Tuesday, April 24

Naughty Husband Gets The Belt!

I mentioned in my last blog post, Raped by the Sister! which featured a roleplay between by husband and I, something that turned out to be remarkably prescient a week later. I wrote, "it is true that our most common "roleplay" is Strict Alpha Wife on top of submissive beta husband (and yes, sometimes even I wonder how much it's a role and how much it's r/l!)". Well, so it came to pass that we "roleplayed" me whipping his ass after he screwed up for real!


It happened last Sunday afternoon. It was the first really spring-like day in Toronto. Sunny and 15C (~60F). My husband and I are reasonably avid bicyclers and I had been itching to get out on the road.


Especially so since we have a cycling vacation in the summer, and I need to train for it. He does not need to, as he always seems to be faster than me with less effort, but I do need to train despite me being in better overall shape than he.

So, Sunday early afternoon I'm with my husband and say, "Hey! Let's get the bikes out!"

He looks a bit reticent and says, "oh, gee, I don't think they're ready."

"So get them ready," I say. I mean, what's the big deal, right?

"Well," he says, "the tire on your bike is flat and the valve is broken and we don't have a spare inner tube, so I'd need to go out and get that, and then change it, and check out the bikes. It'll take a few hours."

What?!? That valve was broken at the end of last season. He said he would fix it over the winter. And it's not even the normal kind of valve that, like, NEVER BREAKS! No, it's some skinny little fancy valve that breaks! This isn't the first time either. And "a few" hours is too long. We have Sunday dinner later and that would not leave enough time.

I look at him icily and say, "you said you would fix that over the winter."

"Yeah, sorry, slipped my mind..."

Pathetic.

"Take your belt off. Give it to me," I order him.

"Oh honey, no, come on!" he says, knowing what's coming: a good ass whipping! But he's well trained and starts removing his belt regardless and hands it to me.


"Drop 'em and bend over the back of that couch," I say.

david looks pained, but unfastens his pants, drops them to his ankles, and bends over the back of the sofa, with his elbows down on the seat and his tip-toes on the floor. He left his underwear up. I go up to him and yank his underpants down to his knees. His legs are fairly close together because of the bunched pants at his ankles. I play the belt over his ass without striking him yet.


I double up the belt and I snap it against itself.


"Why are getting this?" I ask him.

"Because I screwed up?" he answers.

"Because you screwed up," I confirm.

Then I begin his punishment. I allow some of my genuine anger to channel into my right arm as I deliver the first of many resounding strikes to his bare bottom with his own thick leather belt. I could have been out biking!

I deliver the strokes right handed, standing to his left. I am always careful to aim the tip of the belt where I want it to land, so I don't get wrap-around to his flanks, and so that I can target his near cheek as much as the far one. I really turn my body into each stroke and let my arm fully rotate and extend, adding a whip with my wrist at the end (I'm a tennis player, and I use a stroke similar to that, but with extra wrist action). So, in short, I know how to serve up a memorable belt whipping. Each stroke sounded like a gunshot.

Already in the first part of his whipping I had him in some measure of distress.  The sounds of heavy and well-placed belt strikes is unmistakable. Equally unmistakable are the grunts, cries, and fanny wrigglings of a husband in the process of being very well-tanned with such a leather belt. I counted in my head approximately 50 strokes, all concentrated around his butt cheeks and high upper thighs. I took my time between strokes. Maybe about one every five seconds or so. When belabouring his left cheek I allowed a bit of wrap around into his left ass crack and left inner thigh. After these 50 he was already dark and dusky red with some marks indicative of future bruising coming up in places.

I then re-positioned myself to be directly behind him. I crouched a bit low, and I let loose the doubled-up belt directly down his ass crack, also angling a bit left and bit right to get to the insides. I gave him about 20 of these. During these is when he got a bit frantic, and started begging for it to be over, and begging "not there! not there!" over and over again. Oh yes! Right there! He would not escape some bruising where his cheeks came together.

I then returned to his left side to finish up his strapping with another 50. I think he might have been numbing up by now, so I had to go even harder to get the reaction I wanted. Got lots and lots of apologies and promises to do better. By the time I was done, he knew he had been punished, for real. There's a little mewling sound he makes even after I've stopped. "myeah, myeah, myeah, ..."

Not quite this bad, but close!

"Stand up," I told him, "and I better not see an erection!"

He stood painfully and turned towards me. He spontaneously put his own hands on top of his head without my even asking him to. He was soft like a tiny wet noodle. Good!

"Did you learn your lesson?" I asked him patiently.

"Yes Ma'am!" he practically yelled out.

"Do we need another session with the belt to remind you?" I asked.

"No Ma'am! Please Ma'am! No!" So frantic.

"In that case you better get those bikes ready to go for next weekend. No excuses!"

"Yes Ma'am. No excuses!!!"

For some reason I believed him.

I know some of you will think that I am being overly cruel with my husband for a slight affair. It is actually he who craves the beatings he gets, and I accommodate. It is cathartic for him to be beaten like this for a true misdeed. In this case, it is most true that you need to be cruel to be kind!


128 comments:

  1. not repairing the tire over the winter? I feel the belt was well deserved. Robyn has used a doubled up belt on me many times, and yes some were over the sofa but she likes me over the sofa arm rest with my knees tucked into the sofa side so my bottom is arched out more. Good job using the belt.
    archedone

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  2. Nice job Julie!Do you think David will be able to sit on the saddle this weekend?
    That reminds me....best get our bikes in order for this week !

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  3. The swift and impromptu punishment was entirely deserved and fully appropriate.David should have known spring was in the air and got both bikes in condition.(Whatever happened to puncture repair kits and those little valve repair hoses?
    He messes up, he gets spanked. End of story.
    Like the last pic , combining two favorite temptations.Have a good ride next week , maybe David bare- red-assed in the Tour de Flash and stay away from Toronto sidewalks.

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  4. Hmmmm, I' not sure I'd call 'this one' a 'roleplay'. LOL

    TomAYto/tomAHto. But still......isn't it invigorating to use a punishment when there is an actual offense? Well done!

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    1. Cathartic for me as well. Turned that frown upside down!

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  5. Oh, how I wish (fear?) having someone here to chastise me in such a caring, loving manner when I screw up or miss a goal. Yes, in the moment I would probably hate it, but the knowledge that someone cares enough to truly punish me would be wonderful. Catharsis would also be fantastic.

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    1. Well, mitch, don't you have a good spanking coming up?

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    2. In a way, I wish. Sadly (happily?) it turned out not so.

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  6. I am glad to see you are re-asserting your authority! We are not cyclists, but now that Spring is here, we have been hiking in the woods over the past three weekends... and you know what that means! Yes, L's derrière was bared and seriously striped with the switches I cut along the path! I love to think about the many times this will be repeated over the next few months (especially when we visit my sister in Burgundy this Summer) - but this, of course, doesn't mean that I will refrain from chastising him at home when he has "earned" it (as I, in fact, just did earlier today -with the martinet)
    J(2)

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    1. An interesting comment. I assume you are from France if you use a martinet? Did you use it on your partner's bottom or on his thighs?
      salut, richard.

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    2. Ah, Spring is in the air!

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    3. Speaking of martinet: I was in a village in the countryside, a kind of suburb not far from the agglomeration, a little chic. I knocked on the door of one of my clients.
      (I had met them once, but they were in a hurry, there was a big fat man who was rather unpleasant, the second was thin and nicer ... I had thought of a homosexual couple, thirty)
      That day, there was nobody. Suddenly, I saw, hung inside, at the entrance, a martinet with large black leather straps. Obviously, it was not for a dog and it was there to be seen. Any visitor arriving at the glass door could see it. You could not help but think that someone in the house was on the receiving end. Could not help but wonder who.
      Very humiliating for the submissive in this couple.
      Everyone could know.

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    4. Yes, J. "Spring is in the air" - and I expect several more of those outdoors switchings over the Summer (especially when we visit J(2)'s sister)... but that doesn't mean she won't use her hairbrush, or the martinet - which she always packs in her suitcase when we travel - to punish me in our hotel room (unless she chooses to use my own belt to strap me)...
      L.

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    5. A little humiliation for the submissive is good for their soul!

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    6. Did you have david mount the punishment strap in the hall closet, hanging there for real (after the babysitter roleplay) ?

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  7. Did you really think he would be hard after that beating? Even though we both know he loves it, erections don't stand up to sore bottoms. My erection disappears as soon as I start to yelp.

    Really nice piece. So far all I get is the paddle. That's bad enough. :)

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    1. I knew he wouldn't, but I find looking at him beaten limp drives things home.

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  8. Its clear your husband is emotional unstable. It is even clearer that you are even more unstable for agreeing to such sick desires.

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    1. Just because it is not "your thing" it makes them not right? Nobody forced you to read the blog so how do accidentally stumble upon a spanking blog if you aren't looking for it?

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    2. I'll take bstw921's comment as a compliment. Sick, unstable, and loving it!

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  9. Good spontaneous spanking with available implement. I like it this way. I prefer this more than special implement s

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    1. Yes, grabbing whatever is at hand is very "domestic" isn't it.

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    2. Your hand is always handy, Ms Julie.

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    3. Doesn't David prefer domestic spanking scenarios?

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    4. So as her slipper, but Julie is not into slipper spanking.

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    5. Yes, both my husband and I are really into the "domestic" scene.

      I like slippers! I got a bad rap somewhere there along the way. I just don't OBSESS over them like some of you guys! (But isn't such obsession the male charm?)

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    6. Will you use you slipper on David's bottom soon?

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    7. Soon, I promise! Is it sexier if it's my slipper or his?

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  10. I'm not sure that he really forgot....I frequently "forget" to do things because I crave the correction that is sure to come!!!!
    Love
    Kaaren

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  11. Jackie feels a belt is going too far, she has a flexable paddle she found, only used when I'm as she enjoys stating "A very naughty little boy", hate that. That really stings and gets my attention. I kick, squirm, plead but she is not letting me off of her lap until she is sure I've learned my lesson. It hurts so much if I have my pants and underpants around my ankles I kick them off in no time. I then must face the wall, these spankings I so much want to rub, but not even one rub. Joe

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  12. Question, as a male who is spanked I find being over a woman's lap is how I feel a spanking should be given. Dating I find older women feel the same, but younger women like the male bending over, against the wall, a chair. How do you prefer to give a spanking. A woman I'm seeing, older, it is always over her lap, makes the male feel like a naughty little boy, I agree. She also states she can spank longer when sitting and the target is in the proper position.

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    1. I definitely enjoy having my husband across my lap. It does feel more "maternal". But I also enjoy bending him over (like a bitch!) and going to town with a more distance-oriented implement. More "punishing" for sure.

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  13. as i know would get me in more trouble longer belt whipping longer otk hairbrush spanking even i would tell you no Hell NO when you ask me for my belt

    even stick tongue out tell you want my belt come get my belt then slap my own ass in front of you look back see what your going do about it

    i know what you going do about it give me look then yell belt now as grab belt bend me over longest belt whipping of my life iam sure be punished real good

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    1. If you resisted you'd get the cold shoulder: no more fun spankings nor fun sex. When you inevitably crawl back and apologize, then you'll hand me your belt and get it twice as bad.

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    2. yes miss julie i totaly understand you are right i know for fact i would crawl back on hand and knee maybe belt in my mouth for you with sad look in eyes be hurting you gave me cold shoulder have no one to blame only myself

      beg for forgiveness as well be lost with out fun spankings and fun sex would hurt me most

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  14. Cruel? Not even close. It is loving, kind and generous of you. Loving because you do it for him, at his initial request. Kind because accountability is foundational to respect and integrity. Generous because you are committed to giving all of yourself to him for his benefit, your benefit and for the benefit of your marriage. He either lied to you or disrespected you by not doing what he said he would do. On your beloved david's behalf, I say "Thank you Miss Julie for such generous, loving kindness!" Lc

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    1. His bruised purply bottom is all the thanks I need!

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    2. Great reply - love it! Lc

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  15. Seems harsh at first and yet seems like something that should happen to me. My wife prefers a paddle but I have asked for a belt, maybe you can have a talk with her.

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  16. Ha! Julie, you inspired me again : )

    https://picload.org/view/doraclal/julieinbikingmood.jpg.html

    (but I'm not sure the surroundings of Toronto and your breast are THAT hilly, please forgive me)

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  17. The discipline you describe is fairly severe, but it cannot be called cruel if your husband craves it and finds it cathartic. More and more women seem to be disciplining their husband or boyfriend nowadays (or maybe it is just coming out of the closet). Not all women are as severe as you are, but that is for each couple to decide for themselves. The important thing is that the discipline be applied on the appropriate part of the male anatomy. The humiliation of being punished on the bottom is always effective.
    richard.

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    1. Thank you, I agree. And he finds it even more humiliating when another woman is present to witness it, one of my favourites.

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    2. Having another woman witness it or even know about it is definitely humiliating. Some time ago my partner and I met a couple where the wife has been disciplining her husband for years. She keeps a cane hanging on the wall in the kitchen. She said that when they are expecting visitors who do not know about their lifestyle, she hides it. Their close friends and relatives are aware that she disciplines him though, so most the time the cane is on view.
      richard.

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    3. Only a small step from there to administering the caning in front of witnesses.

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  18. Real corporal punishment is going to look cruel by its nature. The intention is to teach a lesson, modify behavior, change an attitude, and to establish real authority in a relationship. It isn't a game. The one being punished is not going to like it one bit. In a consensual relationship, the method and severity of punishment is what works for those involved. Cruel but not too cruel.

    I don't see what you did as role play at all. That was you being very strict, and you really were teaching a lesson. Your authority is real, and behavior is going to change. It is too easy to forget casual promises made, but when we know the kind of old-fashioned licking we'll get for not following through, we don't take what we say too lightly or so much for granted. As adults we know this intellectually, but firm discipline is like putting what we know in bold red letters and placing the message in clear and unobstructed view. The erection is certainly not there after the spanking, but as central to our sexuality, as long as punishment is love, the thought of our strict and powerful wife remains a constant focus for arousal.

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  19. Hello Julie, It's what each one of us dreams about, being spanked to tears for a real offense, and I agree this was not role playing. Since you didn't get to ride your bike, did you at least ride David's face instead?

    John

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    1. Not that day, but Monday we "got it on"!

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  20. Absolutely love that . Every once in awhile i get it for true infractions . They are painfull but i do crave them.

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  21. I have no problem with what you did and what your describe and frankly I think he deserved it. Only once did my ex ever administer a true punishment whipping and she used a thin electrical cord. I hated it but had so much respect for her for doing so......it was not sexual either

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    1. Ooooh... thin electrical cord... need to try that on him. Vicious!

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    2. Yes, but be careful it must be thin, a thick one can cause big damage. Even with thin one he could easily bleed.

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  22. Question, Women who do spank, do they all want to inflict pain or make the male feel like a naughty little boy?
    My gf is a little older, she wants to insure I remember the spanking, but does not want to inflict real pain. She enjoys seeing me dance around, rubbing. Her real punishment is having to take her out to dinner. I try not to squirm, but cannot help it. She smiles, enjoys it, she also tells me that once home, women know that I have been given a spanking, they too enjoy seeing me squirm.

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    1. I can only speak for myself. To me the degree of pain is irrelevant, I am tuned in to satisfying his kinky needs. Those seem to include a certain level of pain. I imagine it does for you as well, or you would not be squirming in your seat making such a spectacle of yourself in front of those other women. Inflicting the pain that goes along with his kink is something I needed to get used to, and is a bit of a negative for me. But I have learned the necessity (as I said in the blog) that you need to be cruel to be kind, and relish not the pain I inflict, but his reaction to it and knowing how much he needs it and craves it and that I am satisfying that. THAT turns me on.

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    2. Oh, and yes, treating him like, and making my husband feel like, a naughty little boy is very important to him and hence me as well. Though a certain amount of extra disciplinary rigour is needed to make the same emotional impression on a grown man as a few spanks on the bum would for a little boy.

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    3. Are you saying there is no sadistic pleasure involved in what you inflict?

      I'm on both sides of the fence, so I get turned on by indulging the masochistic desires I have for certain kinds of pain and humiliation and, as a Dom (in position of control), or as an audience, I take a sadistic pleasure in the punishment of someone else. The punishment aspect excites me, which contributes to the humiliation.

      If I read an account of authentic corporal punishment, even if I don't condone it, I may find it appealing even when it's non-consensual and truly painful for the recipient. It gets fairly complicated, but there's a line where that appeal is killed. The simple explanation I can come up with is that it can't be a negative or unfair experience. It exemplifies some form of justice and benefit to one being redeemed. This is not always about what I find morally acceptable. We don't choose what turns us on, but we do choose to stand or fall.

      In order for a spanking to be truly satisfying to me, both spanker and spankee must get some kind of personal fulfillment out of it, more than just the pleasure they see in their partner. Inflicting this kind of pain for me is not an easy thing to do, but I do find it exciting. Giving or getting, it's also exciting that it satisfies her craving. If it doesn't turn her on or fulfill a need for her, I can't enjoy it.

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    4. "I am tuned in to satisfying his kinky needs" and "I am satisfying that". That's what I was trying to acknowledge in my earlier (oh so inadequate attempt) post. My wife would be furious with me for reading your blog but would never realize she could be to me what you are to david. You both are blessed beyond my ability to communicate. I just wanted to show some appreciation for all that you do. Lc

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    5. Interesting that you say that making your husband feel like a naughty little boy is important to both you and him. It is the same with my girlfriend and me. For example, one morning a few months back I yelled at her after she had asked me a polite question. Fortunately she did not yell back at me. Instead she said: "Naughty boy! There's no need to shout." She then gave me several firm smacks on the seat of my underpants (all I had on at the time). This brought me to my senses and saved us having a row.
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    6. Brett, for sure there is an element of pleasure in my inflicting pain upon him. Makes me wet! However, if I knew he was not ultimately into it, it is no longer pleasurable for me. I generally don't do things that don't also cause me pleasure, but if it was really important to him I likely would suck it up to a point.

      Lc, I find it a shame when a wife does not herself realize what you have realized - how simple it would be to satisfy these needs of yours. IMO such wives need to put on their big girl panties and start spanking guys like you!

      richard, it gives us women pleasure to treat our men like naughty little boys sometimes, and melts our hearts when they allow us to!

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    7. It certainly gives my girlfriend pleasure and it is good for our relationship. Had she yelled back at me on the occasion I mentioned, I would have yelled at her again and we would have had a row. Having my bottom smacked made me realize that I had indeed behaved like a naughty boy. I was relieved that we had not had a row and instead of getting dressed right away, I spent the next hour or so in my underpants so that she could discipline me the same way again if it was called for.
      richard.

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  23. Hi Julie,
    As usual I love your accounts of very real hubby punishments. The scenes you blog about are wonderful but for many reasons I find the real punishment blogs the most sexual!
    They also cause me to think past the moments you describe. You mentioned that you and David had a family dinner that evening. Are the dining chairs at your parents well padded? Is David overly stoic while seated after a sound whipping in fear of discovery or is he moving around so much that your mom offered him a pillow, with a maternal grin?
    Tom

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    1. Ha ha! I think the "pillow on seat" after-effects are a bit exaggerated! From personal experience I get an occasional twinge and itch in my butt after a good hard spanking, and if I have my eye out for it I can spot it in my husband and smile at him, but it's pretty subtle.

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  24. Miss Julie - just love this blog post. It says so much about how your relationship with David is mature and loving. I only wish I got these kinds of whippings from the one I love. How did you come by the incredibly deep understanding you have of David’s needs? And it just plain turns me in that doing so turns you in! TL

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    1. I guess I was curious ans inquisitive when he first asked me to spank him, and I complemented my discussions with him with online research. A lot of you guys have very much variations of the same kinks, and I find I can surprise him with something new that he gets very excited by just based on online research.

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  25. Oh, come on Hattrick. You are the one who wrote "Julie, get back over here accross my knee!! We clearly need to have somme more discussion!!!!"

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    1. And I received a very long discussion from hubby that night!

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    2. Ha! Ha! Yes I did write that, back when I was still captioning cartoons! Sadly I've stopped doing that!

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    3. Oh come on now, don't sulk ;-)

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    4. Just stating a fact!

      Besides they were just someone else's stolen drawings that had some captions "slapped on", right!! :-|

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    5. Do you need Mistress and I to teach you another lesson, hatty?

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    6. You got your one shot julie and that's all you'll get!

      Who the hell is mistress?

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    7. Your "lady friend", remember her?

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    8. It occurred to me, after I hit the publish button, that the person to whom you were trying to refer to was my former friend!

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    9. "Former"? She still spanks you!

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    10. Former! As in was but isn’t anymore! As in “EX”!

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  26. Of course, L. gets the belt!... and sometimes the "Italian bridle" I acquired some time ago... When I use it, the marks on his derrière remain visible (and sore!) for several days!
    J(2)

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    1. Love a nice thick piece of leather!

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    2. That "Italian bridle" is a real bruiser! I am fortunate that she doesn't use it more often (once a month, on average) :-(
      L.

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    3. ... which reminds me that you are due for a session with the "Italian bridle" some time soon! :-(
      J.

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    4. Give him "extras" from me!

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  27. I must be the wimpiest masochist ever! I crave spankings, but I can't imagine taking a beating like that! Sometimes I feel humiliated by the way my wife can so quickly take me to the point that I am happy when she stops.

    I wonder, how long does the bruising from a strapping like that last? I can see practical difficulties of such marking. For example, I wouldn't be able to shower at the gym with marks like that on my butt. Do punishments like that ever cause practical problems for David?

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    1. The marks in an obvious form last a couple of days and linger in a more subtle way for up to a week. He just needs to be careful who he shows his bare butt to, not my problem!

      And sure you can "take" a beating like that. Nothing that a thin rope around your ankles and wrists can't help with. It won't kill you, for Pete's sake! Well placed strokes do no damage. The butt is perfectly designed for it. Thick skin, nerve endings near the top, layers of fat and muscle to protect anything vital. You need to suck it up, Princess!

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  28. My wife and I don't do punishments, discipline or role play. She spanks me because I like it. I love it. I crave it. The harder the better.
    Like David, I get what I crave. Unlike David, my wife hates it but does it anyway. One day, she might like it but for now I am very grateful for what she does and she DOES like the benefits for giving me a right royal beating. So far, six or seven orgasms are her limit. I keep trying to break the record though...

    Yorkie

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    1. Sounds wonderful! I too enjoy giving (and getting) a good beating on my bum (and elsewhhere) without any of the extra trappings.

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  29. Wonderful story. So did you get to go biking yet?

    Pie pie 4 now
    Pieclown

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    1. How was the ride?

      Pieclown

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    2. Slight change of plans. We went walking instead and this time I was the naughty one. You can read all about it in my next blog post!

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  30. How's he going with the soda stream?

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  31. Got a spanking from my wife last night, she wanted to have sex but I was very tired, so she used her hand to give me a hand Job but still my penus won't get up, so she started caressing my bottom, but still not much so she took off her slipper and touched me with her feet, immediately my penus responded, she started a foot job until my penus was fully erect, so she rode it with her pussy and soon I came into her. She told me to lay on my stomach and whacked my bottom long and hard with her slipper, I started sobbing and kicking so she sat on my back and continued spanking till my bottom started turning black and blue. She stopped. I was crying a lot، do she started comforting me and rubber my bottom with her feet for some time, then she started toe fucking my ass, her toes were penetrating me and the big one doing circular movement inside me till my penus came from prostate milking.

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    1. And I hope she received a pleasuring as well, despite how "tired" you were?

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    2. Correction, it turned out she was prostrate milking me to empty my balls before a hard spanking.

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  32. Hi Julie Ma'am. Really enjoying cathing up on your blogs. Especially love the ones like this where it is you administering punishment rather than the one being punished.would love to take a belt thrashing like that. Great story. Best wishes and red bottoms, Richard.

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    1. I too much prefer dishing it out when it's this bad!

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  33. My wife prefers using her belt or a wooden spoon when spanking me. We live a domestic disciplinary marriage and it has been the key to 30 years of happiness. Just a tip on belt spankings, my wife has what's called a "Bonnie" gun belt that she wears with her jeans. Its very thick heavy leather and she uses it outstretched rather than folded over. When I am "in need" she is a pro at giving a good scolding and inevitably takes off her belt to teach me a good lesson. I wouldn't say to the extreme like Julie but it leaves vivid marks and each stroke is searing. She also uses grounding, mouthsoaping and line writing as other forms of discipline and they are also extremely effective.

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    1. Yes Maam. I haven't got the belt for some time but it is not forgettable. You can order online, search Bonnie gun belt. It's made by Hank's Belts in the U.S. Shipped to us in Canada within a week. All this talk of the belt has me in a mood... might have to act up tonight since the kids are out. Happy Thanksgiving!!

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    2. Looks great! From their website ;-):

      "If you need a women's spanking belt for FLR you want one that's tough and durable, but with just a touch of style. So many women's belts focus on looks over durability, but we did both.

      "The Bonnie" from Hanks Belts is a rugged 16oz - 1.25" width women's spanking belt that will whip anyone you put under it with ease.

      Made from our super rugged extreme leather this belt averages 1/4" thick. The 1 1/4" width is perfect for some of the narrower loops on women's fashions, but plenty wide enough to get your point across.

      We used a durable, low profile, antique nickel buckle for a more feminine look. Then we added a single contrast stitch to make it stand apart a bit.

      The end result is a super rugged women's spanking belt that looks just as at home on slacks as it does your favorite jeans."

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    3. Looks like I'll be getting a taste of it tonight. My wife sent me a text to do a list of chores then go straight to our bedroom when I get home and wait for her. So here I am, chores done and waiting..... She said she wont be home from shopping until after 7:00... Uggggh. I don't see her belt so she must be wearing it. Kind of excited but somewhat scared at the same time.

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    4. Uh oh!
      Tell us how it went!

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  34. Sorry it took so long for me to reply but I was grounded until today. Anyway, my wife does not like hearing bad language and this past Monday she dealt with my use of it. What really got her was the several days prior, we had been out and while driving, several things happened such as people cutting me off, others not using their signal etc. I finally let loose with a few words which I cannot say. She had immediately stopped me and scolded me and told me she'd deal with it later but there wasn't an opportunity until Monday. After waiting in our room for about 3 hours for her to get home, finally she arrived and the anticipation was crazy. I could hear her heels walking around for a while but then nothing. It was another 2 hours before I heard her coming up the stairs. When she came into the room, it was quite a moment, she was wearing jeans with her belt on and had a very strict look on her face and hands on her hips (this look was quite a turn on). She started lecturing me on the use of foul language and how it is not appropriate. She told me that I was getting the belt and to pull down my pants and underwear and lay across the bed over pillows. The lecture continued as she removed her belt from around her waist and told me that she was going to teach me a good lesson. So it began, no warm up, she swung that belt so each time it felt like fire across my butt. The lower part (sit spot) is where she placed most of them along with many across my upper thighs. I lost count but it must have been 50 or more from each side. My bottom was roasted, red and swollen with welts and marks across it that clearly showed the belt had done its job well. Here I am 4 days later and marks are still visible. When she was done with the belt, she told me to follow her into the bathroom... She said a proper mouthsoaping was in order and out came a fresh bar of Ivory soap. First it went into my mouth for me to hold in there while she continued scolding me about my language and told me that I was being grounded as well. I was allowed to go to work, come home, finish daily chores, eat and go straight to our room. No TV, reading, computer, cell phone or anything but writing lines every night. 300 per night "I will not use foul language again EVER". (That’s 1200 lines I had to write in total). I'm also grounded from driving the car other than to work and back for a month.
    I forgot to mention about the mouthsoaping… this was unpleasant and a sure deterrent to future swearing.. After it was in my mouth for about 15 minutes, my wife removed it and told me to take a bite of it. I did and she told me to chew it up followed by spitting it out. Once I did that, I had to take another bite and so on until the soap was finished. Yuck, I don't want that again!!!
    So here I am, having been disciplined quite severely in my mind, knowing that I will do my best to refrain from swearing again. I do enjoy spanking but when its a real punishment like all I got this time, I tend to learn from it. My wife and I love each other dearly and I am so fortunate that she understands my need for discipline.... the real kind and the fun kind :)

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    1. Well you sure learned your lesson! That soap in for so long must have burned your mouth something fierce.

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  35. Yes Maam, I sure did. There was lots of rinsing but it really took until morning before I could taste normally again. I guess you could say I was "burnt at both ends". I highly recommend this belt for spankings though, I find the 1 1/4" width stings more than the wider ones my wife used in the past and the heaviness makes a wicked impact. Plus the fact that she can wear it... its like she has an English school strap around her waste for all to see. Sure plays on the mind.
    She told me the next time I write lines, I'll get the belt across my palms until my hands are good and sore before I start writing. Yikes!
    Having this punishment go on for so many days was also tough, my wife "caged me" each day as soon as I got home from work... to ensure I "behaved" that evening.

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  36. Hi Julie, so I told my wife that I had mentioned the belt to you and all about the last punishment she gave me. Well, she wasn't very happy that I did that without her permission. She told me that although it is behind the internet, it is still something that is private and that I should have asked her first. She told me to tell you that you wont be hearing from me for a couple of weeks as I am grounded again. Started out as 1 week but I spoke back a little... that made it 2 weeks. I am also to apologize to you for having done this without permission.. I am truly sorry for not seeking permission prior to commenting here. I understand what I did and accept the consequences of being grounded to my room for the next 2 weeks. I hope that once my grounding is over that I will be allowed to comment here again.

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  37. Hi Julie, I am back. Long 2 weeks of no electronics or going out other than work or a couple of our own date nights. I had originally thought I was grounded to my room for 2 weeks but only to my room for the first 2 nights.

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    1. Now that you're back, please ask your wife for a second belt spanking on my behalf, for coming to my site without her permission and involving me indirectly in your duplicity.

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    2. Yes Maam and I apologize. I asked her this morning and she thought that was a very good idea. She is wearing the belt today and plans to deal with this tonight when I get home. She also said that she will ensure I take care of any "excitement" I have before I get the belt. My butt is going to be on fire.

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    3. Well, mission accomplished?

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  38. Friday didn't work out but tonight sure did... I got it good tonight and had to count each one. Based on what I wrote last time where I guessed 50 from each side... I got exactly that. 35 on the sit spot and 15 just below from each side. My wife did mention that she thought you may also want me to write lines. She has ordered me to write another 500 but thought you may want to add to it. I just got 10 across each palm and am going to begin my lines once I finish typing this. Wow, hands are sore!!

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    1. I'm satisfied justice has been served. Please thank your wife for the good belt licking on my behalf.

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  39. Yahoo! I don't know how I missed this one, but, I don't believe I'd read this previously. David is one fortunate, if not sore, husband. Thank you for your wonderful blog. Lars

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    1. Yes - imagine not having the bikes in good working order for me!

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