I first became aware of Alex almost six years ago in January of 2012 when he dropped a comment on my blog entry Impromptu Shopping Trip. Whenever I got a new commenter in those days I looked them up to see if they had a blog of their own. I found out that Alex had just started one as well. We linked to one another in our blogrolls and have been friendly ever since.
So Alex and I go way back, but mainly via mutually exchanged comments. It wasn't until 2016 that Alex and I exchanged emails. Upon my request, Alex shared with me a very humiliating episode in his own life that he had arranged, complete with audio recording. Delightful! Later in 2016 I asked Alex to plug my first real spanking (Some news from the Spankosphere) which along with some other bloggers helped drive my page views through the stratosphere that month!
What Alex does is using his skills he manipulates images to create "fantasy scenes" that he then comments on. There are hundreds of these freely available on his blog pages.
More lately Alex has been requesting a donation of your choice for his work to help to pay the bills. To help him, I asked if I could select three of my favourite images from his "Private Collection" available to his supporters and display them and comment on them publicly. Alex was a bit concerned that it would be a betrayal of faith with his supporters, but relented in the end with "I'll just tell my loyal fans who bought these pictures that it is exceptional and only concerns a few pictures. Because honestly, who would dare to resist Julie? : ) Not me." Well said, little alex!
We'll start with one of Alex's older "free ones" that has some personal significance, and then move on to the three I picked from his "Private Collection".
One of his first ones that I became aware of was Shopping Panties for hubby!! inspired by an amalgam of two my escapades with david. He did the image and added the text below in his post:
"I told the salesgirl we were there to buy panties for this gentleman here, for him to wear. Oh dear! Both the salesgirl and my man's mouths dropped open at the same time!"Ha ha! As I said, the scene is an amalgam of two that david and I did for real (described here and here). It did happen just as I described it in my blog, but Alex went further imagining the lack of privacy in the change rooms and the nude picture taking. There were other later occasions where I did have david try things on and otherwise embarrassed him in public (here, here, and here, for example). I also detailed the amalgam scenes Alex refers to at more length in Chapter 7 of my ebook, and then added onto the end (it's pretty obvious where!) an extension into pure fantasy where the entire female staff put him through his paces.
(Strict Julie's spicy life in November 2011: Panty shopping).
I guess the staff and some customers may have been interested to take a little picture as souvenir? It could be a moment of glory when they show this to their colleagues at the habitual Friday after-work drink. So this is the moment I have pictured above. And how fun this is to surprise your man with this sweet humiliation? Thank you again Julie to have inspired me in this!
What I love about Alex's work is the attention to detail. My husband is pictured wearing a Canadian T-shirt with a Toronto football team on it. I am crouching down in the change room, very elegantly dressed, a wisp of my blonde hair visible, helping him try on his panties. I clearly left the curtain a little ajar to add to his anxiety and embarrassment and did not allow him to close it. Wasn't he surprised when a woman came by at just the "wrong" moment. Is that the salesgirl or a customer who happened by and decided to take a pic of a humiliated husband in the process of being panty-trained by his strict wife? Isn't that a delightful little humiliating smirk she has on her face as she is taking the photo? As Alex indicates, she will get together with her colleagues and girlfriends on Friday night and pass the photo around, having a good laugh at this poor hubbie's expense!
Alex has many beach-themed scenes where young men get humiliated by confident, sexy women, generally for an inability to control themselves. You poor boys: completely unable to hide your excitement at a pretty, half-naked woman! This young woman intends to accompany little alex back to his mother to complain about his ogling and lewd reaction. If Alex's other works are anything to judge by, this young man will likely be publicly spanked in front of the young lady, lose his swimsuit privileges for the remainder of the day, and be put into his "balls pacifier" and set to building sand castles while all the young ladies on the beach laugh at him. I can SO imagine myself being that young lady in that image! Oh the fun I would have with that poor lad!
A second common theme in Alex's work is the medical examination, where again the young man cannot control his bodily reactions to being seen and touched by attractive women. Just look at how poor alex has disgraced himself: a full blown erection in front of his Mother and his female Doctor! Mom knows she must be stern, but can barely contain her mirth at her son's reactions. The Doctor has seen this before, and is looking him straight in the eye, pointedly not looking down at that disgusting thing! alex can not look back at her, he is too embarrassed! He is told that his body is playing tricks on him, and that today he will certainly not be penetrating the pretty, older, disinterested Doctor! However, the examination will continue, regardless of the state of his penis. We can only hope alex will not humiliate himself even more by "leaking" his sticky mess during his subsequent examination. Sometimes I wish I was a Doctor - I would have such fun with the male patients (so good thing I am not!).
This last one is another common theme. It is the son being discovered doing something quite perverted. In many cases he is discovered with a dirty magazine and is spanked by his religious Mother, Aunt, Grandmother, or neighbour. In this case the sin is even more egregious. He has been caught spying on his naked sister in the shower! What do you imagine is the appropriate punishment for this? Well, it is a spanking household and both Mom and Sister are very upset with him. Mom emerges with the spanking paddle in hand, commanding her son to remove ALL of his clothes. His sister had no privacy, why should he? The spanking will occur over his Mother's knee while his Sister watches, and will continue, at a no doubt furious pace, until his Sister says he has had enough. Wronged and embarrassed Sisters can be very cruel to their younger brothers. We can therefore only imagine that little alex will be in for a very, very, long spanking! Afterwards, naked corner time for the little pervert showing off his well-spanked derrière. Sister will be allowed to invite her girlfriends over to complete little alex's humiliation. How they will all laugh at his raw red buttocks! Will his penis engorge when being made fun of by these young ladies? Will his Sister notice and call over her Mom to see? Imagine how angry she will be! Poor alex will be pulled out of the corner, made to face the young ladies with his hands on his head and apologize for his disgusting display, and then be re-spanked until the offending appendage is seen by all to be well-wilted!
There we go! One of Alex's public photos, and three from his "Private Collection", all of which you can see by making a small anonymous donation.
Alex is a true talent. Please support this naughty artist's ongoing efforts!
Julie
Yes. I spied on my sister in the shower through the key hole; not caught by anyone except my sister. She was irate, but I was the older sibling. That was so long ago (60 yrs) that we laugh about it now.
ReplyDeleteOh my. Had that been me, younger sister or not, I would have had you across my knee! I once actually spanked a real-life peeper (a long-term boyfriend of my husband's sister), and it was glorious!
DeleteGrowing up in a small town, everyone knew everyone and you could not get away with anything. Every Mother in town was “your” mother and so each addressed punishment differently. We had such a girl in town, would not be ashamed to tease us males. I got to know her, we got along very well. Well I like most boys do, had the chance to see her taken a shower from a tree. I was hidden I thought until I heard her Mother’s voice sternly telling me to come down. Her mother said nothing, taken me to the kitchen. She called her daughter down from the bedroom, asked if she had forgotten about the bathroom window, the daughter said yes. Your both in trouble and before I knew it, I was bare bottom over the mother’s lap getting a spanking, squirming, pleading, kicking while the daughter watched. When she stopped and stood me up, I’m not going to tell your parents this time, but the next. I just stood there crying, rubbing. I was shocked when her daughter was soon getting a spanking, bare bottom. We both stood facing the wall afterwards, another scolding and I did not do that again. She is my wife, and yes she does spank me, her mother approves and enjoys having fun teasing me after I’ve been spanked.
ReplyDeleteI think that window was left open on purpose, you naughty people!
DeleteI love mature mothers who don't let their "firm hand disiplinary philosophy" get in the way of having a sense of humor about the inevitability of boys being boys and gir3 being girls equalling naked boys being with naked girls for inocent fun with peeking. The attitude with community mom's, sisters, teachers, and such was too choose thier battles wisely and win by attrition. I know that can sound bad too outsiders, but the war was against social conventions for them; community boys not allowed too feel shame or embarrassed about being boys. When 16, neibors dog got loose and into my dog's back yard. When returning dog I got nipped. Not much blood, but girl I returned dog too was also my playmate under bleachers at lunch hour and worried enough too tell my mom, with them both walking in on me coming out of basement shower with her mom and older sister brining up the rear seeingme naked with female hands up my groin and rear. No other dog bites but our mom's thought shy girl attending too naked shy boy touching. Double entendre happy accident, like the kind I had. She wasn't trying too jack me off in front of them. She was trying too protect my modestly, while our mother's were trying too rid me of. Her mom teased me about my shyness trickling and tugging my privates,doing so so often.there wasn't anything private about my privat parts anymore. I started too enjoy making out with her on the couch with her sister'scfreinds over too watch her hand sqeezing my boyparts while we kissed and hugged.
DeleteHappy Easter Miss Julie. I assume at some point this long weekend, you would have engaged in a family dinner ? Would this be the first one since "the incident" in front of your family ? ;)
ReplyDeleteYes! And second time with my Mom and Dad since. Nothing terribly exciting, but will write it up on next blog.
DeleteWhat I have learned from my girl friend and now my wife, she could care less about where a spanking is given, could less that others may see, spankings are most effective when given at the time of the misdeed. I've also learned that women are not turned on by a man's bare bottom, or privates, they enjoy the spanking and cannot resist making comments. Facing the wall afterwards is the worse, comments like Naughty Little Boy, does it hurt, or I would have spanked harder. No rubbing young man or another spanking will take place, made that mistake only a couple of times and boy did that second spanking hurt, my wife states slow learner.
ReplyDeleteYes, spanking (in part) appeals to our "Mommy" nature!
DeleteYou just answered a question I asked my wife, she had just spanked me and said I will call her Mommy, naughty little boys are spanked by their Mothers. When spanked I call her Mommy, no matter who maybe around for the rest of the day. Thank You for answering that question.
DeleteAll part of the naughty fun. I believe it's where our power over you boys comes from. A successful Domme must learn to channel it.
DeleteI love the intimate nature of Alex's collages and they have strong similarities with Barb O'Toole. Its great to see the boy being humiliated in a changing room and other Women seeing him in his unusual state. Femsup
ReplyDeleteThey are amazing, aren't they!
DeleteYour beach story reminds me of something that happened to me when I was about 17. I was quite overweight at the time and was on a beach holiday in Spain with my parents (who fortunately missed what happened!) I couldn't take my eyes of a couple of gorgeous young ladies in their early twenties. As I walked past I sneaked a look at them for a bit too long and one of them shouted "Put your eyes back in fatty!" And they then preceded to make some insulting comments about my weight. "look at the state of him with all that flab wobbling around" and "you need to go on a diet you tub of lard". I burst into tears at the time but I learned some valuable lessons that day!
ReplyDeleteIt sounds to me that those girls could have used a nice little OTK bare bottom lesson on the ills of trying to fat shaming people. ;-)
DeleteHa! Maybe. Fat shaming wasn't really a concept at the time. Have to be honest and say that the humiliating experience did me a great deal of good. I found the willpower to lose a lot of unhealthy excess weight after I realised how unattractive it looked to others. It doesn't make their behaviour acceptable though!
DeleteHa ha! But you were obviously turned on by your shaming. So it both made you lose weight and gave you a fantasy for life!
DeleteNot at the time I wasn't! But years afterwards the thought does turn me on. Not enough to allow myself to get fat again in the hope of reliving it though!
DeleteYou would like my physio. Blonde attractive, late 20s. She doesn't fat shame as such but she isn't shy about commenting on excess weight. She once told me I was out of condition and that if I moved in with her for a few weeks she would get some weight off me! Now that did leave me wondering exactly what she meant!
DeleteThat would certainly make me think twice. She does crossfit three times a week and I reckon she could hit fairly hard! I do have a recurring fantasy of her ordering me to strip to my underwear for a weigh-in and having me straight over her knee if I don't reach my target.
DeleteUnderwear? Weight measurement is done FULLY NUDE of course.
DeleteHow utterly humiliating to be stripped naked by an attractive woman, smirking at my plight. And then to be weighed and punished for my lack of self control. Humiliating but yet such a turn on ...
DeleteYes! Believe it or not (and hard to believe, I know and appreciate!) a personal trainer I hired/corrupted to be my husband's "kinky personal trainer". Smirking, fully nude weigh-ins and spankings for under-performance were a part of it. Keeping work-outs fun for subby hubby!
DeleteI have always had a theory that most female personal trainers get a real kick out of being bossy and strict with their male clients. The toughest workouts I ever had were at the hands of a young lady who had me gasping for breath and bathed in sweat every session. She prided herself on getting results albeit witout spanking any of her clients (as far as I know anyway!)
DeleteDavid's current personal trainer is proving to be just as tough and Dommie, but "uncorruptable". The three previous all saw david being spanked or spanked him themselves. So batting 75% to-date (careful selection and pre-screening is key for maximal kinkiness).
Deletewaiting for another time you can punish me make some punishment order for me since you know i can be real naughty all time i get away with 2 much no female around.so i feel i need PUNISH SPANKNGS MRS STRICT JULIE
ReplyDeletecan picture u grab me by ear spank my butt few time grab time out chair place me in time out in front of everyone pen and paper write 100 time i will not misbehave or i will obey and respect women all times. then tell me my real piunishment date with your hairbrush and strong hands when done line writing any talk back u do it while iam naked otk then more line writng this time 200 times
Oh mike. Half the fun is lying in bed and just thinking of these things happening (while touching yourself...)
DeleteAmazing details you added to those images! The one about the beach scene was particularly hot. Beach scenes like that are a common fantasy for me...especially when they involve all the Women seeing me as nothing more than a naughty boy playing in the sand or water.
ReplyDeleteYes, I got carried away seeing Alex's little scenario. My mind seems to work that way. I made up a lot of good stuff in my ebook that way, starting with a (real) premise but then extending it to what might have been!
DeleteI've seen this blog. VERY interesting!
ReplyDeleteWhat is it about being embarrassed and humiliated like this by females and in the presence of females that is so erection-inducing? What is so exciting about being humiliated in front of girls we would wish to attract? Why do we want to imagine these scenarios and to the point of being outlandish? Why do we love what we hate? Why does it center so much around adolescence? Why are family - parents, siblings, aunts and uncles and other such close but typically non-sexual relationships so often involved? What is it about spanking and nudity that make those elements so central and powerful in shame and arousal?
I love these questions because, whatever the answers are, they define my sexuality. It's such a rich vein to mine.
Not only men, it's women too. Me personally, I also get turned on by thoughts of such humiliations being heaped on me by other women (but not by men so much, perhaps only as audience. Perhaps it's a "mother" thing?
DeleteWith me, it is only some women who have that effect. They usually have a combination of being physically attractive and having a stern or even bossy demeanour. My physio mentioned above fits the bill. Good looking but also no nonsense about her. She runs her own business and she is very much in control!
DeleteI also used to have a boss in my own occupation who had the same effect on me. She had a glint in her eye that said "do as you are told or else". And she also wore very short skirts.
Maternal authority is the essential power dynamic that shapes us from day one. With whom are we more vulnerable? In adolescence, a time when we're going through major transformation and development, socially and sexually, where we are fragile and awkward, and so susceptible to shame and embarrassment, is also the time we are fighting for independence from parental authority and, especially for a boy, from maternal discipline and control. The kinds of scenes depicted here are the worst case scenarios of adolescent humiliation. As adults, we still appreciate the power of this psychological ordeal.
DeleteThe "mother" thing is very real to me. Within the realm of domestic discipline, the female as HOH is an authority figure, and humiliations are heightened as her role is more explicitly associated with "Mommy." It goes back to those embarrassing feelings in adolescence of being treated as a child. A female disciplinarian can exploit the feelings to make a scene extremely difficult for her adult charge. I would expect a woman to have similar feelings when she is dominated in these ways by other females, and it may be made stronger by the associations she makes to the attractive figure of "mother." As a witness, I enjoy this scene immensely, much more than seeing a male dominate a female. We're just scratching the surface of the dynamic here.
My wife is HOH, I was looking for such a woman to take charge. I dreaded the time prior to our marriage she found my F/m magazines. She just said no more buying, threw them out, nothing else said. Was married three weeks, she brought up those magazines and stated my actions recently should be addressed. I was given a very sound spanking, part of me wanted one, the other part knew I best do as told. It was when I was dancing around, rubbing, I said without thinking, Sorry Mommy. To this day I call her Mommy when I’m going to be spanked, her rules. It does add to the spanking, one feels very little when Mommy is going to be giving you a spanking. Joe
DeleteVery well put, brett. And so true, joe.
DeleteExcellent questions, Brett. Those things define my sexuality too. I grew up as a shy boy surrounded by girls. I had 4 sisters and several female cousins, and girlfriends of my sisters were often at our place. I got spanked by both of my parents until the age of 14, and spankings were generally on the bare bottom. It shamed me terribly when my sisters saw my spankings, or even if they just overheard, and I was terrified of the risk of being exposed in front of my sisters friends or my cousins. My father was especially dangerous in that regard because he could lose his temper quickly and haul down my pants for a strapping right on the spot. I can recall making a run for it whenever a spanking was imminent, not to escape, but to make it to my bedroom so the spanking would happen there. I don’t think my parents tried to humiliate me intentionally. They were just less worried about the risk of my being seen than I was. Or maybe they thought childhood nudity was no big deal and had no idea of the intense and highly sexual feelings of shame such exposure gave me from an early age. I remember one time my father had just bared me for a strapping in the kitchen when my sister and two of her friends walked in. My father carried on as the girls moved quietly along the wall to get to the far door. I was probably 6 or 7. I cried from the humiliation as much as the pain in my room afterwards, but in my memory and my imagination the humiliation aroused me and turned to a potent masturbation fantasy. (I learned to masturbate at a very young age, and I always masturbated to fantasies of spankings and the kind of embarrassing exposure I dreaded in real life). I don’t know whether such childhood experiences turned me into a masochist who looks up to women as superior creatures who are sexiest when they have the power to humiliate me, or whether masochism was an innate characteristic that was sharpened by my environment. I tend to believe it is an innate characteristic because it is such a deep part of me. I am lucky to have found a wife who is understanding and compassionate about my masochism. Not only does she spank and dominate me, but she has learned to playfully humiliate me in ways that push my buttons. Those buttons are pushed by the images and stories at the Alex website too.
DeleteOh my gosh. I feel your humiliation! Have you ever thought that it may have been intensely sexual for those girls as well, to see you bare bottom up getting a strapping from your Daddy???? (it would have been for me...)
DeleteYes, in my imagination I always imagine my humiliation to be a source of sexual pleasure for the witnesses. But I don't know whether my imagination is accurate. Maybe they felt sorry for me. But then, it could be both, couldn't it? I mean the humiliation was both terrible (in the moment) and arousing (in memory) for me. I suppose that in my imagination all girls/women are like you. I kind of wish they were. ;-)
DeleteIncidentally, Julie, as I remember it, I wasn’t bare bottom up. It was one of those standing up strappings, with me pulled up onto tippy toes, one arm stretched over my head as the belt slashed my bottom and I danced in circles. So my sister and her friends got the full monty.
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My father wasn’t bad, but stuff that was done to kids in the 1960’s would be child abuse today.
Interesting points about the dynamic of maternal authority. Recently, my 90 year old mother said to me, “I’ve been reading about the harmful effects of spanking on children. But you kids were spanked when you were young, and you turned out okay, didn’t you?” I said, “Well, actually...”. And then I outed myself in all my submissive, masochistic glory to my mother. The intense humiliation I felt when I was spanked as a child, especially when my sisters and their friends were around. The masturbation fantasies that grew out of those humiliations. My spanking fetish. My lifelong eroticization of humiliation. My feelings as an adolescent that my sexual feelings about girls made me deeply vulnerable to them. My adventures as an online amateur femdom pornographer. The fact that I have been formally submissive to my wife for the last 15 years, and that my wife punishes me with humiliating bare bottomed spankings the same way my mother once did. That I crave such humiliation, and that I count myself lucky to have a wife who provides it. I assured my mother that I don’t blame her, or my dead father, and that I am happy with my life. I couldn’t believe I told her all that. She was amazed, but I think it gave her a heightened respect for her daughter-in-law. And we agreed that it probably isn’t a good idea to spank children.
DeleteI grew up in that kind of household too, where spanking was not a private affair, and modesty with regard to exposure was not considered important. My parents were in the medical profession, so nudity was commonplace to them. When you got spanked, you got undressed, and you just had to hope no one was around to see it. Spankings happened only occasionally, and the gravity of the situation added much weight to the experience. I don't know why I felt the embarrassment and humiliation stronger than others and, stranger than that, why I was so sexually fascinated by the knowledge or suspicion that my shame was witnessed by a female or females. I fantasized that the witnesses were sexually aroused, but I thought that was just weird and girls would not feel that way. I thought they would only be disgusted by it, deeply embarrassed by it, or think it was just pathetic, and that idea was supported by the fact that no girl ever teased me about a spanking I got or even acknowledged that it had happened. What I didn't know is that, apparently, some females might have any or all of those feelings---disgust, embarrassment, scorn, amusement, and also thrill, excitement, and sexual arousal.
DeleteMy husband was not spanked as a child, but has the same fantasies and drives as you fellows, so maybe that's just the way you are wired and the childhood spankings give you great fantasy fodder now?
DeleteAnd wow about that "full Monty" spanking!!! In front of girls no less! It must have been hilarious for them to see your little shrivelled weiner and testicles bouncing up and down as Daddy whipped your ass in a circle! THAT'S a proper punishment. I think my husband is getting that next time sis is over!
DeleteI don't know what it's like for someone to have the fantasies but not have the reality to back them up. I don't know that headspace, but there's fantasy that you just have to totally imagine, and there's fantasy that is an alternate reality. I don't think anyone can truly know the situation and feelings involved if they haven't actually experienced a humiliating adolescent spanking under an authority figure who must be obeyed like a child must submit to a parent, and where involuntary witnesses are involved. The fantasies are about what might have also happened growing out of those events, or how they may have been made even worse than they were. The scenes in the Alex composites depict some of the biggest humiliations and worst fears.
DeleteMs Julie - even though david was not spanked as a child, did he ever witness or hear about one of his friends getting spanked?
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Boy, Julie, you really know how to push a guy’s buttons! *blush*. Though the full exposure was mortifying, I don’t think I was old enough to think the size of my wiener was something girls might judge. As I grew up, however, I developed an insecurity, and an erotic fantasy, about girls laughing at me for that. Although I am not actually small down there—no, honest, I’m not *blush*—SPH is a potent fantasy for me, and I am lucky that my wife finds it amusing to push that button sometimes. Incidentally, I find it interesting that your husband is similar to us, even though he was never spanked as a child. That confirms my suspicion that my tendencies are innate. I do think, however, that childhood experiences caused my imagination to be sexualized at a very early age, and in my sexual fantasies even today I am often transported back in time. DJ
DeleteBrett, that’s a weird coincidence that your parents were medical professionals. So were mine! Hey, you aren’t my brother, are you? ;-).
DeleteI think you could be right that medical backgrounds gave them a matter-of-fact attitude to nudity, and they must have had no idea that we were hypersensitive to it at a very early stage. I believe that hypersensitivity was a sign of our innate tendency. I imagine that Julie’s husband’s fantasies are similar to ours because he shares the same innate tendency. I think the aspect of our experience he might not fully get is how terrible the humiliation was in real life. Even though I eroticized it in memory and imagination, it made me cry at the time. Interestingly, I am now turned on by fantasies of brothers under the thumbs of cruel sisters and their friends, but I think my sisters’ real life response to those events was pity rather than amusement. Did you have sisters, Brett?
Brett: for some reason david is as fixated on those sorts of things ever since he was young despite having no experience. I recounted in my ebook an acted-out fantasy david had where he snuck around nude in a hotel late at night and fantasized about being captured and spanked by a pretty woman who actually saw him by accident. True story. It seems to start young regardless of true experiences. I recall my (infrequent) spankings as a girl, and I do not associate anything sexual with those at all. Seems like a "different thing" from my spanking fantasies now.
Deletet: he said there was the occasional mention but nothing overt. Did not stop him from fantasizing about it from a young age. (what triggered him was reading a magazine that described a spanking)
DJ: I was not referring to SPH, more that I imagine under the circumstances that your penis was wilted and tiny with terror, pain, and embarrassment. The girls would have looked at it and thought it was "cute" under normal circumstances.
Of course there is an element of pity in seeing your little brother whipped so humiliatingly while your friends walked by. Sure I would have felt pity for you having to endure that whipping and being forced to expose your genitalia to my friends. But FOR SURE she and her friends giggled about it up in her room afterwards, and still remember the spectacle you made to this very day. It is not something ever forgotten, I can assure you! (as a child I saw a male cousin belt whipped once and I have NEVER forgotten it). I did feel pity for him, but also felt he deserved it, and also thought less of him afterwards (and at the same less of my crazy uncle who would do that to him in front of a roomful of girls, and more scared of him!).
Before the Internet, when I had so little exposure to the kinky world of spanking, I just assumed that only people who were spanked growing up had the same feelings about spanking and related humiliations that I do. I learned quickly that was not the case, and also that spanking was really a range of kinks. Some scenarios involving spanking are not really that interesting to me. My point was only that adult consensual spanking isn't the same thing as real punishment growing up. If someone hasn't experienced it by the time they're an independent adult, they never will. They may still be fixated on the ideas and will fantasize or seek the painful and humiliating experiences. They may enjoy those scenes as much as I would, possibly more. It's not a measure of how much people are into it; it's just about our own real personal experiences. We're born with a complex set of characteristics, and then our real life shapes us to some extent.
DeleteSo speaking of sisters... my family appears to demonstrate that getting spanked growing up under the same conditions, and in the same environment, doesn't turn everyone into a spanko. My siblings were raised just like me, but I'm fairly certain I was the only one who had the kinky feelings about it. We kids didn't talk much about spanking in our house -- it was just a bad thing that happened. Sometimes we saw the characteristic marks on one another's behinds that were visible for days, but that was it. My brothers and sister never teased me about it, nor I them. Of course, having any females around during a spanking, family related or not, made it far more embarrassing, and I never wanted the word to get out about what had happened. As we've talked about before, if you had been around, Julie, some of my biggest fears and fantasies might have come true.
Brett, I have often wondered the same thing: why would my siblings not have developed the same kinks I have? But then, when I really thought about it, I realized that I don’t know for sure that they aren’t kinky. They may all be wondering why they are the only kinky ones in the family. As in your family, we kids didn’t really talk about the spankings among ourselves, nor do we now. So how can we know how it affected our siblings then or now?
DeleteThere's no knowing for sure, but I wouldn't state that I believe I'm the only one of my siblings with the spanking kink unless I had a reason to believe it. I don't know what kinks they're all into, but they've never shown the signs I would recognize. As a boy, when my brothers and I talked about sex and girls, I sometimes couldn't help myself and made remarks about spanking. I really didn't know about it as a fetish and wondered if they had the same attraction. They showed no special interest. My sister never revealed an interest either. The subject of spanking wasn't a big deal to them; for me it was always incredibly fascinating and horribly embarrassing. I couldn't hide my feelings completely, and I think another spanko would have recognized to some degree themselves in me. Now maybe my siblings became spankos later in life. I'm not sure how common that is.
DeleteYes, there's a different way normies talk about spanking, as if it was somehow not the SEXIEST THING IN THE WORLD! (I know, crazy).
DeleteSpanking is sexy to me, but not the same way it is to many people. It's the shame, embarrassment and humbling that make it what it is. I learned at some point that not everyone is into that aspect of it. If they submit, they're comfortable in the submissive role and content to be open about who they are. If it's punishment, they just accept it as needed discipline. If they must be exposed, well... it's part of sex, so what's the big deal about being naked? Or having an erection? It's just consensual sex.
DeleteThat's never been me. Spanking has always been humiliating and always will be. That's what stiffens the ol' boner. Yes, it's crazy, but I'm not complaining.
I am like you, Brett, and I believe there are many guys like us. If you consider femdom spanking stories, many of them emphasize the humiliation aspect. I think it’s a form of masochism. Some masochists are turned on by physical pain. Some are turned on by sexual humiliation, which can be seen as a form of emotional pain. Incidentally, has your spanking fetish led to a taste for any other forms of femdom humiliation? It has for me.
DeleteThat's how I've always thought of it. Humiliation is emotional pain that stings, like taking a whip to the ego. As with the physical sting of spanking, it's a more narrowly defined pain within certain limits, or it loses it's connection to sexual stimulation. There's somehow that connection to blood flow, to blushing cheeks and to erection. I don't know the physiology. Ms. Julie certainly understands the psychology, and that puts the whip in her hand that her husband can appreciate.
DeleteIt seems femdom is more centered on humiliation than what is typical with female submission. It must have to do with our culture and expectations of what is masculine and feminine. Throughout my adolescence and early adulthood, I was not consciously into femdom. Spanking was for bad girls, and the humiliation a girl suffered was a product of the circumstances surrounding her punishment and her exposure. She typically was not submissive and was humbled by her loss of autonomy. These were not scenes of devoted submission, but the underlying motivation was sexual, the result was erotic. These became the themes of boys being punished when my conscious attraction to femdom emerged, all connecting back to my upbringing. The difference was that, by virtue of being male, greater humiliation was suffered through emasculation.
Spanking is at the core of my kink. Everything revolves around that center. So femdom in the form of the broader and more typical dominatrix has a limited appeal. The scenes I imagine are domestic not dungeon. Family dynamics are the model. Julie's blog covers a wide range of kinks, and I've found myself attracted to new things I hadn't much considered before. The positive connection usually has to do with embarrassment and emasculation. Getting away from spanking, an attraction I've found for femdom is about sexual control, i.e. tease and denial and control of the male orgasm.
Yeah, chastity and control of the male orgasm are very hot, at least in fantasy. Mind you, one of the most amusing paradoxes in femdom is thinking of the amount of semen that has been spilled by men reading fantasies of orgasm denial. Lol.
DeleteI agree with you that emasculation is a potent humiliation fantasy. In a way, a man being spanked by a woman is suggestive of emasculation, right? So is any role reversal whereby the wife becomes head of the household and “wears the pants.” Going deeper into emasculation, one can arrive at forced feminization, small penis humiliation, and cuckolding. That last one seems pretty extreme to most people, but an imaginative couple can have fun playing with the fantasy.
Right on. I totally get the humiliation thing, and also crave it myself when in a subby mood, so not exclusively male. My humiliation fantasies always seem to focus around the humiliation of being seen by laughing normies to be getting sexually aroused by mistreatment. It's why my arousal over my sister's knee while getting spanked so hard was so... perfect?
DeleteFor cuckolding, my favourite is sticking a hard husband in the corner while making love to a sexy woman! NO play for him. None. Corner.
It's true, being seen to be aroused by being treated in a humiliating manner adds another layer of humiliation, doesn't it?
DeleteCuckolding your husband with another woman is very hot. It adds an element of tease and denial to the cuckolding: two women having sexy fun behind his back while hubby has his nose stuck in the corner.
My wife has cuckolded me a few time, I am somewhat embarrassed to confess, with other men. I'm not sure whether my embarrassment is more about being cuckolded or about being turned on by that. When I revealed to my wife that I had a fantasy of being cuckolded, she revealed to me that she had fantasized about "forbidden sex" outside of marriage. When another man is involved, the cuckolding can be combined with SPH, which is a button my wife also likes to push. I've never been present when it happens, but my wife has used me as her secretary for erotic correspondence with one of the guys, and she has introduced me to him in public settings. My wife is not currently seeing anyone on the side, but she still continues to push that button by having me use dildos on her instead of my own equipment. It's hard to explain how hot that is to anyone with a jealous, possessive bent.
Kink doesn't have to follow any rational pattern for me. One humiliation might be highly arousing, while another that can logically be equated somehow leaves me cold - or maybe doesn't even feel humiliating. I don't always see the wiring. It is what it is.
DeleteI believe being aroused by spanking was a large part of the humiliation since I was a child. I assume that's why punishments seemed to be much more psychologically difficult for me than for "normal" kids. It wasn't that I fantasized about being spanked, tried to earn it or enjoyed the experience. Far from it. There was something deeper involved (sexuality) that made this form of punishment confusing and, in my mind, perverse. I never thought my parents were punishing with any sexual motivation or intent, but the experience was still subconsciously sexual. When I read that you (Julie) actually had an orgasm on your sister's pant leg while being punished, it brought to life the worst fears. It looked embarrassing enough simply for you to be turned over your real big sister's knee for a spanking in the classic punished-with-Mommy's-wooden-spoon style, but I was not expecting such blatant arousal. On your sister's leg! There is always that very real fear of embarrassing myself over the knee in that way while being punished. You did not expect or fear it, but now must live with the shame... and trapped within the circle, aroused by that humiliation.
On another note, the idea of my wife putting me in the corner while she has sex with another woman is an arousing thought. Left to my imagination, I would work spanking into the equation in a variety of ways.
When I was 16, my friend and I got caught leafing through some Hustler magazines by his domineering 14 year old sister and her friends, who gave us a choice between going over their knees bare for a spanking, or having our parents find out and going over our mother's knees bare in front of them. Having hardcore feminist moms, they knew that telling them about the language we used in reference too the centerfolds could easily be taken out of reference and we'd regret not keeping it between us kids. Standing naked in front of four girls 2 years younger than us was humiliating as they got a good view of our pubic hair and development. Erecting as quickly as we did in front of them was mortifying too the point of arousal exceeding fear and going over the knee of the girl I carpool with for gymnastics classes left me uncomprehending the reality of my engorged boyparts pressing down on her bare thighs because I would be expected too talk too this girl on road trips too and fro practice and help her with stretching and tumbling as her spotter. The pressure on my privates was painful against her knees, and she had too readjust my package behind her thigh, getting a good humiliating feel.my friend went over his sister's knees, and she didn't have a problem with him feeling pain in his nuts as he screamed in agony, her hand covering his mouth while shoving two fingers rudely up his butthole too humiliate him into compliance, while the girl I was bent over had a good look between my buttcheecks and inner thighs, pushing het fingers up into my rectum too press against my prostate, going from caressing my nuts too gently squeezing them. The spanking hurt a lot more than I expected, causing enough pain that I didn't care anymore that rubbing my cheeks exposed my finger filled butthole. I heard my freind's sister scolding him for sqweezing his cheeks, taking hold of his nuts and sqweezing hard enough too get a yelp out of him, ordering him too keep those cheeks spread wide open, since he likes showing off his asshole so much, my nuts getting squeezed as well, but my compliance in keeping my butthole exposed sparing me pain in the nutsack area.she actually cared enough too ask if she was squeezing my nuts too hard, I said no, and she squeezed a little harder, but not enough too hurt. A girl behind me pointed my dick into her tissue wadded hand, saying "go for it" while my friend was punished for soiling his sister's stockings. I came, the girls running their hands through my hair, exclaiming how awesome that was. We submitted to invasive examinations and weren't allowed to wear anything until evening.
DeleteWow! What an amazing fantasy come true!
DeleteSounds like you are hankering for another humiliating shopping trip for david, maybe your neighbor and sister can join in this time - girls day fun
ReplyDeletejennifer
What fun!
DeleteSay what you want, but this male, spanked for the first time as an adult by an older woman I was dating, I just said with out thinking, Mommy please I’ll be good. This woman I dated for two years then insured I called her that. It was several months after we broke up I started seeing a person my age, she was wonderful, but I had told her about the spankings, nothing about saying Mommy. Well she gave me a choice, her way or the highway and I took her way. She gave me a spanking like no other and when she stood me up, she said with sternness that I shall call her Mommy the rest of the day. I’ve been a naughty little boy and Mommies spank naughty little boys and to this day I call her Mommy. She enjoys that, so it must be a woman’s thing. For me an over the knee spanking I feel like a naughty little boy.
ReplyDeleteI think it's a "human" thing!
DeleteHi,
ReplyDeleteYou told us in early march that you received a scolding by email. You were awaiting the next installment from that woman and her permission to publish. What happened?
We continue to correspond! Has been the fodder for several "self pleasuring" episodes... I simply must share but don't want to jinx it by asking!
DeleteMy sister in law spanked me for no specific reason, she just came by hit my butt playfully. I moved my butt in reaction, she said sorry I replied it didn't hurt at all and told her I never get hurt from girlish spanking, she said let us see and gave me a sharp one, I acted it didn't hurt. We went on like that for a few minutes. Then she said it is not fair and her hand hurts. She asked if she can use her hair brush, I said OK, she couldn't find it so she took off her slipper and gave me a real spanking till I really told her to stop, she stopped and said see I can spank well.
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of slipper did she use?
DeleteHairbrush > slipper
Delete;-)
It was a flat wooden scholl
DeleteWhat do you mean Julie?
DeleteInternet meme thing I've noticed.
DeleteTHIS is greater than (>) or better than THAT.
Cheeky because I know how much the slipper crowd loves their slipper spankings!
Well, a wooden scholl is quite similar to a hair brush.
DeleteWooden slipper > slipper
Delete:-)
Naughty Julie needs to be punished for being cheeky to her slipper lovers fans, so best is for her to get a slipper spanking from David and Sue. And better her fans choose the type of slippers used by both Sue and David.
DeleteThough not much familiar with slipper spanking, but any spanking for subby Julie is great
DeleteNo, I get the point. I am regularly cheeky to my slipper enthousiast fans. Am feeling as if I deserve to learn how bad a well-delivered slippering can be!
DeleteYes, you got it right Julie.
DeleteGood, let's start with David giving you a slipper spanking. Do you have suitable spanking slippers
DeleteI really don't. What is best, you think? Can you post a web link?
DeleteIpanema flip flop especially the beach or better the platform models is a moderate spanking slipper, of course the wooden scholls. Or if you have a nearby shop that sells cheap hard plastic soled slippers.
Deletehttp://www.marksandspencer.com/extra-wide-fit-cross-strap-mule-slippers/p/p60172036?image=SD_01_T02_1175E_F4_X_EC_90&color=NAVYMIX&prevPage=plp
DeleteMost Marks and Spenser products will work, you can buy a collection, get spanked with them all at home without removing the tags, then return the ones you didn't like and keep only what you like.
Better you go spanking slipper shopping (similar to what you do to David in bra and panties shopping).
DeleteIf you still have the sandal you spanked David with during your Spain vacation, try it.
DeleteCheck slipperloverdavid blog, you requested that his wife Kim spanks his legs and thighs not just his bottom a few years ago and they did a video of that. I knew your blog through his blog a few years ago. His wife Kim has plenty of spanking slippers shown in their clips and pics.
DeleteUse a plastic jelly sandal, it is very good for spanking, and if the the spanker holds it from the front and spanks with the heel part it is more painful.
DeleteOk, thanks!
DeleteThat is the beauty of this spanking implement, it is always available.
DeleteJulie is going to have a red bottom or purple if spanked with the heel part as suggested in some comments.
DeleteWhich slipper did you choose Julie?
DeleteWhile I've never had quite the experiences as Alex has had, I was once in a department store where I was holding a pair of panties against me in a mirror....away from prying eyes, I thought. However, a gal about my age (mid-50's at the time) saw me and said something like, "oh, isn't that cute? Are those for you? Oh, they're adorable." laughing at me the whole time as I turned several shade of red. I rushed toward the check out, but, of course, there was a line. This gal's daughter comes out of the changing room and she says ,"look, he's buying those panties for himself. Isn't that something?! They're adorable." The daughter looked like she was embarrassed for me, but said something like, "oh, well, whatever." I finally got out of there, but my erection almost burst out of my pants!! I don't think any of the ladies saw it, but I got so hard, I almost...uhm...took care of it in the car! Thanks for sharing these.
ReplyDeleteAmazing!!! I would definitely act as she did were I to catch a blushing male shopping for personal panties. Complete humiliation for you. What fun!
DeleteAs a 15 year old I went on a family beach holiday. When I thought nobody was home, I went nude sunbathing on the balcony. I had an erection while lying in the sun. My 18 year old sister and her girlfriend suddenly came back from the beach wearing their little bikinis and surprised me. They both stood over me hands on hips and remonstrated with me. "How dare I wank off on the balcony" and pointing to my erection, "We shouldn't have to see that disgusting thing." I tried to cover my erection with my hands, but they looked so sexy and hot standing over me I stayed erect. All holiday they teased me about my 'sunburnt dick'. I didn't get spanked but would've liked to.
ReplyDeleteYes. Told to "finish off" in front of them first and THEN your spanking. Naughty boy!
DeleteYou don't want a spanking afterwards, trust me. As an single male, dating, I got caught doing such, thought I was alone in my apartment, looking a F/m magazines in the bathroom, my gf came over, found me stroking and the magazines. She told me to finish and I was close anyway I did. She then said lets see how you do getting a real spanking. Hurt like hell, she was very good, still his today, married, and not always, punishment will include masturbating prior to a spanking, hate that most of all.
DeleteYou're putting ideas in my head for a future session with my husband! How about Sue visiting, strip him nude, make him jerk off standing in front of us on a towel, then grabbing his wrist and belt whipping him in a circle (as per above account!) as Sue watches.
DeleteMy blog provides so much inspiration!
My BF and I as teenagers enjoyed teasing the boys, we did so to get them in trouble, worked most of the time. Skimpy outfits, teasing them, always waiting until their parents, especially the mother would be around. Such fun watching as they tried to explain. One such time, it did not work out as planned, my BF mother had been watching. The boys saw her coming, we did not, when we heard her voice we just looked and tried to blame the boys, she saw what we were doing. She told the boys she would address the situation and if they wanted to watch they could, they did. They saw both of us getting spanked, thankful our bottoms were not bared. They made comments, we felt really wanted them to leave. Rubbing our bottoms the boys did leave, we then learned the spankings were not over, we were told now that boys are gone, the real spankings is going to take place. We pleaded but soon we both were back over her lap, our bottoms bared this time and the hairbrush applied. Next day in school, one of the boys told me, they stayed around and saw the bare bottom spankings, said I had a very cute bottom.
ReplyDeleteHa ha! How would you tease them? Just striking poses, teasing talk (what?), or was it so naughty as brushing up against them in your bikinis? Brushing up against a boy with an obvious erection would for sure get my daughter (if I had one!) a bare bummed beach whipping!
DeleteThat and some dirty talk, mostly wearing as little as possible. Does not take much to get boys excited, it really was a fun thing to do. The rest of the story was my best friend mother told my mother what we were doing, but we did not know that. It was a couple of days later at my home, that my mother told us she knew what we had been doing. Oh we both got another spanking, this time no one to witness it, but my mother had a nice large bath brush that she used, talking about two dancing, rubbing, and my mother believed facing the corner was just as important. My best friend mother was invited over for coffee and we stood saying nothing, not allowed to rub while the two talked.
DeleteGood! Got what you two little cock-teases deserved ;-)
DeleteI recall an Alex moment from when I was about 14. I was at a friend’s house playing baseball. I had to pee, so I went around to the back door of the house, but it seemed to be locked. I thought maybe everyone in my friend’s family was out, so I went off to a spot at the side of the house sheltered from the road by a hedge. I looked up at the window and saw nobody there, so I unzipped, took out my penis, and started to pee. When I had almost finished I glanced back up at the window, and to my horror my friend’s older sister Ann, on whom I had a schoolboy crush, was watching me with a smirk on her face. In utter shock and embarrassment, I hastily stuffed my penis back into my pants, without even shaking off the last drops. When I glanced back up, Ann was pretending to tend to some plants in the window, but I could see a big smile on her face. I made a beeline back to the game, my cheeks burning. I was afraid Ann would tell her brother what she had seen, but I don’t think she did. The next time I saw her was at church a couple of days later. When we briefly made eye contact on the way out , the corners of her mouth turned up in tight smile, as though she was suppressing a giggle. I quickly looked down, hoping that nobody would notice the blush burning my cheeks.
ReplyDeleteShould not have been peeing there, naughty boy, and you knew it!
DeleteTrue. I felt ashamed as well as embarrassed. I probably deserved to be spanked. By her. ;-)
DeleteIn fact, I was spanked by her a couple of years previously. She was athletic, and she used to play baseball with us boys sometimes. At that time, when I was about 12 and she about 14, she was bigger and stronger than us boys. She was also a morally strict, good girl. One day she got upset that we boys were swearing a lot during the game, and she threatened to spank the next guy who swore. Little perv that I was, my heart seemed to skip a couple of beats. That she appeared to be making a sincere threat of real punishment made me both nervous and aroused. I’m not sure how it affected the other guys, but they all stopped swearing. I didn’t swear for about 10 minutes, but finally the combination of curiosity and sexual tension was too much and I swore on purpose. Everyone went quiet for a moment, as Ann fixed me with an angry stare. When she took a step towards me, I took off running, and I could hear the other guys laughing and cheering as Ann pursued me. I simultaneously wanted to get away and to be caught, but in any case she was faster than me. I ran into a field of long grass, and hearing her gaining on me I fell down in the grass, winded. She came to a sliding stop next to me, and as I apologized and promised not to swear anymore, she hauled me across her lap. To be honest, I didn’t put up a fight. She landed about a dozen hard spanks on the seat of my jeans. She stopped abruptly and pushed me off her lap, looking surprised. “No swearing,” she repeated sternly. Then she got up and walked away. I think she stopped abruptly because she realized I had become sexually aroused while over her lap. That, of course, was a further source of embarrassment for me. I don’t know what she thought of it, but I didn’t imagine she approved. DJ
Awww. Cute! She was just young and inexperienced. To me the male erection at the start of a spanking represents the reason grown men submit to a woman for a spanking in the first place. Powerless as they are in front of the Universal Feminine. The limpening and softening during the spanking is a testament to the spanking's effectiveness!
DeleteYes, that’s exactly how I see it, Julie. The submission of adult males to the discipline of women is erotic. It is an erotic power that enables women to exercise authority over men, and even when that erection gets spanked away, the male continues to submit out of respect for the power of the Universal Feminine. Well, that’s how it feels to me, at least. DJ
DeleteOn the same page!
DeleteMy elder sister and her girlfriends were at our house drinking and getting ready for a party. Parents away. I was peeking through crack of her bedroom door at them in their underwear and rubbing my cock through my pants. One friend caught me and pushed me into room. "I caught your pervert brother. He was playing with himself." They held me down. Pants pulled down around knees. Got bare ass spanking from several of them with hairbrush till I cried. They all saw my cock but I lost erection with pain and shock. Was teased about "pathetic cock." Very embarrassing. Mean girls spanking.
ReplyDeleteMmmmmm. Mean girls spanking. I so empathize with the mean girls. Would have loved to have been one of them!
DeleteWhen young teenager I had first sleep over at Japanese friends house. Great family - I loved going there. Bath time before bed was norm so I got in their big bath with friend. Bit weird but okay. Then his little sister got in bath and I saw my first pussy. Then mother stripped off and I saw my second, this time hairy pussy. Got an erection. This was a big no no against their custom. I was 'dirty boy' so their mother hauled me out by ear and, still naked, she swatted my upper thighs a few times hard. The Mother, my friend and his little sister thought it was pretty funny. To this day I fantasise about being spanked by naked Japanese mother.
ReplyDeleteA lovely fantasy, and one you get to keep reliving over and over again based on what actually happened. The gift that keeps giving!
DeleteYes, great story and wonderful fantasy. I don’t suppose the kind of humiliation kink around nakedness some of us have would be possible in a culture that normalized nudity. Maybe that kink results from a mixed message some of pick up from our North American culture. We learn early that we have private parts that are supposed to remain hidden in public, especially if members of the opposite sex are around. So we learn a sense of shame. But when we got spanked, especially on the bare bottom, attention was drawn to parts of us it felt shameful to have exposed. Voila, a kink is born out a cultural mixed message to which some of us were over sensitive as kids.
DeleteIt is a nice fantasy. I extend it like this;
Delete"Okaasan, I'm sorry I was a 'dirty boy' in the bath. I don't understand why I'm getting these erections."
"Perhaps you're becoming a man. We will find out. Come to my room. Now look closely at my nipples. See how they're getting hard when I pinch them? Is your penis hard now?"
"A little okaasan."
"Show me. Hmm half mast only. Watch me play with my pussy. See how I make it wet? That's how a woman becomes aroused. Smell it and lick it. Good boy. Is your penis fully hard now?"
"Oh yes okaasan, but it feels very uncomfortable."
"Play with it to get a little relief. Stroke it like this. But no spurting until I say."
"I'm sorry okaasan. I played with it too much and it spurted."
"Yes, it spurted everywhere! Some got on okaasan! A man should control himself until his woman has her pleasure first. Clean this mess off me with your tongue."
"Good boy, but spurting without permission means a punishment. Get my brush and bend over my knee. I will spank you and then you will get your penis hard again and we will practice your control some more. Now count after each spank and say thank you."
"Owwww. One. Thank you okaasan."
Very practical sex ed!
DeleteAs a male growing up and reaching that age, a particular girl who was "gifted" enjoyed teasing us, really did not take much. I happened to hear her tell her friends that her mother knew what she was doing, did it herself, and best be able to take it also. We started dating and she would still enjoy her game, I ask if she would stop, and she would say and what are you going to do about it. I had enough when we were talking in her backyard, I said I wanted to kiss her but not here, over there behind the bushes. Once behind the bushes I bend her over at the waist and spanked her across her shorts, she protested, but I wanted to insure she understood. She was loud and when we walked back to the house her mother was standing there, smiling. Did I not tell you dear, yes mother she said rubbing her bottom. Young man she said, next time, save your hand, hairbrush, paddle, and don't be proper, bare her bottom. Mother my gf said, in the house young lady the mother said, looking at me, see you tomorrow. I found out from my gf, her mother did apply the hairbrush, and ask if she learned her lesson.
ReplyDeleteI take it YOU took every future opportunity to "bare her bottom" for your hairbrush?
DeleteIt was sometime before I did, thought the hairbrush was hurt too much, I did not even spank her even when I felt she needed such. It was a weekend spent at her Mother's cabin that I had enough. She did as she liked to say her "Girly" thing at dinner, and I asked her to stop, she smiled. I waited until the next morning, she always got up late, she came to the kitchen, sorry about last night she said, I mentioned her Mother was coming today, good she said. I got up and she wanted a hug, but I had other plans, I took her arm and sat down and had her across my lap, bared her bottom which was hardly covered, and from the floor picked up the hairbrush. How dare you she said and soon had a squirming, pleading little girl begging me to stop the spanking. I did not listen and when I thought her bottom was warm, stinging and red enough I asked her are you going to improve, she was crying and saying yes, going to do as told, yes she said. I heard a car drive up and told her to take her nighty off, face the wall, and do not rub or talk. Her mother walked in, saw her daughter, and said told you the hairbrush does wonders. Mommy my gf said, what did I tell you young lady and applied a few more swats with the hairbrush. The mother and I had a good talk, I soon excused myself and said I needed to get dress. She said she would insure her daughter would not move.
DeleteBad girl got what she deserved!
DeleteOn cultural differences when I was 19 my girlfriend and I went to a mixed spa in holland and got naked in the sauna. Two thirty something naked Dutch women came in and started chatting to my girlfriend. All the naked tits and pussies were very arousing.
ReplyDeleteThen one woman said 'excuse me but your boyfriend has an erection. I don't mind personally, but here we don't equate nudity with sexuality and some people might object.' My gf gave me a dirty look and apologised and then the 3 of them started talking about how to control unwanted erections. Cold water, ice, ball squeezing, tucking it between the legs and a spanking were all suggested.
Taking the not so subtle hint I went to the bathroom and got rid of it. When I returned suitably shrunk they said that was 'much better' and 'don't embarrass my gf again.' I copped all the suggestions they made from my girlfriend that night.
I think the sauna women were having their fun with a naive 19-year-old foreigner!
DeleteI had an Alex moment. My wife's sister was staying with us. She's smart and good looking and dresses sexy. I saw sisters panties in wash and they were too tempting so I got into habit of using them to masturbate with. Sister came into laundry one time and busted me with cock in one hand and her panties in the other. She took panties said finish what you started and made me kneel and cum onto laundry floor or else she would tell my wife. When I came she said clean that filth up so I had to lick my cum off floor. Then she slapped my face and said you wont be doing that again will you. Ever since we've both known she's got one over me.
ReplyDeleteYummm! A natural Domme. Perhaps she works in the field!
DeleteI had an Alex when I went on vacation with a friends family to Hawaii. I had a crush on his mother. I already knew what her pussy smelt like from visiting their laundry. First day from the hall I saw her sunbathing in her new bikini on the patio so I went to her bedroom and rummaged in her suitcase and got the panties I figured she had already worn on the plane. I went back to watch her sunbathing from the hall, wrapped my cock in her panties and begun emptying inside them. While cumming I closed my eyes and when I opened them she was looking at me. I prayed she wouldn't tell my friend or his father but she just shook her head, smiled and pointing to the sticky mess in my hand said 'I can't wear those anymore. Put them in the trash and next time you jerk off do it in your own room.' That was it. What would you have done Ms Julie?
ReplyDeleteA VERY thorough spanking with you bare naked and those soiled panties stuffed in your mouth to keep the noise down.
DeleteActually, I once had an in-law of sorts peep on me while I was in the shower. I literally bent him over and gave him a bare bum spanking with his shorts pulled down. It was either this or me telling his partner (my husband's sister) and my husband of his peeping. He bent over like a little lamb to the slaughter! Memorable!
DeleteYes I remember the blog. It's when personal things like that happen quickly on the spur of the moment that you know you are a true dominant Ms Julie.
DeleteI definitely am that!
DeleteJulie needs a spanking from Sue.
ReplyDeleteI went to party once dressed as a woman while my partner dressed as a man. I had mini skirt, blouse, stockings, make up, women's underwear, wig. The lot. I'd had a few drinks so for a joke/dare I went into ladies toilets and did my business in the cubicle. Coming out of cubicle a group of women in the toilet got a bit dommy and bailed me up. They said "so inappropriate", "lack of respect" etc. Then one said "prove you're a woman." I showed my women's little panties under my skirt but they said that's not proof. So I thought 'fuck you' and pulled my erect cock out and thrust it at them. The group of women weren't happy about that and one quickly grabbed me by the balls while another spanked my arse hard. Mean bitches but it was hot.
ReplyDeleteHere are some cute sissy dresses that would go great with david's bra and pantie sets
ReplyDeletehttps://bonnechancecollections.com/collections/all
Emily
if only I had a kinky partner like you to whip me into losing weight
Emily
don't know If I put in the link
ReplyDeletehttps://bonnechancecollections.com/collections/all
Emily
Everything is very open with a very clearr description of the issues.
ReplyDeleteIt was really informative. Your website is extremely helpful.
Thank you for sharing!
Wooden scholl sandal is worst spanking ever
ReplyDeleteVouch.4 that..a female neighbour gave me 12 strokes.of.the wooden.scholl sandal when iwas 17....cant put into words.how much it stung and hurt..i deserved it but omg..for 2nwhole days i couldnt sit without pain..was worse thing ever felt..worse than any cane paddle or slipper.was like all 3 in.one..but worse..
ReplyDeleteI'll have to get one!
DeleteIf u do u will have the spankee quivering in dread just by tapping the wooden sole across ur palm..its the most painful thing u could ever feel across the bare bottom!!!
DeleteGood to know!
DeleteUsed the wooden scholl yet julie??
ReplyDeleteNo! Need to get one!
DeleteFor loud and embarrassing a slipper or hand is the loudest imo.
ReplyDeletein our family only our boys are spanked. both are spanked fully nude and w all our girls watching every time. no covering is allowed. there are no erections since both our boys take medication to maintain a small and always not erect penis.
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