Musings on david's panties

My hubby "hates" his panties. By which I mean he loves to be humiliated in them, of course.

The first time I saw him in panties was when I forced him into a pair of mine before his spanking. Something along those lines was suggested to me on the Topix forum, and it didn't take a long time reading our blogs to figure out that a lot of guys into being dommed by us wives are also into being put into our panties. So I took a flyer on that and made him wear them.

Why did I do it? Mainly I thought it would be fun to tease him as a "little girl getting her spanking" and thought the dressup would go well with that. I lost a lot of respect for him as a man the first time I had him kicking his legs and howling like a baby across my knee getting his bare fanny whacked. I also genuinely do love fucking him in the ass, and I can't help but think of him as taking it "like a woman" when I do that, hence panties again make sense as his go-to dress for that. Obviously, any man who bends over like that and lets a woman do that to him is less of a man in my books. But while I lost respect for him in this area, I genuinely prefer him like this, and would not go back to fake "macho man" for anything.

As usual, after a scene david and I talk. Our thing is not really 24x7 FLR. Our thing is more I come up with a scene without discussing it with him at all, and then I put him through it. Afterwards we will talk about it. When we are not scening, we have a pretty normal relationship (except I am getting more and more dommie with him as time goes by. Ha Ha!). He never knows when a scene is about to be sprung on him, and he has never complained about one yet (except the exercise last weekend!).

Anyways, after that first time putting him in panties, during debrief he told me how he was incredibly humiliated to be put into them, but that he gets tremendously aroused being tremendously humiliated, so he loves me. If you turn your head sideways while standing on one foot you can see the sense in that. He said it's been a fantasy of his for as long as he can remember, being "forced" into panties, or being "caught" in panties and spanked for it, but that he didn't dare raise it with me thinking I would go all freaky on him. Silly boy. Mildly insulting to me.

Hey, if he loves his panties, who am I to say no? It's a small enough thing, really, and rife with opportunity. If such a simple thing can humiliate the piss out of him, then go for it, I say.

I quickly took him out panty shopping (a couple of times now), embarrassing the heck out of him each time. I also got him into skirt and panties for some girlie sex from me (he had to clutch his little panties at his knees while he took it right down his throat and balls deep up his ass like a good little slut should). Later I added forced sashaying and bra and lingerie based corner time. I even had him in bra and panties the first time Sue saw him all cute and subby. I know, give me an inch and I'll take a mile!

The thing is, I don't get it. I have a whole drawer full of panties myself. Some nicer than others, some sexier than others, but they really don't "turn me on". They're underwear. I hope some of them turn him on because they show me off nicely, but I really don't get it.

Physically, they're not that different from a swimsuit, from his underwear, or even gym shorts. How kinky would it be if I put on a pair of his underwear? Why would I want to? Would I get all hot and bothered and super embarrassed? No. I don't get it. I wear bra and panties most every day. And so? And what about cross-dressing? If I wear one of his T-shirts, it's because mine are all in the wash.

Mind you, david has a low tolerance for being embarrassed.  He was so embarrassed the first time he was standing bare in front of my sister showing off his penis and testicles (there's nothing to be ashamed of there, really, but he was blushing up a storm). And he was so embarrassed that time I took his pants down in front of his trainer. He did everything to hide his front from her. Ha Ha! Other guys too. I was at a pool party when I was 16 where a guy got totally pantsed, all his stuff on show. He was so awkward! Would I be embarrassed if I was nude in public? No way. I love getting naked! Before I started spanking him we were at a "clothing optional" beach together. I was bare in like 3 seconds. He wouldn't get out of his swimsuit! Oh boy, if we ever go back there again I'll have him out of his swimsuit in 3 seconds flat and right across my knee for a fanny warmer!

Last weekend for his workout I put him into a pair of his panties. I can honestly they didn't turn me on or turn me off in any way. They were just short shorts. They did have the advantage of being flimsy and riding up his ass so there was more to whip. And it was amusing when he was doing push-up burpees and his cock and balls kept flopping out. Ha Ha!

But I figure that as his domme, I don't need to understand why being put into panties turns him on so much, I just need to know that it does turn him on, and keep doing it to him.

Of course, I'm being disingenuous. Ultimately, it does turn me on, because I know I am realizing this deep dark secret fantasy of his, getting him wildly excited, letting other women know he is subject to "panty training" by his wife. His excitement at all of that turns me on incredibly. Also, I get turned on humiliating him, especially in front of other women (am I a bad girl for that?). If panties and a bra humiliate him, then I'm all in on it, I don't need to understand why, I just need to see those blushes keep coming.

All for the price of a pair of panties. Cheapest sex toy going.

So I say, vive les petites culottes!