Caning Aftermath

As I recounted on my past post, Husband Caned to Tears, myself, my sister, and a friend got together to give my husband the caning of his life.

In this post I thought I'd discuss the aftermath as I left off the rather long blog post with david still licking his wounds in timeout.

But before reading this, you may also want to make a quick visit over to lil jo's blog, and see his post Tears and Awe. It is his imagining of how the caning would go down after reading that it would happen, but having not read the blow by blow of the event yet. His images are always so delightful!

Welcome back.

Now, a reader left a comment that I thought deserved a post, so let's start there.

Dear Julie, I just want to know if it was also sexually arousing for you (and your friends). I only read "fun" - what does that mean? His butt is so sexy (especially in those pants), that this alone must awake some erotic desires in the women (I hope that, as a man). But is there not the desire in you females to stroke, knead (and even kiss) that sweet ass also? I already asked that.- But afterwards, the sight of his wounded skin: Isn't that a bit cruel? Not sexy anymore! - Tim

We did tell david how "sexy" he was: in his panties, with his cheeks bare, wiggling his bum around after the cane, and so on. But that was more teasing him about his status as a "girl". It's actually not that sexy visually as he looked ridiculous. So, no, not so arousing seeing him. Is his butt "arousing"? Not really. Not in the same way I know that a guy looks at a girl and becomes aroused.

But was the situation arousing? You bet! I had to catch my breath when he came into the living room, so submissively, in front of Sue and Jen. And also when my sister lowered his panties, stripping him bare in front of the three of us. His excitement fully on display. It turns me on sexually to have this control over him. That he does what I say. That I can demonstrate that to other women. Yum!

And yes, there is a desire to stroke and knead (but not kiss), again because it highlights his submission and what we are doing to him.

But his "wounded skin" not sexy? No way! That is incredibly sexy. The marks we left on him, to me anyways, were very powerfully arousing.

I got very aroused as Jen was whipping him with the cane. Her strokes were so remorseless. So completely merciless. And that she absolutely didn't seem to give a shit.

He screamed as her cane hit him. That really aroused me. But only because he wasn't tied up. He had a choice. He could have just let go of his "whipping post" and walked away. He didn't. He held on for dear life and jutted out his ass of his own accord for the next stroke and the next and the next. He was demonstrating his submission. I loved that. That turned me on.

When it was my turn I literally made him cry. He was sobbing as I finished his caning, the tears dripping down his cheeks. But he still stuck his ass out for every stroke. That I had "broken him" in front of my sister and this relative stranger was intoxicating to me. Tears like that must be very humbling for a man.

So, yes, his totally messed up whipped ass cheeks were indeed arousing. Powerfully so.

I had a bit of a debrief with david, and here are some of his reactions.

david tells me that one of the most humiliating moments was when he first came down the stairs in only his pair of panties, and for Jen, a woman he had barely met, to see him like that. He said that was compounded when he was taken across my knee in front of Sue and Jen, and was teased by them as I spanked him like a "little girl" in her panty.

He said he became very aroused as I stood him there in the living room and described how severely he would be caned by us. We actually noticed that physically at the time as well.

He found that Sue pulling down his panties and me poking at his cock with the cane to draw the girls' attention to his erect genitalia was also humiliating to him, but arousing. But this was tempered by the caning he knew was just about to start.

As soon as the caning started there was no longer anything conventionally sexual about it in his mind. It was just pure fiery agony. He confirmed that Jen's strokes completely took his breath away with their unvarnished severity. He was sure she was breaking his skin, but he says he trusted me to keep him safe (the skin was never broken).

The final six from me were the most agonizing of them all, he also confirmed. But he says he wanted them to be the worst. He wanted me to give him the worst of it. He realized after the first stroke that he was actively holding back his tears, so he just let them go. That totally surprised him. He is very hard to make cry. He says he could have made it through without the crying, but he was somehow too exhausted to do so, and it was just an incredible relief to cry through the final strokes.

He was soooo sore right afterwards. He said he almost immediately stiffened up and felt as if he could hardly walk. That more or less stayed with him until bedtime. In the morning he was still a bit stiff, but it was better. Miraculously, most of the marks were gone by then, only a big bruise remained, here where I circled.

I guess the tip of the cane on several strokes must have concentrated there. It's funny. One could not tell the night before that spot in particular would bruise (there were a few other faded bruises as well). By the morning after that, it was hard to tell he had even been caned. He says he still is feeling it today (Tuesday). Not as pain, but more as a lingering reminder.

And this brings us to the wonders of the butt. That place where nature intended wives to punish their husbands. To be able to inflict such pain, and yet have him be completely uninjured, is truly a natural wonder. I guess the nerves are close to the skin, so he gets ALL the pain, but there is all this great padding, fat first then muscle, to dissipate any injury. Hooray for the butt!

Now, let's move on to talk abut his "release".

He says he was mortified to be told he would be receiving "hand relief" from me in front of Sue and Jen especially. He considers this to be a very submissive form of "sex". He has no control at all. He gets excited whether he wants to or not. He is made to cum whether he wants to or not. He can be deprived his orgasm and left quiveringly erect if I so choose as well. As I tease him as he gets close to an orgasm he knows he will beg me for his release. This is all the more humiliating for him when there are female witnesses to his "sexual shaming". He is made into a little tart humping the bed and begging for her orgasm.

All of this humiliates him, and ran through his mind as he was told that would be what he was getting after the caning. Even the fact that Sue and Jen begged off seeing it, but knew it would be happening while they were sipping wine in the living room he says made it somehow all the more humiliating for him.

He had no clue they would show up in the bedroom at all. So when I tied him up and stuffed a cock in his holes, he still had no clue. He genuinely thought I had asked and they had (quite reasonably) left that to me to do in private. So boy was he shocked when they turned up and saw him in his most vulnerable state like that! He was cock out and on the verge of his ejaculation as they barged right in. Their teasing and unexpected manipulations of his dildos were very arousing to him. But at the same time, he said he felt butterflies in his tummy at the situation he was in. As I rubbed his cock the final time to make him spurt he told me he was thinking "no, no, please no!" in his head at the thought of being humiliated like this by losing all bodily control in front of these women.

For me, that part was less sexy than the caning, and more just fun to rub him and make him spurt. This is endlessly fascinating to me! Although what was sexy was seeing his severely cane-marked ass wiggle as he was made to ejaculate down the backs of his legs, and rubbing his own cream into his beaten ass cheeks.

Once the women had left I came right back up to him, relieved him of his dildos, and gave him a big kiss on his cheek. He thanked me profusely for the experience (caning and everything!). I left him bound as I went to draw him his bath.  I added Epsom salts for his no doubt sore ass muscles. When it was ready, I unbound him and helped him into his bath. He had a lot of trouble sitting in the hot water. What a big baby! Once he was in I let him relax there for a half hour. Then I dried him off myself (very gingerly on his bottom) and brought him to bed with me and we just snuggled and talked about the experience.

Mind blowing. I love this kink of ours!