It was earlier today, Friday early afternoon. I took the half-day off and went to help Mom with the grocery shopping. She really wanted to go. I drove her around, we had to wait in a stupid line (not very long) in our masks, and we stocked her up mightily. When we got back to their place, Dad and I shifted all the groceries inside while Mom started in on storing them all. After that, Mom was a bit tired (she has a chronic heart condition that's being treated with drugs) and went upstairs to have a lie down. Daddy and me wound up alone in the living room. This was rare for me to find myself alone with him. Already I had some evil thoughts... 😈
He sat towards the edge of the couch. I asked him if it was ok for me to sneak him a hug. He laughed and said of course it was and reached his arms out to me. I sat next to him and gave him a big hug and then sat back, like this.
He thanked me for helping him and Mom get the groceries done. He asked me how I was getting on at work. I told him. He asked me if everything was good at home with David. I said it was grand. Then he asked me if I'd been a good girl this week...
My heart beat a bit faster at that question. He was of course asking after my spankings. Had he not raised it, I would of. I guess it was on both our minds.
"Too good!" I pouted. "I didn't get any spankings at all..."
"Well, you'll have to try harder," he said with a chuckle and a grin.
I looked around furtively. I was going to go for it!
I put my hands under my sweater and I quickly unfastened and unzipped my jeans a bit. I then knelt on the couch beside him.
"What are you thinking?" he asked me, looking dubious but still grinning.
I draped myself across Daddy's lap with my chest and head hanging off the side of the couch. At the same time I pushed my jeans and panties together down to as far as I could reach them to about mid-thigh and then put my hands in front of me.
I was bare bum across my Daddy's lap!!!!!!!!! My heart was racing. I arched my bum up a bit higher and wiggled it. "Maybe you can spank me a little?" I asked. Wow. What was I doing?!?
"Well, ha ha ha, have you been naughty then?" he asked.
"I think I'm being naughty now!" I told him.
"Yes you are," he said.
But then he hauled back and SLAP, right on my right cheek. There was a couple of second pause and then SLAP, on the left cheek. Then right, SLAP; left, SLAP; right, SLAP; left SLAP.
I was draped over his knee, with my hands down on the floor on the far side of the couch arm, and my head down towards the carpet as well. My bum was actually bare. Over Daddy's knee. The feeling was incredible. Incredible, as in, unbelievable! I could not believe I was getting spanked by my Daddy! And that my bum was completely bare!
left, SLAP; right, SLAP; left, SLAP; right, SLAP
It took my breath away. Daddy was spanking me! Daddy was actually spanking me! Daddy was actually spanking my bare bum!!!! I alternated being excited with what was I doing? What stupid, stupid, fucking, slutty, stupid. Oh shit!
left, SLAP; right, SLAP; left, SLAP; right, SLAP
"There you go," he said with a big laugh.
I got back up onto my knees. My pussy was bare but I didn't even care! I nonchalantly pulled up my panties and my jeans, refastened them, and then plunked back down on the couch next to him. My cheeks were burning. He probably saw me blushing deeply!
"Thank you Daddy!" I said enthusiastically and leaned over to give him a big hug and kiss on his cheek. "That feels much better!" I tried to say it as if it this was just the most normal thing in the world.
"Well you're a handful, and no doubt about that, but you always have been. When you get home you tell David what you got up to!"
"Yes, Sir," I said, eyes downcast looking mock-guilty.
He reached over and ruffled my hair.
"Dad!" I said, pulling away, trying to put my hair back into order.
"ha ha ha!" he laughed.
I stood up and gave him another hug and told him I'd see him on the weekend.
"Remember, you tell your husband about what you got up to!"
"Yes, Daddy," I said.
OMG. I think my Dad wants to get me spanked by David!
Phew!
I just got home from that and ran up here to type it up. David is working in his office. I'll tell him everything later tonight. I'm expecting a real spanking for that shenanigan, and for my Dad to be told about it...
Ok, obviously I was completely out of line, but what should my Dad have done???? Surely he should have immediately told me to get off his lap and pull my damned pants up, and what the hell was I thinking????!!!!? Or he could have done what he did do...
What would you have done in the same situation?
What's a man to do when presented with a cute little bare tush like yours Julie?
ReplyDeleteI'm sure he gave it to you for being such a tease.
You are really ticking off that spanking bucket list real fast lately...what's next?
Nope. That's it. Achievement attained. I'm retiring!
DeleteGood thing perhaps....I'd say David will be keeping you on a very short leash after this escapade. If there is a female equivalent of the 'doghouse' I'd say you're in it !
Deleteyup...
DeleteSo where does getting spanked by someone other than David appear in your Contract, young lady? Who has to give permission for such a thing to occur? And, what are the consequences for breaking the terms of said contract? I believe one little girl is in deep trouble! We expect a full accounting of David’s reaction and actions upon finding out about this. TL
ReplyDeleteYeah, not really covered... am expecting the worst.
DeleteWow - this is the post I've been waiting for ever since your staged spanking in front of the family. The only thing that would have made it hotter (for me anyway - I understand that you're living out your own fantasies, not mine) is if it were more for a real reason and if it were instigated by him - like, a real father-daughter spanking.
ReplyDeleteThe way that conversation was going, I'm positive that all you needed to do was confess to some transgression from long ago (or recently for that matter) that went unpunished and he would have taken matters into his own hands, as it were.
Anyway, that's awesome - way to go!
I doubt that! The only way he would spank me was if I literally pulled my own pants down and through myself across his lap. But yeah, that would have been cool..,
DeleteHey, like you have been a blast to follow as of late. I can see that you want the excitement of the unexpected, although to what extent? I loved your last interaction with Sue, but with your father it seems you are losing it. Believe me, I think highly of your exploits and your mind... missing Violet and your presents to David, I suppose the presents don’t fit your current situation, but violet would work with David. Missing you in the Great Lake State
ReplyDeleteI agree. TOTALLY losing it!
DeleteThat must have been a dream cum true for you! Definitely worth the inevitable severe spanking you're going to get from your husband :D
ReplyDeleteyes...
DeleteIn the aftermath of the event, do you have fantasies of more interactions in the future going further? Or did it satisfy your curiosity and you can cross that one off of the list, or is it still a fantasy but now it's strictly a fantasy?
DeleteAre you going to face severe consequences for breech of contract?
my fantasies persist, but I will not pursue them.
DeleteYup.
Julie, I doubt your Mom, David, or Sue will approve of your little stunt. Heaven help you when Sue and her heavy wooden spoon get you alone.
ReplyDeleteDavid will be told, but I don't know if Mom or Sue will be. I hope not!
DeleteWhy do I think this is eventually going wind up with your Daddy giving you a real punishment spanking in front of your Mom, David, and Sue because of your behavior?
DeleteNah... they think it's a game for me (and they're right).
DeleteRobert is correct. None of them will like this. But David needs to correct you without involving the rest of your family. When he spanked you in front of your parents, he was rewarding you. He gave you what you wanted. If he wants you to stop this, he'll need to punish you without them watching.
DeleteDavid was legit angry with me. He didn't even want to spank me :-(
DeleteWell, after I was done being completely surprised, this got me thinking. I don’t have a daughter, but there is a certain someone visiting this weekend and I do think she needs a spanking! If she were ever to offer her bare bottom to me, she certainly would get what she deserves! - david
ReplyDeleteWell, maybe she's a secret spanko like me?
DeleteI can dream that is the case! If she ever asked me for what you asked for, I would first demand that it MUST be a secret forever between us. That’s the ONLY way it could work because it is going WAY TOO FAR! Then I would seal the agreement by giving her a for real spanking and ask for the same from her. I know I would become erect with her exposed over my lap and I over hers. If she mentioned it, I would ask her to help me with my “little problem”. If not, I would masturbate frantically to that memory until she asked for it again. Our dirty little secret! - david
DeleteThan you can be secret "spank buddies"!
Delete....why is it after 8 years of reading and enjoying your blog, it's the first time I don't believe you....or maybe you went a bit too far?
ReplyDeleteI definitely went too far! But appear to have gotten away with it. But THIS is the thing you choose to not believe? Ha ha!
DeleteNot having had the relationship, I wonder what I would feel in that situation. Imagining it, if I knew my adult daughter had a thing about me spanking her, then I can’t really think of a good reason not to spank her. She’s fully capable of deciding what she wants, and I don’t believe she’s going to be harmed by the experience. Yours was just a playful situation instigated by you, but I think if my adult daughter wanted real discipline from her Daddy, I would see that she got it. For me it’s not a matter of propriety or morality. How would I feel about that kind of intimacy with my daughter? I don’t know.
ReplyDeleteYou know how you feel about it. I think of it as you being a bad girl to get what you wanted. I don’t know your Dad well enough to judge his potential reaction, but it seems that not knowing, you put him in a possibly very awkward position, maybe even bad for your real father-daughter relationship. Maybe you knew it was safe. Turned out, he was fine with it, so all is well. You got spanked by your Daddy!!! On your bare bottom!!! That’s worthy of the exclamation points.
There was risk, but I know my Dad. He's playful and deals with things as they come, which I knew. He also seemed interested and amused in my spanking situation. My husband is way more upset with me for risking it.
DeletePeople are going to see it differently. My wife and her father don’t have a close relationship, and she’s not a spanko, but if she was, I wouldn’t butt in with what they decide they want to do. They’re father and daughter, which is a relationship that, as a husband, is not mine to control or interfere with. As long as they’re okay with the spanking, that’s really their business. If I knew she was going about it in what I felt was somehow a wrong way, and we had a DD kind of marriage, then I could address the issue with her, possibly even punish her if I felt it was warranted. But that would be part of DD, which only exists to bring us closer together. If it’s an issue driving us apart then, to me, DD is irrelevant.
DeleteI know. I feel like it's between my Dad and me, and what do others have to say about it?
DeleteI think there are some commenters here who are taking it too personal and too far. It’s one thing to have a different opinion, another to be verbally abusive. They should be ashamed of themselves.
DeleteIf my wife did what you did, and we had a DD relationship, my criticism of her actions would be that she should have talked about spanking with her father first, and then let him decide how he wants to handle it. I realize it was a spur of the moment thing, and she acted impulsively to fulfill a long held desire. She was a bad girl, but nothing we can’t get past. In accordance with my role in the household, she would get a sound spanking from me, not out of anger, but to show I love her and to resolve the issue. I’m looking for a happy ending, which is what spankings are for.
This. Yes!
DeleteI can’t wait to see what that cute ass of yours looks like after David gets through with you!!
ReplyDeleteHe thinks I went too far. He does not even want to.
DeleteThen he’s not really giving you a punishment spanking. A real punishment spanking has no safe word and your ass will be so sore you WONT do it again. Otherwise, it’s all fun and games.
DeleteHey, I'm game. He thinks it just "encourages me".
DeleteI read this with horror and disgust. You really are a filthy minded little tramp. Your father is actually as bad.
ReplyDeleteI agree about myself. I thought my Dad was as gentlemanly as could be when put in a very tough situation. He gave me a few whacks and then ended it quickly on a light note so as not to damage our relationship and keep it fun. I'm worried I'm going to get a talking to from Mom...
DeleteIf i was David you would be getting the switch without question
ReplyDeleteHe's so angry with me he doesn't even want to spank me :-(
DeleteI can’t blame him to be honest. You have to be very careful and maybe reevaluate some things. You discovered a true need for this contract and were excited to have it in place to keep you in line and needed but now you are pushing the boundaries in a dangerous way. Have to learn to separate kink and discipline if that makes sense
DeleteInseparable in my brain - the only kind discipline I want, and will put up with, is the kinky kind. This is the basic conundrum!
DeleteI mean you are definitely a very naughty girl
Deleteyup
DeleteHi,
ReplyDeleteI love adult spanking and have loved reading your journey, but I must confess this latest episode has me a little uncomfortable. I am a Father of 2 girls and never used spanking as a discipline tool. Whilst nothing really happened with you and Dad, for me it was pushing the incest boundary a little too closely.
This is only my opinion and I am not criticising or condemning you, but for me a little too edgy.
That said I will continue to follow you as I love your writings.
Please - more than ever now - stay safe.
Hugs
FM
x
Less edgy when you consider the fullness of me and my Dad's attitudes and relationship. But it was all on me. I didn't give my Dad much of a choice. My husband agrees with you and is legit angry with me, which was a bit unexpected.
DeleteLet’s not forget tomorrow is Sunday. I wonder what your 3 Spankers will have planned.....
DeleteYa, I don't think it's about that...
DeleteTo answer your question:
ReplyDeleteI can't speak to you father's thoughts or feelings but,for myself, as your father in that situation, with your bare backside so eagerly presented to me, I would most likely proceed as he had. Even though feeling some inappropriateness about it. To lessen that feeling somewhat, I, like your father, would insist you inform David. And for the same reason, I would likely tell your mom about it.
Please understand I'm not being judgemental. Actually I always admire your passion and bravery. Just telling you what I would do.
vic
Putting myself in his shoes, I would have done the same, and felt uncomfortable also! I'm imagining a grown niece or nephew of mine throwing their bare butt across my knee for a spank spank. Hells yes they get that butt slapped! But that's it. I would not tell anyone else, but nor would I be ashamed of my actions. It would be for them to share if they wished.
DeleteBesides, I think if the fam had to vote on "most likely to pull their pants down and throw themselves over Daddy's knee for a spanking", I would have won unanimously, no thought required!
Jules...what’s your honest to goodness take on: “if Sue finds out” ?
ReplyDelete...and everyone else, and David...leave her alone! She’s fine. She’s a spanko. Would you tell a gay person “hey...have you ever tried not being gay?”
She might be a little pissed of with me as well, for Dad's sake.
DeleteAnd as for the gay thing... MIND BLOWN!
Well, guess I have to admit another reason for telling your mom would be to cover my ass in case the story leaked out.��
ReplyDeletevic
Yeah, I can see that.
DeleteOh boy you have some serious thinking to do, you fucked up pretty badly right there.
ReplyDeleteDavid is legit pissed about it.
I do hope you can work it out, but my guess would be that you can say goodbye to your contract for quite a while, at leats that's how i would react to really show you that you fucked up reeeeaaallly bad.
yes, that seems to be the direction it's headin in...
DeleteAnd you deserve it. What were you thinking?
DeleteThat is wrong on so many levels.
For one thing you kind of showed David that he is not enough to provide you with "fatherly" spanking. You hurt him big time here, because you only thought with your cunt...
All the things he did so far were for you and your pleasure, like "outing" you in front of your parents because it was a fantasy come true.
Then you go on and ignore all of that and show him, he's not manly enough to provide you with your needs.
No husband can ever replace Daddy, you know that! I think David is quite confident in his manliness.
Delete
ReplyDeleteWhen your father tells you to tell david what you got up to, perhaps putting a finger on your lips, then the tip in your mouth would have added some spice to your mock-guilty gaze ? Or your father's finger on your lips ? No, too much sexual. A big hug and « le souvenir », it was perfect. Do you still remember the scene in all its details, in secret, under the angry gaze of your jealous husband?
Yes. I guess that's why I did it. Needed to. But now there are, sigh, consequences, and not fun ones. Yell at Julie ones. Cold shoulder ones... blech
DeleteThe devil is in the details, for example, the list of the supplies you bought with your mother and the different places where she stored them.
ReplyDeleteIf I had been in his shoes (evil father ?), I would have tried more, in your best interest, to make the connection between the "real" spanking that I gave you when you were 8 years old and that "for fun" that you asked me now. Some more stinging slaps.
I think I stunned him!
DeleteI’m not sure what I would do in your father’s place. It’s difficult for me to imagine. The way you tell it, it sounds like he was nervous about it, thinking it was wrong but unable to resist, and probably telling himself, “It’s just a spanking.”
ReplyDeleteI do know what I would do if I was David. As an occasional follower of your blog, I have had mixed feelings about your movement from a dominant wife to more of a switch and now to an outright submissive state. Part of me is disappointed because I found the one-sidedness of your F/M power exchange with David sexy. Imagining myself as David, I think I would miss having you in the dominant role full time. Switching could be fun, but I think it would dilute the feeling of submissiveness to me to do it frequently.
But now that you have so strongly transitioned towards the submissive side, I think I would probably embrace the dominant role and treat you like the naughty girl you are full time. Maybe you should change the name of your blog to Naughty Julie Gets Spanked.
Yeah... I deserve that.
DeleteI probably would have administered those few slaps as he did. Stand his daughter up and send her to the corner in the living room, bottom bare.
DeleteThen make sure she can hear me call David and ask him to come over to discuss something, and btw...bring a strap and hairbrush.
Then I would sit back and watch julie get a full and bawling, snot-nosed and apologetic punishment over David’s knee.
Oh, now you're just trying to turn me on, and succeeding!
DeleteWhen you discover that sue has been regularly whipped by your father in the cellar for a long time, you will die of jealousy...
ReplyDelete(o) ;-)
Ha ha! That put a smile on my face!
DeleteI think the best part - one of the parts that you should really focus on -and I;m being serious , is when he ruffled your hair, I think that motion put it in perspective that you were the child he was the adult and it was an ok thing and not creepy. And you were very brave to face it head on like that, well ok it was tails on and you slid into it but still well done!
ReplyDeleteI know, right! It's just a butt! You smack butts!
DeleteWell the point is ( same anonymous as above by the way) that, despite you having had a fantasy at some points to help navigate the stress of your trauma, that HE Does not have those fantasies about you, and he showed that by normalizing as could be and ruffling your hair like a little kid reinforced that in his mind at that point you were a child not a sexual creature and he said to tell David, normalizing further. It crosses peoples line because of the familial ties and the generational ties, I think he stayed well away from taboo territory , it;s just that the rest of us have known about the other aspects and the Key moments of childhood and the fantasies and all of that. This probably did more to dispel all of that than anything else, and he really was the perfect gentleman about all of it. Everyone else is getting taboo signals, and it's territory that mother nature makes us averse to, but really it probably did more to shed light on the reality that Your husband is your protector now and that the regression s a safe space in fantasy. We all got a glimpse of the shameful spaces and for most people it's a very clear line, but for you it wasn't a sexual event,in fact the farthest thing from it.
DeleteWhile across his knee, bare bottomed, I felt the most like a little girl than I have ever felt since I was a little girl.
DeleteI agree that after what I started, Dad took the least awkward way out by giving me a few smacks and making light of it.
Thinking about it before and after, it does become sexual for me. I fantasize about more happening.
That should be a red flag for you. I think some questions might be: Where is the line for you? have you drawn it and can you stick to it?
DeleteYou may have a little more baggage to carry around from your past trauma than you previously had imagined. the question is are you in control of it, or is it in control of you?
I wonder what the professional opinion would be to the big picture, of kinky person, scene 2x per week, switch, visits professionals, runs a blog , has an alt lifestyle with a contract and pushes the boundaries, and in the light of past trauma phrases like Nah, a mans gotts do..
I wonder if there was an avenue whereby an integral path was arrived at that was positive , forward moving and respectful off all parties?
This has nothing to do with that. Me willing to be spanked by a guy, any guy, is a big step in itself. I am a kind of nympho, though.
Delete"I fantasize about more happening". Oh, do tell. Where exactly do your fantasies take you?- Alan
DeleteSomething along these lines:
DeleteEmotions After a Real Punishment Spanking
I look forward to David’s punishment of you for this unwarranted action. I imagine you will be weeping by the end.
ReplyDeleteIf only...
DeleteWell, we all knew you were determined to make this happen. I’m sure the fact that there was so little negative reaction to the family witnessed spanking that you were emboldened. You know if your Father made a point of you telling David that he wanted it aboveboard. He will definitely tell your Mom. Curious if it turned you on sexually after the fact. I know the next time I am allowed to cum I will be thinking of your story when I go over the edge. I have been locked for the duration of this series and it’s really been frustrating. - Alan
ReplyDeleteI hope he does not tell Mom. Based on David's reaction, it would just be more grief. Dad can always shrug it off as no big deal.
DeleteAs a father of daughters I expect I would have said timeout and talk to David before there’s any spanking. I would’ve kept it playful and light but no spankings until I was sure he was fine with it. Of course if he was fine I would’ve blistered your ass. Mr D
ReplyDeleteNah. A man's gotta do what a man's gotta do. He had "rights" over me long before David.
DeleteThis was bound to happen so what’s David’s problem? He’s been encouraging it so he can’t sulk now. When you were across daddy’s lap did he have an erection? Did you wriggle a little to get him hard? I bet you would’ve been a total slut for daddy’s cock if he’d taken it out.
ReplyDeleteAre you serious? This was bound to happen?
DeleteOf course it was not bound to happen!
Julie should NOT have done that, her father should NOT have picked up on that.
David has all rights to be pissed here.
Yes he played along with her desires, but still, that was a step to much.
Definitely a far step. "Too" far? Well have to see.
DeleteAnd I agree that to me it seems a natural progression.
I did not detect an erection. Yes I did wriggle, though not with the specific intent of making him hard. And I am "Daddy's Girl", so what do you think?
This is so much Julie, you crossed all the red lines. David is right to stop playing along.
ReplyDeleteExactly. I don't know if in this situation i would even move out for a while.
DeletePart to blame here are the commenters too, since all the positive comments about the incestuous episodes here have encouraged her further and further.
Everyone that was positive about Julie getting fucked by Sue should have raised red flags there!
Don't tell me you never offered mom's cunt a good fuck when daddy is not at home !
DeleteNobody is moving out. Nobody's relationship is at risk. We are talking about nixing the contract, though.
DeleteAnd how is fucking moms cunt got anything to do with a fatherly slap to my ass?
Don’t nix your contract julie. Keep it exactly how it is. It’s perfect. If Mr. “scene me” gets his scenes...you get your contract.
DeleteIt's half coming from me. I'm too disciplined in my everyday life for it to give me what I need!
DeleteThen keep it for lovely, scheduled maintenance. Let your reset button be pressed every now and then. It’s a wonderful and caring escape for you.
DeleteYes - I still need my spankings.
DeleteDavid is rightfully pissed! I hope that when he has time to settle his emotions he sees the advantage that your contract gives him in just this type of situation. This is what the contract should truly be meant to address, at least from his standpoint. You stated that he has argued that you just decide on your own then just do. That is within his power to address now in a very effective way because of the contract. I’m not sure that either of you considered the aversive side of his responsibility in the agreement. He should not nix the contract because you went rouge on him. He needs to make you understand that sticking to your agreement and it’s consequences will help change the things that really need to change.
DeleteOh, trust me, he feels within his rights to spank me with or without a contract!
DeleteWith all respect Julie, what the bloody fuck were you thinking!!! Or probably more likely, you weren't. Or rather you were letting your cunt think for you. Had I been David, I'd have reacted like you've described too.
ReplyDeleteFantasies are fine, but there is a significant difference between fantazising about someone, and actually forcing your sexual fantasies on them, without their consent. You put your dad in one hell of an awkward position, and risked getting him in trouble with your mom too. You might well know your dad well enough to know that he would take it in stride, but that still didn't give you the right to do what you did. You had about as much right to do that, as a random person would have to bare your ass and spank you in the middle of a mall, because they fantazised about doing that to a stranger.
Being kinky is fine, and being a "spanked wife" is fine too, but get your head out of your ass woman, and get a grip on your libido, before you risk damaging any of your relationships.
I disagree with your analogy of the mall. That would be pretty rapey. Dad was clearly interested in my spankings, and he clearly had fun spanking me. Yeesh!
DeleteNo the analogy is a fine one.
DeleteYou are not thinking with your head, you are thinking with your cunt, as Kyrel mentioned you took a serious blow to your relationship with this. Let's hope it doesn't sink.
Anyhow as mentioned before: I guess there will come a long no-spank-time for you.
It's not a "serious blow". Hubby is angry with me is all. Our relationship transcends things like that. It is covenential, not transactional.
DeleteJulie. For the record I agree with you that your relationship with David isn't likely to be in any danger on this account, but you sound like you are missing my point.
DeleteThe fact is that getting a spanking from your dad has a sexual element for you. Per definition that means that you effectively pushed a sexual act on your dad. Now, mayby he just took it as a wacky stunt by his adult wacky daughter, but your dad's a man, and however you put it, you just had your dad put his eyes and hand(s) on your bare ass, while laying over his lap. That action in itself is liable to spark a reaction in the instinctual part of his brain, regardless of what his conscious brain thinks of it, and he could be forced to deal with having been erotically turned on by his daughter. Ponder that for a moment, and considder if you thing that is fair.
Now, as for my analogy, let's change it into something more innocent then. A guy walks up to a girl he thinks look good, and without permission or indication of sexual interest on her part, place a serious kiss on her lips. Just the single kiss, and then he moves on, leaving her to react however she feels like. Would that be ok? Or how about a flasher that jumps out from behind cover, exposing himself with a raging erection to someone who didn't ask to be exposed to that. On the surface it's harmless. But in both situations someone got dragged into a sexual situation without say, simply because someone else decided that they wanted them involved, due to their own desires.
This is why I believe what you did was wrong on the fundamental level. It's the same reason it's wrong for a teenage guy to grab a girl's ass at a party, if there's been no indication of interest in such on the girl's part. Various arguments in defence of the guys action can be made, depending on the specific situation, but at the end of the day, the guy put his hands on a girls ass, without having made sure she desired it. same thing with your dad here.
You can argue that it was harmless, and maby it was, but that doesn't make it "right".
Pls. do understand that I don't wish to "attack" you or "judge" you, but I do hope that you will considder what I'm writing here, because a stunt like this could have some serious negative consequences for you, if it doesn't pan out like you believe it will.
If David is flagging a perceived negative pattern he believes he sees in your actions, take a mental step back, and give it some serious thought. Maybe he's wrong, maybe he's not, but regardless, he's got your best interest at heart, and that alone should make it worthy of serious considderation on your part.
Regardless of whatever anyone here on your blog writes, take your husbond's concerns seriously.
All your analogies are guys pushing themselves on girls. Newsflash, girls decide.
DeleteAnd I don't see what my state of mind has to do with my actions. I've been throwing myself sexually at my Dad, by your definition, since I was a teen!
You can reverse the genders on the analogies if you will. It does not change my point.
DeleteYes and no. Yes, you have been jumping onto your dad during your teen years, while wearing very much clothing. No, because there's a difference in both your age, your sexual maturity, and your conscious and recognized coupling of the sexual aspect in it, along with your fantasy about it. And then there is of course also the fact that there is a bit of a difference between jumping onto your dad's lap in your underware as a teenager, whilst living at home, and baring your ass before laying over his lap and asking him to spank your ass, not too long after you had your private parts exposed to him, whilst being spanked by your husbond.
Besides, as I recall what you wrote on the matter, you eventually stopped jumping at your dad whilst in your underware when you started to become more aware of the sexual aspect of the act (granted, I can be misremembering or -interpreting what you wrote on the issue, it's been a while since I read that part of your blog).
I'm sure you can find a way to tell me that I'm wrong, but I'm fairly certain that you are smart enough to see my point.
No, you're not mis-remembering, though it was more the disapprobation of my Mom and sister that made me stop. It was more the sexual feelings in me that made me self-conscious. In my mind it's kind of innocent and childish, so it's ok.
DeleteHe should really give you a punishment you are averse to. Not a spanking of course.
ReplyDeleteMay be bastinado because back whipping is not a option as it can give scars which of course no one accepts.
Or may be electric play.
Do not know, you guys have to figure it out yourselves.
Or may be no corporal punishment at all.
Or not!
DeleteAs I mentioned in the past my Mother-in-Law has spanked me. It was her who advised her daughter that husbands need to be spanked. My wife told me on more than one occasion that when visiting her mother, it was her house, her rules. I wanted to be spanked by her. I messed up, not thinking my wife was telling me the truth. My mother-in-law had my bottom bared in no time and the spanking I got was worse than my wife spanking. When I stood up rubbing, all on display, my mother-in-law said her daughter told her of me wanting a spanking from her, well what do you think young man. It hurts worse than your daughter spankings, she smiled and said good, the next will be even worse. Jack
ReplyDeleteAnd I'm sure nobody on my blog would have any issue with that at all. Compare and contrast to the grief I am getting over MY little spanking.
DeleteThe Main Difference here is, that everyone who was involved knew about it!
DeleteYou just went on with it without telling David what you are up to and never asked for his consent as you did previously with your sister !
Oh come on! He spanked my bare ass in front of Dad! Getting a bit precious now.
DeleteYes he did, but he did not give your Dad permission to do so.
DeleteHe did give Sue permission to do so and so on. Every case this happened he was involved. This case not... can't you see what happened here?
Yes, yes, I did not ask his "permission". Big woop. I'm my own person.
DeleteSo your "contract" in the end meant nothing to you:
DeleteJulie fully acknowledges and accepts that as a grown woman, her Discipline must be both painful and embarrassing to be effective, and that both aspects play an important role in the Discipline, including the disclosure of such Discipline, or the possibility of such Discipline, to others, at David's sole discretion.
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Oh - I did not intend that meaning - I meant that he could disclose and I had nothing to say about it. But you're right that "sole" can certainly mean excluding me. But really what i did wrong here is nowhere covered in the contract.
DeleteHello Julie
ReplyDeleteI feel bad you're getting all this hate in comments about what you did , yes maybe it was wrong but I don't blame you ,I don't think you did something wrong
Just talk to David about it and convince him to punish you , your punishment should include a spanking , implements included, it should be severe and it should make you cry and regret your decisions,this spanking will be purely disciplinary and you will promise him that you will always check with him before doing anything of this sort .
Don't nix your punishment contract
You should not be allowed any sexual pleasure for a set amount of time that should be up to David
Yes, ok, but... but... no sexual pleasure? please...
DeleteYes Julie,no sexual pleasure,you deserve it and you know that ,
DeleteHow's the situation with David ? Did you talk to him or is he still pissed?
Yes Julie you deserve that
DeleteWe talked. It's all good.
DeleteOi. I'm coming to this several days late; after the logical outcome and the fallout from that.
ReplyDeleteSo what is David *actually* angry about? As in, what is the underlying hurt / fear that the anger emotion is rescuing him from? He might say he's angry with you for doing x, but underneath that x is something that affects him.
He feels like I'm cutting him out of decision making. That I do things that might have negative consequences without any chance for rational discussion. He says I do it deliberately to avoid those discussions. He says it's become a pattern for me. He thinks my spankings are just making it worse.
DeleteI don’t think in the history of spankings, a spanking has ever made anything worse. Even the context the word is often used in. “You need a good sound spanking”. It’s always referred to a “good”.
DeleteGenerally, I agree.
DeleteHmm, maybe a good apology to David is in order. He does have a point, getting in too deep could have very negative consequences for both you and him, not just you. Your diving in with your dad without his input and consent betrayed his trust, at least that's how I see it. Nothing that can't be repaired, but some mea culpas and full explanations may be called for.
ReplyDeleteYup. Done and done.
DeleteGlad to hear! You keep doing your thing, don't let the scolds get you down. Hindsight's 20-20 and all that.
DeleteWill keep my chin up!
DeleteHow's the situation with you and David right now ? Did you talk it out or is he still pissed
ReplyDeleteNah, we're good. He and my Dad discussed it also.
DeleteI think the appropriate reaction to this incident - as you mentioned, cutting David out of decision-making - is your loss of decision-making privileges. You clearly are acting like a brat, not a responsible adult - and so should be treated like one. Your 'inner child' has taken over, and so you should be treated by all involved - David, your parents, Sue - like a spoiled child.
ReplyDeleteWhat does that mean? Tonight when you go over to dinner, David should send you to your (childhood) room, where you will stand with your nose in the corner, possibly with your bottom bared, while David discusses your childish behavior over dinner with your parents. You shouldn't be part of that conversation or get to contribute or even listen to it because your actions don't indicate sufficient maturity to participate in an adult conversation.
After they're done with dinner, they'll come tell you what they've decided is the best way to deal with you. This isn't a 'contract' between consenting adults - this is a spoiled brat being told what the new rules are. To me, it only makes sense that any of the responsible adults (David/Dad/Mom/Sue) in your life will spank you - on the spot - whenever you misbehave. You clearly aren't responding to adult rules of behavior, so you need this constant and physical keeping in line, via hard spankings.
David should present your parents with a wooden paddle to be hung on a hook in the kitchen, and tell them that he needs them to spank you on the spot. And if you get spanked when you're out, you should expect another spanking from David at home, because your misbehavior reflects poorly on him.
You've reverted to acting like a spoiled brat - you should be treated like one.
But... but... this ALL my fantasies coming true! So hot...
Delete(Same person as above) So what happened tonight? Did your husband and father discuss how to handle you over the dinner table, as if you weren’t even there? Did Mom
Deleteand Dad agree that their daughter is acting like a spoiled little girl and so should be treated - and disciplined - like one?
I agree with that ,that's exactly how Julie deserves to be punished
DeleteNot over dinner. Me, David, and I my Dad had a little "talk".
DeleteIn the lights of this event:
ReplyDeleteIf David made you choose, him or the spankings. What would you do...
Always David. Easy.
DeleteThat makes sense to me that David feels he was cut out on this occassion. I'd say being spanked by Daddy is absolutely something you've thought about plenty but I can't see that you intentionally plotted this: "Oh yeah, I'll help mom with getting groceries and then dad will be there when she goes to lay down, and then I'll make my move!" It was more an in-the-moment thing and who among us has never done something impsulsively?
ReplyDeletevic
Yes, it was opportunistic. I'm NEVER alone with Dad!
DeleteHectic Julie! I stopped visiting the site as often because it seemed to me that the 'kinky' ceiling had been reached. This scene was out of this world fantastic, well done. On the moral side i dont think there is anything wrong with any mature and consenting folk flirting with a fantasy. So hot. Take care, Ted
ReplyDeleteThere seems to be no ceiling... :-)
DeleteAnd than you for the support. I agree, despite the grief.
Hey Miss Julie, thought I'd give you a lil encouragement. I can completely & totally understand why certain readers are upset or angry at you! However, I do believe this is Your Blog & things that you want, have fantasies about & needs in your life! along with how you brought others into it.
ReplyDeleteI don't really get it. I think EVERYBODY should think EXACTLY like me. ;-)
DeleteSorry got interrupted, in any case I'm proud of you for finally getting that Spanking from your Daddy even if it's only a playful.
ReplyDeleteNow doesn't your family & hubby know about your Daddy desire or fantasy? I do believe you should've told hubby about wanting him to Spank you before you went over to help but maybe it wasn't planned!
It was not planned and it was a rare opportunity. Was I going to phone him for permission?
DeleteHonestly it's easier in your case to ask for forgiveness then beg for permission!
DeleteExactly. Time honoured wife move (while realizing that spankings are time-honoured husband moves!). Don't do the crime if you can't do the time.
DeleteJulie,
ReplyDeleteThere are some very thoughtful comments here and a lot of criticism, all mixed together. I hope it doesn’t get you too down. Whether being spanked by your father was a fun thing, the right thing, a little mistake or a big mistake will be largely determined by the interactions and the quality of communications between you, David and your father that have already happened and that will come in the next few days and weeks. I, and I suspect many others here, derive vicarious pleasure from the world you live in, or at least the world you write about. I continue to admire the energy you put into knowing, expressing and acting on your desires in your relationships with your husband, your sister and others. And then there is the energy you put into writing about it. Thank you Julie. Every deed and scene need not meet with my approval or get me hot and bothered but in the aggregate I find your blog kind of liberating. I suspect that the transgressions you may have enacted with your father in the scene you describe are no worse than those that I have silently kept to myself (I am the last to comment on the marriage counselor story). I realize that there is likely a vibrant BDSM or kink culture out there and that those participating may be a code of conduct that makes some things ok and other activities deserving of reproach. I can’t speak to those subtleties from my straight as an arrow, kinkless world. But I can say thank you for sharing the good and the bad, for your honesty and for your responsiveness to those of us out here.
Be well,
JD
I remain curious to know whether David knows of your blog. I recall a very old post in which you said he doesn’t.
I am fine. I enjoy the alternate points of view and don't take them as personal attacks at all. To each their own!
DeleteYou putting yourself over your real Daddy’s knee has really stirred up the crowd here. Your unique family dynamics are not comparable to other circumstances where sexuality could be an issue. You already got spanked and exposed in front of your parents, and it became a shared family event that they embraced openly. While it was questionable to involve your father as you did, I don’t see it as a sexual assault. You were asking to be spanked. He wasn't forced to spank you. Was it a danger to the family? You must not think so. Things have pretty much been headed in this direction.
ReplyDeleteIt turned out to be a mountain out of a mole hill. Nobody is very upset at the end of the day.
DeleteWhat happened at Sunday dinner ?
ReplyDeleteDoes your mom know about it ,did David finally spank you for this ? Does Sue know?
All will be revealed in my next blog entry!
DeleteAnd when will that be, young lady?
DeleteWriting furiously!
DeleteJust freeze the kink activity for a while till things cool down.
ReplyDeleteNever!
DeleteJust forget about involving others and keep it between you and david.
ReplyDeleteNo way!
DeleteThere is a film by François Truffaut called "Stolen Kisses". It is a realistic and lighthearted film, comical at times. The title is taken from a song by Charles Trenet: "What remains of our loves?" " One could also say of this spanking that it is a lovely "stolen spanking" ...
ReplyDeleteYes!
DeleteI have to admit the self-righteous remarks you're receiving from readers who have habitually made the most suggestive and lewd comments for other stories just as 'out there' make me hope your next post is not about seeking some kind of forgiveness but perhaps a "Bestiality Snuff" adventure to push things even further. LOL Don't fold under moral criticism from people whose reprimands were probably the first times they've ever written to you using both hands. They're just mad you ruined their intended jerk-off time with something that killed their mood. LOL
ReplyDeleteI know! They love my fantasies about being spanked (and worse!) by my Dad, and they even enjoyed him watching me get spanked, but as soon as he does a few swats to my bare bum, that's suddenly "over the line"?
DeleteIt's priceless actually. How lucky you must feel to know you have guys who come here to make the most outrageous suggestions while masturbating onto their keyboards now offer to lecture you on morality. I wonder if their wives know they're here whacking their wienies to pictures of this hot chick in Canada? But now they can say, "but honey, I'm just there to give the poor lass spiritual guidance." LOL
DeleteNow now, I enjoy ALL my fans. They comment from a place of love. And it's ok that they read "one-handed", as I often write that way! ;-)
DeleteI said this would end soon. He just doesn’t have it in him. You need a dominant man to push your limits while you, by extension, push David’s. Give in to it. You want a man to dominate you in front of him and you want your submissive husband to clean and sooth you with his tongue while his own ass gets reddened.
ReplyDelete*soothe
DeleteThe thought does turn me on, but I crave the emotional connection at the same time - so David will just have to do :-)
DeleteIt might just strengthen your emotional connection as you are both getting what you need, what you crave and you are getting it together despite the ostensible disconnect in desires.
DeleteMyeh... does not "do it" for me.
DeleteDoes David follow your blog?
ReplyDeleteJD
One never knows - I write as if he might!
DeleteHa! Good plan.
ReplyDeleteJD