Saturday, February 11

A New Regime

Still alive! Took a bit of a break from blogging after that last six-parter. Phew! Much kinkiness has transpired since then: a threesome with Tracy, David switching it up on me. But I think I need to return to my roots a bit, so today I'll blog about a proper Dominant Wife Spanking I gave my husband recently.

Recently his trainer Mags moved on out of the country to do a graduate business degree. It was fun having her train david, though in truth her whippings were getting a bit routine. She did not have much kinky imagination, and without that from the Domme, things can get stale. Still it was a good way to keep david motivated to work out: having a pretty young thang strip him and whip him between sets!

But quite apart from that, I have been noticing david putting on extra fat around his middle. Exercise is great and has all manner of health benefits, as does eating healthy food, but getting fat comes from over-eating, pure and simple. On an airplane I recently read a very interesting article in Scientific American called The Exercise Paradox that cites new evidence based on the latest and most accurate measurement techniques that says the number of calories your burn is relatively constant regardless of how hard you exercise. The body adjusts, they hypothesize, by cutting down on unnecessary "repair" activities to preserve energy (apparently, evolutionary speaking, the only reason a human slows down from the hunting and gathering is when they are ill).

So, after reading this article I decided to take matters into my own hands regarding david's health. He is now weighing himself every day on the Internet scale and recording all his food in an app. The results of his weekly weigh-ins will be spankings, chores, and sex.

If his record keeping and weight loss pleases me, he'll be allowed to be very manly towards me and give me a spanking, require me to do chores around the house, and have sex with me in any way he chooses. Implements and ass sex are reserved for a string of good weeks.

If he displeases me, he will be dressed in women's clothing, spanked severely, made to do chores, and I will have sex with him any way I choose. I also reserve the right to put him in timeout and write lines for me if I think he's enjoying himself too much. And don't think he won't be sitting nude with a very red butt and a big fat dildo up his butt as he writes me those lines. Oh there will be tears.

And lest you fear too much for my ass, I mandated a very aggressive (though still healthy) rate of fat loss for him, and I shall be very hard to please.

I made him agree to an additional highly motivational penalty if there is weight gain across any given month: a very hard, in his bra with panties pulled down spanking across John's knee while Tracy and I watch. John and Tracy have already agreed to it. Bra and panties and everything. (John had a chuckle, especially about the bra and panties, but was glad to help, according to Tracy). I am quite sure david will not allow it to come to this, but we shall see.

I confronted him with all this, and he agreed to it, knowing he did need to shed body fat. I had to really put my foot down regarding the spanking from John, but he reluctantly agreed, feeling he could use the extra backstop motivation to absolutely positively lose fat.

We started off by taking him up to the bathroom scale. He had not weighed himself in some time, though the roll of fat around his belly told the story only too clearly. I made him strip to nude, and supervised as he stepped up onto the scale.


Before the numbers came up I already knew the verdict. He was fat and flabby. This was especially highlighted for me given my recent experiences with Tracy's husband, who is so lean and muscular. If he can do it, certainly david can as well, and it starts with good diet!

And yes indeed. His weight was way up. Around 10% higher than it should be, and all of it fat.

His diet was going to get off on the right foot with a hairbrush spanking and a strapping. I dragged him by the ear and took him back downstairs. I stood him with his nose firmly in the corner of the living room. As he stood there like that, I set up the spanking chair, and I fetched the hard wooden hairbrush and the twin tailed tawse.

I scolded him some more as he stood in the corner, his vulnerable little buns seemingly quivering in fright. I left him there like that, telling him that he could contemplate the errors that got him into this situation, and the bun beating he would soon be getting from me.

I took my time. I made myself a cup of herbal tea and I did some reading. I left him there for a full 30 minutes.

When it was time, I went up to him, and took him again by the ear, and lead him over to the spanking chair. I sat on it, and then pulled him down across my knee. I hiked him over a bit higher so that his head was near the ground and his feet were dangling. I prefer him like this. Of course he was hard. He always is at a time like this. It would not last.

I used the hairbrush right from the start, and I used it hard. A couple of hundred solid whacks that had him kicking and begging for mercy by the time I was only half done. His ass turned a deep, crimson red. I also used the brush on his upper thighs and into his cleft and inner thighs. It was a wonderful spanking!

This is what my husband's ass looks like after
one of my "punishment" hairbrush spankings

He was well-spanked, but not yet strapped.

I stood him up and took him by his upper arm over to the sofa, where I had him bend over across the back of it, ass high, legs spread. This is a lovely position for a man. His cock and balls are visible and vulnerable, dangling there between his legs. His ass cheeks are spread, showing off his bottom hole. How embarrassing that a "man" should be made to display his bottom hole like this to his wife! Well it was for a good cause. I am especially adept at "near cheek wrap around", which means whipping the tip of the strap around the near cheek and into his crack, punishing the tender skin nearest his rectum. I am also skilled at striking vertically with the strap, in-line with his ass crack, but at a slight oblique angle to impart a fiery sting he'll feel whenever his cheeks rub together. It's a skill I possess.

I began his strapping. I visited his entire ass, his thighs, his inner thighs (ouch!), and his crack. I ended with an intense and fiery strapping at full force onto his twin sit spots. It made me smile thinking how my husband would be squirming at work the next day.


I am sure his "stand up" desk will get plenty of use!



129 comments:

  1. Welcome back Ms. Julie. I'm sure your play time with Tracy and David left you worn out and from what you said there was more that was not written about. Sorry to hear about Mags moving but if she was not being a proper Dom for David it's best, Now you are back in total control and I'm sure David will soon be loosing weight. If not he knows what he has to look forward to and I'm sure Tracy and David will lend a hand or two. LOL.
    archedone

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    1. Yes, still more to come. But I need to describe some of david's spankings too!

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  2. Stand up desks are quite useful after being spanked!

    So please tell us more about "a threesome with Tracy, David switching it up on me"?

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  3. Wow! The times they are a changing!

    That will be a very interesting read should it ever happen, david getting spanked, bare bum, over John's knee, and in panties and bra no less!

    Now that's a weight loss incentive. ;-)

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  4. Dear Julie, Nice to see things are returning back to normal, and you taking control of David's health issues. My wife has taken the same tack with me. Nice to have women in our lives that care for us and know how to motivate us. Can't wait to hear about the double team and sorry to hear Mags has left the country. Do you think you will try and replace her? Also on a side note I noticed you have a link to The Male Chasity Journal, are you thinking about caging David? Talk about a motivator to loosing weight.

    John

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    1. Yes, chastity for him as occurred to me. If he remains unsuccessful, a week with no orgasms and wearing a device will likely motivate him.

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    2. It motivates me more than the spankings, but the combination of the two will bring all men in line, and we already know what a natural tease you are, so he wouldn't stand a chance.

      John

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  5. It is always gratifying that you specify where the brush is used (on his upper thighs and into his cleft and inner thighs )
    Is this skill to strike wih an oblique angle, as natural than your disciplinary one ?
    Whatever it may be, it's a pleasure to imagine david at his « stand up » desk painfully feeling the rubbing of his buttocks on top of each other and regretting that his greediness have so painful consequences, but unable to give it up...
    Let us pray that he pays attention to his diet and not be obliged to be ashamed of a spanking given by John in your presence and that of Tracy. It would be really frightfully humiliating for him to be presented before you three in panties and bra, and worse still, to be spanked to tears with panties pulled down by a man's bare hand as if he were no longer worthy of being a Man! Just a teary-eyed, red-bummed boy learning his lesson, given by a real man !
    I dont know if he will find that very sexy, to understand that he will have no say in the matter...

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    1. The humiliation of being dressed as a woman and then spanked across a man's knee (to tears and begging) would be exquisite.

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    2. To be honest, I think david needs the exact same treatment after his spanking from John that you got after your spanking...

      Actually, regardless of weight loss, would love to hear about david getting spanked to tears followed by an unpleasant and humiliating gangbang from John and you and Tracy wearing your strapons. Or maybe I just like to imagine myself in that position...

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    3. I would love him taking that for me!

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    4. I bet you could get him to!

      Can just imagine cum leaking out of his bottom as you push your strapon in.

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  6. This could seem very harsh and mean, if it wasn't known how much you and david enjoy harsh spankings. Mind he doesn't loose too much fat though, need to keep his bum nice and round, both for padding over the bones and the lovely jiggling during spankings. There something so appealing about a nice juicy bottom quivering as it's turning pink then red, like a peach ripening, it just make me want to have a nibble at the tender flesh.

    I'm glad to read that you're exploring your switch side and look forward to reading more.

    -Eve

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  7. Julie:
    You have such diversity. All of your stories are creative and feel so real! Those that have read your entries for years, know very well that you call upon real world events, perhaps with some creative elaborations. I like, so many others, welcome all of your adventures.

    I too would love to see you and Tracy deal with your naughty husbands. Dressing them in their girly undies, serving you drinks, and teasing them so they get excited, peeking out of the top of their little panties. Having both of your men be embarrassed in front of each other, and show their excitement, is part of demonstration of your control over them. I'd just love to see you demand that your sissy men kiss (or more) their 'little guys' peeking out of their panties, while you give them a very serious spanking.

    Unfortunately my real life wife does not understand my need to give up my manly nature, and be under her control. Telling me to wear girly undies, controlling me, embarrassing me, punishing me, are all part of an erotic way of exploring hidden feelings for us both. And so I envy your open and exciting relationship with your husband and I encourage you both to continue to explore and share.

    Thank you both, from a fellow Canadian.

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    1. I try to stick to the facts on my blog, but colorfully described. The elaborations mainly happen when I fill in the gaps from a third party account or when my own memory fails me. Sometimes I think I put words in people's mouths that I only wished they had said!

      But I don't think Tracy's husband would go for being a sub! I'm pretty sure I'd get a red butt for suggesting it even!

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  8. Have you given any thought to Tracy diapering him?

    Goddess Gretchen

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    1. It's always uppermost in my thoughts, Gretchen ;-)

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  9. Welcome back Ms Julie! It's good for you to take control of david's health and encourage better eating and exercise from him again! I wish I had that same motivation!

    This would absolutely work for me (though I'm sure I would fail a few times before it truly sank in) .... "And don't think he won't be sitting nude with a very red butt and a big fat dildo up his butt as he writes me those lines. Oh there will be tears."

    I absolutely love your dominance and creativity!!!

    I am now edging myself to your stories and your book, trying not to allow myself to cum :( but as always I promise to consume it for you should I fail!!

    Respectfully,
    doc

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    1. Yes, more men need strong women in their lives to make them do what they know they should!

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  10. That would definitely be motivation . I can take a spanking from any women but anouther man! That would be tough. Love your blog .

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    1. Especially a good hard punishing one, I'll bet!

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    2. I'm with you, 'anonymous'. I only spank or get spanked for the sensuality of it, it just turns me (and her) on.

      It would take a couple of really big dudes and snarling dogs for me to be spanked by another males. While I have no problem with M/m it's not for me as it is too sexual and erotic for this hetero. As always - Your mileage may vary! And that's a good thing.

      A.J.

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    3. Somebody's teeth would be on the floor before a guy did that to me. They might be mine, but I wouldn't go down without a fight. To me, getting spanked by a man is one step below a prison rape.

      Jesus, Julie. That may be the single meanest thing you've ever done, and there's a lot of competition for that title.

      James

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    4. Both of you need to cool your jets. I would only do it if he consented. And he conditionally consented... so...

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    5. You guys (James and other anon) are fimilure with the idea that someone can say no at any time, right? David and Julie have an adult relationship with lots of communication. If david mulls it over and descide that no, he actually isn't comfortable with the threat of John spanking him, he can say so because CONCENT CANBE GIVEN OR RETRACTED AT ANYTIME BY ANYONE. He may like the idea/fantasy of being threatened with M/m but when it comes time to make it real say no. And do you know how Julie would know he wasn't just role playing and really didn't want to do it? Safe words and communication. They are there for a reason and while they are in place and respected all is well.

      -Eve

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    6. Well said. Say he gains weight during the month and I tell him we are going to get him spanked by John. If he sits me down and says, "Listen, I know I said I would, but I don't want to go through with it anymore." I of course will go along with that.

      I know when he's serious and when he's bratting. Bratting would be "No! Please! Please don't take me for a spanking from John! Please!" Then I would "force him".

      If I mix up his signals (which I highly doubt) he can just say the word "Red" and then there is no confusion and we won't go through a silly play of me trying to "force him" when he's not about to.

      All that having been said. He DID agree to the spanking from John if he gains in any one month period, and I can't imagine him reneging on a deal like that regardless of the embarrassment level...

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    7. The post says you "really put your foot down" and David "reluctantly agreed". That's pretty weak as "comsent" goes. I would be concerned that he felt forced and is uncomfortable with it.

      You obviously aren't.

      Unless you're into guys, that is serious humiliation and degradation, the kind that you don't forget

      But then again; I just relied on what you said. He's your husband. If the weight loss is worth some emotional damage, enjoy!!

      James

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    8. Before the guys who seem to have some deeper issue they are not addressing jump in, there is a difference between sexy fun embarrassment and I'm not comfortable with with embarrassment, and David and Julie can tell them apart

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    9. If David's reluctant agreement indicates that he considers being spanked by a man "sexy fun embarrassment," somebody tell me how they define "reluctant."

      I have no deeper issue than being strongly opposed to being spanked by a man. It's pretty simple. If David likes it, more power to him. The actual words in the post indicate he does not. What part of the post indicates that he considers it "sexy embarrassment"?

      James

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    10. It's all in good fun, james. You persist in misinterpreting the very words I myself write and trying to scold me for them. Yes, this is boundary pushing, for sure. But I have no concerns for david's mental health whatsoever. He's one of the strongest people mentally that I know. If he says no he means it, if he doesn't say no then he is willing.

      I think I'll end this thread now.

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    11. It's really just a shitty thing to do to him even if he "consents."

      Every time someone challenges you, you shut it down. Some tough domme you are.

      How did I misinterpret your words? Care to explain?

      Probably not.

      James

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    12. So I noticed that this thread is under threat of closure so hopefully I can squeeze my two cents worth in before that happens.

      I can certainly understand the view point of James and the other commenters to this thread that feel that david’s participation is being forced, manipulated and coerced. The examples given such as reluctant agreement , and putting my foot down, would certainly lead someone to think that way. Even the comment “I have no concerns for david's mental health whatsoever.” could be taken as uncaring towards his feelings on the subject. I know that it is not meant in that context and rather that he would not be scarred by such an encounter.

      Having read the posts in this blog from the inception, and in particular the post “Switching the Narrative” which was a nice view of your relationship together, I feel that nothing could be further from the truth. I think that if david truly did not want to participate in any type of spanking from John, or any other male for that matter, it would have been made a crystal clear emphatic NO!!, and no amount of foot putting downing, from anyone, would have changed that.

      In my opinion the fact that he “reluctantly agreed” is an indication, to me, that he has altered his hard limit on this subject and has now opened the door to that possibility. I won’t pretend to know what he is thinking but perhaps it is because after several play times with Tracy by both him and yourself, and in your case with John too, he is becoming more comfortable with the players and therefore more acceptable to altering his hard limit. I also think that all the reluctant agreeing, and “putting my foot down” type of prodding, is what maybe gives him his “tummy churning excitement” towards the whole scene.

      Anyway, that’s my two cents, sorry for the rather long ramble…

      Back over to you Julie!! ;-)

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    13. I thought this thread had been closed?

      While I agree that consent should be absolute before any action is done, why is involving James and David a "shitty" thing? He encouraged her to get involved with Tracy and John and tell him about it. He seems turn on by it. Also turned on by spanking, semi-public humiliation, and "forced" (as in roleplaying being forced) cross dressing and feminisation. If the idea of involving John is an evolution of their kink and they are all up for it, what's wrong with that?

      -Eve

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    14. Below Julie says that David has always resisted all attempts to involve another man. In view of that position, I think even bringing it up to him is shitty, much more so of course if she "put her foot down" and he only "reliuctantly agreed."

      Those words could admittedly have various meanings, but to me they suggest he's being pushed into something he really does not want even if he allows it to be done to him.

      I think there's an obligation to ensure he does not feel pressured to do something his previous statements suggest he may later regret.

      When someone indicates they have a limit, I don't think you "take another run at it" to see if you can get them to cave in.

      Again, if he's truly good with it, have at it. Some guys might feel pressured not to back out and experience lasting shame and humiliation if the act is carried out. I think a wife should be concerned about that more than her own thrills.

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    15. I had meant to close the thread, as I think james had been given his voice and it just starts getting circular after a while, but then I goofed and accidentally published his, and then felt I should publish the responses and add a new thought.

      Having another man involved is exciting specifically for me. I feel I have bent over backwards accommodating david's kink. I think he can do this for me, and should do this for me. Of course it is his prerogative to give a hard no. But it wouldn't be worth anything to me unless he consents to do it for me. He WILL be reluctant, no doubt. But what's the big deal, anyways. He should get over his homophobia. I got over the weirdness of spanking my husband and came to like it. Perhaps he'll enjoy having a man spank him in front of two women? It's not a stretch to imagine so. Many of you guys are turned on by that. How will he know unless he keeps an open mind and tries it. If he hates it, then we won't do it again. He will definitely NOT be "scarred" by it, oh my goodness.

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    16. Spanking your husband and asking him to let another man do it to him aren't even remotely comparable.

      Whatever. Be as awful as you want. If it goes South, just remember you pushed him into it.

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  11. Ms. Julie,

    I am down 20 pounds in the last two months. Does tha tearn a "good boy" something?

    :)

    Mitch

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    1. It sure does! A spanking across my lap. Both of us nude. Lots of slippery oil on my thighs and your cock. Spanked and wiggling until you make a mess!

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    2. Dear Julie, You could be on to a great weight lost program. Where do I sign up?

      John

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    3. Hello Ms Julie. Maybe it’s just me but this scenario you describe is the hottest fantasy imaginable to a subby guy like myself. Of course this would only be something that one would expect as a reward and no way would be expected in the event of a punishment spanking. The oiled thighs pushes me to the brink :-) :-) !!
      Bob Bell

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    4. Bad boys who like spankings should not be deprived when they have been good. Just nice stingy little spankings with lots of cock rubbing!

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    5. OMG. I have been offline for a few days, and missed this until now. I am on my way! When and where? :) I am excited just reading and writing this! Oh, what to do now. hmmmmmm .....

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    6. Oh, sorry mitch. That was a limited time offer!
      ;-)

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  12. I actually got a bit aroused by this post...and its planting some new ideas in my mind. Well done. :)

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    1. Wow! That's great. Interested to see what will come of it! Have you a man in your life who needs some help with his self-discipline as well?

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  13. If David is turned on by humiliation, then is a spanking from John really going be a deterrent? I wouldn't be surprised to see some weight gain!

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    1. He's always resisted all attempts to involve another man. This is the first time he's ever agreed to even the possibility, and there is only a remote chance, so I think it will be a step up he'd rather avoid.

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    2. Well… There is a good chance that he could end up over John’s lap at some point in time anyway.

      He could find himself in a catch 22 type situation where he ends up that way by trying not to end up that way.

      I’m no expert by any means, but if david follows a vigorous work out regime he may well lose the body fat weight but could end up with replacing it by more dense muscle weight. He will look toned and fit but could actual gain weight in doing so.

      Allowing you to fulfill your dream of seeing david over a man’s lap getting his panty less tushy smacked.
      Yes/No? ;-))

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    3. No, no. We are going after fat loss, NOT weight loss! No cheating from me.

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    4. Sorry! I was not implying any sort of cheating.

      However, that’s my point, if the sole goal is “fat loss” than weight scale measurements will not be an accurate indicator. Other forms of measurement would need to be done as well such BMI, waist measurement, etc. ;-))

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    5. We use weight as a guide, but we measure his fat percentage with the Internet scale as well. I'll keep him exercising and eating well while he loses to minimize any weight loss from muscle.

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    6. Well as I have already said weight loss, “fat loss”, weight gain, “fat gain” cannot be used interchangeably or accurately measured by a weigh scale or even an internet scale fat loss needs to be physically measured or visually measured.

      While I would NEVER imply cheating let’s face it things are not skewed in david's favour! “No, target weight is designed to be hard for him to achieve. A stretch goal.” “if there is weight gain across any given month”. This should be if there is “Fat Gain” across any given month.

      So after reading all the comments in this post, so far, I’ll go back to the beginning of this thread where I said david will likely find himself, at some point, over John’s knee getting his ass smacked unless he pulls a code “Red”. ;-)) ;-))

      P.S: I believe someone still has a penance to perform? “juliesp28 December 2016 at 06:12
      Yes, provocatively (and quite incorrectly) broad.
      Penance? In case you thought I forgot! ;-)

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    7. Oh... Just checked back. You're right. But come on! Haven't I had enough penance since then?????

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    8. Well at this conjecture in time I wouldn’t know!

      It would depend on what you are referring to? If the reference is in regard to ANY punishment you have received at the hands of ANYONE else than I would be inclined to say no! We’ve already had the discussion that “punishment” is not the same as “penance”.

      Having said that we also had, during that same exchange, the discussion that “penance” is self-imposed. So, it is really up to you whether you do one or not …

      I just wanted to stir the pot a little by the reminder. LOL ;-)

      Although, it was a very broad insulting statement just the same. ;-) ;-))

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    9. Given I've gotten myself spanked and fucked multiple times since then, I think we'll take the penance as "duly done"!

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    10. Well one of us will take the penance as “duly done” the other will take it as reneging on the offer.

      Seeing as how all that alleged spanking and fucking was received without any remembrance of the offending comment or proffered penance, until recently reminded, then all that alleged spanking and fucking is irrelevant as you would have received it anyway for whatever other reason it was given. That would be like not paying an outstanding parking ticket because well you already paid a whole bunch of them so that should count.

      Anyway I have no desire to get into a “circular conversation” that will brings us right back to the fact that there is no intention, and probably never was one, to do any penance.

      The subject is considered closed!

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    11. I did have an intention when I wrote it, but have since changed my mind, mostly due to a certain pushy commenter.

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    12. Ya...You're right! Looking back maybe a certain commenter was a little too pushy!! ;-))

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  14. Wish I had Your Like(not to be found) similarly motivate my weght loss, I find the high from exercise such as running fuels my submissive desires and speeds up circulation but a long period of fasting or semi-starving lowers it and oleads to cramps when i staert eating properly. So judicious balance seems best bet for David.
    I know you have his best interests at heart but think John's involvement in this should be kept as a bogey-man threat unless Tracy cab be persuaded that all men need discipline

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    1. Oh yes! Fat loss must be done slowly and in a healthy way to preserve a man's vigour!

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  15. Sounds like a lot of in this challenge. Maybe you should secretly switch out some ingredients in his coffee etc just too make sure he gains a pound or so on his daily weigh in. Just too make sure you don't lose and then you can go back to normal and have fun and arrange it so Tracy gets to pick out his bra and panties to wear

    Emily.

    PS. Wish I had a wife or gf who could give me this kind of motivation to get me out of the plus size sizes.

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    1. After david lost some weight, I would just bake some desserts and see if he can control himself. Gloria

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    2. Given his track record, I don't think I'd need to do anything. We'll just see if he can pull his socks up.

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    3. I wonder if slut Julie would make an appearance while david was being spanked to tears? After, would she kneel in front of John to suck his cock until he was ready to fuck; all the while david being strapped by Tracy? I think david would be humiliated to tears. Gloria

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  16. My wife shortly after our marriage layed down the law, I did some stupid things right after the marriage and so in a firm voice that did scare me, she took charge. The marriage is working great, I find myself feeling better about myself and others. The only thing I dread, but know best to do as told, is waiting in the bedroom for a well deserve spanking. The wait time varies but when she comes, I'm either already naked or she slowly pulls down my pants and underpants. The spanking really hurt, she means every spank. So for me that stern voice told me I best do as told.

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    1. How wonderful! Warms my heart reading about it.

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    2. It is wonderful, but at times after a spanking, a really hard one, she is smiling, as I rub and dance around. I ask why and she just states being a good wife.

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    3. I just wish I had found her first. A wife who takes charge, knows a husband is a naughty little boy at times and a spanking is needed are like finding a needle in a haystack.

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    4. Do you feel more women are spanking their husbands today, or do you feel more men wish to be spanked by their wives?

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    5. I think there are more women now than ever before, but the men who need it still outnumber the women willing to dish it out, regrettably.

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  17. If he gains weight, a spanking by John dressed in bra and panties. If he does not stick to his target weight loss the following month, maybe you should promise to make him give John a blow job. This way you will know whether he truly does not like to involve another man or just needs some incentive!

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    1. No, target weight is designed to be hard for him to achieve. A stretch goal. that gives me opportunity to punish him. The ultimate punishment only comes if he makes reverse progress!

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  18. My weight hasn't changed over the years -although it gets distributed in different ways. If (or 'when') J. reads your post, this might give her a reason for some extra spankings - although she always finds plenty of other 'reasons' to paddle, flog or strap my derrière (and will almost certainly do so over the weekend -as she unfailingly does!)

    L.

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    1. Well you have to be careful. Your weight might be the same but it might be fat replacing muscle as you age. No reason not to get on a good diet and exercise regime ASAP!

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  19. Did you know Mag be leaving the country?should had her give david one last otk spanking to remeber her by

    do you think Mag will alway remeber you and david and
    the spankins she got to give out? you think she will
    continue spankin in her life

    would hire you as my personal trainer so i can get
    the spankins i know going earn from you i know
    be strict painful too when over your lap

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    1. No, it came as a surprise. She wasn't even sure she was going until very last minute. I am sure we opened up her mind about giving and getting spankings!

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    2. well she will be missed i am sure David butt going miss her whipping and spankin he has memory last life time with her i can see her contiuning spankin in her life who know may become the spanker

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  20. Hi Julie

    When did you start acting dommy?
    I have a 14 years old neighbor who had access to my mobile phone and saw a few spanking pics i keep there (big mistake from me), she told me she could do it better than the ladies in the pics and said she could do it when her mom and my wife are out in the mall. Problem is she is under age and i am 35 and my wife knows nothing about my spanking interests that are only watching rather than actually doing it.

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    1. She's a child! Do not think about her in any way even remotely sexual. If you can't prevent your mind going there then don't be alone with her. Tell your wife that she has been flirting with you in a sexual manor that she may not be fully aware of but makes you highly uncomfortable. And remember she is a fucking child!

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    2. I was always a bit bossy as a kid. Didn't know it was "dommy" until much later.

      You need to tell your neighbor girl to find a boy her own age to spank, and keep your distance. Tell her to look you up when she's legal!

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    3. Interesting, boys must think they can get away with it, I know my neighbor fifteen year old many years ago with my fourteen year old daughter. Only this was a two way street. She told me, but as a mother knew more was not being told. My neighbor and I talked and we both agreed something needed to be done. We approach both, it took some doing, but the boy said she did things to encourage her, looking at my daughter she started to cry and said she did. Who do you want looking at my neighbor, she smiled, lets trade and both looked at us. Young lady my neighbor said to my daughter, come with me, she looked at me, I smiled wait till we get home and I then looked at the boy, counting to three young man and your pants and underpants better be down. At three his pants were down and I pulled him over my lap, pulled the underpants down and hearing my daughter spanking I proceeded to spank him soundly. I had him face the wall and when my daughter returned I told told her face the wall also. When I got ready to leave I heard my neighbor lady tell her son, to the bedroom young man and be ready, Yes Mommy she said, I looked at my daughter and with a firm spank to her sore bottom, you too will go to your bedroom and be ready and she quickly ran home.

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    4. Jake, wanting to be spanked so bad, knew this woman for along time, I could not control my desire, one evening visiting I stood up, drop my pants and underpants and said I want so bad to be giving a spanking, tears and a trembling voice. She stood up and hugged me and said we need to go to the bedroom and removing my pants and underpants we went. She pulled a chair out and sat down and over her lap I went. I control the spanking young man and I felt her hand and then the hairbrush and I danced around afterwards rubbing and crying. Is this what you wanted she said with a smile, yes I said but not so hard, I decided that. Now undress she said and I soon was naked, we are going back to the front room, I have show to watch and you have wall facing time young man. I finally got under control and her show ended, I stood before her, she sternly said, you ever do what you did tonight again, you will not be sitting for sometime, and oh I will be giving you a spanking when I decided, understand, Yes I said. Get dress and best get back to your place. I slept on my stomach that night and felt stress free, I did it, more than I thought, but I did it and found a woman who understood.

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    5. Original poster: If this is a legitimate post - Have you lost your fucking mind?

      She is a MINOR. How many MINUTES after do you think this twit would have posted whatever happened to Instagram for all her friends to see, a posting that would later get to the police who would then arrest you? Then you'd be publicly disgraced, fired from your job, and most likely a divorce would follow.

      Stay away from girls. And for Christ's sake you keep spanking photos on your phone? Seriously? Are you this stupid?

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  21. I can see this coming, David is going to get a grade A bottom blistering over Johns knee. I would encourage John to go until David agrees to get on his knees and either blow him to completion, or get him hard and bend over for a real mans cock banged into him as long and hard as possible. At that point, he truly has surrendered to your will Jules.

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  22. My wife would like your idea of using punishment, exercise and monitoring progress for weight loss. As a matter of fact we just bought a bench for doing sit-ups and for punishment that we can hide in plain sight. I will show her this blog posting Julie.

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    1. Yes, but if done properly, you might not like it!

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    2. She does it properly. I do not like it. Her Spensor Paddle is the worst.

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    3. Music to my ears: SLAP!!! Wahhhhh!!!

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    4. You can see just how much I like it on our Blog.

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  23. Julie
    You are amazing sexy and beautiful. Beyond erotic and just fascinating. However to me you are the sexiest and most awesome when you deal out traditional over your lap spankingxvand brushings. Simply amazing.
    Thank you
    Always
    Ron

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  24. Wow, Julie, you are really exploring new territory. A three some with Tracy and your first extra marital romp, albeit with David's knowledge! What is next? Are you plotting more adventures like getting David dressed in bra and panty and spanked to tears by John? Do you intend to stop there or test David boundaries in sucking off John or even being taken by John like a little girl? Somehow I fell that you just create a scenario and then let it play out allowing both you and David to test your boundaries. I am also convinced that in your heart you know you can push David to participate in stuff he would never have normally agreed or even imagined. David is really lucky to have someone like you to help him experience magic.love. Tracy

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    1. I really, really think my david needs a good old-fashioned sperming up his rectum!

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    2. Oh my, Ms. Julie! What wicked thoughts in that beautiful deviant mind of yours. And I imagine that what we see is just a small glimpse!
      vic

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    3. Just make sure it is done appropriately. I could see him sucking John till he is rock hard, then submissively bending over the arm of the couch. John could then give his sissy ass a good sizzling with a belt, grab his hips and fuck him hard and deep as long as possible. John should definitely come deep in his ass, and david should the get back on his knees, lick Johns balls and clean his cock in his mouth. All the while, you and Tracy should be watching the show, clapping and laughing.

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    4. Yes! What I love about using a man's holes like this is that he doesn't even need to be in to it. He just needs to suck and bend over.

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    5. Hee hee!! "I really, really think my david needs a good old-fashioned sperming up his rectum!" :)

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  25. Your really really could apply to you too Julie, deeper and deeper.......

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    1. What? A sperming up my delightful little derriere???

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    2. very delightful and not little just perfect...but glad to see from another reply you could reluctantly agree.....(:

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    3. Ohhhhh! But I WANT a little derriere soooo much!

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  26. Well… that could be the Trophy for David if he should reach his goal weight etc.

    He takes you over his knee for a good ass smacking and then bends you over the couch, red assed, for bum sex.

    This would of course all transpire with John and Tracy as your audience!! ;-)

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    1. I could reluctantly agree to that...

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  27. Not all the time when it comes to a spanking, but on rare occasions as I stand before her, erection, she will caress it, suck on it, play with my balls, just when I'm about to cum she stops and I stand there hurting, throbbing and then she will say your turn and I must lay on my back on the towel in the front room and masturbate for her. She enjoys when I come how it lands on me. She cleans me off and the spanking that follows really hurts. Woman I've learned know the true meaning and reason for a spanking, and as I dance around the room afterwards, rubbing, she smiles and points to the wall.

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    1. Lovely. The only thing I would add is the requirement that you swallow your ejaculate. Other than that, amazing!

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  28. I feel that by having david give up his back door to John you would be doing a nice thing for him (david). It would give him the chance to experience and enjoy that amazing feeling of John's huge load pumping in.

    vic

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    1. I totally agree. A nice warm cock is so much nicer that a silicone dildo, but essentially the same physical act, AND he gets the pleasure of the sperming.

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  29. Amazing the interest in this post . Is it that women like to see men on men action as much as we like to see girl on girl ? Or is it the cuckhold factor? Personally i dont think i could do it from either side davids or johns but i find it intriguing.

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    1. I can't speak for all women, but i certainly enjoy the gay scenes in movies, and I know other women who do as well.

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  30. But is John up for man on (cross-dressed) man action?

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    1. Yup! At least the spanking part anyways. Not sure about the rest.

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  31. This is perfect, just what i need! My Wife got me a sports bra for Valentine's Day... maybe i need to ask her to put me on the plan! ~sara

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  32. Despite his protests I bet David secretly wants to at least try sucking a real man's cock. And if this escapade doesn't end with him taking John at least in his mouth it will be a shock.

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  33. No kidding, this is what i need. And, i often even run 5 miles a day... it's just this winter weight gain. You comparing hubby to your recent tight lover must have brought things to the forefront, eh? i admit to being afraid to tell my Wife about the punishments, though (She of course knows about my panties and bras,and spankings are hardly unheard of!)... Thank You for the inspiration! ~sara

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