Saturday, November 14

F'ing B*tch

Oh boy did I have to ever punish my husband the other day!

He was driving in traffic in the city, I was in the car, and another driver cut him off. It was pretty egregious. They cut right in front crossing three lines of traffic causing david to have to brake hard, and then cut into a right turn only lane, and then went straight through the intersection cutting off another car and not even turning right! In the natural flow of traffic we happened to catch up and it turned out it was a female Asian driver (Chinese I believe). Fairly young looking. Fairly oblivious looking. david glared at her (she did not even see) and then muttered "fucking bitch".

Ooooh! He didnt! Nice opportunity for a scene.

My response was, "she is a fucking bitch and I'd tell her that to her face. But YOU NEVER use those words to refer to a woman!"

"sorry..." he said.

"Not as sorry as you'll be after I get you home," I told him in a sing-song voice. That's the same voice I use when I'm giving him his hardest beatings.

Knowing he was going to get a punishment calms him, and the rest of the drive was peaceful with him driving like a little lamb.


As soon as we got in the door back home I told him "Into your panties, nothing else, and then nose against the living room wall."

"yes ma'am"

He went up to our bedroom to strip and don his punishment panties, and then came back downstairs sheepishly, shuffling up against the wall so that his nose touched. I got some scotch tape, made him put his hands behind his back, wrists overlapping, pulled his arms together uncomfortably close, and scotch-taped his wrists, round and round.


I then went upstairs and brought his ball gag back down, my heavy wooden hairbrush, and my Delrin Cane.


I put the ball gag into his mouth and tightened it uncomfortably hard at the back. I find if you don't do it really really really hard, it loosens a lot as his mouth stretches. He had used his mouth to utter something offencive to women. The punishment was that he would not be allowed to use his mouth for a while. Very fitting I thought.

I then got a "toonie" (a Canadian two dollar coin - in common circulation here) and made him hold it against the wall with his nose.


So there was my boy. Dressed in nothing but his pink polka dottie lace trimmed panties, hands painfully scotch-taped behind his back, ball gag inserted painfully deeply, holding the toonie up against the wall with his nose.

Then I sentenced him. By the time I was done, he would know he was punished.

"That is language I NEVER want to hear from you directed at a Woman. You will stand there like that for ONE FULL HOUR."

(whimper)

"If that coin falls I'll use the Delrin Cane on your bare ass so hard and for so long that I guarantee you'll wish you hadn't dropped it, and then we'll just start your timeout again from the beginning, and after you'll still get the full punishment I intend to give you anyways except right on top of those stripes."


david needs motivation to get through a full hour of such uncomfortable corner time, and the prospect of a Delrin Caning would be his. And he knows I'm dead serious. I never fuck around with a threat I'm not perfectly willing to carry out.

"After your corner time you're coming across my knee for a spanking, and then I'll teach you the meaning of the phrase 'fucking bitch' in this house."

With that I reached out and pulled his panties down to just beneath his cheeks. I then measured the Delrin across the crest of his buttocks, said "don't you dare drop that coin" and let loose one very hard stroke straight across his ass. david gurgled a scream into his ball gag and contorted terribly but did not let the coin drop. One angry thick cane welt came up right across the middle of his ass. It was a hard stroke! I then stuck the cane between his cheeks and told him to clench it there, and told him that the same as what goes for the coin goes for the cane. Let him be bare-ass, single-striped, and clenching the thick Delrin with his rear cheeks for his one hour timeout to better contemplate what happens if he drops that coin or cane. The cane sort of stuck out from his ass crack at a forty-five degree angle the way I had wedged it in on top of his pulled-down panties, and under his balls.

Now, if you've never been made to experience it before, let me tell you that a full one hour timeout is difficult at the best of times for a male, much less when bound and gagged so uncomfortably and holding up a coin with his nose. I am fully aware of the implications of ONE FULL HOUR. He craves being dominated and punished by a woman. Well here it is and no joke about it. And a dreadful caning to boot, a tiny welting taste of which he had just received, if he so much as moves a muscle and loses that coin or cane to the floor. Just imagine having to clench your ass cheeks for a full hour. They would be jelly by the time he was done!

I then went about my business and roundly ignored him until his hour was up. The lovely thing about this punishment with arms bound is that there is no hiding a coin drop, and therefore no need for close supervision.

Not surprisingly, by the end of the hour he was still standing there. His legs were quivering, the poor dear, but he was still standing there and still desperately holding that coin and clenching that cane. The cane had for sure drooped and he was sticking his ass out a bit more, as it looked like the coin had slid down the wall a bit, his face with it. But he had successfully gotten through his timeout avoiding consequences of a caning and a repeat performance.

I removed the cane from between his ass cheeks, tossed it to the side, pulled up his panty, removed the coin from betwixt wall and nose, and told him to stand up straight and wiggle the stiffness out. I left him in his ball gag and with his wrists bound. He did a nice little panty dance for me, trying to wiggle out all that soreness from one hour of punishment.

I then picked up my hairbrush and grabbed him by the arm and conducted him over to the three-seater sofa. I sat in the middle and pulled him over my knee.

I started him off with a very thorough hand spanking. It was very much along the same lines as how Chris punished Joseph from my last blog post (I discovered Spankingtube!). I lowered his panties to his knees and made sure to redden his ass all over and have him squirming.

Then I picked up the hairbrush and proceeded with the punishment itself. It was delightful with him ball gagged and wrists bound, as he was going nowhere. As usual, I made him kick and cry out and scream (all muffled by his gag). That hairbrush can really punish! I drove my point home with a lecture about respect for Women.

As I paused, I saw that I had really reddened every inch of his ass and upper and inner thighs. In fact, it looked like he was wearing crimson board shorts by the time I was done! It was so striking that I helped him to his feet, and then had him lie face up back down onto the couch. I then used my hand to slap the fronts and top insides of his thighs and his shaved pubis until they glowed bright pink as well to complete the 360 effect. Naturally I had to manipulate his genitals out of the way to reach certain places, an operation I was none too gentle with much to his distress. I was still "angry wife" at this point in our scene!

With his spanking done I helped him to his feet again, and then cut the scotch tape off his wrists, and peeled the sticky bits a bit painfully from his gently furred wrists.

I then took him by the hand upstairs to the master bedroom and into the ensuite bathroom. I made him kneel in front of the sink. I removed his ball gag. david moved his jaw painfully. He had had his jaw stretched for well over an hour and it was sore as well.

I picked up a thick bar of soap and started lathering it up. I told him to open, and I washed out his mouth with soap. Lots and lots of thick lathery soap.


I told him this is what would happen to him every time he used words that he was not permitted to. I then put the bar of soap into his mouth and made him hold it there.

Then it was off to the bedroom for the final phase of his punishment. I had him face up on the bed, still holding onto that bar of soap in his mouth. I put on my largest strap-on dildo, Adam. I asked david if he would like to take Adam right away, or be stretched first? He communicated that he desperately wanted to be stretched first.

I got out his vibrating butt plug, lubed it, and inserted it with his legs raised and his panties around his ankles, and then turned it on to high. I played with it and his penis and balls. I then got out my little flogger and flogged his ass and private parts just because I was bored and wanted to fuck him. After a few minutes I popped out the vibrator and knelt up on the bed to position myself to fuck him missionary style.

I pushed the bulbous head of the dildo into his ass. He cried out into the soap when I moved too fast. I accommodated him, to a point, but eventually pushed through and deep into him.


He looked just like in the picture above. Asshole widely distended. Penis flaccid. Then I started in on the fucking, looking him straight in the eye. He was so cute clutching that bar of soap in his mouth!

"Who's the bitch now?" I asked. "Who's the fucking bitch now? Are you my bitch? Are you my bitch that I use for fucking? Does that make you my fucking bitch? Yes it does, you fucking bitch don't you ever use language like that to refer to a woman!"

I fucked him good and hard. Not a gentle lovemaking. No. A punishment fucking. By this point he had been put in timeout for an hour, spanked silly, had his mouth washed out, and was being fucked. I could see his teeth sinking into the bar of soap and his eyes watering up as I pounded his asshole. But I maintained eye contact with him, and he with me, so we would both know it was his wife doing this to him.

Lest you think I am a bit crazy, please remember this is a scene. I really don't care that he called that fucking bitch of a driver a fucking bitch. But since we play at femdom, it seemed like a great excuse for a scene, and it sure was. And this was an especially great excuse for a mouth soaping!

Afterwards I pulled out and cleaned him up a bit. I made him take off my strap-on and wash it thoroughly. I told him he could take the bar of soap out of his mouth and rinse as his punishment was over.

We got into bed together and I allowed him to snuggle up against my breasts. I encouraged him to stroke his dick, and so he masturbated as he nuzzled me and came soon after clamping onto my nipple and sucking like a little baby, which I encouraged.


Mommy's spunky little boy!

99 comments:

  1. WOW !! when you punish you don't play around. I understand how upset he was over her driving but he was wrong and deserved to be punished. I'm sure from the waist down he was very sore both front and back.
    archedone

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    1. Don't know if he deserved it, but he got it nonetheless!

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    2. Julie, your writing is off the charts:)))))))

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    3. You came back to re-read this one!
      Naughty boy!

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    4. and again!
      Your blog is amazing...........

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  2. The "pink" soap is a very nice touch!

    xox

    sissy terri

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    1. It was white, unfortunately. Pink would have been way better!

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  3. Ms. Julie, I noticed you mentioned david has a shaved pubis. Is this a requirement from you, or does david just prefer it this way? Also, you usually require him to consume his mess, did you give him a pass this time?
    Thanks for writing! -k

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    1. No, I insist on it. It embarrasses him more when I display him completely shaved like that to another woman. And no "manscaping" either. Bald as a baby!

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  4. Dear Julie,
    I have been well disciplined by two wonderful women in my life but I am in awe of you as a disciplinarian. The way you fit the punishment to the bad behavior is just brilliant.I have felt that cane and I could do eight hours of corner time to avoid it being used on me.I believe you have expressed the view that spanking an adult doesn't really change behavior or not permanently. Maybe it doesn't for David. But for me and I believe a large majority of men, being disciplined like you describe in this post would change my behavior, if not forever, for a very long time.You are an amazing disciplinarian and you should publish beyond this blog.sharing your insights and skills with the many couples trying to make DD work for them. Take a look at the Mistress Manual and consider writing a book like that not from the perspective of a pro but the perspective of a loving wife who uses discipline in her marriage. It would sell a ton of books and help a lot of people
    Alan

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    1. Thank you alan.

      I take it back, there is a bit of a behaviour change. For a boy who wants to be punished, but doesn't want it that hard or that unpleasant, I think it does change behaviour!

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    2. Great insight...

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  5. What a prefect time to break the diapers out! As his pee touches his red ass he will start crying again from the burn. All submissive males should be kept in diapers 24/7

    Goddess Gretchen

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    1. One would think by now you'd realize that diapers are not Julie's style and you'd quit suggesting them.

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    2. Not at all. I enjoy the reminders... One of these days!!!

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    3. For me it would be putting him in the diaper, making him drink a couple of liters of water, and then standing him in the corner Then I'd have Sue over and I'd make him tell us when he's wetting! Ha Ha!

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    4. Given how squeamish David is concerning being discovered in public, it might be fun putting him in a diaper and taking him to the mall with a long shopping list after a couple glasses of water. He would be so paranoid even though I doubt anyone would notice. You could further compound his distress by having him meet you and Sue for drinks after his shopping trip.

      Ted the Switch

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  6. So much more humiliating to get pegged missionary style. Laying on his back, forced to look up at you as you pound into him. His dick remained soft, certainly an indication of how he was feeling. And there's nothing like spontaneous, outta nowhere scene. You're the best, Ms Julie.

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  7. God......give it a rest once in a while

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  8. Was this really for real punishiment something you totaly dont and do not allow him to say about female or disrespect female? then he get spanked for real

    guess if you heard me call female the B word or disrespect female you would give me a good spanking maybe even tell the female to spank me too

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    1. It's never "real real" with us.
      It's very "play real" though.
      And if he ever used the B word for sure he would be played hard!

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    2. Fascinating, Julie.
      Our DD is real and we certainly play as well, but Is it ever "real, real" or always just "play real"? I'm not sure with Dan - I think (& hope) some is "real, real" for him, but I know often he is playing real with me - he enjoys the fun & he knows I'm a subby slut & love it.

      For me, however, some part is always "real, real". I defer to him. I want to defer to him. I look to him for leadership & direction, for guidance & (yes) for corrective punishment (which I see as training). I'm not just a sub; I'm his sub. I can't switch that on & off. It's there in my head all the time, no matter where we are or what we're doing. To some degree, I'm in subby space all the time. I wonder if your David sees you that way too?

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    3. How many Angels can dance on the head of a pin?
      It's simple for me. Because it's consensual, it's not "real".
      Bu the experiences are super, hyper real!

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    4. I don't think this is mere semantics, Julie. I can only speak for myself, but for this sub the fundamental in my relationship with Dan is very real. I can't be a sub just sometimes, putting it on for a scene. I love to play & I know that often we are playing. I certainly get 'into character' sometimes, but I'm building on something that is alive inside me. It's part of my personality, hard wired into me. I'd guess that that is true for many a sub.
      Simon

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    5. Sure. Just exploring aspects of personality I guess.

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  9. Julie you truly are clever. An hour of corner time like that had to be hard, but the thought of the cane as it rested between his cheeks was no doubt a great motivator! Great idea! Then a good spanking, mouthsoaping, punishment pegging, and cuddle time. Quite a scene indeed! You really have mastered the art of scene creation. I'll bet David had a good nights sleep after all of that.

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  10. When I am able to drive myself in the car and a female is behind me I have been instructed to safely pull over and let her pass as her business is more important then my own.

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    1. Actually, I too always give way to female drivers automatically. In any circumstance. I don't know why.
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    2. Please don't do this. It is far safer and more efficient for every other driver on the road for you to just drive like you'r supposed to.

      If its your turn to go, go. You're only causing more traffic issues for everyone by trying to be considerate.

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    3. Thank you for the PSA.
      I agree!

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  11. omg! i have a tendency to get worked up in traffic, so my Wife takes advantage and drives us places. She does show Her displeasure when i drive too quickly.
    She's never had my mouth washed out with soap before, ha/yikes!
    Must have been so humiliating for david to have to ASK to please be stretched out first, lol!
    i write this tenting my panties.. but when Wife comes home, i may not be so happy.
    Geez, the idea of that coin slowly sliding down the wall.....
    sara e

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    1. Never been mouth soaped????
      What is your wife thinking?

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  12. Very lucky david didn't swallow any soap or the pegging could have ended up being an "explosive" scene. he performed admirably for being on his back so long. Having an unholy mess to clean up would only have added to the humiliation.

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    1. Agreed. The messes are more embarrassing for him than gross for me. So I definitely make him clean it all up, or if I do it then I show him the dirty toilet paper I used on his ass and scold him!

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  13. OMG Ms. Julie. You are brutal. I don't know if I could take all of that. But then, perhaps if I couldn't take it, I better learn to not offend you, eh?
    Stan

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    1. That's the whole point. Let's see what you can take!

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  14. Just an awesome scene. You and David are a great couple. I had a very cruel thought. What if you frigged him and then made him clench the riding crop. Could he hold the coin and the crop for 40 minutes with the ginger?

    Maybe next time LOL

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    1. I agree.
      He also got punished, which was also right!

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  16. Just got a hard spanking with wife's heavy rubber sole fur slippers

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    1. My left ass cheek was dark red while the right ass cheek turned purple.

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    2. Hmmmm...
      She clearly needs to work harder on the left cheek.

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    3. It is just the swing, she gets a better swing on the right one, while she has less room to swing when spanking the left on.

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    4. Oh I know. One has to work on that!

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  17. There have been a few times when I had to discipline L. for his boorish behavior toward one of my friends - though not as hard as you did! A few times, he has been spanked under the eyes of the "offended party", and some times also on a roadside spot as we we driving home. Whenever he disrespects my sister, however, he gets it from the two of us (and jolly hard too!)

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    1. Well, what do you know ! L. did it again last night - and got himself a sharp, bare-bottom hand spanking right under the eyes of my fiend T. who had come to have dinner with us! She knew I spanked him, but had never seen me "in action"... L. was mortified - but he knows what he can expect later this week when my sister comes to spend Thanksgiving with us !

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    2. Nice! A public spanking sure keeps them in their place!

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    3. B. (my sister) was over for Thanksgiving - and most of the following week. As usual when we get together, L's derrière got "special treatment" from the two of us - and still carries the marks (now fading)

      J(2)

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  18. I would hate to imagine what would happen if someday I flipped you off in traffic due to your driving.

    Johnny

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    1. I tend not to be a shrinking violet in such situations...

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  19. Have you teamed up with Mags before spanking david?
    I imagine both of you sitting on opposite chairs with david bent over your knees and each of you simultaneously spanking his bottom, then at the end you Compare whose side is better spanked.
    Then it happens that your side is better spanked, so as a winner you get to spank Mags as well.
    The risk you take in this game is that if Mags manages to spank better than you, she will be the one spanking you. (husband and wife spanked by the trainer).

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    1. No taking risks with the dynamic.
      Two Dommes" an alpha Domme and a beta Domme.
      And one bitch!

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  20. Too bad you can't track down the person who cut David off, and do a repeat performance of this. That would make the roads safer, and give you some fun all at the same time.

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    1. If only...
      I never spanked a little Chinese girl...

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  21. Having my hands tied behind my back goes beyond my interest in FLR stuff and I think would cause trouble for my back and shoulders. But then David is younger than I.

    My extended bondage is usually done in a fairly comfortable as I am expected to take a nap and wake up eager to please. On Sunday she left me tied up for 2 hours or so - Irene then came in for my post nap whipping, followed as usual by "reverse cowgirl cunnilingus" then regular cowgirl intercourse (sorry we are boring that way).

    We were into a bit of this stuff before the kids were born, then did it when we could as they were growing up - fortunately we both worked near home so we could have "nooners". But since the kids have moved away, the intensity of our dominant/submissive relationship has soared to levels I never would have though possible.

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    1. What's all this talk about being old???? Eat well and get yourself in shape!
      It's no fun unless it hurts.

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  22. How's Jessie doing??

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    1. He went to a Halloween party dressed as a baby and got a feeding from some girls!

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    2. I can't wait to see that!!

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    3. Any more details or pictures? Sounds very blushy. Especially if he was made to wear diapers and act the part.

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    4. Yes, perhaps I could post that.

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  23. My wife believes in discussion as a sole way of making decisions in our house. She keeps on discussing as long as it takes till the ideas are well understood. All discussions take place with me over her knees panties down.

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    1. It's when the male mind is at its most receptive!

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  24. Miss Julie, my next spanking will be Dec 8! Not sure what I will be getting spanked with the most, but I'm sure it will be very painful! Any suggestions? John G.

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  25. so since only real play or play real with you guys alot of time right?

    but he will get play hard if he uses the B word or disrespect you or any females right until you feel lesson learn wont be repeated

    did he know ahead of time what would happen if he had or does act way he did does he even know he going get spanked or play hard when ever he disobey out in public with you does he think oh no Julie going make me pay when he see the look

    either way he just get punish for being bad or displeases you when get home maybe you should tell Mag abot what he did let Mag punish him as well

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    1. In this case I think he did not connect his swearing at the lady with a scene to come.

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  26. Reminds me of "You can't say cunt in Canada" by Kevin Bloody Wilson(available on YouTube some places). Perhaps we should change spelling to the Mountees.PCcan go too far very quickly but I'm sure great fun was had by both of you.

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    1. Thanks Miss Julie, I'm sure she will be very willing to give me a strict belt whipping among other things! Any other suggestions besides the belt I can have her use that will make my ass a deep red or purple? John G.

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    2. Nothing like heavy wood to get the purple going. A sorrority style paddle with holes drilled into it!

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  27. well does David ever connect his behavior to where he can expect punishment spankings from you when he get home knowing your going use it punish him teach lesson he need learm

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  28. Another hot one........

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  29. If the lady driver was Asian, you should have considered giving him Asian style corporal punishment using a cane. Also after the spanking to beat his calves like the Japanese home punishment.

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    1. I am not familiar with Japanese style calve spanking! Sounds like a hoot (for me).

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    2. It is mainly a girls punishment where the girl stands with her calves exposed, then she is beaten on them with a cane, of course girls can get common bottom spanking. For boys it is a common bottom spanking.

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    3. Miss Julie, thanks for the suggestion of heavy wood! I will be getting a severe punishment spanking on Dec 8! I will see what she decides to use and how my ass will feel and look like after she is done punishing me! You wouldn't believe what she used on me last time and she said she is going to use it on me a lot more this time since it worked so well! She just had wooden floors installed and she had a left over floor board that she used on my ass! That really hurt and left me bruised! She said that I deserve that even harder this time! I can't imagine what my ass is going to look like after she gets done using the wooden board, the belt and other things! John G.

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    4. Well do let us know how it went!

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  30. Wow! That's an incredible combination of punishments - really living up to your name as Strict Julie there. THe longest corner time I've done holding a coin against the wall with my nose was 20 minutes and that seemed like a very long time indeed. I can't imagine how long an hour would seem. It was hard enough keeping the coin in place (fully understand why dadid let it slip down the wall a bit) for 20 minutes...60 minutes would seem like an eternity! And that's without the added problem of holding the cane between buttock cheeks without dropping it. Great punishment for david here. Best wishes, stuey

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  31. Miss Julie, I got my punishment spanking on Dec 8! She really gave it to me good for being a naughty boy! She used a few different things! This one thing she used was a flat metal strainer with holes! That really stung! She promised me that if I continue to be naughty she will give me an even more severe spanking! I'm just getting over this one! John G.

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  32. Miss Julie, what are your thoughts on a carpet beater or a birch bundle for me to be spanked with? John G.

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  33. Love this corner time so much. Can't get it out of my head.

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    1. Well get yourself in the corner then. ONE FULL HOUR young man.

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  34. Finally got up my nerve and showed this post to my wife. We have a b&b reservation coming up and she has agreed to try a pared down version of this!
    rp

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    1. This is still new for us, spanking only started about two years ago by my request. She's not comfortable with all of it yet, specifically the part with "Adam".

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