Monday, February 16

My Article on Simply Sxy

Thought you guys might enjoy this. As for many other of us bloggers, I was solicited for a short article for an e-magazine called Simply Sxy. I thought it would help drive traffic my way, which is always fun (watching those counters go up like my husband's erection when the belt comes out!).

The article is called A "Scening" Female Led Relationship. I hope you enjoy reading it!

http://simplysxy.com/articles/2015/02/17/a-scening-female-led-relationship/
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31 comments:

  1. Anonymous17 February 2015 at 05:38

    Julie Ma'am I love the article. You both love the relationship you have and that is wonderful. You say other women have seen him dressed up. and I'm guessing witnessing spanking and also spanking him. For us there is no cross dressing however she has me wearing silk panties 24/7. My question to you is why do submissive men desire others to see our embarrassment of being spanked or dressed up. I have a deep desire to have others see me being spanked and spanking me but knowing there will be no sex so it's not a sexual thing. For me it will probably just be a desire and never happen but I'm happy for those the do enjoy it.
    So why is it we desire that activity?
    archedone

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    1. juliesp17 February 2015 at 23:40

      But I bet you get sexually excited thinking about it!
      I think that if you are excited to be dominated by a woman, it's natural that having a woman "show you off" to other women is that much more exciting. Likewise being shown off in panties. It's embarrassing for a man to be made to take the part of the woman, the "weaker sex".

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  2. Anonymous17 February 2015 at 06:29

    love the article did very good job i read whole thing i figure out long time ago you both do role playing this isnt a lifestyle both really live but it kool anyhow

    even figure out julie not your real name again that cool lot people use fake name so people in real life family friends find out ablout spanking lifestyle

    mike
    madison ohio

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  3. Unknown18 February 2015 at 07:59

    Bravo Ms Julie!! I love the article and hope it drives LOTS of new traffic to your blog! I also love that the "scening" has become totally at your discretion! While I'm sure you'll always have an equal, loving, and respectful marriage, it does sound like you are ultimately in control! SIGH!!

    Respectfully, doc

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    1. juliesp19 February 2015 at 00:00

      Well, he was the one who first asked me to spank him. I can't have any topping from the bottom, now can I? Or fun times are OVER for him!

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  4. Anonymous18 February 2015 at 08:38

    very excellent article, my wife does the coin thing to and sometimes uses a pencil for me to hold to the wall with my nose is much harder. She also has a no rubbing of the spanked area rule. Now that I think about it she has a lot of rules for me! In addition to my panties I have to be smoothly shaved under them.
    Paul

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    1. juliesp19 February 2015 at 00:00

      Yes, timeout is too easy without the coin (or pencil). You boys need to be made to suffer for us!

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  5. Ethan James18 February 2015 at 12:08

    Very nice indeed. i had been approached a couple of times to write articles but have found it hard to find the time (being kept as busy by Goddess obviously). Maybe i'll request permission to give it a try ;-)

    Well done and congrats!

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  6. WhMs19 February 2015 at 10:17

    Hello, Ms. Julie,
    Your article's mention of the debriefing process caught my attention, since it (understandably) isn't something you spend much time discussing here at the blog. I know it isn't the hot blow-by-blow narration we all enjoy from your posts, but I'd be interested in hearing more from you about it sometime, as it is sort of a link between scening life and "real" life. For instance, how has debriefing changed as you've become more accustomed to what each of you wants? (I imagine the feel is different after the introduction of something quite new, like Mags, compared with a new version of a cane.) Do you, or david, ever struggle with saying "I didn't like this" when it's clear the other *really* liked it, or vice versa? How often has his debrief surprised you, and in what ways?

    Thanks as always for what you share.

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    1. juliesp19 February 2015 at 21:02

      Good idea. I'll write a blog post on the debriefings. They're kind of hot, actually!

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  7. Alex19 February 2015 at 20:28

    Helping your counter goes up! *click* *click* *click*

    That was a nice read, althought I am shocked " Julie " is not your real name! From now may as well call you Valentine or Emilie-Jolie : )

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    1. juliesp19 February 2015 at 21:02

      Julie is my real "kinky" name!

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    2. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 14:29

      I'm surprised that anyone is surprised that Julie isn't her real name. If you've read her entire blog I'm pretty sure she has mentioned that before and really almost nobody uses there real name online in regards to anything sex related....

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  8. Anonymous19 February 2015 at 23:44

    Have you ever let david spank you?

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    1. juliesp21 February 2015 at 15:48

      I have, but it didn't do anything for me. It was pleasant enough, but the position was not very comfortable and I would have preferred a nice glute massage rather that this rhythmic slapping nonsense. He did not do it too hard of course. I do not get excited at all to be a "spanked little girl" or anything like that. I DO get excited being the spanker!

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  9. Anonymous20 February 2015 at 01:01

    you have experience know what talking about too also ya welcome very much ms julie you should write more which hope you do soon i few question for you about david and your realtionship marriage

    1) while dating or early marriage you ever see hint or sign David was submissive type guy who love being spanked control by female

    2) do you think if david never had ask you to spank him then you never would be spanking him or think you ever would brought up idea or threath spank him

    3) have you ever spanked any one before met david marry him not sure think you have answer this before or mention before if you had or how many guys you spanked

    mike
    madison ohio

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    1. juliesp21 February 2015 at 15:53

      1) Maybe in retrospect, but not at the time. I have always been a bit bossy, and the relationship would not have survived had he not catered to me. But no clue at all about sexual submissiveness in the bedroom.

      2) never in a million year. It had not occurred to me as something that could even be exciting.

      3) Nobody. But I did date a guy who enjoyed being peed on, so that's close I think? I was very young at the time and didn't know what to make of it, but of course I tried it and i found I liked it. He specifically wanted me to pee on his face when he was going down on me, but i had to stop as I was finding it harder and harder to cum without peeing!

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  10. Anonymous20 February 2015 at 17:02

    Most Honorable Strict Julie

    I was interested to see that he is not into leather clad dominatrices in a dungeon etc., but happy to be spanked by a woman in blue jeans.

    I concur about the first part, but also do much prefer Irene wear a dress rather than pants when she disciplines me - usually I get my wish.

    -Rosco

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    1. juliesp21 February 2015 at 15:54

      I wear what I please, rosco, as no doubt does Irene.

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  11. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 16:46

    Well written.

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  12. Anonymous22 February 2015 at 14:12

    Nicely written, as you always do! I'm sure you'll get more visitors here! sara e

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    1. juliesp25 February 2015 at 22:20

      Thanks, already noticed a few referrals coming my way...

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  13. Anonymous23 February 2015 at 23:49

    Looks like you might want to start backing up your blog Julie. It looks like Big Brother Google is cracking down on all things Adult.

    http://zd.net/1DPtVPA

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    1. juliesp25 February 2015 at 22:23

      Oh I know, I just got the e-mail myself. I backed up the blog and images, and I also went through the blog and removed any images that were in violation. It felt a lot like burning books... ;-( Google has become very fascist. I think I will have to find a new home...

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  14. Anonymous26 February 2015 at 10:14

    spank away missJulie spank all those naughty boys along with david then any time left over write some more iam sure you would have naughty boys line up at your door and you get good workout spanking all the naughty boys

    mike

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  15. Mitch Philbin5 March 2015 at 03:54

    A wonderful article. Well done, Julie.

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  16. Anonymous6 March 2015 at 07:28

    Love your sharing beautiful style! Hot writing.

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  17. Slavem8 October 2020 at 15:35

    Thanks for your honesty! Very responsible to change names on the net since it is to easy to look up names. Julie is a great name for the net. Maintaining a 24/7 relationship is tough so you as a couple have worked out your desires. My wife whom I will call M and I spent 2 to 3 hours a day in quite intense BDSM play. As soon as we moved in together she gathered up all of my briefs and tossed them in the garbage and took me shopping for panties. I have no choice but to wear ladies panties wherever I went including removing them in the gym to change into my gym clothes. I actually got to like the feel of all the silky nylon panties on my skin and it was quite a turn on. My wife loved glossary and in particular enjoyed wearing lingerie during our sessions. She preferred me completely naked at first and she always had her pussy covered telling me that it was out of bounds. One afternoon I got curious and went into her drawer and found her black garter and stockings and tried them on and my wife came home from work early catching me dressed in her lingerie. She got quite angry and I immediately got whipped then we went shopping for my own garter and stockings. She didn’t want to go as far as buying a matching bra but she did like the fact that the garter framed my bare ass perfect for whipping and strap on fucking. We even purchased crotchless black net stockings that I could wear around the house giving my ass quick access for a hard swat from my wife. Every woman has a different idea how to handle her slave but the whippings became more intense when I was in a garter and it made me regret getting caught.

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