Saturday, April 23

Sex Role Reversal

It was very interesting allowing the sorts of comments I received on the My Spanked Bottom post. Lots of subbie guys saying what they would do to me if given half a chance. I played along in my responses, and it was tolerable only in the sense where I disassociate it from me being the sub, and instead just collect ideas as a Domme and then imagine my own sub's reactions to being treated like that. If I ever flipped the switch, and thought of myself as the sub I just got very annoyed at the males, and thought "Really? Really that's what you want to do to me? To a dominant woman? Really? Disgusting."

To get rid of that nasty taste, I suggested to david that we have a sex role reversal evening. I would dress in my rough shirt and jeans with a strap-on underneath, and he would dress as the naughty young virgin ripe for some spanking and molesting from "her man". To prepare for the evening, I re-read every one of those filthy comments to fill my head up with ideas.

He came to me en femme. Panties, short plaid schoolgirl skirt, bra and inserts, and a tight little pink halter top that bared his midriff and showed off his bra strap.


He sat beside me as I watched tv. I reached over and put my hand on his thigh. I rubbed up his thigh and under his skirt to his panties. I leaned in and kissed her hard while grabbing her breasts with one hand and sticking my fingers into her panty with my other, finding her hard wet clit and stroking it.

She responded to me and started writhing under my rough caress. She reached over and felt my hard dick through my jeans. She was getting fucked tonight, no doubt!


I took my husband by her hand and led him upstairs to the bedroom. I sat on the side of the bed,  took her across my knee, and started in on her spanking. I flipped his skirt up her back and lowered her pink panties to bare his plump bottom for its spanking.


First I spanked her with my hand to get her in the mood. But before I intended to fuck this bitch she needed to learn some respect for her man. So out came the paddle and her ass got a blistering. I told her the paddling would stop when I felt she was sincere about taking my cock hard in her mouth and up her ass. It's amazing what a little slut under the paddle will ask for when so highly motivated. She begged me for my cock using the dirtiest language imaginable!

You get what you ask for, slut, I said. I threw her face up onto the bed and took off my clothes. I mounted her head and jack-hammered my cock down the little gagger's throat.

Then I flipped her onto her tummy, made her kneel, and gave her what she really wanted. Hard Domme cock right up her tight little ass hole.


When I had gotten all my frustrations out on his ass hole I made her lick me out with her dirty cunt still hard and drippy. I made him service me through three lovely orgasms. When I was completely satisfied I told her I was done with her and she could get out of what was left of her clothes now.

My husband had to turn off the light and go to sleep with a raw red ass, a brutalized butt hole, and a hard drippy cock.

So fuck you!

what I'd enjoy doing to those disrespectful commenters!

55 comments:

  1. I'm sure you feel better now after letting all your tension out. I know David enjoyed being the "girl" getting his bottom paddled then taking your cock in his mouth knowing it would end up in his sissy hole, which it did much to his delight. Maybe you should do it again I'm sure it would make you feel even better.
    archedone

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  2. Hi Julie. i'm glad that You have got some of those comments out of Your system. i must admit i was surprised by some of the comments too. I suppose the psychology of Dom and Sub can be a bit of a mind fuck sometimes, but i guess it shows Your true Domme nature that ultimately You were pissed off with the suggestions and someone was going to pay with a sore butt...in more ways than one!

    Great scene though and one which i've imagined myself in many times.

    luv k xxx

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    1. I agree that "pissed off" (despite my inviting it) was how I wound up feeling, and that probably is a pretty good indication that I don't have much sub in me! (though a little spanky spanky under my terms is nice).

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    2. So, you channeled all that aggression into poor (ahhh) David. Lucky him :))))

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  3. Ms Julie, You are simply the best and david is the luckest. Your recount of this session caused me to press against the confines of the chastity cage and leak precum in my panities.
    Thank You

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    1. Wonderful! I love remotely teasing you chastity bois!

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  4. Ms Julie, You are simply the best and david is the luckest. Your recount of this session caused me to press against the confines of the chastity cage and leak precum in my panities.
    Thank You

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  5. Gender and gender roles are social constructs. Dominance and submission are not binary, only complementary roles. If you and your husband are fulfilled by either roll reversal or switching, who else matters? Vestiges of patriarchy are not cleansed by mimicry, but by consent. Used and frustrated might be a sexy fantasy come true, or it might be abuse.

    As Mistress T said: Sex Ed: Consent is sexy.

    But as for creating a blog post response to comments from readers, you are brilliant.
    -Pat

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    1. Agreed. Without consent it's totally fucked up, and sometimes a "yes" may not really mean that if the power imbalance is strong - I recognize that.

      Of course, with what we do it's even more complicated than that, in that he wants his limits to be pushed, which by definition puts him into a position he would rather not be in for that instant.

      And then he's constantly saying "no! please no!" which is part of his kink to say that and have me do it anyways.

      So hard to have hard and fast rules: experience and a good heart must be our guide.

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  6. This is why we love you so Ms Julie. You treat us just the way you want and we deserve.

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    1. and enjoy doing it, I might add.

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  7. Wow! Very hot story. Sex role reversal is one of my favorite fantasies/hopes for the future. I think it would fit myself and my wife very naturally.
    Minor suggestion would be to stick with him or her through at least the sentence. Personally, I would love for my wife to dress me up as a girl and call me she.

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    1. Ha ha! That English usage was deliberate on my part. Seeing as the whole scene is so messed up I thought I'd reflect that in my expression of it. But I think we can agree it's a bit of a failed experiment!

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  8. Excellent come back and I'm sure David enjoyed it. Got to get that girl into a chastity device so he can't take care of matters after his mistress is asleep. Imagine David's embarrassment with you showing him off, all locked up. He will get so horny, that he will beg to take your cock without the spanking, and that will become his only way to cum. John

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    1. Beg to take the spanking and then the cock would be my preference!

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  9. i would love to be feminized by You and spanked like a naughty little "girl", forced to suck Your cock and fucked hard in my "man-pussy". Please - me next!!!!!!!!

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  10. Aww, Julie, no need to get upset! We all adore You, and, if given a choice, would rather be the sub in those fantasies we sent you, 19 out of 20 times, than the Dom.

    Tomas

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    1. I know that, silly. I can still get annoyed imaging myself the sub though. It lets me know that I'm a natural Domme!

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  11. This feels so right to me Ma'am. I hope those commenters get the message.

    lill (Me Julie's punished sketch slut) jo

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    1. I egged them on to see what would happen. Now I know!

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  12. I guess you didn't enjoy "Lots of subbie guys saying what they would do to me if given half a chance".

    Looks like you provoked a slave rebellion. A lot of subs watch what you do to David each week and developed a strong urge to show you how it feels. It's good for a domme to experience that and develop a hint of empathy.

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    1. But I did enjoy it! Not imagining myself the sub of course, but getting some of that MaleDom energy into me so I could better dominate my little male!

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    2. Yeah . . . but only when you separated yourself from the fact that it was really directed at you as a sub. That doesn't count. I mean the closing two words of your original post kinda says it all.

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  13. Goddess Gretchen24 April 2016 at 11:30

    He should have been given an enema and put into 3 cloth diapers and rubber pants. Then made to sleep in his crib tied up.

    Goddess gretchen

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    1. A different kind of role reversal!

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  14. well least you got be back in charge and spanker again when did sex role resver thing and made another smiling evil smirk memeory for you to enjoy seein somebody else butt being spanked punished

    maybe now you can go back to read all comment from your spanked bottom post and do to all of us what we wante do to you make us line up one by one as call our name

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    1. Yes! Just barely escaped by the skin of my teeth there!

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  15. Wow. So angry. I don't know if it was what we all said, or the fact that so many chimed in that made you so angry. But, for my part in those comments, I do humbly apologize, Miss Julie. I have a punishment session coming up soon. Would you do me the honor of choosing the number of strokes I should receive and how long I should be sentenced to corner time (fully naked and restrained of course)? And if you'd like to suggest an implement or two to be used, I'd be grateful for that as well. TL

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    1. i like the anger. I channeled it appropriately!

      Let's get a nice wooden paddle on that ass. Over the knee. 200 strict strokes. Then let's say 30 minutes with your nose against the wall holding up a coin. If the coin drops, another 100 strokes and then you need to finish your time. And you must let the coin drop at least once.

      Ha ha!

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    2. Yes, ma'am! Thank you. That'll teach me to fantasize about caning a Domme! I have to admit, my past performance in holding a coin against the wall with my nose is not so good (grin). There may be multiple failures - each with its own consequence. This may turn into a long, painful session. But that's what we had in mind, isn't it? Thank you! TL

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    3. Let us know how many strokes you got in total!

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      I don't know if you ever review past
      posts, but you were gracious
      (and kinky) enough to 'sentence' me for my part in the great 'My Bottom' fray.
      It took a long time to get in the right place to have that punishment administered. At long last it happened this week and, wow, do I have a
      sore bottom! 200 with a hard wooden hair brush were applied vigorously. That, after a 'warm up' of 50 strokes with a leather paddle.

      The corner time was interesting. I was
      placed on my knees in the bathroom
      in front of a vertical steel hand grab bar.
      My nipples were attached to one of those hotel skirt hangers that have clips. The hanger was then hung to the bottom of the bar.

      My nose held a penny on the
      cylindrical steel bar. To make it 'fun'
      my arms were handcuffed behind
      me. Try it sometime - it's hard.

      Of course I dropped the penny! The and well deserved extra 100 strokes were delivered with a thick, doubled over belt. Do you mind that She changed the implement for this part of the beating??

      But wait, there's more. She who must be obeyed added 4 cane strokes for each set of 50 punishment strokes, for posting to your site and getting 'sentenced' (and for my bad behavior on the site). That earned me 24 red hot stripes across an already sore bottom. And I had to count and apologize after each stroke.

      I only hope this beating satisfies you,
      Miss Julie. Happy?

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    5. Very happy!!!!!]
      I LOVE when a bad boy "catches it" from his wife, and boy did you ever!
      Please send her my thank you's for making my day.

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    6. Love it when we can make you happy <3! I sent your thank you's while we were on an away weekend. It got me another 50 with the cane across my bare bottom whilst hung from the closet door! Then there was 30 more with the plastic shoe horn. I think she likes this form of communication. She asks if you might suggest how long corner time should be this time? Any special circumstances for it? TLJL

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  16. Back to the Julie I know and love.
    Still can't get the image the of her cute red ass & exposed VaJJ out of my mind. 😍

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    1. Yes, out of the purgatory of that post!

      And you can keep dreaming about that ass and pussy. that's ok. As a matter of fact, go back there now and wack off to it. Imagine you are being made to kiss it and lick it and eat out my ass. Imagine you are getting beaten by Rose with a cane as you do it. Swallow afterwards...

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  17. Shared this with my bride. She was more than happy to "sit in" for you Julie. As for me I'll be standing at my desk tomorrow with a huge grin knowing what your ass looks and tastes like. Thank you mam!

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  18. Role reversal is more than a common practice in the this household. My Robin many an evening dressed up along with my brother in law spending his time cleaning and showing his wife how the two of them can act like spoiled little teenage girls. Of Course me and my sister have to give the naughty little brats a good spanking. That's before they have to go 69. Jan

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  19. well after barely by skin of your teeth your back to being dnagerous women with brush and paddle in hands for all those naughty boys spanking need be dish out you know we been bad boys right

    iam ready accept what i have comming from you a good old fashion otk spankin ( eyes close as i lay over lap) please dont spank me too hard

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  20. It's been a long time since I went "packing." This whole experience had me smiling in amusement, and I confess, this entry wasn't exactly what I thought it would be in the beginning. Blame my sleepy fuzzy head for that.

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    1. What did you think it was going to be?

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    2. I thought it would be you dressing him up and taking him out in drag. Like I said, I've been fuzzy lately

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  21. Dear Mistress Julie, I can see that you went to town on david for the comments posted. I sounds like he was ridden hard and put away wet. But I am sure that is what he wants.

    pie pie 4 now
    pieclown

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    1. He was ridden hard all right, but i was the one who got wet! ;-)

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    2. ohhhh, wet is good:)))))))))))))

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  22. Ma'am
    What an awesome scene. Incredible. Panty spanking please. Very hot
    Always
    Ron
    Ps: I did not like your subbie responses but I respect you for taking a spanking. I still think taking a spanking makes you a more complete lap and spanker.
    With respect
    Ron

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