Thursday, January 29

Sixth Training Session

Since last time was five this must be david's sixth training session with Mags.

I was speaking with david about the sessions. We agreed that we did not think Mags was taking enough initiative. Sure, she was happy enough to whip his butt black and blue when presented with it, but she never really got into the spirit of initiating a punishment. So I decided to send Mags an email.

Rather than being critical, I congratulated her on what a super job she's been doing. Then I asked for a favour. I asked if, next time, if she would become a bit of an actress for us. I asked if she would start off the session by pretending to be angry with david's lack of progress, and then make him take a spanking over her knee as punishment. All a bit of acting on her part. I sent a couple of photos along as well, suggesting what I had in mind for his spanking.



I said that, of course, we would throw in a little cash bonus for the acting job. She wrote back a very short reply saying "that works for me ;-)". I told david about this so he knew to expect something, and knew to give her a bonus if she did well.

I was not there during the session, but the following is what david recounted.

They started off by Mags telling david that she had something she wanted to discuss with him. She had him stand in front of her. She perched herself on the seat of the weight machine and told him off about his lack of progress. She said he was meeting his calorie goals, but all the calories were concentrated at night and in snacks and he will never make any progress like that. david stood there, and as the lecturing went on and on, he became bashful, looked at his feet, crossed his hands in front of himself (as he was becoming hard from the scolding!), and said "yes, Miss" over and over again.

Then Mags said she thought he deserved a spanking for his lack of progress. She told him to turn around and to kneel on the floor. She got the riding crop. She asked him for how many days he had been eating poorly like that? david answered "all week". "And how many days is that?" she asked. "Seven" david said. "Right then," she said, "you'll get seven strokes as punishment." She smacked his upturned bottom seven times with the crop. Over his gym clothes...

Ok. Not getting it!!!! Arghhhh! When I heard this I despaired a bit. Not like either of the pictures I sent. I was pretty clear his pants should have been down! And seven strokes over his gym pants? That's NOTHING for her. Nothing at all. But david told me, "wait, there's more."

After the "spanking" she stood him up again and made her face him. She went back to her perch on the weight machine. She said "let that be a lesson to you."

Then david said she looked a little nervous and then she took off her long sleeved orange top, revealing a sports-oriented tank top showing lots of cleavage.


david said she showed remarkably large plump breasts (they had been really well hidden before now), with the top of the tank cut low, almost down to her nipples.

david stood there stunned at what she had done. She told him to get a move on and they started in on the exercising.

They repeated the pattern of exercises interspersed with a dozen or so hard swats with various implements (paddle, strap, crop, and cane). On the very first set, Mags pointed at him with her crop and said "Bend over. Pants down". That's the first time she ordered him to pull his pants down. Progress!

Well, david pulled his pants down and offered up his blue-pantied rear end for his smacks. He was a bit disappointed that she did not take the initiative to order him to lower his panties as well, but he said things were still playing out and he was still hopeful on that front.

As the exercises and the smackings went on, Mags became more and more severe on both fronts. Each time she ordered him to bend over, then as per my previous instructions, he always took his gym pants down, and half the time (still as per my instructions) he pulled his panties down as well to offer up his bare bottom for punishment. Those were MY instructions to david!

On several occasions she had him lie face down on the floor. On these occasions david completely bared his bottom for her. He said she got more physical with him, in that she would use her hand to lift his shirt up higher, well above his waist, and then she would put her bare hand down on his back to hold him in place while she used the cane very hard on him. She had really up to now never touched him like this so this was more progress.

Another time she ordered him face down on the floor, and she put her sneakered foot on the small of his back, and whipped the strap down on his ass!

david said that on several of these occasions she did not stop at the usual 4 or 6, but kept going and going, giving him really hard ones over and over again and leaving a mess of his bottom (to that I can attest!). Though she did do a better job of "colouring inside the lines".

david said that during these types of whippings he was writhing on the floor and crying out, but she kept going. Afterwards, he cried out and grabbed his butt cheeks for relief. I know that when david does this, he always manages to pull his cheeks apart and show off his bum hole, which I am SURE Mags got an eyefull of. david would then get slowly and painfully to his feet, covering up his penis with his hands and turning away from her while he restored his panties and shorts.

Once, when he was acting bashful like this she said "You know, I can see right through those panties. I can see everything." We don't know if she was solely referring to the see-through nature of the panties (they were not that see through). Or perhaps to the way they mold to his genitals (they do do that)? Or perhaps to the fact that when she is beating him and he is in the standing position clutching the main post of the weight machine, then even with his panties up his penis and testicles will spill out the front due to his uncontrolled movement. Since there is a large mirror in that room, then even when he is turned away she would catch an eyefull of bouncing and dancing bare naked private parts. Perhaps this explains why the whippings were so much more extended at times. Maybe she was enjoying making a much older man's penis and balls flop for her amusement as he writhed in agony under her super strict cane?

david said that the beatings were easier to take because of her breasts. Each time afterwards he was rewarded with the sight of her young plump breasts apparently blushing in excitement. He said that once after a particularly severe caning he was feeling so submissive when he turned to see her breasts that he fell to the floor and kissed the tops of her sneaker.

So, all in all, a very interesting session yet again. She keeps the surprises coming.

But let's pause here and ponder what happened? Why did she not really follow through on the first spanking, but then go so much further than usual during the session? This is what I think happened. I think she had intended to scold him while dressed in her sexy top, and then take him over her knee, bare his bottom, and spank him for a reasonable duration as was clear from the photos. But I think she got nervous in the moment, or got cold feet somehow, and forgot most of it except the scolding. Afterwards, when she realized how pathetic her 7 stroke cropping to his clothed rear was, and perhaps how her bonus was in jeopardy, she recalled everything she was intending to do, and started enacting it piecemeal instead. That's my theory anyways.

Her happy cruelty, though, that's another thing. In this session, once again, despite david's obvious and intense suffering, and despite his deeply marked bottom, she was smiling and laughing cruelly at him the whole time, not feeling sorry for him at all.

And here is where we get another piece of the puzzle. During this session she commented how when she did ballet as a child, there wasn't a week went by when she wasn't crying in her ballet class, and that their Ballet Mistress was exceptionally strict with them all. But she thought this was good for her, and explains why she is so focused and disciplined in her life now. She said that when she eventually has a daughter, she will definitely put her into intense ballet as well to help her build character...



Definitely another piece of the puzzle!

At the end of the session, she helped him to stretch (hands on) for the first time. After it was all done, david escorted her to the door and added our agreed upon bonus to her pay. He says she seemed very delighted with what she had earned and how she had earned it. I think we may be creating a pro domme! I can hook her up...

57 comments:

  1. Maybe you should invite her to watch a complete session between you and David. Telling her what to do ,is good . But showing her might be better. (Lucky David!)

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    1. Or... I just get to see how it unfolds. Like I'm an anthropologist!

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  2. A very good post Mistress Juliesp. david already knows his bottom should be bare for correction. I believe Mags is starting to get the hang of if and she might just be holding back because david is your husband. Although you have given her permission to correct him and ideas how such as scolding and spanking prior to a work out, he is still your husband. I had suggested before when the time is right I feel you should be there for the full session and you both should be correcting david with you taking the lead and giving her encouragement. I also feel some day Mags will have her own submissive and make a wonderful dominate.
    archedone

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    1. Yes, she does seem to be a natural, though she will need a heavy sub!

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  3. Miss Julie,
    I don't want to be the one going in opposite direction here but I think that for Mags everythink is very new and arriving at the sixth appointment allready at this level I feel is amazing.

    What I still think could be helpfull for Mags is to understand how long her beating are lasting on your hsband body: for exemple send her a pics after 12 hrs she will notice that she can push much more.
    Somethink I'm interested to know is wether the playfull femdom marriage is changed in more a real one ore is still playfull...are you planing to change it in the future??
    My wife has been very strict with me since we married but we have never directly involved anyone. I say directly because my wife dosn't hesitate to give me direct orders with friends and families: clean the disches, we shall discuss this later alone, etc etc and usualy with folks aroubd the house I'm forced to wear diaper and use it for nr. 1

    Thabks for your encounter pls continue

    S

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    1. I'm not sure if I'm comfortable with any harder. I don't want my baby beaten that hard every week!

      Nope, I don't think that will ever change. But it's very ambiguous, as I scene him whenever I want to, and sometimes the scenes involve a lot of housework for him! Mind you, I have take the trouble to humiliate him during his chores, so it's not like there's no work for me!

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  4. I hate to be the voice of dissent, but even though you seem quite pleased with Mags, she comes across as a bit of an uninhibited ditz who's doing this for the money. She doesn't seem able to remember the simplest instructions, but perkily and incorrectly executes the requested activity.....sort of a lean, athletic bunny-foo-foo with a whip. Sorry, but that is how she comes across. Good luck though. At least it seems you two like her, and that's what's important.

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    1. I can see how you could get that impression. I also am at a loss why she can't carry through on simple instructions, but I am inclined to think that it's due to her inexperience, not her intelligence.

      These things push her comfort zone. An older, more experienced soul would know their own limits and be secure in them, but she is too young, and does not want to set a hard limit without experiencing a thing first, so she does not yet know her own limits, and therefore pushes her comfort zone, and therefore falters.

      As to the money, I don't think it's about that as I have always pushed the money on her. However, no question that she is pleased with the money. And I also think she is earnest in wanting to earn her money.

      I think I just naturally think better of people that you, kd!

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    2. LOL. I would believe that! Anyway, you've met her and gotten the chance to pick up on things I can't. Youth might explain it, but in my experience age has very little effect on these things. I've seen very young people take to this as naturally as breathing, but like I said, you know her better than I. And I am sincere in my best wishes for you all......curmudgeon that I may be.

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    3. Ha ha! You seem like a very sweet curmudgeon!

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  5. I love the emailed instruction idea. Kind of sad she missed some of your direction though. I agree with your thoughts of seeing how it unfolds too. I'm guessing you already thought of this but In my experience you "expect what you inspect" so maybe a follow-up email with your feedback from last session would continue to assist in her Dom progression? I'm excited for the day she's got him bare bent over her knee as his penis is pressed hard against her legs!

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    1. Yes, I think that's a good idea. Congratulate her on what she did do, acknowledge that she is pushing her own boundaries, and then say how much fun it would be for me if david reported back a real OTK spanking!

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  6. She is sure on her way. Jessie has been pretty quiet has anything else happened since her first waxing and outing to her girlfriends? Hope she writes again as well.

    Emily

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  7. Ms Julie,
    Mags is quite lucky to under your tutelage, even if she doesn't consciously recognize it as such! Does david ever actually cry from his spankings or can he handle the pain?

    As always, thank you so much for sharing and for filling us all with fantasies!
    Respectfully, doc

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    1. His eyes water, but he doesn't really cry.

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  8. I would change David's exercise wardrobe to give his trainer the sense of things. I would respectfully suggest adding a bra to his panties. I do all my workouts in a leotard and tights. A skirt or even a petticoat can be easily added. Bare bottom spankings are tougher but do-able.

    If David's trainer has ballet experience perhaps she can add barre ballet positions to his workouts. She might also require him to research and read up on ballet workouts. Super ballet exercise videos are available. Rehearsal tutus are inexpensive and readily available as well.

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    1. I do like the bra and breast forms for him. Perhaps I'll use that as a threat. If he doesn't lose 2 lbs by next session...

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  9. Bare bottom hairbrush spankings. There is NO substitute. Buy her a good wooden hairbrush and tell her to spank OTK until there are tears and true apologies, then add 100 swats.

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    1. Agreed! She can use mine. I also think the spanking only really starts once the begging does.

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  10. As always, thanks for sharing! What a wonderful life partner you are to david. The "education of a trainer" is fascinating. I wonder if you have considered having your sister drop by during a session - Mags may benefit from seeing another woman unfazed by the discipline - making it a more "normal" experience.
    She also may have a different kind of conversation with your sister more of a "shared outsider" viewpoint. Any thoughts along that line?
    mike

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    1. I don't know if Sue would take to playing like that with a woman she does not know...

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    2. Sue wouldn't have to play...merely observe that some things never change & that she too has had a turn at the business end of a tawse as far as david's backside is concerned...

      She could even chide Meg to step it up a notch...

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    3. Step it up?? She'll skin his ass!

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  11. Personal trainer I.e. Coach, then there must be gym shoe spanking.

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  12. Dear Miss Julie,
    I have a question for you: how can you ensure that your trainer is not going to disclose anythink?
    ultimately my wife is discussing how much of our lifestyle should become public and howmuch should remain within closed doors.

    Thanks

    S

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    1. It is a risk, for sure. I approached her anonymously, and only when I felt comfortable with her did I invite her into our home. But on the flip side, so she blabs? I think spanking is such a "mainstream" kink nowadays that we could laugh it off with minimal to no damage to reputation. It's a risk, but the fun and frolic is worth the risk!

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  13. Dear Ms Julie, I am sorry I have not written in a while. I have been enjoying the reading your adventure with Mags. I would like to add to the ideas shared here. Mags may see keeping the panties on David as another form of humiliation. She did comment about them as you/David report. It does sound that she can lay in to David and the idea of giving her encouragement and applauding her action.

    On a side note. The idea of David fawning over her pretty breast could be a punishable offence and sense it was here breast, she should do the punishment. Also the addition of David in bra and forms for this "to teach him a lesson" may giver her some more understanding, that she has the right to take some liberties.

    The idea of David panties down bra on, taking a spanking and she watch not only his parts jump up and down, but his breast too.

    Just and idea,
    pie pie 4 now

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    1. Maybe tell her that you came across david masturbating (unauthorized). Add that you queried about what he was thinking and he admitted "Mags' breasts...". You can assure her that you made him finish under strict supervision, as ordered he consumed all of his ejaculate, and you punished him severely.

      Conclude with "you are free to punish him as well for this perverted transgression..."

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    2. I was thinking along those lines... She is away travelling for the next couple of weeks, so i might have missed my chance. Hopefully she dresses similarly again!

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    3. No doubt david will 'backslide' on his training/eating habits necessitating some behavior correction...

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  14. Mags to david is like a gym teacher, gym teachers give gym shoe spankings and cane spanking.

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    1. She has the cane. I think i can suggest the "gym slipper".

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  15. It seems that Mags needs to be shown how you handle him. I have a feeling she has no idea how far you take things when punishing or humiliating your husband. Maybe interrupt one of their workouts to punish him for some embarrassing domestic transgression. Show her what a real hairbrushing is!

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    1. That is an exciting thought. Though more likely for a food-related transgression to keep things topical.

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  16. If you are there in the next session, attend the beginning and when Mags says david is not doing well, scold him while slapping his face then tell Mags to punish him. She should then spank him hard the way you like Julie.

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    1. A popular sentiment!
      And I do LOVE a good face slap. Maybe get her into it...

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    1. Yes, there are some ab exercises that have you place your feet up and behind your head. We can have him do that in the nude! OMG his little bottom hole would be sooooo exposed!!

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  18. Julie
    Amazing, spankings and panties......heavenly ma'am!
    Always
    Ron

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  19. Do you think you will spank Mags as you did with previous trainer?

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    1. I don't get the sense this one is at all subbie, so likely not. If she asked, I would oblige, though. I 'kinda like spanking girls too! ... "I spanked a girl and I liked it, oooh, made her ass red like cherry chapstick"

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  20. If Mags has travelled will you take up the slack? Does David need to be reminded who is the alpha female in his life? Dont you think he needs to be shown who he belongs to and who administers sticter and more paihful punishment? Given the long gap between the last time you played with David, are you getting tired of him or feeling stale?

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    1. No, I keep him well spanked. But I usually don't like blogging about same old same old...

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  21. We find a riding crop as an almost perfect spanking implement. It is easy to use and can be used on almost any part of the body. It makes a lovely sound when swung.

    When I am doing my workouts my wife will often walk around and motivate me with the riding crop.

    She has also started to make me ride the exercise bike while wearing a butt plug. The pumping action feels like I am riding a real cock.

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  22. You rock girl! What a world that you create for us! Amazing.....

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  23. You are amazing! Clever. Witty. Erotic to no end. Love it........

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