Husbands who are Allowed Other Women

My last post was about cheating husbands. I thought I'd do another post on the flip side of cheating, which is wives who allow their husbands to have sex with other women.

I am such a wife, for sure. In this post I'll recount my experiences, fears, and motivation and tell you how I felt about them when all was said and done. I am also looking forward to getting comments back from husbands and wives out there on this flip side of cheating, so please post your thoughts in the comment section.

1. Public Outings

It started with me taking him out for embarrassing public panty shopping expeditions where the salesgirls knew who we were shopping for, and he was once even made to change into a pair for the trip home.

Not really "sex" with another woman, but involving another woman in his kink felt quite sexual to me. I had a ton of fear going into it, but fear in a good sense. A giddy sense.

What motivated me was that david shared his fantasies of being dominated by me in front of other women. He shared them with me not in the least sense hopeful that I would ever act on them, but just that I would use these fantasies as a tease for him in verbal play. But at some point I just said "why not" and acted on his fantasy, mainly because it had also become a fantasy of mine.

It turns out we both share the same fantasy from opposite points of view. david fantasized that being dommed by me in front of another woman would increase my dominance over him significantly, which turned him on. As I thought about it, the thought of me demonstrating my complete dominance over my husband to other women turned me on as well. It felt almost territorial!

It was definitely a very sexual experience for both of us, and bringing another woman into it was a big taboo that I broke right through, and it turned out to just be fun for all concerned, which is how sex ought to feel.

I took him out panty shopping a  few times, and took him out shopping to a sex store once where the shop ladies and I had in depth discussions on which paddles to use on his bum, and the size of the dildo I should be using in my strap-on harness!


2. Spanked In Front of Others

Given that my first public outing went so well I thought it would be fun to up the ante for david, and I gave him his first spanking in front of another woman.

It was our personal trainer, Rebecca.

She was my personal trainer first, and I brought her home to train david as well. I knew she was liberated and fun loving, and she and I had a great relationship. I first just started hinting a little, and as she took the bait and didn't bat an eyelash I went further and further, culminating in giving him a pants-down (bare butt!) spanking across my knee in front of her.

As I was arranging all of this, I did feel certain pangs of jealousy and possessiveness at one point. Not the least because she was very young and attractive, and I could not fault david for being attracted by her physical attributes. But Rebecca was great. She was happy to watch but did not want to participate at all. She was genuinely interested in keeping david motivated for his training, and was so open-minded that if watching me spank him would keep him training, then it was all good by her.

In retrospect, Rebecca was the perfect first-time spanking witness, as she was so non-threatening and was just a fun person who had no qualms about me exposing my husband's bare butt to her, and who had fun with it as well. I think Rebecca was a launching pad for me to be even more daring.

From Rebecca I graduated to my sister, and eventually to one of her friends as well. For my sister Susan I had him dressed in lingerie for his first spanking in front of her, and gave her a full frontal of an erect husband as well before I spanked him! She participated that first time by watching and holding him a bit. Sue was also great, and also so open-minded about the whole thing, and enjoys the domming thing herself as well. Sue eventually progressed to spanking him herself, quite strictly, and even things like watching him trying to (unsuccessfully) control himself during masturbation. We even went so far as including a strictly-delivered "milking" by her of him in our play as a Christmas gift from Sue and I to david.


3. Taken to the Massage Parlour

After the experience with Rebecca went so well, I decided that I would fulfil a fantasy of his, sort of, and with a twist.

david had cheated on me in our marriage by having gone to get handjobs at massage parlours before I started spanking him. This was something he had been doing routinely for many years, and I knew about this before we were married as something from his past. Well, I was very angry with him when I found out that he had kept it up even after we were together. It almost ended our marriage, but I forgave him and made him promise never ever to do that again.

Fast forward a few years, and a new spanking kink discovered, and I got to thinking that it would be quite fitting if he were given a spanking at a massage parlour. I was also thinking that I would allow him a handjob from the sex worker, but make it stop before he came and take him home hard as a lesson in cheating.

My motivation was not punishment at all. I knew david would love it, even if he was spanked and frustrated. And I knew that he loved massage parlours, and it was a thing he no longer had, but I had the power to give it back to him under my terms.

So I arranged it all and carried it all out, and it was a great experience because our lady was so great. She even stripped naked (with my approval) and waved her very pretty pussy in my husband's face and told him he would never ever get to fuck that.

As she was giving him his sexy handjob I did not feel jealous at all. Not in the least. It was because it was me who was making this happen, and it was me who could make it all go away as well. Just to prove that to myself is why I made her stop before he came, and drove him home hard and bothered, much to the delight of those half-dozen sex workers who saw me march him out to our car with a tent in his pants as our girl explained to them that an angry wife had just given her cheating husband his come-uppance!

I took him again to the massage parlour, and this time let him cum. He was positive I wouldn't let him cum that time, so again I demonstrated who was in control (especially as I had him in panties that needed to be pulled down off his cock for his handjob!)

I actually found that I enjoyed giving him the gift of allowing other women to sex him. Just so long as he knew who could give it to him and who could take it away from him.


4. Visiting a Professional Submissive/Dominatrix

One of the things I allowed david was a threeway with a pro switch. It was under my instigation, but I allowed him to arrange it all. It was a lot of fun and I really liked the lady. I got to spank her, and my husband got to spank me in front of her (that's what I get for letting him arrange things! Ha!), but we ended with the two of us severely domming him where he got whipped hard and then fucked in the ass by each of us while the other stuffed a cock down his throat.

It was fun for me, and it was a fun gift for david as well.


5. Oral Sex

I had kind of expected that the very occasional handjob from a sex worker would be as much sex as he was ever to see from another woman. But that changed when my sister asked if her bisexual submissive, Trina, could be allowed to act out a fantasy of being "punished" for being a slut tease by being "forced" to have sex with a man by her dominant girlfriend.

Well, the cast of characters was perfection for this fantasy, so we went ahead and acted it out. Sue and I decided that "sex" would consist of a blowjob for my husband. So I allowed him to receive a very deep-throated blowjob from Trina, and even allowed him to clamp the back of her head, thrust into her, and cum inside her mouth.

I was pretty conflicted deciding to go ahead with this, but in the end the sheer sexiness of it just won out, and I also thought that it would be fun to give my husband the very unexpected gift of a blowjob from another woman completely out of the blue (he was not "read into" the fantasy at all - it just unfolded in front of the poor bewildered dear!).

He did have to pay the piper later though, and Sue and Trina were both treated to the show of me "explaining" to my man who owns his ass in front of them.

Again, I just love demonstrating the control, and frankly, I love delighting david with these very unexpected gifts.


6. Intercourse

Well, I've given him the gift of everything else, is intercourse with another person anywhere in his future?

With another man? Yes, in a second. I would love to see a handsome stud fuck his ass hard for me.

I think that would learn him who owns his ass all right! But he has not yet agreed to this, and it's nothing I will ever force onto him.

How about allowing him intercourse with another woman?

Maybe...

Here would be my fantasy if I did it...

They would both be submissive to me. I would be the Mistress of the manor. They would be two of the help who were caught fucking. They would both be bare naked. I would be dressed in an elegant riding outfit holding a crop.

She would be flat on her back, with her hands tied above her to the headboard. She would have already received her belting in the stables. He would be made to lie on top of her, missionary style, and insert his penis into her vagina. He would then get a strict whipping from my riding crop as I made him thrust into her. The dear boy would last about 10 seconds I am sure. I'd ridicule him for his poor performance. I'd tie her ankles spread-eagled up to the headboard as well as her wrists, bending her over double. I'd make david clean her out, giving her with his tongue what he is so obviously incapable of doing with his penis, and not escaping the whip to his backside as he performs his duty to the girl.

Hmmmm.....!!!!