tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post3115984399083992709..comments2024-03-28T05:37:00.211-04:00Comments on Strict Julie Spanked!: Premie Training Timejuliesphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-3411995318379640372012-05-05T07:41:40.539-04:002012-05-05T07:41:40.539-04:00The word "compensation" implies I am mis...The word "compensation" implies I am missing out on something. At this stage in my life I actually don't desire a "real man" in the bedroom. I am definitely taking my pleasure. While his penis is not quite up to par, his tongue is very talented indeed.<br /><br />And yes, I do enjoy treating david as my wife. In the bedroom and outside of it. In the bedroom I show him what a dominating tool a penis that stays hard for a long time actually is, much to his bumhole's discomfort! Ha Ha! Outside of the bedroom he is expected to obey, and gets punished if he rebels, which includes feminine lingerie for him, corner time, childish spankings across my knee, and the strap for more serious offences.<br /><br />You say you rebel at the old-fashioned wife role. I would enjoy nothing more than taming such rebellion in a naughty husband. And if you were mine, antony, you would be kissing a lot more than just my feet! A particularly filthy part of my anatomy comes to mind...juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-40282402478508164112012-05-05T00:27:34.630-04:002012-05-05T00:27:34.630-04:00Hello Julie,
Following the logic of your argument...Hello Julie,<br /><br />Following the logic of your argument:<br /><br />1st of all, I don´t feel insulted at all and I agree with you in the facts that "a man who asks his wife to spank him is less of a man" and the same goes for premies as David and myself. I am an assumed premie..)-:<br /><br />I understand that you consider "the man" as the one who is in charge independently of his or her sex.<br /><br />I believe that within sex, and a relationship has a lot to do with a"power strugle" and within the assumed roles; what can a male do if he can use his penis properly? In a traditional relationship the female expects to be dominated by the male and satisfied sexually while being dominated(kind of compensation). And a strong penis is the tool..<br /><br />So, are you getting a kind of compensation for what you are not obtaining from the male in bed by dominating David? <br /><br />As I see, you are enjoying treating David as the stereotypical, old-fashioned, "woman". Am I wrong?<br /><br />In my personal case, though I am at the present moment an inadequate man I am working to overcome my premie problem. <br /><br />I insist to rebel to the old-fashioned "wife" role.<br /><br />I want also to tell you that you haven´t considered another reason of why a male can end as the "wife" in a relationship. That is the intelligence and talent needed to tame "the man"..<br /><br />I would also kiss your feet if I were in David´s position..<br /><br />AntonyAntonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02339527109192884216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-11919614712301987822012-05-02T00:55:44.024-04:002012-05-02T00:55:44.024-04:00Hello antony,
Thank you for well-thought-out comm...Hello antony,<br /><br />Thank you for well-thought-out comment, and for coming to visit me here!<br /><br />Of course a man who asks his wife to spank him is less of a man. I don't understand why some people argue against that point. It seems surprisingly obvious to me, and to you as well. But it's not an insult. It's a fact. A submissive woman is also "not a real man". Nobody would argue with that!<br /><br />The same logic applies to premies such as david and yourself. Obviously less of a man in bed. Again, not an insult, a fact. A premie can have many wonderful traits about them, as does my david, and I am sure yourself as well. Being a "real man" in bed is simply not one of them. No argument possible.<br /><br />Males like that can be safely treated as the stereotypical, old-fashioned, "woman" role. Dressed accordingly, submissive in bed, spanked for bad behaviour, and subject to kitchen, laundry, and housecleaning chores as their Wife commands. I mean, if we don;t get a real man in bed, at least we can get a real old-fashioned "wife" out of it!juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-16660823811474355712012-05-01T14:09:15.334-04:002012-05-01T14:09:15.334-04:00Hi Julie,
Congratulations for your blog.
I found...Hi Julie,<br />Congratulations for your blog. <br /><br />I found it rather recently, and it happened because of one of your recent posts: “David´s Premature Ejaculation Issue.<br />I read all your blog, and in a past entrie: “A Real Man” there is something else that you added today in the first training session that I find interesting:<br /><br />“As I spanked I scolded him for being a bad boy. A bad premie. Not a real man at all. Not able to use his cock properly to please a woman. That's why you're being spanked like a little boy,”…. “A real man wouldn't let his wife spank him like this. A real man would throw his woman across his knee and spank the shit out of her” <br /><br />I am a “premie” myself too and I find it is an excellent approach the one you are using with David. In my case, with my past girlfriend we didn’t know how to address my issue and everything developed in the wrong way. She was so frustrated, and demanding at the same time, and I couldn’t satisfy her at all. At the end of these two years with her I was suffering of “Performance Anxiety” not being able to hold an erection.<br /><br />I agree with your definition of “a real man” and the consequences within the relationship of “handing the pants”: <br />In your post “A real man” you state “If his fondest desire is to be spanked, which I associate as a very unmanly thing, suitable for a little boy or a submissive girl, I'll treat him like a submissive girl in bed also.”…..<br />“He handed his pants over to me when he first asked me to spank him, so he does not get to wear them anymore.”…… “As for my pussy, as far as I'm concerned he's not allowed to claim that anymore.”<br /><br />Now that I see it, I would have happily handed them (the pants) in my past relationship. The point is that my former girlfriend didn’t want to accept them. Once, she made the point: If she spanked me, she would have lost the respect towards “the man”. My point is that Premature Ejaculators are not “real man” in bed (independent of the outside world context where I adjust to the definition of man). Somewhere in your blog appears the comparison with bedwetters. And the “first station” to overcome any problem, has to do with acceptance and facing it considering it can be very humiliating.<br /><br />Nowadays I am in this stage. I searched for help and I started some time ago with Tantric massages that have helped me a lot improving my performance. Breathing is the main key. It is a slow process though and I believe I am in the beginning. I am also working within the psychological consequences of my “premie problem”. I hope to be able to get something of the man inside me sometime in the future, or at least be able to satisfy my next girlfriend even if she holds the pants.<br />My idea for David (I recommend this one once a week) is to hire a Tantric Masseuse to go home (first time has to be a surprise for David). She should understand your context and at the same time teach David some breathing techniques. Something like Yoga will also be useful to help him Control. The part you will enjoy is that especially at the first session he won’t be able to control himself(they touch so nicely :-) so you will have the opportunity to punish him in front of a nice girl. About the punishments, in the first session I would consider that you “clean the mess” and diaper him as a baby in font of this nice girl. That will end killing the last remains of his “macho ego”.<br />Good luck Julie and thanks a lot for your commitment with your blog.<br />Best regards.<br />Antony.Antonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02339527109192884216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-198836749112503112012-04-30T23:41:13.697-04:002012-04-30T23:41:13.697-04:00Perhaps "P.E. Graduate. Class of 2012"
W...Perhaps "P.E. Graduate. Class of 2012"<br />Won't he have fun explaining how and why he took a "Physical Education" course.juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-72847944719673814432012-04-30T23:39:14.459-04:002012-04-30T23:39:14.459-04:00In your case I am sure that is true, marc, however...In your case I am sure that is true, marc, however with david's Internet masturbation I sincerely doubt it has anything at all to do with him learning better self-control!juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-67895758005912571702012-04-30T23:37:11.749-04:002012-04-30T23:37:11.749-04:00I like your thinking, john. He does spend an awful...I like your thinking, john. He does spend an awful lot of time looking at Internet porn, and that is no doubt a contributing cause. I think Sue should hear all about that activity while we are training him.<br /><br />I love our suggestion of how to broach it to him. I amy well arrange that! Thank you.juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-27252427855457328752012-04-30T23:32:50.833-04:002012-04-30T23:32:50.833-04:00Thank you for the suggestion, dave.Thank you for the suggestion, dave.juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-83489610611789391662012-04-30T23:31:56.672-04:002012-04-30T23:31:56.672-04:00I did a quick Google search and found you are corr...I did a quick Google search and found you are correct, however most of them are too obvious for my taste. I would like one that is more subtle, that could mean more than one thing. Do you know where any of those may be lurking?juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-48847702020778699862012-04-30T23:23:24.681-04:002012-04-30T23:23:24.681-04:00In this case, it would be nice...In this case, it would be nice...juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-70568464127460440162012-04-30T14:03:37.390-04:002012-04-30T14:03:37.390-04:00This is a great scenario and will certainly add to...This is a great scenario and will certainly add to david's humiliation. My Wife has also used t-shirts with me. Sometimes i am required to wear one in public that has just "PW" on it. She also had a pink t-shirt and matching nylon panties made for me. They both say "pussy whipped" on them and She uses them to discipline me in the presence of Her girlfriends. If david is successful with this training (doubtful) he could be "rewarded" with a facesitting of a prescribed duration.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-30691090986280547012012-04-30T08:04:43.266-04:002012-04-30T08:04:43.266-04:00Plenty like that on line.Plenty like that on line.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-53024583558986696112012-04-29T19:22:25.701-04:002012-04-29T19:22:25.701-04:00"Premature ejaculation is usually due to a hi..."Premature ejaculation is usually due to a history of excessive masturbation – the need to be quiet and, unfortunately, quick –"<br /><br />Sorry but I must respectfully disagree. While I have never been quick on the trigger frequent masturbation as a teenager actually helped me to learn how to extend the experience. I was able to practice and experiment with ways to last longer and longer. The key was just being patient and stopping before the big event...wait...wait...then start up again until I could feel it welling up again...stop...wait...start again. Finally I would allow myself to experience the reward. KABOOM! A huge explosive orgasm would follow. It was well worth the extra "work" - instead of feeling great while stroking for a few minutes, I felt great while stroking for a lot longer - and the orgasms were far more intense. It was a great trade-off. But it was masturbation that helped me to learn how to control my dick instead of letting my dick control me. My .02 worth.<br /><br />When it comes to intercourse, I love being inside my wife so much why would I want to rush to the finish line? The longer it takes the better (up to a point, anyway - LOL). It's too special.<br /><br />I feel badly for men with this problem. No doubt Julie will have LOTS of fun training him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-53286812002524726302012-04-29T14:42:24.432-04:002012-04-29T14:42:24.432-04:00I see where you are going with this. At least in ...I see where you are going with this. At least in this case it is a side-effect that should prove beneficial to both of you. Sometimes "unintended consequences" can be a good thing!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-43663012934933964942012-04-29T12:34:27.658-04:002012-04-29T12:34:27.658-04:00You’re clearly a very attractive and immensely exc...You’re clearly a very attractive and immensely exciting woman, but that’s still no reason why you should tolerate behavior like this. Premature ejaculation is usually due to a history of excessive masturbation – the need to be quiet and, unfortunately, quick – but often subsides in marriage, assuming that the frequent and secret masturbation stops. It’s about as acceptable as bed-wetting and almost equally immature. Along with your supervised training, you might also witness his own masturbatory techniques (including any porn or other stimulus used) to see if it gives you any clues to its continued causes, if you don’t already. No doubt someone who can come so quickly can provide self-satisfaction the instant you blink!<br /><br />If you have access to a hypnotherapist, they might be able to help, even to the point that he would instantly but only get hard on one command and ejaculate on a second. Much more convenient, though it sounds like it only takes a whispered threat even now.<br /><br />Something you may want to consider is that when he’s not saying his times-tables, he is most likely mentally pursuing a “go-to” fantasy or fetish. It may be a feature you don’t possess (shaved, ridiculously abundant, or red pubic hair, six toes, or beachball-sized breasts) or activities he hasn’t revealed (like, previously, being whipped on his anus, or age play, sodomized with a hairbrush handle, etc.) or further witnesses you haven’t considered (that girl from that one TV show). He may feel that revealing these would hurt your feelings in addition to meriting the most severe of punishments (though your tawsings sound pretty severe already). Perhaps punishing him first – or half – and then letting him reveal something would help, if you were able to reassure him – truthfully – about your feelings being able to stand it. Still, he’s pursuing his own pleasure in his head while sacrificing your own, so there’s no reason to hold back. Genital “play” may be a more suitable approach, under the circumstances.<br /><br />Also, if you want an alternative to clamping the base of his cock, pushing his scrotum back between his legs is frequently more effective. Sounds like it might be worth a try.<br /><br />As far as Sue, you are way beyond naughty – you are deliciously and terrifyingly evil! You really must make david take you out to dinner where you can broach your proposition with a glass or two of wine! Expressing concern about helping his progress along (especially since he “can’t” ejaculate in front of her) while secretly being the uber-bitch!John S MacLeodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18394472750791066243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-25863970383723880862012-04-29T12:15:47.070-04:002012-04-29T12:15:47.070-04:00Julie,
Having gone through the same thing David i...Julie,<br /><br />Having gone through the same thing David is going through I can sympathize with him. One big help for was, many years ago a very experienced lady told me that 90% of my sex organ was in my head, and that if I forced my brain to think of other things while having sex I could last longer. It was very difficult, but it worked, after a lot of practice. I have raced cars for many years, so I would force my brain to think of what the race car needed as we were having sex, then when things got really hot I would return my thinking to present happenings.<br /><br />HUGS,<br />Daveotk4us2https://www.blogger.com/profile/15359939107012468440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-49877925448985712452012-04-29T11:18:02.120-04:002012-04-29T11:18:02.120-04:00Well, now that you mention it....
Yes.
Not that ...Well, now that you mention it....<br /><br />Yes.<br /><br />Not that you're doing a bad job with your david...on the contrary. However, the presence of an Alpha Male might enhance things.<br /><br />And make you happier :)<br /><br />DavidA Tactile Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16123783486311318531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-47657776533272498772012-04-29T00:07:01.411-04:002012-04-29T00:07:01.411-04:00Embarrassing T-shirts - I like where this is going...Embarrassing T-shirts - I like where this is going! The one you suggest is a little too obvious for my taste, however. I was thinking just a slightly more version of those "She's the Boss" T-shirts. Maybe a "If she wears the pants in the family, where does that leave me????" or "I bend over for attractive women". Ha Ha Ha! I am thinking of getting Photoshop out and making up a few of these tees for a post. Thank you for the inspiration!juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-41772004095766712312012-04-29T00:02:36.648-04:002012-04-29T00:02:36.648-04:00Are you volunteering, David?Are you volunteering, David?juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-68475977654806127402012-04-29T00:01:57.176-04:002012-04-29T00:01:57.176-04:00I think Sue will go along. As far as I recall she ...I think Sue will go along. As far as I recall she never explicitly said no ejaculation, just no sex, and if he does ejaculate during training, it will be against our strictest instructions and he will suffer for it. Besides, I think it is the sort of thing she will enjoy. She has so far enjoyed it every time I up the humiliation factor on david.<br /><br />But you are wrong on one point, marc. While I might help him with his problem as a side-effect, my main purpose is to give him a balls deep mind fucking!juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-16331569101204599652012-04-28T23:55:37.648-04:002012-04-28T23:55:37.648-04:00Yes, as I mentioned before, it is fun for me that ...Yes, as I mentioned before, it is fun for me that I can make him cum whenever I want. I think I would prefer that, generally speaking. It's a rush that I control his ejaculation so completely.<br /><br />Ever since the patio cleaning I have not had him dressed girlie. For his premie training I am definitely going to want to have him completely nude, so not then. But next time I have him clean the bathrooms I'll definitely put him in lingerie. I like a sexy bitch cleaning.juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-21333601221953097212012-04-28T20:58:54.071-04:002012-04-28T20:58:54.071-04:00I was going to recommend that you tell David to go...I was going to recommend that you tell David to go to a tshirt shop and have them make one that reads "I'm a selfish premature ejactulator". Then when he fails to satisfy you can send him to the store in it. But you may have ruled that out. Hope sue agrees to you plan. craigAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-68347543789725292322012-04-28T19:28:37.653-04:002012-04-28T19:28:37.653-04:00Julie,
Glad that you are still happy. There are ...Julie,<br /><br />Glad that you are still happy. There are however many men out there who don't have such problems. They might make you even happier ;)<br /><br />DavidA Tactile Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16123783486311318531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-57588498260372373182012-04-28T18:23:09.411-04:002012-04-28T18:23:09.411-04:00Julie,
You are such an awesome wife! David and I...Julie,<br /><br />You are such an awesome wife! David and I (Marc) are both blessed to have a wife who "gets him" and his needs. Truth be told, he needs help with this issue and you are helping him even though vanilla people would never understand your method of doing so. That's okay - vanilla people wouldn't understand how Cleo has helped me either. Just do what you need to do - or want to do!<br /><br />I want to think that Sue will play along, given the context of things. <br /><br />We just want you to know we are in your corner rooting for you and anxiously waiting for the next chapter. <br /><br />Marc and CleoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-86533133390372476782012-04-28T15:38:15.824-04:002012-04-28T15:38:15.824-04:00Funny, my wife is going the other route. I last mu...Funny, my wife is going the other route. I last much longer than she and she said if she could figure out how, would love for me to cum right when i enter her or with only a stroke or two. I told her if it could actually be done, my tool would be of little use, and all i got was a smile.<br />How often do you have David wearing his girlie clothes? My wife has also requested i wear panties to bed everynight, without being told to. <br /><br />Submissive HusbandAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com