One day my husband came to me and suggested spanking games. I tried it and found I liked it. I started off by spanking him, but as I grew more comfortable, he started spanking me as well. Now we switch both ways for play, but I am solidly a spanked wife for real!
Sunday, March 4
Magazine Startle
Don't you love it? Especially the hand on his ass.
This was in a very mainstream Canadian publication, Macleans magazine recently.
She looks like my wife, she carries me the same way from any where in the house to the falaka stand fitted in the bedroom and on the way she pinches my bottom Hard Turkish sub
I love it! Thats why men need to be turned into babies. Women are smarter and more powerful. You can not not be in a position of power wearing a wet droopy diaper and having a pacifier in your mouth!
I wish I were strong enough (or L. light enough) for me to hoist him over my shoulder like a sack of potatoes -but I don't really need to in order to assert my dominant status. I occasionally choose to grab him by the ear, and to force-march him to the place where he is to be chastised, but most times, all I have to do is to issue my orders -or even to give him "the look" and to snap my fingers- for him to fetch me the appropriate instrument, drop his trousers and offer his bare backside to the particular 'treatment' he deserves! Of course, the procedure is much simplified over the weekend, when he is required to spend a good part of the day performing the chores I have assigned him, with no more garment from the waist down than a small apron that leaves his butt exposed to my 'snap inspections. L. is taller, heavier, and more muscular than I am -but a horse will obey the rider's crop! J(2)
The crop was a metaphor (b/c the "horse") but, although I own one -an anniversary present from L., as a matter of fact!- I use it only on 'special' occasions (i.e. when he has badly misbehaved). For standard treatment, and depending on my whim, I will use the wooden spoons or spatulas, my hairbrush, one of my three paddles (including that inch-thick washerwoman's paddle we found on a village market), and -last but not least- the trusty martinet (my favorite!), a strap -or that latest and welcome addition, the 'Italian bridle'. During the weekend, of course, any of those implements is likely to be applied to his unprotected derrière -along with the pickled maple switches, of course! In any given week, he will typically get three or four "sessions" (always on the bare, needless to say!) but, over the years, the skin on his backside has been getting thicker, I guess, and I have had to spank/whip him quite a bit harder in order for the 'message' to register! J(2)
J. was inspired by her latest posting and, despite the fact that (this being Saturday) she had already used the martinet and one of her maple switches to keep me in line, she just saw it fit, some twenty minutes ago, to bring out her seldom-used rattan cane (the one she retrieved from her grandmother's attic) and to deliver --'just for the fun of it", as she put it-- three dozen of the best on my bare rear! I have been spared 'corner time' but I know I will have to sleep 'bottomside up" -and tomorrow morning, of course, I will be expected to bring her her breakfast in bed... and to have my instructions for the day 'printed' on my backside with her 'martinet' -with the further prospect of her 'snap inspections' (and likely attendant lashes being applied to my already well-bruised rear end... L.
You'd better count on it! -and remember that my friend Melanie is coming for dinner, and that you will be on duty! You know what you can expect if the service leaves anything to be desired -remember? J(2)
I guess I was lucky tonight! I was allowed to serve dinner fully dressed -and there were no mishaps of the sort that have (in the not-so-far removed past) earned me an instant -and witnessed- flogging! Still (as instructed) I had placed one of J's "pickled" maple switches on the dining room table but, even though she found no occasion to use it, she made a point of telling Melanie how and why it was there! Some giggles followed, and while I was spared the ultimate indignity (!) I suspect that J. will sooner or later find a way to add M. to the (relatively low) number of her friends who have watched L.
Yes indeed -and it happened sooner than I expected! When J. announced (on Saturday) that Melanie would be coming over for dinner on Sunday night, I immediately figured out that I was 'in for it'! What made it worse was that, given the standard regimen to which I am subjected every weekend, any session that J. might wish to administer in Melanie's presence would involve a display of my already well-striped backside! And that is exactly what happened... When, on a convenient -if rather flimsy- pretext, I was ordered to bare my behind to get what was 'coming to me', Melanie gasped at the sight of my still marked bottom, but nevertheless giggled -and even cheered!- when J. used her martinet and her thick paddle to make me yelp and twist for what she calls (in French) "la danse du cul"...
I guess I am lucky that J. did not invite Melanie to "take a hand" (as she has done with her sister, and with two of her girlfriends), but who knows what tomorrow will bring!...
Well, that was not too hard to guess, was it? Melanie was back for dinner... and, this time, (after J. had delivered an introductory paddling with her hairbrush over drinks) she was invited -following the dessert course- to use a maple switch, a wooden spoon... (and the martinet!) on my uncovered backside... She still lacks (or refrains from?) the vigor that J. has accustomed me to but she might be a quick learner! Thank you both -and I am a bit apprehensive about what I can expect from J. when I have to face the 'usual' weekend routine...
I suppose it was "wonderful" for J. -and probably also for Melanie- but perhaps somewhat less for me.. especially because this did not affect the way I was expected to behave this Saturday morning, when J. (as per the usual routine) 'printed' my instructions for the first part of my weekend chores with her martinet (placed, as usual, on the breakfast tray I had brought her). I guess I was lucky (or especially diligent!) today, with the result that I only got two 'reminders' this Saturday -one with the switch, and one with the wooden spoon) but these were on top of what she (and Melanie) had already inflicted on my 'derrière'... And, of course, I can expect a similar treatment on Sunday!
Thanks for the compliment, Julie! On Sunday, L. again performed his instructions almost flawlessly, so that -in addition to the early morning use of the martinet while reciting the list of his chores- he only needed a single "reminder" with the belt, BUT he also got a little extra when I called my sister -and again treated her to a 3-minute 'sound byte' of L's derrière being whacked with my favorite paddle (accompanied by some whining on his part). Today (with temperatures in the upper 80's), a second open-air 'session' in the woods seemed in order -but more about that later...
That second open-air session was rather intense! And, for the first time, I noticed that birds (and other wood critters) fell silent as soon as J's switch started cracking on my bare bottom!
L.
PS. Some colder, or rainy weather would be welcome! :-)
Yeah, but what about the 'treatment' you got over the weekend? Your derrière is in a sorry state, my dear -and there is more that awaits you... But, then again, the more I whip you, the tougher the skin on your bottom seems to get!...
Women have surpassed men in almost every area within the past 100 years and recently they have begun to accelerate that process. We are fast becoming a worldwide matriarchy where men are slowly being turned into either sissy househusbands or beasts of burden while Women usurp all the true power roles. I love it!!
I agree with mike, but I do not believe it is some organized conspiracy. I simply think women are superior in the skills our post-industrial societies are placing a premium on. As such, the skills they are superior in are becoming of more value and men are being relegated to secondary status.
I have been called all kinds of nasty things by continually pointing to this sacred cow and saying ‘Look there is a cow’. I have found the person who do so is ridiculed, even though everyone sees the cow. The number of indicators are truly to a torrent level. It is beyond being able to be ignored. Female authority and superiority in a maco societal sense is eminent.
Mistress Julie,
Sorry for again putting a toe off the reservation plot. I will now go back. Take care.
Let me get this straight, you say "look there is a cow" when you speak about women's superiority, eh? I think we'll be needing a nice long hard session with my strap!
Upon seeing this post, I went online and found and read the article. I always enjoy reading non femdom sources talking about woman's growing power in society. No offence to mike but his statements were both an over generalization and a great exaggeration (based slightly more on fantasy than real life) but I do believe that in the next hundred years we will become fairly close to that as a reality, or maybe sooner, as the article points out about 1/3 of working women make more money than their husbands. What I found interesting is that many of the wives in the article report to not enjoying being the breadwinner, as they were also still doing most of the housework and or their husbands seemed to feel emasculated. I think more of these couples would have a much easier time if they started incorporating femdom, and the husbands just accepted their supporting role in the relationship. I am curious Julie, if you are one of these female breadwinners?
I certainly am. And my loaf is considerably larger than my husband's. I used to get frustrated doing the housework when david did little, but it's not about how much money we each make. Ever since we've started this spanking thing, we are both happy making him do the housework. My only "work" is working out my right arm on his butt!
I have been totally enamored with your blog since I found it. I am 60 yrs. old and my femdom fantasies go all the back to elementary school (all female teachers). I can't tell you how much I look forward to each new posting. Fortunately, I live in a D/s relationship and have been able to experience many of the same types of scenarios you describe. I think I have read EVERY posting of yours but haven't seen a mention of Elise Sutton's Female Superiority Page. It should be required reading for all who follow your blog. If you're not familiar with it, I hope you find it educational and entertaining. Thanks again for scratching me right where I itch!!!
I just wanted to add to what the previous anon mentioned about Elise Sutton's page (and you should check it out If you havn't www.elisesutton.homestead.com/Main.html ) she has a unique perspective in that she has been living the lifestyle for a long time ands is also a well educated psychologist so she can explain what is going on with us submales. Articles you may find particularly interesting are: one she wrote called "what is female domination and female superiority?", as well as her "psychoanalysis of the submissive male" which can help you explore David's personal kinks and what is really going on in his head.
Too true! What I'm pissed off about is that she didn't exactly "discover" it, he told her flat out in his email to her that that's what he wanted!!! What am I, chopped liver?
Love the blog also. Looks like the increasing number of Female lead relationships is allowing this topic to get into the conservative mainstream media at last. i wonder if it has anything to do with newer generations of Women having more decision making power in the media industry.It could also be that with so many more higher earning Females there is new demand to be satisfied and a new market that wants to see itself reflected in the media.
Hi ethan! Welcome to my blog. I have linked yours. Just had a quick peak but am anxious to go back for more.
I think the natural state of many men is to be submissive to "Mommy", so is it any wonder that as we start accumulating the power men start falling into line?
Thank You so much. i'm glad You enjoy mine as well. i am pretty new to blogging and have more ideas for articles than i have time to get them all down.
i could not agree more with You, the natural state for men (in general) is to be submissive towards Women, even if it takes them some time to admit it to themselves. Having so many more powerful and successful Women today however makes it much easier. Society is moving in the right direction even if We/we are not all the way there yet.
I especially enjoy that men are taking a back seat in the bedroom. I feel totally comfortable making my husband pleasure me and not feeling obliged to do anything in return. Or using my strap-on on him, missionary position, legs raised nice and high for me. Turns me on as he winces and moans from the penetration.
Very nice, check her other arm and hand, looks like she can give a hell of a spanking just with her hand
ReplyDeleteAnd she's obviously stronger than she looks!
DeleteShe looks like my wife, she carries me the same way from any where in the house to the falaka stand fitted in the bedroom and on the way she pinches my bottom Hard
ReplyDeleteTurkish sub
You must be a tiny little man! How cute.
DeleteI love it! Thats why men need to be turned into babies. Women are smarter and more powerful. You can not not be in a position of power wearing a wet droopy diaper and having a pacifier in your mouth!
ReplyDeleteGoddess Gretchen
Courts should pass sentences like that!
DeleteI wish I were strong enough (or L. light enough) for me to hoist him over my shoulder like a sack of potatoes -but I don't really need to in order to assert my dominant status.
ReplyDeleteI occasionally choose to grab him by the ear, and to force-march him to the place where he is to be chastised, but most times, all I have to do is to issue my orders -or even to give him "the look" and to snap my fingers- for him to fetch me the appropriate instrument, drop his trousers and offer his bare backside to the particular 'treatment' he deserves!
Of course, the procedure is much simplified over the weekend, when he is required to spend a good part of the day performing the chores I have assigned him, with no more garment from the waist down than a small apron that leaves his butt exposed to my 'snap inspections.
L. is taller, heavier, and more muscular than I am -but a horse will obey the rider's crop!
J(2)
Too true! In my case it's a strap...
DeleteThe crop was a metaphor (b/c the "horse") but, although I own one -an anniversary present from L., as a matter of fact!- I use it only on 'special' occasions (i.e. when he has badly misbehaved).
DeleteFor standard treatment, and depending on my whim, I will use the wooden spoons or spatulas, my hairbrush, one of my three paddles (including that inch-thick washerwoman's paddle we found on a village market), and -last but not least- the trusty martinet (my favorite!), a strap -or that latest and welcome addition, the 'Italian bridle'.
During the weekend, of course, any of those implements is likely to be applied to his unprotected derrière -along with the pickled maple switches, of course! In any given week, he will typically get three or four "sessions" (always on the bare, needless to say!) but, over the years, the skin on his backside has been getting thicker, I guess, and I have had to spank/whip him quite a bit harder in order for the 'message' to register!
J(2)
J. was inspired by her latest posting and, despite the fact that (this being Saturday) she had already used the martinet and one of her maple switches to keep me in line, she just saw it fit, some twenty minutes ago, to bring out her seldom-used rattan cane (the one she retrieved from her grandmother's attic) and to deliver --'just for the fun of it", as she put it-- three dozen of the best on my bare rear!
DeleteI have been spared 'corner time' but I know I will have to sleep 'bottomside up" -and tomorrow morning, of course, I will be expected to bring her her breakfast in bed... and to have my instructions for the day 'printed' on my backside with her 'martinet' -with the further prospect of her 'snap inspections' (and likely attendant lashes being applied to my already well-bruised rear end...
L.
You'd better count on it! -and remember that my friend Melanie is coming for dinner, and that you will be on duty!
DeleteYou know what you can expect if the service leaves anything to be desired -remember?
J(2)
I guess I was lucky tonight! I was allowed to serve dinner fully dressed -and there were no mishaps of the sort that have (in the not-so-far removed past) earned me an instant -and witnessed- flogging! Still (as instructed) I had placed one of J's "pickled" maple switches on the dining room table but, even though she found no occasion to use it, she made a point of telling Melanie how and why it was there!
DeleteSome giggles followed, and while I was spared the ultimate indignity (!) I suspect that J. will sooner or later find a way to add M. to the (relatively low) number of her friends who have watched
L.
Sounds like you are well on the way to having your bare bottom introduced to another of J's friends! Ha Ha!
DeleteYes indeed -and it happened sooner than I expected! When J. announced (on Saturday) that Melanie would be coming over for dinner on Sunday night, I immediately figured out that I was 'in for it'! What made it worse was that, given the standard regimen to which I am subjected every weekend, any session that J. might wish to administer in Melanie's presence would involve a display of my already well-striped backside!
DeleteAnd that is exactly what happened... When, on a convenient -if rather flimsy- pretext, I was ordered to bare my behind to get what was 'coming to me', Melanie gasped at the sight of my still marked bottom, but nevertheless giggled -and even cheered!- when J. used her martinet and her thick paddle to make me yelp and twist for what she calls (in French) "la danse du cul"...
I guess I am lucky that J. did not invite Melanie to "take a hand" (as she has done with her sister, and with two of her girlfriends), but who knows what tomorrow will bring!...
L.
You will find out on Friday! Try to guess...
DeleteJ(2)
Well, that was not too hard to guess, was it?
DeleteMelanie was back for dinner... and, this time, (after J. had delivered an introductory paddling with her hairbrush over drinks) she was invited -following the dessert course- to use a maple switch, a wooden spoon... (and the martinet!) on my uncovered backside...
She still lacks (or refrains from?) the vigor that J. has accustomed me to but she might be a quick learner!
Thank you both -and I am a bit apprehensive about what I can expect from J. when I have to face the 'usual' weekend routine...
L.
How wonderful that Melanie spanked you, L. What a wonderful wife you have in J to encourage it!
DeleteI suppose it was "wonderful" for J. -and probably also for Melanie- but perhaps somewhat less for me.. especially because this did not affect the way I was expected to behave this Saturday morning, when J. (as per the usual routine) 'printed' my instructions for the first part of my weekend chores with her martinet (placed, as usual, on the breakfast tray I had brought her). I guess I was lucky (or especially diligent!) today, with the result that I only got two 'reminders' this Saturday -one with the switch, and one with the wooden spoon) but these were on top of what she (and Melanie) had already inflicted on my 'derrière'...
DeleteAnd, of course, I can expect a similar treatment on Sunday!
L.
Thanks for the compliment, Julie! On Sunday, L. again performed his instructions almost flawlessly, so that -in addition to the early morning use of the martinet while reciting the list of his chores- he only needed a single "reminder" with the belt, BUT he also got a little extra when I called my sister -and again treated her to a 3-minute 'sound byte' of L's derrière being whacked with my favorite paddle (accompanied by some whining on his part).
DeleteToday (with temperatures in the upper 80's), a second open-air 'session' in the woods seemed in order -but more about that later...
J(2)
That second open-air session was rather intense! And, for the first time, I noticed that birds (and other wood critters) fell silent as soon as J's switch started cracking on my bare bottom!
DeleteL.
PS. Some colder, or rainy weather would be welcome! :-)
No such luck! Six weeks of sunny weather - and some memorable outdoors sessions (as L's naughty derrière surely remembers!)
DeleteJ(2)
PS. That latest one really peeled off the skin from your backside, didn't it !
Not as much as the sessions you and your sister delivered this past July in Burgundy!
DeleteL.
Yeah, but what about the 'treatment' you got over the weekend? Your derrière is in a sorry state, my dear -and there is more that awaits you... But, then again, the more I whip you, the tougher the skin on your bottom seems to get!...
DeleteJ(2)
Women have surpassed men in almost every area within the past 100 years and recently they have begun to accelerate that process. We are fast becoming a worldwide matriarchy where men are slowly being turned into either sissy househusbands or beasts of burden while Women usurp all the true power roles. I love it!!
ReplyDeleteYes...
DeleteYour point?
;-)
I agree with mike, but I do not believe it is some organized conspiracy. I simply think women are superior in the skills our post-industrial societies are placing a premium on. As such, the skills they are superior in are becoming of more value and men are being relegated to secondary status.
ReplyDeleteI have been called all kinds of nasty things by continually pointing to this sacred cow and saying ‘Look there is a cow’. I have found the person who do so is ridiculed, even though everyone sees the cow. The number of indicators are truly to a torrent level. It is beyond being able to be ignored. Female authority and superiority in a maco societal sense is eminent.
Mistress Julie,
Sorry for again putting a toe off the reservation plot. I will now go back. Take care.
-SH
Let me get this straight, you say "look there is a cow" when you speak about women's superiority, eh? I think we'll be needing a nice long hard session with my strap!
DeleteUpon seeing this post, I went online and found and read the article. I always enjoy reading non femdom sources talking about woman's growing power in society. No offence to mike but his statements were both an over generalization and a great exaggeration (based slightly more on fantasy than real life) but I do believe that in the next hundred years we will become fairly close to that as a reality, or maybe sooner, as the article points out about 1/3 of working women make more money than their husbands. What I found interesting is that many of the wives in the article report to not enjoying being the breadwinner, as they were also still doing most of the housework and or their husbands seemed to feel emasculated. I think more of these couples would have a much easier time if they started incorporating femdom, and the husbands just accepted their supporting role in the relationship. I am curious Julie, if you are one of these female breadwinners?
ReplyDeleteI certainly am. And my loaf is considerably larger than my husband's. I used to get frustrated doing the housework when david did little, but it's not about how much money we each make. Ever since we've started this spanking thing, we are both happy making him do the housework. My only "work" is working out my right arm on his butt!
DeleteI have been totally enamored with your blog since I found it. I am 60 yrs. old and my femdom fantasies go all the back to elementary school (all female teachers). I can't tell you how much I look forward to each new posting. Fortunately, I live in a D/s relationship and have been able to experience many of the same types of scenarios you describe. I think I have read EVERY posting of yours but haven't seen a mention of Elise Sutton's Female Superiority Page. It should be required reading for all who follow your blog. If you're not familiar with it, I hope you find it educational and entertaining. Thanks again for scratching me right where I itch!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you for the kind comment!
DeleteI have not come across that site yet, but I will be sure to have a read.
Wow! Very nice find. Maybe I'll renew my subscription after all.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Hermione
I'm surprised you did not post it first!
DeleteI just wanted to add to what the previous anon mentioned about Elise Sutton's page (and you should check it out If you havn't www.elisesutton.homestead.com/Main.html ) she has a unique perspective in that she has been living the lifestyle for a long time ands is also a well educated psychologist so she can explain what is going on with us submales. Articles you may find particularly interesting are: one she wrote called "what is female domination and female superiority?", as well as her "psychoanalysis of the submissive male" which can help you explore David's personal kinks and what is really going on in his head.
ReplyDeleteThank you, I will!
DeletePerhaps I have a knack for it, but I actually think it's pretty easy figuring out what's going on in his head!
You do seem adept, but you may be surprised. It did take a "pro" to find out about his penchant for butthole whipping ;)
DeleteToo true! What I'm pissed off about is that she didn't exactly "discover" it, he told her flat out in his email to her that that's what he wanted!!! What am I, chopped liver?
DeleteWhere are you Julie, busy at work or David is getting what he needs from Prodoms, so does not need to get it from you and you have nothing to blog
ReplyDeleteHa ha! Just posted our adventures, part 1!
DeleteWish it was me!
ReplyDeleteThanks Ma'am
Ron
Well, you can imagine it is while you stroke yourself, naughty boy.
DeleteLove the blog also. Looks like the increasing number of Female lead relationships is allowing this topic to get into the conservative mainstream media at last. i wonder if it has anything to do with newer generations of Women having more decision making power in the media industry.It could also be that with so many more higher earning Females there is new demand to be satisfied and a new market that wants to see itself reflected in the media.
ReplyDeleteHi ethan! Welcome to my blog. I have linked yours. Just had a quick peak but am anxious to go back for more.
DeleteI think the natural state of many men is to be submissive to "Mommy", so is it any wonder that as we start accumulating the power men start falling into line?
Thank You so much. i'm glad You enjoy mine as well. i am pretty new to blogging and have more ideas for articles than i have time to get them all down.
ReplyDeletei could not agree more with You, the natural state for men (in general) is to be submissive towards Women, even if it takes them some time to admit it to themselves. Having so many more powerful and successful Women today however makes it much easier. Society is moving in the right direction even if We/we are not all the way there yet.
I especially enjoy that men are taking a back seat in the bedroom. I feel totally comfortable making my husband pleasure me and not feeling obliged to do anything in return. Or using my strap-on on him, missionary position, legs raised nice and high for me. Turns me on as he winces and moans from the penetration.
Delete