it hurts a lot worse. There is no arousal to take the edge off the pain.

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    1. I have indeed. I agree it seems to hurt him much more, right from the first spank.

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  10. I get daily spanking from my wife, it is always with her slippers and sandals. She has quite a big collection as we buy at least one or two every month. If I do something bad it is a dose of the cane after the slipper.

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    1. Daily is good! Keeps mister in line.

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  11. I always think I want to be treated so harshly...but then when She starts really laying into me I always wimp out...

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    1. Restraints and a ball gag should cure that... ;-)

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  12. To be honest, Miss Julie...I think She kinda prefers when I do baby out, because then it ends up with...er..with me in diapers...and other things...

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    1. K,

      Since you can't take a spanking I think you should describe in detail what these other things are and how they make you feel:)

      Julie,

      Good job on the spanking, very hot. How long was David sore for?

      Ted the Switch

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    2. Really only into the next day, and next day was more "awareness of having been spanked" than "sore" according to him. I shall have to try harder for the "you won't be sitting down for a week, young man!" effect.

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  13. Having been your sketch-slut for a couple of years now Ma'am I think I have a false sense that I could 'take' one of your spankings with some sense of control or comfort. Then I read this and I know in reality I'd be the a puddle well before the end. But I still yearn for it. Talk about being one of a small percentage of people...

    lill (Ms Julie's punished sketch slut) jo

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    1. All this nonsense from men about "taking it" or not being able to "take it". My attitude is that he WILL bend over and he WILL take it, otherwise no sexy funtimes for subby.

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  14. bet you love hearing mercy mercy from husband or any other male while getting spank real hard and spanking is very painful glad hear David got spanked not me lol

    Being spanked untill butt raw must be long by all female not just you i think is very popluar i still fear of that day comming for me

    Mike
    madison ohio

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    1. Yes, I believe it's an extra level of satisfaction to beat a man's butt raw.

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  15. What no hairbrush? Are you going soft on us Julie?
    Hope you made him do more sitting than he needed to on that sore bottom.

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    1. Well he got paddled, which is more or less the same thing. Wood should always be part of the lesson...

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    2. Agreed....but I'd take the paddle over the hairbrush anytime!

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  16. Thought of using nettles assuming you have me in Canada?
    http://www.mrsbirch.net/ancient3.html

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    1. Are you kidding? As compared to what else you've described?

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    2. I've been stung by nettles. That sh*t hurts!

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  17. i will fell really pain if u had done it to me...

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  18. Jesus you love hurting this man. Do you compartmentalize that somehow and only get off on his tears and cries during planned scenes?

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    1. Yes I do. I can't give him such a harsh seeing-to every time I spank him, but I do look forward to an opportunity to really beat him thoroughly. We always talk about it afterwards. He would tell me if he wanted me to tone it down, but he keeps coming back for more for some reason and I have no problem at all with giving it to him.

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  19. My mother in law spanks me. My wife was advised by my Mum after the honeymoon that she spanked me bare bottom till I was 19yo and my bride should continue in this time honoured vein. My wife has no stomach for this. She said she wants to enjoy my bare bottom for the view and nookie. My mother told my MIL it was now her turn to spank me. My MIL has taken to this like a duck to water. No she's not my biological Mum but she is my Mum by marriage. My bare bottom one week later looks like it was caned 10 mins ago It takes a fortnight to completely fade with almost daily inspections from my MIL Neither one of us is embarrassed by these bare bottom spankings

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    1. YOU should be embarrassed! A grown man getting a spanking? Ha ha!

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  20. Nothing epic about my taking a spanking/paddling--My wife has put up with a lot by the time she has to vent her frustration by paddling my bare butt----No argument from me--I got it coming--I shower quick lay over her lap but body mostly on sofa----she paddles my naked butt and it hurts---It has to happen to make things right between us and has been working fine for us for 40 years--It has always been just between us--no one else ever knew or knows so no issue of embarrassment---I just have damn sore butt

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    1. I think a little embarrassment is all part of the punishment...

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  21. Wow quite a dramatic experience----Not the sort of thing we do but with in a very good marriage I seem to need a bare paddling about once or twice a yr---I sure got it coming when it has to happen so no argument---I jst get the paddle in the garage bare my butt and go over her lap and since I am unusually tall most of me is over sofa and beyond---She gives my bare butt a damn good paddling----which I take only semi well--but I do take it and never try to get out of it ---But when its done its done---frankly not unlike when my dad had to paddle me in high school---things are fine after I get paddled--sore but but good relationship restored so no drama as you speak of---a damn sore butt!

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