We had three lovely kinky experiences that I will share, starting with the first one right now.
As you'll recall, before we left I did a bit of a boo boo to david's penis tip. He was fine, but I guess we were lucky in that, and some of my commenters ventured the opinion that I needed to be punished for that. Fine.
Spanking and such is just not in the cards for me, so when I need to do a bit of penance, I let david get lucky, so to speak. I told him he could take me any way he wanted, which usually involves me getting fucked and giving him a blow job afterwards. I don't particularly enjoy being in a submissive position for a fucking, I don't enjoy having to lick my own juices off his cock (yuck!), and I certainly don't enjoy having to swallow his cum like a little slut (that's HIS job!). But it is penance after all, and I suppose I'm not supposed to enjoy it...
So when I told him he could have me any way he wanted, he got a little twinkle in his eye and said he wanted me up the ass. Like that's 'gonna happen? Penance is penance, but there is no way his cock is getting anywhere near my tight little rear hole, and I told him that, and I also told him that I would make him pay for even suggesting it (he knows better).
I told him to pick again, and he said he wanted to first fuck me doggy style and then cum into my mouth. So I got pussy-fucked doggy style but he couldn't contain himself and came inside of me! Ha Ha! No cum-guzzling for this girl! Nya Nha!
I teased him for his lack of control and suggested that maybe a few more premature ejaculator training sessions in front of Sue would be in his future when we got back from vacation. I said it was a good thing my strap-on dildo doesn't shoot its load and go all soft after a minute like his pathetic dick does, otherwise I couldn't do my proper wifely duties and his ass poundings couldn't last the ten or fifteen minutes (or longer) he usually gets (in all fairness, sometimes I do orgasm when I'm pounding him, but that certainly doesn't stop me, just slows me down for a few seconds until I recover and get back at it...).
Anyways, back to my first vacation story.
That all happened before we left, and his suggestion of ass fucking moi is what got him into his first humiliating little predicament.
I told him that as punishment for that suggestion he would be first getting a paddling, and then a severe ass pounding from Adam (his biggest dildo, strapped onto me), every single day of our vacation (He usually gets it pretty hard on vacations anyway, but it was nice that he gave me an excuse!).
I told him it was his job to ask me sometime during the day, on every full day of our vacation, for his paddling and ass fucking. If on even one day midnight rolled around and he had not yet asked, then when he got home he would be given a hard strapping followed by ten minutes wiggling his ass and balls across the sandpaper tacked to his stool. It's so nice having a punishment for david that he really doesn't want. And both the tawse to his inner thighs and cleft, and especially dildo time tied to "the stool", qualify!
For our vacation, we packed two suitcases. The suitcase that ate Pittsburgh for most of our stuff (like beach bags, big towels, sandals, swim masks, most of our clothes), and a carry-on for the essentials. I told david he should consider Adam, the strap-on harness, the paddle, and his lube amongst the essentials, because if the checked bag was lost or delayed by a day, did he really want to risk a session on the stool?
Of course I made david carry the carry-on bag through security. I wonder what a strap-on harness and a giant dildo look like in the x-ray machines? Wouldn't it have been precious had they asked him to open his bag!
When we got to our hotel, it was beautiful We had a big suite with a giant balcony overlooking the sea. Our suite was all tile, glass and drywall. It was a three story apartment style hotel with three suites per floor. Fortunately, there were no children there so I felt uninhibited re the kinky noise level.
david was a good boy, and asked every single day of our vacation for his paddling and butt fucking. The paddle to his butt sounded like rifle shots in that room, and of course I didn't have the huge sliding door to the balcony closed at all, so goodness knows what everybody heard. And that included david's little whimpers, whines, begging, and grunting as he received what I can only describe as vigorous daily anal intercourse!
He was so cute! Every day he would come up to me, nude, with paddle in hand, and ask meekly for his punishment. I was only too happy to oblige. After I had reddened his cheeks nicely across my knee and let him up, he then asked me if he could please have his butt fucking now.
"And why do you need this, david?" I asked him each time.
"To teach me who gives anal intercourse and who receives it in this marriage."
Perfect each time! Exactly like I taught him to say!
He was responsible for putting a fresh condom on the dildo, lubing it up, lubing his own asshole, and then waiting for me on the bed, ass up, in doggy position. Usually I was in the middle of reading a magazine article or a chapter of something, so he wouldn't have to wait longer than ten or fifteen minutes like that for me, except once I "forgot" about him there and started a whole new chapter. Poor dear. The suspense must have been dreadful!
I would enter the bedroom, slip into the strap-on, and place its big bulbous head at the entrance to david's nether passage and start applying pressure. Then the quizzing would start anew.
"Who gets ass fucked in this relationship, david?" I would ask.
"I do" He answered.
"And who does the ass fucking, david?"
"You do, Julie. You do."
"And what does that make you, david," I would ask.
"That makes me your little ass bitch, Julie."
It certainly does.
david STILL has trouble taking Adam, so I am confronted with a bevy of girlish little yelps and squeaks and pleas to go slowly as I ram it into him. Then he gets it good and hard for at least ten minutes. It usually winds up with him falling out of doggy position and me lying on top of him with my hand pushing his face into the bed as I seek out leverage to fuck him hard.
Once I think he's had enough (i.e., when I feel he is broken to the dildo, which happens anew each time I use it), I get off him, drop the dildo onto the towel he prepared, and leave to let him deal with his mess.
I don't want to mix any other kind of sex with his ass fucking, seeing as how it's punishment serving a valuable educational purpose. Later in the day, or first thing in the morning (or both), I let him service me orally, but not right now (even though I may want it right then).
After the first session, when I went back into the bedroom, the paddle, dildo, condoms, strap-on harness and lube were nowhere to be seen. The little bashful darling had hid them in the bottom of the giant suitcase, buried under a mound of our stuff.
I don't think so!
Part of his punishment would be to leave all that stuff out on our bedside table. Yes it meant the Caribbean maids would all know my husband was subject to paddlings and ass-fuckings from his wife. And yes, that meant that no doubt every staff member at the hotel, including the very pretty young European lady at reception would be given the word as well. He was being punished, after all, and it was meant to be humiliating for him.
And when you're in that situation, it's hard to interpret those looks from the maids and the girl at reception. Do you really see a glint of amusement in their eyes as you walk your husband by, or is that just your imagination?
Another great posting, no pun intended. Could you say a little more about what "broken to the dildo" means. Thank you Ms Julie. -Bill
ReplyDeleteWhat I mean is that at a certain point he stops complaining and just lays there and takes it with just little moans each time I thrust into him. He accepts that it won't be stopping anytime soon.
DeleteI have to admit I'm thankful that D's and my last vacation didn't go like that but I am also a teensy bit jealous and wish it was similar. You certainly have an active relationship that you both enjoy. I'm happy for you and what you are able to achieve as a couple.
ReplyDeleteI think you like the idea of it, j, but 15 minutes under the dildo, especially a long and thick one like Adam, is hard to take for a man.
DeleteOur last vacation saw me getting spanked a couple of times and bent over for her strap-on once, all in front of our ground floor patio door alongside a main path with the curtains open. However, our antics were during times when people were not likely to be using the path much. A few times I did see people walking past. No one looked in.
DeleteAdam sounds bigger than D's but I do know what 15 minutes under a dildo is like and it can be difficult. Harder still is when the dildo has been replaced with a real one. Three times this has been arranged. I hate it when she did it but I submitted and will again.
I was referring more towards your frequency and willingness to not hide it as much as we sometimes still do. A odd place to hide it if you ask me. No one knows us in Aruba.
Anyway, there's no reason to post this. I just wanted to clarify myself a little.
Me thinks what Julie wants Julie gets and david will soon have some reality forcing its way into his world.
DeleteI wish. I have allowed david to have a say in whether he gets man-raped or not, and so far no luck...
DeleteAnything worth having is worth waiting for Miss Julie. And from my vantage point life without dreams is no life at all. Happy Dreaming, and if and when they come true be gentle.
Deletejake
Good advice, jake.
DeleteMy ideal man would be a big body builder type. david would need to get a spanking first from him, but just over his knee and with his hand should do, not the belt. That's gentle, isn't it? Then I will have to mentally measure the guy's cock against Adam. If he's smaller, I'll let him go to town. But if the same size or bigger, I will ask him to be gentle with david.
Ahhh.... a girl can dream...
Ms. Julie,
ReplyDeletedavid is a lucky boy. That sounds like a great vacation!
"Lucky" to have such a great wife willing to correct him. I agree!
Delete"...Do you really see a glint of amusement in their eyes as you walk your husband by, or is that just your imagination?..."
ReplyDeleteAnd from their perspective, did david appear to be walking just a bit gingerly, perhaps even bow-legged & just why did he lower himself ever-so-gently into the restaurant chair before dining? :-)
I know that feeling & I secretly love it. My wife has at times Fucked & spanked me for hours literally ....using various sizes . I can recall having a session that lasted most of the day & into the evening. She let me rest a few times but kept me dilated during that Fuckathon . We later went out to dinner and I felt very well Spanked & Fucked . When we entered the restaurant she whispered that I was walking like I just got fucked . After getting a table she said anyone watching me walk in.... could tell I take it up the ass. I was both embarrassed & excited to think someone could actually tell . I remember feeling like I was walking funny. My hole was so loose from all the penetration I received .... the lube really intensified that feeling.
DeleteI thought my wife & I were the only ones who knew. I didn`t think it was obvious to those watching me walk. I guess you can fuck someone til they walk funny.....or at least til they walk like a girl.
Thank you for that comment. I can see that I have not been trying hard enough to fuck him until he walks funny. A nice all day session followed by a lovely dinner out is definitely in his future!
DeleteI think you need a Femdom vacation group - group disconts and play.
ReplyDeleteGood idea, except it's more fun to play with women who are not expecting it!
DeleteWas there any feminine humiliation outside the cabin since you were after were no know would know david?
ReplyDeleteSarah
Oh yes there was. Two more posts to come!
Deletewelcome back from your vacation sound like you had good time as well as david did iam sure he enjoy those paddling and spankin he got from you more then he let on iam sure you already knew he enjoy it too since it normal for both of you by now
ReplyDeletewould been funny and awesome if you announce real loud that he getting a good otk spanking paddling soon u both get back to room in front of the female working the front desk at the time then ask the female front desk if she want join in or watch then have david go back front desk and show her his sore ass from spankin then tell them he just got spanked only if female at front desk cant come
announce it to the maids too he going get a good spankin then spank him good or if maid show up at door let them come in and peek at david over your knee getting paddle or spank then have david leave note to maid saying this paddle was just use on me and show strap on which was use on him if brave both should leave pics behind to so maid can see what went on in the room as memory or you can have maid join in punishing him
Very nice ideas, mike. Thank you! Next time.
Deleteya welcomei agree nice idea just dont tell david your going do it before hand bet he wont complain if you do or this happen might enough have female watch him being punish by you
DeleteWow! we have never dared leave our spanking or pegging equipment in evidence voluntarily, or give a spanking when soundproofing was weak. I would never put such equipment in cabin luggage (in certain airports, the screening displays are visible by fellow passengers, by the way).
ReplyDeleteWe however have had some close calls. I remember the time when my wife made me go to a drugstore and buy a rectal thermometer, latex gloves and vaseline. The check-out clerk was blasée and did not even blink. When we came back to our hotel, I realized, in the lobby, that the plastic bag was almost transparent and that pretty much anybody could read PETROLEUM JELLY when we came in. I tried to hurry up but she was looking as some promotional leaflets.
The idea was that I should get my temperature taken the old-fashioned way, then a good spanking. I was over her lap with the thermometer up the rear when we realized the soundproofing was weak (we could hear the neighbours' TV quite well). I still got a thorough finger-fucking...
On one occasion we forgot to remove a drying enema bag before the cleaning maid came. Of course she could not know who had used it.
You and your wife definitely need to step up the public play, it sounds like you are ready for the next step...
DeleteSo far, we've been too shy to try anything too noisy or obvious at a hotel — if we realize the soundproofing is weak then we avoid noisy spankings, for instance.
DeleteCuriously, we've been less shy about drugstores (but NOT the ones we use in daily life). On several occasions I've had to buy equipment such as a rectal thermometer, lubricant, vaseline, gloves, enema bag, suppositories... and on one instance she said in front of the cashier "I'll treat you as soon as we come back".
Also the time in France when we she made me buy a martinet (a kind of traditional short whip, formerly used on children... and until recently sold allegedly for use on pets) in a supermarket : the cashier gave me a puzzled look and said "somebody's going to feel some pain", and I became red with embarassment and mumbled something about an unruly dog. I wonder if she meant that I was a harsh parent or chanced that I was kinky...
Yet somehow a supermarket does not seem as compromising as a hotel. Perhaps it's because we'll never see the employees again, whereas in a hotel we'll face them the next day, and besides they have our names.
That's precious. I guess from your blush she now knew it would be YOU feeling the pain.
DeleteWhile I prefer to come into her vagina than her mouth (better sensations) I do enjoy, from time to time, starting intercourse (rubbing or even penetrating) then asking for a little suction. My wife too is uncomfortable with her odours and juices... and a little embarassment works wonders.
ReplyDeleteYes. Yuck! I don't mind at all keeping his head down between my legs for an hour, though, which is more the way things should be all else being equal.
Deleteloved the bit about the beach, we love nude beaches. one of K's meaner tricks if I've been naughty is to spank me before we go, not too hard,but with something that makes my bottom red without leaving marks. then she'll take me by the hand and walk me along the beach....is it sun burn, a bit of colour from sitting down or somerting else?. the redness is never enough to be completely obvious, so anyone who wonders is left guessing, but I know and its torture, and a bit of a rush to be paraded like that.
ReplyDeletenow if you'd given him just 20 nice crisp ones and sent him downto the jet skiers, .....:)
You read my mind, r! I got up a bit of courage, spanked him red (NO mistaking it!) and paraded him, no question. I'mm write about that one next. I mean, you know me by now, I couldn't let the opportunity of being in a foreign place, on a nude beach, with nobody there we knew in the remotest sense, go to waste, after all. Stay tuned for part 3 (I save the best for last, of course!)
DeleteI just love your description of his spanking, hot as hell ma'am.
ReplyDeleteAlways
Ron
I'm curious - what kind of paddle do you use? We'd be interested in purchasing some old-fashioned wooden paddle, the kind that mothers would apply to a backside 50 years ago, but we don't know where to find such things...
ReplyDeleteMy sister gave me a lovely little hard wood "souvenir paddle". A miniature little canoe paddle. It has become my favourite. She got it at a gift shop.
DeleteAt a *gift shop*? I suppose it's meant to be decorative, like you put the miniature canoe paddle on a wall as a souvenir for being in rural Canada? :-)
DeleteExactly. But the wood is hard and it has stood the test of many ass beatings!
Delete15 to 30 minutes? I would be concerned that the lubricant would dry out... My wife occasionally asks me to prepare myself for pegging, but she generally prefers to do it herself: first an enema, then often a spanking, then lubrication then pegging. I indeed often know that pegging is in order when she tells me to go to the loo before my enema. She lubricates me and the dildo herself, and (I'm glad of it) does not hesitate to put a good dose.
ReplyDeleteHow wide is Adam? My wife started with some rather narrow dildo, but then, out of reciprocity (she also takes it up the rear, from time to time) requested a dildo with about the girth of my penis. Seems fair.
I add lube as I go. I'm not that mean! You just pull out until only the tip is still in, dribble lube along the girth of it, and and then keep going.
DeleteAdam is definitely thicker than david, by a fiar margin. That's more fair.
I have another question regarding your pegging dildoes... How did you buy them? When my wife bought our first two pegging dildoes (she later bought a strapless one online) she took me to the sex shop: since I was the recipient, it seemed fair to ask for my opinion.
DeleteCuriously, this was not much embarrassing, considerably less than having to buy compromising stuff in a drugstore. I guess I felt that if you are the cashier in a sex shop you cannot act prudish or sassy. So we went proudly with our dildo, there was no question who would be getting it, but that was no problem. Complicated psychology, hey?
When I bought Adam (the larger dildo) I took david with me to the sex shop. I made sure he was embarrassed and the shop girls played along nicely, laughing at his discomfort (I asked for their advice on training his asshole to take the bigger dildo, and david acted the nervous blushing bride, which made it even better). I also made it very well known amongst the girls that he would be spanked with the new paddle I had in my hand for failure to do house chores! I blogged about this episode sometime last year.
DeleteIndeed! How embarrassing for David! My wife bought two strap-on dildoes with me at sex shops (one narrow and one about the width of my penis), but kept things rather matter-of-fact: it was obvious that I would be the recipient (I think she said that she'd like to try it as soon as we come back), but she did not go out of her way to discuss the matter with the staff.
DeleteAs I said, it somehow seemed less intimidating than buying a martinet in a supermarket or enema equipment in a drugstore...
Ha ha ... heh! I love you sense of humor that comes across in writing. :)
ReplyDeleteLove you relating david and your daily little conversation, hee hee..
Sara
Thank you. I am a bit devilish in real life...
DeleteI'm wondering why so many claim to take a man from the rear when my ladyfriend loves to give it to me in the missionary position. She likes picking my legs up and shoving them against my chest and spreading them wide because, as she puts it, I am so "cute" and "vulnerable" that way. She also loves to kiss me and stare into my eyes as she pours the coals to me. All this accompanied by sweet talk and seems much more intimate to me than the doggy style. This is often preceded by a good sound spanking which, as you can imagine, puts me in a very compliant mood ...
ReplyDeleteI like that way also, silly.
DeleteBut when I need to put him in his place, nothing better than doggy style, as in "bend over, bitch!"
A favourite position of ours is me lying on the stomach, legs spread, with the stomach on pillows so that my butt is somewhat elevated. I hold my buttocks open while she lubricates then penetrates me, then she lies on top of me.
DeleteNot only is the position intimate (I feel her breasts on my back), but it also makes me feel both comfortable and helpless, and also very open.
As with Anonymous, my wife likes to spank me (over the knee) before pegging me (and generally gives me an enema beforehands). Makes me get in the mood...
Bending over e.g. a couch is nice and dandy, but is less comfortable and intimate.