Sorry I've been quiet lately, I've been throwing myself into a new book project. This time the muse has struck me on the female submissive side of things. Here is my working cover / title.
After you read about what I have in mind, please suggest a better title / subtitle as I definitely don't think I've nailed it yet (though I like the photo - tee hee - it's me!)
As I did for my last book, I want to base it off of my real-life play and discipline from my husband, and my family's involvement in it (such as it is), but take it more in the fantasy direction in a seamless fashion as I did for my previous book.
My submissive kink focuses very much around domestic themes, and I particularly get off on the "young wife" being consensually (she knows it's good for her) taken in hand by her husband chiefly, but then extending that into the family setting as well, so everybody knows she is spanked. While this is extremely embarrassing for her, it's also, paradoxically, highly arousing. This is me in spades!
She's also a little bit of a prudish cold fish in bed, until her fanny gets lit up at which point she turns into a total little eager-to-please whore. While you could never call me a prude or a cold fish in the sack, I can tell you that there are sexual acts I am willing and eager to do after a good hard spanking that I would do only reluctantly otherwise.
I think I want to make myself younger, around 23 or so, with an older husband (35 or so). The background will be a happy childhood (the very occasional mild spankings notwithstanding), but then me cutting loose after I leave home and getting into all manner of trouble (fact check: true!). I then meet my husband, and realize that I am missing something in life, and request a firm hand to keep me happy and fulfilled.
I'm not going to work. I want to be a bit of "trad wife", with an allowance, and I need to learn my way around the cooking and the cleaning and the behaving maturely sort of thing. Eventually my husband will give me kids, but not until I stop acting like one myself. In the meantime, I am a bit proud that I am a spanked wife, and don't care who knows it, until someone new is told that is, and then I blush sooo much!
At a certain point I will have done something irresponsible that impacts my parents. I need to apologize to them and tell them how David will punish me. Turns out they are more than happy that David is taking charge. They were very worried about me after I moved out (with good reason), and were relieved once David came into my life. If spankings are a part of it, well hallelujah and spank away.
They were, in fact, so enthusiastic that when David needed to be away on business, he suggested I go stay with them, learn from my Mom how to properly keep house, and they should have free reign to discipline me as they did when I was a child.
Of course, I have an older sister, a younger sister, and a younger brother who all find out about me as well, and witness the occasional comeuppance that has now become family lore and something I am constantly teased about. Even my Dad and Mom's brothers and sisters, my Aunties and Uncles, know about me, and I also have younger eighteen-year-old boy cousins who wind up seeing big Cousin Julie bared, spanked, and put in the corner by her husband!
I am thinking that David is a firm Christian, and I had fervently agreed to convert so we could raise the children as Christians. But I struggle with the faith thing, and struggle getting to church, sitting still during sermons, and not making smart-aleck comments. You can imagine what happens, with the enthusiastic blessing of the Pastor and his wife. And until I can apply myself properly, I am required to go to Sunday school with the little kids to "catch up". The Sunday school teacher is only too delighted to have some additional disciplinary measures he can apply to me in the privacy of his office that are frowned upon with the other children, but heartily encouraged in my case. And I'm talking about the paddle to the bare!
There will be lots of episodes at the lake with plenty of family to see. I will have to cut switches, be spanked on the dock with my one-piece taken down, and made to stand in the corner, both sets of cheeks blazing. I also foresee a very public diapering in advance of the three-hour drive back to the city, a "reward" for making David stop on the way up after I told him I had gone potty when I hadn't.
Anyways, those are the sorts of episodes I have in mind. Happy to take suggestions and requests either in the comments below or by email!
Looking forward to this
ReplyDeleteHaving fun writing it. Letting my imagination fly!
DeleteWhat a great idea. I wish you the best in the publishing world.
ReplyDeleteMy only suggestion would be that you give a hint to the unaware potential reader by adding "semi-autobiographic", or "based in some parts on true events", or something like that, right away on the cover-- I'd imagine that will draw in more readers.
Also, the traditional, "Christian" aspect could lure in some of the CDD (Christian Domestic Discipline) readers, so making sure that the book is clearly not targeting them as a potential audience, will be on the best interests of everyone-- I'd imagine you are better off without the very lengthy, authoritative letters you'd receive warning you from letting anyone other than your lawfully-wedded husband near your bottom, even if "properly" clad, even with a "stick"!
Thank you - good suggestion. Just changed it above!
DeleteYes, I'll avoid the CDD stuff. Some of those guys are cray-cray ;-)
Yes, very good idea Julie I like this. Be sure to properly explain how you’re made to dress during some of these scenes, especially “Sunday school”. I’m thinking something age regressed and “little”, to add to your embarrassment.
ReplyDeleteYes! Thinking Sunday school uniform is what I'm wearing on the cover!
DeleteNaughty girls who pose on the cover of spanking books should probably be spanked! Naughty girls who write spanking books probably get multi-day, enforced nudity, hourly edging in the corner and spanking after dinner no matter who comes over! -Gracie
ReplyDeleteOh, I agree, of course!
DeleteI know that "Daddy kink" is in your top 5 (if not higher) but I'm sure I'm not alone in saying that I'd love to read about you receiving some very strict (and perhaps not entirely traditional) maternal discipline as well.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely on! While it does not turn me on to have my real life Mom do that (although it does to have real life Dad do it), this is a work of fantasy, and I can easily imagine a "mother figure" being very strict with me!
Deletejulie,
ReplyDeletequite ambitious of you. lately you've gone down a path that doesn't fit my kinks as much so i've been quiet posting but it has still been an entertaining read.
question if i may. what ever happened to that next chapter of the highschool story. that thing was hot as hell. did that guy up and disappear?
anyway hope your having a good summer and staying safe.
checking in daily to see what you are doing.
great site as always
respectfully, sgirard
Yes, he disappeared. I'll reach out to him to see if he wants to continue.
DeleteI get it if you're not so into the female submissive stuff and/or some of the family stuff. I have to take it wherever my kink takes me. Hopefully our kinks will come together again at some point in the future!
ReplyDeletebonjour,
Pour moi les fessées familiales sont de nature a m'intéresser pour lire, puisque nous le pratiquons nous meme, avec amour, excitation, troubles, et qui déclenche notre plaisir de la fessée...
Comme dis un de vos lecteurs, je vous suis que pour la fessée, notre famille etant des adepte depuis toujours, et ce n'est plus maintenant que nous changerons notre plaisir de la fessée...
votre livre sera t'il dans amazone pour le lire sur kindle afin de pouvoir le traduire ?...
Ave mes filles et plus spécialement l'ainée, nous en seront les lecteurs et lectrices privilégiés
merci a vous
JeFesse
Merci bien!
DeleteI'd love to hear about how David has to paddle your ass while daddy watches on because you haven't been keeping up with your womanly duties around the house. He starts with just your pants and panties down, but you don't take the spanking like a good girl so the rest of your clothes come off and your hands are tied behind your back. With you bent back over the couch with an arched back with pussy and asshole on display David lays into you until you are begging for cock up your ass just so the spanking will end. All the while daddy is watching on knowing that's exactly what his wife receives and you need so badly to finally put you in your place. Finally David takes your ass and you won't even be allowed to touch your pussy while he fucks you, but once he cums up your ass with his 8 inch cock daddy will tell him you've learned your lesson and deserve a good pussy licking until you can cum too.
ReplyDeleteA little too much "family sex" in that! The sex scenes will all be in the bedroom with hubby (and maybe a girlfriend to make it three). The family scenes will be embarrassing, but more spanking oriented and other public punishments.
DeleteJust an idea for a book title........Julie's adventures into the world of spanking. I think the photo is a great idea.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure the book will be a great read.
archedone
Thanks! I will take it under advisement.
DeleteWhat about Collection of your Spankings Onvideo To go with the books Spankings you got and The Spankings you Gave
ReplyDeleteI think I'm a little old to be a spanking model!
DeleteTrue may be old be spanking model but you on or best Gorgeous
Deletebeautiful female can make own collection of your own spankings got and dish out
Formerly Strict Julie,
ReplyDeleteThis sounds fun, and you’re pretty much the best writer of these stories. For me the trick is to be able to imagine a scene is real even if it’s implausible so I’m always trying to take vignettes in real life that could turn into a spanking.
I do imagine that you would passively aggressively wear inappropriately short skirts to church. I don’t imagine the pastor spanking you, but I do imagine his wife and some other church ladies calling you in to discuss he matter. You’re embarrassed but flippant and defiant, and when you curse the wife says you need a spanking. You curse again and receive said spanking, first by the pastor’s wife then by the others. Oh by the way, they’re also offended by your choice of panties. They buy you more modest ones and threaten to inspect each Sunday after services.
As far as a title, how about “Bad Julie gets it, again” (again in italics).
Best,
Rosco
Thanks Rosco, I was thinking of a scene along those lines, but you fleshed it out nicely!
DeleteOh by the way, I forgot to mention that the pastor’s wife hates giving blow jobs, so you’ll have a chance to atone for some of your sins.
DeleteIf you really want to add some kink, they might recite scripture while you’re sucking him off.
Btw, I realize your the tenth anniversary of your blog is around the corner. Great stuff.
Rosco
That might be a little too controversial!
DeleteYou’re right in the sense you don’t want to be disrespectful re the scripture.
DeleteI have a vague memory of such scenes in Crimes of Passion (1984) with Kathleen Turner and Anthony Perkins playing the reverend. I’ve wanted to watch it again.
Rosco.
I'll look it up.
DeleteExciting possibilities.
ReplyDeleteHow about a spoiled brat of a wife. David turns you over his knee in pure desperation. Over time you learn how many friends and family cheer that you learn your place. Sort of a taming of the shrew.
I think it will be more consensual than that to more mirror my real life experiences. Though there will be plenty friends and family cheering David on!
DeleteIf that naughty bottom is spanked as red as those knickers it will be quite fiery !
ReplyDeleteB xx
That was my intent wearing those panties!
DeleteHi Julie-
ReplyDeleteYour a talented writer, spanker and spankee. Love you and your blog. What I’m saying is just my opinion and would never want to offend you or anyone else. ( In times like today tho, you get slaughtered for just having an opinion )
Leave the religion out of it. It’s a turn off. Most Christians who spank their wives, probably spank their children. Our spankings and spanking desires are a kink that we enjoy, there is no reason to ever bring politics and religion into it. Let’s enjoy our kink!! Just remember the crap you took for having a political opinion. I’m sure you’ll offend some Christian.
But converting to Christianity gives me so many more chances to be naughty! I'm actually a fan of Christianity and think I can do the faith justice. And I do believe a little spank on the butt, like I got growing up, is good for kids.
DeleteGood idea!
ReplyDeleteDavid's boss. His wife, in her forties, beautiful, bossy, very sadistic. David and Julie.
The two couples have already met at a previous dinner. Julie is a little in love with this older woman.
It is agreed that Julie will obey everything that will be asked of her during this evening.
After the first small talk, the boss's wife asks Julie to take off her skirt and panties and come and stand next to her, sitting on the sofa.
She plays a little bit with Julie's pussy then gets up and slaps her front inner thighs, very hard. Resumes palpating it, pinching it, penetrating it with her fingers. Stands up again, playing anger. A rain of quick slaps, etc....
Then the woman asks Julie to go and do what she has to do in the kitchen but before that, to get dressed, because, she specifies, she wants to give her an otk bare ass spanking when she'll come back from the kitchen.
To receive a panties down spanking, she needs first to have her panties and skirt back on, right?
In the kitchen, Julie confides in David that she is super excited by this evening start... as she runs a finger through his pants on his rock hard penis...
Hot scene!
DeleteBut maybe a tad out of place in this book.
Good luck with your latest venture x
ReplyDeleteThank you fishy!
DeleteI don't like your politics much, but my word you have a lovely bottom.
ReplyDeleteWouldn't you love to just spank that conservative butt ;-)
DeleteI recognized your panties and your long fawn legs
ReplyDeleteBambi
Tee hee
DeleteWhy don't we see you in a pantsuit more often?
ReplyDeleteYuck!
DeleteYou have to include the hand off of responsibility from your dad to your husband with a final emotional strapping
ReplyDeleteThere'll be a handoff, but it will be with a nudge and a knowing wink, not a strapping!
DeleteI think Dad wants to make a point. Pretty sure he is still recalling something he let you off too easy
DeleteNo no. I want to mirror what actually happened with us in the book, but then take it further!
DeleteWhat if they diaper her in the church nursery before sending her to little kids Sunday school. I think that would be awesome.
ReplyDeleteWell, it might just have to come to that...
DeleteLooking forward to it Julie i am sure it will be great you are such a fantastic writer and spanker.
ReplyDeleteThank you joe!
DeleteFor the past few days, I have experienced great pleasure when I go to your blog to see you appear with bare legs and bum, skirt raised, facing the wall in the position of the little girl being punished.
ReplyDeleteIf I knew you as a collaborator, I would immediately recognize you in this extremely revealing picture.
What certainly pleases me is that you have chosen to show off yourself with these red and black panties which inevitably calls to mind the lingerie of the saloon girls.
And especially recalls what the little girls who have not yet done anything have in mind for the way a butt should be showed to attract some compliments.
Ph.
Your comment made my pussy tingle. Thank you!
DeleteWhat a wonderful idea! Although not the focus, I think diapers could play a big role in this story, especially going off the immaturity angle. IE: you will be kept in diapers until you can show your husband you are mature enough to take care of your own kids. At the very least I would diaper you for bed each night to reinforce your childish position in the relationship. So many juicy possibilities here Julie! Good luck!
ReplyDeleteI like the idea of diapering as punishment. The entire family watching and laughing as Mom puts me back into diapers while they all watch.
DeleteSo you use sarcasm to have a laugh at church during sermons!
ReplyDeleteSo you publicly laugh at your husband who is a devout Christian?
I would not like to be in the place of your two pretty fresh buttcheeks under your panties in the middle of all these faithful believers.
"Some things we don't joke about, young lady"
Delete"Punishing the misbehaving woman by spanking her to tears is the simplest, easiest and most effective way to teach her obedience.
ReplyDeleteOne of the most common reasons that a woman needs to be spanked to tears is because she has been disobedient.
Disobedience is a common form of female misbehavior that should normally be dealt with by thoroughly spanking the woman so that she is sobbing repentantly and submissively."
Absolutely! Where does your quote come from? An old marriage advice booklet? In the book, David will be head of the household and I must be obedient to him. But I am a bit feisty, and sometimes find it sooo hard to obey in certain things. When that happens, I am consequenced on the spot, put across his knee, have my bottom bared, and am spanked until he believes I have learned my lesson. And not only behind closed doors!
DeleteHaving spanked my wife, her request, and able to do it again, I would give her a spanking Sunday morning, prior to church, would enjoy seeing her squirming, given me the evil eye, knowing others will notice. I would also insure she wears one of her shorter skirts, and no panties (she has gone to church with no panties in the past, few times, but has). Nothing like a warm, stinging, bare bottom on a hard pew. Jack
ReplyDeleteThat sounds a bit disrespectful!
DeleteHer spankings would have me squirming in the pews at church, she would enjoy, saying it was part of my punishment. So how would that be a bit disrespectful?
DeleteWe have learned that it is better that she gives the spankings, an no more of her getting spanked. Our marriage is strong because of the spankings and so wish not to hurt our marriage. As much as I hate being spanked, I just cannot stop being that naughty little boy, and very thankful for a loving wife who understands that being the Mommy to her naughty little boy is just a part of being married. Jack
A pretty pussy on the pew, with a skirt not long enough to prevent direct contact between the hard wood and the hot bottom. Sounds pretty close to Jesus to me.
DeleteIt's interesting to me, sometimes strict but now sometimes submissive Julie, that you often have so few boundaries but are a little careful in certain ways (and not others) around the church thing.
- Rosco
Nothing like a well disciplined christian wife, I prefer the cane for my wife.
ReplyDeleteVivid welts are good reminders, I also have dress code for her
Very wise of you, Sir
DeleteDuring Sunday school you are giving the handsome teacher peeks up your short plaid skirt. He can clearly see your crimson panties. He keeps you after class and takes you into his office. He makes you remove your wet panties (you were excited by letting him look up your skirt}. He then makes you put them in your mouth and gives you a hard over-the-lap paddling. He tells you if you continue to exhibit this behavior you will have to suck his cock next time. You can't wait 'til next Sunday.
ReplyDeleteNever! Thinking the Sunday school teacher is a firm, matronly woman.
DeleteI would like to see the more real story of full service Domme Wife realizes her own submissive longings first realized through fullfilling her husbands fantasies then with firther exploration realizing her own. I've been reading this blog for 10 years, back when the blurb about you being in your thirties was actually written by you in your thirties, and I think that the real account in overview of how the transition happened would be fascinating albeit more personal and bit more difficult to tell.
ReplyDeleteI feel we've covered that in this blog. The book will be a younger me getting into female submission in my early twenties, and an escape for all my fantasies that would never happen in r/l, but what if they did?
DeleteReally looking forward to this. Any idea when we can expect some more posts?
ReplyDeleteI've been throwing all my writing energies into the book. But I know I owe y'all a post!
DeleteWhen is your vacation time non-fiction coming Miss?
ReplyDeleteYes! I should get to that, it's overdue!
DeleteFollow your muse
DeleteMy wife enjoys that you have really explored the world of spankings, being spanked or giving a spanking, she feels that you have opened the eyes to many about spankings.
ReplyDeleteI will always wish that my wife spanks me when needed. Spanking her, the more I thought about it, it was not right at all.
My wife liked what I said, explained that females are very complicated, and with our marriage she knew that she needed to be in charge.
I don't like waiting for a spanking, I don't like having to face the wall, I really don't like that my mother-in-law will give me a spanking, and when my wife pulls down my pants and underpants, scolds me and the over her lap, I just wish she would get it over with.
I'm reminded that our marriage is strong, I'm reminded that she is in charge, and I best behave or as she puts it sternly, Mommy will spank her naughty little boy, no matter where. Jack