Exciting development with trainer!

A VERY fun development with david's trainer. I just had to write about it today!!!

Some of you have asked after david's personal trainer, Michelle. She continues to see him once a week, mixing in training with kink. I trust her a lot and often times I am not even in the house while a training session is going on. It's fun to come home from work and see him being put through his paces, Michelle often with riding crop in hand. When I arrive she will usually put on a little show, and spank him in front of me. david positively loves his sessions with her, which are really mostly work with a bit of play thrown in just to keep it interesting.

I have gotten to know Michelle quite a bit better myself. A very interesting young lady. In addition to the personal training which is her legit career, she also supplements her income professionally as a "switch", which means she will see (generally older and well heeled) gentlemen to either spank them or be spanked herself. She mainly keeps to her "regulars" nowadays, and doesn't seek out new men, preferring to work on getting more vanilla personal training gigs. The type of personal training she does with us is unique.

Earlier today, after training, I had just gotten home from work. She asked if she could discuss something with me, in private. Of course! She sent david away upstairs to shower and told him not to come down until called as she had something to discuss with me.

The conversation was sooooo interesting that I just had to share it with you guys. I feel a bit guilty sharing it here, even through our anonymity (Michelle is not even her real name), but you readers are my kinky family, after all, and I owe it to you all to share!

The gist of the conversation is that she has a  partner, Brian, with whom she's lived for over five years now. Brian is comfortable with what she does, and is kinky in his own way, but Michelle confided in me that she wants more from him.

Michelle and Brian fight quite a bit, according to her, over all sorts of silly things. She told me that she sometimes pushes his buttons just to get a reaction from him. She has admitted to me that what she really wants is for Brian to just take charge and spank her instead of getting angry and fighting. However she cannot get Brian to understand the concept of DD. He thinks what she wants is some kinky bottom pain thrown in during sex (which she does want), and that's what it's all about. She is having a lot of trouble communicating to him the concept of DD.

She offered all this up to me in the hope of getting some advice from me. I am older and wiser ;-), and she admires the relationship I have with my david, which she views as totally DD.

We discussed various things, but in the end what she really latched onto was my offer to explain to Brian what he was missing. I even offered up to demonstrate to him how Michelle should be spanked, and to supervise his first DD spanking of her (I must confess to this whole situation turning me on greatly, so it was not altogether an altruistic offer!)

We discussed using david as the demo model, but we decided both men would be quite uncomfortable with that! Instead, we decided that we would arrange for me to go over to their place, give Michelle a spanking, and explain some things to Brian regarding how she would like to be treated, trying to get him to spank her as well. We were pretty confident that he would not object to me spanking his little partner in front of him!

I told her there was only one problem with the plan. And that was that I needed to understand how she wanted to be spanked, what turned her on, so that I could communicate that to Brian. I also told her that I did not want to go in cold and have the demonstration be the first time I spanked her.

"Well that's easy to fix, Ma'am" she said to me as she got up and came over to stand beside me. I made a bit of room and she draped herself across my knee. I lowered her Lulu's and was scandalized to see she wore nothing underneath them! She claimed that is how they are supposed to be worn, saying it in what I thought to be a very cheeky manner!

As I spanked lightly we discussed what she liked and disliked. I had spanked a couple of girls before, and have always liked it, and this was no exception. Even though I am not particularly bi, I think spanking is sort of universal (either that or I might be more bi than I think - I will have to give it a serious try sometime to find out for sure!).

I decided I needed to test her limits a bit. I stood her up and made her stand in the corner (tee hee!) and went upstairs to fetch the hairbrush and the belt (both implements she had mentioned in connection with her idea of DD - I guess those are pretty universal for North Americans anyways).

I went up to the bedroom where they are kept and there was david sitting up in bed reading his Kindle. "What's going on down there?" he asked with a big smirk.

"None of your business," I told him as I got out the hairbrush and strap in front of him, and marched back downstairs with them. [He has pestered me repeatedly since, but I will not share. I told him if he asks again, he'll get the strap!]

I gave Michelle a "YELLOW" safeword and told her I would spank with the hairbrush increasingly hard and fast until I got it out of her. She took a very good spanking, but broke down after about a hundred with me going pretty hard towards the end.

So that was her limit. I was determined that for true DD purposes her spanking needed to be a bit beyond that - she agreed. Then I bent her over the arm of the sofa and belt whipped her. It only took about twenty increasingly hard ones of those until she was safewording me! Ha Ha!

I did learn that she was super sensitive on the backs of thighs, and was very scared of the belt hitting anywhere near her lower back (ever hitting her anywhere above the mid-line of her bum projected pain into her tail bone). So she has a relatively narrow band to work with, right on the sweet spots. Any lower or higher or to the sides would be more torture than punishment, and needed to be avoided. I was very glad I could work all this out with her before seeing her and Brian together!

She thanked me for the wonderful spanking, we hugged, and we agreed to meet up at her place Thursday after work to have our discussion with Brian. I am very excited!!!!