Thursday, June 23

Strict Julie Swallows!

Yuck. I did it. The whole load. Blechhhh!


As you may have read on my last post, Husband Hosed and Switched, I got a little over zealous with my husband and injured the tip of his penis while switching him. His bare penis got abraded by the tree I had him tied to. Some say it was his fault for moving around so much, but I blame myself.

In situations like this, to remind me to be a good Domme, I feel it only right that I assign myself a penance and then carry it out. My husband does not know I am doing this. That would be doing subby hubby no favours. I do it quietly with him none the wiser.

My readers helped by suggesting a few possible punishments in the comments. Several suggested I need to give his cock some TLC with my mouth as penance, and I was thinking along those same lines myself.

It's not that I hate giving head. I've had a lot of experience, with several different first boys then men over the years. I've got my bag of tricks, and I don't dislike it. However, it has always struck me as a bit of a subby thing to do, especially if you let him cum, and even more especially if you let him cum into your mouth.

Which brings us to the age old question of spit or swallow. When a male is sufficiently fortunate to have me give him head, I am firmly, firmly, in the "spit" camp.


I know it's not nice for a boy to watch us girls run to the sink and spit out their precious ejaculate as if we were vomiting, but I personally find it really nasty tasting. Right from that first taste of pre-cum to the goey load that follows, it's just not pleasant. In earlier days  I would do just that, right into the sink. Later on, my more usual go to is to spit it into his mouth for him to swallow. I mean, if he honestly thinks I should do that, then what's good for the goose is good for the gander!

So, for my penance, I decided I needed to swallow. I knew it would be difficult, but it needed getting done.

That's me alright

I had him stand in front of me. I got down on my knees, dropped his pants, and put his cock in my mouth. I started sucking on it. I let it go a bit deep which gets my saliva flowing, and then I use it to the max. I am always super careful with teeth, of course. If he feels teeth it's because I want him to.

I guided his hands to the back of my head and encouraged him to pull me onto him. He must have thought I'd gone mad. Here's a quote from Cosmo (A Blow Job Beginner's Guide to Spitting or Swallowing) that's just too good to not reproduce here.
Speaking of which, let's talk about face-fucking real quick, because you can't ask your mom about it and the hypersexual 12-year-olds on Yahoo Answers know nothing. At the risk of being indelicate, face-fucking is where a guy grabs your head and fucks your face like it is your vagina. Or, if you would rather I be more delicate, it's when a gentleman makes love to your mouth while leaving your petticoats down and your hands free to needlepoint.
There are some things that a lot of men like during blow jays that you might not be so into, because porn. Gagging on a penis, choking on come, watering eyes, general discomfort. Not something most women spend all day looking forward to, but guys like it.
I did receive some of the above mentioned "face fucking" and other general unpleasantness.


Not very long after I could taste (yuck) it coming, and then very soon after several hot warm spurts down my throat and onto the roof of my mouth.

Ewwww. I could barely swallow it. I seriously considered backtracking.


But no, penance is penance, so I sucked it all in and swallowed every last drop like a proper little slut.

So cute. I would fuck her in a second!

When david asked me what had gotten into me, I told him that I just felt like doing that today, and he better not get used to it!

103 comments:

  1. Why did you not tell him your reasoning behind the "today I am gonna swallow"?

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    1. He's a subby. He should not know that his Domme is punishing herself!

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  2. Ms. Julie you are a true and loving Dominate. For you to have given him oral sex and then let him cum in your mouth for you to swallow because you wanted to make up to him for his injury shows you are a loving Dominate that cares for your submissive. I might add that there are ways to change the way his cum tastes you can look it up on the net. May I close by saying you are the Dominate that all subs look for.
    archedone

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    1. Can I make it even worse tasting? For him I mean.

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    2. I've never heard of making cum taste worse just better by the food he eats. I'm sure as a good sub he will take his cum no matter how it tastes or you give it to him.
      As a side thought if he was allowed to cum in you then suck and lick you clean it might taste better as it has your juices also.
      archedone

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    3. Asparagus and wine supposedly make cum taste bitter. I personally don't think cum tastes that bad, though the texture is a bit off-putting. If I were trying to make someone experience a unpleasant cum taste sensation I would brush their teeth, tongue, and roof of their mouth with cum before bedtime without letting them rinse. Imagine the taste in their mouth cum morning.

      Ted the switch

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  3. That picture with the caption, "That's me alright".... is that really you in the picture... or does the picture and caption just summarize your feeling?

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    1. Please! Just my feelings. Though I can see the confusion given the caption.

      No shortage of photos on the internet of women with cum coming out of their mouths!

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  4. Good girl...penance paid! Now go back to being Strict Julie, get david' arse spanked and your hot pussy licked and adored as it should be! oh be sure to tell us all about it !

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  5. Ms SJ

    Nice post. I am not really into blow jobs so I have only had a few. Most have been when we are driving on a long desert highway and Irene just leans over and goes to it. She has always swallowed. I can understand a man preferring a swallower to a spitter, however.

    When the tables are turned oral sex-wise, I'm very very glad that I love the taste of pussy. After all that's what makes most women come. It took convincing sometimes for Irene to allow me to lick her pussy when she was having her period and she still would never sit on my face during those times.

    But I feel bad for couples if the guy does not like the taste of pussy. It must be hard to have a good sex life. And I don't like certain jokes about the issue.

    Speaking of pussy, I have a date with Irene tonight. But I'll likely be whipped soundly before I get a taste.

    - Rosco

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    1. Not quite the same, as you're tasting it the whole time you're doing it, and us ladies are sensitive about that part of us, so i agree with you about those "jokes".

      Have a good whipping!

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  6. Pat you on your head Miss Julie you were very good girl taking your punishment like well behave young lady iam proud of you

    iam sure your hoping next time swallow or doing this again be on your own turn right Miss on other hand i have few more new bare butt pic i want share with you

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    1. It's self-imposed penance, which is a bit different than "taking" anything. And I am definitely not well-behaved!

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    2. Jaw drop shock look Miss Julie not well-behaved no comment about that dont want put foot in mouth or get butt in trouble

      i sometime forget about self-imposed stuff i need more education these thing going take your word for it

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  7. Yuck is right! Wife makes cum on a plate every so often and lick it clean. I'll take a good, thorough, mouth-soaping with a couple of bitch-slaps thrown in for good measure over a mouthful of cum any day.

    Good to hear that you followed through on disciplining yourself. You can't be a good, effective, Domme without knowing what it's like to be on the other side.

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    1. I think you're just saying that so that you'll get more chances to lick that plate clean, you little cum guzzler you!

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  8. Ms Julie swallowing?!?!!? I'm shocked!! Tell the truth: how submissive did you feel when it started to slide down your throat?

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    1. Not submissive at all. I felt more like my own Domme.

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    2. you have every right be your own Dome if ask me

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  9. Julie good job. I would like to know if it turned you on in any? Or was it just a chore not to feel guilty?

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    1. It does turn me on to give him head. I like the control of making him cum. The swallowing was not a turn on or a turn off, just a bit nasty.

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  10. Hello Mistress Julie, I am sure david enjoyed his TLC. I am sure many here did, and wished it was one of them in that position. As for the part, I let them decide.

    You have a good weekend.
    pie pie 4 now
    pieclown

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    1. I know few men who would refuse a blow job from a pretty lady!

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    2. Hello Mistress Julie, I agree with you. I was saying that some want TLC, some give TLC and some are "forced to give" TLC. A for the sex of the giver and receiver, they can be any combination of guy, gal, or gurl aka a sissy crossdresser or something in between. Have a good weekend and do not worry about the noises you hear for down south. It is just US celebrating our birthday.

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    3. And July 1 was Canada Day, BTW.
      We were polite and kept the noise down.

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  11. Good Job Julie, I do think you should have snowballed David, just to keep your Dom card. We have been seeing behavior from you that demonstrates you might have switch tendencies. John

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    1. Not really. These "behaviours" confirm in my mind how not switchy I am, psychologically speaking.

      I do enjoy blogging about them, however, as it gets you 'fellas so worked up. Sort of like the dommy blog equivalent of a tease and denial!

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    2. Well it does do that. I'm busting out my cage as I type.

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  12. Awwwww!!!!! You are soooo conscientious!!!!!

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  13. Blechhhh! is right. :) Your self-imposed penance was nevertheless an exciting read.

    To me a bj is much more exciting as a form of femdom. Her doing it submissively is not as big a turn on. She is in a powerful position to give or withhold pleasure. Tease and denial is her pleasure. Orgasm is under her control, and when she allows it, it is a privilege only she has the authority to grant. It is her power to seduce. For him, her mouth is of course one desperate desire. If and when she uses her mouth to give pleasure, she makes a very lucky husband indeed. Her orgasms are also under her control, and she receives what she wants and how she wants it at any time. As far as swallowing, anything she really doesn't like, I'd prefer she doesn't do.
    --brett

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    1. Excellent point, brett. I do feel that way when giving a BJ, a sense of power and control, which is one reason I don't find doing it unpleasant at all, and even sexy. And then, yes, if i allow an ejaculation, and if i allow it into my mouth, I don't mind putting up with the taste as I decide where it will go (though extremely rarely down my throat!)

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  14. Do you plan to have kids and if you have would you be normal or you will be bad parents and destroy their brain with this kinky lifestyle . Do you still go to church.

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    1. What the ever loving f...? What's church got to do with anything? I was raised a good catholic girl and I have a kinkier mind than my atheist friends. Also, kink is not a bad lifestyle and it is not "abnormal." Your question is WAY off base.

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    2. With regards to swallowing... I totally agree. EW. It's the texture of warmed up 35% cream with the flavour of a salted Red-Bull drink. Not pleasant. On the other hand, I do quite enjoy my deep throating (because I am very, very proud of my skills) and I adore sucking cock. I think I can still be a Dom while doing it because I really have my subby hubby at my mercy when I give him a blow-job. I also have the option to cause pain and pleasure at once (if I so choose) by using my teeth, or by pinching his balls with my nails while he is still in something wet and warm. I also don't mind pre-cum. But the full load is... blergh...

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    3. Totally agree on the BJ, Pippa, it's all about the attitude going in. It is powerful being able to control his orgasm, maybe even leave him hanging?

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    4. And as for you, anonymous one, I always find it amusing to get a comment like this which is so hypocritical. I mean, here you are reading my blog, likely jerking off to it, even taking the time to leave a comment on it. You have to click to accept to get into it, and the title of the blog is clearly about kink!!! You're the one I hope does not have kids, as that level of discomfort with your own sexuality would be dangerous to a child's development.

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    5. For the record, my wife Irene and I have been into this "kinky" lifestyle for 36 years. Our 3 kids are grown and doing well - no major issues growing up.

      -Rosco

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    6. The opposite, I'll bet, rosco. Having open minded parents comfortable with their own sexuality can only help matters.

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    7. I am having this fetish of being with a dominant woman in bedroom only so i have found your blog and i liked that you have stated everything of progress from begining but i have noticed that a small spanking fetish have changed to very bad kinky fetishes and you have learned new things and have changed a lot . So i was saying about having kids with that kinky things will not be normal to raise kids even if they didn't know anything . And i asked about church because this prgress have gone too far and must have drifted you away from god . Look, I don't to put a silly comment but i just want give advice for not going too far and must have limits. I also like that you care for your husband and respect his feelings , this shows your are good. Please don't take me wrong . I just want you to be good parent for the children of future.

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    8. Hey, I love being kinky . But i don't want things to go far .

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    9. I reject your entire premise that anything david and I do is at all "bad" or immoral or "takes me away from God". We are having fun together, we do not hurt anybody, our love deepens, and no children are ever involved.

      Yes we would have to be more discrete if kids were running around our house, I mean, DUHHHH! Fortunately for our kink, that is not the case (for reasons that have nothing to do with kink).

      I think you have a very warped view of morality and a very strange interpretation of your religion to say one kind and place for consensual kink is ok, but another is not.

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    10. For the record, I am the "anonymous" that prompted the "Sadistic Julie" thread. I am NOT this "anonymous." Pretty much everything I do "takes me away from God." I just care about the interpersonal dynamics, safety, consent, and the intentions between the parties.

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    11. I don't think most religious texts have much to say about kink, but they do inspire an awful lot of it!

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  15. I only found your blog recently and find it fascinating. But this one.... This one got to me.

    I like getting a BJ from my girlfriends; who wouldn't? (My very first was a total surprise. Necking on my sofa hoping to get her to the bedroom for some fucking. Touched her boobs over her blouse, no push-back, so so far so good. Instead, she went right to my cock. She undid my pants, pulled the throober out and the BJ began with me writhing in the exquisiteness of it all.

    Being a gentleman I get around to warning her, "I'm cumming...!", so she wouldn't get a mouthful. Nope. She double-downed and worked me even harder until I exploded. She swallowed it all and kept on licking. (After, I had trouble standing!) I, being that gentleman again, offered to return the favor! She told me that she really wanted to have sex, but it was 'that time' and she didn't want me down there. So she gave me a BJ!)

    "I know it's not nice for a boy to watch us girls run to the sink and spit out their precious ejaculate..."

    Really? You think we're upset you spit out our 'boys'? No. We're just glad we got the BJ. Swallowing is your complete decision. Spitting is your complete choice. Stopping at the last minuet and finishing with a HJ and shooting into space - your choice and all good.

    Face-fucking (other name: skull-fucking) can be fun, but "Gagging on a penis, choking on come, watering eyes, general discomfort...guys like (that)." No. No. Unless SHE likes that, no. I think a guy who does that to an unwilling partner should be avoided by all women. I've done the hands on her head thing and moved her closer; but when she gagged I backed off! Quickly. If it were her hands on his ass pulling him deeper? That's all up to her.

    And I didn't like any of the photos on your post. I can't understand the attraction (other than the big-dick dominance of turning a woman into a receptacle) of doing that. Cum on her beautiful face? Does that make her more beautiful or sexy or whatever? How? And I can't understand why a woman would like that. Even if you asked me to do that, Julie, you better have the meanest strap in your arsenal for me to do it.

    The part about pushing her head close, though, was nice to me but in another way.

    A woman I was dating a long while ago had trouble with vaginal orgasms. She could have them, and enjoyed them when she did, but they were rare. But you gently put your tongue to her labia - and stand back!

    It's not fair for her not to get off while I did, so the solution - She goes first! Well, cums first.

    When she got that "do me" look, I'd spread her and go downtown lickin' the labia. And when I flogged her clit with my tongue - it was on!

    And I had a great position to watch it all. I'd bury myself into my work and glance up every so often to see how I was doing,determined to give her the best "O" I could. And I could see it; nipples at attention, mouth wide open, only inhaling in little gasps, "Huh. Huh. Huh", toes curled and - her hands on my head guiding me. And that great moment when her legs snapped closed on my head when she orgasms.

    God, that was fun to watch. With my lips and tongue I turned a woman into a happily exhausted and satisfied blob of jelly. I felt great! I. DID. THAT!!

    I'm still trying to catch up on your past posts, but the one you wrote about having your greatest orgasm the other day had me going, "Good girl!!"

    David was lickin' the labia and clitoris and you grabbed his hair and moved his head, as you wrote, "...Right...There...". Oh, yeah.

    David came back and said he didn't like that. Well, you and I both know he lied.

    I love it when a woman does that. I'm here to give her an orgasm, and she just helped me; go here, a little harder/faster/deeper/slower, all clues and aids to make sure I doing it right and she gets a screaming toe-curler.

    Love 'ya!


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    1. Awesome comment! Thank you for that. I'm also in the camp that does not cum from a cock in my pussy at all. Apparently I read it has something to do with the distance from clit to vag?

      I actually enjoy the photos because I think of my husband as one of those girls when I make him eat it! I'd even show him those photos and say, "see, that's going to be you in a few minutes..."

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    2. Yes. I heard that too. Hard (but not impossible) if the distance between clitoris and urethra is too short. Smaller clitorises = fewer nerve endings also a factor. And it's not uncommon!! A lot of women have this. It's just the way you were built. So get that man in your life busy and get him to bring you along. Guide him, you know, "right...there".

      With my GF I would get her to lie back and totally relax. Took my time. Little massages here and there. Then fill my hands with her buttocks, lift her up a bit for control, and got busy. (Damn; sounds like I'm enjoying watermelon!)

      I would have done anything to help her. Only thing I asked her was to keep the target area trimmed. Made it easier for me. (We all have to thank the porno industry for that; it was that industry that really got men and women to shave and trim the shrubbery. Whoever heard of a Brazilian until they made it popular? Thanks, guys and gals!)

      A.J.

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    3. ...see, that's going to be you....Great humilation tactic. I see the pic, and of course, picture myself in that spot with the knowledge that it IS going to be me.

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    4. Getting busy. Exactly right!

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  16. Hm..I definitely think all your male readers should have a miserably humiliating forced cum eating assignment from you now to show solidarity.

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    1. Well, it is a standing rule at my blog that if a male masturbates to anything I produce, he needs to consume!

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    2. No dice. That's a hard, hard limit. I hope you don't make your husband do that.

      You could beat me until my IQ drops, and I still wouldn't do that.

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    3. This Anonymous that keeps commenting is just annoying.

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    4. I was made to cum in a spoon, and shot glass too, two years ago by online Domme. Of course I had to swallow and lick clean.
      I have now made this a habit except for only once, in two years: I swallow my own every time.

      Charles.

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    5. Now now K. Play nicely with the other children, although a name would be nice so we can distinguish one anonymous from the other!

      That's your hard limit??? We'll see how hard a limit it is when you have a gorgeous Domme who says she won't play with you unless... I predict you'd fold like a cheap suit ;-)

      And good for you, other anony!

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    6. And to the anonymous person above whose comments I keep deleting. I am trying to avoid a flame war between you and K. The name you chose to post under is not conducive to that. K has been publicly scolded here. That will do fine, children.

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    7. And K, that comment of yours about never being able to play nice, that was the accidental thing I referred to down below, although given my stated intent to avoid a flame war...

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    8. So you deleted his shot at me accidentally and mine at him on purpose. Got it.

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    9. Well, I'll respond to you. Yes, guzzling cum or piss or eating shit, whether my own or others, are "hard limits," no matter how stunning the domme. I'm sure you have someone else who is willing to double up on their share.

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    10. Not quite. He did not take a shot at you, he commented only about himself. You, on the other hand behaved badly towards him, so now i have to separate you two.

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    11. Piss is actually quite good for you and so is cum. Shit is very bad for you, so they're really not the same.

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    12. Guess I'd better get a new doctor. He must be a quack because he keeps asking me to piss in a cup and never tells me to take a sip.

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    13. One again, my apologies Miss Julie.

      You can scold this boy any time.

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    14. "The big question, though, looms like
a low-flying seagull. Isn’t wee toxic? Urine is approximately 95 per cent water and 5 per cent nutrients like calcium, iron, magnesium and zinc,’ explains Shona Wilkinson, head nutritionist at NutriCentre. In fact, far from being toxic, urine is filtered twice – once by the liver and again by the kidneys. Anything toxic leaves our bodies via faeces, which is why urine is sterile. That’s why the ancient Aztecs used it to disinfect wounds, and why it’s used in Ayurvedic and Chinese medicines. Grim it might be, and hard to collect, too (I did wee on my hands several times as I wielded a plastic cup to catch the waterfall), but toxic it is not
      (full article)

      There are some who claim it has benefits, but i am skeptical!

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    15. Wow, not to get in "this", I did want to say I think I have missed some eating sessions. Sorry

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  17. Dear Julie, They make strap-on dildos that squirt whatever you load into them, maybe you should buy one and let David know how it feels?

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    1. oh my gosh!! I had no idea.... googling wildly...

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  18. You should get a spanking Julie from Mags one day.

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    1. I don't get 'em, I give 'em!

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    2. Then try spanking Mags

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    3. If she wants it I wouldn't refuse.

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    4. Mags seems a bit physco, she should not be allowed to use dangerous implements as whips or cables. And must be closely supervised.

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    5. Not psycho, because she keeps it just this side of him putting a stop to it. I think she's very well controlled, just a bit, well, scary!

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    6. That is why you need a spanking from her to face your fears.

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    7. Should we expect a post about you spanking her because she over did it to David soon.

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    8. No. Coincidentally she did just spanked though! Next blog post.

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    9. Get spanked
      or got spanked?

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    10. It seems Julie got spanked so she couldn't sit properly to blog.

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  19. As David has Mags,I think you should get your own dom to punish you when you're naughty, then David won't get ideas above his station.

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    1. Nope. The only Domme I'm willing to submit to is myself.

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  20. Awesome post, Miss Julie! Love that you did penance, which I bet all your bois readers have done to themselves (me included). Long post from Anonymous was right on the mark from my perspective, but I like you're comment about the pics. 💖TL

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  21. Hi Julie, You are a woman of your words. You said you would make ammends and you did. Even if it meant performing a submissive act and doing something you don't like. Perhaps it's because I'm submissive, but the whole swallowing, face fucking, gagging thing has never really appealed to me. I guess I just don't need to be in that sort of a dominant position. Usually I'm just thankful for the blow job! I truly wonder about a guy that values his bodily fluids more than the feelings of a woman gracious enough to blow him. Of course I have no problem envisioning a woman treating me that way! I got quite a chuckle out of the pictures. -chris

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    1. I'm glad you "get me". The pics made me giggle as I chose them.

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  22. Oh well.... if it just happens once, he won't get used to it. In fact, the memory will just torment him more!! s

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  23. Miss JUlie

    i wonder what crazy idea you will come up next and how much more evil would you become how hard david next spanking punishment will be next time

    my birthday comming soon i be 45 should i spank myself 45 times for you then show u result with pic and video

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    1. Yes please! 45 plus one to grow on to even out those cheeks!

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    2. You got it Miss Julie

      iam going 45 plus one grow on for you even cheeks out red you will enjoy it wont care if you share story or pic

      i order birthday paddle from some lady on fetlife she said i should double the 45 so be 90 spanks 30 for warm up so be 120 i have do for her

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    3. Double? Triple it 45x3 = 135+30 = 165!!!!

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    4. Jaw drop eyes wide TRiple it to 165 ouchhhhhhhhhhhhh be un able sit with red butt for sure Ok Ok i will do that

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    5. Be careful of what you ask. You might just get it and then some.
      pie pie 4 now

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  24. Oooops!!!
    I just accidentally deleted 3 comments instead of publishing them. My deepest apologies if you were amongst!

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    1. Mine was one of them. Oh well. Listen I say this to you often like when you got spanked....I truly believe you being the sub once and a while makes you a better Dom and so freakin sexy! Love it.
      Always
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    2. I agree physically speaking.

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    3. Too funny you give your man a blow job and get 100 comments.
      Always
      Ron

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    4. Not just any blow job!
      I (blech!) swallowed. Ohhh. I can still taste it sliding down my throat. Disgusting!

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  25. I had a gf with adorable feet that I used to kiss and suck, one day she came with her feet dirty and unattended to, I asked her to wash them, then I gave her punishment bastinado and told her never to leave them unattended to again. Does this make me a subby or a dom?

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  26. Oh my. Well u once by your blog made me drink mine I almost puked. But in NJ where I live blow job includes swallowing my friend.
    Always
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  27. I do have to hold it and show her that I have it in my mouth before I am given permission to swallow. I always get spoon fed now and I do not like the taste but my wife really enjoys seeing me obediently do as I am told. She make me drink her pee too. We use a large cup so she can fill it and watch me swallow it all while it is warm.

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