This first one was taken before the caning started. He had already been warmed up with the wood while in the wheelbarrow position, thus the suffuse glow.
Not a huge cane by any means. I've seen (and used) nastier.
This next photo was taken 10 seconds later, after the first 10 strokes were delivered.
Doesn't look so bad, now does it? Notice the light little markings where the cane whipped around his far cheeks (and his near one as well).
He was allowed 20 seconds of recovery time, and then he received another 10 strokes in 10 seconds. This is what he looked like afterwards.
You could tell by his body language he was in quite some considerable discomfort. But still his butt does not look so bad, does it? Well that was the end of his caning. 20 strokes over the course of less than a minute.
We got to watch over the next 40 seconds as the marks developed (she soothed him with some cooling ointment to his bum). This was the aftermath.
He won't be sitting comfortably for the rest of the day!
My commentary?
What man would not respect his wife after a caning like that? What woman observing a wife do this to her man would not sit there in slack-jawed awe at the disciplinary power she wields?
Yes, she coloured "outside the lines" a bit. That high stroke and the three that whipped around to his right flank. But... if you're going to hand your wife matches and ask her to play with them, you're the one who's going to get burned!
Ha Ha!
I really enjoy the increasing intensity as smacks with a cane or a whip or a strap rain down on my naughty bottom. I try very hard to take it as well as I can.
ReplyDeleteWhen an errant blow wraps around onto my hipbone or sometimes my testicles, however, the pain is a bit too much for me to appreciate. If it happens regularly, it is hard to appreciate the punishment.
Maybe I am just not as submissive as I should be or others are.
On the other hand I did read a few years ago in one of those S&M primers that the top should be careful with verbal abuse. It said something like "He will forgive you if you hit him a bit too hard, but if you insult him in some way he may not". (Unlike some femdoms, Irene does not tell me I cannot satisfy her properly for example.)
I like the "coloring outside the lines" analogy.
Best,
Rosco
Hi rosco, well said. My husband is the same way with the errant strokes. One or two are ok, but if it's nothing but then it's no longer sexy for him. Mind you, well-placed strokes on his bottom he seems to be able to take and stay in his sub space almost regardless of the severity.
DeleteI also appreciate what you say abut verbal humiliation. I am not comfortable calling him "worm" or something like that. I am happy calling him "slut", cause he really is!
I would think much depends on the spouse's overall attitude. Like you, Ms. Julie, my Wife is not at all comfortable calling me "worm"(in fact, she says almost nothing during punishment) and I know that about her, so if she said something along those lines in a convincing way I would hear it hurtfully. It would have been a different story if she had found she enjoyed humiliating me verbally from the start--then it would have added to both our pleasures. I too feel that way about where the strokes land--and flanks are easier to deal with than "too high."
DeleteShe is so sexy. Such a stickler for accuracy. Just the spank spots. She makes them shine purple for a time. You beg. You cry. Even if you wish the pain to be spread more, she has her target. Yes, Ma'am! She is in control. Not the smallest doubt. What can you do about how she punishes? She does not intend for you to sit comfortably. Verbal humiliation she enjoys, but only to make the face bright red. You are not a worm, or she would not be with you.
DeleteYes! You might wish for it to be spread out, but not your call, is it?
DeleteAbsolutely no, Ma'am! She says the spankings she gives are hers not mine. She says the punishment is not real if I can control it at any time. I know she likes to spank bad boys and make them cry. I get so hard just thinking about her.
DeleteThat's the only way!
DeleteOK, how would YOU do it? -- same grief, less damage.
ReplyDeleteNo criticism at all! I am inspired to give my husband the exact same.
DeleteMs. Julie- Happy New Year! Thanks for all the great, inspiring posts You've made. Lots of panty pre-cum here, and a few o's, reading your posts!
ReplyDeleteHere, I joking (and w/o thinking!!) called my Wife a "wino" in front of her sister and BIL over our trip there, and She later informed me i'd be getting a punishment when home. Said She'd also tie my arms and legs to a chair, and leave me there. But, would leave a magazine in front of me to read! I hope my nose is a good page-turning device!! So, looks like a rough (or good!) start to 2016 here!
hugs, sara
Oooooh. Big mistake there, sara.
DeleteDid you get your comeuppance?
I hate to break it to you sara, but when a wife says to her sister that her husband is "going to get it" there's certainly a follow up question and a wink and a nudge that would likely leave no doubt whatsoever that a red bum is in the offing!
DeleteMs. Julie, gulp, and thank you. Honestly, i was immediately concerned about that. Guess i should trust my instinct. sar
DeleteYup. She knows...
DeleteMiss Julie
ReplyDeleteiam sure you have your own collection of Cane now as well to use when it Canning time or David need to Be Cane right
if you order myself to Cane myself i be unable Cane myself since i own no cane but i do have 2 Riding crop i could use on myself if want see let me know
Yes, I have several nice choices to choose from!
DeleteHot bottom
ReplyDeleteYes. I'm sure it feels hot to him, is hot to the touch, and looks sexy/hot as well. Plus he IS a "bottom", and that's always hot!
DeleteSounds like a win win :))))))))))))))))))))
DeleteI am impressed that the sub concerned took so many strokes so quickly. Surely caning is rather like drinking fine wine? Apply the strokes and leave the sub and the Domme time to savour the experience? If the interval between strokes is about 20 - 30 seconds, its surprising how far you can go!
ReplyDeleteLove your analogy...
DeleteYes, but sometimes fast food can be tasty as well!
DeleteThis was a super hot post. I am always in awe and super turned on by the power of a woman....and love being a sub, because I never know what Im going to get. Also, thanks for link to the video - I like it, especially the position he was in for his initial spanking of 40 strokes with the paddle and countless with the spoon
ReplyDeleteYes, it's fun being in charge like this. More women should try it!
DeleteIt's interesting that the 'wood warm up" with the spoon you referred to Julie , seemed to have him howling and squirming a lot more than the caning?
ReplyDeleteAll just getting the surface ready for a good marking!
DeleteNot a fan of the cane, took a beating once from a leg who had no clue what she was doing..... My bad
ReplyDeleteAlways
Ron
Don't give up on the cane, rosco. When well-wielded it can be exquisite. I had a friend of my sister's once cane david, and she was a true pain artist with that thing!
DeleteMiss Julie
ReplyDeleteiam sure all your cane are differnt sizeand fit just as well in palm of your hands i think caning from you would hurt just as bad hands or hairbrush spankings would from you
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DeleteI love this punchy little spanking Ma'am. I hope Ladies get from this that their males can take more of a paddling or caning than they might imagine. The importance of the good warmup should not be underestimated here also.
ReplyDeletelill (Ms Julie's punished sketch slut) jo
Absolutely. The video shows the extent of the warmup, which is considerable. After a warmup, the caning is still very painful, but the sub can stay in sub space. A caning like that to an unprepared backside would likely not be sexy for the sub. Take them right out of being submissive and right into "WTF!"
DeleteI love that you promote strong disciplining women Ms Julie!
ReplyDeleteRespectfully,
doc
Always!
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