Sunday, May 17

Subie gets his Anus Whipped by a Pro!

I have an e-subbie whom we shall call 'Tim' for our purposes here that I have been exchanging emails with for quite some time. Well before pandamic set in, Tim went to visit a Pro-Domme (his very first time) to enact a scene where he needed to visit Human Resources to undergo a "Performance Improvement Plan" (Tim has had fantasies of "workplace-oriented discipline" for years). Tim excitedly told me all about his planned session and asked me if I had any special requests. Always eager to please, I wrote back.
Hi Tim,
I'd love to see you get a good whipping to your anus.
You would hold your cheeks nice and wide apart.
She would use a riding crop and target your little penny.
Julie
I thought that might give a bit of a central focus to his experience.

Tim had found his Pro Domme by surfing Andy's Someone's Gonna Get It blog where, amongst other entertainments, Andy does interviews with Pros. The Pro in question was Audrey from Destiny's Chamber. This was the first image Tim saw of Audrey on Andy's site.

From Andy's Blog Entry

You can tell why he was attracted to her, especially playing the role of a strict HR Professional!

I want to say before I describe the scene how utterly professional Audrey has been when negotiating this blog entry. Audrey wants to make very clear that her clients' privacy is of her utmost concern, and that photos and/or audio of a session are only ever taken at the request of the client, using only the client's own devices. She considers anything that goes on during a session to be highly private and personal, and she only allowed this blog entry once she was 100% convinced that it was what Tim desired, and only under the condition that we take pains to protect Tim's privacy, which we shall of course do. Also, in everything that follows, the major outlines between Tim and Audrey were all negotiated in advance, Tim's pain threshold was discussed, and safewords were established.

Fortunately, Tim went through with his session (unfortunately, many first-time clients of Pros don't I am given to understand). He told Audrey about me in advance, and asked permission to make an audio recording and to have her take photos of him throughout the session to share with me. Audrey agreed to his request.

Afterwards, Tim wrote me up a nice long report about his visit for me, which included the photos and audio recording. I thought it was very interesting, and loved Audrey's energy and professionalism. So I asked first Tim, and then, with his permission, Audrey, if I might publish the account with some closely cropped photos (but not the audio for privacy reasons - I will tell you what was in it, though). Tim was enthusiastic about me sharing, and Audrey also warily agreed once 100% convinced it was what Tim wished.

On the day of the session, I suppose poor Tim was flustered, but he wound up with the cab dropping him on the wrong street with only 10 minutes to spare. He blames the cabbie, I blame him. He wound up having to jog five blocks to the actual street, and wound up five minutes late. Bad Boy!

Tim recounted to Audrey his run, and she was impressed that he made it. When Tim bragged about how he works out, Audrey disarmed him beautifully by saying "Well, you must have nice thighs - looking forward to seeing them." Very nice how Audrey so delightfully put him in his place, by emphasizing he would soon be undressing down to nothing for her! Ha ha!

Audrey and Tim went over the scene one more time. Always good to do this in person, as you get additional nuance relative to just email. Here is Tim's scene as he wrote it up.
I'm an employee at a company, and my performance has been below par for a few months. Efforts by my manager (a woman) to help me improve have not been successful, so I'm being sent to the VP of HR (also a woman) for a formal Performance Improvement Plan (PIP). The PIP outlines the tasks I need to undertake in order to improve my performance. She explains these to me, and ask if I understand them. I say "I do." Then she says "Great. Then we'll both sign the PIP and put it into your Personnel File."

At this, I "lose it", becoming belligerent, argumentative, and aggressive over having something put in my Personnel File ... and by a woman no less!! She reminds me this is a woman-owned business, and all the VP's are either family members or - like her - sorority sisters of the CEO. She did not like that I emphasized "by a woman". She reminds me that the company has a progressive discipline policy. The first level is the work done by my manager with me. The second level is the Performance Improvement Plan. The third level would be a Decision Making Leave. "Tim, you came into my office at the second discipline level because of performance issues; however, I could add this behaviour issue to that and immediately place you on the third and highest level, Decision Making Leave, for you to have 3 days unpaid leave to consider whether you really want to change your behaviour, or whether you choose to leave this company."

At this, I realize my job is at stake, and she could really make things bad for me. Thus, I ask her whether she would consider overlooking my poor behaviour this time.

"Well, Tim, I can do that; however, just like the company has a progressive discipline policy, I have a personal progressive discipline policy. To keep your poor behaviour between ourselves, I'll need you to go through all 3 levels of my discipline policy."

I think for a moment, then ask, "Well, what does that entail?"

She puts on a sly smile and says, "you'll find out soon enough. Are you in, or out?"

Not having a good choice here, I reluctantly say, "Sigh ... I'm in."

At this, she lights up and says, "Excellent!! We'll get started with Level 1 right now."

So the scene starts after this exchange.

The first thing Audrey does is to have Tim drop his trousers. Audrey actually discovers that... he is in panties! (both in the scene, and in real life! Ha ha!). But those panties need to get pulled down also to fully expose Tim for the discipline that is about to come.


I guess she took a photo, "for her personal HR file on him" ;-)

Audrey then put Tim across the bench for lecturing, inspection, and discipline preparation.


Noticing his dangling sac, Audrey figured she needed a method to keep it out of the way during discipline, so improvised a good approach.


Oh no! Poor timmy! Leashed! And I feel compelled to comment on Tiny Tim's "manhood" at this point... Yeah. exactly. 😂😂😂


There we go. Back over the bench for more lecturing, inspection, and warmup preparatory to more serious discipline, but now with those small, yet sensitive, testicles held well out of the way. In this position, Audrey lectures him about his behaviour and taunts him over his embarrassing predicament.

Next, Tim must go across Audrey's lap, like a little boy, to receive his spanking.


Ok, we had our fun with Tim's junk, but I must say that is a very beautiful and spankable bottom. Almost womanly, I would say! I love the view with his panties at half-mast like that. What must Audrey have made of Tim? Across her knee with lowered panties ready to be spanked? Remember, this is what Audrey looks like.

From Destiny's Chamber Audrey Page

I imagine she was smiling just as broadly as that when she had Tim across her lap. Audrey spanked him with her hand first, which Tim described as "VERY Hard", and then with a small strap, which he described as "WICKEDLY Stinging".

After his spanking, Tim's panties were fully removed and he was required to kneel at Audrey's feet and beg her forgiveness. "So how do you feel now, Tim? Humbled?"


Then she put her foot on him and said, "this is my Victory Pose, my foot on top of you." You can hear Tim whimpering at the humiliation.


Next Audrey picks up her strap and continued to roast Tim's poor bum!


You can start seeing the bands of red that Audrey painted on Tim's ass over the past while. He's getting exactly what he asked for. A good hard disciplining from the VP HR!

At this point, Tim was allowed a bit of a break where he stood up and posed for a photo while tugging up on his leash to remind him of his predicament which amused Audrey considerably. Another shot for his HR file.


After that began the anus whipping part of the session. I listened to the audio of that entire thing, and oh my goodness, did poor Tim ever catch it! Literally hundreds of unrelenting, hard strokes. Tim said towards the end he was close to safe-wording out, but did not. No, like a good subby slut, he took them all.


He had to hold his cheeks widely apart for most of it. Audrey maintained a laughing banter throughout Tim's epic bumhole whipping. Some hilights from the audio:

"I need more... more... open! Pop it out! Pop it out! No, don't hump your back. Arch it out. Not that way. Arch it out. Like the bottom bitch in the porn. Doggy style. Give it to me, I need a flat surface."

"I am whipping your asshole! That is absolutely vulgar... I love it!"

"Oh it's just winking at me! Dear!"

"And this is because you need to stay humble. Correct?" - "Yes Ma'am".

"Oh, your body and your butthole are saying, like, Give Me More!"

"That will teach you. Teach you to be humble. On your hands and knees. Spreading your ass cheeks. Dick and balls on a leash."

"The word is 'red' if you need it"

"Where are you being spanked right now? Where?" - "I'm being spanked on my... anus... Ma'am"

"Ow Ow Ow Ow Ow" - "Spread 'em!" - "Sorry Ma'am!" - "Sorry won't cut it!"

"Look at you! You're just jiggling your butt! You want more! That is hard core!"

After ending with a particularly hard series directly on the button, Audrey concluded,  "You really are an anal spank slut. You really are. That's what you are. An anal spank slut. You were begging for it, you know. Non-verbally." - "Yes Ma'am".

They did a few other activities after that point that we can safely leave to your imagination. None of them involving any nudity or touching of Audrey, of course, and all of which were exquisitely humiliating for poor Tim.

Then they went and ended the scene with a bit of roleplay.

A: Well, Tim, have you learned your lesson to be a team player and to always respect women?

T: Yes, Ma’am, I have.

A: Good! And, are you ready to sign your Performance Improvement Plan for your Personnel File?

T: Yes, Ma’am, I Am.

A: Excellent! Now, I don’t want to see you in here again for Performance Issues. If I do, you know how I’ll deal with them right?

T: Yes, Ma’am, I know now, and I want to avoid another session like this.

A: Wonderful!! That’s music to my ears! It’s the end of the day, so get dressed and go home, and REMEMBER THIS LESSON!!

T: Yes, Ma’am, I will remember what you taught me. Thank you for not putting me on Level 3 Discipline.

A: You’re very welcome!!

And that was the scene between Audrey and Tim. While Audrey was VERY MUCH in control the entire time, Tim reported she has a great sense of humour and kept things fun and lively throughout. Tim decided it was a very good experience and he definitely wants to do it again with Audrey!

If you do as well, go check out a reputable Pro Domme such as Audrey or the other Ladies at Destiny's Chamber.

Thank you Tim and Audrey, especially in this time of pandemic, for allowing us to live vicariously through you!

54 comments:

  1. In your note you mentioned his little penny, I'm glad you brought that up because a few posts back I was trying to mention that as experience increases, so does the denomination of the coin. This was why I implied that there was no way that your being over someones lap didn't reveal that your penny had turned into a quarter. Going over his lap again will surely reveal that you're solidly headed in the direction of 50 cents!

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    1. Guess there's only one way to find out for sure, eh? ;-)

      "Timmy"

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    2. Timmy makes an appearance. Where's Audrey?

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  2. Julie are you excited for Sunday dinner? Might get a spanking from daddy hmm?

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    1. That's unlikely. But I did get David to promise he would drop a mention of my spankings if nobody else does, so there is that!

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    2. Oh well ,BEHAVE or you might just get spanked by David after returning home
      HA HA

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    3. I'll be good as gold!
      "Sunday" dinner is actually on Monday owing to the Queen's Birthday.

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  3. Looks like a great experience. Audrey seems like a very strict peach. Tim, you sure put yourself out there, even if only anonymously. Are you sore Ms. Julie teased you about your cock? I bet you loved it, didn't you? Any after effects from the whipping?

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    1. Strict peach indeed! Ha ha!

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    2. Yes, I DID love it!! Audrey was GREAT and I want to do a session with her again, as soon as practical.

      I must say I really felt the spanking/strapping and anus whipping as I walked back to where I was staying - OUCH!! After a while, the stinging went away.

      Before going to bed, I inspected the damage - lots of red and some bruising, and my "penny" was glowing brightly!

      "Timmy"

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  4. Miss Audrey is well know for her hard hand spankings.

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    1. Timmy can vouch for that.

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    2. Amen!! I could not distinguish Audrey's hand from an implement, and told her so during our session - Audrey took that as a compliment, thanked me for sharing that, and then ramped her hand spanking a few more notches!

      "Timmy"

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  5. Oh, is that Audrey Knight? I used to have a crush on her during her rise in the community.

    -Kasey

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    1. She's Audrey Sugarsmak - her page on Destiny's Chamber lists her FetLife and Twitter handles. Audrey has done a number of spanking videos, both as a top and a bottom - be sure to search for "Sugarsmak" on your favourite video site.

      "Timmy"

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  6. Love love LOVE this! It’s so neat to see on how many levels this works. To see a professional being open to working not only with boys that need their behaviors modified, but to also be open to interacting with someone like Julie is really neat.

    I think many are like myself. Husbands or boyfriends that are with partners that don’t necessarily understand our needs or desires to have this kind of interaction. But it shows that there are outlets to these needs for not only the physical act with a pro disciplinarian, but the mental needs as well to sometimes just talk and be allowed to be who we are with some one like Julie that “gets it”. The session seemed intense and hot, but I really loved that it was also about his needs and feelings. That Miss Audrey and Julie understand his need while being able to enjoy their own as well. This post just made me warm, and happy, and hopeful. Thank you all three!

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    1. I have found most reputable pro domes have a genuine passion for it. I could certainly imagine myself doing it!

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    2. Spankinlyfe - You're welcome!! Happy to have shared my experience, and glad you enjoyed it and found it hopeful!

      I am married to a vanilla wife, who would never want to spank me hard enough to satisfy my desires and needs. Fortunately, pros like Audrey and a disciplinarian near me exist to let me fulfill these in a safe and private manner.

      I don't know if you've ever visited a pro domme or pro disciplinarian - I've found both women I've seen to be VERY professional and VERY dedicated to ensuring they do their best to deliver the experience the client is seeking.

      What's also interesting is how matter-of-fact and almost clinical both women approached their sessions with me. Even though we both knew I'd end up naked in front of them - and both are very attractive women! - we also both knew there would be NOTHING sexual about the experience. Indeed, I did not become sexually aroused AT ALL in any of my sessions - instead, it was more "butterflies in my stomach" not knowing exactly how each session would unfold, while also knowing I would experience painful spankings. This is a different dynamic than exists between Julie and david, where there IS an existing sexual relationship, thus providing a sexual undertone to everything.

      Thanks again for sharing your thoughts, and for allowing me to do the same!

      "Timmy"

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    3. Julie, if you were to become a pro domme, or even just experiment with someone other than david, I'd certainly be willing to session with you!

      "Timmy"

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    4. Get in line, buddy! ;-)

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    5. "both knew there would be NOTHING sexual about the experience."
      Ah ah! Here is one common point between a pro domme and julie's dady. :)

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    6. Yes, but we both wish something more could happen!

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  7. What happened at Sunday dinner? Was there a spanking reference or even more exciting an actual Spanking?

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    1. Sunday dinner is actually Monday owing to the Queens birthday.

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  8. Oh my Jules! She is a gorgeous little Domme! Girl next door spanker indeed.

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    1. Yes she is, but dare you to call her little when she has a strap in hand!

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    2. Interestingly, Audrey's web page lists her stats - 5' 6", 140 pounds, 34C-28-39, dress size 6, and shoe size 8. Being on the shorter side myself, I ended up being not much bigger than Audrey. Still, with her heels on and when she went into "role play" mode, she came across as VERY large and VERY commanding, and VERY capable of wielding a wicked strap to tan my ass good! Oh, and let's not forget the anus whipping with her crop - excellent aim and power!

      Even so, she does exude a "girl next door" persona - and that, to me, made the role play even more realistic.

      "Timmy"

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  9. This an excellent pro, I like her much more than your mistress Violet.

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    1. You have no idea what you're missing with Mistress V!

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    2. Julie, I've read about your experiences with Mistress Violet and she seems to be a VERY capable, creative, and professional domme. That said, Violet does not strike me as having Audrey's "girl next door" vibe - and that may be what triggered the earlier comment.

      Still, I'd be willing to do a session with Mistress Violet, to provide a basis for comparison! ;-)

      "Timmy"

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    3. That's not the vibe on her website, true, but in person she is very versatile!

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  10. Surfing audreys section on destiny chamber reveals she also does switch play and even has a few pictures of her in diapers! Wow. Made my day!

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    1. As Julie was writing this experience, she read Audrey's web page very closely, and suggested I try a "switch" session with Audrey next time! I'm certainly open to that, if Audrey is.

      Anyone have some ideas for "switch" role play scenarios? The one I've thought of - we're roommates who have each violated our roommate agreement, and each ends up spanking the other.

      I'm sure this blog's readers can do better than me, so PLEASE share your ideas!!

      "Timmy"

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  11. The lovely Ms Audrey could add a cage to be worn as part of his probationary period. A cage tends to focus the male mind and ensures respect for women in the workplace. Should be more of it. Mr D

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    1. I have an eSubbie currently in chastity now. I'm quite enjoying it whenever I think about it...

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    2. Do tell! Is he the same one who is currently writing punishment lines for you ?

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    3. Yes! Double trouble! Next blog.

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    4. I certainly think Audrey would have been open to adding a cage as part of my probationary period - and certainly something to consider for my next session with her!

      "Timmy"

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  12. Wow! I love everything that you write about Julie, but anus whipping is a rare treat that I have only discovered recently. With all those nerves bunched in that most private area, the pain and humiliation combines to be ecstatic. When my wife uses a crop or cane on my wide spread pucker I just can't get too much.
    I also enjoy being locked into chastity.

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    1. A boy after my own heart!

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    2. I was close to safewording out during my anus whipping, and Audrey reminded me of the safeword during this whipping - still, as Julie wrote, I was a "good subby slut" and took ALL the strokes Audrey dished out!

      Near the end, she cropped my anus for 1 minute straight, likely close to 2 strokes per second, so well over 100 strokes in a minute - THAT was when I was close to saying "red" (the safeword), yet gutted through it. That's why Audrey called me an "anal spank slut" - I just took everything she gave, no matter the pain!

      "Timmy"

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  13. What happened at "Monday dinner" SPILL

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  14. I do want to thank Julie for wanting to share my experience with her readers, and to thank Audrey again for a wonderful session! Both Julie and Audrey were truly professional in the creation, editing, and refining of this blog post. Two WONDERFUL women, and glad to have collaborated with them on this!

    "Timmy"

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  15. I had a friend that was a pro Domme. I think she would be ok with that description. I have paid her for her services many times but we also became friends. She had quite a few married clients, and anus spanking was one of her specialties that allowed her to punish these guys without the results being easily seen. She has a variety of implements, some she experimented with initially on me. One that is very effective is made of 4 leather laces, with tight small knots at the end. I can usually feel the effects for days, every step I take. It is an excellent reminder.

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    1. Hey - just now seeing and responding to this. That 4 leather lace implement sounds WICKED!! Any idea where you pro Domme friend got it? Did it look something like this: https://www.cane-iac.com/items/leather-shack~straps/thesinnerjr-detail.htm ?

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  16. What an awesome experience. I have a strong interest in workplace discipline and anal spanking. Frankly, I have had 1 or 2 lady bosses in real life whom I would have allowed to whip my anus as a real punishment.

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    1. Thank you - it truly was an UNFORGETTABLE experience!! The session actually had 2 different stretches of anal whipping, and I'd say these totaled between 15 and 20 minutes. Yes, there is something about having to submit to your female boss that is SO VERY HOT!!

      -tim

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