Sunday, December 25

A Wooden Spoon from my Sister

As I related in my earlier blog post, Exposed to my Sister, I spilled the beans to my sister Susan, and hoped that she might be interested in some more active participation. That was about a week ago, and I've heard nothing since. Until last night that is. Turns out Susan has just been playing coy and was planning a Christmas surprise for david and I all along. My sister is great.

Christmas Eve went as planned, with about a dozen guests over at my place. We opened gifts in the living room around the tree after dinner. It's all very organised, with little elves handing out gifts one at a time, and then everybody getting up and kissing the gift giver, and on to the next gift, and so on. I played head elf.

When it came to david's first turn, I got one of the kids to hand him his gift from me to open: his new apron (see my Christmas Eve Aproning post for that). I made him put it on, and then in front of the whole family I thanked him for all the help with the housework. I told him I loved him and gave him a big kiss. He endured a little choice teasing as a result, mainly from my younger sister and brother. Younger sister asked "does he do windows?"  Younger brother looked to the side at his girlfriend and said "whi-ipped" in a stage whisper, and she suppressed a laugh. Sue said "well I think it's sweet." I thought I might have seen a bit of a blush there on david!

A few more gifts were exchanged, and when it was david's turn again he opened his gift from Sue. It was a set of wooden spoons! Nobody else thought anything of it, except maybe that it was strange that david, who never cooks, gets a set of cooking utensils. Sue said "Julie can show you how those should be used. Or, if you like, I can come over and show you also."

Before david had a chance to react, I quickly jumped in with "go kiss Susan, david, for the nice gift" (the same thing we had been telling the children all night. Ha Ha!). david went over and Sue turned her cheek to him, and david planted a big kiss on her cheek, and definitely did blush!

Unfortunately, the evening was over before we could do anything with those spoons (Sue had to drive Mom and Dad home - drats!). I did get her alone a bit, and chided her for being so evil. She laughed and said, "I know what you wanted when you told me, and I'd be happy to lend a hand anytime. Just say the word." OMG. Does Sue know me, or what???

Did I mention that my sister is great!

By coincidence, I was looking at updates from some of the other blogs, and Andy had posted the below on his Merry Christmas post. The moment I saw it, it reminded me of david receiving those wooden spoons from Sue. It was like him being publicly outed in front of the whole family, but with only him, Sue, and me knowing! I imagine he felt like I had dressed him up and sent him out there to open up his gift from Sue, just like in the drawing. I altered the drawing a tad to fit the sit better (no disrespect to the artist!).

david receiving his gift from my big sister Sue in front of my whole family

68 comments:

  1. Your husband in the luckiest man in the world!!!

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  2. I hate to say "I told you so" butt, I think david's life is about to change, Lucky Guy!!

    Merry Christmas to you both.

    james

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  3. Julie,

    What a great post. Poor david must have turned beet red, knowing what the two of you were thinking and having everyone else watching!

    Can't wait for further developments.

    I still think it would be fun to have david develop an e-journal to send to you daily. It could give you great insight to what is most effective. And knowing what is exciting embarrassing for him.

    And you can use the idea of your younger sister being a potential witness to tease him now!

    Ken2

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  4. Sounds like a happy holiday. I know from experience that those wooden spoons can do a lot more than stir. David's rear will be familiar with the many uses I am sure.

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  5. Ken2: I agree. When I saw that drawing, I immediately recognized david as the stockinged girl in it. But it really is no way about Nancy. She's a real piece of work, and has no ability whatsoever to be discrete.

    Dana: thanks for commenting. Sounds like your butt has been beat with a wooden spoon? Do tell. Details, please!

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  6. WOW, seems a dangerous line. In front of the family, and seems more and more would be outed and some point, someone will catch on or inquire. But, what a time!!!

    Submissive Husband

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  7. Hi SuHu: not really so dangerous as it seems. I trust Sue a lot, and can trust her not to say anything. The rest of the family already knows who's in charge in my household (and was even before his first spanking). I make more money than him, I handle all the finances (always have), and I pretty much have always told him how things are going to be. The only new elements are the play spankings, his disciplinings, and his submissiveness in the bedroom, and nobody other than those I choose to share that with will know.

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  8. J. has decided it would be fun (for her!) to mark the Twelve Days of Christmas by applying daily a different item from her 'tool kit' on my bare backside! The first installment (last night) involved a wooden spatula, and for tonight's -mercifully brief!- session, she used the martinet (purchased in France five years ago, and regularly used ever since). Who knows what she has in store for the rest of the season!
    L.

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  9. Hi Julie
    Kia Ora and Beleted Merry Christmas from NZ! Sue sounds just as playful and imaginative as you. What a lucky man david is!

    I love the idea of her involvement and especially love the idea of her babysitting him when you are not available - as well as increasing his submission to you it must also leave him with the feeling that it is now way, way beyond his control. Whatever his fantasy when he first asked you to spank him, he could not possibly have imagined that you would take (hijack almost) his fantasy and instead bring your fantasy to life in this wonderful. I'm so loving this unfolding story.

    I wondered what your view is on chastity? I don't recall you mentioning previously, but it is a big interest of mine and I was interested about whether you saw it as a potential development in the future?
    Cheers
    Gary

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  10. I am certainly eager for the next installment....

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  11. L: And what's for Epiphany?

    Gary: I like the babysitting idea also. Even though I won't be there to see it, I still love the thought of it! It would be yet another dynamic, just david and Sue.

    I've been reading about chastity on others' blogs, so I know what it is. I had not thought of using it on david because it was not a particular desire of mine, nor could I imagine he would like it. So far, I have been trying to only do things both he and I get off on. Even his hard strapping he admitted after the fact of enjoyed the thought that I was capable of doing that to him - so it keeps him on his toes and keeps it 'real'. I should try it for an evening though, just to show him I can. Ha Ha!

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  12. what a great opportunity to so closely reaveal all to your family yet them have no idea, hos "whipped" he rerally is!!

    submissive husband

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  13. Someone should get a spanking for altering the art, I altered previously!!!
    Can't wait to hear more about Susan going forward. What fun you guys are having. And a younger sister, Nancy?
    Happy Holidays,
    Andy

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  14. SuHu: it was fun. I knew what he was thinking opening those spoons, and then when Susan said that, well I practically fell off my chair. It was amazing to me that nobody else noticed.

    Andy: Younger sister Nancy is married with kids, and is still a brat I cannot trust.

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  15. For those of you who are keeping track:
    J's third installment in her "Twelve Days of Christmas" series involved a brief (yet brisk) encounter with her hairbrush, which was applied earlier than usual because we are expecting company (for drinks) in a few minutes.
    Will she find a way of mentioning it when her two (girl)friends show up?
    The thought of it makes me fidgety...

    L.

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  16. Your blog is inspirational ! Any suggestions how I can encourage my wife to follow your example?

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  17. L: I hope she mentions it! That would be very exciting for you, I'm sure.

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  18. Anony: Thank you for the compliment!
    I would have to know more about your wife to say. In my case it started out as a favour to david. Why not I told myself, if it gets him excited? Fortunately I found myself enjying it. After that I decided that I needed a "cheat sheet" on how his brain functions, so came onto the Internet where so many guys have similar fantasies to his, so it was easy coming up with crazy new ideas based on this research, and he has "liked" all of them. If your wife enjoys spanking you even a bit, then encourage her to read these blogs for insights into how your mind likely works.

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  19. Last night, J. made an oblique reference to the "Twelve Days of Christmas" series, but in a bantering tone, so that her two girlfriends may have thought the whole thing was a joke. They giggled a bit (and I think I may have blushed!) On the other hand, while we were in the kitchen, they had a good look at the Italian bridle (hanging on the wall) and J. briefly commented (again in a joking tone) that it was meant for "naughty boys"...

    I have been informed that tonight's installment (in the 12-day series) will involve the rattan cane she retrieved from her grandmother's house - Performance to open some time after dinner...
    L.

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  20. Much as I had expected (or feared), the 12-day series will -mercifully- end tomorrow (Epiphany/ Dia de los Reyes) with a serving of that famous Italian bridle (or so I have been told). J. has hinted she might invite her friend Anne (one of the two who had visited us on Dec.27).
    Recent sessions have involved a maple switch, a wooden spoon, a washerwoman's thick paddle,a short riding crop & al. -but tonight J. will be using her trusty carpet beater...

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  21. Everything went as planned -except that Anne could no attend, but she was present last Saturday for a "command performance" when she was invited to give a 'solo' part with the trustful martinet (and a highly effective one, I must admit!)
    L.

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  22. So you got a double whacking for Epiphany? A carpet beater from J and a command repeat performance with a martinet from Anne. Perfect!
    By the way, J's two girlfriends know you are beaten. There is no doubt from what you have described.

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  23. Just to set the record straight: J. used the carpet beater on Jan.5, and the Italian bridle on Epiphany (this is the session Anne missed). The one when she was invited to wield the martinet (after J. had already administered a first round) was this past Saturday.
    And, yes, there is little doubt that several of J's girlfriends (some in the US, some in France) are aware of the way she enforces domestic discipline... I have mixed feelings about that.

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  24. Don't be silly, L.! Of course my friends (and my sister) know that I spank, flog, strap or cane your rear end! Aside from Anne, who whipped you a week ago (not to mention F. and S.), don't you remember how D. and S. watched you doing 'corner time', bare-bottomed, after you had been soundly whipped by your stern, yet loving wife? Not to mention the old lady in Calabria - or A. and T. in Provence, who watched as I pulled you over my knees and applied that washerwoman's paddle on your backside!
    J.

    PS. This will earn you a session over my lap tomorrow!

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  25. J. was (as usual) as good as her word. The 'session' she promised was duly administered on Saturday evening (with the washerwoman's paddle) -in addition, needless to say, to the SOP treatment she delivers over the weekend as I perform my domestic chores from Saturday mornings to Sunday evenings (I was particularly careful this weekend, and was only once whipped on Saturday, and strapped -with the Italian bridle- this Sunday afternoon.
    L.

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  26. J. was as good as her word this Saturday -and that was, of course, in addition to the standard treatment I am subjected to over the weekend, when I have to perform my assigned chores. The 'bottom line' is that J. used a maple switch and the martinet to incite me to do my chores - but also delivered yesterday a very special (and blisteringly effective) spanking with the bathroom brush!
    L.

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  27. In her usual explicit way, J. reminded me of some episodes I would have preferred to forget...
    I was keenly aware of the "session over her lap" she had announced, and because it was apparently going to happen over the weekend (when I can always expect some licks of the switch when I don't perform my chores as diligently as she wants), I was especially careful to meet her required standards -and thus, aside from the ritual Saturday morning use of the martinet to register her instructions for the weekend, her 'surprise inspections' resulted in no more than two brief (but brisk) volleys with the maple switch -one on Saturday morning, and one on Sunday afternoon.
    The special trip over her lap she had promised on Friday, however, was duly delivered on Saturday night after dinner with that thick washerwoman's paddle -and with such vigor that she had me yelping like a whipped dog! The short whipping I got on Sunday afternoon with the maple switch was mild in comparison -but nevertheless stung like hell on my sore bottom!

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  28. L. is (clumsily) attempting to hide the fact that -in addition to the usual "reminders" he gets over the weekend while performing his chores- he also got a 'trifecta' (with the bridle, the bathroom brush and the thick paddle) this past Sunday! The 6 pm use of the maple switch was no more than the proverbial cherry on the cake...
    L's behavior has (understandably) been perfect thus far this week -but who knows what tomorrow may bring! -and my sister is definitely coming to visit within a couple of weeks -with some demo's likely to follow! :-)
    J.

    J.

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    1. Martinet was on the menu tonight. L. is now standing in the corner (bare-assed, of course!)
      More to follow over the weekend...
      J.

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    2. They hate corner time, don't they? Spankings hurt, but are sexy and exciting for them. david tells me that the idea of corner time is sexy, but standing there for 30 minutes is just plain boring. Good!

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    3. Surprisingly (considering what his derrière has been enduring over the past few weeks) I had to deliver a harsh dose of the bridle tonight -in addition to the usual Saturday mornings use of the martinet (not to mention a couple of subsequent uses of the maple switch to sanction his inadequate performance of his domestic chores). We shall see what tomorrow brings, but I sometimes feel that L. is 'incorrigible' -which, of course, doesn't mean that I shan't continue to spank, strap, flog or cane his backside as often as he deserves it! If he plans to watch the Superbowl, he will be sitting on a very sore behind!
      J.

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    4. L. did watch the Super Bowl and, as he is a Patriots fan -and the Pats got a beating- it was only fair that he should get one too! (in fact, we had made a bet to that effect!)
      The payoff has just been administered with my rattan cane, with the number of strokes corresponding to the combined score of the two teams -which is less than what he usually gets, but they were vigorously applied on a backside that had already been well served over the weekend! I guess L. could contribute some interesting comments around the water cooler when he goes to work tomorrow!
      I plan to go easy on L's derrière this week, but I have some fireworks planned for next week, when my sister comes to visit -and I know that he is a bit anxious about it!
      J.

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  30. L. was treated to a serious strapping on Valentine's Day -just before B. (my sister) arrived from France for a six-day visit. On the day we picked her up at the airport, L. served us the dinner he had prepared -wearing, as he had been instructed, the summary attire he normally wears when performing his weekend chores! In addition, he had been ordered to place on the dining room table one of the maple switches he had brought me two days earlier -and it was put to good use after he had (accidentally, I suppose) spilled some red wine on the white tablecloth! B. watched him being flogged with a broad smile -having immediately noticed the welts left by my Valentine Day's strapping.
    B. is, of course, well aware of the way I deal with L., and she has watched him being spanked on a couple of occasions (in France) -but, this time, I had decided that she should be invited to give me a hand -and that's just what happened two days later -and again yesterday!

    J.(2)

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    1. How interesting! I love to read about other sisters who get together to spank their husbands. Do tell us more.

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    2. B. (my sister, whose last name -like mine- also begins with a B -and who, accordingly, has long been known as 'BB' (like Brigitte Bardot) has been divorced for some years from a husband she never managed to control in the way I deal with my own L.
      She has watched me twice spanking him while we were visiting in France, but this past week, while she was staying with us, I invited her on three separate occasions to give me a hand -and to apply the martinet, the Italian bride and the rattan cane to her brother-in-law's bare backside! There is no doubt that. she (and I) enjoyed those sessions. L's reaction was interesting: he apparently enjoyed (in a manner of speaking) having to have his backside whipped or strapped by his sister-in-law -but, at the same time, he ventured some feeble protests (which only served to have B. and I deliver a 'repeat performance!,,,,

      J.(2)

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  31. My sister (BB) flew home on Thursday, but told me she would call around noon (our time =+6 over there), and so I had a treat for her! As usual, L. was wearing the prescribed attire for weekend chores (and, also as usual, had had his instructions imprinted on his bare butt at 7 a.m. (B. had, in fact, witnessed that ritual last Saturday, while she was staying with us, and had even given me a helping hand). And so, when the phone rang and she had told me about her trip home, I ordered L. to bend over the kitchen counter (next to the phone) and applied some 100 swats on his exposed derrière -using a wooden spatula that I had deliberately selected because of the loud, sharp way it cracks on L's bare skin! I could hear B. giggling at the other end of the line (especially because she could hear L's piteous yelps!)
    When it was over, she commented (still chuckling) that she looked forward to our visit this Summer, and suggested we stay with her in her country cottage in Burgundy -which, as she casually mentioned, has a large, old-fashioned attic where she and I could deal with L. as needed ('and in the way to which he is accustomed', she added) without fear of being overheard by her neighbors! Before she hung up, I made sure to have L. say hello to his sister-in-law (which he did in a somewhat shaky voice -still snuffling up his tears...

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    1. It's fortunate we don't use Skype...

      L.

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    2. If I want a "live audience" - or even one with "spectator participation" - I only have to invite Anne or Melanie!
      This summer, of course, there will be plenty of opportunities for B. to watch - and, most likely, to "take a hand"...

      J(2)

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    3. Plenty indeed -and with the two of you taking turns!

      L.

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  32. The (second) yearly observance of the Twelve Days of Christmas is now in full swing (literally!)

    J(2)

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    1. Don't I know!...

      L.

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    2. Well, you will be halfway through by New Year's eve!

      J(2)

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    3. Twelve firm whacks with the carpet beater at midnight - and another twelve immediately thereafter to ring in the new year... Next installment on January 2!

      J(2)

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    4. Today's "installment" was delivered with one of her (wooden) spatulas, while I was in the process of cooking dinner (we alternate), and it nearly ruined my béarnaise...

      L.

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    5. L's derrière is pretty sore after getting the last of the 'Twelve Days' series... Unless he misbehaves, his bottom will be spared... until next Saturday!

      J(2)

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  33. The Twelve Days series must have made an impression! Apart from getting the martinet while being instructed about his usual weekend chores, L. needed no further 'reminder' on Saturday or Sunday, but tonight he earned himself a trip across my lap - and a plentiful helping of my sturdiest paddle!

    As they say, "a woman's work is never done"...

    J(2)

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  34. This being (in the US) a "long weekend", I have been warned that the 'usual procedure' would extend to this Monday - which means that a list of chores will be imprinted on my bare backside early in the morning, and that I may expect impromptu inspections (and immediate punishment) if my 'performance' is not up to her strict standards.

    I have not been forewarned of any of her close friends coming to visit tomorrow - but I got a firm (and resounding) dose of the kitchen spoon on Saturday, for the benefit of her sister during one their frequent long-distance phone conversations...

    L.

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  35. B. (my sister) came to visit in late February/early March, and we divided (or rather, doubled) L's "exposure"... Talk about 'un cul bien fouetté' !

    Now that the weather is getting mild, it's time to take him out for a few hikes in the woods - and to re-acquaint him with the sort of outdoors switchings that await him as it gets warmer (especially over our next summer vacation)

    J(2)

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    1. Two outdoors 'sessions' thus far - and also several 'indoors' sessions, as usual!

      None of her girlfriends have been invited, of late - but that is bound to happen sooner or later....

      L.

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    2. Well, it DID happen, didn't it, when I invited M. to join us for a trip in the woods - and the two of us switched your uncovered derrière on that day in mid-June!

      That was the first time it had happened in the US - except once when my sister was visiting - but, of course, there were quite a few such occasions over the past six weeks when we were vacationing in Europe (and spending three days at my sister's country house in Burgundy)...

      I am sure you will long remember the flogging you got (with the martinet and with the last switch I had cut and used on the way North from Toulouse) in that nice little hotel near Paris hours before flying back home. The way you squirmed in that airplane seat was worth seeing!...

      J(2)

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    3. Well, my rear end was on fire! - and the marks were still visible two days after we got home!... In fact, my bottom was almost permanently red and sore during the weeks we traveled in Europe!

      Not that being home makes any great difference, given that you have resumed "business as usual" - and with the full range of your favorite tools...

      L.

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    4. Are you complaining? You get what you deserve!

      J(2)

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  36. My sister (B.) came to spend Thanksgiving with (her first time), and L's derrière was treated to some special attention during the ten days she stayed with us...

    But now is the time to start thinking about the Twelve Days of Christmas, which I intend to observe in the same way as in previous years!

    J(2)

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    1. Four more days before I find out how she wants to 'observe' the Twelve Days of Christmas this year - but I got a stiff paddling tonight (an 'advance', perhaps, on what I can expect!)

      L.

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  37. The first installment of the 'Twelve Days of Christmas' (a brisk hand spanking) was duly delivered! I think I will use one of the (vinegar cured) switches tomorrow :-)

    J(2)

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    1. J(2) changed her mind, and used the wooden on Thursday - followed by the leather sole of one of her sandals earlier tonight! The maple switches (or,
      perhaps, the martinet) will be on the menu later this Saturday...

      L.

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    2. Well, it was the switch! (two of them, in fact, because the first one broke after only six strokes...)

      J(2)

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    3. ... and the martinet is already scheduled for New Year's Eve!

      J(2)

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    4. As the ball drops in Times Square, his trousers will drop for 12 x 12 with the martinet! Tomorrow (maybe), the carpet beater!..

      J(2)

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    5. Mission accomplished! A touch of the crop tonight...

      J(2)

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    6. ... and the Italian bridle for what (I hope!) is the "grand finale"!

      L.

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  38. I'm the dirty old man from Sept 2022. I just discovered your blog. Girl you sound like the naughty girlfriend I never had. Come and visit me at the retirement home and I'll spank your sexy bare rump in front of all the nurses and attendants. I'll use a spatula from the kitchen. Since you're such a bad girl I'll have to slip a chastity belt over your naughty puss and a insert a big dildo into your saucy bum-hole. That'll teach you,for now at least.

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    1. Wonderful! Working your way back through my blog. It's not until a few years from now that I turn at all subby, but then I do it with a vengeance!

      And I LOVE that you're such a dirty old man! You can unlock me and loan me out as a "tip" if one of the burly attendants does particularly right by you. You'd be the best cared for gentleman in the home!

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    2. You're a sweetheart.Too bad I'm not sixty years younger. Okay you've got a great bum for spanking,but can you make corned beef knedel like Mother made? That's right,us Jewish boys have a mother thing. Anyway, you made me feel like a real Mensch again. You know what's a Mensch,don't you? I know I shouldn't like Christmas,but I do anyway,so Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! PS I hate gefilte fish,always have, always will

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    3. I can cook, but never attempted knedel. I'll learn for you.

      Yes, Mensch is Yiddish for 'good girl' in my case! I don't know if it's ever been applied to such a situation, though ;-)

      I celebrate Christmas too. Always thought of hanukkah as a 'if we can't beat 'em, join 'em' sort of holiday. We should really care about the Maccabean revolt against the Seleucid Empire? :-)

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  39. You lost me there. I'm not an intellectual guy. As for religion,don't get me started. If it wasn't for my family's objections,I would have joined the Catholic church because I heard that the nuns get spanked in the church basement. I was willing to join in order to find out if that was true. Apparently it isn't true,but it is possible,so therefore it might be true. If you're going to be religious you might as well join one that has some fun now and again.Do you think it might be true?

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    1. I saw a meme the other day that said "If a girl says she's a Catholic, it's code for she's into BDSM"

      So yes, absolutely the nuns get spanked in the church basement!

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