He is not gay, but nonetheless he will do his best (for me) to suck cock and present ass. Many of you submissive males have a secret longing to be "made to". Would you do it if required to by a beautiful and dominant woman?
The man who will be submitting to that penis is best characterized by the below self-portrait.
Don't you enjoy the contrast between the two pics?
This particular e-subby has a "thing" for a grown up niece who is very attractive. When she visits, he lives to sneak into her room and collect a pair of her soiled panties to sniff and taste. His biggest aspiration is to find a discarded tampon of hers to suck on. His dream scenario is that she finds out about him and dominates him mercilessly.
Yes, welcome to my world of pen-pals!
I am not particularly alarmed over this. Many men who read my blog have deep rooted fantasies similar to these. Some won't admit to it. Others are racked by guilt over it. I find it quite amusing the extent to which this one is enthralled by his young lady. He is very conflicted because at the same time as having these feelings about her, he is also very protective of her and has been a great Uncle to her over the years. I judge he is of absolutely zero danger to her. Quite the opposite in fact, he is so enthralled that if she ever caught on she could abuse him mercilessly, no doubt destroying his marriage and draining his bank account in the process if she was that kind of girl.
Now, if I was that niece, and if I discovered an uncle sneaking into my room and stealing my panties to sniff and taste, well let's just say that it would be "open season" on his ass. Under dire risk of humiliating exposure and possible arrest, I would require him to submit to the punishment I decree. I would meet him in a secluded spot. I would tie his wrists and his ankles, and then tie him bent over a makeshift spanking horse. I would get out the most vicious strap in my arsenal. I would, literally, remove the skin from his ass with that strap. I wouldn't think twice about it. I wold enjoy it in fact. I would rub some iodine in afterwards, for safety's sake.
Oh well, it's not my panties he is stealing.
He is in the process of arranging a spanking from a Pro Domme, and combining this with a trip to Vicotria's Secret for a bra fitting that I suggested. This is hot on the heels of his going to the same store earlier to purchase several pairs of panties, and interacting with the saleslady. Here is his account of that.
I was visiting my mother in my old home town to help her with some chores and errands. When I took her to a hair appointment, I had some time to visit the local mall which contains a Victoria’s Secret. Walking into that entrance knowing what I’m about to reveal about myself always hits me hard. The shop had just opened and I had a few moments to browse all the sexy underthings on display as I made my way to the panty section. An attractive woman in her early 30s approached and asked if she could assist me.Ha ha! Here he is modelling all three of his purchases for me.
My heart rate went up as I explained that I was in trouble and I wasn’t allowed to go back home without buying some sexy panties for myself. She asked about size, style and colors. I said I wasn’t sure about size, but they needed to be as sexy, frilly and feminine as possible. Pinks or other pastel colors. As she selected some examples, she estimated I would need size medium panties. As for style, I indicated that they should cover me sufficiently, but that it wouldn’t be difficult to do. Through it all, she remained very professional as I wilted inside, feeling my masculinity draining away. We finally settled on 3 after I let her select what she thought was sexiest and what colors she liked.
Finally I asked if I could possibly wear one of them out of the store. She agreed and when I couldn’t decide on which, she had me pay, then cut the tags off and led me to the dressing rooms. The store was already busy and we passed several shoppers and sales people on our way. I couldn’t be more obvious what was going on. Moments after the changing room door shut, I heard several women laughing loudly. I was certain it was about me.
I excitedly undressed and slid on the first pair. A streak of precum stained the front panel. I finally decided to wear one with a shiny fabric that looked like something a stripper would wear. I dressed, walked out, checking if anyone saw me leave the dressing room (no one was there) and walked with my head down, stopping briefly to thank my saleswoman again before I left with my cute little VS bag, my balls pushed up inside me and my little cock tucked down.
And he included a readout of his heart rate during this encounter...
I suggested that next time he also go for the bra fitting. He is taking me up on it (poor sweet man, wrapped around my little finger as he is - it amuses me to torment him like this!).
He wrote to me about some of his inner thoughts regarding his niece's upcoming visit.
Dear Mistress Julie,I get very excited reading about his excitement, and his upcoming humiliations. I even like hearing about his worship for his niece. It is soooo pathetic.
This is Thanksgiving week in the US, and starting Wednesday we will have a houseful of family staying here, including my niece. There will be so many people here, it will be difficult, but I am hopeful to find a way to spend some quality intimate time with her panties.
I haven’t let myself cum in five days and am feeling very horny in anticipation of seeing her bottom sway as she walks to our hot tub spa in the back yard and watching her high, firm breasts bounce in the undulating water.
Over the past few days, I have had some extended alone time during which I watched femdom porn involving ball busting and faggot humiliation. There is something about that look in a woman’s eyes when she taunts you with verbal insults like faggot, cocksucker, panty-wearing sissy; insults which cut deep because I know that some of them are true and some might be someday!
To keep myself under control while waiting to see her, I have put myself in chastity.
While she is here, I was thinking of wearing panties, although with all the people, that might not be safe.
Nothing says, “Please fuck me!” like Victoria’s Secret panties, does it? And oh, do I want to be fucked! Or raped, in some way, physically or mentally.
If panties don’t work out, I’m thinking of taking Viagra every day while she’s here and trying to hide my erection every time she looks my way with her green eyes and pouty lips.
Regardless of how things go with her awesome face, tits, ass and panties later in the week, this Tuesday will be my time to play. I have found a pro domme in a convenient location for me using the website I told you about last time. There is a small chance I may be able to meet with her in the morning for some spanking fun, but more likely I will be headed to Victoria’s Secret to be fitted for a bra!
I will be arriving about the same time as my last visit, and I am hopeful that I will find the same saleswoman who helped me with panties last time. I intend to embellish and add to the story from last time, when I said I needed to buy sexy panties for myself or I wasn’t allowed to come home. This time, I will thank her for helping me with the panties because my girlfriend “Julie” had caught me trying on her lingerie and she demanded that I purchase some for myself or she would end the relationship and kick me out. Now she is demanding that I be fitted for and purchase a sexy bra to wear home for her. I will tell her Julie says she is embarrassed by me and my lack of masculinity and she wants me to be embarrassed during this shopping experience. I am thinking of writing a short note from Julie to give to her to encourage her to make my experience as public and embarrassing as she is comfortable with. Julie is embarrassed and disgusted with me as a man and now that I have shown that I “want to be a woman”, she is going to make me share her humiliation and have the “complete” woman’s experience.
My heart is pounding and I have a lump in my throat thinking about what might happen in just 2 days.
Dear Mistress Julie,My pleasure! Sharing with me, and now with all of you blog readers as well. I hope you will be as encouraging of him as I in the comments section.
My niece and her mother arrived late last night. She looks phenomenal! I’m not a breast man, but hers are perfection, high and firm. I was admiring her long arms and wondered how hard they could spank me.
I will enjoy watching her move and hopefully be able to sneak some time with her panties in this crowded house.
I am urgently horny! I haven’t allowed myself to cum in 9 days. I have teased and edged so much that my little penis is getting sore. My balls are so full! I heard an appropriate expression for precum today. My penis is crying!
I am thankful that I am blessed with someone like you that I am able to share my feelings and experiences with!
I wrote him back.
After the weekend, he sent me a response and a recap.I love the image of your "crying" penis in your grown up niece's presence. You do realize, of course, that she is completely aware of your sexual infatuation with her? Pretty girls have a sixth sense about it, and with the sorts of subconscious vibes you must be throwing off, she knows for sure. Who will be the first to mention it?
Dear Mistress Julie,
You are so right. My niece must notice the way I look at her. I’m sure my submissive desperation must be easy to feel for anyone tuned in.
I did have some success in spending some quality time with her panties. Even with a crowded house, I was able to fish a worn pair out of her overnight bag and sneak into the bathroom. I edged twice while inhaling deeply. No cumming! At least until Monday. I will let the events of the day; bra shopping and possibly a spanking, determine if I am worthy to spurt. I was almost caught sneaking the panties back! I believe she might be on her period. If I am able to find one of her used tampons, I think I would lick and suck it. I’m such a dirty pervert!After 9 days of teasing and edging, I officially have blue balls. They are full, heavy and they ache. It is such sweet suffering! It scares me where my mind goes when I get this desperately horny. I feel very vulnerable and seduceable. "Control the cock, control the man." Although, I cant really call this thing a cock, can I? And I’m certainly not anything like a real man.
Isn't the pathetic angst just wonderful?
He wrote back to me the other day about his attempts to setup a session with a Pro Domme. In his online wandering he came across a different type of ad. This is what he wrote to me.No, you’re really not much of a man, are you, existing at the whim of pretty young women, willing to do anything demeaning at a snap of their fingers, such as sucking on their used tampons!?!??Real men snap their fingers and have the women running around trying to please them, so I really don’t even know what to make of you.Tut tut,
Dear Mistress Julie,The only woman? Perhaps not, but I know what he means. He says if he does it he will struggle with it for the rest of his life. So what? If it amuses me, why not make him do it? I mean, wah wah wah. That's my attitude. Does that make me unbearably cruel? His fault for denying himself for so long. Men can make some spectacularly bad decisions when they get so "pent up". I wrote back.
Why does it excite me so much to confess how weak and pathetic I am and for you to confirm it? So desperate!
Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to find any used tampons when I dug through all the trash. I did find a couple applicators, which I sucked, of course, knowing that will be as intimate as I will ever be with my niece's sweet pussy. So desperate!
I don’t know if you are getting hit with this same storm pattern, but we are snowed in here until tomorrow, which will delay my bra shopping and spanking adventure for 24 hours. By then, it will be two full weeks of teasing, edging and no cumming! So desperate!
While I was perusing ads, looking for a spanker, I found one from a man wanting to have his cock sucked and/or fuck a man’s ass. I responded! He responded back! I told him that I have someone who wants me to do this, thinking of you, of course. We are still discussing logistics, but I think ultimately, me going through with this will depend on you... You understand what deep humiliation this would be for me and how much I crave humiliation and how much it scares me to death. My question is, are you interested in participating in this in any way? Would you “snap your fingers” and make me do this demeaning thing for you, knowing I would struggle with the shame of being a true faggot cocksucker for the rest of my life? Would you push me into it? I think you are the only woman who is both able and willing to make me do this.
There, that was easily enough said, wasn't it? Took very little of my time to express that. Subby men are so grateful to me when I tell them to do the most demeaning things imaginable.Very interesting development.As to having an experience with a man. Yes, I want you to do that. You will do it because it pleases me, and you deserve it.I want you to arrange a meeting with this man. Tell him I want you very soundly spanked first. Starting across his knee with your pants and panties pulled down (yes, wear your pretty panties). First his hand, hard as he can. Then a stout wooden hairbrush or paddle that you will supply. Then I want him to take his own belt off from around his waist while you watch. After it's off, I want you bent over, bare ass high, for a nice long drawn out belt licking. I want your bum nice and tenderized so you can feel his thighs later on as he's fucking you.Then I want him to wear a condom for your safety. You will suck him until he is nice and hard. You will go down on him deeply. I want gagging. Tell him to not be gentle with you. I want you thoroughly face fucked like a little $2 whore, his hand at the back of your head, forcing you to deep throat. But tell him not to cum. Oh no. Not yet. When he is ready, you will bend over and he will give you anal intercourse to completion, hands on your hips, ramming you as deeply as he can. If you do a good enough job on the blowy, it ought not last overly long. You are, of course, not allowed to cum at all, even if he offers.And lest you think I am being overly cruel, there is nothing I'm requiring of you here that I have not subjected myself to for you and the other blog readers' amusement.You will send me an account of it, and what pictures you can, and then I will give you permission to stroke yourself off and consume your ejaculate. Are we clear on this? On ALL of this?Consider this as punishment for you OUTRAGEOUS behavior vis-a-vis your adult niece.
Dear Mistress Julie,
What have I done? You took the worst, most humiliating scenario I could imagine and made it worse! Much worse!
Turning me into a cocksucker and ass-fucked faggot is such a huge leap from anything I have done before! My stomach is doing flip flops!
But you are right. And VERY clear about your directions for me. I have enjoyed reading about the very same things happening to you. And you are right that this is a very much deserved punishment for everything I have done and fantasized about doing with my sweet niece. I deserve it, and you deserve it. I want to please you!I have forwarded your explicit instructions to the man via text. I will let you know how he responds and progress toward setting up the meeting.Here is a photo from the ad of the cock that will be using me:
I am afraid and shaken like I’ve never felt before.
Isn't that just marvelous? I can't wait to see if he will actually go through with it! I am pleased enough with just the torment of it all for him, but will only be truly pleased once that cum hits that condom thrust deeply into my boy's submissive ass.
Ms Julie,
ReplyDeletethis post leaves me with mixed feelings. The topic in itself is indeed hot and that guy is lucky to have you as his e-Mistress. But the things that bother me, is that he actually goes to his nieces underwear. I think that's a no-go, because, well it's his niece and you definitely shouldn't do that. If he got caught that would mean so much trouble for him inside his family, that i find it interesting to see, him ignoring all signs of danger and just giving in into some urgent needs, that seem to be more important.
It's the sign of an addiction, if you look at it from a little distance.
Same thing goes with online play between two people that are not connected in real life. I have thought long and hard about this topic too, and in my opinion it shows the signs of an addiction (yeah im repeating myself here). Since it is only satisfactory for a short period of time but then you need a "new fix". Mainly with certain brain-sections which are then used more than "usual" in a relationship.
So i myself don't see that much benefit in an e-D/s-relationship because of the addictive nature of it. Every addiction can end up ruining peoples lives, so it's a great responsibility one takes as the D-part in such a relationship.
What do you think about these short rambling together of thoughts?
Hi Marc,
DeleteI see exactly where you are coming from, though I believe “obsession” is a better term than “addiction” where his niece is concerned. It is clear to me that a big part of him wants to get caught and suffer the humiliating consequences.
As to online play, being somewhat of an “expert” I must disagree there! It’s a fun diversion and you can feel a deep connection to the other. You can also be much more honest and free with an anonymous pen-pal. More honest than with anybody else. I do try to take care of my boys, as well. I never require them to do anything dangerous and they must always protect their health. Hence my insistence on condom use in this case, for example.
I feel I have a great responsibility to everybody I exchange with to make sure they are happier and healthier as a result!
Wow how does one get the chance to serve you online Miss Julie
DeleteMs Julie,
Deletethanks for explaining your thoughts on that matter. Yes obsession should definitely be a better word.
I disagree with online play in so far, as if one stumbles upon you as it's play partner. The way you describe it is how it can be ideally. You're concerned for you other part, you want to build a quick connection.
In my thought i was referring to my experiences and how i view such channels. These channels are often filled with people only there for a quick fix, really druglike, then vanish, come back again and so on.
That's the vast majority of online play and this is an unhealthy one.
Still the risk that one does not go out to seek a mate with whom it is possible to play in RL is given, even with your explanation, or maybe especially with your explanations and views on things (?) because, as far as i am reading this from your answers, you are a woman who is deeply concerned for the other part you are communicating with in a physical and mental way.
This creates dependencies in the subcounscious mind. But as ou sum it up you try to make them happier and healthier, which can maybe help them get along better in life, finding a mate etc.
Anony: just send an email!
Deletemarc: many of the men I play with are in happy and fulfilling committed relationships where only the kink quotient is not there. They did not and now do not consider the kink as the most important thing, but need some form of an outlet, and I am happy to assist (that is what my blog is really all about, I guess!)
Ms Julie,
Deletei think that is a quite common problem, that many people who have kinky desires can not fulfill them in a relationship. That you assist, as you describe it, is a good thing of you to do, since you seem to benefit from it quite a lot, too.
On the other hand, i myself am in a relationship where my kink is fulfilled every now and then. But i for myself would not press on fulfilling a kink, when it's not possible in a relationship. I would hardwire my brain otherwise then.
But that is different from person to person.
You do run a very interesting and wonderful blog and have a quite good hand in pointing out the obvious things in question. Plus you have a really wonderful and caring personality.
I think there are dangers in trying to "hardwire" oneself like that, rather than providing an outlet, be it only a fantasy, masturbatory outlet at minimum. Great book by Jackie Castro called "Sex, Fetish, and Him" that I describe and refer to in my "Advice for Wives" post (perma-linked top right) discusses this well from a psychologist specializing in fetish.
DeleteMs Julie,
Deletei am of course speaking hypothetically. But if i had to choose between living a fetish if it might only be through masturbation or loosing my wife. I would definitely hardwire my brain to refuse anything that's connected to that certain fetish.
I think so for myself (!) because if i can't live or occasionally play it with my wife, then there is no meaning in it for doing it at all. I would even refuse to have a masturbatory outlet, because i myself would consider it cheating againt my beloved and i just love her that much, that i would be willing to do a hard wiring of my brain =)
You think you’re setting up a false dichotomy, an “either / or” that in and of itself is a terrible thing. I just say, if I had a spouse who put me in such a false dichotomy I would not stand for it.
DeleteMarc and Julie, I have been following your discussion with interest. I think many of us married guys are forced to seek some outlet for our kinks online. That's why there are so many of us here. I am in the same boat as you, Marc. My kink is partially satisfied within my marriage because my wife knows about it and has made some effort to accommodate it. To that end, we actually have a formal FLR. My wife especially likes the "domestic servitude" aspect of FLR, for obvious reasons, I suppose. :-)
DeleteWhen I say my kink is only partially satisfied, I mean that I would like my wife to punish me more harshly, the way Julie punishes David. I've tried explaining my need for harsher treatment, but she doesn't get how I could really want her to hurt me or make me fearful of her authority. I believe there is a unique frustration in your situation and mine, Marc. When your wife is making an effort to fulfill your need to submit, you feel guilty needing more, right?
I did research and found a pro domme who for a very reasonable fee will give a half hour spanking. I wrote to her and she seemed very nice and understanding, and I actually went as far as booking an appointment. However, the day before the appointment, I had a terrible guilt attack. Going to a pro domme for something that my wife makes an effort to do for me herself, within her own comfort zone, seemed like cheating to me. I cancelled the appointment the day before, with a feeling of guilt about wasting the time of the pro domme. She was very understanding. She said it was okay and that I knew where to find her if I ever overcame my guilt. That is a constant temptation, but one that I have resisted so far. But I can't stop myself from fantasizing, which is the reason I am a great fan of Julie, and I totally get wanting to identify as one of Julie's "boys" and be commanded by her the way the guy in this week's blog is being commanded.
Darryl
I honestly think honesty is not always the best policy in a relationship. I say go get your needs taken care of and then you can really enjoy what your wife does without the grudging. Just make sure she never finds out.
DeleteVery nicely done Miss Julie, holding the puppet strings like this. I think it’s time you dress “her” fully, making sure “she” has knee socks and plaid skirts, heels and lingerie...before sending her on her next humiliating adventure.
ReplyDeleteWell yes, good point. Once he gets that bra and those inserts, I think His dress for his encounter should be panties, bra, skirt, and blouse. Maybe stockings and a garter belt as well? To really “frame” the target for his spanking and his anal intercourse?
DeleteAbsolutely Miss ! I don’t think you should let up on him until you have “her” head-to-toe feminized...and maybe start gradually reducing the size of his “clitty cage”.
DeleteYes! Smaller and smaller, and add a few spikes in there as well to teach him a lesson when he gets naughty thoughts.
DeleteThe idea of a preliminary spanking is really mischievous. Is there something more shameful and humiliating for a man than be made to suck an other man who just gave you a beating. The whole thing in public.
ReplyDeleteYes, I think so too. That is the most humiliating aspect for sure.
DeleteGreat story so far Miss Julie. Sounds like something you would love to put your hubby david through, if he were only willing.
ReplyDeleteOh yes!
DeleteOh my goodness, where to begin? This person is such a disgusting, pathetic pervert! His niece? If I knew about anybody creeping around my niece, I would track him down and kick his ass. His own niece! You say she is an adult, but I have to wonder how old she was when this sick obsession first appeared. Stories like this really make me wonder about the people I share this planet with. I hope he gets what he apparently wants. I hope he gets caught, exposed, and loses everything. So disgusting!
ReplyDeleteA little harsh, anonymous. You seem to be a bit of an outlier.
Deletethis should be very interesting to see if e subby will go thru with it. You should remind him he has to be very submissive and ask permission from we'll call him Mack to kiss his beautiful cock and permission to suck it. and when the time comes he should ask Mack to please take his virgin sissy hole and stretch and fill his sissy hole. and when all is done he should thank Mack for taking his virginity and tell him he is welcome to use his sissy hole any time he wishes.
ReplyDeletearchedone
Yes, take a proper submissive attitude as befits a sissy boy like him.
DeleteMs. Julie:
ReplyDeleteI'm sure he is very nervous indeed, contemplating giving up his ass as you have instructed him to do. You certainly have him in hand and I'm sure he loves it. Do you know if he's an anal virgin? Ouch!
vic
He is from another man, although toys have been up there!
DeleteMissionary or doggy style ? If missionary (nice position so they can look into each other's eyes) the fucker must give attention too to the cocksucker's inside thighs and belt them very hard so that they are stinging and they feel in the most unpleasant way the rubbing of his hairy thighs when he shoves his cock down his ass.
ReplyDeleteFranck
Both are tempting, but I think I prefer doggy as being a more "submissive" posture for him.
DeleteWould i do this? Just did as I lost a bet with Maurice. He is a man my Wife is totally enamored with. my team (Michigan)lost to arch-rival Ohio State 62-39. Maurice came over to rub it in and i had to pay up with 62 swats given to my bare ass by Maurice with a spencer paddle. He paddled me so hard but i was so excited and hard from the humiliation. My wife kept telling him to paddle me harder because i'm such a pussy. After Maurice was done i was made to suck his big cock. My wife forced the back of my head onto his cock and made me suck as much as i could. Finally Maurice let loose with a huge load of cum and i had to swallow all of it as my wife wouldn't let me move. i had to lick his cock off and unbelievably he was hard almost immediately. Now my wife wanted that big cock and my wife let Maurice take her doggie-style. She screamed for that cock as i watched in amazement. Maurice dropped another big load in her. Right away she told me to lick the creampie from her pussy. i licked it all as both of them laughed at me. The humiliation had me in deep sub space. i was forced to do corner time while they shared a bottle of wine and talked about what a pussy whipped cocksucker i am. Looks like Maurice has two new sex partners..............
ReplyDeleteHow delightful! I suggest you start doing some self-stretching of your bottom hole before Maurice stretches it for you!
DeleteI feel empathy for e-subby. He’s not just indulging in the occasional kinky diversion. He’s starting to lead a double life and it can be an unhappy situation. Is there any chance he can start to open up to the women in his life about his needs just as D did with you back in the day? It’s very difficult as he’ll be concerned about their reaction but if he continues to live a double life one day he’s going to get caught and then it may be too late. If opening up to his loved ones (bit by bit not all in a rush) is of interest to e-subby I’m sure there is a lot of experience and support on how to do so on this blog. Many of us have hot nieces after all. Roger
ReplyDeleteSo naughty even to say "hot nieces"!
DeleteYes, that would be ideal, I hope he is reading your comment.
Hot nieces! Hot nieces! Hot nieces!
DeleteThere, said it.
Oh my, that does feel naughty.
Yes, and then imagining what you might want to do with those hot nieces, no?
DeleteVery hot! I've always found email correspondence to be so arousing. I love the way a true Dominant's tone can be felt through their words.
ReplyDeleteIts mostly an attitude, after all, and that can be conveyed by word, look, and deed!
DeleteMs Julie your direction to e-subby sounds awesome but shouldn’t he be steered towards a pro domme rather than some random on the Internet? The pro domme will spank and pop his anal cherry professionally and safely and could even role play as the niece. If it must be a male to do the deed most pro dommes will arrange for that and supervise the humiliating event. It will cost him some $ but it’s a safer recommendation for you to make and he’ll have a quality experience. Sorry to be a wet blanket but if something terrible happens with the unknown man and you “ordered” him to do it, even in kinky play, you’d feel some responsibility and maybe even have some liability. As you say men in his situation make poor decisions.
ReplyDeleteOh, I agree with you completely. That would be ideal. Although access to high quality pro dommes is difficult for him in his situation. And yes, it "must" be a male ;-)
DeleteMs. Julie you are the best and your insights and advise are greatly appreciated. Your stories are fantastic and this man desire for his niece is a bit disturbing telling to go thru with his gay encounter was great. The spanking inspired and denial the best. His next encounter should be a gang bang.
ReplyDeleteVery disturbing, I agree. I actually prefer the "intimacy" of the one-on-one encounter for him.
DeleteGreat post.
ReplyDeleteThank you
Deletewell i wouldnt never do anything with another man but i would do anything female tell me to do and she comfortable with. any punishment she feel fit the crime and would help me learn lesson is fair game but i will tell you in email soon why no mens for me
ReplyDeleteBut i still go into Victoria Secert Store to look at Panties even check out other women in there even female sale women see who i wouldnt mind helping me out for panties i do fantasy about them
Whatever turns you on that doesn’t hurt anybody else is very cool!
DeleteYou have a good plan, and a wicked imagination Julie, and I think this is a great suggestion for what this individual seems to be seeking.
ReplyDeleteI have to agree with many others here that his obsession with his niece's panties is disturbing to say the least. The only thing worse would be if it were a neighbor gal, or his own daughter. If he does go through with this, my one hope for him is that this ends as a very positive experience for him, and takes his mind off his niece. He may think the risk of being caught is arousing, but if he ever were to be, I am sure the cost would be much worse than he is admitting to himself. Being outed to his entire family, and having his niece possibly hate him for invading her privacy, and violating her trust would not be as erotic as is the fantasy of it. In my husbands situation, if he want's panties he is to buy his own. I don't care if it is off Amazon, or if he walks into La Vie En Rose, but (I hope) he keeps his hands off mine, and anyone else's.
My other hope, for this person's safety, is that the guy he is planning to meet, is a drug-free trustworthy person, and not out to commit murder. Jeffrey Dahmer convinced numerous men to his place, and his intentions were not what he initially stated. Fortunately Jeff is in a better state of affairs now, as all people like him should be in my opinion.
I guess I have more tolerance for men’s fantasies, perhaps because of my blogging experiences. So many men have so many nasty fantasies! (Even some of the more righteous ones above, guaranteed).We are naive if we do not accept this as part of humanity. I believe stealing our panties is a time-honoured kink (“panty raids?”).It amuses me.
DeleteJulie, I can understand why having a man obsessed with your panties would amuse you, as a sexually dominant woman and a connoisseur of male submissiveness, but don't you think most women would feel violated by such an invasion of privacy? I wouldn't go through a woman's intimate things for that reason.
DeleteI think you are right, however, that most of us do have "nasty fantasies". To that end, I have a confession to make. A few years ago one of my son's friends and his girlfriend stayed at our place for a few days. After they left, I was cleaning the room where they had slept, and I found a pair of panties. As I held them in my hands, I couldn't help thinking of how sexy they must look on the pretty young woman to whom they belonged. I guiltily held them up to my nose and realized that these were not "clean" panties. They were wonderfully fragrant!
What is the gentlemanly thing to do with a pair of panties fragrant with a woman's sex that she has accidentally left behind? I thought of throwing them into the washing machine then sending them to her clean, but I thought that might be embarrassing to her. So maybe I should just toss them into the garbage?
As you can probably guess, Julie, I hid the panties, so I could periodically savour them until the scent had faded with time. I felt guilty about that, but the guilt only added to my arousal. Had she accidentally left a photograph of herself nude, I suppose I would have enjoyed the photograph and felt guilty about that the same way. But the panties were more powerfully erotic than a nude photo would have been because (to me) the sense of smell is so primal.
I felt very submissive towards the young woman whenever I sniffed the panties. Would she have been angry if she knew I was doing that? Would she have seen me as a disgusting pervert? I don't know, but I hoped she wouldn't. I liked to imagine that she would react the way you would Julie, by laughing and enjoying a feeling of erotic power from the knowledge that the scent of her panties was enough to put a silly man old enough to be her father under her spell. Sometimes I imagined her spanking me for my naughtiness.
I would never have snooped through her things to steal a pair of panties. But I wonder, was it just as wrong of me to savour a pair of panties that came into my hands by accident?
You did the right thing! I think it empowers her from afar, some mystic energy communicated.
DeleteDear Ms Julie you and subby are a good match. He’s clearly bisexual but having some doubts about it from years of social conditioning and so he turns to you as the “only woman” who can “force” him to take the cock that in reality he craves. Hilarious. He’s using you to provide a direction that he has contrived to assuage his guilt. Amusingly he’s playing straight into your playbook. You love the idea of “forcing” a man to take cock and have fantasised about doing this for years. I suggest you go very hard on him. After this affair sissify him further and make him post an add with appropriate photos saying “sissy slut craves cock”. You then get to choose the big and nasty cocks that enter his sissy holes and you require photographic evidence. Fun for all? Thanks
ReplyDeleteHe may not be bi. He may be totally straight, which makes the humiliation and embarrassment factor much heightened.
Deletehow old is David's vs bra. It must being about ready to be replaced or to get a backup. Maybe a cute giftcard suprise is in order for christmas
ReplyDeleteSarah
It only gets light use! Ha ha!
DeleteJudging from all the comments so far there is a great amount of titillation coursing through the majority of the readers of this blog. However, I agree with the few that have expressed concerns regarding this e-subbie and his infatuation with his niece and her underwear.
ReplyDeleteIt is one thing to do this with the other person’s knowledge, and or participation, but it is something completely different without. His obsession with his niece and the subsequent violation of her panties and other personal effects is, to say the least, a little disturbing. He may be very protective of her and his fetish deemed harmless, but I don’t believe anyone here is qualified to make that diagnosis.
His behaviour so far brings to mind a certain high ranking officer in the RCAF who had a similar obession with ladies undergarments. That compulsion led to B&E’s to try on and steal women’s undergarments, to eventual forcible confinement and sexual assault, and then to sexual assault murder.
I am not saying that this individual would do any of the things described above. I am saying that his obsession with his niece and her undergarment is a concern that could be a start to something worse. I think that, rather than encouraging him to delve deeper into his fantasies, perhaps he should be encouraged to seek professional help for his current disturbing obsession.
I had similar thoughts about this, Hattrick. I also thought about the disturbing case of that RCAF officer whose obsession with stealing ladies’ underwear progressed to sexual assault and murder. Even if there is nothing dangerous about this guy, his violation of his niece’s trust is wrong. Kinky behaviour between consenting adults is fine, but his niece has not consented to being a prop in his sex game. His idea that getting caught would lead to nothing more than some kinky punishment at his niece’s hands shows that his sexual obsessions are causing him to lose a grip on reality. I also think he should seek professional help.
DeleteOh what nonsense! You CANNOT compare a psychopath mto my fantasy-laden blog readers! EVER! It is not a “slippery slope”!
DeleteAs to “violation of trust?” This is a victimless “crime”. Akin to fantasy thoughts and ogling, both trespasses as well. My predominant reaction to a man borrowing my panties for such reasons would be hearty amusement followed by unrelenting teasing!
I totally agree with you Ms.Julie. I too have a really hot-looking niece(young adult) who when she visits, I stare at and fantasize about, a lot. She lives in the same town so has no reason to stay overnight, bring along clothes (panties), etc. I do think about the panties she may be wearing, though. I honestly don't see the harm or danger in doing this and I'm pretty sure I won't turn into a murderer or any other type of bad guy any time soon.
DeleteAlso, you might be correct about her being aware to some degree as she's always extra friendly/affectionate to me and I notice when she gives me a hug she always gives it that little extra "pressing in". I don't acknowledge it though, but it does feel good.
vic
Good boy vic - she is in the driver's seat and you remember it!
DeleteMy penis is so limp after a spanking, my wife has decided instead of facing the wall, I will stand in the middle of the room facing her. She enjoys making comments about it and on more than one occasion she will be talking to one of her friends and will say, oh just looking at my hubby limp boy toy, yes it is cute.
ReplyDeleteAh yes. Such a sense of satisfaction from limpening a boy’s penis via spanking!
DeleteWe males think we are in charge, women desire us for the sexual pleasures we give them, boy are we so wrong, we are be played by the female, and not knowing. We get exited and have the urge, where the female is able to control it. Worse is they enjoy letting the male thinks they are in charge. The real world hits you when you realize you are not in control. Recently i received a spanking that I felt four days later. Out with my friends very late Saturday night, did not make a good impression in church, and worse was the comment she made while leaving the church. "Oh he will not be sitting". Driving home I asked her why she said that, it is the truth, you will not be sitting. Sure enough I was soon standing naked in the bedroom, getting scolded, her mother called, heard about the church incident. Don't worry Mom, he standing here naked, hands at side, yes he is erect, always, but not for soon. She finally told me across her lap and I knew she was really mad, her hand landed hard and fast and I was squirming, kicking. The doorbell rang, she stood me up, don't you dare move, and answered the door. When she came back to the room she said nothing, grabbed my arm and to the front room we went. The neighbor lady standing and gave me a look I knew so well. She said my husband and you I heard decided the side of the road was a good place to take a piss last night. I said nothing, is that true my wife asked, Yes. The lady then said to my wife, her husband is getting some rubbing time, but once I get home he will be standing against the wall. I tried to cover myself, don't both the lady said, seen it all. Sorry to bother you she said to my wife, my wife said no bother, you can stay and watch the spanking, would like to but my naughty little boy has had far than enough rubbing time. The spanking continued in the front room, I stood not against the wall but in the middle of the room. My penis small and limp and knowing that if I rub my bottom, another spanking. Women do not get turned on seeing males naked, they do enjoy punishing them, my wife will attest to that. We have a great marriage, but she is in charge. Her spankings really hurt, she could care less who visits if I've been spanked and standing there as part of the punishment. Her friends make comments, but other than that just visit.
ReplyDeleteI would not generalize, but it is certainly true in your case!
DeleteIt’s known amongst my wife’s family that she and I sometimes engage in kinky play. Our niece on her side came to visit for a week one summer. My wife caught me doing considerably more gardening than usual around our pool while our niece swam and sunbathed in a little bikini. I was taken by the ear and made to apologise to our niece and given a spanking (she didn’t pull my speedos down) in front of the niece who watched with interest. Then I was told that if I stepped out of line again then next time the spanking would be pants down and much more severe. Ouch. I do not enjoy her severe spankings. My wife also said that as I had acted like a child I was to go sit in the tiny toddler’s pool to cool my backside and I wasn’t allowed to swim in the main pool until further notice.
ReplyDeleteNext day when my wife was out I quickly jumped in the main pool to cool off but my niece saw me. She played with threatening to report me to my wife for the severe pants down spanking. Nothing overtly sexual but some dominant mind games were certainly played by my niece around how painful that spanking would be and by ordering me to carry her bags and perform other chores. I suspect she cleared all this with my wife first but our niece certainly had her family’s fondness for kink. Bad Uncle.
What a dream come true! If you boys don’t think sexy nieces in bikinis around their uncles know EXACTLY what they are doing, you are terribly naive!
DeleteGreat story. Maybe next time I’m drunk and disorderly after a night out I’ll go to church and confess I took a pee on the church grounds on the way home. There’s a hot female pastor there who might like to dispense the wrath of the lord. Cheers.
ReplyDeleteWhat a nice fantasy. A female spanking pastor!
DeleteI can relate to the reference to “crying penis”. Even when I’m allowed to cum my wife still likes to squeeze very hard so that every last drop of cum comes out. As they emerge she laughs and calls these last drops “penis tears” and she makes me catch them as they fall and lick them up. That’s not nice of her is it Ms Julie? Very unfair.
ReplyDeleteTerribly unfair. I imagine that penis hates being squeezed out like that...
DeleteJulie. You ask “would you do it?” Perhaps like you and many other dominant women, my wife has fantasies that she would like me to act out which involve me sucking on real cock and taking same in my poor little bottom while she controls and directs all the action. However I am not bisexual or even bicurious. I’m happy to wear panties and take her strapon in my mouth and in my ass because to me this is still heterosexual sex. But as to real cock, the answer to your question is “no way, uh uh, never gonna happen, too bad, so sad” and there’s nothing you dommy ladies can do about it! Cheeky sub.
ReplyDeleteWell... tie you to a spanking bench and go to town on your ass, and then we’ll ask you again.
DeleteAll you subby’s listen up
DeleteIf Ms Julie won’t give it up
Purse your lips, hands on your hips
All you gotta say is no more whips
cheeky sub
Spanko rap!
DeleteLove it :-)
I have a question for the people here about this guy going to Victoria's Secret to be fitted for a bra. I have a bit of a forced feminization kink myself, and the idea of having that kink outed to saleswomen in a lingerie store is delicious. I wonder, however, whether it would be ethical to involve the staff of Victoria's Secret in one's kink. I read an article the other day about women in some service businesses for women who are concerned about demands made on them by transgender rights groups. Brazilian waxing, for example, is a very intimate service provided by women for women. The question the article raised is whether the women providing that service are legally required to provide that service to "women" with penises. I am not transgendered, but I find the idea of being humiliated by having to go to a salon for removal of pubic hair very exiting. However, I don't think I would do it because that involve the woman providing the service in my kink, possibly making her very uncomfortable or embarrassed.
ReplyDeleteI do realize, of course, that women in health care are sometimes required to provide such intimate services to men. A few years ago, I had a hernia operation at a clinic specialized in the procedure. The pubic area had to be shaved before the operation, and we were instructed not to try to do it ourselves. It had to be done professionally so they would be sure it was properly done. So we men (the patients were almost all men) were instructed to be in our beds, under a cover, but bared for shaving at a certain time on the morning of the operation. I must say, the idea of all of us men waiting obediently in our beds for the female nurse's aid to come around shave us was...interesting. The middle aged woman who did it was, of course, very quick and professional. I guess she was so used to seeing penises, and pushing then this way than that with her fingers to facilitate shaving. Fortunately, I didn't get an erection during the procedure, though I certainly did when I remembered it later.
Sorry, medical adventures are a bit off topic here. I would be interested, however, to hear what other people think about men with feminization kinks "invading" women's spaces like lingerie stores and hair removal salons.
I believe VS has a policy of being welcoming to cross-dressing men, so they kind of signed up for it when they took the job. It was CERTAINLY my experience when I took my husband. They were in full on sales mode and wanted to sell us more and more and had fun doing it (as did we). I think you take baby steps, and if the salesgirl seems comfortable, keep going, else stop. Pretty simple in practice.
DeleteThank you for that information, Julie. I've always wondered about that.
DeleteI have a blog entry from Feb 2014 where i describe when I took my husband. 100% true and accurate!
Deletemy wife and i struggle with this moral dilemma. i give my consent to the things we do / that are done to me. all involved talk about it. the public / the salespeople have not had such an opportunity
DeleteThey essentially do if you start with a small thing and observe their reaction. If they seem happy and comfortable and eager, you keep going. Just like spanking a sub! Many salespeople are very bored and enjoy playing (though likely more so if a woman is involved).
DeleteI would feel uncomfortable to involve a saleswoman too directly in my feminization kink, but I did have an experience that was subtly embarrassing in a Victoria's Secret store. My wife was going into the store because panties were on sale. I sheepishly asked her, in a low voice nobody could hear, whether she would get a pair for me too. She said she would, but that I had to come into the store to pick the ones I wanted. I did that, feeling very self conscious to be in there at all. I told myself that people would think I was helping my wife pick panties that would look good on her, so I should feel proud rather than embarrassed to be there. Usually when we shop together, my wife expects me to pay with my credit card, so I had to go to the cash register with her to pay. As the salesgirl was ringing up the panties, she held up the ones I had picked for me and asked my wife, "Do you realize these ones are a larger size? Would you like me to go get the same size as the others for you?" My wife simply replied, "No, that's okay. That pair isn't for me." The salesgirl looked me very briefly in the eye, with just the hint of a smile, and I'm pretty sure I blushed.
DeleteSee!?! She smiled. It’s fun!
DeleteYou've never really said what offense will prompt you to give a sound spanking? Do you use OTK or do you prefer other positions. My wife gave me the worse spanking of all time when I thought she would be shopping for along time, only to come home early and find me masturbating in the bathroom, naked, and F/m magazines that I was masturbating to. Talk about not sitting, and being spanked the next day. So just wanted to ask. Jack
ReplyDeleteI will spank him for any excuse at all! Though I do not prohibit it, certainly getting “caught” masturbating is a definite spanking offence!
DeleteWhat made if worse was I was not finished and had to finish while she watched. She had that damn hairbrush in her hand, the look on her face, it took longer to cum, and so she spanked me longer. The next day in the afternoon is when she decided to insure I would not masturbate again, that spanking on a spanked bottom was the worse. She did make a comment how limp I was, holding it up and reminded me this was her to play with not mine. Jack
DeleteYou've 'gotta respect a woman who takes what's hers!
DeleteWhat an amazingly lucky guy!!!! You are gonna push him into that and everybody will know it!!!! I wish you could do that to me! I wish you could actually manage to mesmerise me up to that point!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteHappy to!
DeleteReally???
DeleteI am trembling!!!!!
Please do it!!!
How would you do it?
Would you really manage to?
What would be the first step?
Send me an email and find out...
DeleteYou will have a better possibility of being hired if you possibly could
ReplyDeletefind employment before to long elapses when your
last job ended. What the Surveyor Does - Surveyors often then take photos of the room,
as well as materials they consider may be dangerous.
The trick is just letting your brain wander and answer the questions almost sub-consciously,
unlike you don't care, but as if you are answering a child's questions without
anyone's knowledge when you target that latest
Hollywood Blockbuster you're really interested in.
I would love to see the blog where you meant to post this and what you accidentally posted there.
DeleteHa ha! I think a spam slipped through, but I like YOUR comment so much, I left it!
DeleteYeah he/she probably posted a comment about being forced to wear women’s underwear and take cock on a how to succeed at job interviews site. Demonstrates commitment.
Delete:-)
DeleteBy dint of seeing this penis deployed every time I open my computer, I end up wondering if it is in full erection or if it still has a growth margin.
ReplyDeleteDoes the punished fetishist, who will have to swallow it then bend over, have an opinion about that or is he forbidden to intervene as a commentator ?
It looks like there’s room to grow to me!
DeleteI took a quick survey around the office. Most agree it’s still half mast.
DeleteCheck!
DeleteJulie, your levels of wisdom, grace and kindness are out of this world! I wonder if you must be a worldly, wise elderly woman, perhaps a psychiatrist, masquerading as a hottie? I am so very thankful for you. peter peter
ReplyDeleteAwwww... sweet!
DeleteThis is timely. My very attractive niece has moved to my town for work and is staying in my spare room to save money until she finds her own place. I’m 36, single and she is 23 and currently single. Naturally I’ve fantasied about her hot little body and while she was at work I carefully went through her things and sniffed and tried on her panties and little bootie gym shorts. All very nice but I had no plan to take things further. However I’ve noticed that while I was out she has definitely rummaged through my things and particularly a drawer where I keep my sex toys and bdsm restraints. Everything’s still there but not quite in the neat, aligned order I usually keep them in. I’d like to let her know that I’m aware of this and take it to the next level but in a pleasantly elder uncle non confronting sort of way. Any thoughts/ideas?
ReplyDeleteDon't accuse her of snooping. But say something like "you probably already know this about me, but I'm into some kinky stuff, so if you see any toys or anything lying about, my apologies in advance." See if she asks a followup. Always be utmost respectful. It's her choice if she wants to play with you.
DeleteDating, thought I hide well my F/m magazines, notice I said Thought. We decided to live together, so she moved into my place. It was larger, nicer than hers. We both worked, I went later than her. Arriving home later on a Friday night saw my magazines laid out on the kitchen table and a hairbrush. She looked at me, don't be shocked, I said how did you find them, she smile, got lucky. What she did was we sat and talked, I explained, she listened. I then said since you know my desires, what about yours. Does the hairbrush mean anything she said with a smile. Your late from work, we were planning on going out, and I find these magazines. Let just say the next morning at breakfast was a pillow on my chair. It is best to be opened about sexual desires.
DeleteGreat advice Ms Julie. I followed your script to the letter and it led to a fun conversation about the benefits of a healthy, kinky sex life as opposed to a vanilla existence. From that discussion it’s already apparent that my niece is not a young innocent. I’m taking her to the beach and out for a nice lunch tomorrow. I’m looking forward to a hidden behind sunglasses appreciation of her fit, young body wearing a bikini that, unknown to her, I myself have already tried on. Fun
DeleteGreat first step! The relationship is no deepened in a very significant way. Will you play, you think? Does she tend more top or bottom? Do let us know!
DeleteAnd "Dating", very cool! Every spanko's dream come true!
DeleteIt was a great date and she sure looks better in that bikini than I do. Whether we play is her call but at the beach we did this bdsm quiz on her phone (millennials love phone quizzes) and it seems she tends top and I tend bottom. I’m taking her shoe shopping tomorrow. She needs smart heels for her new job and I’ve got a shoe fetish so we’re a good match.
DeleteSeems like only a matter of time ‘till that spanking...
DeleteWhats up this is kinda of off topic but I was wondering if blogs use WYSIWYG
ReplyDeleteeditors or if you have to manually code with HTML. I'm starting a
blog soon but have no coding knowledge so I wanted to get advice from someone with
experience. Any help would be enormously appreciated!
You’re so right that our pretty nieces know exactly what’s going on. Last Xmas I was late to the family lunch and my niece and others were already settled in around the pool (southern hemisphere). She was wearing one of those high cut one pieces with a little side boob showing. This caused a stirring in my board shorts. She came over and gave me a big hug with a little press in. Noticing my semi erection she said “bad uncle” and in front of everyone gave my ass a loud spank. In May this year it was her 21st birthday and I left a generous cash envelope for her. Next time I saw her I got a hug and another press in and a kiss on the lips with a tiny hint of tongue. This time I gave her a spank in front of everyone. Wonder what I’ll get for Christmas this year?
ReplyDeleteA proper pants-downer spanking? A "friends with benefits" blowy? Do tell when the time comes!
DeleteNo, I would not do it. Not interested, not curious and a little grossed out thinking about it. I will admit it is not rational for men to be less willing to consider something like this than many women. Whatever, that is how I feel.
ReplyDeleteWhat is really hard for me to fathom is these men who dominant wives cuckold them then have their husbands lick the boyfriend's sperm out of their pussies. To each their own, I suppose, but beyond my comprehension.
I like to be lectured and scolded for bad behavior. I wouldn't want to be told I am pathetic or sexually inadequate. Irene gets all this and agrees.
Sometimes when you read erotica, you just gotta skip past stuff you are not interested in.
I have enjoyed having my limits tested in a few ways. I was unprepared when Irene first fucked me in the ass. More recently she bought me a French maid's outfit and I have been wearing it when I serve her or do pedicures etc. And she has tied me pretty securely to a chair in a dark closet while she goes about doing other stuff. She has mentioned diapers (to my suprise) and mouth soaping. We will see what the future brings.
Best,
-Rosco
Rosco, we are all individuals, with unique needs and desires. And every couple is a unique entity resulting from the chemistry between two individuals. My wife has cuckolded me, but we have never done the whole "creampie" thing. Like you, I am kind of grossed out by the creampie idea. I would, however, do it if my wife wanted me to. But since we live in the real world, and not a femdom fantasy world, my wife practices safe sex. That means she requires any guy who fucks her to wear a condom, so there are no creampies. I wouldn't want to be told that I am "pathetic" either. My wife is loving and supportive and she values me as a person. I need that. Playful teasing about my sexual adequacy, however, is a big turn on for both of us. A fun thing my wife did was to make me buy condoms for her last lover, who was very well endowed and needed XL condoms. Then, whenever she was going to meet her lover, she would tell me to bring her a couple of XL condoms to take in her purse. She once made me try on one of the XL condoms, then teased me about how loose it was on me and how I had only unrolled it part way. She told me that when she put one on her lover, it was nice and tight on him and she would have to roll it right down to the end. That was hot for both of us.
DeleteOf the things you mention, I find the idea of being dressed as a French maid or being punished with mouth soaping hot. But the idea of diapering is a big turn-off for me. As said, we are all unique.
An adult niece going to college lived with us for a whole year. We were very careful not to involve her in any aspect of our kink. That involved some sacrifice on our part because we missed things like spontaneous spankings or me doing the housework naked below the waist. Kinky activities had to be scheduled for times we knew she would be out. It was not, however, possible to hide the FLR nature of our marriage because my wife still expected me to do most of the cooking and cleaning, and she was quite openly bossy. About the kinkiest things got was when my wife told my niece that she didn't need to bother helping me with the dishes, joking to her that cooking and cleaning were "men's work." My niece laughed at that and joked that her parents must have "missed the memo" on that one.
DeleteThe problem with hiding kink is that there will always be accidental "outings" when somebody lives with you. One day after my wife had loudly scolded and paddled me in our bedroom, I glanced out the bedroom window as I stood up rubbing my bum and was shocked and embarrassed to see our niece's car in the driveway. She had come home unexpectedly due to a cancelled class while I was being spanked. Extremely embarrassed, I asked my wife what we were going to say to our niece. My wife reasoned that we didn't actually need to say anything to her. She said that for my niece coming home unexpectedly and overhearing me being spanked was the same as coming home unexpectedly and overhearing us having loud sex. She figured that no explanation would be owed if we were overheard having loud sex, thinking we were alone, so no explanation of my spanking was needed either. It was simply a part of our private life that our niece accidentally overheard. End of story.
My niece must have viewed it the same way because she never said anything or asked any questions about it. I felt very sheepish when we went out to the living room and asked my niece about her day, as though nothing was out of the ordinary. She acted as though everything was normal too, though I think I may have blushed when she smiled at me, reading amusement into her smile. Things carried on as though nothing had happened, but I found it more embarrassing after that when my wife demonstrated her authority over me in the usual non-kinky ways.
One day you'll just have to have a discussion with her about it!
DeleteI can't see that discussion ever really taking place, Julie. Mind you, I have fantasized about a different end to the story. I fantasize that, instead of choosing not to talk to my niece about it, my wife apologized to her about accidentally exposing her an aspect of our marriage that she might find embarrassing. In the fantasy, my niece tells my wife that she's not embarrassed, and that she isn't even surprised, given that my wife so obviously wears the pants in every other way. She then opens to door to a whole world of embarrassment, telling my wife that she hopes "you won't refrain from punishing Uncle __ when he needs it, just because I am in the house."
DeleteOh yes!
DeleteHell I’d do it in a heartbeat. If I had a dominant woman (I dream of Julie) and it pleased her to have me lick her boyfriend’s cum out of her pussy then I’d be on my knees with my tongue out faster than a rat up a drainpipe. Mr D
ReplyDeleteUhhhh...I think the original question was taking it up the butt from a real penis - would you do that?
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Pretty sure he would!
Delete:-)
For the right dominant I would just “Think of England” and take it. I’d enjoy giving her a long and delicious pussy licking afterwards as my reward. No pain no gain. Mr D
Delete‘Atta boy!
DeleteHello Julie, No I won't do it either, and I'll take that spanking and still refuse. If it's not attached to a woman I don't want to have anything to do with it.
ReplyDeleteJohn
It's 2018, john, really, get with the program!
DeleteIt's almost 2019, and I'm still not going to do it. It's your fantasy not mine. I don't see David volunteering:)
DeleteJohn
I respect my husband, so he gets to choose.
DeleteYou? I think you should suck dick. ;-)
Now you have crossed the line you bad girl, and Daddy is not pleased with that nasty mouth of yours. julie you will be stripped and severely spanked over my knee with my hand, until you are crying. and then you will see who should suck my dick.
DeleteJohn
My boys can always win arguments with me by making my pussy wet. No fair!
DeleteWhat's a Daddy's purpose in life, but to love and correct his naughty daughter's behavior. I think you are need of some of Daddy's love and discipline. Next time you tell a gentlemen your Daddy's age to do nasty things he refuses, you can imagine what nasty things, Daddy will do to you, and your ass!
DeleteJohn
Hmmm, interesting.
ReplyDeleteFirst, before I answer your question, let me just say that I wish this guy was nearby so I could set him up with a friend of mine......after informing him of your reader's "ass-fucked faggot" remark. I think after that my friend might choose to not just use a condom on this guy but perhaps a condom with sharp studs.
Second, as to whether i would do this, I would have to say i would have little interest in it but I would if told to. I have a strong ability to dissociate from unpleasant tasks by kind of just doing them without dwelling on what I'm doing. (It's how I can reach into a clogged sewer line to unblock it an d take bloated dead animals out of the pool. Not enjoyable, but it gets done.)
I will admit that at extreme times I have thought about perhaps wanting a situation like this, but experience has taught me that what sounds great in my head with regard to male-male activity does not translate well into reality.....though I have never tried anything like what you asked of this reader.
Please do me a favor and instruct your sub to tell his "date" about the "ass-fucked faggot" remark before being spanked. LOL. I think it could be a motivator for a nice lesson in choosing one's words more carefully in the future. LOL
Ha Ha! Great advice. I too was looking a bit "askance" at that!
DeleteI would do anything for a sound spanking !
ReplyDeleteWow, what an offer!
Deletelots of talk about nieces and appropriateness. not a lot of the actual question would you do things at the hands of a dominant lady
ReplyDeleteive got the forced fetish
ive been collared leashed and blind folded then led to a man to pleaaure him
the game afterward being that there were three receivers also blind folded who thought they were getting it from ladies and two others like myself. we each had to guess who we had just been with. correct guessers avoided discipline
Fun party game!
DeleteJulie all these guys who will happily take a strapon in the ass from their wives/girlfriends but refuse their wives/girlfriends requests to take real cock should understand there’s not a huge physical difference between a strapon toy and a real cock. If anything a real cock is preferable. Boys you’ll find that having someone else control their cock in your ass in ways that can’t be done with a toy is stimulating. The man fucking you can read your body language and work with that in a way a woman driving a toy can’t. The pulsing and thickness of real cock is a nice sensation and it’s ejaculation can feel intense when the cock spasms and enlarges in your ass. As the ladies say it’s not a guys size that matters - it’s what he does with it that counts. Simon the subby.
ReplyDeleteGay much? ;-)
DeleteSo many missing answers lately! Watch your step, girl!
ReplyDeleteI'm all caught up Sir!
DeleteI imagine you’ve developed quite a network of sub minded men such that you might choose for one to deliver a solid hand spanking to another, offering a level of safety/security if the participants reveal their identities confidentially to you... peter peter
ReplyDeleteHa ha! Not sure I want to be in the brokerage business!
DeleteI was envisioning more of a “fantasy facilitator”. There are so many men, like this e-subbie, who are dying to be instructed by you to get oven another man’s knee for the ultimate humiliation...with proper thanks afterwards. Perhaps none of them are switch-wired to want to take another man across THEIR knee, and might need visualization work to bring about an orgasm in another man’s mouth. You have the adoration and willing obedience of so many men!..that you could choose to facilitate the fantasy realization of men like this e-subbie by sending him to another who will truly be serving you by delivering the humiliation. I can imagine you feeling particularly powerful armed with that tool. Rather than “go out to find a man to spank you and have you suck his cock”, being able to choose another esubbie to deliver the humiliation....peter peter
ReplyDeleteYummm! That does sound like fun.
DeleteHow utterly humiliating, I imagine, for a male to be made to be spanked across another man's knee!
And have you been truly pleased ?
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