Tuesday, January 3

Just Sex

No spanking on this post. Just sex.


I've mentioned quite often that my husband and I are not in a 24x7 FLR, but that we enjoy role-playing we are in one from time to time (enjoy it a lot!). Sometimes we just have "normal" sex with one another without the roles.

Yesterday evening was one such. I thought I would describe what we did, as I see very few detailed descriptions from real couples on the kinds of sex they actually engage in.

He knew I was horny from a few days back, but it was one thing or another, so I came to him at about 10pm yesterday (earlier than we usually go to bed) and asked if he was coming to bed. He knew what the meant and came up with me. He went straight into the ensuite bathroom and shaved. The sound of him shaving turns me on, because I know his mouth will be all smooth for me!

We both got naked and we knelt up facing one another on the bed. We started kissing. He also started fondling my butt and my tits which I liked a lot.

We lay down next to one another and continued kissing. Our tongues played with one another's. Sometimes he would push his deep into my mouth, and sometimes I would do the same to him. I reached down and started gently stroking the tip of his cock (which is all I could reach). He licked his fingers and started playing with my pussy. We spent about 10 minutes like this.

Then he flipped around and we got into a sideways 69 position. He put his head directly between my thighs. He rested his head on my lower thigh, and I rested my upper thigh on his head. I pulled a  pillow and put it under my head, and started gently kissing his penis.

He started by just kissing my pussy lips. Kissing and breathing on me. Drives me wild! Then he was nibbling at my labia. Gently pulling with his closed lips. Then his tongue started darting gently towards my clit. Before long he was licking me everywhere on and in my pussy. He put his one arm around around behind me and stroked my ass cheeks. Then he licked a finger and pushed it inside of me to tickle my G-spot. He put his other hand on my abdomen and pulled the skin up towards my chest which totally exposed my clit to his tongue. This lasted another 10 minutes or so. Meanwhile I was sucking and kissing him, which also excites me.

Sensing I was ready to cum, and knowing my very favourite position, he switched me into it for the final part. It's a position I can't find illustrated anywhere, so I'll have to describe it. I think david invented it!

From the side-by-side 69 he turns me around so that my back is facing him. I pull my knees up into a fetal position. He puts a pillow between my knees so that he has good access to my pussy from behind. He puts a pillow under his head so that he is at just the right level. His top arm is free to roam all over my body. His bottom arm is underneath me and wraps back so that he can touch my tummy or my pussy with it.

Then he licks me from behind. He has fantastic full access to me. Meanwhile his hands are roaming all over my body. He touches my skin all over which is so exciting. He grabs my breasts and squeezes my nipples. I only like this when I am really excited. Almost there in fact. I liked it!

He knows I want his lower hand pushing into my pubic bone. He teases me with it by moving in that direction, from my tits, to my tummy, down lower, but not going there. I get impatient and moan at him. He slides his hand down to my pubic bone and presses.

With his other hand he starts playing with a finger right at the entrance to my vagina. He is not quick to penetrate. He just plays his finger all around there, getting super close to penetrating me with it while he is still licking me this whole time. I feel myself getting ridiculously wet.

When I am super close to cumming he pushes his finger all the way in and starts finger fucking me as he licks with his tongue right on my engorged clit and pushes with his other hand on my pubic bone. His finger hits my G-spot dead on every time he "thrusts".

I scream as I cum. It's a super intense orgasm. My orgasm lasts about 20 seconds or so during which time I yell and convulse. It feels literally like I am burning up.


After it's over he knows he can't touch me at all, as I am so super sensitive right after. So he gingerly peels away from me and just strokes me all over with his hands.

I go to the bathroom to clean up and pee. Then we cuddle while we watch some late night TV.

36 comments:

  1. I'm weird in that porn and reading about just sex is usually not exciting to me, but this was delicious and arousing. It's a kind of "normal" sex I like that focuses on specific techniques to create and control arousal and orgasm without the need for intercourse.

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    1. Some might call it more "perverse" that "normal", but based on our regular perverted this is nothing.

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  2. I'm glad to see someone writing a the other parts of a couples sex life. And I find it so sweet that you two cuddle after.

    I'm interested that he pushes his hand on you above your pelvic bone, is that to make G-spot stimulation stronger or to do with feeling connected to him physically and cared for?

    And happy new year

    -Eve

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    1. I feels good, more on my clit than my G-spot. Pushing there has the side-effect of exposing my clitty more...

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  3. Wow this was extremely hot. David goes about pleasing you sexually with the skill of a surgeon :-) I have often commented how lucky he is to have your for a wife you but you are lucky to have him as well.
    Its great that you guys have a balance to your life that is not all femdom 24/7. Those relationships seem erotic when you read about them but it would seem to me that it would be difficult to maintain for a long period of time. You have to come up for air once in awhile. The description of your big O was incredible. BTW I didn’t see anything about david getting a release. Do we assume that he was denied? :-(
    Bob Bell

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    1. Not denied exactly, more like never considered? It was MY turn!

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    2. Ha wonderful! My experience when I’m providing a “night of pamper and worship” often ends quite the same. It’s not like she knowingly denies me it’s just that after maintaining a raging hard on for two hours I am often deflated by the time she reaches that highly sensitive point you mentioned. At this point I just curl up and relax while she slips off into a relaxing sleep. Believe me I never have any regrets!

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  4. Hi Julie, thanks for sharing another aspect of your non FLR relationship with david, especially such intimate and personal one.

    Sixty-nine was always a favourite position. However, unfortunately (at least for me anyway) my wife will no longer do it! (Thank you Dr. O). I am curious though when david has you in the “double bracket ((” position how does he climax or does he?

    By the way I don’t know if that’s what the position is called I just imagined it would look something like that.

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    1. Oh no, he doesn't get to climax at all. It's all for me.

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  5. Tender loving sex play is wonderful. I know what you mean about sensitive after. If I try to lick or touch her pussy after she climaxes she will fight to get away from me.
    archedone

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  6. In retrospect, it seems that the guy was lucky. It's a bit like defusing a bomb. But exactly the opposite. He was so absorbed that he forgot to cum. But he so likes that that it does not matter much.

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    1. He didn't "forget". It was not his time.

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  7. Nothing wrong with just sex if ask me Sex is needed time to time bet you both feel good after sex Spankings doesnt alway has be main focus do you ever think about spanking when having sex

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    1. Not usually thinking about spanking. When I think about spanking, I want to do spanking! david thinks about spankings during sex.

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  8. "After it's over he knows he can't touch me at all, as I am so super sensitive."

    So good.

    My first spanking/sex girlfriend got so turned on by the first spanking, she got off my lap and 'mounted' me, cowgirl style. I swear to God - she had the most explosive orgasm I have EVER seen. We both had to rest after.

    Then I touched her. And she jumped!!! And told me "NO!"

    She was still having little 'tremors' and her labia super sensitive to the slightest touch. Hold her, yes; touch her there, no. It was a few more minutes until all was OK. So beautiful.

    A.J.

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    1. Sometimes I feel like that. Especially if my G-Spot has been involved in the orgasm.

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  9. In "just sex" I like the audacity to describe what actually happens, concretely during this sexual intercourse. The scientific approach with time measures (10 mns for the first two phases, 20 seconds around for the duration of the orgasm). Seriousness in the description. The brilliant humility in the presentation of this unpublished position, which can not be illustrated, which, after so many centuries of descriptions of sexual positions, remains a challenge. The evidence of the enjoyment of a woman without resentment, of an enjoyment offered without consideration. The malignity of silence about the sex of man.

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  10. Sounds like he'd be in a perfect position to occasionally graze his tongue against your puckered back opening...something I KNOW you love!

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    1. Well yes, but I don't want his tongue moving between those two places!

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  11. Good Julie, please keep it up.

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  12. Nice to know that david gets a break from time to time,it is not all spanking every time.

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  13. No cumming for him? The horror, the horror.

    Best wishes,

    Marco

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  14. Just sooo sensual. :-) My body is sensitive just reading your lovely descriptions. Didn't even occur that he didn't cum. It's only important that you did. Kim xxx

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    1. One of the pleasures of having trained oneself as a Dominant Woman, I guess.

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  15. Very intimate and sexy Ms Julie!!!!

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    1. I don't need to spank him all the time!

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