Friday, October 21

Reader Reactions to Julie's Upcoming Paddling

A number of my "loyal" (hah!) readers have taken a certain joy in contemplating my upcoming paddling, as you can read in the comments on Julie in for a Severe Paddling! (part 1). There have also been some emails. The most successful is from a man named D. It really brought home the reality of what I am facing in a tummy squooshing manner.

Miss Julie, I've followed your blog for awhile. I know you enjoy dishing out the embarrassment, but wondered if you would ever experience it yourself. Well, your face is blushing hot now, isn't it, young lady? You must know there is no way to be naked over a woman's knee for a strict paddling and maintain your dignity at the same time. You have something to think about.

I see you in that position, and it's a vision of intense embarrassment. I can taste it. I feel embarrassed for you. Strict Julie, the one who has ruled over her husband with supreme dominance, has subjected him with glee to such suffering, is now bare, upturned, and exposed. You'll be totally naked, right? Your pretty bottom will certainly be bare. Have you ever clenched your sensitive bottom cheeks in anticipation of a punishment spanking? You should be clenching them in dread.

Finally it's going to happen. Can you believe it? You're getting a SPANKING! When the time comes, you'll be asking yourself again and again, is this really happening? Am I actually being punished like a naughty little brat? You have good reason to be afraid of your Daddy's paddle. I hear maple burns. You'll never be more aware of your bottom being bare. Do you think you'll be able to hold up over Tracy's knee? I see the big, bad Strict Julie over her lap, and it is not ending well for you.

I'm actually a little concerned and wonder if you really know what you've gotten yourself into. Your delicate skin has never even tasted the hardwood. I mean tasted it HARD. 24 good hard licks with nothing between the paddle your Daddy made and your bare. A wood-fire paddling not under your control! This is really long overdue, young lady. I think it's about time you were not in control. Time for some frantic bottom wiggling. And some tears. When was the last time Strict Julie cried like a thoroughly repentant little girl?

I would love to see you getting your red bottomed paddle spanking from Tracy. She will be in control. Will she take good care of a tingling hot girl after her spanking? Being vulnerable under control is such a different experience than what you're used to.
Oh Golly Gosh! Well that 'sorta hit the nail on the head! I emailed back and thanked him for my teasing, and encouraged him to write more, which he did.
Anticipation is an important part of the experience. The butterflies in your tummy. The increased heart rate. That paddle is going to sting like nothing you've felt before, and you'll sit on pins and needles waiting for your punishment as part of the punishment. You're feeling what many boys and girls have felt in this situation. It's a humbling feeling. It should be sexually exciting, a push and pull of the dread you have for the paddle, thinking about how you will be exposed with the blood flowing to your sensitive nether regions. Before and after a blister spanking is a time for strong arousal.
I wrote back noting that he said "before and after", but how about "during"? Is that just pure fiery hell, or is there arousal during? As much as I spank my husband, I don't know the answer to that. He responded.
I hear there are some people who can be aroused during a hard paddle spanking. I believe it's rare, and expect that it takes some building up a tolerance and acclimation to that level of pain. If one craves that pain, then their masochism is driving their experience. Even for someone who isn't a hardcore masochist, the excitement surrounding the activity of being punished releases chemicals in the body that can make the pain more tolerable.

You won't know what it's like for you until it happens. I expect that it will be no different than what most people experience. If Tracy means business, then during the spanking I think you'll be angry with yourself that you ever agreed to such a thing. Then you'll have a burn on your bottom that will be uncomfortable for awhile. That burn for some, or the soreness that remains even longer, is an arousal of an erogenous zone, but you don't know yet how that works for you. What drives you, though, is the eroticism of the event. Certain aspects of it have that effect on you. Those who really crave that arousal take the unpleasant spanking that goes with it. Being a sorry, embarrassed little girl is inherently unpleasant. If your spanking is a success, then you will still be glad you went through the ordeal.

Considering that you are a Dom, and generally do not fantasize about being spanked, I wouldn't be surprised if you didn't want any more punishment paddlings after this one. That intrigues me because this isn't the usual sub getting spanked because that's who they are and what they want. There's a realism here that is different. You're experiencing a spanking, now the anticipation, eventually the consequences and after effects, more the way it is experienced under *real* circumstances. That's exciting.
Yes, it feels extremely real to me. I will be spanked, really, against a large part of my will, with this tiny part of my will pushing me into it. I wrote back telling him how insightful I thought his comments were, and how they really captured what I felt, expressing it better than I could. I asked  if I could publish his emails here, and if he had anything additional to add, which he did.
Thank you for the compliments, Julie. It appears we have similar feelings about what a spanking experience can be. You can use in your blog something I write if you feel it belongs there.

I think this anticipation phase of the spanking is the best part actually. You get to live in that role and the mindset that accompanies it. Even before the paddling, you feel naked. What is it like for you to have a Daddy now and be under his control? And to be facing the punishment you're facing? It's certainly 180 degrees away from normality for you and, as such, even more highly embarrassing. Your attitude and actions must respect the reality of your circumstances, where you are not in control. You are experiencing submission and vulnerability.

Are you embarrassed to know that the best thing you can do for yourself now is to be as polite and obedient as you can be? That is generally how boys and girls act when they know they are getting a paddling. You don't dare earn more licks, and if you can demonstrate convincingly that you want to be the best behaved young lady you can be, your Daddy may decide to be more lenient with you. At least that's the hope many have had. For the time being, forget all about being a strong, dominant woman, and face the reality that you are extremely vulnerable facing your first blistering with the paddle. This is no time to be bratty or try to show you're somehow above the over-the-knee spanking you have coming. Though I am enjoying the predicament you're in, and would be noting with pleasure every detail of your exposure and comeuppance, if I was there I'd want to hold your hand and try to help you get through it. These are moments when you're not the strong one but rather the one needing to be taken care of. Your nerves will be raw going into it, and you could be quite emotionally upset by the time it's over. Didn't Tracy promise you won't be sitting when she's done?
Yes, she certainly did, but I don't know how serious she was about that. If she's not a latent spanko she's liable to give me a few weak swats and joke about how I won't be sitting. I don't actually want that. I want a punishment paddling. I want to feel like D describes above, that I just know the spanking will be impossible to take, but that if I don't behave, and don't submit completely to her will, it will be even worse, and even more humiliating for me. For example, her husband called in to see my shame, my bared bottom upraised and my bared breasts dangling as Tracy spanks the brat. Both of them laughing at my naked submission across his wife's knee.

Oh shit!

D wrote some more after I posted the first version of this blog:
Julie, I see the possibility of having John, the husband, there is causing you angst. I completely understand how you do not want him there to see your spanking with the paddle. This is only normal. Of course we don't want witnesses to our punishment. Things are bad enough, aren't they? The emotions should already be plenty for you to deal with. Having a witness there, especially a male, may be too much humiliation for a first experience. If I was Tracy's husband, I can assure you I would want to be there. If he's like me, he'll walk around during the paddling to catch from every angle your naked performance over Tracy's lap. Your facial expressions will be dramatic and unforgettable. From the perspective In front of where Tracy is seated, you'll be presented like a child over her Mommy's knee, and the view will be the full extent of your nudity which, as you write, will include your upturned bare bottom and your bare breasts dangling. Despite having good reason to be proud of your body, this is total exposure in front of another woman's husband. Is that what you want? There should be some frantic movement during the punishment, as if you are performing a bizarre erotic dance for the pleasure of your sexual partner. Do you want him to see that? The prime view, though, will be the display you present from behind. I especially enjoy the kicking feet and desperately wiggling behind and, of course, with all that thrashing around, I don't need to tell you what will be revealed.

As it is happening, you likely won't be in a frame of mind to be concerned about showing your bare pussy and naughty little bottom hole. So you should make it clear that John should not be there. Otherwise, it will only cause you more anxiety now, and after you've settled down from the paddling, you'll have to deal with the shame of knowing he saw everything! We get an erotic charge from the idea of public humiliation, but the reality of it can be more devastating than anticipated. For a first experience, an intensely private affair, sharing your abject vulnerability only with Tracy may be best for you. On the other hand, your Daddy is the one to decide what you need and, if not him, then you are still under Tracy's control. When she tells you something, you're going to say with a red face, "Yes, Ma'am," even should she inform you that John will be present. She may use even the slightest hint of rebellion on your part as an excuse to add the extra punishment of a witness. If it's decided that you are to be paddled in full view of John or other interested party, then what are you going to do? That is the nature of not being in control and where your fragile fate is in the hands of another. This could be a memory that will make you blush for the rest of your days.
I am thinking John will likely not be invited, as that is what I requested, but I have a strange craving to have him invited in to watch just as D describes above. As I think of this scenario, I get wet. Very wet. It's the humiliation. I'm starting to "get it".

My paddling is probably not this week coming up, but next. We are still trying to arrange it. I will post one more preparatory blog entry and then the main event (hopefully!)

Thursday, October 20

Julie in for a Severe Paddling! (part 1)

Oh Shit! How do I get myself into these situations??!!! I am going to have to go over a woman's knee, totally butt naked, and be paddled hard, likely to tears. I'll probably wind up looking like this...

And it will be SUPER embarrassing for me!

I know this is just the sort of blog post some of you just LOVE to see. Julie having to take what she oh so gleefully dishes out to her long suffering hubby. This NEVER happens. A spanking for me that I do not feel totally in control of. I've asked for spankings before, but I'm always 100% in charge, and they were never too hard. This time, I'm voluntarily giving up that control, and I'm due for a genuine blistering.

The reason I've never taken on the subby role is mainly because I usually get very panicked not being in control. There are some things from my past that are no longer relevant and should not still be impacting me, but they are. But I think I need to get over it. So I'm starting with a small but significant first step. I'm asking a woman to paddle me, very likely to tears.

Women in dommy roles don't elicit the same panicky response in me. I got spanked a couple of times before with some female Pro Dommes we played with, and that always was ok. And I have been spanked by david, but he knows all about me and my little panics, and is super sensitive and super delicate with me. Acting subby over email with a guy does not trigger any of the same sort of thing, fortunately. A real heavy duty Dom scene with a man I am not quite ready for yet!

This started on that Daddy Spanks Daughter! post where I "pretended" to be subby with a 'fella I met online. We fell into Daddy and daughter roles (everyone here knows all about my daddy fantasies!). I did it ostensibly to get ideas for a roleplay scene with david. Well it was mission accomplished, and I certainly did get the material I wanted, and we did have a great roleplay as described, but I do have to admit that I fibbed a bit in implying that was the only reason I behaved subby for him. In fact, it was turning me on, and not only picturing myself in the Dommy role, but also >*blush*< in the subby role as well.

This 'fella is a wood-working guy. On his first email introducing himself he offered to make me a paddle.
I am an avid wood worker and have made a few custom paddles as well. Would you like a customized paddle m'lady?
I took him up on it, of course, thinking of using it on my husband.
What a lovely hobby! I would love for you to make me a paddle!!!! What size/shape/material/holes? david will be soooo sore!!!
I will build you one. Do you have a preference as to shape and size? Would you like the "extended warranty"? If yes then I have to test it out on your lovely bottom😁
I'm thinking more OTK-sized, so no more than a foot in total length? But nice thick hardwood. Maybe a half inch thick? Would that work? Beyond that... surprise me!
Yes that will work. Not going to get you to take the extended warranty huh.  I have so much trouble getting women to go with it.  Sighs.  Lololololol😂
Don't worry, I'll test it out very well on my husband's backside!
But but but ..... no fun for me! I will need a address to mail it to though.
Sure. I have a good anonymous one you can send it to.
I have a friend who has a service where you can ship to a US mailing address and it gets forwarded to her here in Canada. So nice and anonymous way to get it to me.I txt'd her trying to get the address. She txt'd back saying she would get it right away, and then she didn't for awhile. Grrrrr.
It's drying now.  I will apply another coat of lemon oil today.  The center is maple, it has an exotic hardwood laminate on both sides. Nothing major fancy in shape.  Get me the mailing address and I will mail it Monday.
He finished making my paddle for me and sent me a photo of it.
The color is the natural color of the wood .  That is not dyed or tinted

It looks beautiful. And wicked!! Well he had held up his end, and I still didn't have that address, and Daddy was getting angry with me...
Ok young lady (in Dom Dad mode today).   I need an address.  Get it to me so I can mail this!
Yes Daddy. I'll bug my friend again right now!
If I have to drive up there you will be a sore sorry girl! 
and then next day...
Ok young lady, that is a dozen on your bare bottom over my knee. I would hurry up before the number doubles. Dad does not like being kept waiting and you know better.
Well that sort of talk, actually, turned me on. I had, justly I thought, earned myself a dozen paddle strokes. Felling submissive, knowing I earned that paddling, I wrote back accordingly.
Oh pooh!
On my bare bottom? Daddy, I'm way too old for that!
And 12 is WAY too many. Not with that paddle! Please Daddy.
But just my skirt up, ok? Please can I keep my panties up? PLEASE!!!
Nope lil lady bare bottom and as of Wednesday it will be 24!  And corner time.  Get going girl or that bottom is going to glow in the dark. [Pulled over my knees, skirt lifted .. panties slowly peeled down and the feel of that paddle rubbing your bottom.] Then ...... lesson learned hard young lady!
I had decided I would take the paddling. And for real. But 12 seemed too few. I thought I would see if I could brat it up and earn a few more...
Yeah, well... what if I say no? huh? What if I put up a fight? I'm pretty strong you know... I'll bite you if you try!
Dad's been bit before, and I think you will submit because you know you've been naughty and deserve it. Now stop being sassy and get me that address young lady.
How frustrating for a subby! He did not "take the bait."
Yes sir... but it's my friend who needs the spanking!
That can be arranged, However you are my main concern. And your cute little bottom is already in trouble. Now get me an address. Friday will be 36 and grounded, no date Friday or Saturday night!
Woah! Not sure about 36!!! Not with that beast of a paddle. Fortunately, my friend came through and saved my ass (literally!)
Got it! Here's the address: [...]
I will ask husband to try the paddle out on me... skirt up, panties down... 12 times...
I will send it tomorrow. And I would like to see your pretty red bottom with the paddle beside you if that is acceptable.
Yes Sir! You do deserve a photo of my spanked cheeks with your paddle resting atop them for your patience, and as payment. In fact, I might post a blog article about the whole episode and include the photo there! Thank you for the paddle gift, Daddy! Excited for it to come in the mail!
He then mailed it, and I teased him for including his return address on there, which I immediately Google Earthed like a nosy parker. Nice spread! But apparently you can't ship parcels without a return address, so I was, according to him, just being sassy,
As for return address, you cannot mail these days without a return address. So no you're not too smart young lady, You're too sassy now. That will cost you 15 min in the corner bare bottom young lady.
No please Daddy! Not bare bottom in the corner! Please! Someone might seeeee!
You better move young lady, or you're liable to end up with you over pillows completely bare ass up high and a thick leather belt being applied. That lesson would stick with you for days young lady...
I'll move, Sir. No need to get your belt out!
But I don't think you fully realize, Daddy, how humiliating it would be for a grown up girl like me to have to strip to bare in front of her Daddy, and then to have to bend over pillows like that. You would see EVERYTHING there was to see of me! I've looked at myself like that in the mirror. You would see my pussy and my bottom hole! And then with the belt licking I'm sure my legs would kick and spread and then I would be gaping wide open for you to see.
That's.. sniffle... just not... sniffle... right!
Yes, I was getting into it. These exchanges excited me. And of course he knew that from the tone of my replies, so he would randomly throw in stuff out of the blue into my email, like at night,
Bed time young lady!  Now!  March!  [Smacks your bottom]
And then in the morning,
[Walks in your room carrying the paddle. Flips the covers back and your nighty up.]
Young lady I have had enough of your sass and attitude!
Now you get out of bed and get ready for your classes like I told you to.
You have 15 minutes before I come back up here and we start over!
Actually, reading stuff like this made me blush, and flush, and get a little wet, truth be told. It was warm and comfy having a Daddy again, and one who spanks to boot!

Then a few days later from him:
Have you checked with your friend today on the paddle?
She'll tell me soon as she gets it, Sir. When she gets it I'll go over to visit her and ask her for twelve good and hard paddle swats to my bare butt while across her knee. And a photo of my bare red ass with the paddle on the small of my back. Your payment, Sir. Is 12 adequate, Sir, or do I need more for being slow and sassy?
So, at the time I wrote that, getting a spanking from my friend was still wishful thinking. I still had not talked with her, only txt'd. She's a work colleague of mine from a previous job. Her name is Tracy. We became friends and we stay in touch. She's married. She's also very attractive. And I sensed quite "in charge". I have a bit of a thing for women as some of you blog readers know, and I for sure would not have minded getting it on with Tracy. She did not know at all about my spanking life, and I never made a pass at her or anything, but I was even then wondering if a spanking from her could be arranged, or maybe even more...
12 is appropriate for now, however if I do not see your bare bottom in the corner for being sassy immediately the number will be doubled!!!
I wanted more. 12 was for wimps. So I decided again to play the brat and see what happened.
Well I'm not standin' in no stinkin' corner!
Excuse me young lady!  Fine!  12 on your bare bottom and 12 on your upper thighs at the sit spot!! You're little ass is going to be so blistered...  you are in so much trouble!
Ooops!!!! I didn't think I could take 12 on the thighs!!! The perils of being a subby! Little bratty julie had some quick tap dancing she needed doing!
Daddy, sir, I wanted to first say, I am really really sorry for being sassy with you and for being so mouthy and disrespectful. I am also very sorry about taking so long to get you that address, sir. It's not my friend's fault. It's my fault.
Just, please sir, not another 12 on my bare thighs sir. Please! that's a really, really sensitive area on me, and I just know I could not take it, sir. I'll go over the knee sir, even in my birthday suit, sir, if that is what you require. And I'll take 12 paddle strokes to my bare bottom. Or even more, sir, if that's what you require. I'm just... It's just... not on my upper thighs, please! PLEASE! I'm really, really sorry, sir... I beg of you, sir. Please! Anything else. Please!
respectfully, and penitently,
your julie
Fortunately, the brat got her way. We pretty little girls know how to wrap our Daddies around our little fingers!
I will grant you your request this time young lady. However it had better stop or I will use the strap on those thighs.  24 on your bare bottom over the knees. If it is not a sufficient spanking when I check it will be repeated. Am I CLEAR!
Thank you, Daddy
I appreciate your remorseful attitude, I hope you mean it and have learned your lesson. In doing so you admitted telling me a lie. You blamed your friend. Now faced with punishment you admit the truth. Yes you will get the full 24 on your bare bottom. If I hear any more whining you will be sending me an audio of your spanking as well as the picture.  Understood?
Yes, Sir. Understood.
24... Gulp! That's a lot more than 12! Not sure I had thought that fully through. Ok, 24 it was. Now how to get Tracy to do it? I was wondering how I was going to approach the spanking thing with her, when what did you know but she called me. We caught up a bit and then she said she needed to ask about the package. Her husband was on her about it. What was in it?  I told her it was a tad embarrassing. She asked me if it was legal, which is what was on her husband's mind. I assured her it was perfectly legal.

"Well what is it?" she asked.

"Do I have to say?' I asked with what I thought was a cute little pout and a whine. I wanted her to press me on it.

"What? Is it a dildo?" she asked. Whoa! good guess!

"No!" I said.

"You better just tell me. If you don't, I'll open it up anyways and John and I can see for ourselves when it gets here."

"Noooo! Don't let him see it!" I whined.

"Then you better tell me," she said. I think she's pretty naturally dommy!

I sighed and said, "fine, it's a paddle if you must know."

"What? Like a canoe paddle?" she asked, sounding mystified.

"No, silly. It's a spanking paddle." (blush, blush, blush!)

Then she laughed. She actually laughed out loud. "Who's gettin' spanked, little girl?"

I guess based on how reluctant I was to tell her, she figured it was me on the receiving end. But her "Who's gettin' spanked, little girl?" made me kind of flushed and excited.

"Well, it's usually my husband, but this time I have to 'pay for' the paddle by getting 24 swats myself first, on the bare butt, and a photo!"

"Interesting paddle shop you're dealing with," she said, "they don't take Visa?" ha ha

I explained to her how it was an online thing where I was exchanging emails with this guy I met on some forum and he offered to make me a paddle in exchange for the swats and the photo and I accepted.

She was surprised, and kind of scolded me, "You're telling me you're going to send some guy you don't even know, a picture of your bare butt in exchange for this paddle? And he's not going to come find you and rape you?"

"yes..." I said, sheepishly, "a picture of my paddled bare butt to be exact," I added, "and he's nice..."

"So who's doing the honours?" she asked coquettishly, "your husband?"

"well yes... unless you want to..." OMG!!!! So bad!

"Hmmmm..." I hear her pondering over the phone.

"Just you, not John," I added hastily. I was not quite ready for her husband to see my bare butt getting the paddling of a lifetime!

"Well I'd be happy to do the honours," she concluded. "But I do tell John everything."

"Fine, you can tell him," I said, "but he can't be there."

"Agreed. So I guess this will be my payment for you using my forwarding service, eh?"

"yes ma'am," I said. See? I know how to address a Dominant Woman!

"It'll be fun, paddling your little butt," she said.

Yummm! She said she'd enjoy it. And referred to my "little butt". That's kind of sexual, isn't it? I felt I needed to warn her one more time about what she was getting herself in for.

"It has to be 24 hard ones. Bare butt and across your knee according to him. And they need to be hard ones for the photo. Is that ok?"

"Don't you worry. I'll paddle your butt real good. You won't be sitting after I'm done."

HOLY SHIT!  What have I gotten myself into????

After that exchange, that was so exciting, I started sort of obsessing about it. At the very same time I wanted it to happen and didn't want it to happen!

Would this be her?
Will she take it seriously and really blister me? Do I want her to?

Will she insist I keep my panties up, regardless?
But no, Sir said bare bottom and I even told her that and she agreed.

But there's more than one way to bare a bottom...
Imagine if she did that? If she pulled my panty into my crack, splitting my pussy lips and my ass crack, wedging the material to rub hard against my clit and a-hole... OMG she would see and smell how wet my pussy was! It was humiliating to think about cumming while across her knee!!!

But no. Way more likely she'll lower them. Oh no... she's going to lower them!!!!
So embarrassing... When I think about this moment butterflies flutter in my tummy. Across her knee like a 6 yr old getting my panties lowered! She was a Woman. And I was going to be reduced to the status of bare bottomed little girl!

And then I'm 'gonna get paddled...
Is this going to be me??? Is that what a girl shows off when she gets a spanking??? Oh gosh.

Will we have some fun afterwards???

Or is this all the "fun" I'm going to be having?

(See follow-up Readers React)

Part 2 coming soon...

Saturday, October 15

Daddy Spanks Daughter!

So... I've been engaging in a very fun back and forth e-mail exchange with a male switch. For kicks, I fell into the role of his young adult daughter and he my Daddy, and I went all submissive on his ass! Why? I needed inspiration. I needed to know the words to use, the attitude to adopt when I was to punish my "young adult daughter", my husband david.

Yes, my intent was to play the Daddy role: jeans, cowboy boots, thick plaid shirt, heavy men's belt. I was going to force my husband, david, into the bratty daughter role: bra and panties, skirt, blouse, makeup. The offense was missing curfew last night, being seen making out with a boy in the car outside our house, and a general pattern of sassiness and disrespect that needed nipping in the bud.

I derived all sorts of inspiration from my email exchange, so thank you Sir! It's very funny how I get so turned on by these submissive exchanges. When I am acting the brat, or the penitent girl, I am imagining my husband in that role and relishing his submissiveness, and imagining myself in the top role, doling it out and gaining that respect. Even the "girl on bottom" and "man on top" turns me on, because I think of my husband as "the girl" and me as "the man" most of the time anyways when we play. So, I thought I'd illustrate this post entirely with "Daddy spanks grown Daughter" images, as there are no shortages at all of those, and girls make (and have!) wonderful bottoms.

For example, here's a lovely image of a daughter waiting for her parent to come upstairs and give her the paddling of a lifetime. She knows she has done wrong and must now face the music. How cruel, yet appropriate, for her to contemplate the instrument of her correction while she waits in her bedroom.

This young lady I imagine is receiving a spanking from her father. She is fortunate that he is only using his hand, and that she was allowed to keep her panties and top on for this punishment. She will not be so sassy anymore after this spanking. And notice that she is not going anywhere until the lesson has been learnt!

This girl is not so fortunate. Her offense called for a bare bottom spanking. She was told to get ready for bed and then Daddy came into her room, sat on her desk chair, pulled her over his lap, and amidst much girlish protesting lowered her pajamas to bare her bottom. How embarrassing for a girl to have her bare bottom seen and spanked by her Daddy!

If Daddy is very angry, he might just upend his daughter like in the above photo, bare her cheeks, and hand paddle her. This is the same position he used to change her diapers in. What a shame that now she needs to be spanked and paddled like this, so exposed.

This young lady above is clearly about to be spanked. To drive the point home, Daddy makes her wait for her spanking with her bare buns exposed.

Sometimes, to really drive the point home, a birthday suit spanking is the only thing that will do the job. Imagine a girl having to bare her breasts and pussy in front of her Daddy!!!!

This schoolgirl is clearly feeling the burn from Daddy's strap. And on her bare bottom! Hang onto those pillows, young lady, for dear life. This will be a strapping you will remember!

 This one had her buns spanked by Daddy's hand first across his knee. But daddy was not satsified with the attitude adjustment. He did not think a lesson was learned. So this daughter needed to go to her bedroom and bend over the pillows with her panties down waiting for daddy's strap to teach her what his hand could not.

For more serious offenses, such as lying or stealing, a more severe punishment is called for. The girl must remove her clothing and bend over for the belt or paddle. How humiliating that the girl will have to expose everything she so desperately wants to keep hidden from her Daddy!

Here is what the aftermath might look like. I tell you, naughty daughters are well advised to be on their best behaviour when they have a spanking Daddy!

After a serious spanking, a girl must do an extended timeout in the corner. In her birthday suit even to drive the lesson home. This girl will certainly think twice before lying to her daddy again about dating boys!

This one as well. Bare naked corner time after a strapping in the living room. Her exposed ass will serve as an object lesson for her brothers and sisters, and their friends, and knock her down a good peg or two. Show the boys those little titties, girl!

I don't know why, but I've always had this Daddy-Daughter "thing". I like to think about a daughter spanking her daddy, but equally about a daddy spanking his daughter, but with me in the Daddy role and my husband as my "daughter". Weird. Also, the thought of spanking girls does turn me on as well, as you can tell from my photo gathering expedition above!

So, I ran this role play past my husband and he was, of course, all in. It did not stop him from blushing like a schoolgirl as I dressed him and made up his face. He is still particularly embarrassed by the bra and breast forms. I also had him wear his white cotton patterned panties. I put him down in front of the TV, sitting straight, with the TV off as I went to change. He waited for me, knowing he was in trouble. Big trouble! In our scene, she had been caught the night before (a Friday night). Now it was Saturday afternoon, when the reckoning was going to occur. I decided to call her Emma.

I came into the room with the punishment paddle in hand.

"Emma! You are in a lot of trouble, young lady. Making out with a boy?!? Missing curfew!?! When is your curfew on a Friday night?" I asked.

"10pm, Sir," she answered.

"And what time did you get in the door?"

"11pm, Sir."

"That's right, 11pm. One full hour late. 60 minutes. 60 strokes of the paddle."

"Oh no, Sir, please!"

"I have been entirely too lax with you, missy. 60 strokes, and they're going to be on the bare."

"No Daddy! You can't! I'm grown up now! I haven't gotten a spanking since I was 12!"

"Exactly. And look what happens as a result. Sassiness. Disrespect. Breaking curfew. I am putting a stop to all of that young lady. Starting today. As well, you lied to me! You said you were going out last night to the movies with your girlfriends. Instead, I catch you alone in a car with a boy, making out."

"I wasn't lying, Daddy. I did go out with my friends. It's just Brad offered me a ride home is all..."

"Do you take me for a fool, girl? Are you allowed to date?"

"No Sir, but..."

"Shush! No buts about it. You lied to me. You were alone with a boy. And you were making out with him!"

"I'm sorry..."

"Not half as sorry as you're going to be for lying and dating without permission, young lady!"

"But Daddy! I'm practically a grown woman! I'm in College. All the girls in College date!"

"And if all the girls in College got themselves a venereal disease and got themselves pregnant you would do that as well?"


"Enough talk! I have had enough of your sass and attitude. Now stand up."

david stands and I sit on the sofa. I pull him forcefuly across my knee by the arm. I flip up his skirt and pull down is panties, baring his cheeks.

"No Daddy! Please! Please not bare!" he says as I lowered his panties to his knees.

"Yes, young lady. 60 paddle strokes on the bare for breaking curfew by 60 minutes. This bottom is going to glow in the dark before I'm done."

And with that I started spanking him with the paddle. The dialog above is probably not exact, as I'm going from memory, but that is the gist of it. We did play off each other back and forth like that. And I did get in some of those key "catch phrases" I picked up from my pen pal Daddy.

I did not go easy on my naughty daughter's ass. 60 hard strokes of the paddle to the bare ass is no joke. And I didn't even warm him up. I was going for authenticity, and I didn't think a real daddy would warm up his daughter's ass before her punishment. Too bad for her. Authenticity is a bitch!

"In the corner, young lady," I said after I had finished her sixty.

"Daddy no! Somebody will see! No!"

"Yes young lady. Bare bottom in corner, if someone sees that is too bad. I will not have your sassy attitude. Now get your bottom in the corner and I want to see it!"

I left him red-bummed and cornered for a few minutes. When I came back, my belt was coming off.

"That was for breaking curfew, Emma. You still need to be punished for the lying, disobedience, and misbehavior with a boy. A good belting should take care of that."

"No! Please Daddy! My bum is so sore already! And it wasn't a date!"

"Shush girl! Lying to me is the worst you could do.  I seriously hate being lied to. From now on that will end up with you in your bedroom, over pillows, completely bare, ass up high, and a thick leather belt being applied. Which is exactly what will happen right now. Now scoot. I can assure you that this lesson will stick with you for days afterwards young lady."

"Oh No! Daddy! please!!!!"

"Get upstairs to your bedroom. I want you in the middle of your bed, face down and draped over every last pillow you have, and there better not be a stitch of clothing on you, young lady. You heard me! Not a stitch! Now get going. NOW!"

"Ohhhh... Yes Sir..."

david scurried up the stairs to do as he was told. I gave him enough time to take off his clothes, prepare himself across the bed, and stew.

When I got upstairs, this is the sight I was presented with.

My slutty little daughter was showing off her clit to her Daddy! I made her put that away. How inappropriate! I took off my belt from around my waist, and I gave my badly behaved "daughter" such a belt whipping that she would think long and hard before going up against her Daddy again!

Just look a her! Draped across her pillows, waiting for her Daddy's strap. Yes, this is a very sexually submissive position for a female. Her holes available for a male's cock to plunder. But this is not Daddy's intent. Daddy will find a nice boy for her when it's her time. For now, Daddy requires his daughter to display her submissiveness to Him in this manner. Clearly this is all this girl understands.

How humiliating for a grown-up daughter to still be subject to birthday suit beltings from her Daddy! And bare naked to boot!

I can assure you, this young lady learned a valuable lesson that night! I used the belt on my naughty daughter full force to her bare cheeks. Strap after strap after strap until I felt I had strapped some respect back into her.

After I was done with her, this young lady had things done to her that no daddy should EVER do to her daughter!

In fact, Daddy even sat on her face and had his little girl lick her pussy and ass sooo good!

Friday, October 7

Restaurant Domination

Sometimes restaurants can give you a great opportunity for a little subtle (or not so subtle!) hubby domination.

We were having dinner out yesterday evening. We took advantage of what is most likely one of the last patio evenings of the season, augmented by a heat lamp. The patio was fairly empty as we were eating early and most preferred to dine indoors. Our waitress was a very attractive and fresh faced young lady who seemed quite on the ball and happy.

I decided then and there to have a little fun with david.

When she came and asked for our drink orders, david gave me the perfect pretext. Without even waiting for me to order he blurted out "I'll have a Guinness".

"Excuse me?" I said. "What happened to ladies first?"

"Oh... sorry, honey. You go ahead."

"I'll have a class of red wine," I said, and selected a specific one from the list. So far pretty normal. And then I added, "but cancel the beer for him, he'll be drinking water tonight."

"Honey..." he whined.

The waitress visibly smirked!

"No, besides everything you're driving tonight. But you will have something else, won't you sweetie?"

david looked confused. The waitress had her pencil on her pad ready to take this down.

"You'll have a good spanking as soon as I get you home, won't you?"

"Ahhh, geez..." he answered as he very visibly blushed, confirming the truth of the matter.

Now she giggled openly.

"Maybe that will help him learn some manners," I said to her.

She didn't say anything out loud, but her smile said a lot!

The nice thing about doing this right at the start of the meal is that david gets reminded of the humiliation each and every time the waitress comes by.
  • I ordered for him, making healthy choices.
  • I refused desert on his behalf.
  • I was the one who asked for the check
  • I paid and tipped.
I'm sure she did not doubt whatsoever that my husband would be spanked.

Would she imagine that he would need to face me and have his pants taken down?

That he would be taken across my knee getting his bare bum smacked, kicking and crying as I taught him a lesson in manners?

Would she ever imagine the humiliating corner time afterwards?

Do you think she would have enjoyed participating even?

Could she imagine other ways I have of reminding him of his place?

And could she even dream that he would in fact be subject to the ultimate humiliation that a husband can suffer at his wife's hands?

Having to take it up his rear end, fucked like a lady for as long and as hard as I choose, until there is no doubt whatsoever that he has been reminded of his place in the marriage.

Wednesday, October 5

E-Book Poll Results

Thank you for doing that quick poll on my e-book! I'll share the results here, and provide some added commentary. If you have not got the book yet, you can find a link to the right. It's not too late to comment, just add it on the comments section here.

You should also note that I added a "Pageviews" gadget to the sidebar. I am starting the countdown to FIVE MILLION pageviews. Yay! I have some interesting demographics data on all you kinksters out there from Google Analytics that I will share when I hit the big 5!

Let's get to the poll results:

1 is "everything" and 5 is "nothing".

For the book, in actuality, just over half is true, around 54%. So my readers have a keen sense of things! Those 6 of you who answered "it's all true!" is a bit of wilful suspension of disbelief, I suppose, which I admire! Those of you way down on the "nothing" end need to get out more ;-). Note that I count role play scenes that were described as such and that we actually carried out as "true". Below, I take you through chapter by chapter and indicate what's true and what's not. To come up with the 54% I took into account the length of the chapter as well (mad spreadsheet skills!)

For calibration purposes I asked the same question regarding my blog. While it would not be fair to say everything not credited as fantasy on my blog is 100% true, so "1" is probably not completely appropriate, I would definitely say that the blog falls into the "2" category leaning towards the "1". Definitely way more true than not, and way more true than the book. In the blog I am sometimes guilty of giving the "Holywood" version of some episodes, where I might change things up a bit to improve the dramatic presentation, or fill in unjustified details (e.g., exactly what david said - when I can't really recall). However, the episodes themselves are all pretty accurate. You guys do seem to pick up on that, and the results were indeed a lot of 2's leaning towards 1, which is pretty fair.

Getting onto your favourite chapters, Here are the raw results:

I assigned a score for each chapter in points, with a 1st getting 3 points, a 2nd 2 points, and a 3rd 1 point. I'll give some commentary on each chapter below, in order of its point score, leaving the best for last.

While chapter 10 (Next door neighbour) got the most comments, chapter 7 (Panty shopping) appears to have been the favourite, followed closely by chapter 18 (My sister and her subby), and then the cluster of chapters 9,10,15,17 all coming in around the same (Anal training in front of sister, Next door neighbour, Mommy roleplay, and Ex-girlfriend roleplay).

13 POINTS - Chapter 3: A Kinkster is Born
This one surprised me, coming in last place. In this chapter I retell david's childhood experiences, and one of his most compelling fantasies that has stayed with him. While his fantasy is obviously a fantasy, it is 100% accurately described to the best of my knowledge. I really liked his fantasy, which is why I included it.

17 POINTS - Chapter 4: Learning to Spank
A fairly short and calm chapter, more educational and instructional. 100% true. It was designed to be a low point on the roller coaster ride, so not surprised at the low ranking.

18 POINTS - Chapter 8: Anal Play
Ranking as expected. Factual, instructional, meant to be a relaxing part of the roller coaster ride. 100% accurate.

20 POINTS - Chapter 1: A Typical Scene in the Delmar Household
Ranking as expected. It was meant to be a teaser, easing the readers into the book. While the precise scene I described was not based on any particular true-to-life incident, for sure everything described happened at one time or another, so I would say 90% true.

20 POINTS - Chapter 5: Dealing with the Porn
This one also surprised me for its low ranking. This one is maybe 25% true. I did have a friend over and we did embarrass david for his porn viewing. I described it in Punished in front of Chloe. But it was all set up in advance with david, and he only wound up being sentenced to writing lines in front of her, and she was pretty freaked out. This chapter is how it should have gone, dammit!

21 POINTS - Chapter 11: In-Home Personal Training
This one is 100% accurate. It gathers together all of david's personal trainer experiences. This has been very well documented on my blog, in greater detail than here, so maybe it was repetitious?

21 POINTS - Chapter 14: Massage Parlour Spanking
Ranking about where I expected. This one is an amalgam of two incidents at massage parlours, both of which were very much true, Very Public Massage Parlour Spanking and A Massage Parlour Shaming for Xmas. In the blog I describe them as close to 100% accurately as I could. In the book I exaggerated some of the stuff at the end with the girls taking turns paddling him bare butt, but not much, so maybe 90% accurate.

22 POINTS - Chapter 2: How it all Started
Higher ranking than expected. This one describes how david and I got our start doing this stuff. It's all 100% accurate, and given in much more detail than I have ever covered in the blog. It's also a bit instructional for newbies. I guess my readers enjoyed our journey.

24 POINTS - Chapter 12: Good Boy Spankings
Raking higher than I expected. A very short one designed as a slow down and coast chapter. I guess all you boys out there enjoy the notion of going across a lady's knee for a mild spanking, humping her oiled lap until you cum. Who'd 'a thought? It did also describe a few handjobs in front of and by other women I allowed him to have. All 100% accurate.

26 POINTS - Chapter 13: Beach Vacation
A bit lower than expected ranking. I thought this would be everybody's fantasy! It is 0% true - all make believe here. What's not to like about getting spanked, fucked, and hand-jobbed in front of three strange young women in bikinis, and have one of them even sit on your face??? Was it too much? Willing suspension of disbelief shattered? Ha Ha!

30 POINTS - Chapter 6: Public Play
A bit higher ranked than expected. Designed as a bit of a slow down chapter. Just sets the stage for our public play episodes, covering off a whole bunch of little anecdotes. 100% accurate. I guess these are very titilating!

30 POINTS - Chapter 16: Wife's Boss Roleplay
Ranking as expected. A little downhill schuss on the roller coaster. So this one was described as being a roleplay scene, and david and I did actually carry this one out. I held it back from my blog so I could have more original material for the book. I'm counting it as mostly true, because I did describe it as a roleplay scene in the book, which it was. But it is somewhat made up, as I took liberties with what we actually did during the roleplay. So I would say 75% true on that basis.

35 POINTS - Chapter 9: Anal Training in front of Sister
Now we're clearly getting into the realm of the favourite chapters at 35 points and up. No surprise on this one. david forced to stretch his bumhole in front of his own sister!!!! I love kinky brother/sister play. This one was portrayed as "real" in the book. In fact, it was very much inspired by an amazing threeway roleplay with a pro that I described on my blog in Anal training in front of wife and friend. The actual scene went very much as described in the book, and went ever further than the book into a very challenging spit roasting for poor david from two highly enthusiastic ladies with great big strap-ons egging each other on! Interestingly, david did not know at the time that she was a pro. He thought she was somebody I tutored from grad school. Ha ha! He has since learned the truth as we have played with her again. But it was not his sister, the events did not happen "for real real", and I took some liberties with changing things up from the roleplay for the book, so I would give this a 50% accuracy rating, mainly based on the deception that it was real and involved his actual sister, which it did not.

35 POINTS - Chapter 15: Mommy Roleplay
I was honestly not sure where this one would rank, given the themes. This is a roleplay that Sue and I carried out (playing sisters) with a pro domme and david. Did not describe it on the blog in order to have more original material for the book. I should definitely post a blog article about some of the background leading up to this and what it was like to play it with my sister, which I did not get into in the book. Of course it's pure unadulterated fantasy, but mostly played out for real, so I would give it a 75% accuracy factor. I did "fill out" some of the things in the roleplay we did not get to as I would have liked, for example the mouth soaping never happened, and the stuff at the end involving Mandy was not played out - but the stuff at the very end with david and me continuing the kinky brother/sister roleplay was dead on!

35 POINTS - Chapter 17: Ex-Girlfriend Roleplay
Surprisingly highly rated. This one was another roleplay with a pro sub specifically orchestrated as exclusive material for the book. Research can be so much fun! As a roleplay it was 100% accurate.

36 POINTS - Chapter  10: Next Door Neighbour
Third runner up overall, but many reader's favourite chapter, and the most commented on. Pure unadulterated fantasy. I had the most fun writing this one, and especially writing in the super-fit and gorgeous young niece character Brianan. The other niece, Lucy, was loosely based on a prissy little niece of mine whom I described in Husband punished for staring at my niece's ass!

47 POINTS - Chapter 18: My Sister and her Subby
Second runner up overall. This one is made up, but is very much based on a different scene which was pretty similar with my sister Sue and her girlfriend of the time (whom I got to spank myself - I Spanked Trina!). The events involving david are described in A Good Little Cock Sucker! where Trina is "made to" give my husband a blowjob, and Husband Taught His Place in front of Sister and her Girlfriend where david is made aware that there are consequences for getting blown by a woman not his wife no matter the circumstances. Those blog scenes were honest to goodness true, though I expect many of you not to believe me (I blame this sequence for what 3,4,5's I got when I asked you if you think my blog is true)! I played off of that to create this new fictional scene for the book where david is severely humiliated in front of Sue's subby girlfriend, but then she is stripped and spanked for her own misbehaviour, while david is forced to masturbate in front of us, and finally she is "forced" to then receive david's ejaculate on her tits and face. While not true, there is so much in there that did happen and that could so easily have happened, I'll give it a 70% veracity rating.

49 POINTS - Chapter 7: Panty Shopping
Drum role please! And the winner is! The winner in the voting, just edging out "My Sister and her Subby", but oddly no specific comments about it at all. I had a lot of fun writing this. This one is very much based on real life public play. It is an amalgam of two real life scenes: Fourth Topics Post: Panty Shopping! and Impromptu Shopping Trip. The first scene I never described in much detail in the blog, but really did so in the book. So the first quarter of this chapter (encompassing the 2 scenes above) is 100% true, right until after he is sent to the change room to get into his panties. The three quarters of the chapter after that is entirely fictional. Ahhh, but what a scene that would have been! I'll assess this one therefore at only 25% true.

Getting on to some of the comments you left regarding why some of the chapters marked as 1st were your favourites, and also adding in some comments from the comments section of the original poll post. I've added my responses.
  • Learning new stuff about you
    • That is very sweet! There was a fair bit of new stuff in there, and a glimpse into where my and david's fantasies take us.
  • Brianan the young evil and the awful strictness of the neighbour punishment. I love when Julie is merciless and goes deep into her pleasure.
    • Chapter 10, one of my absolute favourite chapters to write for sure. I wish I was Brianan!
  • bringing in a stranger to david
  • Involving others and the intense humiliation
    • Yes! There is always something extra exciting when we introduce a previously unknown woman for real into our play. Just that extra adrenaline rush for me, and my husband tells me there is an extra "over the top" level of humiliation when first-timers see him dealt with.
  • The quality of writing and the outright sexiness of the chapter. To be honest, I really should have marked them all as '1'.
    • Oh, well, ... BLUSH!
  • love the embarrassing stuff...being spanked in front of other women. Also like Mommy/Maternal interactions
    • The embarrassing stuff is for sure what it's all about: david is such a shame slut!
    • For some odd reason, I do also. I can sort of understand, psycho-sexually, why david might have his Mommy fantasy. Why do I??? I love it!
  • The humiliation which puts me directly into subspace.
  • How you teased and enjoyed his humiliation, really rubbed it in.
    • He and I match that way. He loves taking it, and I love dishing it out.
  • How adventurous you were and how enthusiastically you embraced your husband's kink. Revealing your kink has the potential to ruin a relationship. I love the loving way you embraced your husband's needs!
    • I know it happens, but I really don't get why wives go any other way.
  • It is difficult to choose a single chapter or even three in the book for that is the sequence of chapters and their different intensities playing together that make the book great.
    • YES! Nailed it! Thank you so much for saying that. It's true, I tried structuring the book like a roller coaster rather than it being just a random sequence of chapters. I deliberately moved chapters around, altered them, and added some to plan out that roller coaster ride.
  • I love the character of Brianan in chapter 10 : she is so willing, she really likes hard hand spanking, babysitting in a particular way, humiliate her uncle, making boys 69, more deep humiliation, she is so « creative » as Julie says. « such an enthusiastic pupil » and when Julie tell us « Young women always need plenty of praise and encouragement. » love fills our heart.
    • Yes. Touching again on why this was my favourite chapter to write and why Brianan is the girl I wish to be!
  • First, as I have said before, you are the best writer of this stuff - personable, whimsical, open-minded but opinionated etc.
    • Blushy, blushy, blush, blush!
    • I like being open-minded yet opinionated. Thank you!
  • Interesting questions, especially the fact vs. fiction stuff. I used to comment on stories at and was disappointed when they announced they wanted to separate the real stories from the fiction.
    • I agree totally! I enjoy reading things on the net and not concerning myself if they are true or not. Now, sometimes we are asked to stretch our disbelief to the breaking point, and that is too far. I am even nervous when real things happen that I report on my blog, but know that they strain credulity even though they are real!!!
    • It was nice to free myself from the "shackles" of reality for the book. I'm hoping, though, that I brought book readers right to the very limit of their suspension of disbelief, but not quite past.
    • I think I am fairly successful at this because I've had so many "out there" real life experiences with david, so then when I make one up, it is very much based on what could actually happen, if all the stars align.
  • I think my favorite of all your blog posts is one of the first - the relatively tame "impromptu shopping trip". You report that you and David "skedaddled" out after telling the salesgirl you were going to spank him in his panties. But I also really enjoyed the embellished version in the ebook, and have many many such fantasies.
    • That was a fun one. Described at Impromptu Shopping Trip.  And 100% true!
    • The ebook one also mixed in Fourth Topics Post: Panty Shopping!, for the first part, also 100% true, but described in much better detail in the book.
    • The part after him trying on the panties was pure make-believe!
  • I also really enjoyed the ex-girlfriend chapter.
    • That was actually a real role play we did that I held back from the blog for the book.
    • I actually really enjoyed showing off this girl's pussy for david to jerk off to! So twisted...
  • its taking me a while to get through it because you are NAILING my fantasies. It's unbelievable that you can put my own fantasies into words better than I could. I have to put the book down so often that I can only get through a chapter or so a day.
    • I've been "trained" and brought up on david's fantasies, and I think they are quite common to a certain class of men...
  • So far i LOVE the chapter on the neighbor. A teasing BJ followed by OTK then a quick kiss to his cock... I wish there was someway I could describe to you what reading that did to me. I have read and reread that part so many times.
    • Another vote for chapter 10!
    • I do stuff like that to my husband, like, ALL THE TIME!
  • Also, when David was in the hotel room watching that women get fucked... was there some hint of cuckolding there? I have been reading your blog for years and I know its one of your fantasies but one of David's hard limits. Too bad. The post where the losing male is made to watch the winner fuck his wife if my all time fave. Although making him call you mommy in front of the trainer was excellent too...
    • So that is a legit fantasy of david's, what was described in that chapter, as told by him. I had never really thought of it as a cuckold scene, but you're absolutely right on that! I might press that...
    • I think you are referring to My Fantasy, which describes my fantasy for how a near miss encounter with a fellow blogger named Deirdre of Spanking My Husband should have gone down. After I published the book, Deirdre reached out to me and asked how sales were going as she was thinking of doing one of her own. I told her not to quit her day job!
    • I recall that, making him call me Mommy in front of one of our trainers, but don't know what post. Perhaps some of you Julie archivists can help us find it? Abjectly humiliating to be made to do that while across his wife's knee in front of witnesses!!!
Thank you again for getting the book, taking the poll, and commenting. More comments welcome below!

Sunday, October 2

Monday, September 19

e-Book Published!

I'm very, very excited!!!! I've been working on it for quite some time now. Looking back, I first posted about it in February of 2015 (e-Book Anyone?) and received a very positive response. So, between now and then I've been beavering away on it and I'm happy to report that I actually did it!

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This is the cover (courtesy lill josephine of course! Thank you!). I chose the pen name "Julie Delmar". I think it sounds very classy. I'm charging a little bit of money for it, which is the first time I've ever tried monetizing our kink. Hopefully you'll forgive me after my having spent 5 years writing for free (and enjoying every word - which I will keep doing, btw!)

If it goes well financially I am considering doing more perhaps (More books? Spanking videos starring Strict Julie?? Private sessions??? Who knows!)

Please go and buy one and give me lots of stars and write a very nice comment if you like it!!! You can choose the name to use for your comment as you are posting it, and it doesn't need to be your real name, though you will have to buy it for real to comment!

It's all original material. That is to say, I wrote every word and copied none of it from my blog, though you will recognize some of the scenes, like a remix really. It's about 75,000 words which translates into 344 pages "Kindle Edition Normalized Page Count", and 18 chapters. It's only $4.95 US, which is quite reasonable I think.

I've held back a few extra juicy scenes from the blog to have some original scenes for the book. As well, I give more details on how we got started, and how david developed his kink. Some material is a bit instructional in a fun way. Some scenes that you know from my blog I retold in a different way. And, this is really important, in the book I do let my imagination run away a bit in a way I try not to in the blog. So there are some very over-the-top scenes (though nothing I would not actually do if given the opportunity!)

I hope you all go out and buy it and really, really enjoy it (early reviewers report multiple orgasms!)

Here is where you can get it, exclusively on Amazon Kindle:

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And here is the blurb from the book:

Julie Delmar (of "Strict Julie Spanks!" blog fame) and her husband david engage in a kinky scening-oriented female led relationship. This book of entirely original material not before seen on her blog is part instructional, part fact, part fiction, and all fun! At over 75,000 words and 18 chapters it's great value for your kinky dollar.
  • Chapter 1: A Typical Scene in the Delmar Household
    Describes a typical punishment that Julie's husband david is subject to. "Forced" into girls' clothes, plugged, and spanked.
  • Chapter 2: How It All Started
    Julie describes how she and her husband got started in their kinky lifestyle, with her various humorous missteps along the way.
  • Chapter 3: A Kinkster is Born
    Recounting some early experiences of how david got into it, and describing a very kinky fantasy scene of david's that has obsessed him for years.
  • Chapter 4: Learning to Spank
    Julie and david start hitting their stride. This is an entertaining and instructional chapter on how to spank and be spanked safely.
  • Chapter 5: Dealing with the Porn
    david was getting a little too comfortable playing with himself in front of his computer and neglecting Julie's bedroom needs. Julie put a stop to that with some help from a friend.
  • Chapter 6: Public Play
    Playing in public and with other women excites both david and Julie. This chapter describes the breadth of what they get up to with many titillating anecdotes.
  • Chapter 7: Panty Shopping
    A perennial favourite public play: taking your husband panty shopping. They did that but this time david and Julie got a lot more than they bargained for.
  • Chapter 8: Anal Play
    An important part of most male submissive kink is bum play. Julie gives us an entertaining overview of her husband's penchant for having things stuck up his butt.
  • Chapter 9: Anal Training in Front of His Sister
    Julie was upset that david had not been doing his assigned stretching. With david's kinky sister in town, he is made to do it in front of her.
  • Chapter 10: Next Door Neighbour
    Julie helps out her friend Linda from time to time with her submissive husband. However, he is in for a shock when his situation is suddenly made embarrassingly public.
  • Chapter 11: In-Home Personal Training
    Julie uses david's kink to ensure he remains motivated to eat well and stay in shape. This chapter recounts their experiences with a series of pretty and dominant in-home personal trainers hired to literally whip david's ass into shape.
  • Chapter 12: Good Boy Spankings
    Not all spankings need be harsh punishment. Sometimes david gets a good boy spanking with a very happy ending. Sometimes even in front of witnesses.
  • Chapter 13: Beach Vacation
    Vacations are a great time to get into some public mischief. Read what happens when david ogles some young women at the beach. Suffice to say that submissive husbands ought to mind their p's and q's around their dominant wives at the beach.
  • Chapter 14: Massage Parlour Spanking
    Julie takes david to the massage parlour as a treat. His treat turns sour when he learns he is only to be teased with no release and then soundly spanked in front of the pretty attendants.
  • Chapter 15: Mommy Roleplay
    Julie describes in story form a roleplay she and her husband along with two other women engaged in. david had been a very, very naughty boy, and Mommy had to punish him in front of his two sisters.
  • Chapter 16: Wife's Boss Roleplay
    Another roleplay in story form where Julie must impress her boss that she knows how to handle a scatterbrained husband.
  • Chapter 17: Ex-Girlfriend Roleplay
    A final roleplay acted out by Julie, David, and a professional submissive. David actually gets to spank a girl for once!
  • Chapter 18: My Sister and her Subby
    Julie's sister is kinky and likes girls. That does not stop her from playing with Julie and david, however, and even bringing along one of her girlfriends to play as well.