Saturday, August 15

Summertime - Wandering Eyes - Hot Bottom!

It's definitely summertime here in Canada, creating more challenges for boys to keep their eyes in their own heads. I was in the car with my husband driving downtown. We were stopped at a streetlight and a young woman showing a lot of cleavage was crossing in front of us.


It was not actually Megan Fox,
But same idea.

david's eyes zeroed in on her breasts, and his head turned following them. She crossed in front of us, past the other lane, and turned left on the opposite sidewalk. My husband's head followed her entire progress. The light turned green but he was still looking. He got a honk from the car behind, and abruptly looked forward and started driving.

"Really?" I said.

"Oh. ha ha. sorry..." he said, rather sheepishly.

"Oh I am going to scene your little ass so bad for that," I said "you just wait until I get you home!"

I was smiling and having fun with him, but he also knew that he was 'gonna catch it!

"It can't be tonight," he said, "Mags is coming at 7".

How nice! I had forgotten. A lucky coincidence for sure. "Oh it sure can be tonight," I said. "I'm sure Mags would love to see me whip your ass for that."

"Awwww.... honey!" he said.

"Mags will see how I deal with my boy tonight, and she can train you afterwards."

"But honey, she spanks so hard herself," he whined, "my butt won't be able to take it from the both of you..."

I reached over and put my hand on his crotch. His penis was hard. "Not my problem." I said with a smirk.

We both had the rest of the car ride home to contemplate david's comeuppance in front of Mags. I exhorted david to concentrate on his driving, though!

So what do I really think about him blatantly ogling another woman's body like that? I must confess to being a bit in the "boys will be boys" camp as far as that goes, and actually take some pleasure in dangling candy in front of the boys and then not letting them have any. On the other hand, I'm certainly not going to miss a chance for a "genuine" domestic scene handed up to me on a silver platter with his trainer in the mix to boot!

For the record, I believe ladies have every right in the world to dress however they wish. Boys, and especially older men for goodness sake, need to be respectful. They are not to "perv out" on it and make girls feel uncomfortable. We know we have an effect on you boys. But if your head turns, your jaw drops, and your eyes bug out of your head? So not cool.

And, no, it's not a "compliment" that men stare. Depending on the girl it can be very unwelcome and uncomfortable. I'm self assured enough myself that it doesn't phase me, and besides, I rarely dress so provocatively as to draw the lewder stares. However, for a less self-assured younger woman (and often provocative dress is a sign of it), an older teen perhaps, it can be a bit scary and gross. Kind of like an eye-raping.

Oh, and I can hear some of you boys now: "Well, if they don't want to be eye-raped they shouldn't dress like that!" Now take out the word "eye" from that sentence and tell me if it's still ok? Of course it's not! Ladies should dress exactly as they please, and males should control their behaviour.

But it's actually not the sort of thing I care about that much in the bigger scheme of things, so therefore it's perfect fodder for a "real life" punishment scene.

And I thought it very fortuitous that Mags would be there. I had not yet given david what I consider to be a "real punishment" in front of Mags, so I thought this would be the perfect opportunity. Mags is not fully clued in on the nature of my relationship with my husband. She does not know if his discipline from me is "for real" or "for play" (it's definitely the latter). I have kept it deliberately vague for her. So when I pretend to punish him "for real", she most likely will take that at least somewhat at face value. How emasculating for poor david having another young woman honestly believe that he is subject to his wife's discipline as if he were a child. "Pussy whipped" they call it. Oh yes. He would be getting a "pussy whipping" indeed!

I also thought Mags would feel some sense of satisfaction seeing an older man punished for this particular offence. As an attractive younger woman herself with fetching cleavage, I'm sure she's had her fair share of pervy older dudes openly stare at her breasts.

For my part I was determined to play my role perfectly. Neither he nor Mags would get any hint at all from my speech and behaviour that I was not genuinely angry with him and punishing him for it, for real. david knows it's a scene, of course, but part of our fun is that we both act as if it is not.

It was also good timing from another couple of points of view. I had recently posted a blog article Corner Time! so I had been refreshing my views on making that punishment as effective as can be. I was also researching bra punishment for an upcoming blog post. Brassièring as a form of discipline. I received an education from Emily Masters' website, brassiered, where she shares her views and e-book.

brassièred
a complete guide to
brassière discipline

Emily has an interesting take on bra discipline. More subtle. Very elegant. Very subtly humiliating. Designed to curb a man's behavior almost willingly. She suggests coaxing a man into a bra by first getting him into chastity, and then tying his sexual release to his willingness to wear his bra, with the goal of eventually having him docile and brassièred 24x7. Punishment then means being locked into a more uncomfortable brassière, or a brassière that's harder to hide when out at work, or having to wear very large DDD breast forms under his brassière around the house or for chores, or even inviting other (trustworthy) women such as best-friends or female relations to be made aware of his brassière training. Lovely material, whether true or just lovely fantasy. And of course, one obvious application of brassière discipline is pointed out by Emily herself as follows.
  • a husband who ogles other women's chests 
    should be given breasts that are undeniably feminine, to understand what it is like to have his chest stared at.
That punishment would certainly fit this particular crime!


So as I was plotting the scene out in my mind in the car ride home all of this got me thinking about his bra and inserts, the fact that Mags had not yet seen him in his bra, and the fact that this is something that david is so genuinely humiliated to do. I had been teasing him about making him wear his bra for Mags, and he has told me not to (for real), as in "No, Julie. Absolutely not."

Of course, I respect david's boundaries when scening him, but I guess we have a difference of opinion whether we consider something like this to count as a "hard limit" or not. Unlike, say, getting fucked in the ass by a guy, for example. So despite his objections I was of the opinion that it was fully within my purview to do this to him. And in such matters of judgement, I am Queen [I am wondering, do any of my readers disagree?]

As a result of all this, I was thinking along the lines that a shameful brassièring in front of his young trainer would be a fitting punishment for staring at that woman's breasts. I'm tempted to say "a good old fashioned brassièring" but I doubt it ever was the fashion! I wondered how he would react when I would drop that bomb on him.


We got home an hour before Mags was due to arrive. As soon as we got in the door I told david to change into panties and bra for his punishment and to stand in the corner until Mags arrived.

"No... not the bra!" he argued. Oh yes!

"You liked staring at that woman's tits. Now Mags and I will stare at yours."

"No! It's not cool," he persisted.

"david, this is my call. This is NOT a hard boundary. Other women have seen you in a bra. Why not Mags?"

"Because it's so embarrassing!" he pleaded, clearly weakening. "And it'll freak her out!"

"It's meant to be embarrassing," I told him. "and it will certainly not freak her out. Now do as you're told. You have no say in this." I was emphatic.

david grumbled but acquiesced. It was settled. For his lewd behaviour in the car he would indeed be receiving emasculating bra discipline in front of Mags. Besides, who's kidding whom? He knew it was inevitable that he would be winding up in a bra in front of Mags sooner or later. It was just a matter of time. But I do so enjoy his little rebellions!

david shuffled reluctantly upstairs and a few minutes later arrived back downstairs in his pink panty and pink bra with clear silicone inserts fully in place filling him out to a B or even C cup.

"You look darling!" I complimented him. "Mags will love it."

I took him into the living room and put him against the wall. I went away to fetch a pair of wrist restraints, his ball gag, and a small Post-It note with the sticky part folded over. I came back and asked for his wrists which I proceeded to cuff and then fasten behind his back. I then slipped the ball gag onto him and tightened it down uncomfortably hard. I grabbed him by the back of the hair, pulled his head a little away from the wall, slipped the Post-It note between his nose and the wall, and gently pushed him back. I told him he was to stay there until Mags arrived and God help him if the Post-It note was on the floor or his punishment from me would be doubled, and he would still have his training to go.

I went about my business while david struggled to hold position and stewed about being seen for the first time in his bra by Mags. Mags was due to arrive in 45 minutes, but she was frequently a bit late owing to her work schedule. He might therefore be required to remain for up to an hour being disciplined in this manner.

Mags was about 10 minutes late, so he must have been standing there just under an hour when we heard the doorbell ring. I went to open it myself as david was otherwise occupied. Despite being humiliatingly brassièred I'm sure he welcomed the physical relief the long awaited doorbell ushered in, and the "can we just get it over with" mental relief as well. I showed Mags into the living room where david was being punished.

"Oh dear!" She said. "What's he doing? Is that a bra he has on?" First thing she noticed.

"Yes, a very pretty bra holding up a pair of nice plump breasts," I said. "david's in the doghouse and is being punished for real. No joke this time. He's been standing there for about an hour already. And you seeing him in his bra, and seeing what happens to him next, is part of his punishment, if you're willing to stay and watch that is. You can train him right after I'm done with him. Is that ok?"

"Sure. No problem." She said. "What did he do?"

"We were driving in the car," I answered, "a woman walked by and he very obviously stared at her breasts. I mean, he positively gawked at them. She might even have seen him doing it out of the corner of her eye. The car behind had to honk at him to get him moving!"

"Oh My God." She said. "With you right there in the car?"

"Yes, with me right there." I answered.

"What was he thinking?" She asked rhetorically.

Yes, what indeed was he thinking?

I picked up the belt and told david to come out from the wall and stand facing me. He was very red faced. Bra and panties. Ball gag. Hands restrained behind his back. Sore and stiff from his disciplining so far. He could see me holding the belt, his further instrument of correction, in my hand. Mags had taken a seat on the couch when I called him out of the corner, and was looking on with a distinct smirk on her face.

By lill josephine to my exacting specifications. She did such a good job this time
because I made her stand for 30 minutes in the corner for her shoddy previous attempt.
See her Corner Time post.

The scene was almost exactly (uncannily in fact) like the sketch above. Our outfits are bang on and our relative positions as well. I think my little sketch slut outdid herself this time. david was positively squirming in embarrassment as we ogled his tits the way he did that woman in the streets.

I started in on the "scolding" phase. This is part of david's fantasy always, to be "well scolded" by me before his spanking. How wonderfully humiliating for him to have to stand there like that, subject to the full bra and panty treatment, unable to say a word or raise a hand, and be scolded by me in front of Mags. And what's worse, knowing he is about to be severely spanked by me, his own wife, while another woman looks on, across the seat of his panties with a man's belt no less.


I laid into him over his behaviour in the car. Saying how disrespectful it was to both the young lady and to me. I told him he had the ball gag in because I was absolutely not interested in hearing any of his lame excuses. I told him he was in his bra and inserts in front of Mags so he could learn what it was like to have breasts and be gawked out.

"Do you like his tits?" I asked Mags.

"Oh, they're lovely." She said.

"Nice and firm and big," I said as I squeezed one in my hand. "How do you like having your big tits stared at?" I asked him.

"Mmmmph" he mumbled into his gag.

I thought I'd scare him a bit more. I told him I was very concerned over his hyper-sexualized behaviour towards woman. I asked him if he thought he needed to be put into chastity, into a cock cage, to learn to control himself? He vigorously shook his head "no, no, no!" (he has a fear of that device!).

"I don't know, what do you think, Mags?" I asked her.

"Maybe it's the only thing that will work." Said Mags, playing along. She evidently knew what a cock cage was.



"Is that what you want, david? For me to put you into chastity? To have me have to walk around with a little key around my neck? For you to have to beg me every time you want to masturbate? Is that what you want?"

david again shook his head "no no no" making matching pitiful noises through his ball gag.

"Fine. Not this time then. But if I catch you doing this again you will find yourself right back here, I will pull down your panties and I will put you into a cock cage right in front of Mags. How humiliating would that be for me? To have Mags know that my husband has to be kept in a cock cage to control his behaviour in public. And believe me, if I put you in it you won't be out of it for a very long time, mister. A very long time. Am I making myself perfectly clear?"

"Hmmmm! Hmmmm!" said david, nodding his head up and down..

"And don't think you're getting off Scot free this time either. You will go across the back of that couch, and I will sizzle your rear-end with my belt. Do you hear me? I will SIZZLE IT! Now MOVE!"

With that, david practically ran over to the back of the couch and lowered himself over it. Mags moved to the side to make room for him. With his hands tied, he went far over until his forehead touched the seat and his feet dangled in the air. It looked quite uncomfortable for him but presented his ass and upper thighs perfectly for heavy downwards strokes of the strap. He was also not going anywhere until either Mags or I helped him up, which was not for a while yet.

I was a bit worried about the stability of the position, so I asked Mags to stay seated on the couch and push his bound arms against his lower back to hold him in place for his belting and to prevent him from reaching back and covering his ass.

"This is for staring at woman's breasts in the street. I've punished you for things like this before. Now you're really going to get it!" I told him.

With that I whipped the doubled up heavy brown leather belt hard against his pantied ass. The end of the belt perfectly connected with the low center of his far ass cheek right at the lace leggings with a loud CRACK. david shrieked in pain from behind his ball gag. Mags eyes looked excited! I remember having the thought at that moment wondering if I could tear up his little panties with that belt.

Why did I let him keep his panties? Oh, he would be losing them soon enough, and they really did nothing to protect him from that heavy belt anyways, especially as most of the skin around his sit spots and thighs was bare at any rate. But I just like "the concept" of spanking the seat of his panties and only later pulling them down to reveal the extent of the damage.

Now, about belts. For those of you who don't realize it, there's a real difference in belts. Some belts are quite light and have a more whippy effect, others are heavier and have a more thud-like effect. This belt was one I found in a store that was advertised as a "heavy-duty men's belt". I bought it specifically for the purpose to which it was now being put. This is a belt made for punishing errant husbands, no two ways about it.



I gave him twenty hard strokes like that. Some to the seat of his panties, some down lower on the bare skin of his low ass and upper thighs, some aimed across both cheeks, some concentrating more on the near cheek, some deliberately "wrapped around" to his far flank or into his crack a bit. Each stroke was met with a muffled shriek. There were vivid marks and weals wherever bare skin was exposed. I was hitting him hard enough that it was an effort for me. To make it convincing for Mags I knew I had to step it up like this.

Half way through he was begging and saying "I'm sorry!" and "Please!" through the ball gag. I think there was no doubt left that this was for sure a "real" punishment session for david. Fully witnessed as well. Despite the pain and humiliation, it is what he craves and needs. Mags was clearly excited by it. As he was carrying on the most at one point she said "won't be doing that again, will you?" As per her temperament, she showed absolutely zero remorse for him as he was being wife-beaten like this for his sins.

After his first twenty I paused and walked over up to him. I pulled his panty down to have a look at his bare ass. It was already well marked and would be bruising. I asked Mags what she thought. She thought I was doing a great job and she doubted he would be staring at girl's in the street after this.

I left his panty down and concentrated another dozen zingers across the middle of his bare ass. The center of his ass took on a solid dusky hue with all the belt strokes intermingling there. Vivid rectangular marks, angry red and starting to bruise, radiated outwards from that.

I removed his panty entirely off his legs and told him to spread. His legs were shaking as he spread them.  I finished him up by standing directly behind him and bringing the belt down vertically along his ass crack.

Delivering a good whipping to the crack.
Christine Justice in "Domestic Discipline" (c) 2005 Shadow Lane Video

I tried to to get as far "inside" as I could by angling the belt slightly as it came down. His legs kicked in the air like a little dancer. I had to warn him to keep his legs spread as they had a tendency to almost involuntarily come back together after each of these strokes. I did not blame him for this. Those legs can have a mind of their own during an intense belt whipping session.

I think these vertically placed strokes are very very punishing, smacking down with such force on such tender "inner cheek and thigh" skin. I can tell he's near his limit when he mutters "oh no, oh no, oh no, oh no" into his ball gag anticipating the next stroke.

Ladies, in case you want to try these vertical strokes at home, you need good aim to steer clear of his balls and asshole, neither of which you want to tear up with a belt this heavy. As well, when playing with a ball gag you still need a safeword. For us it's saying "red red red", three short distinct grunts whose pattern and tone we practiced long ago. Was not required this time.

In total he had received about 50 strokes of the heavy leather belt, none of them light. He was breathing very heavily through his nose. I picked up his panties and pulled them back up his sore legs and ass. Mags and I helped him to his feet.There was considerable watering of his eyes, snot, and saliva around the ball gag, and he was sweating profusely. The ball gag and awkward "ass high" position definitely adds to the punishment aspects.

As he stood there, still bound and gagged, he squirmed on the spot, trying to alleviate some of the thigh, bum, and crack pain he was feeling. When I examined him later that evening, some of the worst bruising was on his inner cheeks nearest his crack and surrounding his asshole. Those were particularly painful for him next day, whether moving or sitting.

I unfastened his gag and pulled it off. He moved his jaw painfully. He had been ball-gagged for well over an hour. I unclipped his wrist restraints and removed them from him. I told him that I hoped he'd learnt his lesson. He assured me (and Mags) that he had and would never do that again.

As he stood there squirming in his bra, I thought the brassièring was a big success as well.


His breasts and bra reminded him constantly of the "why" of this punishment. When he was in timeout and his breasts were mushing against the wall I am sure he was thinking about the reason he was being punished: inappropriately staring at womens' breasts. When he was displayed to Mags and teased about his bra and breasts and felt up by me, it also no doubt drove the lesson home. And when he was bent over the back of the couch, breasts dangling, undergoing a severe disciplining from my belt, then too no doubt.

With these thoughts running through my mind, and in light of his earlier defiance, I asked him if he thought it was fair and appropriate that he was put into his bra for Mags to see for his punishment today?

"yes ma'am" he answered.

"Tell me why," I prompted. "Use your words."

Sniffling, he said "It was fair and appropriate because I was staring at a woman's breasts and so it's only right that I have to have breasts also as part of my punishment for that."

He's so articulate, saying this as he stood there, wiggling on the spot with his brassièred chest well displayed to us ladies.

It was a crazy vibe. It felt super real. I had acted my part well, and david had absorbed what could only be described as a "real" punishment (I mean, if you asked me to punish a male, for real, that is exactly what I would do to him). Mags was smirking at him, and at at the same time looked impressed. I'm pretty sure she thought it was real.

I told him he was dismissed and he may go upstairs to put his gym clothes on as he had a training session with Mags yet to go. As he left the living room and was on the stairs I shouted after him, "You can put a T-shirt on, but the bra stays on."

He paused on the stair and said "Awwww! Please!", but he was none too convincing standing there in his bra and panty!

"Bra stays on, mister." I said. "You can feel what it's like to exercise with breasts."

I put up my hand and Mags and I high-fived. I told her not to go too hard on him, as he had been pretty well punished already and I wasn't sure how much more his bum could take. Mags agreed that it was a pretty fierce belt whipping and that he for sure learnt his lesson. She promised she would only use her hand on his bum for this session, which is very unusual for her. david and I both thought she preferred to not get that intimate and thus favoured the implements. Guess not.

david reported back that the exercising was the usual degree of difficulty, but that the spankings between sets were not that rough, and were indeed delivered by her hand to either his pantied or bare butt.


He also said that as he was bent over with his bare bottom waving in the air at her insistence she would run her hand over his buns and comment on how good a whipping he had received from me. Much to his embarrassment she even spread his cheeks slightly to survey and comment on the bruising nearest his asshole. Ha Ha! And remember, Mags is just barely in her twenties. She's just a kid and treating my late thirties husband like this. I know this adds greatly to the humiliation factor. Zero sexual interest from her, total punitive interest!

Nothing more was said about his bra while he was being trained by Mags, however, david felt acute embarrassment throughout, and especially as he did certain exercises, such as push-ups, that impacted his breasts, or jumping jacks that made them jiggle.

And so that's what a subby hubby gets who can't control his wandering eye. Between Mags and I, I think young women walking the streets of our city will finally be safe from any eye-rapings from my man, at least while I'm around! After such an epic and emasculating punishment, I fully expect that next time he spots attractive women in the streets that his eyes would immediately respectfully and submissively lower as they passed. Or else.

Don't touch. Don't even look. Eyes down, mister!

125 comments:

  1. Mistress Julie I have missed your posts and David's training with Mags. You did right by putting him in bra and panties for the offense and letting Mags see him like that. The belt was a good implement for what David did wrong and I'm sure he was properly embarrassed to be dressed and punished in front of Mags. I'm betting she enjoy using her hand on his bare bottom. Please post more often.
    archedone

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    1. Yes, it's been too long since my last post. That was partly due to my ditzy sketch slut being "busy" (no doubt "busy" jerking her little clitty).

      And yes, I thought the "punishment" perfectly fit his crime. Involving Mags was genuinely super-embarrassing for him as their relationship had evolved more into a "physical" I spank you between sets kind of thing and david, being older and wiser, had become a bit of a father figure to Mags. So he was very embarrassed when I treated him like this, giving him "real punishment" in front of her.

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  2. I once did something very similar. My husband is normally well behaved and knows his place. Like most males he does tend to go astray and I discipline him so that he knows who is the boss. At an office party a month back, he was acting very macho flirting and dancing with all the ladies. He is a big shot in office but forgot that he always remains my panty wearing subbie . On returning home I paddled him till he cried and begged forgiveness. Last week there was another get together to celebrate a big contract- This time I was well prepares. Before we left I made him bend over the sofa and administered a very severe belting. Hubby almost rebelled when I then made him wear a black bra under his white shirt. I made sure that both the shoulder and back straps were tightened as much as possible and they almost pinched his skin. I discarded the idea of breast inserts much to his relief. The bra would be covered by his jacket unless he dared to remove his neck tie and coat like he did at the last party. A very meek, and contrite hubby clung to me all through the night. It was like a child hanging on to his mothers skirt. Despite my telling him he refused to dance with anyone other than me. During our dance, I squeezed his reddened ass a few times and he grimaced in pain and was almost in tears. While sitting next to me, I pulled his bra straps and released the elastics. It snapped back and hubby jaws most worried that someone would notice or hear the sound. Luckily for him we got away. I promised him that if he ever misbehaves, I will add a bra to wearing panties every time he goes out, even to work. Although I don't intend to do so, I still plan to surprise him a few occasions and send him out wearing a bra. I find him to be very meek and always trying to remain unobtrusive whilst wearing a bra.
    Love
    Gina

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    1. Hi Gina,

      I see you are an aficionado of brassiere discipline! Have you read Emily's book on it? It's so wonderfully emasculating for him isn't it? How to cut off his balls without all the fuss and muss!

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  3. Dear Ms. Julie,
    This has to be Your best post ever! I can't imagine the humiliation that david felt as he was disciplined by You in front of another Woman in his pretty panties and brassiere! I can imagine the humiliation as he was awaiting Her arrival all pantied and brassiered- something I fantasize about but would be terrified of if it became reality! Thank You for sharing Your description of his well-deserved feminization and corporal punishment- I am certain that Your readers will be fascinated with this post! I would be delighted to see david forced to wear his pretty bra and panties (and maybe a little lipstick and perfume?) for other training sessions- I am sure his trainer won't mind a bit! And to answer Your question- You are indeed the Queen!!
    Submissive curtsy,
    sissy jennifer

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    1. Why thank you! Best post ever? Yay!

      And what has come out since that I was not fully aware of is that david believed that Mags looked up to him a bit as a father figure (in his mind at least), so him being brought down a peg or two in her presence was major for him.

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    2. love your stuff...............

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  4. You husband will get used to wearing bras. I sure did and I now have enough bras to wear one every day of the week. I have two really cute lace bras that are 42AA and fit my little male breasts perfect. I can and do wear these bras out when I go out with my wife shopping. We are going shopping today! I need a few dresses I can wear to "the office". I have 5 more bras that are also 42AA but a little padded. These work great with my small silicon breast forms. I wear these daily for work at home. My wife has slowly been adding cute work outfits for me to wear every day and she likes to see me get up and get dressed "for the office". And I have a few larger 42D bras that can hold my rather large silicon breast forms. At over 3 pounds each I need a good bra to support them because I usually have them on when wearing my locking maid uniform all day.

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    1. Yes you are fully femmed, leighanne, and kept very much in your place by your strict wife. It's so amusing watching her beat you that I often replay the video you posted. I love how your little legs shake and jiggle as she disciplines you. Ha Ha! It's a wonder that butt plug doesn't shoot right out of your ass given how hard she whips.

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    2. I had a few of your readers ask where the videos are at so I posted them below.

      The spread eagle cuffed to the corners of the bed, gagged and plugged method my wife uses is very effective in training me to be obedient and to be a good sissy.

      She sometimes just takes the time to calmly tell me exactly how I will behave, dress and respond to her with short statements followed by very hard reinforcement with her Spencer Paddle.

      "You will wear a bra every day"

      "You will put on your bra the right way with your hands behind your back"

      "You will wear only panties from now on"

      "I want you shaved smooth every day now"

      "You will use only feminine deodorant"

      "You will wear perfume at all times"

      "When you work at home you will wear a dress or a skirt and blouse"

      "You will cook our meals"

      "You are the maid and you will clean our house"

      http://www.spankingtube.com/video/8561/sissy-leighanne-gets-paddled

      http://www.spankingtube.com/video/36141/sissy-leighanne-gets-more-of-the-paddle

      http://www.spankingtube.com/video/8375/gagged-spread-eagle-and-paddled-and-strapped

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    3. Those cheeks can run, leighanne, but they can't hide!

      My most enjoyable moments spanking my husband is when I get those little legs kicking and those little buns jiggling just like leighanne's.

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    4. No matter how hard I try when she has me secured spread eagle all I can do it kick my legs a little and whimper into my panty stuffed mouth as my ass gets a good beating.

      She love to tell me, "You need a good punishment, go get the bed ready and put something cute on Sissy" and she know I will do it.

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    5. very much as it should be!

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  5. Ms. Julie - At the beginning of your excellent post, you stated that "I exhorted david to concentrate on his driving, though!" Why were david's eyes wandering while driving even if stopped at a light? Aside from himself and others on the road, he had precious cargo in the car ... you.

    I love the manner in which you recount this punishment. At one point you mentioned that this might not be a true, full punishment given that most of your play was just that ... play. What would have been added for a true punishment? Or, did I misinterpret things? This seemed to be both physically painful and humiliating.

    With respect,
    Mitch Philbin

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    1. The punishment was in every way a "real punishment" with regards to the physical and emotional ends. Even having Mags witness that was real punishment as this showed off to her a different side of david and I can assure you he was very genuinely humiliated by it.

      The sense in that it was not was that I don't do this to correct his behaviour. I have no expectation of that as this treatment is what he actually wants!

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      Absolutely love our blog, you're the best (really, you are)! I read your blog regularly don't comment often - seem you have plenty of feedback. My wife spanks me for corrective measures. I like the idea of it until the paddle comes down the first time then I want it to stop because it hurts! If she goes easy on me then shortly after I feel like it wasn't enough (go figure). My wife does not really "scene me", she uses it for correction and she knows I desire it. I have no safe word (she just reads my body language).

      Ok, coming from that perspective, I have a couple of questions:
      - Has David ever used his safe word?
      - I know you keep the scene world separate from reality, but do you think those lines are blurred at all?

      I'm guessing he might use his safe word if a black guy with a big cock showed up and you told him he is getting skewered. He might not though. A big part of being a sub is the sense that it is real which you do a masterful job of. Now Davids limits are well beyond mine, but I can tell you with certainty that if I was punished the way you just described, I would not like it (although I would probably have an erection at first!), and it would work. I would be certain not to get caught again to avoid being punished.

      Lastly. As I have been a long time lurker from the beginning (and only commented twice), and I sometimes still impulsively top from the bottom which I am much better now but still do occasionally (and I kick myself when I do) - I would be honored if you took the time to prescribe punishment for me. If you take the time to do so, I will promise to carry it out!

      Thanks again for the blog, it is a work of art.


      KL

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    3. Hi kl,

      First of all, I love all the interaction on my blog and feel that the comments are as much for the other readers to share experiences with one another as they are for me, so please don't hold back on the comments!

      When we first started playing he had a "yellow" safeword for "slow down" which we used quite a bit to get calibrated. As for you, we don't find we need it anymore so he doesn't get to keep it. He has never used "red" thank goodness.

      I think by the nature of what we do the lines do get blurred. Was he "really" punished for ogling that lady? Matter of interpretation I guess. I wouldn't say he "likes" the kind of strapping I gave him. He does "need it" and "crave it", however. I suspect this is as for you as well.

      And I suggest you don't ask for a punishment from me for topping from the bottom. I make sure those are very not enjoyable for spankos, for example writing lines or standing nose in the corner for an hour. However, if you need me to sentence you to such a thing, I will be only too pleased (though I do require evidence of you having done it - including a video if its corner time - ask lill jo).

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    4. Hi Julie,

      Thanks for the reply and for the second chance on the punishment - my interpretation of your reply is "be careful what you ask for". Advice taken. I'll just go back to going about my business for now!

      Take care,
      KL

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    5. So wise. Really I fail to understand how any "man" would stand in the corner for a half an hour, in a skirt and panties, bottom bare, holding up a little piece of paper with their nose, record a movie of that and send it to me, just because some lady on the internet tells them to. Fail to understand it... but love it!

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    6. Dear Ms Julie,

      It is hard to believe that a grown man (perhaps old enough to be your father) would submit to you like that, and love every minute of it!

      lill (Ms Julie's punished sketch slut) jo

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  6. Honorable Strictjulie:

    Thanks for raising the issue of ogling.

    I'll agree that doing so obviously in the presence of one's girlfriend or wife is disrespectful and if the girlfriend or wife knows how to use a paddle or whip, the offender will and should be substantially disciplined.

    And further, overzealous and obvious ogling is simply low class at best.

    But what say you about discreet ogling- when neither the wife/girlfriend nor the oglee ever knows about the ogling. I'll confess to a naughty and delicious habit of discreetly lingering in the subway until I can follow a delicious female bottom up the escalator. Sometimes it's stand behind said bottom on the right, sometimes it's walk behind said bottom on the left.

    I do believe I am wholly surreptitious in this ogling habit, but it does feel slightly naughty - actually very naughty,

    Any thoughts,

    Best,

    Rosco

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    1. Well, you asked... I find your behaviour highly unacceptable, rosco. It verges on "stalking". If you don't control yourself you might actually get into real trouble (say if those stares turn into an "accidental" bump in the crowded subway). If you see something you like, fine, take a quick glance in passing and enjoy it. DO NOT stare repeatedly, and DO NOT alter your pace or direction as a result.

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  7. I did something similar while on the beach, my wife took me to the beach cabin and blistered my ass with her beach sandals. Ooh those light yet dense plastic beach sandals hurt worse than the leather ones especially the cheaper plastic types sold in carrefour for 5 dollars.

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    1. And beach cabins are none too soundproof! Did anybody here you catching it? Were any marks visible around the edges of your swimsuit? If it was me in my bikini on the beach that you ogled, I would have smirked like crazy at your comeuppance!

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    2. I think so, a couple of ladies were staring at us on our way back to the beach.
      I wear long shorts on the beach so nothing was visible uq

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    3. A lady asked my wife where she bought her sandals

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    4. Miss Julie once did it on the beach in public while is Spain, with her hand and beach sandals.

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    5. What is the date of this post?

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    6. It was actually the Caribbean. March 8, 2013.
      Spain was a different kinky experience!

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    7. I read the post, you are very daring to do it in public like that. The sandal in the picture did not look that painful. It is a moderate one on spanking slippers scale. My wife's arsenal includes far more painful ones. Perhaps that is because slippers are not popular spanking implements in your community.

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    8. Daring i suppose, but nobody minded in the least (except perhaps my husband)! It was short and sweet, of course.

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    9. In a vacation with my wife in Cyprus, in a souvenir shop we found thick leather soled sandals called Apollo sandals, we both bought, one pair for me and 2 for my wife. She also bought a very thick belt. Guess my poor bottom will be always reminded of this holiday the hard way.

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    10. I love shopping for "pervertibles" also!

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  8. My wife makes me carry a purse everywhere we go. At stop lights I have to remove my compact and lipstick and re- apply my lipstick. It stops "wandering eye" perfectly.

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    1. Is is a "man purse" or a lady's bag?

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    2. Very girly, very feminine. Definitely never confused for a man purse.

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  9. I mostly feel like im 'gilding the lilly' when I provide a sketch for a post like this Ms Julie Ma'am. My little sketch versus your wonderful word pictures... Anyway, I thankyou for the kind words about the sketch Ma'am.

    Curtsy

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    1. Your sketches are wonderful, and I SO ENJOY having my very own sketch slut!!! A real luxury for a blogger such as myself.

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    2. Ms. Julie doesn't exaggerate, lil josephine--that was an excellent sketch. And lil jo doesn't exaggerate either, Ms. Julie, when he says "...your wonderful word pictures..." Your narrative skills are a worthy match for your exciting content.

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    3. Thankyou WhMs (H)

      Curtsy

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  10. A wonderful account of a fitting punishment. Is David really that scared of chastity?

    Ted the switch

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    1. Terrified! He loves jerking his cock to Internet porn. I indulge him.

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    2. That is a shame, chastity play can be a blast. Not cuming never killed anyone. Plus you don't need a device (though they are extremely inexpensive now) to play, you can just use the honor system. I guarantee that if David goes two weeks without cuming he will do anything for the privilege.

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    3. Oh I want the device. When I make rules, I want to BE SURE they are enforceable.

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  11. Hello Miss Julie,
    I so enjoyed this post. Yes there is a difference between glances and glaring. I know when I was younger, I found my self glaring, but now I keep it to glances or just observations. I do look, I know not to act. If I want to glare, there is the internet and mistress there in many states of undress, like yourself.

    Little jo's drawing are wonderful and you are so lucky to have him/her fallowing and doing your bidding. I have glared at those pictures too.

    I have read some of the brassièred. I hope to one day buy the whole book series.
    and yes it does say"a husband who ogles other women's chests
    should be given breasts that are undeniably feminine, to understand what it is like to have his chest stared at. "
    I think david had fun, too.

    Thanks again for sharing.
    pie pie 4 now
    pieclown

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    1. Thanks for the compliment Pie Clown. We should catch up!

      lill (Ms Julie's punished sketch slut) jo

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    2. You sound like you've learned to behave yourself over the years. Good boy!

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  12. I bet he just loved jumping and running with bouncing breasts. You should ask Mags if she would like him to start wearing a sports bra to workouts.

    Emily

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    1. He definitely did not love it. Ha Ha!
      And yes, sports bra next time would be more practical.

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    2. At the very least he should he have one or two for her to pick from since she has can choose his workout clothes

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  13. Dear Julie, have you ever heard of Brian Zembic?
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brian_Zembic
    https://www.google.de/search?q=brian+zembic&biw=1366&bih=651&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&sqi=2&ved=0CAYQ_AUoAWoVChMInuzh0qmvxwIVyVwUCh05OwBi

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    1. The "ultimate" punishment for staring at a woman's breasts!

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  14. If I get a spanking every time I stare, my bottom will be bruised all the time.

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    1. I don't have a problem with that (the constantly bruised bottom that is!)

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  15. During lunch with my wife, I stared at a young woman sitting outside at a table in courtyard the entire meal. I thought I was slick. My wife never let on that she noticed.

    Weeks later she invited me to go to her spa/salon then to that same restaurant for lunch. We shared the same stylist so I thought nothing of it. I gave up my clothes when we indulged in a mud bath before our hair appointment.

    The stylist was one of my wife's best friends so the three of us gabbed during my haircut. I never realized that the stylist cut my hair into a girl's pixie cut until she spun me around.

    "You're going to go out into the courtyard and have your lunch while I get my haircut," my wife said as she held up the exact outfit the girl I had stared at was wearing. "Do you remember? What color were her nails?"

    "Black," i choked out as all the women in the salon stared at me.

    Fresh from a body waxing and manicure, I slipped on a black thong, jean shorts with the thong showing (yes, it was the fad then), a black bra that showed through the pastel blue t-shirt and pastel blue sandals. I was so close to going into shock my wife had to bitch slap me to my senses before sending me outside.

    It was the longest hour and a half of my life. Men are pigs! They made lewd comments. Gross men twenty years older than me tried to chat me up. One tried to push a slip of paper with his phone number inside my bra. The stares seemed pasted to me for days.

    The horror didn't stop there. My wife forced me to keep the hair until it grew out. When my mother asked about it, my wife explained what happened. Everyone knew I was a gawker by the time it was over.

    We were so young back then. Later, my wife apologized for going too far. But it certainly cured me of ever letting a glance linger.

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    1. Too far? No way. Just right. Taught you a well-needed lesson. If only all wives were so strict and thoughtful...

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  16. Resistance Is Futile! You will take a peek.

    http://soglam.mensup.fr/

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    1. Leighanne's comment proves my point that women are in control, and it's men's fault - men are the problem. "Resistance is Futile! You will take a peek." And she's right. We can't resist at least a peek. True, we have to discipline ourselves to control ourselves, but then we deal with the thoughts and temptations for hours or days while the Leighannes of the world continue the pleasure of seduction with impunity. They are above blame or even criticism, but our minds are raped.
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    2. Gee, I don't know how to say this, stan, but leighanne's actually a boy. That's her "gurl" name.

      But your point is well taken. The photos on that site are certainly eye catching, including for me!

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    3. I am a married Sissy husband. My wife has trained me to be a very submissive and obedient husband. For example:

      1) I ask to masturbate. We actually call it "milking". She will ether tell me I need to be milked or I will ask for a milking.
      2) She prefers to use a Hitachi Wand vibrator to make me quickly ejaculate. Its very fast and permits her and I to direct and save my semen in a small collection container for later.
      3) We save the semen in the freezer until she has st least a cup. This takes me about 40 to 50 ejaculations.
      4) When she tells me it is feeding time I know to go to the bedroom and get dressed in pretty bra panties garter belt stockings and heels. I lay out her ropes and my penis gag with feeding tube.
      5) She likes to tie me tight using a very constructive hogtie and then strap my penis gag in place. She uses a small funnel that is attached higher on the headboard and pours the warmed melted semen into the funnel and watches as it slowly makes it way through the fleet tube and into the back of my mouth. It takes me about 30 minutes of constant swallowing intolerant I am fed all my semen.

      She will tease and call me a cumin ester and a good Sissy. She will pull he URL of pretty women and tell me to enjoy them as I swallow 40 or 50 ejaculations. And she always reminds me after my feeding I need to be milked again.

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    4. Wow! 30 minutes of cum guzzling. That is awesome!

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    5. wow!! She rules the bedroom!!

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    6. Ooo, very creative. I'd love to see a video?

      lill (Ms Julie's punished sketch slut) jo

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  17. Love you take care of your man. Your writing is through the roof. That's a compliment.

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  18. Ms Julie,

    I love your blog. I really look forward to the day when you'll decide to enforce his chastity with a belt or cage. I think it'll move your femdom relationship to an entirely different level.

    Please keep posting! I keep on checking for the latest updates. Major fan of yours.

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  19. Ms Julie,
    I love the blurred line between your "scening" and actual dominance over david! You stated that you are the Queen, so this particular protest against wearing his bra in front of Mags was moot and it was your decision alone! I know that most of your activity is "play", but I love (and suspect that david does as well) that you truly have the final say if/when you want it!

    Respectfully,
    doc

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    1. Miss miss Julie purving is no doubt a common male weakness. I would purv at girls in public to the point I had a stiffy and would get the urge to rub it. My wife noticed this and initially tried corrective spankings with her tawse. While this made me reduce my purving to shorter looks it did not stop my naughty thoughts and I still could not keep my hands off my cock. This behaviour resulted in my wife introducing chastity to my discipline. I now wear a lower body harness that has a cock cage locked to the cock ring of the locking harness and a plug kept secure in my rear. A weight is attached to the cock cage to minimise any visible bulge. The tawsings are also applied while my cage is locked on.

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    2. doc: within broad limits you are right. I have always insisted on a degree of control that's entirely consistent with his not topping from the bottom. He says he gets turned on by being humiliated in front of other women. Enough said. I'll take it from there thank you very much!

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    3. pluggy: you do seem to be incorrigible by other means, so the chastity belt, the anal plugging, and the strict tawsings seem to be absolutely necessary in your case. Congratulate your wife for me for taking care of the common good as she has.

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  20. Have you ever used a fairly big wooden paddle? Say the size of a phrat paddle? If you bend him over and paddle him hard, he will get that deep 'inside the ass' burn that you're trying to achieve with belt inside his cheeks. Have him grab his ankles. Works even better through jeans as the sting is deeper and less damage to the skin, and the sound as it cracks his ass will be the best thing you've ever heard. And yes Ma'am, I'm speaking from experience.

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    1. I have not. But this comment means that for sure I will. Time for a frat paddling!

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    2. Our sorrority padling? Skirt and panties? What do you think?

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    4. Oooh fun! Sue can be head girl and I would be "Sergeant at arms". Yes, he would be tested on slutty dress code, dildo cock sucking to prove he can do it correctly and represent the sorority properly, and taking it up the ass, because all the pledging sisters have to do that if our companion frat senior boys want it (they certainly don't get it from us senior girls!). And then the paddling! Great fantasy! david will "love" it. Sue too!

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  21. Except here's the deal. I think, as a respectful man, that I am the one that's repeatedly raped by women who enjoy using their beauty to "dangle candy in front of us boys and then not letting us have any." I believe that every pretty girl knows how she can dress in a revealing way (not lewd) and control the desires and thoughts of the men around her. She manipulates my with complete impunity because it's neither proper nor socially acceptable in an increasingly girl-centered culture to do anything but glance and smile. Yet because I am a guy, after she has exploded my desires with impunity and moves on, I then wrestle with my thoughts for hours or days. she has raped my mind. I have no way of doing that to a girl, but it's acceptable for a girl to do anything she wants to a man, and she's exempt from any impropriety, because girls have now dictated that "ladies have every right in the world to dress however they wish." and "Ladies should dress exactly as they please, and males should control their behavior." So even though a pretty girl can control my thoughts and desires like a switch, and she can turn be upside down or inside out as will, any unacceptable reactions from the encounter are the man's fault, and that because girls have said so. There is no way to win, so when confronted by a pretty girl who wants to flaunt herself in any way, I have no option but to just melt in weakness and submission to her, and wish I could have that kind of power.
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    1. Your point?

      No. really, I'm very glad we have this effect on you. And yes, of course we know it. My Mom was teaching me from a young age how to do this to men (although she did not call this out specifically!).

      But really, you are raping yourselves. Sort of like if a woman handed you a dildo, told you to drop your pants in front of her and her friends, and shove it repeatedly into and out of your anus. The sad truth? Most men who read this blog would actually do it. Sigh! Not our fault!

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    2. I guess one question is, just because you CAN do it, SHOULD you? Is it right? Knowing the sexual weakness of men, is it right to exploit it? Isn't that defrauding? There's no way a man can turn off the way a girl in sexy attire affects him. Even if I control my response, it's still sort of a mental rape because you are exploring your advantage? I will accept your judgement.

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    3. Of course we should, silly!

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    4. Darn, it's such a one-way torment, and a one-way manipulation.
      Stan

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  22. Julie,
    I have enjoyed your blog almost since the beginning. I must admit that chastity play has always seemed like a natural progression for you and David. I don't know about a long term lock up, but I do think a short lock up for David would be a great way to remind him that every part of him belongs to you. I am occasionally locked for short periods, and it serves as a great reminder that my attention should be focused on my wife, not on other women or my hand. I think a short lockup that included some humiliation, a spanking, and lot of "worship time" would be a great way to remind David to whom he belongs.
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    1. Yes, I am heading that way. While long term lock up may be out of bounds, a weekend in chastity I think I can impose on him under our rules. I'm thinking my sister would enjoy seeing him locked up and teased blue for a weekend. That should add some nice humiliation to it!

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    2. Miss Julie,
      If you try a weekend of lockup with a CB chastity cage be aware that a rash can occur on the inner thigh where the silicone rubs when walking. I encountered this when loose fitting boxer shorts were worn. To enable long term chastity my wife replaced my boxers with her tight fitting satin thongs that wrap around the cage and prevent direct skin contact. I am now kept in long term chastity and on the rare occasions that my strict wife releases me my wrists are cuffed to the sides of the waist belt of my plug harness so I cannot touch my cock.

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    3. Julie,
      A weekend of chastity will be a very good time. My wife was not that turned on by it, but after the first lockup it gets her juices flowing. I must admit that I have a fantasy of my wife showing off her locked up husband to a friend; although I think the humiliation would be awful. The first time out on the town, was terrifying, even though no one could tell. And then there is the fact that when I am locked I have to sit when I pee; drives home the fact that I am her bitch! Lol. You will enjoy it, I have no doubt. As for David, I can't believe that with his submissive nature that it wouldn't be a huge turn on as well well. I always have a little tinge of fear when my wife tells me to put it on, takes the key, and clicks it shut, but I enjoy the time she keeps me locked, it is almost like we're dating again. Good luck, I'm sure it will be a good time, at least for you! - AJ

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    4. Ok, I'm convinced. Poor david!

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  23. Ms Julie
    Excellent post--ogling ladies is not permitted and your punishment of david is the future normal consequence for male behaviour dis- regarding the feelings of all women.
    kind regards marco

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    1. Absolutely. Stare at tits? You get to wear tits and be stared at, and a hard belt whipping to boot!

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  24. Just Admiring - When I look at a pretty woman, I do not wish to have sex with her. Women are the most beautiful of God's creation, and I am admiring beauty. I am not wanting to have sex with her. the only exception is if she is deliberately seducing me, and then it's still not that I want to have sex with her, it's that I feel powerless and just want to do whatever she wants me to do.
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    1. My husband says that when he sees a pretty woman in the streets he immediately thinks what it would like to be spanked by her!

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  25. Life is pretty simple. Men want sex. Women own and control sex. Therefore women make all the rules, and men have to obey them. It's really not that complicated.
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    1. Yes, and we finally have the laws and the enforcement to back that up. I mean if a man even dares to touch a woman in an unwelcome fashion he can now expect to serve time in prison, be labelled a "sex offender", and perhaps never work again. In fact, he might be forced to sell his ass to other men just to make ends meet. I love it! ;-)

      Now all we need are similar laws for eye rapings!

      And you know the very funny thing. The laws are not written so as to only apply to men. A woman would face similar consequences. As if that would happen! imagine a woman "subway groper" grabbing mens' asses. Ha!

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    2. I have been overpowered by 3 women in my life. Once physically (we were both minors), and twice sexually. In the one case I was overwhelmed physically by a girl larger and much stronger. In the other two the women got into my head and raised my desires to the point where she could no longer be resisted. I can't defend this, I just know I was to weak to withstand it. I wish I weren't.

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    3. Of course I agree. We men should never disrespect to a girl, no matter how sensual or provocative they are. And I would never grab or grope, or eye-rape. I just don't know how to keep girls from affecting me so much.
      Stan

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    4. Men want sex...until they get it, and then they don't want it for awhile. One of the reasons why chastity is a powerful tool. But use with caution! Like not punishing for 'real relationship issues', denying sex can make things explode in a relationship.

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  26. Wow. What a hot post!
    We men are terrible -- and right in front of you, too!!
    We can't help ourselves... so we certainly need punishment. Brassiering seems very appropriate. Just "fits the crime" in a bunch of ways...heh! Although i'm guilty of mouth-watering watching ladies behinds in tight pants, too...

    Now, wearing a bra IN FRONT OF Mags would be horrifying!! There's one thing to be spanked, or wearing panties... but a bra is especially embarrassing!! I still find it almost impossible to put one on right in front of my wife, but panties are no problem.

    Love how you did it all. And, I'll say, the high-five at the end was a nice touch, lol! :)
    Tenting my panties here, and well-covered with my jog bra, taking a break from tasks....
    sara e

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    1. That's why I went to the bra, david whips those panties on now as if it were the most natural thing in the world. Don't want that!

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  27. One interesting point of ogling as a sub male is, now, sometimes i want my Wife to see it... not because i want punishment, but so she does think/know i'm still into women, vice guys. Go figure :)
    Yes, a jogging session with water-filled balloons in a jog bra would probably be david's next step, lol!
    sara e

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    1. Oh, I think she'll get the message, but it will be your bum that will pay the price!

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  28. I am married to a VERY vanilla woman, so other than just serving her well, I haven't been able to convince or even seduce her into a FLR. However, I notice that women at work have somehow pickup up on, and capitalized on my submissiveness around women. For example, I am one of 4 executives in my office, and the other 3 are young women. We have the same responsibilities and no oversight over each other - we all report to the same boss (a middle-aged woman). the three girls know how to control me somehow, and so even though I don't drink coffee, I come to work early and make it before they get there. They have trained me exactly how strong or weak to make it, depending on the time of day. They also make me maintain the variety of creamers. i also provide them (by keeping a supply on my desk, from which they help themselves freely) chewing gum, breath mints, and dark chocolate. And there are many other favors, professional and personal which i do for them on a daily basis. I don't know how I got into this, but I can't resist them. Their smile, their hair, their dress, the way they "ask" me (or sometimes tell me) to do their bidding. I am just unable to resist obeying and serving them. I do have a lot of feminine personality traits (everyone is one mixture or another), and I admire and cherish women, so I am sort of treated as "one of the girls" by the ladies in the office (these 3 and others), but somehow, they don't serve each other that much, they "require" that I serve all 3 of them, and once in a while other young ladies in the office require favors as well. By the way, 75% of the employees in my office are women. Job inequality?
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  29. So is this is proper, that the women in my office require that i, a professional "equal, " serve them as they please?? I do realize that, even though I lower my eyes when necessary and don't touch them (although they touch me in non-sexual ways-non sexual to them), i do realize my career is in their hands and I have to obey them not just because they are women, but because they can have me fired anytime they want and I would lose my job.

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    1. Ya ha. You better do as you're told.

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    2. As you have said, I appear to have no choice. It's hell and heaven at the same time - being dominated by three women at work.
      Stan

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  30. LIke your husband David when i see Female in street or Public places i wonder what like be spanked by her or if she into spanking and would take me over her lap for spanking to teach me lesson i even almost look for chance have conversation with her

    i have admit my eyes do wander down to female backside all time i look at female butt and go hmm sometime i want take cell phone out take pic of her butt so yes iam gulity all time looking at female butt

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  31. Ms. Julie, i want to add saying "thanks" for the Brassiered site link.
    Of course, i'd been there in the past, but good to read through it a bit more thoroughly this time. Of course, i'm mortified by my thought of showing it to my Wife -- too many humiliating possibilities there! Off to find some water balloons i suppose! sara e

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    1. I was very titilated by it myself. There is something delicious about "brasiering" my husband as a punishment!

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  32. Thank You Ma'am for another wonderful and enlightening post! I love the Brassiering...seems most appropriate to the "crime"...and in front of Mags too! To be punished in front of a woman so much younger than him must be quite humiliatiing! I also love the corner time...always punishing!

    Your post also taught a valuable object lesson, Ma'am...it reminded me as a male that the Female body is not my personal "eye candy"...and that my eyes should be kept respectfully and submissively lowered in a woman's presence! Thank You most humbly and respectfully, Ma'am!

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    1. Indeed they should. It would certainly amuse me no end, bringing a real smile to my face, if i I saw a man catch a glimpse of me and then quickly lower his eyes to the ground in embarrassment.

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  33. Ma'am...i think You'll be pleased to know, that Your article here has certainly had an influence on my behavior. Since reading Your attitudes on males "eye raping" women, i have been very careful to avoid it...and when i see a woman approaching me, i mentally repeat my new mantra..."eyes lowered in respect and submission"! This even works at the gym among all those yoga pants!

    Thank You Ma'am for the positive influence You have on the submissive male...and for helping to remind this particular male of his place!

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  34. I'm late to comment this, summer is long gone (but women can look so attractive in a different way in Autumn, walking among fallen leaves in pretty coat, dark pantyhose and... sorry)
    It was an interesting read! I find it very exciting/comforting to be threatened to be punished for looking at cleavage/legs in the streets.
    It's hard to explain... it's a pain not being able to capture the beauty that will vanish with time. The level of physical pain is the translation of how sublime women are when they hit my eye in an instant. It has to leave a concrete mark. Does it make sense? : / Gazing at cleavage in the street HAS to be forbidden anyway, thank you for taking care of this

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    1. I think I know what you mean. It is the male's choice. He can either not look at all, or he can look and pay the consequences. That is right and proper.

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    2. You are right !
      It's a pain not too look, and it's also a physical pain if you look, because women like you have bewitched the world. Beaudelaire said something like " there is pain in everything beautiful " : )

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    3. Yes, especially in a man's lust for a woman!

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  35. I feel fortunate that breasts have a secondary appeal to me and female bottoms are first. I lessens my chances of getting caught looking, although many women seem to have eyes in the back of their heads!

    Forced to wear a bra has a humiliating effect that dwarfs what panties do to me. Having to shop for panties is quite bad. Bra shopping with sales help is somehow so much worse. Being in public with heavy, bouncing breast forms us outer subspace!

    I love your blog and how the comment section so often explodes!

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    1. Yes, you boys, even the non cross-dressers, can so easily get used to the panty. The bra is a different thing altogether!

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