Saturday, February 20

Slut Shaming: Princess or Brat?

My how times have changed. In my day, slut shaming was still a "thing". The perpetrators and victims were all girls. The boys were just added teasing backdrop. It started in middle school and intensified in the earlier years of high school. If you got a reputation as being "easy", the other girls would fall on you like a pack of wolves. I never fell victim to it myself, being a surprisingly good girl in school, but I saw it happening to others. I've always wondered about the psychology of it.

There has been a bit of a campaign against it, which I applaud. For example, I saw this "anti slut shaming" ad on twitter a while back.

The caption says "don't", but, as a friend put it, the image looks like an instructional for girls who want to please!

But what triggered my post was a TikTok video I saw on twitter. It's a series of girls sharing publicly a slutty thing they did, and rather than being shamed for it by the other girls, being applauded for it.

This first one says "I got expelled from my old school for fucking my teacher."

Yay! Go the other girls as they applaud loudly.


This next one says, "I hooked up with my Uber driver while my boyfriend was passed out in the back seat."

Yay!

This one says, "I fucked my ex's best friend and he still doesn't know."

Yay!


This one, one of the naughtiest (!), says "the school thinks my Sugar Dad is my real Dad because he signs me out every week."

Yay! Hurrah!


This one, perhaps the most innocent (?), says "I had a crush on my teacher so I started dating his son so I could come over."

Yay! And no judgment from her friends for not being quite as slutty as the others, she gets vigorous applause anyways. I LOVE it. Girls supporting girls.

Here is the video, I'll discuss after you get a chance to watch.

This is so bold of them! And so healthy and anti-slut-shaming for young girls. It illustrates why pretty girls are Queens who deserve to rule all you boys out there, but in a strange dualistic fashion also desperately need a good old-fashioned spanking! Princess or brat?

It certainly engenders those two simultaneous feelings in me. Both if I were one of the girls in question, or if I were the parental figure.

Ok, slut shaming is bad, but that, together with school and parental authority, did provide a little check and balance on girls' out-of-control hormonal sexuality. With no checks and balances, is any boy safe???

Imagine if that TikTok was discovered by school or parents? I can imagine!

Would anybody say it was not deserved?

If I had a daughter who appeared on that TikTok, I wouldn't know whether to kiss her or spank her! Though I'm pretty sure her father would know what to do...

And afterwards,

I doubt it would cure her though. If it was me it would have just egged me on.

Where or where have traditional values gone?

A girl who acted like a trollop back then would have had her rear end reddened with the hairbrush, have had her panties pinned to the mantle, and would have been showing off her red bum for any neighbourhood woman who cared to stop by for tea. The neighbours would have known for certain that any signs of incipient sluttery was dealt with harshly in that household!

Her father also would have taken a very dim view on her behaviour, and she would have expected a week's worth of panties down, across the knee, discipline.

She must be taught that the world is not her oyster, and while she has great power over some boys and men, certain other men of responsibility have great power over her, and will not hesitate to use it in the manner the father above demonstrates.

Now I ask you, how else to keep a hormonal girl in check?

So tell me in the comments, what are your thoughts? Princess? Brat? Or both?

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  1. 100% brat! Let that TikTok be a warning to fathers, husbands, boyfriends everywhere what your innocent little girls get up to behind your back. Stay vigilant and ready to spank!

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  2. I don’t that an , at least, monthly “Pentinence Spanking” for a Princess is unrealistic.
    Everyone, including Princesses, has unconfessed transgressions.
    So a good hard monthly Maintenance Spanking might be a great way of keeping her grounded morally, plus relieving any guilt she may be harbouring.
    A safety valve release, if you will.

    I’m not 100% convinced but it seems like a good compromise.

    Charles.

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    1. I like it! Sort of like the Catholic confessional. Go forth and be as slutty as you want, then monthly spankings from Daddy for repentance.

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  3. I can only hope that some teacher does not go to prison because one of these girls outted him/her in the video.

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    1. In Canada 16 is the age of consent, so not necessarily illegal, but immoral and against school rules if a teacher with power over her.

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    2. It’s actually 18, as a teacher is considered a person in authority by sex laws

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    3. You seem to know these rules TOO well... :-)

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  4. exciting but frightening legally

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    1. Which part? The girls being slutty with older guys, or the spankings? The spankings are not meant seriously (I advocate spanking only for willing older girls above the age of consent between partners without an external power dynamic). The girls with older guys, I feel similarly. So long as of consenting age, and if girl is calling the shots (as these appear to be!) then more power to them.

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  5. Total Princesses growing up to be Queens. When they grow up a little I would willingly be at each of their feet, naked, in chastity, doing their every whim. Sigh...

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    1. Ahhhh. Your pathetic beta male tears turn me on...

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  6. Why choose? Let “The Princess Brat” be a princess and a brat at the same time, with all that goes with it. Am I the only one who is reminded of Anne Rice’s Beauty books in which up and coming princesses were put through “boot camp” as it were? -- Frank

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    1. Oh yes! A.N. De Roquelaire. Read them all (and everything else Anne Rice wrote!)

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    2. I thought I’d read them all, but the last time I looked it seemed she had added a fourth book to the trilogy. And we all thought she’d gone over permanently to the vampire side…. -- Frank

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    3. Quite right! Had not read the 4th!

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  7. My take:

    First two definitely need spanked. Seducing teachers and cheating are simply inappropriate behavior, regardless of "sex positivity" or whatever term one may use.

    Third one depends on when said hookup occurred. If after the breakup, not a big problem. If before, hard spanking deserved.

    I'd spank number 4, but that may just be because I'm an old crank/closet romantic who disapproves of transactional sex like that. Harrumph, harrumph.

    Number 5 is adorable, but toying with the son's emotions/lying like that is wrong as well. If he dated her so he could get close to her sister, she'd be rightly upset. She also gets spanked.

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    1. Ha ha! Love the judgment. I totally agree.

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  8. No less than 24 of best with the dragon cane for sluts.
    Except the one who dated her teacher's son, she gets only 6 of the best for appearing in the video.

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  9. I hope they live in a state that still allows school paddling.
    Notice how all of the 'red' states endorse corporal punishment?
    (Texas, Florida, etc.) These states endorsed for the right president.
    The so-called 'blue' states (NY, Calif. etc.) oppose spanking.
    Maybe if these liberals had been chastised more at school, they
    would have ended up with more common sense and voted for the great
    patriot who was our leader for the last four years!
    They all need their blue butts turned into a shiny red!

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    1. I could not agree more ;-)

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    2. Your not kidding about red states. I went to school in Fla. &
      this girls heinie was sure red after many visits to the office.
      It was a Christian school & no makeup or bold dress. We even had to wear panythose in the heat! I got paddled for waring sandals & bare feet. When I got home my mom was waiting with
      the wooden spoon. When my dad got home it was the belt!
      After three spankings in one day I wore long pants for a week.
      I learned my lesson to be modest.

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    3. You were quite the little rule breaker. It's not only the bare feet and sandals that got you spanked, it was the rebelliousness. Good to know you learned how not to be caught breaking the rules after that.

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    4. I really, really hate your politics, Julie.

      But God, the idea of a strong conservative lady putting my wimpy liberal butt in a pair of panties and beating me until I 'see the light'...is more than a little of a turn on.

      I hate that I want you to 'teach me a lesson' even though I know how wrong you are...

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    5. I maintain "hating your politics" is not a thing. Lazy thinking. There are only individual issues. Anybody who "plays on a team" with their ideology needs their butt beat.

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    6. C'mon, you know what I meant by it, you're just twisting it around...

      Uhg, this is what I mean. I just want a cock shoved in my mouth while getting a good lecture..

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    7. I know exactly what you meant ;-)

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    8. A gaslighting conservative, imagine that...

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    9. I don't understand what that means?

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    10. "Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which a person or a group covertly sows seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or group, making them question their own memory, perception, or judgment"

      But..I may have just been trying to provoke you to say something mean back, heh...

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  10. Ask Larry.

    Let him overhear a discussion about modern girls. David argues for traditional values while you are passionate that times have changed. Let it get personal and end with your going over David's knee. In front of Larry? In the next room? Sent to bed to wait? David should decide after consulting with Larry.

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    1. Nice! I can show the video as a "fun thing" I found online and say how great it was. David could sternly disagree, suggesting those young ladies needed a good spanking. I'll bet Larry would side with David. I could get into "the patriarchy" and insult both of them in the process.

      After heatedly saying something like "you FUCKING men all think alike. Well FUCK BOTH OF YOU!" I think David should take me to the bedroom telling Larry this will only take a minute. Larry would hear it all and then see a contrite, sniffling girl come back, eyes downcast, and apologize to him...

      Fantasy come true!

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    2. Delicious! I imagine seeing you sitting quietly listening to David explain how he has had to take you in hand, that he had spoiled you until you became a brat and now had to assert his authority. That an immediate spanking is generally followed by a belting that night and that you were going to be really sorry later.
      You answer all Larry's questions with a 'yes, sir'.

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  11. A follow up, this is Jack, my wife told me after church this morning that we will be going shopping. Her best friends works at a nice woman's store, not many people on Sunday afternoon. Been told that panties, will be purchase my size, very short nightie. This friend of hers knows I'm spanked and been told in advance of our visit. I'm dreading this, been told I make a scene while there, it will be a trip to the dressing room, and sitting come home will be very hard and if anyone is shopping they will hear you, so best be a good little boy. I just don't want to wear panties and a nightie and be seen by others. My wife saids her two best friends will enjoy this.

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    1. I very much hope the saleslady will be invited back to the change rooms to judge the fit.

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  12. I love the skirt diagram. Funny (if sadly true). I like if when Irene wears skirts or dresses when we engage in sexual activity. There’s something deliciously naughty about getting underneath - I assume it comes from all those adolescent years thinking about it. I like the knee length hems, attractive but not something that attracts too much attention on the street.

    As far as the brazen young girls, I’d love to join them all for a slumber party. they can all spank me as they laugh about it. Then I’ll lick each pussy and make breakfast in the morning.

    Rosco

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    1. We know what Rosco dreams about naked in bed...

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  13. No way these are all real, right? They all need to learn about self respect, how to prepare for the future by making good life lessons or, at the very least, why it's a bad idea to eat yourself out online.I

    That said, as a scholar of ethics, if these were my girls and we assume full consent, no impairment through drink/drugs:

    1) My girl can't get an education at your school because one of your teachers fucked her? If you don't take her back then I'm burning this place to the ground
    2) OK if they have an open relationship, maybe the boyfriend would find it hot! Spanking if not, I'm afraid.
    3) No problem here, unless it was cheating, in which case, spanking.
    4) Fine to have a Sugar Dad, not OK for him to take on my identity or for you to lie about your whereabouts. She gets a spanking, he gets a swift lesson in ball busting from the sexy vice principal
    5) Depends what she told the son when they were dating. Consent is key and he can't make informed decisions if he has had intel. Spanking if dishonest.

    As for the naughty girl encouraging bad behaviour by posting their video on her blog: severe spanking followed by writing lines; she's old enough to know better! Video on TikTok of her talking about her punishment, showing the lines and giving a little speech about how consensual sex can be fun and exciting it is important to build good character and set yourself up for future success.

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    1. Looks real to me! But maybe I'm gullible?
      1) well yes, unless she ridiculously through herself at him, in which case a bit of a spanking is warranted.
      2-5: agreed!

      As to moi... guilty as charged

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    2. Just noticed my tablet auto-corrected "rat yourself out online" to the much more anatomically challenging "eat yourself out online!" I promise it wasn't a Freudian clit.

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    3. Been doing this long enough that I can read auto-correct. I just see the word you intended.

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    4. Is there no end to your list of talents?

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  14. If she threw herself at him then he should have pulled her off again, spun her around, and spanked that slutty ass. If he gets fired because fucking a student is grounds for dismissal well, sorry, but he knew what he was in for. No way is there a school rule saying that fucking a teacher will get you expelled. If I'm wrong, then a spanking to make her think twice next time she values a dick over an education.

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    1. Yes. You may be a better bullshit spotter than I, but I will suspend my disbelief and still say the slut needs a good spanking!

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    2. I'm beginning to suspect you're not really interested in dishing out justice and are rather more interested in seeing five pretty teenagers lose their spanking virginity.

      The photo you posted shows four well punished girls bent over to display their lovely glowing bottoms, begging the question: What is Ms Julie doing with the fifth wayward teen?

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    3. Yes, girl 5, I took off to the side to teach her about the birds and the bees.

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    4. Poor lass doesn't know what she's in for; I imagine there will be a visual element to your lecture, and maybe a little audience participation!

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  15. Slut shaming by peers is wrong... but slut punishing by respectable autority figures is perfectly acceptable.
    Spankings for sluts and slut-shamers alike I say!

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  16. The dominant branches of feminism now approve of 'slut shaming' of certain types. Basically:
    A) Are you showing skin to entice or satisfy the 'male gaze'? SLUT! Anti-feminist!
    B) Crazily "slut walks" are ok, but this time, straight guys are not supposed to look. The basic idea is that women have to be free from the "male gaze" or any type of sexualization because power because oppression, because wolf-whistles aren't just annoying (or some women even like them)or rude, but are equivalent to rape or, at least, sexual assault. In short, even though we are 'strutting our stuff' out in public - avert your eyes male peasants!
    C) Female characters in movies and comics are always 'problematic' if they are straight or bi and sexualized. The best characters from a feminist standpoint are depicted in male clothing or otherwise wrapped up. Hair is invariably short, and breasts are covered so much as to be non-noticeable. Of course this his hard to do well, so they tend to also be sloppily dressed as well and almost never have 'feminine' clothing.
    D. Sexual harassment laws are pretty much too expansive everywhere in the Western World, but esp bad in US, Canada, and Great Britain. Such that saying "lovely hair" can be an offense. In one famous case a guy having a picture of his WIFE in a bikini on his desk was ruled to be Sexual Harassment. Of course they also tend to be sexistly applied to go on top of that.

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  17. Basically straight or bi men are in trouble if we ever make our sexual wants or observations noted to all but an already intimate partner. Heck, we even have to avoid what were once considered mere compliments or expressions of common humanity (such as hugs or hands gently on a shoulder as opposed to pinching an ass) How many potential relationships, marriages and children this has destroyed over the past 30 years is unknown. Believe it or not this does have a connection to 'slut shaming' in that male heterosexuality is often demonized. The dreaded "double standard" was fought by the original modern feminists in the 1950's and 60's. Hence, the Sexual Revolution where, for a brief time (15 years at the most, more like ten in my opinion) women were encouraged to "if you got it flaunt it" and have sex with whomever of whatever sex they wanted. Speaking of America due to AIDS and the new-found coalition by the Conservative Religious Right and the Radical Feminists in the 1980's things changed. Both sides hated porn (for OFTEN different reasons but they shared some common ones). Both sides hated what we would call today 'hookup' culture. Both sides hated even dating, because the radfems wanted to destroy family formation (oppressive nuclear family ) and the Conservatives knew dating wasn't necessarily COURTING and led to too much of that premarital sex stuff. Anyway too long to go into every detail, but EVENTUALLY (despite the Internet temporarily for about 10 to 15 years loosening some things up again via anonymity) the Radfems took over the feminist movement, and while things like The Moral Majority found their political and social power waning, the Radfems found feminism to be part of the very ruling system itself and so managed to get THEIR ideas into schools, into policies, into entertainment.
    And one of their big ideas is that Heterosexuality is politically 'problematic'. Hence why women's sexuality with OTHER WOMEN is celebrated constantly and almost never 'slut shamed' whereas , like I said, a housewife doing something sexy for her hubby or an actress who stars in too many 'male gaze' friendly movies (let alone downright porn) can find their social media lighting up with condemnation and their career opportunities in most of the education or entertainment institutions severely compromised. With the SOLE exception that men still get to decide WHO to marry and IF we marry, we have no say in any of this. It is true that most men will avoid women with double digit numbers when it comes to serious relationships. The research I've seen indicates that people who are very promiscious are happier and can more easily form stable relationships with people of similar mindset. In other words 'sluts' should marry 'studs' if they want to be happy. Regardless of the reason the male contribution (these days)to 'slut shaming' is that we tend to make it harder for them to marry. Since I do think this is partly biological (based on difficulty in the past of determining paternity with the town 'bike'), I don't think this can ever be changed (short of genetic engineering), but I wanted to point out there is hope for sluts of both sexes.

    TLDR? The dominant form of modern feminism is all about slut shaming if your sexuality is politically 'problematic', and men often don't dare have any say in this one way or the other beyond commit or not commi

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    1. Fortunately, I don't see a lot of that in my world. Girls can still be girls, and boys can still be boys. That's more "normal folk" stuff.

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    2. Well, you are in Canada and the social culture is different. I don't think you've had the equivalent (in terms of power or societal influence) of a Moral Majority in at least 50 years if not more, so the right has far less societal influence and there can't be a popular coalition between the left and right, but instead you get left vs left, or left vs downright communist or anarchist. That being said, if you had a kid in school right now (esp a boy) you would be far more clued into what is going on in your own country. Basically most of your sex laws are set by the same kinds of people that messed them up in the US. Your only 'saving grace' is that your legal system is not as punitive as the US but your government is all about teaching and enforcing this stuff in workplaces and schools.

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    3. We had many years of Stephen Harper as our PM. Small-c conservative also appealing to the Christian Right. An economist by training. Sober, level-headed, wrote books about hockey history. Fiscally responsible. Sensible. Those were the days.

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    4. Lordy, I love your political sensibilities.
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  18. Sounds like you needed a spanking at their age miss goody two shoes. Hmm I bet there were plenty of wicked thoughts going through that mind of yours. A good bare bum spanking in front of the whole class would’ve revealed all literally and figuratively. MrD

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    1. Well I was temporarily a naughty little slut in grade 9, but nobody found out (other than the boy, who was delighted). After that I was a very good girl until I cut loose after graduating high school.

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  19. These girls need Larry to give them what they deserve

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  20. I would love to see you in bottle green knickers, dear.
    Sir Peter Smith.

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  21. The girl who cheated on her boyfriend with he Uber driver and had the nerve to brag about it certainly needs a sound spanking.

    If it gets back to her parents, she should get a paddling and her parents should let her friends' parents know so it can be all over the school.

    If it is just the boyfriend, then he should give her an ultimatum. a spanking and a blowjob that everyone knows about or they break up. If the boy does not have the balls to give her an ultimatum like that, she should put him in panties and give him the spanking.

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  22. A little off topic but was just curious if you david and your sister thought making any arrangement on what to give up in observance of lent and what might happen if either of you 3 fail before easter? There's still time to brainstorm something.

    Emily

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    1. Still though the challenge aspect could be interesting

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  23. The consensual sugar daddy concept is interesting. Would you have enjoyed an older man mentoring and spending $ on you Ms Julie?

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    1. Hells yes! You know I have my Daddy fantasies... it wasn't a thing in my day.

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    2. Hey, Julie... know you're married and all, but don't short yourself... it's still 'your day'...
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    3. No, absolutely not, would not presume to tell you how to live your life. That is your call, and I'd say you're doing just fine from what little I can see here. And, would not judge you in any case, as long as you aren't causing others harm. Just saying you still 'got it'... and from what I've seen here, you'll have it for years to come. Go forth and be HOT!!!

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    4. Just teasing. I think it would be fun to be a sex worker, but I think the guys would prefer a younger model.

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  24. Too much too young for these brats. The bible is clear in this situation and it ought be skirts lifted up high above waist, panties down around ankles, naked pussies on full display and a severe spanking for each. God help them if their pussies are found to be wet afterwards.

    “Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child but the rod of correction shall drive it from him.” Prov 22:15

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  25. For the most part, Brats! Their actions have consequences beyond their own sexual gratification, and I think that's where you draw the line. Their admissions do not reveal the marital status of the men they focus their (considerable) charms on, but it's a fair to assume some of them were married men, and in that case, they've also assumed another hoary old smear... "Home Wrecker".

    The bit about 'fucked my Uber driver while my boyfriend was passed out in the car'... bad on the boyfriend for sure, but she is also now ridiculing him, publicly, and each time she sees him privately (assuming he is still clueless about the affair). Did she have the right to screw that driver? Sure!.. Was her timing reprehensible, and purposely chosen to humiliate the boyfriend? Almost certainly. Was he a consenting participant? No. So, BRAT, and a paddling of the worst order is due.

    Even the "innocent one", dating the son to get close to the father/teacher... She's toying with the son's affections, playing part of a Home Wrecker if the wife's still in picture, and putting that teacher's career at risk, assuming he's stupid/weak enough to fall for the siren song of 'young stuff'. Which let's face it, a lot of men are. So,,, BRAT! Let's step out of those panties, young lady, so that you can receive the "atrocious spanking" you've earned. ... and I am just the guy to do that for you!

    It must be complicated to be a woman. Beyond all the 'monthly stuff', and the special medical concerns all women face, there is the FACT that women are desired, men desire them, and YOUNG men can think of little else from the time they become aware, until they are maybe 40... and even then we are consumed. I tell my wife that her period is a beauty tax, and that she shouldn't expect to be so beautiful and sexy and desirable FOR FREE!!

    More significantly, that is just one of the taxes that fall on women. Beyond the daily makeup routine, the complex wardrobe considerations, society's expectation to see smiles and skin (but not too much now...), of course child birth, the others include being expected to exercise the sexual restraint necessary to keep humanity from resembling a cage full of gerbils, running about screwing each other willy-nilly all day long. What with sexual liberation, and women rejecting a good many of those social mores, now we ARE beginning to resemble a cage full of rodents.

    A 'Home Wrecker' I let myself be seduced by some years ago used to say that 'because I [she] had one of "THESE", I can have as many of "THOSE" as I want'. And she was right, and that's the way she lived her life. Truth was, she didn't actually want many of "THOSE", but the ones she did want were usually dangling from married men's pubic bones. That episode cost me, my ex, and my daughter dearly. Certainly I shared in the blame; certainly, she (Stacy, you reading?)instigated the affair. This old saw applies here; the fucking I was getting wasn't worth the fucking I got. Stacy... you weren't that great.

    Truth be told, ALL of those young women who are cheating on their 'steadies', or pursuing married guys, are BRATS, and have earned serious paddlings. But I'll also include the married men who fall prey to their attentions. They are ALL BRATS; they've ALL earned some pretty severe punishments.

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    1. Woah... Deep breath. Women are cool. Men are cool. Make love, not war.

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  26. Sorry, don't mean to imply that we aren't all cool... when we're behaving respectably, we are. Problem is, we sometimes don't behave as well as we should, or are not as thoughtful as we should be. Those girls were just having fun, but they were doing it without any consideration of how their actions might play out beyond their own private spheres. The one with the crush on the teacher (and who among us has not had a crush on a teacher...) was by far the most innocent of the bunch. But her admission, and her pursuit of that teacher into his home, could be used against HIM in a lot of the insanely 'woke' schools here in the states. I'm not commenting on their actions so much as I am pointing out their lack of awareness of how their actions might be affecting those around them. that said, I'll go cut my switch for you now...

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  27. Hey Julie. The man in the tan slacks is Mr Danials he used to make spanking With among others among them Elizabeth Burns. Both stage names but you can find them at real spanking on the blog. He is a friend of mine who enjoys being spanked by me. His wife keeps him I basically permanent chastity. I wrote you about them once before. I am a cuckolder who loves to dominate hubbys and also dominate wives. This is WC.

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    1. I remember. Yes, he appears in a lot of photos on the web!

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