Monday, April 20

Honesty is the Very Best Policy

Went to my parents' place for Sunday dinner. Having just signed my sparkly new DD Contract, I was keen to tell my Mom and Dad about it, misguided as that may seem to some of you. I really wanted to tell them especially, while having a bit of a... fantasy, I guess you could call it... of being spanked in front of them, or at least near them. I don't totally understand why I want that, or even why I want to tell my parents about the Contract, but I feel I do, and after having done it, I think I understand it better, which we'll get into below.

My initial concept for "telling them" was deceitful and I regret it now. It took awhile to back me away from it. My older sister said it was a bad idea. My husband said it was a bad idea. I even argued with both of them about it. I made a defiant post about it (Spanking at Parents?) where I indicated that I intended to force my husband's hand, and was met with a deluge of universal condemnation from you guys for my idea. So ok, a girl can take a hint. Thank you all, by the way. As one comment best summed it up "currently you seem to be guided by your pussy rather than by your brain." Ouch. Guilty as charged...

My initial concept was to deliberately do something "spankable", and then have David spank me on the spot. When David refused, I decided I would do the thing anyways and "force his hand" to see what would happen.

How I imagined it would go down. Spanking to follow!
(courtesy Glenmoretales)

Ok, a whole bunch of things wrong with that plan. Deliberate misbehaviour is totally against the spirit of my DD Contract. Defying David and attempting to force his hand is just plain wrong. It would be deceiving my parents. David had no interest in participating in that way whatsoever. Breaking a glass, even under those circumstances, would seem trivial and contrived. My parents hearing their daughter being struck might consider it abuse and react accordingly. It was involving them in our lifestyle too abruptly, with no chance of their signalling displeasure so we could back off. I could go on. Dumb dumb dumb thinking, I admit now.

I apologized to David soon after coming to my senses on Friday evening. He was glad I was thinking clearly. Despite this type of misbehaviour not being explicitly called out in our Contract, I suggested it was worthy of a Disciplining, which he agreed with and said would occur after Sunday dinner (back at home, of course). I suggested, tongue-in-cheek,  he should spank my pussy, because she was the one that gave me such bad advice, but he went for the more traditional spanking discipline. We'll get back to that later.

David and I did agree that we could speak to my parents about my new DD lifestyle. I would do most of the talking, and emphasize that it was 100% me driving it all. You would think that was a step down from what I had planned, but I felt way better about this plan, and after settling into it got way nervous about carrying it out.

When I told Sue my initial deceitful plan, we argued and she wanted no part of it and decided not to attend Sunday dinner this week. So I called Sue and apologized to her as well. She approved of my new plan, but thought it best that she continue staying away so that David and I could talk to my Mom and Dad alone.

So we were all set for Sunday dinner.


David and I got there and we made it all the way through dinner talking about this and that. I got up to clear, and believe me I was very careful not to break anything, OMG! We served dessert and midway through dessert I raised it. I'll try to recall our dialog as closely as I can. I was pretty nervous talking about it, which I'll try to convey in my part of the dialog below.

"Mom, Dad, there's something going on that David and I, well me really, wanted to tell you about."

They looked concerned...

I went on quickly, "ummm. Well.... I guess you sort of know, that well, ummmm, sometimes I get David to, like, spank me?"

It's so hard talking about spanking with your parents! The "spank me?" had a distinct Valley Girl lift to it, which I normally despise.

They both smiled and looked relieved. I guess they thought I was going to say something worse! It was my Mom who spoke first, with a bit of a smile in her voice: "Your Father and I sort of figured that out, yes."

Yes. Not a big dark secret.

I've written extensively about my Dad before (e.g., Daddy's Little Girl), but I should explain a few things about my Mom for context. And no, I don't sexually fixate on Mom! My Mom worked her whole life. She started out as a teacher, and later became an education administrator pretty high up in the government hierarchy. She helped a lot of women to get ahead, and was an advocate for women's rights. She broke a few glass ceilings. She's retired now on a full pension. She's a smart woman, an educator/leader, and she was always professionally into stuff like psychology, self-hypnosis, primal therapy, and alternative stuff like that as an educator, looking for new approaches to education. So open-minded for sure.

My plan was to tell them I've been feeling stressed lately, but that the spanking David gave me made me feel a lot more centered, so I asked David to help me more along those lines.

Accordingly, I went on: "Recently I've been feeling a bit out of sorts really. Nervous. Distracted, Feeling like I'm slipping on the goals I set for myself."

"We're all feeling that way now," said Mom, referring to the pandemic.

I answered, "it's been going on for a bit longer than that with me, but yeah, this does not make it better. You remember a couple of weeks ago when David and I told you about that thing where I went out to get ice cream for no good reason. I mean, I'm even trying to slim down a little above everything else. He and I argued about it, and he... well, he spanked me."

It's so hard saying the words "spanked me" to Mom and Dad, especially in this context of me needing discipline.

"We thought that was a bit of fun?" said my Dad.

I knew that was what they thought, just based on the teasing comeback at the time.

"Yes, and no. I was deliberately being a bit bratty with David. And we certainly do play like that, so David just did it, more for real than for play? And afterwards it made me feel a whole lot better. Calmer. More at peace? And I wanted to tell you guys about it..."

"Do you think you're reacting to the stress by trying to find your inner child?" Asked Mom.

Yeah, that's Mom.

"Probably. Is that bad you think?" I asked her.

"Don't judge yourself," she answered. "It's neither good nor bad. It's maybe just what you need right now and that might change later."

That was acceptance, right? Mom is great, isn't she? I think blog readers have gotten the wrong impression of my Mom, mainly because I fixate on my Dad so much and she's been mentioned only obliquely. But I get a lot of my strength and determination from my Mom's example. With her retired and doing more grandmotherly stuff now, every now and then I need to be reminded of how accomplished she had been in her professional life, and how she still carries those skills and thought processes.

I went on, "I do seem to need it right now. So I did a bit of research online, and I got this idea to write up, like, a little contract sort of thing? Where I write down everything I want to be held accountable for and ask David to hold me accountable... you know... in that way."

"With a spanking?" confirmed my Mom. As opposed to my mealy-mouthed articulation of the word, or avoidal of it entirely, Mom just came right out and said it clear as day!

"Yes," I answered. "It's what I think I need right now. It makes me feel good. I need you to know, though, that it's all my idea. David was reluctant. He thinks it's silly. Like I'm sure you do."

"Not silly. It's sweet," said my Mom.

I'm sure I was beaming at the affirmation, or would have been had I not been so embarrassed.

I continued, "we just wanted you to know, in case you hear about it or anything like that. I want you to know I'm not, like, an abused wife or anything like that. It was entirely, I mean 100% my idea totally. I really had to talk him into it." I reached out and grabbed David's hand for support. "And don't worry, he's never too hard on me or anything, nothing I can't take, and we have a special word I can use just in case it's too much. It's more just kind of... childish and embarrassing I guess?"

That sort of hung out there. Both Mom and Dad seemed to think about it and then nod affirmatively, as in, yeah, if we squint we can see it, and if it's what you want.

"Tell them about where you want to get spanked," continued David.

Dad totally misinterpreted! "On her big bare bum I imagine?" He said.

Oh geeze. Mister bull in the China shop compared to my Mom's delicate surgery. And it's not that big!

I clarified, "Daddy! No, he means where as in 'in what location'. I told David he should do it wherever I am, like here, or at the cottage, or wherever."

I was surprised David had prompted me like that. I thought he totally disapproved of the idea of spanking me at my Mom and Dad's.

"Yeah, I wasn't so sure about that part," said David, confirming my thoughts about how he felt about it, and likely shutting it all down by saying that. But then why raise it, I thought? Maybe he wanted to shut it down :-(

Then my Mom really surprised us by saying, "well you be careful, and not when Nancy or her boys are around."

Wait. Hold the presses. It took me a second in real time, but that was Mom not objecting to the whole concept, right? Nancy is my younger sister and viscerally does not approve of my "fun and games". And her sons are a bit young. But rather than shutting the whole concept down with a big fat NO, Mom just added some conditions, but sort of implicitly approved the concept. Right? I wasn't imagining things? David had the same read, I confirmed later on.

"No, not Nancy or the boys, of course," I agreed, blushing furiously. You know when you can feel a hot flush in your cheeks and your heart skips. Like that!

"Tell your Mom and Dad about the argument we had," David said. Oh blush! Unbelievably, the way the conversation had proceeded, bless his heart, but it appeared as if David was setting me up for a guestroom spanking! Confessing now took on a new meaning. I was likely going to get spanked here, in my parents' house (the house I grew up in, by the way - at one point what is now the guestroom was my room).

"Ummm... yeah... I had this stupid idea that I would carry too many dishes out and deliberately break something so David would have an excuse to spank me up in my old room or something. And that would break the ice and then we could talk about this. And then I argued with him when he said it was a dumb idea."

"Oh honey," said Mom, "You don't need to break a dish to have a conversation with us."

"Yeah I know. Sorry," I said. And then I, stupidly (!) used a babytalk voice and said, "David says he's going to spank me for it after." Oh how humiliating I would use that tone of voice. It's not what our DD is about. I'm not a "little". I don't know what got into me.

"Well I guess that's up to you two," said Mom, ignoring my babytalk voice.

That's when my marvellous man just damned the torpedoes and actually did it.

"She'd like it if she got spanked here for that, do you mind?" asked David.

What a question! He is magnificent. Very, very brave. And he did it for me. Totally for me. But when he said "here", he meant (and I confirmed it later) 'here' as in upstairs in the guestroom. But then my Dad...

"Sure, Let's see how you do it," said my Dad.

Ack! Dad got the idea 'here' meant here here I think!! But then my Mom...

"Go ahead," said my Mom, shaking her head. "Nothing we haven't seen before when she was a child. I blame myself," she added.

Ack! Ack! 'Seen Before'? She expects to 'See It'. Ack! And she actually compared this to my spankings when I was eight. It was like, no big deal, we spanked her when she was eight, what's the difference? Hello? BIG difference! Mom! Dad! I'm a grownup! I'm a wife! I thought all that, my heart pounding in my chest. Literally pounding with the adrenaline. Oh No! This was going too fast! What had I gotten myself into???

Afterwards, David said he was initially not even going to raise spankings outside the home, but when my parents were so no big deal about my spankings, he thought he would broach it as a possible future thing, for my sake, because he knew I wanted it, and then see how they would react. When they reacted no big deal to that as well, David went for it and angled to get me spanked upstairs in the guestroom as I had originally wanted. That's what he meant when he used the word 'here'. He did not intend 'on the spot here'. But my boy is quick on his feet. When Dad and Mom were both "Sure, spank her right here," my fate was sealed.

Regarding Mom's "I blame myself" comment, I'm sure she meant she was the professional educator and was late in giving up spanking us kids. I've always imagined it was her who put her foot down when the question came up for Nancy (actually, my last spanking was from Mom, and she really lost her cool. I bet she felt guilty over that!). But when she said "I blame myself", was that for letting the spankings continue when the research was against it, or was she blaming herself for turning me into an adult spanko? That's me analyzing what was said as I write this. Me at the time was sort of in a daze!

David stood and moved his chair away from the table and towards the corner of the room. It was not lost on me that he oriented the chair so that my butt would be pointed towards my Dad and Mom. If he spanked me bare bum... oh gosh!

David sat and called me over. Boy but I felt myself blushing! It felt like I was walking through molasses.

"Pants up or pants down?" David asked my Mom and Dad. Oh no! I was disappointed. Why did David have to ask?!? My Mom and Dad would take this as an opportunity to turn my spanking into a PG nothing version. My heart dropped.

"Need to keep your eye on your work," said my Dad with a wink. I mean, a literal wink. As in, a single-eye blink.

Dad!

"Oh Doug!" said my Mom, but did not say more.

Holy shit! Would it be bare bum?

"You heard your Dad, get those jeans down to your ankles," David said.

This was actually happening. This was ridiculous! My tummy churned, and I was breathing hard as the adrenaline coursed through me anew. I lowered my jeans, being careful to retain my panties. Would David pull them down? He wouldn't. He couldn't. Would he ask? Or had it already been asked and answered?

I was standing facing David, my jeans at my ankles, with just panties on beneath the waist. They were a simple cotton print panty. Little flowers. Oh blush. I could not see Mom and Dad, but I felt their eyes on my panty-clad butt, especially my Dad's! But that's no big deal, right? It's just like a bikini bathing suit, right? Even more modest than that.


David gave me a smile and reached his two hands out and grabbed the waistband of my panties. David told me after that he felt safe in interpreting my Dad's remark of "keeping your eye on your work" in only one possible way. He acted accordingly and he lowered my panties down to my knees. Ok, this was way more than my bikini. I was mooning my parents!

That's my Mom and Dad's grown daughter's
actual bare bum! That was their view!

David pulled me gently by my arm down across his lap. I pinned my legs together and I was stiff as a board. So much for my fantasies of a "pussy show" for my Dad. I was legit mortified!

"Head down," said David, pushing my head and my legs gently down towards the carpet. Oh no. David was not allowing me to get away with it. I knew my pussy would be visible. It could not be otherwise. I softened submissively and bent fully over David's knee.

The photo above was taken of me as I was being spanked
over a man's knee with my panties at half-mast. So I know
exactly what my Mom and Dad saw as David lowered my
panties to half-mast and took me across his knee.
How unimaginably humiliating for a grown daughter!

I felt David's hand on my butt cheek.

"Are you ready?" he asked.

"yes, sir" I said quietly, absolutely mortified with embarrassment.

"Why are you getting this spanking?" He asked me. Oh gosh. I have to speak? This is straight out of the Contract.

I could barely squeak the words out: "I was going to be deceitful with you and Mom and Dad, and I argued with you about it when I should have known better."

There is nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing, more embarrassing than for a grown wife to have to squeak out her misbehaviour with her pants and panties lowered while draped across her husband's lap, knowing a spanking was coming, with her bare bottom and bare private parts on display to her parents. NOTHING!

"That's right," said David. "I'm going to give you twenty hard spanks, ok?"

He never tells me how many I would get. I guess that was for Mom and Dad's benefit. And 20 was very quick. I usually get, like, hundreds! David wisely thought he didn't want to sour the proceedings by them thinking he was going too hard on me. I only got around 20 or fewer when I was eight-years-old, after all.

"Yes, Sir," I said, accepting my "sentence". Just please to God get it over with! I was hanging out here!


He lifted his hand and spanked my right cheek. I would classify the spank as medium-hard. It was a resounding whack by most people's standards. I remember gasping and whimpering a little, more from the embarrassment than from the smack. Mainly I was flushed and hyper-ventilating from being a grown woman spanked bare across her husbands knee in front of her parents!

He took his time, about two seconds between spanks. He strictly alternated cheeks. It was all over in less than a minute. I kept my composure for the first dozen. After that the spanks hurt more and I yipped with each and felt my bottom writhing across his lap. David had made sure Daddy got a good pussy show. The chair placement. The panties at my knees. My head pushed down to bend me over more. He absolutely knows I obsess over that and had taken the opportunity to make sure it happened in real life. The thought of what I was showing Daddy (and Mommy) burns into me still, and I'm sure will never be erased. There's no doubt a whole blog post in analyzing all my conflicting feelings, but it was what I craved, for sure.

I was very emotional from that spanking. After the full enormity of the situation hit me around the fifth spank, I felt myself tearing up. By the last few spanks I was openly bawling. "I'm sorry," I cried out. David finished the twenty spanks, looked down at my no doubt rosy butt cheeks, and told me "I think you've learned your lesson."


He stood me back up. He leaned down and pulled my panties back up my legs, covering me.

"Pull your jeans back up," David told me. I bent over and did so. David took me into his arms and hugged me, and I hugged him back and said "thank you".

He sent me back to the dinner table to sit. He restored his chair to the table and sat as well.

"That was very cute," said my Mom, "feel better?" she asked me with a smile.

I nodded my head yes. I did. It wasn't sexual. I just felt loved and cared for by everyone there. And very embarrassed.

"David gave you quite a red bum," my Dad said.

"It's a little sore," I agreed.

"I'll bet it is," said Dad with a chuckle.

"And definitely not in front of Nancy and the boys," my Mom added. Oh gosh, she was referring to my vagina!

"No no, of course not," I promptly agreed, feeling my face flush.

"Sue knows, I suppose?" asked my Mom.

"Yes," I answered. "She's spanked me too," I added in a blurting of honesty. Why did I volunteer that???

My Mom laughed. "She's always wanted to. She thought it very unfair that we stopped spanking you younger than she."

We were having a spanking conversation with my Mom!

I decided I should wrap things up. "Thank you," I said, taking a deep breath. "I feel much better now. Very loved and cared for by you all."

"Good," said my Mom. "Now is grownup Julie back at the table?" She asked.

"Yes she is. Albeit sitting on a sore tush," I joked.

"Good. Let's clear up the dessert dishes and then go sit more comfortably," said Mom.

Ha ha. She didn't mean because of my tush. She always says that, at every dinner, to signal that we should go to the living room and chat.

I leapt up and cleared like you imagine a very well-spanked wife would. But more to just do something so as not to have to talk about it more! When I joined the others in the living room the conversation had been moved along to the usual topics. I took a seat gracefully and curled up my legs on the couch. I smiled at my Dad and he winked back at me. He's a winker.

On the way out we got one more quick spanking reference, from my Mom. During the goodbyes she said to David, "feel free to spank her anytime you're over." Oh Gosh! She didn't have to volunteer that!

We went back home. On the way home, and more of it back home, we analyzed and re-analyzed everything, many times over. David said he thought it was nice that he didn't need to worry about spanking me in front of my older sister or my parents. Oh blush!

He also decided that my twenty spanks, given the circumstances, was a sufficiently memorable punishment for me and nothing further was required. I agreed!

So I guess this means that it will be "open season" on my bare butt at my Mom's house and at the cottage. David teased that he's for sure not holding back now, and may even "save up" my misbehaviour for Sunday dinners! I think he's teasing. But what if he's not...

Will this be me from now on????

Mommy, Daddy, and Big Sister Sue watching me get my spanking from David.
(courtesy Glenmoretales)

And the teasing!

David looking far too pleased with himself!
(courtesy Glenmoretales)

So that was it. Wild ride! I never, ever, expected it to go down like that. No way! My parents didn't treat it at all like something kinky, they treated it as if I wanted to regress to being a child, and that my bare bum spankings were part of that. They seemed to think no more of seeing me bare than when I was eight years old.

Parents can surprise you, I guess!

Thank you everybody for all your help. The honest approach was absolutely the best way to go, and I was amply "rewarded" for it.

After all of that, I feel like spanking me some man butt now! ROAR!

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P.S. Glenmoretales posted a wonderful blog entry with a more fulsome imagining of one way this might have transpired. Check it out here: The Broken Glass Spanking Comic

 

135 comments:

  1. ""simple cotton print panty. Little flowers.""
    Very cute, love them :)
    Have you tried martinet dancing ?
    B

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    1. When I'm feeling submissive it's always the little girl panties!

      No, not yet! I need to make my martinet still.

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    2. Let me know if you are having difficulties...
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  2. I'm glad it ended up as it did! And I agree - much better to go with the honest approach. Sounds like you'll be spending plenty of time bare bottomed in front of them now too haha. Benefits of being a spanked wife :)

    And as for that last part, I'll always volunteer my man butt for a roasting too!

    - SB

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    1. Blush! What if it gets, like, totally routine? OMG!

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  3. Jesus julie...MY heart was pounding when I was reading that !

    Now that this hurdle has been navigated, you should be ready to start with a clear slate...almost ready. I noticed you mentioned you argued with Sue, initially caused her to skip Sunday dinner and then had to apologize to her.

    Clear this slate too. ASK her to come over and punish you for this, severely. Then apologize to her properly.

    Then! Your slate will be all clear to start on this new journey.

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    1. Thanks, I tried to write it the way I experienced it: unfolding!
      And you're right about Sue. She owes me one, but I won't volunteer, she spanks like devil with a wooden spoon! If she does, I wonder if she'll do it at Sunday dinner and have me howling??? What would Mom think of that?!?

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    2. Perhaps given the current isolation requirements and use of video technology, she could watch over FaceTime as David gives you a good strapping on her behalf ?

      She can monitor the cornertime as well, then you can apologize to her?

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    3. Sue is a quarantine buddy so it's cool. Me, David, Mom, Dad, and Sue. That's it!

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    4. Well then. Book her for a strapping, be standing in the corner when she arrives, fully nude. Apologize to her properly afterwards julie. Clean slate !

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    5. "Book her for a strapping"
      Ha!

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  4. As you well know, my mother-in-law encouraged her daughter to spank me, even provided the bath brush. Being spanked in front of your Mother-in-law is worse than the spanking. In my case my Mother-in-law has decided her house, she does the spanking. Don't know about you, but being bared from the waist down, worse having an erection, and she could care less, but once the spanking is over will point out that I'm limp. Jack

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    1. Naughty for you to be excited during your spanking, jack.

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    2. With the stay at home my wife has me doing chores, and also the spankings are really long. Not going anyplace she saids and so a good time to insure I learn my lesson. Your husband might do the samething, talk about a warm, stinging, red bottom. As for the erection, it is a male thing you know and once it goes limp the spanking really hurts.

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  5. Fantastic post, wow you hit the jackpot, I loved how casual yet enlightened they were, and you got consent from all of the players.
    I was going to take exception to you calling yourself dumb on a previous post and chose not to,and now in this post you have done it 3 more times for a total of four, I really must say as a long time fan that I rarely take exception to anything that you do but I am not on board with you referring to yourself as dumb, I think you should report at your next maintenance session that you thought of yourself as dumb and that it is not acceptable.
    I also think that there IS something, something, something, something,something something more embarrassing than for a grown wife to have to squeak out her misbehaviour with her pants and panties lowered while draped across her husband's lap, knowing a spanking was coming, with her bare bottom and bare private parts on display to her parents. Something! And I think you will be sure to seek it out and find it!
    While I'm at it:
    I believe Universal condemnation would be a maelstrom not a deluge, and a spanking paddle going over international borders would be called a cheeseboard.
    Congratulations on your event, cheers!

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    1. I'm with Anonymous here... you're not dumb.

      We can all get fixated on an outcome AND our preferred path to it, but that doesn't make us (or you) dumb.

      We can all take advice and course-correct; that doesn't make us (or you) dumb.

      Alternatively, We can fix our sights on our goals and ignore the words of caution around us. THAT is dumb. And if it all works out, that is dumb luck.

      No, you are not dumb. You listened and responded to all the arguments put forth. That make you smart. That you took heed of the advice around you only makes you smarter.

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    2. Thanks! I don't see myself as dumb, I think I se the words "a dumb idea" or something like that. That was what I meant anyways.

      And have you ever seen so many "nothing" words in a row in one sentence? I feel like James Joyce.

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  6. Congratulations! You accomplished EVERYTHING that you wanted!

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    1. I did. Still freaked out by that!

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    2. So now everyone is onboard this train, what’s next? I guess fully nude spanking in front of your parents and corner time is the next logical step?

      You live an exciting life!

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    3. A step too far!
      But thinking if i have a one-piece swimsuit on at the cottage and it needs to be pulled down... Gasp!

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  7. OMG it went better than you and David hoped it would. Your mom is defiantly open minded and the last comment from her telling David to spank you any time at their house opened the door. and the way you handled it was fantastic and very brave of you. I'm also sure your father being all man enjoyed the view of his mature daughter and wants to see it more (He's just being a normal man). Enjoy your new freedom and don't be surprised if after a sunday diner you are bent over your sister lap for a spanking.
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    1. Good way to put it, "defiantly open minded"!

      And OMG I think you're right about my Dad. He definitely enjoyed seeing that!

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  8. Very nicely achieved. My mother was very supportive when I came out to her, but never had the chance to be a witness or anything because she passed away not long after the two "conversations".

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    1. Mom's are great! They support you no matter what.

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  9. I'm glad you went the honest route, deceit never pays off the way we think it will.

    So you finally got your fantasy of showing off for Daddy! Hooray! How embarrassing, your husband had to take your panties down and spank your naughty bottom in front of him and your mother until you cried!

    I've said it before, but I think your mom's definitely a spanko. She likely had many reasons for not continuing to spank you and your sisters, but one may have been she didn't want the sexy spanking feelings she has with your dad to seep into the parental relationship.

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    1. It was embarrassing! I'm still breathless about being spanked like that.

      And maybe! Perhaps the apple does not fall far from the tree. It is a consistent interpretation of events. A spanko would understand, and would enjoy the play aspects. I know I would if the roles were reversed. (OMG - did not mean it that way, but what if Dad spanks Mom bare butt in front of me and David? Yikes!)

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    2. Perhaps. Your Mom seemed downright eager to see it, lol. Even telling David "Feel free to spank her over here whenever you see fit!" It seems her only real concern at this point is scandalizing Nancy, lol. Her comment that Sue's always wanted to spank you is interesting as well. Have they been talking about this themselves? Either way, I'm certain Mom and Dad had a fun night, lol.

      Dad spanking Mom would be quite the event, if highly unlikely. But if we're going for the gusto on the train of crazy fantasy thought, maybe even (gulp!) a swap? David fulfills every husband's fantasy of spanking the bejeezus out of his mother-in-law's backside, while bratty wife Julie gets the Daddy spanking she's wanted since she was a teenager.

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    3. Well that sounds positively sweet! I'd happily take a spanking from my Dad, not sure about David with my Mom, though.

      And yes, it's always been a running joke around the house growing up that Sue thought I should still be spanked at least until age thirteen like her!

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    4. I suppose it's easier for me to think about because it's not MY mom or MY spouse, lol.

      I recall you bringing up the running joke of deserving to be spanked until Sue's age before, but I'm more focused on your mom's comment of "She's always wanted to." She strikes me as someone who is usually very precise with her words. She also pretty much knew Sue was aware of this arrangement already. Maybe your mom knows a bit more than you think. They're clever and perceptive, those moms, especially when it comes to their babies.

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    5. Mom knows Sue and I are tight! And that Sue is a free spirit.

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    6. I was thinking that when your mom said " I blame myself " that she was setting the stage for a spanking for herself later that evening when all the guests had left.

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    7. Haha, I can imagine how that went! "Doug, it's all my fault Julie is such a wanton, misbehaving wife who gets her bare bottom spanked regularly, even in front of us! I believe I have to be taught a bare bottomed lesson of my own by my big strong man!"

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    8. Head over to Glenmoretales if you have not already.
      He had the same idea!
      The Broken Glass Spanking Comic

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    9. Hey, gotta do something to keep the fires burning after decades together! I'm certain it was an exciting, and possibly red-bottomed evening at Mom and Dad's house once you left.

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  10. Honesty IS the best policy. I'm still surprised it, well, went so well!!
    Your mother is a saint! So accommodating! And your dad is, emmm, pretty good too, lol.
    I really liked you admitting that you were out of sorts lately, and spanking helps with centering. I think we can all agree on that, regardless of our role(s).
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    1. Mom is amazing. And Dad is a big letch! (But I'm one to speak, with my Daddy fantasies...)

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    2. Your Mom said she thought it was sweet! Any thoughts on that?

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    3. I think she thought it was sweet that I had regressed to my "little girl" self that needed a spanking.

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    4. I think she thought it was sweet that you asked your husband to do the honors.

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  11. So this was for real and not your fantasy?? Couldn’t have gone better, with apparently more to come. And so well written, I can only imagine the resurgence of embarrassment you felt when writing to us about it. Were there damp panties, as well, while writing this new chapter in your blog? Loved it! TL

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    1. Yes! Swear to God! And yes, writing about it brought up all those feelings, and I find my pussy tingling. Blush!

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    2. OMG! I can hardly believe it. It might be somewhere in the comments below, but I bet I'm not the only one who would love to read a blog on your 'download' with David after you got home. What did he think? Were you right that he just laid the bait out there, but had no idea it would go the whole route? Was he embarrassed at all? Did he love doing it? What a guy!

      And someone suggested getting a download from Sue about what the parents really thought. Is that something you'll pursue -- and, of course, let us know soonest? TL

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  12. So what was all the fuss about ?
    I knew your parents would understand and love it.
    It sounds like David came to the same conclusion when he heard their response and decided to go the whole 9 yards. Good for him!
    I also predicted 20 good spanks on the bare and that's what you got...but I didn't think he would give your folks such a revealing view.
    All in all it worked out very well for all.
    I could have made the artwork more risque if I had known!
    A thong may have saved your blushes a bit.

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    1. I know, eh? They were so cool with it 😎. And 20 it was. Is that a guy spankers number or something? The not so few to be pathetic, not too many to be abusive in front of the parents?

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    2. And thank you so much for rushing me the art!!!

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    3. My pleasure Julie...looking forward to collaborating again at your next spanking event...which is already spinning in your mind I'll wager!

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    4. I had to add a little spice to the event and introduce your parents as closet Spanko. I've been right about everything else!

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  13. Very brave and smart of you to handle it the way you did I’m proud of you! And it has to be so freeing having the people closest to you now knowing. All of the spankings I’ve ever gotten were private so I can’t imagine how that felt

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  14. I would have loved to have known what was going through your parents' heads during all this... I bet your Daddy's next ejaculation was one of the most guilt-ridden (and spectacular) of his life...

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    1. Ohhhhh! WHAT a thought! You think Dad jerked it to mental images of his grown daughter getting spanked, pussy on parade? It's possible. Imagine if Mom walked in on that - she'd KNOW right away. Daddy would be so guilty!

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    2. Actually, I think the inside story is one conversation with Sue away. Let her ask your parents.....separately.....about the little adventure, and then tell you what they said. My guess would be that your mother saw it as accepting something that she probably wasn't sad to have be over, and your father was probably just getting a chuckle along the way guys would regardless of who the willing recipient was. But, to know for sure.....just ask Sue to find out!

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    3. I think he DEFINITELY did that.
      Unless of course your parents still have sex, in which case he may have cum inside your mother while imagining his grown daughter getting spanked, pussy on parade...
      In fact given the way they reacted I wouldn't be surprised if your mom gets spanked herself pretty soon (if she doesn't already) :D

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    4. good thought re. Sue!

      Oh Gosh! Mental image of Dad pumping it inside of Mom and deliberately calling her by my name. Ewwww!

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    5. I think they celebrated with an event of their own and I think the " I blame myslef" comment from your mother was telling. I think they each checked in with the others inner child after you left. even odds someone got a spanking after you left!

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  15. Oh my! This story has taken so many twists and turns, if I didn’t know you and had just begun reading a few months ago, I would consider this to be absolute fiction, and not even believable! Now we get to the “Be careful what you wish for!” chapter! Right up to the very end, I totally expected the last sentence to be something like, “This was the story going on in my head as David gave me my spanking tonight AT HOME!” What a story! So much to dissect! Thank you for sharing so much of yourself, including your Dad’s eye view! -david

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    1. I know! I feel guilty for publishing it because it hits my credibility! 😊
      Still processing bending way over David's knee, panties down, butt and vagina pointing right at Mom and especially Dad! Do men think of hitting it when five feet away from a live bare pussy?

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    2. That depends on the man. Most would, I think. I would be thinking of and focusing on the place where my tongue belongs. And you know exactly where that is! - david

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    3. I don’t have a daughter, but I do have a close family member in the “daughter” age group. I know I would be flooded with sexual feelings if I observed her getting a bare bottomed spanking. If she were one degree closer in family relationship, I’m not sure anything would change, except perhaps even more guilty feeling in me.

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    4. Yeah, you should feel guilty, both of you!

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  16. Happy spanking family.

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  17. The way you approached the topic and talked it through with your Parents was spot on and paced just right. Congratulations on making so much headway so quickly.
    I agree with all the comments above regarding Sue.
    You do have some retribution due from her at the earliest opportunity. It is definitely something that could happen at the next Sunday get together.
    Good luck, stay safe

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    1. You know, it could! i mean, cat's out of the bag. I did to Sue exactly what I did to David and got spanked by him for. Next dinner Sue brings it up and says she wants her "pound of flesh" as well. She will get out the wooden spoon 'cause she's just a "dainty girl" and she does not need to hold back re "wife abuse"/ She can go nuts! Have Mom and Dad pulling her away as the spoon keeps landing! :-)

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  18. You're a "spanked wife" now and your parents have given their assent (I am amazed at how open-minded they are!). Looks like there will be lots of disciplinary action in the near future for you. I think your "big" bum is lovely by the way but if you do want to trim it down you could maybe track down Mags and see if she does personal training sessions via zoom or skype!

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    1. I should have figured. Mom is so liberal about everything. i didn't think it applied to me though!

      I've always wanted that teen girl bikini butt. Not likely to happen now! :-(

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    2. This is not the first time in your years of chronicles that some “juicy” butt comment has been made, directed at you julie. I don’t get it. You have a spectacular bottom! It’s gorgeous, perfectly spankable and pristinely shaped. It looks even more beautiful with some deep colour.

      Don’t change a thing young lady! Beautiful!

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  19. How wet you became and the strong scent that you emitted would have told all concerned just how you were excited and contented to be back being spanked in front of your father and mother.

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    1. I actually wasn't that sexually excited at the time? (Afterwards, yes!). I was too busy being EMBARRASSED!

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  20. You might or might not have had sexual feelings when your father last spanked you. Your elder sister was older when he stopped so you could discuss your and her feelings about engendering lust in your father when he saw your liquefying pussy.

    And it he is caught by your mum masturbating over events they will be having a deep conversation as to what that means for him her and you.

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    1. I had no overt sexual feelings when I was ten, but I had a "gooey" feeling? Interesting question for Sue, though, at age 13.

      And yes, but Daddy's not that dumb!

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  21. Normally I would comment something pervy, but really I'm just glad things went well with your parents. Not everyone gets to feel loved and accepted when they come out as a spanking fetishist. I am fortunate to have a very open minded girlfriend, and am happy to hear your family is the same way.

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    1. They think it's just a bit of fun, and they take the "DD" thing more like I'm finding my inner child through spanking. So it's all good.

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  22. How great the way this worked out for you Ms. Julie!   Such a wonderful and  profound experience.  The way you and David presented and explained to your parents was perfect.
    I have two grown daughters.  As I think about it seriously,  what if one of them had (or ever does)  come to me with the same situation?   I believe my thought process would be:
    "This is something very important to her, something she needs and of course I'll support her however I can".  I would also respect her very much for her bravery in sharing this with me. 
     Yes, like your parents I would observe the spanking.  I would be pleased to see her getting what she needs, profoundly satisfied.  I would understand the tears.
     And yes, there would be a sexual aspect, I must admit.  As she is being spanked on the bare and her vagina and feminine backside  are exposed to me, to be honest, it would definitely impress upon me that she is a sexual creature.   Though embarrassing to admit , I most likely couldn't help studying her private areas very closely.
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    1. Of Course! I think that is very very normal. I think Dad's who say the opposite, as in "oh horrors! Never!" legit do feel that way, but are probably a bit hung up.

      Of course NOT to be confused with acting on baser and non-consensual impulses and such like, which is horrid.

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  23. Julie,
    It could have worked out worse. Sometimes sharing isn’t good. When my wife and I really got into a FLR and into me wearing a chastity device, nobody knew. Even my wife’s sister and a female cousin remain clueless. We’ve known a couple for years and years and when they were our guests one weekend we both got carried away and clued them in. We knew them in college and they were raunchy. We didn’t reveal everything but a lot, including my wife keeping me in line with discipline and, what’s grown to be deliciously wicked hobby for her, keeping my poor penis in a metal chastity device where it weeps for freedom most of the time. It didn’t go over well. Enjoy!

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    1. It's the risk we take. What happened???

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    2. Julie,
      You know, it was uncomfortable. Our friends were polite and admitted that there was “something“ they couldn’t put a finger on about us that had changed and this was probably it.
      Joking became more nervous. Interestingly, my wife and I feel like we have never been happier and more intimate and told them. The woman’s husband and I had gone to a county store to purchase a couple of items. He had been a friend for years and felt comfortable enough to warm me not to let anyone take advantage. I said, “I’m not being taken advantage of. Being taken advantage can be fun.” His wife was more direct and asked my wife if we both were happy. My wife said, “deliriously.” We could tell they wanted to have more distance from us though we still see them. Guess people change.

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    3. Yeah, I think female submission is a lot more accepted. It's why we "came out" as we did and do not mention David's submission.

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    4. Julie
      My wife and I believe you are right, and being outed for wearing a chastity device that my wife literally controls was probably WAY over the top. Let’s face it, I could get out by defeating the lock obviously, but I’m at her mercy ;-) and I don’t want to spoil or change it. The dynamic is as attractive for us as discipline is for you and David. I’m thinking discipline alone might be easier for mature adults to accept. Delaying someone’s orgasms and locking them up in a cock cage Is probably too much for many. Thanks for a great discussion.

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  24. Did you see your folks drawn as cartoons over at Glenmore? He predicted hijinks after your departure? He may be right!

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    1. i did! Added a PS to this blog entry for it. Isn't that grand?

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  25. Oh my God! Things went further than your whishes...I'm happy for you. I know very well the feeling After an embarrassing episode. During the scene you feel extremely embarrassed, but then....excited...
    What a blush, showing your pussy to mom and dad! Especially becouse now they know you are completely shaved (I think, in accord to the DD contract). It Remember me me once, when a female cousin same age saw me without anything from the waist down. For me It wasn't about hair, but about size and erection...
    Go on Julie, I hope you can feel more and more! Waiting for Sue' s partecipation...

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    1. I'm going to give my Dad such a hug as soon as I can! I hope he pats my butt...

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  26. I remember at my early marriage, when I asked my wife to spank me (she was 21and I was 30), she was confused but as I couldn't get an erection what ever she tries, she got upset and started hitting on my chest, I turned my bottom to get all the strokes there, she noticed an erection so she continued then grabbed me to fuck her and it happened.
    Later, she tried again hitting my ass, she got a response, and this was the way during the honey moon.
    When we got home, she complained that I don't last long enough despite she spanks me.
    I told her I don't know, she said her mom told her to spank harder and try teasing me with her feet, I was shocked but she told me she is the only daughter and her mom is her best friend ever since her father died.
    She told me her mom noticed I stare at ladies feet a lot and thinks I have foot fetish not only spanking, she told me I responded well to feet teasing and proceeded to give me a foot job that caused an immediate erection, that she contained in her pussy.
    Next day, she teased me again by dangling her slipper, then told me to bend over, took off her slipper to spank me, I told her no, I was never spanked with a slipper, but she said either the slipper or nothing.
    I agreed and the spanking started, it was more painful, I was in tears but she didn't stop then she took me in her arms, and later it was long sex.

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    1. That is so sweet and at the same time soooo pathetic! You needed to be spanked to fuck properly. Ha ha!

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    2. What to Julie, she says I need to charge my penus to work and calls her slipper the quick charger, she stopped giving hand spankings it is only slipper spanking and foot teasing / job.
      To be honest, it is turned out I more interested in spanking and feet than sex and breasts. She even spanks me liberally when her mom is around and when she is traveling on business trips, her mom visits me to spank my ass, and if it is a long trip she allows me to lick her feet because she doesn't want me to stare at women's feet at work and get noticed.

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    3. Well back to you julie, do you think your mom will agree to spank you within this context.

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    4. No - I think Mom is leaving it to the "boys" to spank me! :-)

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  27. Maybe your dad with offer david his belt to use

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    1. Only if I'm very, very bad, and then hopefully David tells my Dad to do the honours himself!

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  28. Julie, know that you've had time to reflect, do you wish David had spanked longer and harder? If your Mom had offered David a hair brush, would that have been better or worse?

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    1. Hi Robert,

      Interesting question and well-asked.

      As you imply, at the time I considered it more than enough. I was so embarrassed, and felt so regressed to "little girl" status. I felt well and truly punished. I also think the length and severity of my spanking (or lack of severity) was correct for the situation.

      But looking back on it, yes, I wanted more. I would have preferred everybody to have been a bit angrier with me, and for Mom or Dad to have handed David a hairbrush or wooden spoon to really encourage him to spank me properly, as I am "a big girl" now, and need more than an eight-year-old. I also think corner-time would have been appropriate, with my bare bum showing. Afterwards, turning to face them (pants still down of course), hands on head, and a heartfelt apology before being forgiven.

      But a lot of that is fantasy thinking. David did the right thing!

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    2. Jesus H julie! Those last two sentences I FELT ! Right in the pit of my stomach. Just from the way I felt, I can imagine how that would have been for you.

      To your point, yes...totally appropriate. 15 minutes would have been sufficient, followed by the turning and presenting yourself. Face red and head lowered, hands still on your head for the apology. Then be hugged and comforted and forgiven.

      I think this is also the moment you’d wish someone would say “now go up to your room young lady”...as you’re about ready to crawl under the floor boards to hide from the shame as it is.

      A “grounding” to the spare room may have been helpful.

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    3. The "bare pussy" apology us always very contrite. And yes, a good grounding after.

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    4. Since Is a fantasy as you said, maybe a bare breast can make more embarrassement.....

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    5. I agree. Fully, completely, utterly NUDE!

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  29. So maybe you should change your blog name now to spanked Julie ?

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    1. Just change the emphasis: Strict Julie Spanks
      "those are the spanks that strict julie received!"

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  30. So did David administer a proper disciplinary spanking after the Sunday meal at home as promised or did your spanking in front of your parents suffice as punishment enough?

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  31. Julie - Having read your blog from the very beginning, I really didn't think there was anything you would do during your kinky journey together that would leave me totally gobsmacked and speechless. However, this one is definitely going into the record book. I am in awe, as always, at your courage & willingness to "show up & be seen" (literally & figuratively!). Thanks for allowing all of us to come with you on the ride. rmk

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    1. "Gobsmacked"
      Sounds painful :-)
      Thank you!

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  32. Do you think your husband might update your sister about the events that transpired last week and maybe encourage her to "get a piece" this Sunday? ;) absolutely love your blog!

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    1. No. I've already talked to sis. We're tight!

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  33. where does fantasy end and reality begin? Now the blog will have to be changed to Strict David Spanks.

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    1. No title change! It's the spanks that "strict" Julie must take!

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  34. Hmmm let's see

    "Sure, Let's see how you do it," said my Dad.

    "Go ahead," said my Mom, shaking her head. "Nothing we haven't seen before when she was a child. I blame myself," she added.

    Hello? BIG difference! Mom! Dad! I'm a grownup! I'm a wife! I thought all that, my heart pounding in my chest. Literally pounding with the adrenaline.

    Well, You admitted to finding your inner child to alleviate stress. you used babytalk to describe your impending spanking, when your panties were lowered there was no hair to be found, less than 20 spanks to elicit tears. So I think they were correct in that it wasn't anything they hadn't seen before except for your husband lowering your panties, and you becoming aroused over your husbands lap as he nurtured your inner child with their approval, but they weren't all wrong were they!

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    1. I wasn't aroused (at that time)!
      But yes, embarrassingly similar to my childhood spankings.

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  35. This is complete fantasy land. Mo chance is this happening in real life.

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    1. I TOLD you all I would take a credibility hit 😊

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    2. I have been reading your blog since almost the very beginning, and I remember the specific details f posts etc to prove it. The accounting is honest and credible and it can be proven so OR else you are some sort of major novelist mastermind -Ok probably both but still LOL. The voices of the parents are unique individual and honest and not at all contrived if they were the dialogue would be artificially smooth with awkward gaps like a hallmark movie -which it isnt. Furthermore the retelling is extemely personal with details of blanching which one can simply not make up -Ive been reading this genre since the beginning ( I'm older than you are!) and this is authentic, I know because I've lived some of it. Furthermore in the last month you have answered good news and bad , for and against and basically bent over backwards for this blog in heroic fashion. I dont have ANY question or doubt about the veracity of your story, If it was fake it would have gone too far like a pulp novel or too short like a rom com, and it didn't . You are credible.

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    3. I was hoping I put the credibility thing behind me when I published the videos! But perhaps this fellow is new. And I really can't blame him, because I get up to crazy stuff. I think women can make things happen in the real word way easier than guys can, but there are relatively few of us as eager to do so as me!

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  36. Mine happened by accident. didn't go bad but could have been better. My wife had just spanked me and I was standing in the corner naked. My mother-in-law walked in. "I just came to get the blender" she took it and left and has never mentioned it again. So now she knows her daughter spanks me but doesn't seem to want any part of it. She is still nice to me when we are together but I would have loved it if she would have made comments about me being spanked or better yet wanted to watch one

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    1. I actually find you MIL's behaviour very odd. Oh very proper and all. But boy she could have had some fun with it. If it was me in that situation I sure would have!

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    2. And that's why you deserve to be spanked !

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  37. Extraordinary series of posts!

    How much you must have been ashamed of being spanked on your bare bottom, your naked pussy well exposed by David in front of your parents, like an naughty little girl, and moreover for your obstinacy to tempt fate, to build improbable scenarios without respecting neither the word of David and the contributors to this blog, nor a certain right to which your parents are entitled to stay apart some aspects of your married woman life.

    For a deserved spanking, it was really a deserved spanking, and the show must have been quite charming: I would have gladly attended on a chair next to your parents.
    Now it's tomorrow Sunday, and Sue is going to be able to get into the "game", so to speak. How will she choose to do it?

    I spent a lot of time rereading and translating the different episodes of this fantastic blog, despite a very busy schedule, and that's why I only intervene so late, and in particular the evolution of the two sisters.
    If you think about it, and it took your therapy time somewhere, and it is perhaps taking Sue's therapy time, you started out being very Domme and severe with david, and he probably got it incredible sensations. Then your sister arrived in your games and david was spanked bare bottom in front of her, then spanked and finally milked by her.
    At the same time, and gradually, you started to be spanked at your request by david, first very mildly, to see what it was doing, then harder and harder, you cummed when Sue spanked you on your bare bottom, and finally David took by himself the initiative to spank you and you found that it suited you perfectly, and even that you had to claim it.

    Last step: you spanked Sue's bare bottom with her agreement in front of David watching it and staring almost the full monty (when does Sue show him her breast ?), and she seemed to appreciate enormously be exposed and spanked like that, even coming at the end of the evening to say a very nice goodbye to david at the corner.

    Don't you think the next step will be that David will discipline you on your bare bottom in front of Sue (and maybe your parents if it happens at home)? Maybe when you tell him about this blog?
    And that it can continue with this big desire that I feel for your sister to get a damn good bare bottom spanking by David, her pubis rubbing on his brother-in-law's knee , especially since you are the first to recognize that he is a gifted spanker?

    I must say that since almost the beginning of this blog, I have been preparing for this evolution for you. Why ?
    First because you love to show off, show off naked publicly (the beach...), expose your lovely bare buttocks and your very cute shaved pussy.
    Secondly, because from the first spanking that David gave you, you really liked the sensations, even if you wanted to control them and control David's action at all costs, even if at the time you were having trouble accept, which is not surprising in view of your trauma.

    You love receiving spanking, you are made for it, and you love even more the big spankings received naked which bring you to tears but which de-stress and also excite you to the highest degree.

    Only one point still amazes me: to my knowledge (but I recognize that I have not yet been able to read all the episodes of your extraordinary blog very well written and illustrated): you have not dealt with the pleasure of strolling bare bottom under a skirt or a dress, that must have tickled you though?

    You know for sure you're really a naughty girl desereving your bare bottom spankings.
    Would you be able to get the same treatment than david : an utterly nude public spanking on the beach with some smiling nude men around ?

    But what you publish is really amazing and addictive. Hats off !

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