Tuesday, April 23

Husbands who are Allowed Other Women

My last post was about cheating husbands. I thought I'd do another post on the flip side of cheating, which is wives who allow their husbands to have sex with other women.

I am such a wife, for sure. In this post I'll recount my experiences, fears, and motivation and tell you how I felt about them when all was said and done. I am also looking forward to getting comments back from husbands and wives out there on this flip side of cheating, so please post your thoughts in the comment section.

1. Public Outings

It started with me taking him out for embarrassing public panty shopping expeditions where the salesgirls knew who we were shopping for, and he was once even made to change into a pair for the trip home.


Not really "sex" with another woman, but involving another woman in his kink felt quite sexual to me. I had a ton of fear going into it, but fear in a good sense. A giddy sense.

What motivated me was that david shared his fantasies of being dominated by me in front of other women. He shared them with me not in the least sense hopeful that I would ever act on them, but just that I would use these fantasies as a tease for him in verbal play. But at some point I just said "why not" and acted on his fantasy, mainly because it had also become a fantasy of mine.

It turns out we both share the same fantasy from opposite points of view. david fantasized that being dommed by me in front of another woman would increase my dominance over him significantly, which turned him on. As I thought about it, the thought of me demonstrating my complete dominance over my husband to other women turned me on as well. It felt almost territorial!

It was definitely a very sexual experience for both of us, and bringing another woman into it was a big taboo that I broke right through, and it turned out to just be fun for all concerned, which is how sex ought to feel.

I took him out panty shopping a  few times, and took him out shopping to a sex store once where the shop ladies and I had in depth discussions on which paddles to use on his bum, and the size of the dildo I should be using in my strap-on harness!


2. Spanked In Front of Others

Given that my first public outing went so well I thought it would be fun to up the ante for david, and I gave him his first spanking in front of another woman.

It was our personal trainer, Rebecca.


She was my personal trainer first, and I brought her home to train david as well. I knew she was liberated and fun loving, and she and I had a great relationship. I first just started hinting a little, and as she took the bait and didn't bat an eyelash I went further and further, culminating in giving him a pants-down (bare butt!) spanking across my knee in front of her.

As I was arranging all of this, I did feel certain pangs of jealousy and possessiveness at one point. Not the least because she was very young and attractive, and I could not fault david for being attracted by her physical attributes. But Rebecca was great. She was happy to watch but did not want to participate at all. She was genuinely interested in keeping david motivated for his training, and was so open-minded that if watching me spank him would keep him training, then it was all good by her.

In retrospect, Rebecca was the perfect first-time spanking witness, as she was so non-threatening and was just a fun person who had no qualms about me exposing my husband's bare butt to her, and who had fun with it as well. I think Rebecca was a launching pad for me to be even more daring.

From Rebecca I graduated to my sister, and eventually to one of her friends as well. For my sister Susan I had him dressed in lingerie for his first spanking in front of her, and gave her a full frontal of an erect husband as well before I spanked him! She participated that first time by watching and holding him a bit. Sue was also great, and also so open-minded about the whole thing, and enjoys the domming thing herself as well. Sue eventually progressed to spanking him herself, quite strictly, and even things like watching him trying to (unsuccessfully) control himself during masturbation. We even went so far as including a strictly-delivered "milking" by her of him in our play as a Christmas gift from Sue and I to david.


3. Taken to the Massage Parlour

After the experience with Rebecca went so well, I decided that I would fulfil a fantasy of his, sort of, and with a twist.

david had cheated on me in our marriage by having gone to get handjobs at massage parlours before I started spanking him. This was something he had been doing routinely for many years, and I knew about this before we were married as something from his past. Well, I was very angry with him when I found out that he had kept it up even after we were together. It almost ended our marriage, but I forgave him and made him promise never ever to do that again.


Fast forward a few years, and a new spanking kink discovered, and I got to thinking that it would be quite fitting if he were given a spanking at a massage parlour. I was also thinking that I would allow him a handjob from the sex worker, but make it stop before he came and take him home hard as a lesson in cheating.

My motivation was not punishment at all. I knew david would love it, even if he was spanked and frustrated. And I knew that he loved massage parlours, and it was a thing he no longer had, but I had the power to give it back to him under my terms.

So I arranged it all and carried it all out, and it was a great experience because our lady was so great. She even stripped naked (with my approval) and waved her very pretty pussy in my husband's face and told him he would never ever get to fuck that.

As she was giving him his sexy handjob I did not feel jealous at all. Not in the least. It was because it was me who was making this happen, and it was me who could make it all go away as well. Just to prove that to myself is why I made her stop before he came, and drove him home hard and bothered, much to the delight of those half-dozen sex workers who saw me march him out to our car with a tent in his pants as our girl explained to them that an angry wife had just given her cheating husband his come-uppance!

I took him again to the massage parlour, and this time let him cum. He was positive I wouldn't let him cum that time, so again I demonstrated who was in control (especially as I had him in panties that needed to be pulled down off his cock for his handjob!)

I actually found that I enjoyed giving him the gift of allowing other women to sex him. Just so long as he knew who could give it to him and who could take it away from him.


4. Visiting a Professional Submissive/Dominatrix

One of the things I allowed david was a threeway with a pro switch. It was under my instigation, but I allowed him to arrange it all. It was a lot of fun and I really liked the lady. I got to spank her, and my husband got to spank me in front of her (that's what I get for letting him arrange things! Ha!), but we ended with the two of us severely domming him where he got whipped hard and then fucked in the ass by each of us while the other stuffed a cock down his throat.


It was fun for me, and it was a fun gift for david as well.


5. Oral Sex

I had kind of expected that the very occasional handjob from a sex worker would be as much sex as he was ever to see from another woman. But that changed when my sister asked if her bisexual submissive, Trina, could be allowed to act out a fantasy of being "punished" for being a slut tease by being "forced" to have sex with a man by her dominant girlfriend.

Well, the cast of characters was perfection for this fantasy, so we went ahead and acted it out. Sue and I decided that "sex" would consist of a blowjob for my husband. So I allowed him to receive a very deep-throated blowjob from Trina, and even allowed him to clamp the back of her head, thrust into her, and cum inside her mouth.


I was pretty conflicted deciding to go ahead with this, but in the end the sheer sexiness of it just won out, and I also thought that it would be fun to give my husband the very unexpected gift of a blowjob from another woman completely out of the blue (he was not "read into" the fantasy at all - it just unfolded in front of the poor bewildered dear!).

He did have to pay the piper later though, and Sue and Trina were both treated to the show of me "explaining" to my man who owns his ass in front of them.



Again, I just love demonstrating the control, and frankly, I love delighting david with these very unexpected gifts.


6. Intercourse

Well, I've given him the gift of everything else, is intercourse with another person anywhere in his future?

With another man? Yes, in a second. I would love to see a handsome stud fuck his ass hard for me.


I think that would learn him who owns his ass all right! But he has not yet agreed to this, and it's nothing I will ever force onto him.

How about allowing him intercourse with another woman?

Maybe...

Here would be my fantasy if I did it...

They would both be submissive to me. I would be the Mistress of the manor. They would be two of the help who were caught fucking. They would both be bare naked. I would be dressed in an elegant riding outfit holding a crop.


She would be flat on her back, with her hands tied above her to the headboard. She would have already received her belting in the stables. He would be made to lie on top of her, missionary style, and insert his penis into her vagina. He would then get a strict whipping from my riding crop as I made him thrust into her. The dear boy would last about 10 seconds I am sure. I'd ridicule him for his poor performance. I'd tie her ankles spread-eagled up to the headboard as well as her wrists, bending her over double. I'd make david clean her out, giving her with his tongue what he is so obviously incapable of doing with his penis, and not escaping the whip to his backside as he performs his duty to the girl.


Hmmmm.....!!!!

62 comments:

  1. Oh my, quite an excursion (blush)!
    One thing I've never understood though.
    From your title, "Husbands who are allowed
    other women," I've never understood why you and
    other female dominants (from other online sources) share your husbands with your sisters,
    not coitally, of course, (and I mean that, no joking around), for their spanking pleasure.
    Talk about frustration!
    Or is there something else going on I don't
    understand?
    (OK, I missed Health Class 1,001, because of red ears.)
    -ricky

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    1. Sisters are good because you need somebody you can trust to keep a secret!

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    2. I brought this joking around unto myself, but, sincerely,
      I wish brothers could do that, and friends, too.

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  2. As usual a very exciting post. Made my knees weak, especially the description of spanking in front of your trainer and sister and her friend. As I've mentioned previously my wife teases me with scenarios like this but we actually haven't acted them out. The closest is when I act as her foot boy when she's talking on the phone to girlfriends. Massaging her feet, worshiping them, my face being used as her foot rest while she talks. Sometimes she'll ask me if I want to tell the girlfriend exactly what I'm doing...how I'm her total foot boy and very obedient hubby. But we haven't crossed that line yet. Anyway, love your posts.

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    1. It sounds like it's only a matter of time until the right friend shows up and then you'll be in trouble!

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  3. Julie,

    Wow your creativity never ceases to amaze me. Very interesting post. I'll have to admit that I'm guilty of numbers 1 & 2 but for me it was for humiliation of bob not for my pleasure. But as you know I've only agreed to the FLR in the sense of punishment for real misbehavior.

    And I understand also for you and david this is more sexual play than real life so I can understand where your coming from on all the rest. I'm sure bob would love it if I let him do any of these other things you've mentioned, I mean what man wouldn't. But it's never going to happen so he best keep those fantasies to himself.
    Maybe things could have been different if our FLR didn't start out the way it did with me finding out about his cheating by going to see Dee. But since it did he's just going to have to be happy with what he's got now which is strictly real discipline and humiliation.
    But as for the two of you I say if your fine with it then great for the both of you. As long as you feel you can trust him not to carry things on behind your back. Unfortunately I can't trust bob that way after what he did so seeing another woman for pleasure even with my knowledge is out of the question.
    Thanks for sharing with us though this very intimate moments in your lives.

    Dianne

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    1. My thinking is that the grass is always greener, and if I let him have a few "extra-marital" experiences with women that are completely under my control, then he's actually less likely to cheat.

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  4. Does david's hand-job from Michael fall under a different category, or #3 above?

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    1. Tee hee! That falls under "crazy shit while on vacation" category, and that's a whole other post!

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  5. Julie,

    Once again, a very informative and provocative post. My ex never did any of this. In fact, she told me that a fully legit massage from a female was "cheating." Oh, so puritanical.

    After divorce, I had a good Dominant friend who spanked me on occasion and was truly open. We were at supper in a very nice restaurant, and she announced that I had best go to the men's room, remove my underwear, and bring them back to her. After I did so with much trepidation, she decided that she could not have "unprotected" undies in her purse. So, I had to ask our cute, young waitress for a bag, and also had to tell her why I needed it. It was humiliating, but the waitress was a sport, and even told me to "be brave" as we left. I wonder ehat she meant?

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    1. Very cute. What I have always found is that women are only too happy to help a wife humble her husband, as seems to be your experience from the restaurant.

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    2. Yes, it was humbling at the restaurant, and also later when paddle met tush. I was told to go commando for 48 hours including at work.

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    3. Ever see Ricky Gervais do his little bit on "going commando?" very funny.

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    4. Yep, funny stuff.

      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H9fegdPngJM

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  6. "..I'd ridicule him for his poor performance...

    You should also instruct her to ridicule david as well... "is it in?"..."are you hard yet?"..."you're not very big, are you?"..."it's over?! You didn't last very long at all..."

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  7. Love the Post. I was lucky to get the treatment # 1 once. My little penis is stretching my panties just envisioning being in the scene with you two !

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    1. My david blushes sooo much when I take him panty shopping. So cute. I bet you blushed also!

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  8. Hi

    Another breath taking and thought provking posting ma'am, wow. Not sure what to say or think about all of this. Now basically you have just given any new reader a summary of your blog, well done. I do remember many of these actions, scenes and your directing all of them. Under these circumstances, yes you were there, approved and directed, all in your control. I find panty shopping just amazing and humilitating yet a perfect turn on. I loved when you allowed him to get a hand job but not cum, ouch! But then the blow job scene followed by you fucking his ass, amazing.
    Personally, I love all these scenes. We have already agreed I would not want another man to enter me, no matter. In that same vain, I would not want to enter another ladies vagina....just a sacred thing to me ma'am and something I would not want, call me crazy but for all you do for him, I would want to enter only you. That is my position on the last one.
    Amazing, love panty shopping and yes I would love to be spanked in the back room by you and the sales lady!
    So thought provoking and stimulating, thank you.
    Always
    Ron

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    1. Wow. So much respect for the cunt. You guys seem to think it makes a difference whether you get a hand job or a blow job, or stick it into her pussy. It's cheating any which way, Mister President.

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    2. Wow, I think you misread my thoughts or I did not articulate them properly, no cumming at all as far as I am concerned unless the wife is directing the scene. So no ma'am, no blow jobs or hand jobs....I loved your scenes because you allowed it and directed it.

      Please me and President Clinton are not on the same page in many ways...he ruined this country and he cheated.

      Rereading my post, I would not and do not get blow jobs, hand jobs or any other sexual release outside of my home. Equally I do not give that pleasure to any lady I spank.

      Ouch, this one hurt, ma'am!
      Always
      Ron

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    3. By "you guys" I was talking males in general, but even you, ron, say that you don't cheat by getting handjobs or blowjobs (because that would be bad), but you specifically call out cheating by sticking a dick into a woman's cunt and how that is so bad that it's unthinkable. So even you are making a distinction, if I am reading this right?

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    4. Ma'am,

      No I may be missing something here Julie. I do not endorse or will I cum any which way outside of me house. I wiil be spanked or spank but no orgasm is part of my play. I do not Julie get any hand or blow jobs ma'am and would not unless my spouse is directing or giving it. I agree with you overall Julie and am sorry I am being made out to be looking for any "cum" edge! I want to be spanked or give a spanking, period.

      Thanks
      Always
      Ron

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  9. Wow! How adventurous!

    So far we've been much tamer. We have made some oblique and sometimes more direct comments in front of cashiers and other staff (like the time my wife reminded me in front of the drugstore cashier that she would treat me as soon as we were back to our room, when buying enema equipment), and we've bought sex toys, including strap-on dildoes, together (so the sex shop cashier could not ignore where it would go).

    Sex with other partners is a definite no. I can masturbate all right if my wife is away, but going to a "massage parlor" is waaaay off the map.

    My wife other sometimes mentions that she would like to spank me in front of a like-minded woman, or even get me spanked by the lady, but we've not had the occasion to play such a scene... for want of somebody suitable. We would have to find a playful and trustful person in our area.

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    1. Or... a professional! They are very discrete.

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    2. The thing is, we like sex (even kinky) and spankings to feel... homely, for want of a better word. For instance, missionary style is homely, spanking otk is homely, a martinet is homely, a strap-on dildo is a bit artificial but is ok, but bondage gear / leather / dominatrices is not our style. Going to see a professional seems out of step unless she was prepared to do it "mommy style" or similar.

      Plus... we're too shy. We currently live in France, where sex work is half-illegal (well, it's legal to be a client and legal to be a sex worker, but not to advertise it and so on). So I guess we'll leave it at that.

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    3. Not all pro dommes are into leather. If you want them act this way or that way, they are usually only too happy to do so. you could ask her to pretend to be a visiting friend, for example, and I am sure she would be happy to oblige. that's the way the one david and I went to see was like.

      But I understand your trepidation. You do not want to run afoul of the law, for sure.

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  10. I've asked my wife and, indeed, as expected, a trip to a massage parlor, even for a handjob, is unthinkable.

    She has a very simple vision of this: my penis is for her, and she's the only one getting penetrated by it ("This", pointing to my penis, "goes in there", pointing to her crotch, "and that's where it should go"; she also does handjobs, oral and anal but likes vaginal in priority). I can touch myself when she cannot attend to me, I could use vagina substitutes if needed (so far we've not bought any, but it seems fair anyway since she uses a dildo as penis substitute when I'm away).

    But no, no other woman. Or man. And I got spanked just for mentioning it. :-)

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    1. I am very delighted my blog post caused you to get a spanking! Yeah!

      I agree with your wife. I own my husband's penis, and it's mine to do with as I like.

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  11. Miss Julie,

    Why do you do this to me writing these post that beg to be commented on. And thus me running the risk of saying something Dianne finds inappropriate.
    But here it goes. As Dianne commented above she's guilty of 1 & 2. But for me number 2 was the only one that was a fantasy of mine. But then once it happened I found it was more humiliating than panty shopping. I've been spanked by Amy her sister and in front of her several times now as well as once in front of Dianne's friends and still find it very embarrassing.
    As for the rest of the list visiting a pro disciplinarian is the only one I'd ever considered but that was before Dianne started spanking me. I never did it because of fear of getting caught. There are not any close to us and the nearest one would take at least a days travel there and back. Not to mention the cost would be hard to hide. As you know to well I did finally slip up and make it happen with Dee and still regret that to this day.
    As far as the rest of the list, the rub and tug the blow job or intercourse with another woman. I won't lie they all sound exciting but I would never do that to Dianne. And finally sex with another man is a huge turn off. I don't even like it when Dianne does this to me with her strap on.

    bob s.

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    1. bob,

      If you're not allowed those things, why bother stating here that they excite you? You keep that to yourself. As it is, it's a big dis on Dianne, and she should deal with that. Most severely deal with that in my opinion.

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    2. Bob, Bob, Bob...won't you EVER learn? "...I won't lie they all sound exciting..."

      Did you just put that in print? I'm bettin' your about to become familiar with the couch cushion...as in your going to be bent over the couch getting CANED!

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    3. Miss Julie,

      Dianne wanted me to tell you she agreed with you on this. Now I'm here at work this morning with a very sore and welted bottom, because I got the cane last night among other things.
      bob s.

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    4. So basically Bob, everything went according to plan! Ha I can spot your game 1000 miles away. Glad you're getting what you need though!

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    5. You are exactly right. bob is very transparent, and I try to "help him" get his spankings whenever I possibly can!

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    6. I won't argue with the fact that bob does fantasize about getting a spanking. Or the fact that he does things like this when his fantasies run wild and he starts thinking with the wrong head. But I will let you know that once he gets himself that spanking I make sure to kill any excitement associated with it at the time he's getting it. That's not to say that he won't get excited about it before or after as I've learned over time. But actually during a spanking all that excitement eventually goes away when you spank hard and long enough.
      So yes I know he was fully aware of what he was doing on this comment but I wouldn't say everything went according to plan for him. The cane and strap are the two implements he has no love for. Nor does he enjoy writing lines or having any kind of anal penetration so that's why I did only those things. And yes Julie you are a big help and please let me know if I ever miss anything on here you feel is a spankable offense. If I don't catch it then please shoot me an email and I'll be all to happy to deal with it.

      Dianne

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  12. my Wife has involved other women in play time as well. The first time she bought me a bra and pantie set and told the sales girl they were for "a boy" (i wasn't there) The sales girl said "I think that would look cute on a boy!" She then took me to the same store a few days later, when we left she told me it was the same girl. She has also told a friend about me wearing panties, chastity, getting spanked, etc. She has not witnessed any of it except a picture off me in chastity. While she is free to have sex with whom ever she wants i to date have only gotten to be with another girl one time and she was there with the girls b/f doing the same thing. As for me being taken by another man, that is one of her ultimate fantasies (she wants to see me suck him and let him take my ass) and i have agreed to go along with it at least once.

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    1. Good boy! Taking it from a man at your wife's command will be the ultimate in submission for you. Please report back if and when that deed is done.

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    2. i will for sure. i do actually enjoy her using her strap on and she says the comparison between it and the real thing is night and day.

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  13. Wow you really give your husband alot of freedom in certain ways. My FLR GF is very strict and demanding. If I even look at another girl when we are out I will get slapped in the face or told "Just wait till we get home". Masterbating is always a no go. Once she caught me and strapped both my hands almost raw and then used her cane and hair brush on my ass!! I will never forget that day :( But regarding your post, I just don't understand why you would want your husband to be sodomized by another man! That would be so humiliating and degrading!! Could you ever look at him the same again?? Would you get pleasure from it?? And what if he loved it and wanted to be with men more??

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    1. I am equally strict when it comes to scoping other women. If I see his eyes wandering, he's in for a good spanking. Part of the key is that he does only what I allow him to do, and absolutely nothing more. Also, while I do not forbid him to masturbate, he knows that if I catch him at it red-handed, he is due for a good dose of strap oil.

      As to him being sodomized by another man. Yes it is a major turn on for me. If he wants to be my bitch, then I'll make him my bitch by loaning his ass out to whomever I please. If he likes it, then we'll see if he likes being a cum bucket for 5 or 6 guys at once...

      ;-)

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    2. Do you "drill" david's ass until you strike 'strap oil'?! ;-)

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    3. It's really more like one of those percussion drills.

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  14. Hi Ms Julie,

    Thought provoking as ever.
    The two 'ultimate' scenarios you presented made me think. Maybe after the patrician matriarch scene you could follow up with daily spankings for a week to reinforce who's in charge (similar to when he had the blowjob from your sister's partner).
    The precurser to david taking a real cock would seem to be for him to suck one. Maybe if you get him femmied up enough beforehand that might help get him in the mood.

    as you say
    hmm...

    lill jo

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    1. Oh yes. If he ever got to fuck another woman (which I am definitely not 100% sure on at this point!) then for sure he would be paying the piper for AT LEAST a week of daily, very strict and painful strappings. I'm sure the fucking would be a delightful experience for him (as brief as I expect it to be), but I would need to strap him so hard that he would have to think very hard about ever doing it again, even if I am offering!

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    2. Mmm... I wish I was on the receiving end.

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  15. Julie, I can relate to many of the adventures you have had. I adore, just adore public play and have put hubbette in many embarrassing situations. Shopping can be loads of fun. I have hubbette trained with the use of hand signals and one of my favorites is sissy voice. A flick of the wrist and no matter where we are he has to use his sissy voice. I Crack up every time. You think it funny when they have to ask to be sized for panties or bras? Try it when he talks with a sissy lisp. He will occassionaly wear an anklet, his pink Ked's as well just to bring attention to him.

    I've also done the pro domme thing and it was a ball. We have actually gone a few times and one of the trips I surprised him and arranged to have another male sub there. I won't go into details. LOL Like you I think it would be fun to see a real man take my little sissy hubbette. As we have ventured into cucking I know this is a matter of time.

    I've dragged him to adult shops and made him stand in the gay magazine section and watched the men flock. LOL One of my favorites was bringing him to a hotel in a very gay community. I slipped him a viagra without his knowledge and we hit the pool, him in his litle speedo. Well it didn't take long for that little speedo to get bigger. Needless to say he attracted lots of attention and was sent into the locker room. It didn't take long for a few of the fella's to follow. LOL

    When he is allowed to enter me, which isn't that often I do ask if he is in. Really, you are? I can't feel a thing. Now you know why I date. Done? It's only been a minute, you can't be done.

    Some of these things I really enjoy and others I don't. I know what he likes and sometimes it does have to be about him. This man allows me to use him like a chalk board and tolerates whatever I try. I love him for this and it's important to balance all this out to insure you both enjoy the ride.

    I think you may have inspire me to write my next post.

    QG

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    1. Thank you for the comment. It was very entertaining and I am looking forward to that post you mention! I agree with you 100% that it needs to be also about him. Can we help it if what turns him on happens to be very useful to us as well?

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  16. Personally to me i think every guy should be allow be with other females only if wife or gf allow it mostly if the guy love being spanked but wife or gf not into the guy can be spanked punish by other female to teach him be good boy and to obey his wife/ gf and other female might make realontinship better too or marriage

    i been dreaming of being punish by 2 female either by my gf/ ( if i had one and her friends) or a female i know and her neighbor at same time to me that be hot to experience

    i think cool thing be me getting spanked by a female for pissing off a friend or neighbor or breaking something important of their then have to go over my gf or female friend lap for good sound spanking after she find out about and having the other female watch or hear it

    i even seen female saleperson at certain store who i would love tell her to punish me or i like be punish iam still trying warm up to idea of telling a victoria secert saleperson i need panties and be spanked in them

    bottom line is i would tell my female friend gf/ wife about these fantasty to see if she allow it or not if answer know casue my ass is hers i can live with that since by ass being punish by her

    Mie
    madison ohio

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    1. I think you would make some dommy lady a very good subbie boy, mike.

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    2. Miss Julie i agree i make a domme lady or strict lady a very good subbie boy and i be getting spanked alot by her but be for my own good/ lol right you be right there cheering her on iam sure

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  17. It is extremely empowering to discipline your male in front of other females. You are quite fortunate to have a sister who is supportive of the FLR. When you have a sister or friend with which you can share your experience, it leads to even greater dominance and confidence.

    Beneficially, the assistance of another woman makes the male even more submissive to your desires.

    I too share a desire like yours - to make my husband suck cock and and be sodomized - I would LOVE it!

    Gloria

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    1. It seems to be a common theme of us women wanting to see our guys sodomized. Someone should right a Psychology Ph.D. thesis on that one!

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    2. They could title it "Inside The Minds Of Crazy Bitches And The Men That Love Them" :D

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    3. Hey!

      I resemble that comment!

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  18. Hi Julie

    Interesting topic. Glad to hear you got your own bum spanked by the domme. After all if you can dish it out...

    steve

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  19. Actually, it was my husband who spanked my poor little bare bum while she watched, but then I got to spank her next, and after that, david REALLY got his!

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  20. The young lady in the massage parlour picture is lovely indeed!

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  21. Great post, I agree about david going with a man, it was my wife's plan to have me suck cock and be taken by a Scandinavian blond hunk to fulfill her wish was amazing as an act of submission and as it turned out an amazing experience for me in that I would never have thought it would be a turn on in any way, but.............

    I am sure that withdrawing some of his beatings until he agrees to fulfill your wishes will soon have him agreeing to try it just to please you, after all he sees himself in some of the porn he watches as the dominated girl, not such a big step further????

    Emily

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  22. Scenarios # 1 and # 2 are the only ones that I have followed thus far. Number 1 has led to a number of amusing scenes (e.g. purchasing a martinet on two separate occasions, spankings in small hotels, threats of paddling in fitting rooms at the mall or in a restaurant).

    Number 2 is actually the first scenario I followed - beginning with my sister, of course, and later with three of my woman friends.

    As for the rest, I doubt that I will ever try them ... but you never know :-)

    J(2)

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  23. Oh my, this "walk through the past" made me lose it! Heh heh. :)

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