Friday, April 6

A Strict Ball Gagging

Sometimes david back-talks me. For example, I say something and then I get a smart-ass comment back. He will almost always get a spanking for his troubles (which is what he wants and why he does it, I know), but sometimes he just keeps bratting and I just want to shut him up. I am thinking of trying something different for next time and would like your thoughts.

I am thinking in particular of a ball gagging for incessant back talk.


What do you guys think? Have any of you spent an extended period of time in a large ball gag? Is it a good punishment? It certainly seems humiliating. Should I give him corner time with it, or have him go about his regular routine at home being forced to wear it? Should he be clothed, naked, or in his undies, like this.


Does anybody have any particularly good brands to recommend? I think I would like a large and uncomfortable one, for sure. How about this large spiky one?


I definitely want the "slobber" factor going.



Really, I just need him shut up and humbled for a couple of hours...



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  1. David seems to have you experimenting all the time, which is really great!!

    I've never worn a ball gag, but it sure looks humiliating as hell. I guess if I had my choice to start with I'd want to try the smooth round ball.

    I wonder what a spanking would be like with one of those stuck in one's mouth. I guess it would keep the yelling to a minimum, lol

    I also wonder how safe one would be if kept in for a long period of time?

    Good post, please let us know how it works out, because I do know once you think of something, it isn't long before we read about your using it.

    james

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    1. Hi james, I will defintiely let you know how it goes - you KNOW I will! Ha Ha!

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  2. Even an unlocked ball gag and mittens that strap is a bondage that can not be released but affords
    movement. Of course the bound will not leave the house.

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    1. Pity, I would enjoy the idea of having him out and about with a strict ball gag in his mouth!

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  3. I'm looking forward to seeing how this works out, and which one you choose. Please keep us updated. Your previous post was sooo hot. Thank you, Penney

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  4. Julie,
    Thought you might like to see this blog about
    a few girls who made sissies out of some boys
    they knew. It's dressingeric.blogspot.com.

    Enjoy

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    1. Always nice to see boys being humiliated. Thank you for that!

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  5. Hi Julie,
    I use a modified horse bridal with a 3 inch steel piece on either side. I then attach the steel pieces to the outside of a large bar of soap. This goes into sissy's mouth. It looks just like a horse bridle except for the soap. It is very uncomfortable as the soap foams up and runs done his pink sissy baby bid. As for clothing, nothing humiliates a sissy boy more then cloth diapers, rubber pants and sissy pink rumba panties! Good luck.

    Goddess Gretchen

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    1. That sounds delightfully horrible for him! Very creative.

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  6. I realize my recommendation is not for a ball gag but it is only because I have no experience with them. We have found in our relationship that there is such a thing as bondage without restraints. I feel I am more submissive and "pussy whipped" by having to obey a command or knowing what that certain look means. The only times She uses a gag on me is with her panties or mine. When I am gagged with Her panties it is to remind me of the essence of her pussy that controls me. When I am gagged with my own "training panties" it is for the humiliation of sucking all my cum out of them and it is for Her amusement. She will also use her pantyhose gusset as a bridle and She will hold the feet and climb on my back. I am then forced to crawl with Her on my back while She whips me with a riding crop. I guess the only real restraint we use is a leash. She will sometimes whip her "naughty little doggie" and make me eat from a dog bowl. For the most part,
    She considers me so "pussy-whipped" that I don't need restraints.

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    1. I like the thought, but it would amuse me to see my boy drooling all over a big fat ball gag.

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  7. Hi Julie, we use ball gags (on me) I too have a smart mouth. A 2" ball gag is big and uncomfortable, your jaws will start to ache after a long spell, we also have a penis gag (I hate that one) My wife straps a gag on me, hand cuffs my arms behind my back, puts nipple clamps on me and starts the lecture, you have no option but to sit/stand and listen and nod when asked if you understand what she is saying. After the amount of time she deemed necessary to to be gaged, cuffed and clamped, she will have me lay on the bed for the spanking with the strap....all items stay on till the spanking is over. If I have really pissed her off I have to go stand in the corner till she removes the items...it's a very good learning tool Julie!

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    1. 2" it is! I like the lecture. No back-talk for sure. I also think a strict penis gag could very much teach a naughty husband his place.

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  8. We have had the a similar situation in our household where I have answered back without thinking of what I was saying and for smart mouth I have been spanked and ball gagged. About a week ago it happened and I had no choice but to be gagged all afternoon. Unless David has to breathe through his mouth I would not suggest one with holes in it. You also will need sturdy straps to hold it firmly in place. It is very humilating both with the slobber factor and the fact that you are not being allowed to speak. So I can relate, incessant back talk has put me in a ball gag more than once. I am expected to continue my chores and if anyone stops by it is evident that I am being punished.

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    1. I like that you are ball-gagged as you do chores and are witnessed. No nudity at all, but abject humiliation I am sure.

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  9. I'd go with the holes one... it increases the "slobber" factor, I find. :)
    Yes, standing in panties.

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    1. I will have to experiment with that on the slobber point. I do want LOTS of slobber.

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  10. Hi Julie

    If you want a gag that is humiliating than why not go for something that is named for that purpose: The Humiliator gag system with attachments.

    http://www.scottpauldesigns.com/catalog/index.php?cPath=25

    http://www.extremerestraints.com/unique-and-inflatable_151/the-humiliator-gag_1958.html

    Its a gag which you can buy different sort of attachments including toilet brush cleans, dusters, toilet paper hangers, ash trays, serving trays etc. If you want to further humiliate you can always also do corner time with it and order in some take for whomever to deliver it to see. A number of possibilities.

    Ashley

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    1. Ashley, I had no idea the art of gagging was so highly developed! Thank you so much for the links.

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  11. Another method you can use is to get some sour apple juice of sorts inject it into a pacifier, freeze it, to have it on hand, and then whenever the back talk starts just tie the paci in for a slow sour tasting sucking punishment.

    Ashley

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    1. That actually seems kind of tasty...

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  12. A 'ball' gag is so mono-dimensional... Now something like THIS would allow david to serve a purpose (namely provide a perch upon which you ride, while keeping him quiet. Plus, having his mouth wrapped around a cock is extra humiliating.

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    1. I like it. He could be gagged and still be of some use to me.

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  13. I have experienced several different types of gag and I personally hate ball gags. As the name implies they actually make me gag and feel ill. Because of this my Mistress very kindly does not gag me but she still expects silence both during punishment, except for me thanking her and counting, and after. Perhaps you just need to train David to remain silent by punishing him in his least favourite way if he makes too much noise. If my Mistress has sent me to the corner she sometimes brings in her friends to examine my welts and I have to remain silent unless spoken to which is extremely embarrassing.

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    1. I agree, slaves should be seen and not heard.

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  14. Julie, Ball gags are great and yes, I love to watch my hubbette drool all over the place like a baby. If I might suggest get a dildo gag. One cock goes in his mouth and one cock is outside for your to ride. They are great fun.

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    1. Thank you QG, I will cast around for the item in question.

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  15. I used to see a woman who had an O-ring gag she used to make me wear. I didn't like it as it made me drool a great deal.

    Btw, someone mentioned pacifiers with frozen vinegar, I might suggest that frozen urine might make for a more lasting lesson. Having to then explain to your sister how he'd been punished, would make for a further humiliation.

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    1. Now you're talking. The apple juice one sounded tasty. This, not so much!

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  16. As a couple other people have mentioned, the dildo gag could be good. One with a single dildo that goes in his mouth would be humiliating and probably good punishment. The double ended ones, while providing you pleasure with something to ride, he might actually enjoy instead of being a good punishment because who wouldn't enjoy being so close to their favorite part of their lady? Of course, it would be torture to be so close without being able to touch/taste. I don't know because I don't have any experience, but maybe some other readers do and know if it is more pleasure or punishment for the sub (maybe it depends onthe sub)

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    1. I like the concept of him holding a dildo in the mouth. Maybe for his next corner time her has to hold a big one in his mouth (hands tied behind back)? If it falls out...

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    2. You can’t stop there! What may seem self-evident to you is the very reason we read, to hear her ladyship speak the words!

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    3. Fine...

      If it falls out he gets to hold it in his asshole for an hour, and if that falls out...

      I guess I have a messy rug...
      ;-)

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  17. I like the 'inside gag, outside fun' dildo idea. Having him have a little cock in his mouth seems more appropriate as a learning tool when his his being a 'dick' in the first place.

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    1. I think we are all getting onto the same page here. I need to do this.

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  18. Julie,

    Cleo does not use a ball gag on me even though we have one. Due to a small medical condition I have it is difficult for me to breathe soley through my nose at most times. Otherwise we understand why ball gags would be a useful tool in a Domme's bag-of-tricks.

    But we have another option when Cleo wants me to shut my mouth. We have a jelly-type dildo that looks exactly like a dick and it is the same size as me when I am hard. She orders me to give it a blowjob exactly as if she was giving me one.

    Let's just say it keeps my mouth busy so I can't back-talk at all.

    Marc

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    1. Are you sentenced to a set amount of time of giving head to the dildo?

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  19. Wow...so many options/ideas!! I like the inflatable ball gag. It's like a blood pressure mechanism. You shove the ball in his mouth it's attached to a "pump". There's a knob you tighten when you inflate it so it holds that size (again...like a blood pressure mechanism). If David is "behaving", you can deflate it, but keep it in his mouth. Once he starts pissing you off, just start pumping!! Or just start pumping because you feel like it. :) I've used it sometimes when spanking my hubby or fucking his ass. If his moans/screams are getting too loud, I just pump it up.

    Perhaps while David is sitting there with it fully inflated, you could have him write down whatever smart ass comment he made, oh say...100 times??

    M

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  20. My mother used to put her children's head in the toilet when they back talk her.
    Sonia

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    1. Awwww... Poor kiddies! That sort of thing should be reserved for bad husbands if you ask me.

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  21. When my husband back talks me, I get him to hold my slipper with his mouth, if he drops it I slap his face with it and spank him very hard.
    Maria

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    1. Can his mouth hold a wedge too?
      What if the slipper is not clean? Does he still put it in his mouth?

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    2. This is the whole point of it if he is really bad, I gag him with a wedge, he can not hold it for long, I spank him hard using my wedge spanking method.
      Clean or not depends of his luck, if he back talks while in toilet he gets it mixed any thing that could have spilled on toilet floor (urine may be) noting that he has to wash the slipper after his slipper gagging is finished.
      Maria

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    3. You inspired me, after reading yr post, My husband back talked, I gagged his mouth with my slipper, but when the slipper fell from his mouth I did not spank him, but I peed & soaked the slipper in my urine then got him to take it out & put it in his mouth. This was really humiliating for him (double impact, my filthy foot wear & urine in his mouth)
      Of course he washed the slipper well after we finished
      Thx Maria
      Sonia

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    4. Not sure that Julie's tiny body allows her to do as you ladies do
      Jo

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    5. Slippers... of course.

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  22. My wife gags me with her knickers (filthy ones of course) if I back talk.
    Sometimes I get falaqa while gagged (this happens when I back talk so much).
    Sometimes she puts a small cane 10inch with bands attached to it from both sides across my mouth (donkey/horse style tool except it is rattan rather than metal).
    Turkish sub

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    1. I bet that little cane cuts into you sooo painfully!

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  23. J will sometimes find something that smells and tastes of Her, like a sweaty gym sock, to gag me with...and She once made an amazing shoe gag where there toe of Her black high heel was stuffed into my mouth and then the shoe was tied to my face. That one was very shameful for me, especially as i had to lick off all my drool and use my hair to dry Her heel.

    We have been curious about the service gags mentioned above, seems like having david kneel with a small serving table or feather duster attached to his gag would be a delicious way to humiliate him in front of You and Your sister. We have also pondered one of the ball gags with a hole in it that can be filled with some kind of liquid, like soap, would be a great way to discourage backtalk. Or maybe filling such a gag with Your golden nectar would really drive the point home...=-)

    We played with gags quite a bit for a while there, as J got the same kind of fatigue with my backtalking, and also my "chattiness," that You seem to be feeling with david. They were fun, and they also really helped me to get better at staying quiet and watching my tone with J, which has made our marriage even better. So i say go for it, You will likely see some benefits, and at the very least have some more fun tormenting poor, lucky little david!

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    1. Good ideas, but I think I prefer the more understated ball gag. I think that would be a punishment any woman could appreciate.

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  24. Hi Julie,

    The ball gag idea does not work fro me --even in fantasy--since it is too much like (adult) bondage when the rest of what you do is humiliating since it is so juvenile. Why not punish unwanted sassiness the old-fashioned way--with a good mouth-soaping? That can be added to corner time and can be done in front of (even by) your sister! And if you use a big bar that he has to keep in his mouth in the corner his drooling will add to his humiliation.

    Ken2

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    1. No, I suppose a ball gag is not something Mommy would use on you. But I am his wife, and feel it is appropriate to also use some more grown-up punishments, equally humiliating and humbling were another woman to witness it.

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  25. Your call, but how about home made gag of your used panties, ma'am!

    Thanks
    Ron

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  26. Where are you Julie, did David ball gag you?

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    1. His name is david, and NO he did not! ;-)

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  27. Your prose are subtle yet evocative. Thank You for sharing your art.

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  28. For gagging, I have a bit of experience to share, and for a smart mouth, and for public play.

    I would consider a whiffle-golf-ball gag for starters – cheap, easy to get, and you can thread the strap through different holes to put more into his mouth. Don’t know about a whiffle-baseball unless you can make him bite into it like an apple. But a better choice anyway, I think, is a ring gag – if not a cock ring, you can easily get (or send him for) several sizes at the hardware store. They tend to produce the most drool, especially if you prevent him from tilting his head back (by a chain to nipple or genital clamps). Secondly, they may work well with your various desires to incorporate dildos, both punitive and functional. Finally, you can incorporate up to three rings of various sizes, one behind the teeth, one behind and one in front of the lips. So, lots of choices.

    For a smart mouth, a more commanding alternative is a trigger word by which you tell him that he’s earned all the spanking he wants and anything more, he will not enjoy in the least, such as clothespins on the lips and tongue. But gagging is fine.

    A cute option sometimes can be a napkin ring. If you find the right one, it is placed in the mouth and presents a design across the lips. Some look like “zipped” or stitched-closed lips, and others are just attractive. It would be hard for him to forget that he must silence his tongue while having that in his mouth.

    Still, that doesn’t get you out of the house, does it? Along the lines of the napkin ring, anything identifiable – maybe a loonie or toonie (don’t want it swallowed accidentally! Or pushed off to one side and ignored) though really, even hard candy with specific implications (don’t speak until you’ve been dealt with) should work. If that’s not enough it can be something intolerable, covered in soap, hot sauce, oil or some vile combination, or zinc cold remedies. If he’s compliant the results should be satisfying and completely confidential.

    We're looking forward to any and all results!

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    1. john, what a wealth of ideas you have! Thank you.

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  29. I have never felt the need to gag L. when I trash his rump -mostly because I enjoy hearing him whimper, howl and beg. Any 'backtalk' he might dare utter is swiftly dealt with by a firm resort to the rattan cane or to the riding crop!

    On the very few occasions where I felt the need to control his vocalizations (e.g. once in a B&B in Scotland, and another time when we were staying at some fiends' house), I stuffed a hand towel in his mouth -but I see (from the above comments) that other 'techniques' may be used (not all of them to my liking!)

    Yet - to each her/his own!

    J(2)

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    1. My darling wife, I am deeply grateful for your (relative) moderation -although I still remember the time when you (literally) peeled off the skin from my backside with your riding crop! My bottom (or, as you prefer to call it, my 'derrière') stayed raw for almost a week!

      That was a while ago -and I have been much better behaved since then, haven't I?

      L.

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  30. The idea of being put in a ball gag and made to wear it for a time for back talk always reminds me of the scold's bridle in old Europe and colonial America. A very fitting way for a modern woman to put a man in his place, and very humiliating for him to be seen in, as it must have been for the poor women whose husbands brought them before a judge to have them sentenced to wear the scold's bridle. I think they were sometimes made to stand in disgrace in a public place, with a sign hung around their neck identifying their misdeed.

    A baby's pacifier seems like a good option to me too. Obviously very silly and humiliating for poor david, especially in front of another woman. A pacifier might look kind of cute, naturally leading to some very embarrassing teasing. Making him respond during his scolding with the pacifier in his mouth could be a very effective punishment for back talk. A few mortifying utterances of "yeth ma'am," and he probably will be too embarrassed to open his mouth the rest of the evening!

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    1. Yes, the public humiliation of a ball gagging appeals to me too. I can see having friends over and explaining to them that they'll have to excuse david, he talked back to me earlier today and is therefore being ball gagged for the rest of the evening. I would make him do everything he would normally do in a social setting, with the ball gag firmly in place. For instance, sitting at table, but of course unable to eat. Ha Ha!

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  31. Hey there, I saw that you used one of my photos... the harness gag photo. :) interesting how it can inspire someone.

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    1. Hi Don,

      I'm not sure where I got it. I think I google-imaged it up somewhere. I hope you don't mind? Doesn't sound like you do. Thank you very much! It did inspire me!

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    2. Yeah, I saw it on google images, I'm a photographer and I was dabbling in bondage photography. But that photo was most viewed on my deviant art gallery lol.

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  32. Gags are wonderful punishment and training tools. The full head harness variety is preferable for the feeling of submission it causes and looks great. Start with a 1.75" ball and see how he does. Unless he can breathe perfectly through his now, use one with holes.

    After his spanking he should have to complete his chores while gagged. The first time, limit it to 30 mins or so to see how he does. Extended gag times takes some practice!

    Inviting friends over (Preferably all female) while he is gagged and having him wait on them would be a wonderful, humiliating punishment. I've done this to my hubby and boy did he behave after that.

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