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| A well-spanked Christian wife after punishment |
I'm not sure, but I think in some instances it's serious, while being seriously kinky!
They get their inspiration from passages such as these in the Bible.
"Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the savior of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.” (Ephesians 5:22-24)Here are some comments from practitioners.
- Submitting to my husband and learning to respect him, as God said for wives to do (it’s in the Bible), strengthened my marriage, and maybe even saved it from disaster.
- Is it true that spanking brings a wife closer to God? In a Christian Domestic Discipline relationship, that’s what we believe. It doesn’t always work. If my husband spanked me every time I was disrespectful or didn’t submit, then I’d never sit down.
- Maintenance discipline is a practice of giving your wife regular spankings to maintain her proper behavior and attitude. From our experience when Kim receives this type of discipline she is more humble and her attitude is greatly improved.
- When you discipline your wife, for either misbehavior or maintenance it is best to start slow and warm up her bottom, spanking her with less intensity and not going full force right out of the gate.
- From personal experience, I will tell you that being turned bare-bum over my husband’s knee, getting a pretty direct lecture, then a no-nonsense spanking with a paddle focuses and, yes, “corrects” me in a way that nothing else ever could. There’s NOTHING like a really sore tail to make you consider the error of your ways. I think fathers AND husbands have known this for generations and there’s a good reason for that.
- Sometimes I get corner time before or after my spanking. That is the time I use to contemplate how to be a better and more Godly wife to my husband.
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| A wife contemplating her sins before correction |
There's something just incredibly attractive about this, don't you think? I mean, I think they are really earnest, and so that is even a bigger turn on for me. It's not at all "wife beating" in the sense that with true practitioners the wife willingly submits. They don't consider that they are submitting to their husbands, but rather that they are submitting to God. From my readings, the wives seem to be the most eager. I have yet been able to find any legitimate clergy online, baptist or otherwise, that explicitly approve of the practice, but behind closed doors?
This is how I picture it.
A penitent wife. She knows she has done wrong. She knows that she must now be corrected for it. The reluctant husband. He feels mercy for his wife but knows that sparing the rod, spoils the wife.
The clothes come off and she is bent over his one knee. The other leg clamping down on both of hers and her wrist controlled. They both know that the Devil will make her try to get away mid-spanking and not take the punishment that God requires. Her bottom is spanked a rosy red. It is not her husband's hand doing the spanking. It is God's loving hand.
Sometimes, for more serious transgressions, the hand will not be sufficient to teach a recalcitrant wife her lesson, and harsher means are necessary.
Here is a wife bent over the back of a chair with her pants removed and her panties lowered. Her husband will administer the strap to her bare bottom. Sometimes God needs more forceful methods to drive His point home.
After the spanking, the penitent wife may be required to kneel in the corner, naked and at attention, with her spanked bum on full display. This is done in the privacy of the home. The children will not be allowed to enter the room. Visitors will not witness this, not even the wife's parents, in-laws, or even her pastor, though they might know and might very well approve of the practice.
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| A wife receiving a hot bottom from her husband. |
The time-honoured tradition of wife-spanking. May it forever endure among the willing!
So what do you think? Is this just Kink for Christians? Or is it done for spiritual reasons? Or can it be both?
It’s both except for serious transgressions the pastor visits the house and administers the hand of god.
ReplyDeleteNice job if you can get it! ;-)
DeleteI've never been religious, and none of that makes any sense to me, but it's erotic and in some ways fits my kink. I prefer discipline that transforms, and where there's at least some tension and internal conflict. With Christian Domestic Discipline, it's a little too easy. You could say she's a pushover for God. However, she's being punished like a little girl, and seeing her so humbled is a turn on.
ReplyDeleteA fantasy for me is to be under the authority of a conservative woman from the bible belt. Imposed Christian Domestic Discipline. There you have real conflict, and the result could be seriously dramatic in a very arousing way.
I think you've got the right spirit!
DeleteSeems like an exceptional way to keep discipline and improve behaviour in the household and at the end of the day who can argue with God?!
ReplyDeleteThe only problem I have is that I want to be the wife not the husband☺️
I need to do the blog on the switch version of it now. It appeals to me as well.
DeletePlease do, being turned into my wife's wife is my ultimate fantasy, 1950s housewife obedience and under domestic discipline, oh yes!!
DeleteDone!
DeleteJust go ahead Julie and ask David to give you maintenance spanking every weekend.
ReplyDeleteGood idea! I'll just switch that up, though.
DeleteI think i would love to see your bare bum, reddened and kneeling at attention in a corner julie. I think we all would.
ReplyDeleteWouldn't mind myself!
DeleteHave you ever had to serve cornertime kneeling Miss Julie ?
DeleteI think we all kinda react to cornertime differently. What’s you’re take on it Miss Julie? You’ve been there...
DeleteHow does it make you feel ? Humiliated? Ashamed? I already know what it will cause your most sensitive areas to do, so you don’t have to answer that part ;)
Yes, all of those things! Very humiliating to be "put in your place" like that. Very visceral. Very childish. I do get wet though, as you allude to!
DeleteMiss Julie, have you ever been able to figure why there is a direct nexus between humiliation and you getting wet ? Or anyone getting wet for that matter ? Not a rhetorical question. I’m asking because I don’t know.
DeleteIt's analogous to a guy getting hard. It's a sexual response. David often gets VERY HARD in humiliating situations involving other women and disciplinary settings. If you are "into" Dominance and Submission, then I think by definition almost you will have these reactions.
DeleteI personally think women are likely genetically "wired" to get a bit turned on when an aggressive male lords it over us: helps the species propagate. But men and women swap genes all the time, so the same tendencies likely co-evolved in men. Men then had to suppress these tendencies for evolutionary purposes. It is why it is such a relief for strong men to get turned over our knees - they can let that mask down and allow their true genetic nature to come through.
Hmm. i think my "theory" deserves a blog post where we can all discuss. Thanks!
DeleteWe live a Christian Marriage and I am the Submissive Sissy Husband/Wife. I do get twice a day spankings.
ReplyDeleteI really do not agree with using the bible and religion to justify actions whether it be killing , war or spanking.
ReplyDeleteTheses people are brainwashed or warped in my view.
I have no problem with people believing in God (the opposite in fact). I have no problem with people engaging in kink (the opposite in fact!). If you are trying to live a Godly life, you can;t do things against God. So if you find a way to reconcile your kink with God, I am all for it!
DeleteMy wife grew up going to church, I did not. Her mother obeyed her father, don’t know if punishment was administer. My wife rules our home, I do not care to waste a Sunday morning in church, more important things to do. With that said and sitting on those hard pews after a spanking, I now go. My wife feels that it is the woman who holds the marriage together. A couple of sermons preached that the man is equal to the woman and the woman should step forward if the husband has let her down. Trust me the last thing you would want to happen is to receive a bare bottom spanking prior to church and knowing that another spanking will be given after church. So the hand of God need not be a man, but a Woman.
ReplyDeleteI agree with this as well! The husband has duties and responsibilities as well, and if he does not step up...
DeleteHmmm, so is this playful retaliation for me stealing your "Global Warming" theme? LOL Hell you even used the same illustration I posted. Naughty Julie! God is going to be so angry. Stealing is a sin ya know. LOL
ReplyDeleteOK, enough teasing. First, anyone who would like a different take on "CDD" is welcome to visit my blog and scroll back to August 2nd of this year. However, to encapsulate my views here I would have to agree somewhat with Glen. It has always been my experience that people are incredibly gifted at rationalizing ANYTHING. Kink within a religious marriage is no exception.
Religious people are better at mental contortionism than most. After all they can even rationalize the ambiguities and inconsistencies of the deity they worship with their own desires to 'cherry pick' scripture to support whatever they want while ignoring whatever they don't want. It's actually fun to watch from a distance.
I do think there are some dangers in some CDD situations....... especially where the woman is not so 'willing' and religion is used to kind of bully her into a submissive position. Articles have been written on this from women who eventually got out of situations like this. So CDD is not as cute and innocent as it might appear. It could be, but like anything else, it can be used to subjugate as well.
(Well now that I commented on YOUR CDD post, maybe you would consider adding your thoughts to mine? Maybe such a charitable act might even square you with your god after that whole 'stealing thing'? If not, maybe I can come up with some ideas for your penance. LOL .....and hey, what's with all this controversy stuff all of a sudden? I like it. ;-) All the best!)
Ha ha! Maybe subconsciously, but I had not actually read that blog article until just now. I googled the Jesus spanking one out of the blue. But it's fascinating our different take on things: you are so grumpy at times, kd. I think it's all just good clean Godly kinky fun!
DeleteMy dear, dear girl......grumpiness is the foundation upon which all of my charm and wit is based. Take that away from me and I'd just be another drooling, fawning sycophant.
Delete(oh shit. wait. you LIKE that sort of guy. LOL. Actually you have plenty already, so you really sort of need me as I am for variety. ;-) ------Grumpy )
Hey! If I put my bare bum out there I expect a little fawning...
DeleteI enjoy your grumpiness.
The only problem I would have with CDD is people trying to sell it as the "right" way, superior way, natural way, or that they are the voice of a Christian God informing us all of The Truth and how to live our lives. If CDD is what they want, based on their beliefs, then I wish them the best with it.
ReplyDeleteI've never been subjected to it but, in the realm of kinkiness, religious authority is exciting because it's a real source of authoritarian power. Historically, we know that power has been used for the worst that humans can do, but it's also been a benevolent and trusted institution. Most of us born decades ago grew up in neighborhoods where strict religious families didn't spare the rod, and where women were dutiful housewives. It was the model for righteous and benevolent authority in the home, and that power dynamic is my kink. A Femdom or Female Led Relationship is all the more exciting because it turns the traditional male HOH on its head, pun intended. Culturally, attitudes about masculinity and femininity have been reinforced by Christian doctrine, which strengthens the perceived perversity of the vulnerable and submissive male. Again feeding my kink.
Well, anybody who does a thing that they believe is beneficial to their marriage is I guess "selling it" by talking about it, but I have certainly not seen anybody online (in my limited research) suggesting that a wife should be coerced into it.
DeleteAnd I agree with you totally on the kinky end of it all, which was the point of my post!
Over the years, I've read quite a bit from people into CDD, and a few (I'm not making a broad generalization here) seem to feel the need to justify what they do by presenting it as the natural order of things. They make claims about how men and women are designed only for certain roles, that children need to be raised in this kind of nuclear family, that society's problems are the result of blah, blah, blah... It's not that a wife should be coerced into it, it's the implication that there's something wrong with her if she doesn't accept her ordained subordinate position. Organized religions, in general, make these sorts of claims with regularity, so I distinguish between the kink and the ideological stuff.
DeleteI enjoy the paradox that, because of religious earnestness, it does make for good kink. I'm a liberal and an atheist, and nothing is going to change my values or have me believing anything I can't actually believe, but the fetish is still alive and kicking. The idea of being under the rigid authority of a religious woman, who will make me a good boy through her frightfully strict discipline, is a boner-inducing idea.
The appealing thing about Christianity is a benevolent Christ who knows you for who you are, loves you anyways, but can be quite strict with you at times. Sounds familiar!
DeleteI've been aware of religious, domestic discipline for a long time. Some of the practitioners may find it to be kinky fun, but I think that in general, this is a form of domestic abuse.
ReplyDeleteI am in a female led marriage. I am spanked when I break a rule or fail to be respectful and obedient. I requested this. Partly, it's kinky fun, but more importantly it assures that my wife feels heard. She is likely to stuff her feelings and let her anger affect her negatively. By building our FLRD (Female Led Relationship with Discipline) we have strengthened our marriage.
Having said that, I am opposed to an institutionally prescribed imposition of beatings. They aren't consensual. These Christian wives believe that they must submit because it is God's will, not necessarily theirs.
Like you, I've long enjoyed BDSM spanking and other painful play. My entry into FLRD is a direct descendant of it. It's fully consensual and loving.
On the other hand, how many women are brutally subjugated in the name of their god?
I know that you are 100 percent into consensual play and if you choose to add a religious theme, it will be because you find it kinky and hot. I wonder how many young brides move from the beatings of their fathers to new ones from husbands. Do they want them? Possibly. I'm not so sure they do.
To be completely clear, I hate being punished. My disciplinary spankings are painful and no fun. But I asked for them and I like the effect they have on both of our lives. That doesn't mean I think all husbands should be beaten; just the lucky ones.
Of the research I've done online it is mostly the wives writing, they are definitely consenting, and it strikes me that if not explicitly, then at least implicitly there is a huge sexual element to it. I call it like I see it and have seen no material suggesting anything non-consensual or involuntary in any way, so I am basing my assessment on that.
DeleteIf there are folks who practice it as you suggest, then I am 1000% against THAT take on it, but will not tar the cute consensuals with the same brush.
Ms. Julie, this is a beautiful post! Living on the periphery of all this, I find it emotionally captivating that someone would love someone so much that they would discipline them to guide them towards a better way of living. The whole idea of discipline is for the benefit of the individual being disciplined AND the benefit of those around him or her. As a husband, I would give anything for my wife to love me so much she would do this for my, and her, benefit as well as those whose lives I come into contact with. My wife gave it a try but found no benefit even though we absolutely grew closer during the process. I can't begin to describe how loved I felt and valued when she was willing to discipline me. And I told her that numerous times. In the end, (no pun intended!), she had no genuine interest in incorporating Domestic Discipline into our marriage, despite the benefits it afforded. I see the wives in CDD feeling the same sense of profound love for the husband who loves them so much they're willing to commit to CDD for the benefit of all. Because of the anonymity provided in this venue, I will openly admit that, even as a man, my heart aches to love and be loved unconditionally. I get a sense that this is what the wives in CDD experience. I envy them and "watch from a distance" seeing what they have, that I cannot. In all that you have done, I see the same sense of love you have for your husband. You are a truly blessed couple! Lc
ReplyDeleteVery nicely put. You are absolutely right. In my relationship with my husband I do feel we experience the best of CDD, which is why I both approve of it when played at with a bit of tongue in cheek "when my husband spanks my bottom he warms me up in more ways than one!"
DeleteI was introduced to a Christian woman by a mutual friend. She was a member of a large Christian church here that outsiders call Six Flags Over Jesus because of its size. She made it clear to me from the beginning that she believed that women should honor and obey their husbands, and be punished if they didn't. I thought I had found a perfect kinky partner, but it wasn't about kink or pleasure with her. I hope she does not end up in an abusive relationship, although she probably will with a man who is just doing God's Will.
ReplyDeleteWell, if she chooses an abusive man she's made a very bad choice. On the other hand, if she chooses a loving, kind, but strict man, she might be blissfully content. And I find it very hard to believe that a spanking on the naked buttocks of a wife will not "heat up" both husband and wife!
DeleteYou can probably work out how serious they are about the disciplinary aspect by seeing what the couples do when the spankings and cornertime are over ;)
ReplyDeleteI remember a post on spankingblog years ago which quoted a Christian couple whose pastor encouraged his male parishoners to spank their wives when they misbehaved or were disobedient.
The couple casually mentioned that they always ended up having vigorous sex immediately after the spanking, but the pastor had assured them that this was very common and 'perfectly understandable'.
Exactly! Most of the CDD sites and testimonies made no bones about the sex after!
DeleteCertainly the Christian wife who has acted badly must be punished. No doubt. But why should the punishment be administered on the buttocks of the guilty wife?
ReplyDeleteWhy not on her thighs or breasts? (or cunt..., or belly!)
Why is an exhibition of the naked wife in the streets of the neighborhood where the couple live is it not best suited to her return to the people of God, which she momentarily moved away?
Those who oppose the authority of their husbands ((Romans 13:2-7)) resist the order that God has established, and those who resist will attract a condemnation on themselves. It is not for a good action, it is for a bad one, that husbands are to be feared.
Wives, do you want to fear the authority of your husband ? Do good, and you will have his approval. Your husband is a servant of God for your good. But if you do evil, fear; because it is not in vain that he has a big cock, being a servant of Gode to exert vengeance and to punish the one who does evil.
Is that >really< from the Bible?
DeleteMy wife often asks me this question.
DeleteI answer her that any sacred text must, of course, be interpreted.
For this part of the epistle of St. Paul giving practical advice to Christians, I always try to give her the best interpretation (IMO) concerning our couple.
Like a Catholic priest of old, interpreting the word for us.
DeleteI guess I worry about anyone who takes this stuff too seriously.
ReplyDeleteI understand that religion plays a strong role in peoples lives, and many religious people believe nonreligious people to be arrogant`in that they don't believe in a god that is all powerful.
I respect the humility that is part of religion, but I worry when people use it as an excuse not to think for themselves. So I worry about these women and a few other folks into domination and submission.
As for Irene and me, it is a very fun and usually intense fantasy. and we have a date in 3 hours!
-Rosco
I think Christian couples who partake do so very willingly!
DeleteJust remember its jewish discipline if its from the old testament and christian if its from the new testament
ReplyDeleteNoted!
Deleteyou are very intresting young lady Ms Julie i am not Christian anymore but i have hear rumor story of wife doing obey husband even allow to be punish spanked when bad or break rule cause bible say so
ReplyDeleteBut like anything else as alway rule in spankings you have other person permisson to punish spank them can just walk up swat them on butt force them accept spankings if refuse etc you can get arrested for assult
Exactly! Everything consensual.
DeleteMs Julie i seriously feel you would enjoy doing that with david maybe can get Sue big meanie sister to agree as well maybe have bible out you staring down at bible while being spanked by Sue or david you can be swat on your cute butt with bible at end
ReplyDeletethen you have david over your lap you spanking him he has stare at bible maybe few good swat with bible at end help
I want to be spanked and then taken to church to sit on the hard pews!
DeleteMaybe someday you get your wish be spanked told sit on hard pews for one hour bet you wouldnt last long lol
DeleteI better last long, or else my hiney's getting spanked again after we get home!
DeleteI've always found this kind of interesting. But more interesting still is the Christian argument in terms of male Chastity cages. Their arguments are quite compelling actually.
ReplyDeleteThat will keep the lustiness in check!
DeleteRogering here. Your a heaten Juile(JOKE) But seriously, if reincarnation exists, would like to come back as as a Bert Reynolds lookalike Christan man with a wife eager to submit.(wink)
ReplyDeleteI’d have had my tushy spanked (and more) by Burt Reynolds! RIP.
DeleteGood taste Juile (wink) Rogering
DeleteI agree with some of the others here. If the couple is both into it then by all means. But the worry is when one party is coerced into the practice using religion as the reason. Not That doesnt sit well with me. “If you love me and you love God you will submit to being spanked- that is what the Bible dictates” does not sound like a loving relationship to me.
ReplyDeleteTotally! But literally ALL the CDD stuff I found online was consensual and wound up in the bedroom after, So I think just Christians havin’ fun while stayin’ true. Anything coercive is Blech!
DeleteJulie as always approaches the problem with honesty
ReplyDeleteIt is about Christian couples where the wife is regularly punished by spanking when she acted badly.
This wife accepts and even demands this punishment because she is aware of having done wrong. This husband, although unenthusiastic about spanking his wife, is determined to do what he needs to do for her good.
Bare-bottoming is not for the couple an erotic ritual. There must be no eroticism or pleasure in exposing the lady's derriere. It only allows the husband to see what he is doing, not to punish excessively but not too lightly either. Fairly.
Finally, if it exceptionally happens that the wife is put in the corner bare naked after her punishment it is to ask forgiveness to Jesus in the state where she was born and where she should not be ashamed to be in front of him.
No perversity. Just a very sore bottom for a few hours. It's all the spicy of this naive and loving submission.
Exactly! Nothing sexual going on here. Move on, folks...
DeleteI personally believe there is a huge hole in Christian Domestic Discipline. I’d like to make a few points or comments on what I believe.....
ReplyDelete1) I do not believe just the wife is required to submit to that. A husband and wife are meant to be one, to be a team. So I believe if the couple chooses this way then it should not only be the wife who endures punishment when done wrong
2) often it used as a very controlling thing and lacks love. I believe that in a relationship like this then both people involved should agree it is needed. It should be discussed and never done in anger. Whoever is being punished should often be comforted and told they are loved. After the punishment should be a time of embracing and reaffirming that love
3) it should not be taught as every marriage or relationship needs this. Truthfully it is not for everyone and can lead to more than good if forced
I only approve of it when it is consensual and loving. Don’t NEED to switch if not into that, but no problem with it if they are.
DeleteI agree dear just stating how I view it
DeleteIf Julie the Christian switches , does she become Julian the Apostate?
ReplyDeleteI ate an apost once. It was nasty!
DeleteUh, what is an apost? Canadian term for a fruit or nut?
Delete-T.
Gore Vidal really appreciated him.Meanwhile apostasy is a heads-off offence with those cool guys the Us, UK and France support in Syria
DeleteThat's probably the first sign your religion sucks. You're talking about Scientology, right? ;-)
DeletePlease, put a new post Julie, this one will attract many ideas and people outside the spanking community
ReplyDeleteDone! And it's a brutal enough beating that only the hardcore will stay!
DeleteFor Christian discipline no sect pursued this with greater vigour than the Catholics. In my experience the girls got ponytail pulling and face slapping from the nuns even for talking in class or not knowing an answer. But the boys really copped it from the nuns. Caning and paddling was the norm. No preset limits just flail away. Always done in public so the lesson could be learned by all. Terrifying.
ReplyDeleteTerrifyingly sexy!
Delete(If you're "into" it - sux otherwise).
Sometimes CDD can be counterproductive as this wife writes :
ReplyDelete« After a lot of discussion and prayer, my husband and I adopted a DD lifestyle. I was always attracted to him because of his dominant personality.
In a way, spanking worked too well.
It's gone from something that brings us together to something that I am really afraid of. So afraid that I will do anything I can to avoid one. Including lying to him about things so I don't get in trouble. I know that part of it is that I *think* he spanks very hard.
When it's punishment, it's always bare bottom with a wooden paddle. He won't use his hand because he says his hand is for love and affection, not correction. I know this is traditional and I accept that, but the paddle even though it is small, just hurts so much. I am always sobbing by the time it's over and feel very sick. »
Sounds like they're not doing it right!
DeleteMs Julie. Disciplining your Christian wife Daniella reminds her that god put the male in charge in marriage. So if she is caught playing with her clitoris that’s sex outside of marriage and it’s over the knee with her for a red hot 50. Then she is to kneel naked in the corner contemplating her sins while she holds the bible with arms outstretched high up over her head. Then she is made to beg for the lords forgiveness while her man fills her holes. That’s how you maintain a good Christian marriage.
ReplyDeleteAgreed!
DeleteIf a man loves his wife like Christ loved the church and took our punishment than the husband should be willing to take the wife's punishment and lay it down for her. Perhaps over her lap
ReplyDeletetotally yes!
DeleteIs there a time that the husband should be punished for his behavior. I feel he should.
ReplyDeleteFor sure
DeleteIt is definitely kink, though I know some practitioners of domestic discipline, Christian or otherwise, like to pretend it’s discipline pure and simple, with no sexual overtones. Personally, I believe the pretence of pure discipline heightens the eroticism for some people, which is why some practitioners of DD get upset when you doubt their claim that there’s nothing kinky about their lifestyle. That being said, I think that kink can have a spiritual aspect. One of the goals of spiritual discipline is to enable people to transcend their egos. I find that submitting to my wife can sometimes bring about an ecstatic feeling of self-transcendence and a feeling of devotion towards the divine feminine which she embodies in that moment. I guess that is Pagan DD, rather than Christian DD.
ReplyDeleteagree with all...
DeleteLove it (and love how you care to find the most accurate illustrations possible)
ReplyDeleteI personally think religions are already a fantasy to fill up our lifes. So physical punishment is just added fantasies somehow.
Having said that, the idea of righteousness versus sin are deep in me. And you may have noticed how often there are crosses on the back wall when one of my teenage boys is spanked...
I've heard stories about that from fans in France (a part of France is still quite religious and conservative), but I can't tell what is fantaisies and think that actually happened to them...
Anyway, bonne journée dear Julie : )
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DeleteBut it's AleX : )
I figured it was. Thank you for the nice comment!
DeleteThanks for sharing, some really nice picks. i don't have a girlfriend but love spanking my cheap sex doll.
ReplyDeleteVery cute and sexy dolls! It would be fun to have her as an extra "girlfriend" for my husband. Make him fuck and lick!
DeleteI agree. My emotions often get the best of me. My husband uses a plexiglass paddle with holes
ReplyDeleteGod bless.
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