e-Subbie Gingered Timeout

I have a very obedient e-subbie named david (not my david, another one). He got himself into a bit of trouble with me and was punished with ginger root timeout.

Oh yes, a good gingering up his bum after a very nasty spanking before and a good hour of supervised fully nude nose-to-wall timeout as the ginger made him my little bitch.

He wrote a comment on one of my blogs,  The Kanigban's Lesson (FFMM/F), where he was cruisin' for a bruisin', so I obliged. I knew this particular e-subbie would do literately anything I told him to, so that's always fun...

He's an older man who keeps himself in good shape, not least because I fat shame him if he doesn't. He's also improved his grooming considerably since I've been insisting. He's into being dominated by women, being feminized, and having to take the cock. He often models pretty lingerie for me.

So cute, sweetheart!

He has yet to actually take the cock (real cock), but he's been working diligently on it. He's due an OTK panties down spanking, then giving a blowjob, then receiving anal from this large-cocked man (his "boyfriend" we refer to him) that he's trying to arrange a tryst with as I write this.

He has an adult niece whom he fantasizes about, so I tease him about her frequently. His wife does not know about his little fetish and would not approve. In an extreme act of I don't know what, he at one point sent me the full contact information for his wife and niece both. He thinks I might "out him" if he doesn't obey me absolutely. It's a convenient belief for him to have from my point of view...

I wrote him an email:

Off you go and shop for several nice fat and fresh ginger roots. Carve it into the shape of a butt plug with a protruding handle. You may need several tries before you get the hang of it. All you need is a bit of moisture for lube, anything else will lessen the desired effect. Then pop it in and stand naked with your hands on your head and your nose against the wall for... 30 minutes let's say. Hold a piece of paper against the wall with your nose so we know you're not cheating. If it drops, reset the clock and another 30. Photos please, and you may video your timeout for me. I'll put it up in the side of my screen as I'm writing my blog all about it. I'll edit the photos and video excerpts to conceal anything identifying (except your small penis - nothing to be done for that). No rush. And if your niece walks in on you while you're in timeout, you're not allowed to move. When it's time to extract the ginger root you may need to soak in a bath and open that sphincter to get water in which will moisten it and make it slide out easily. Don't just pull if it feels stuck.
Julie

He carried out the punishment with alacrity. In his words:

The first thing i did after my wife left was get dressed. I put on my chastity cage first so i wouldn’t be tempted to waste the day away masturbating, teasing and edging to images on BDSMLR. Then i put on my pink bra with extra padding and panties. I would be wearing this most of the day except when doing my assignment.

Depending on the style and fabric, I sometimes forget I’m wearing panties. But I NEVER forget I’m wearing a bra. First, I can always see my perky little breasts protruding under my shirt. Then there is the warm constriction around my chest. It’s not a bad feeling, but it’s always there. And in public I’m always wondering who is noticing that I’m OBVIOUSLY wearing a bra! I know most are so distracted and stuck in their phones that they don’t see it. But someone must notice! Maybe someday I’ll have the courage to go out with a brightly colored bra under a white tee shirt…

Off I went went to our new shopping center to buy ginger. After stopping at the produce section, I made my way to the other side of the store. Nair was first on my list. I’m trying to be as smooth and hairless as I can get this year without freaking my wife out. Underarms, belly, butt, upper thighs and "down there". I don’t think I'll ever get to full sissy as seen on BDSMLR, but lingerie looks much nicer with less hair and I think a future boyfriend will appreciate fucking someone less fuzzy than my natural state. Besides I like the way it looks too.

Next on the list was a prostate stimulator/exerciser.  I’m still searching for the mythical anal orgasm. Maybe this will help get me there. But mostly I need to train those muscles. My ejaculations have become pathetically weak.

Finally,  I had my eye on this previously, and today I couldn’t resist

I had an interesting shopping cart. And, even though I went through self-checkout, a helpful associate came to assist me. Yes, she did look at what was in my cart. I wonder what she was thinking.

It's all very sweet and pathetic but what does 95% of that have to do with the punishment I assigned him? It's a little "topping from the bottom" don't you think?

"Oh, it would be so bad if you made me wear panties and a bra out while I was shopping for the ginger, Ma'am. Please don't, Mistress!"

Just a bit disrespectful. But, whatever, I let that go.

Here were the ginger roots he got:

and then he carved it appropriately.

but... you know... a little small, don't you think? Is he really obeying Mistress with that?

He then videos the insertion for me:

There we go...

The ginger is not particularly painful per se, but it does focus the mind during timeout. There's an umistakable burn in your bum that can intensify and lessen as you clench and relax. Just adds a certain je-ne-sais-quois to the timeout.

Here's his cock before he goes into timeout.

I think he has a little boner!

But from the angle below it looks like nothing more than a little nubby clitty. His boyfriend will enjoy rubbing that and making him cummie if he lets him out of his cage (not guaranteed).

So that's all fine. Nothing wrong with any of that.

 

He then gets ready to do his timeout. Here you can see him approaching the wall, right in front of a full -length mirror. He almost forgot the paper, but reached for it last moment.

He then put the paper up against the mirror and put his nose on the piece of paper to hold it up.

You know what's missing? A red bum! I kicked myself for forgetting to tell him to spank himself first. Oh well.

I think holding up the paper with your nose really helps timeout. You really can't move your head at all and you have to keep your nose squished against the wall the whole time. I also think there's something just that much more humiliating about it, you know? To be so completely controlled like that. For every second of those very, very, long thirty minutes he will know who it was that put him there.

Note how is hands are on his head as well. For me, hands on head is no problem at all. I have very flexible shoulders. For poor david here, it was the worst part! Maybe you should work on your flexibility, young man?

Well, just less than a minute into his timeout, the paper drops!

He has to bend down and pick it up - you can see the ginger root deep up there!

And then put it back in place more carefully this time.

And then back he is at it, having to restart his 30 minutes from the beginning.

He was back in place at exactly the 1:00 minute mark on the video. I could hear his laboured breathing, but he was very stoic at first.

At around the 10:00 minute mark, those hands dropped scandalously.

Clearly no longer on top of his head as instructed. Had I been there in person, and spotted that, it would have been across my knee for a good dose of the hairbrush, and then back in timeout FROM THE BEGINNING!

He put his hands back on top very briefly at the 15:00 minute mark but then dropped them again for practically the rest of the video.  I would say he had his hands properly on his head for maybe 10 minutes of the 30?

Other that that, he didn't move hardly at all until minute 29:00 or so when we started getting these cute little slow kicky-feet:

In his own words:

I’m not sure any of this video will be much fun to watch. Just a lot of me standing motionless and the sound of my breathing.

At the beginning, when the burn of the ginger started, I was worried about how bad it would get. I felt like I needed to keep my legs together during the entire ordeal. My body was wanting to expel the irritant from the beginning. My arms quickly began to ache and after just a few minutes, and I was questioning whether I could make it to 30 minutes. Then there was not knowing how much time was left, not being able to watch a clock. I counted my breaths, trying to estimate the time. Fortunately, I was pretty close. Near the end, I began to question, what if the timer isn’t working, what if my phone isn’t recording? Would I have to carve another plug and start again?

The burn of the ginger never became “agony”. Just very uncomfortable and oddly stimulating. But it was the three elements: the burn, extreme shoulder fatigue (which I still feel today), and 30 uncertain minutes of not letting the paper drop combined to make it an ordeal. A real, unpleasant punishment I would NOT want to have to repeat. Note: I did hold it for about a minute more after the video ended to make up for the early paper drop. 

But something else happened here. I felt oddly stimulated. Towards the end you may see me slowly rocking and thrusting my hips, carefully so as not to lose the plug. I wasn’t erect, but I was stimulated. And even leaking a bit. I thought about you, about my wife, my niece, her mother…if they saw me now, what would they think?

He sent me a pic of his penis "after".

He was literally leaking from his punishment. Bad boy!

You can also see the indentations still there from my cage.

After I cleaned up and put everything away, I put my cage and bra and panties back on and went about my day. I had lots of energy! I felt wired. At 10 o’clock I did a workout and I was still awake at midnight after a long day after a short sleep. I wonder if the ginger had a therapeutic, energizing effect for me.

Then, at the end of the day, undressing and removing my cage, I discovered one testicle had slipped through the ring! I think they've shrunk. I’ll need to get a smaller ring now. My boyfriend has said he expects me in chastity when I see him. I guess my balls match my penis now.

Still thinking about and processing everything But I’ll end for now.

Mistress Julie, I hope you were pleased or entertained or amused by my efforts. I continue to be grateful that you push me into experiences that I would never do on my own.

Submissively,
david

Oh, silly boy. He thought he was done? I was just warming up. He had a taste of what it meant to stand with his nose on the wall for a FULL 30 minutes. As he says above "A real, unpleasant punishment I would NOT want to have to repeat". Well, that's not your decision, is it david? Is it? No, it is not, young man.

I was not going to fault him for his hands slipping down. I had not realized nor wanted that to be the most uncomfortable part of the punishment. My bad. Nor was I faulting him for the little kicky legs at the end. I enjoyed that part the best!

No, what I will fault him for is that I saw 29 minutes of timeout. Not 30 minutes. 29 minutes. He says he stayed there an extra minute. How am I to know? Were not my instructions very clear? Was not the ENTIRE FUCKING PURPOSE of the video for me to verify that he spent every last second of his thirty minutes with his nose against the wall????? For FUCK'S sake!

No. The second I saw that, he was going to be doing it again, and doing it properly.

Here was my reply:

Ha ha! Very lovely, david. SUCH an obedient little girl!
And, you're welcome!

Yes, it is very punishing, isn't it? I understand when you say you wouldn't want that repeated. I mean, who would? Likely to change behaviour, don't you think, if doled out with regularity and the option of extending it to an hour?

And I must say you are looking very cute! I appreciate your efforts at hair removal and encourage you to keep going as indicated. I can only imagine your boyfriend will be pleased with any further efforts in that regard.

But... what with ending the video early? Are you testing me? I thought I was pretty clear on that. Did that paper drop during the last minute? When you were at your squirmiest? How am I to know???? That is so unacceptable. I just don't know what to say, except...

...Do it again. Get it right this time. A few modifications.

• you may have your hands at your sides, and I'll even allow the occasional straying to your cock, just for a touch every now and then, one second or less at a time. But for the most part I want to see those hands at your sides, either palms in or balled into little shaking fists of frustration.
• I really regret not colouring up those cheeks before timeout. Next time give yourself a good paddling/whipping to get some colour into those cheeks. If I don't see enough colour/marks, you'll be doing it again, and possibly for longer timeout.
• Of course you will use the ginger and the paper.
• I want to see much more squirming movement this time. Now I know you can be (relatively) stoic (but don't think I didn't catch that cute little leg raise at minute 30). This time put on more of a little show for me, david. More moans would be appreciated as well, along with some apologies and some begging to be let off early (speak to the hand... ha ha!). I want to see some class "A" bum wriggling. Let me know that ginger is having an effect.
• The FULL 30 minutes this time, missy, you little boundary pusher, you!

Hop hop.

Julie

I must confess, I am a bit of a sadist. It literally gave me pleasure to order him to do it again. I can only imagine him reading that email and the wail of despair as he realized he had to repeat the ordeal! Ha ha!

He wrote back:

Subject: Oh no! Please no!

Dear Mistress Julie,

I’m so sorry! (I know, not at sorry as I’m going to be…) I hate the idea of repeating this task. With the added paddling and the threat of a repeat! But more than anything, I HATE displeasing you! I am very ashamed and disappointed in myself.

Not that it will do any good, but please let me explain: The paper drop was at the very beginning. That is why I added extra time after the alarm went off and the video stopped. I didn’t know the timer would stop the video. Just excuses, I know. But sincere, desperate excuses. The pleading and begging is starting now, as I’m anticipating this ordeal again. It’s one thing to not know what is coming. It’s quite another to know what I’ll have to endure.

"SUCH an obedient little girl!" That hit me hard! A man would NEVER agree to this treatment once. And I'll be doing it again. At minimum, once more! You are draining my masculine pride away just as effectively as me sucking my boyfriend's cock and being fucked like a girl will do. I deserve it.

Your submissive little girl,

david

Oh, okay. I understand now why the camera cut off. Not an excuse. I wrote back:

Subject: Re. Oh no! Please no!

Let's get some of that begging and pleading into that cornertime, young lady (along with some bum shimmying).

Julie

His reply

Dear Mistress Julie,

It will be sometime next week at the earliest before I have the house to myself for the time needed. Until then, I will sit and wait in a prison of my mind, waiting for Warden Julie to tap on the door to my cell and announce, “It’s time!”

Until then, I’ll be thinking about how much I DO NOT WANT TO DO THIS. Also, I will be thinking about how to put on such a good show for you that you won’t demand I repeat it for a third time. Thank you for the concession of allowing my hands to remain at my sides. But the addition of a paddling before the ginger has me very nervous. I’m a pussy with self-spanking, but I don’t dare skimp on this. I know you are expecting significant visible damage to my bottom.

How does it make you feel to know you have a person (I can’t call myself a man, not anymore) who will do something, no matter how painful and humiliating, just because you say, “Do it!”?

Even as a weak little girl, I’ve considered if I even have the choice to say no to you. I can cry and beg and plead, but what if I just don’t do it?

Then I remembered. You know my name, my face, where I live, my wife’s name, my niece’s name and contact info. Since it’s too late to think about protecting myself now, I might as well give up all hope of ever getting out from under your influence.

My hands are shaking as I hit send.

Your submissive little girl,
david 

He must know I won't out him. I've told him as much. But I am a mean and sadistic bitch, and I have on occasion mused that maybe it would be better for him for his wife and niece and sister-in-law to all know. Maybe all his fantasies would be made to come true (including his castration fantasy). Poor boy has himself tied up in knots, doesn't he? Serves my purposes, as I said above (and, ultimately, his own). But he better not cross me! :-)

I added those extras to the timeout because I wanted to. I was really regretting that he was not standing there with a flaming red bottom. I really wanted a red bottom! And I realized as I watched it that the only entertaining parts was when he finally broke down and started wriggling a little. I wanted lots of wriggling this time! It also just really amused me to make him wriggle for me for a full 30 minutes.

I know from experience that being stoic is a thing most can do. But it's a conscious act to remain stoic. And a little act of defiance, if you ask me. Wriggling is what comes naturally. I knew I was not going to get an act. I knew I was going to be getting the real wriggling that comes naturally to a boy in this situation. He would just need to let it out.

As I mentioned, I had not intended for hands on head to be the most punishing aspect (and who'd have thought?). So I definitely wanted him to be more comfortable in his shoulders. A man of his age and everything. Besides, I like the hands at his sides. It enhances the visual aspect of the wriggling, if you ask me.

I also allowed him to periodically touch himself without punishment. It is a big temptation when the hands are down there already, and I thought it would actually increase his embarrassment if he literally could not resist touching his little willy during punishment. Note that I did not demand it, but I allowed it. But I didn't want him over-indulging so I limited it.

He sent me a few emails indicating when he might have the house to himself. On one evening when his wife would be out with relatives, he prioritized setting up the first meeting with his boyfriend over my punishment, a priority I heartily approved of! Unfortunately, that fell through (yet again) so he was able to complete my punishment.

Dear Mistress Julie,

My boyfriend said he wouldn’t be home last night, so my evening became free. At least he responded this time. Still not convinced that my mouth and bottom hole will ever take his cock, but I’ll keep trying.

I started with purchasing fresh ginger on the way home. After I got everything else ready, I carved a nice fat plug.

Interesting... I had been thinking that first plug had been a bit small, but accidentally neglected to mention it to him. This time he carved me "a nice fat plug". I think he knew that the first time he was getting away with something, and this time wanted to give me no possible excuse for making him repeat yet again.

Smart boy, as I was looking for any possible excuse and would have happily sent him back to the corner for an hour next time. But I feel the world of female dominance should have some "fair play". There should be consequences for bad behaviour, and a lack of consequences for good behavior. That is how you effectively train any kind of puppy, no?

And I think you'll see exactly how effective my training of this little puppy was by the end!

The first video he sent me was of him on camera, naked, full facial, his very sad little puppy face apologizing to me.

Here is what he said:

Hello Mistress, Julie.

I'm really sorry I got myself into this situation. I really don't want to do this. But I guess I don't have any choice... do I? I've done this to myself and I asked for it. First, I need the spanking...

Yes, he did ask for it. Notice how he's sorry for "the situation" but does not take responsibility for his actions that got him into the situation, namely his incompetent failure to deliver me a full video the first time? I'll let it go and just mention it now for him to read.

I began with my paddling. I tried my best to make it hurt and put some color on my white bottom. I really hope my efforts were satisfactory!

He included a multi-part video of his spanking, including facial reactions which were really delightful. I edited together a small excerpt for you below.

Good job! I really can't complain about that, now can I?

I liked the choice of the big, heavy, wooden paddle.

When you self-spank, or so I understand, it's hard to get it hard enough. But with such a big paddle. you just get it going and it will do the rest of the job itself.

He gave me a bonus asshole whipping.

Again, a little topping from the bottom vibe, but given he would next have to insert a big fat fig into his bum, it is something I might have done, so I deem it appropriate.

The results were quite excellent.

That's a well-spanked tush! (And does he have a little chubby there?)

Finally I was ready for the insertion. This was thicker than the last one. It took some effort to insert and didn’t feel like it would slip out on its own.

 Ah yes, the insertion. I got another movie about that.

There we go. All the way in, you bad little girl.

Then he was off to the corner.

Ha ha ha ha! Just LOOK at that naughty red bottomed girl! Is the plug in there? Show us. Show us, you naughty girl.

Oh, it sure is, and it burns, doesn't it?

All through his corner time he's wriggling that behind and moaning and begging and pleading. It's highly entertaining! I'm so glad I sent him back to timeout for a second helping.

Notice that his nose is absolutely fixed in place and all the gyrating happens around it. He also has to bend over a bit and stick it out to be able to hold the paper there reliably.

He would also thrust his hips, touch his little pee-pee, and tweak his own nipples! SUCH a girl!

Here's a litte gif of some of that.

It is SOOOOO hilarious! Don't you just enjoy the enforced red-bummed ginger-fueled wriggling just that much better?

Here's how he described it.

And then the show. Sighing, moaning, babbling whatever came into my head. It was the longest 30 minutes of my life. I was beginning to worry that I hadn’t set the timer. Or if I started the video! I hope you are pleased with my performance, Mistress Julie! I really hope you don’t make me repeat this again!

And it was really delightful! He did 31 minutes for me, just to be safe. All of it was this little red-bummed girl, complaining, moaning, begging, and shimmying her hot red ass for my viewing pleasure!

I have never been happier to hear an alarm go off than I was last night!

And then came the extraction:

You got a little bit of mess there on the tip, young lady. You had best do a better job of cleaning yourself out before your boyfriend takes you up the ass, because he is bigger and longer, and you'll have to suck him clean after.

What does david have to say about these videos?

It’s been really hard for me to watch these videos. To see myself like this. So embarrassing! So humiliating! And I asked for it! And my little penis was leaking all the while this was happening to me. I look at myself in the mirror when I work out. I flex and pretend I’m a man. A real man. And then I see this…

This was a very different experience than the first time, especially in the aftermath. In the hours following the first, I felt strangely energized even though I should have been tired. Last night and even now, I felt/feel exhausted, broken. Mentally and physically. Somehow, it feels like this is what I needed to feel.

Thank you, Mistress Julie. For everything.

Your submissive little girl,

david

Let's have a big round of applause for "little david" (and yes, it's his cock I'm comparing!)

I think for all future e-subbies this will be the benchmark. Send me 30 minutes with you red-assed, ginger-plugged, shimmying in the corner before I consider adding you to by "roster"!