tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post4083267093936141264..comments2024-03-28T05:37:00.211-04:00Comments on Strict Julie Spanked!: A Real Manjuliesphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-17529041002586113072016-01-25T03:18:44.571-05:002016-01-25T03:18:44.571-05:00Ms Julie:
I am a engaged male that has a dom...Ms Julie: <br /> I am a engaged male that has a dominate fiancée that forced me to wear panties 24/7. She says that this is a constant reminder of my place in the relationship. She wears the pants, and I wear the panties and am the sissy bitch. She burned all of my boxers. I want to ask for your opinion. <br /> Do you believe that a panty wearing sissy can regain his manhood if he buys boxers and rebels, or do you believe that it is impossible? ForcedIntoPantieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07918497920925557822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-14678938229227905622015-07-09T00:01:07.881-04:002015-07-09T00:01:07.881-04:00A trip down memory lane!A trip down memory lane!juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-72405039376617627082015-07-07T11:35:27.604-04:002015-07-07T11:35:27.604-04:00Most Honorable Strict Julie:
I have decided to re...Most Honorable Strict Julie:<br /><br />I have decided to reread all your posts - since you are the best writer of female dominance on the internet.<br /><br />This post sums up very well the separation between two worlds - one in which couples find incredible sexual satisfaction in a dominant-submissive relationship and one that involves the rest of our lives.<br /><br />I'm still in 2011, and looking forward to rereading all your posts.<br /><br />Best,<br /><br />-RoscoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-160872277820532352013-08-16T08:53:06.231-04:002013-08-16T08:53:06.231-04:00None of the above. I love it that's he's n...None of the above. I love it that's he's not a "real man" when I tell him not to be. I continue to have the utmost respect for him and his choices.juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-17445095295125595232013-08-13T16:00:19.989-04:002013-08-13T16:00:19.989-04:00 So if he is less of a man in your eyes do you lo... So if he is less of a man in your eyes do you love him less? Like love mixed with contempt? Or perhaps like loving a faithful dog which wants to be beaten for attention?<br /><br />StrelnikovAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-18635839751088515682012-02-22T00:50:52.850-05:002012-02-22T00:50:52.850-05:00Hello E,
To each their own, I suppose, but I stan...Hello E,<br /><br />To each their own, I suppose, but I stand by my blog sentiments. In my eyes he is definitely less of a man for wanting to be spanked by his wife (and put into bra and panties, and humiliated in front of other women, and so on ...). I'm not sure if he feels any less the man, but how is that relevant to my feelings about him? It's very cause and effect for me.<br /><br />In fact, if any man came up to me and asked me to put him over my knee and give him a spanking, he would definitely be less of a man in my eyes. I wouldn't quite buy it if he said "oh, no, it's not like that, I really am a rough and tough dude, I just enjoy the massaging sensation of your hairbrush striking my ass. Purely coincidental that the massaging position I favour is across your knee like a naughty child"<br /><br />Sorry...juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-4483691767281599822012-02-20T18:59:55.820-05:002012-02-20T18:59:55.820-05:00Sorry I am late to this posting as I just found yo...Sorry I am late to this posting as I just found your blog. Normally I would read through to the current posting before offering a comment, but at the risk of this comment not being seen by now, I do want to say that I reject the inference that wanting to be spanked necessarily infers one is submissive. It is possible to have the “kink” desire to be spanked and to spank without it implying there is a “D/s relationship” in play. Who knows why a person “gets off” on the pain (whatever the pain threshold involved)? It does NOT imply anything about one’s “masculinity” or “femininity” - that is a separate issue even if there is sometimes a “correlation” between the two. Your statement that david gave up his standing to be a man in the bedroom when he wanted to be spanked is not valid in my opinion. That is a separate choice he may have made but please be accurate in the assessment of cause and effect. Thanks – I really do love your blog, just wanted to clear up that little bit that is important to me!<br /><br />-E.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-72952651471224490072011-11-20T14:33:18.964-05:002011-11-20T14:33:18.964-05:00Thank you Clarence,
I am very new to this and hav...Thank you Clarence,<br /><br />I am very new to this and have been getting A LOT of information from the web. I have not come across the site you mention, however, and shall check it out.juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-6862461924199357502011-11-20T13:24:03.466-05:002011-11-20T13:24:03.466-05:00Ms. Julie:
Yes, much more balanced now. I always h...Ms. Julie:<br />Yes, much more balanced now. I always hate seeing unbalanced relationships ( I don't mean occasionally, I mean as a matter of day to day living) because that almost always means problems are brewing. No one should expect sex at demand, at least without negotiating that first, and the same applies to so many other things in the BDSM lifestyle. I think you are on the right path, but you are (from your descriptions on this blog) a bit of a beginner at this stuff so I recommend the following blog:<br /><br />http://clarissethorn.com/blog/2011/11/12/bdsm-roles-topping-from-the-bottom-and-service-top/<br /><br />No, I don't get anything for asking you to go there, and no it's not a pay site. But I think it might help you both going forward. Google Clarisse Thorn if you'd like. :)<br /><br />A hug,<br />ClarenceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-8658924875440501022011-11-20T11:12:46.524-05:002011-11-20T11:12:46.524-05:00Clarence,
It was too one-sided before, as he alwa...Clarence,<br /><br />It was too one-sided before, as he always wanted sex, and sometimes I was not in the mood. Fine, as you say, to put up with a bit of that, but not when it's so one-sided in the bedroom.<br /><br />Now that I've taken charge, it's not one-sided anymore.<br /><br />He wants to be spanked, so I'll spank him even if I were to not find myself in the mood for it.<br /><br />On the other hand, if I feel like putting him through his paces, then I won't care if he's not in the mood. He will still have to bend over and put his pretty ass up for my strap-on, whether he wants it or not.<br /><br />As for my pussy, as far as I'm concerned he's not allowed to claim that anymore. Little boys who allow themselves to be forced into panties and get their bare bums spanked by their wives do not get that priviledge, period.<br /><br />Much more balanced now.juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-4789188939244930752011-11-20T10:03:06.881-05:002011-11-20T10:03:06.881-05:00Ms Julie:
The "wifely vows" thing. It so...Ms Julie:<br />The "wifely vows" thing. It sounded like now suddenly, the marriage was going to be all about your wants and needs. A marriage being a partnership, yes there are times you do things for it or for your partner even if you aren't in the mood. There's nothing wrong with placing a higher value on your love for your partner or a harmonious marriage than a momentary desire.<br /><br />But it's obvious from your earlier and later posts that you still love and respect him and y ou do realize he's made some sacrifices of his own over the years and that you do have him in mind and not just yourself. You've discovered a new equilibrium in your relationship and you both seem happier with it.<br /><br />ClarenceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-1735605002544034852011-11-19T14:54:15.085-05:002011-11-19T14:54:15.085-05:00Miss Julie- thank you for your reply and thoughts....Miss Julie- thank you for your reply and thoughts. I have been trying to improve here by doing more cleaning and laundry, etc. But I haven't thought about the 'measurement stick' aspect...thanks. May have to suggest that to Her when the time is right. :) While I get maintenance spankings, that might help me to improve things for both of us. Ooh, stopping the punishments is a severe punishment, LOL! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-84732320536082013492011-11-14T15:14:51.364-05:002011-11-14T15:14:51.364-05:00Instead of waiting for her to initiate (life does ...Instead of waiting for her to initiate (life does tend to get in the way), perhaps there is something you want to improve about yourself that can be easily measured, for example, time spent doing something, or cleaning chores, or fitness level. You can agree with your wife that she will punish you on a weekly basis if you fall short, but if you do nothing at all towards your goals, the punishments will stop?juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-3114628556809834942011-11-13T15:55:31.409-05:002011-11-13T15:55:31.409-05:00Hmmm, well I suppose it's true. When I told my...Hmmm, well I suppose it's true. When I told my Wife, I've given up some control. I now wait for her to initiate, and try to be good to get her to do so. <br /><br />About the jerking off request.. one of the most humiliating things is when I did this, and after a bit she (already pleasured) got "bored," and just walked out of the room, leaving me there stroking! <br /><br />The panties aren't that bad. But I prefer nylon to cotton! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-25616945933130371262011-11-13T04:27:09.031-05:002011-11-13T04:27:09.031-05:00Ken said:
It appears that you have the male of the...Ken said:<br />It appears that you have the male of the species figured out.<br /><br />Well, that's not too difficult, Ken!juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-26772393694822485192011-11-13T04:25:40.924-05:002011-11-13T04:25:40.924-05:00Clarence said:
I was about all set to tear int...Clarence said:<br /> I was about all set to tear into you<br /> for selfishness, ...<br /><br />Hi Clarence, I appreciate that you read more and you changed your mind about me, but I'm curious, what in the original post made you think I was selfish?juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-65356390958588783332011-11-12T19:23:20.866-05:002011-11-12T19:23:20.866-05:00Ms. Julie-
It appears that you have the male of th...Ms. Julie-<br />It appears that you have the male of the species figured out. Maybe a figured out a little too well!!<br /><br />Keep up the good work, Ma'am!<br /><br />Kenspankedbywifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09493117924420394918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-55196841946854659922011-11-12T16:34:53.627-05:002011-11-12T16:34:53.627-05:00Just wanted to say we enjoy your blog, and I appre...Just wanted to say we enjoy your blog, and I appreciate your following me on mine.<br /><br /> Nice to see a stern Woman posting and letting her feelings be known.<br /><br /> Good Luck and I hope you're posting for a long time.<br /><br /> JamesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831327453963872480.post-60702031078438688502011-11-12T12:07:17.017-05:002011-11-12T12:07:17.017-05:00I was about all set to tear into you for selfishne...I was about all set to tear into you for selfishness, but then I read your earlier entries and they put things in perspective.<br /><br />I hope you both continue to have fun :)<br /><br />ClarenceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com