Saturday, June 5

Daddy Issues

Lion from Male Chastity Journal did not seem to approve of my Internet viewing habits on my last post, Sexual Assault, or not really? He commented:

I'm more surprised that you bothered to watch this stuff than I am by the content.

Hey, I resemble that remark..

On the theme of brain-rotting interwebz habitz, I thought I'd talk about a couple of podcasts I enjoy.

I used to enjoy the "Call Her Daddy" Podcast on barstool sports.

Call Her Daddy

A lot of very open and very crazy-fun hot young thing sex talk. The girl on the right is Sofia Franklyn and the one on the left is Alexandra Cooper. The guy on the left is Dave Portnoy, "El Presidente" of Barstool Sports, who made their podcast famous. It broke up in a soap-opera worthy crash and burn. Long and short is that Alex stayed on and Sofia left, and it's just not the same anymore...

Sofia has emerged with a new podcast, "Sofia with an F".

Sofia with an F

I like it. Sofia is fun, and she spills the T.

In a promotion for her new podcast, Sofia appeared on Violet Benson's "Too Tired to be Crazy" podcast.

Too Tired to be Crazy

Violet's website and brand is Daddy Issues. Their podcast together was titled Sex, Daddy Issues & Fetishes w/ Sofia Franklyn. They are both late-twenties now.

at around the 20 minute mark they have the following exchange.

Violet: Like I am looking for a man that's older than me, like I think 5 to 10, 12 years. I don't care. Like, I like that. It's sexy 'cause I can finally feel like a little girl... like I feel like a lot of times I feel I want to be the baby and then sometimes I date guys who are younger than me so then I feel like I'm their mother. So now I do want older men.

Sofia: I've, like, only dated older.     So you can act up???

Violet: Yes. I can sometimes be like "I don't want to do this!" and then...

Sofia: I guess... you... oh my God! It's our Daddy issues! Like we kind of want a little bit of a Daddy! We do!

Violet: Oh My God! I want a Dad!

Sofia: We kind of do. If you really think about it. I'm the same way. I'm like, I need someone to babysit me, not the other way around.
 
Violet: Yeah I think that's what deeply I've always yearned for and I just never admitted that, I guess, until right now. Oh My God. Wow. Ok. So that is what I'm looking for. My Dad.

Sofia: I have never admitted it publicly, but I guess here we are, both of us. But yeah, I agree.

I loved that exchange. It's not something women actually talk about with one another, so it's nice to hear an honest conversation. The words they used, "little girl", "baby", "act up", "Daddy", "babysit me", "yearned for". Those girls don't just want an older man, they want to be infantilised and made to behave by a Daddy figure. I thought it came a millimetre away from spanking as a topic, just after the "and then..." which was cut off.

Violet wants to feel like a little girl, like a baby. Sofia asks her if she wants to "act up?" Violet agrees that she sometimes wants to stomp her foot and say "I don't want to do this!", so that then Daddy can discipline her in some way. Am I reading too much into that exchange?

But how would this discipline proceed? What does a young woman who thinks it's sexy to be made to feel like a little girl expect for her discipline? I think on this blog, we all know the answer to that. Yes, she would be put across Daddy's knee and given a spanking. Of course.

I want a Daddy sometimes. I want Daddy to spank me when I act up.  Make me kick and cry across his knee and make me promise to be a good girl. Put me in the corner afterwards.

😭 😭😭 😭

And if it so happens that my spanking has to be at a time or place where others are there to see it?

Overbarrelspankingtoons

Well so be it. I am not ashamed I need a good old fashioned spanking every now and then. Yes I am ashamed of what I did to earn my spanking. And I am embarrassed and ashamed during my spanking, of course. A bare-bottomed spanking across your Daddy's knee is supposed to make you feel embarrassed. It's part of your punishment.

And if you've been very naughty, especially in front of others, it should be a spanking on the spot.

Overbarrelspankingtoons

And it doesn't matter what you're showing off in the process. You've been a bad little girl and you deserve the shaming. Of course, the most embarrassing part is the kicking and the crying and the apologizing and the promising to be good and to obey, if only the spanking would stop, please stop! All the girls witnessing would dampen themselves knowing that's what they so often need and deserve as well. Some of the boys too...

Yes, it's humbling to get a spanking from Daddy, or from your loving husband when he needs to assume his role as your Daddy, but it's good to be humbled every now and then.


22 comments:

  1. The word I noticed that they used was Like, Like Like Like. Notice how when they get to the adult realization at the end they stop using it?

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    1. A Daddy would put a stop to the "like" baby talk. ;-)

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  2. Depuis le temps que je fesse mes filles devenues adultes, je comprends trÚs bien leurs besoins, elles cherchent et le trouve dans leurs fessées que je leur donne, (du coté aussi de mon ex femme)...

    Je comprends leurs envies de fessées , pour tous les erreurs dans leur vie, avec la sensation que ses erreurs sont pardonnées aprÚs une fessée dure...

    Je comprends qu'elles ont besoin de la honte, leurs humiliations de se faire déculotter, comme des petites filles...

    Je comprends qu'elles ont besoin d'un public pour leur fessĂ©es, et surtout lorsque c'est un public familiale, qui devant des personnes plus jeunes, renforce cette honte qu'elles ressentent, ĂȘtre adulte mais redevenir les petites filles de papa, le bien que cela leur fait par un trouble sensuelle et sexuel....

    Je comprends trĂšs bien, que malgrĂ© cette honte, elles ne peuvent cacher leurs excitations, et malgrĂ© elles, ne peuvent s'empĂȘcher d' 'ouvrir leurs cuisses pour faire voir leurs chattes roses, leurs lĂšvres qui s'ouvrent toute mouillĂ©es, qui ne cache plus rien de leurs intimitĂ©s profondes, gĂ©nĂ©reusement ouvertes, leurs clitoris gonflĂ©s....

    Je comprends trĂšs bien qu'elle aiment aussi des fessĂ©es privĂ©s pour, pendant la fessĂ©e ou aprĂšs, aller jusqu'au bout de leur envie sexuelle pour obtenir l'orgasme complet avec leur papa, qui dans ce dĂ©sir tabou, renforce leur excitations et leurs plaisirs….

    Comme je les comprends trĂšs bien, je leur donne ces fessĂ©es tant mĂ©ritĂ©es, avec l'amour du papa, pour leur plaisir et le miens ….

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  3. WC here

    Very hot Julie.

    You need a severe bare bottomed spanking for your ridiculous right wing political positions But you are a very gifted writer and I enjoy reading your blog. Keep up the the great work. Both you and your husband need to be taken in hand and have your bare bottoms blistered by a daddy figure. I love spanking and fucking a submissive couple. Your husband needs to feel some masculine authority. And so do you.

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    1. Are they ridiculous? Or is what you imagine I believe ridiculous?

      But thank you for the compliment, and the alluring offer!

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  4. "Her daddy spanks his little girl on her bare butt (preferably, in a public place with a lot of people watching) because she behaved badly"
    Who is daddy ?
    Your daddy ? he is unlikely to read this blog (but after all a dad like "jefesse" is here to say it's not impossible).
    Us, helpless readers? just your liking to exhibate.
    Hubby ? a little sleepy these days (even if he sometimes reads your blog)
    would it be the very discreet Mr. S ? to remind him that her about-to-be punished colleague wishes to regress a little more under his fatherly hand?

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  5. Would it be possible Julie, that you take a spanking from whomever...in deliberately “little” attire? Sometimes it’s referred to as “Lolita” clothing. Ruffled ankle socks and pink Mary Janes? A satin dress and pigtails? I think YOU could absolutely pull off this look and the vulnerable mindset once dressed.

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    1. Bitchy, bratty teen? Spoiled...
      Rolled and cuffed track pants to expose your calves, ankle socks and skateboard runners? Tiny tank top with belly exposed? Big hoop earrings and bitchy makeup? That a better spanking outfit for you Julie?

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    2. I don't know, I'm picturing you and David on the way to visit Miss Chris...

      https://www.imagefap.com/photo/1851589944/

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  6. Maybe for the 3 of you, you, violet and sofia, the breasts you didn't have, reaching puberty and flat as boards, are now gorgeous and blushing at the thought of a daddy's manly hand on your bared butt.

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  7. How about a witnessed or public spanking followed by a diapering? Friends or family seeing you powdered and pampered and everyone knowing just how your husband treats his naughty little wife! It would be hard to live that one down!

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    1. Agreed. Love/hate the pussy wiping, powdering, exposure. Blush!

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  8. If these are vanilla girls, the line between vanilla and spanko is looking pretty thin around now. I'm referring to this exchange:

    "Violet: Like I am looking for a man that's older than me, like I think 5 to 10, 12 years. I don't care. Like, I like that. It's sexy 'cause I can finally feel like a little girl... like I feel like a lot of times I feel I want to be the baby and then sometimes I date guys who are younger than me so then I feel like I'm their mother. So now I do want older men.

    Sofia: I've, like, only dated older. So you can act up???

    Violet: Yes. I can sometimes be like "I don't want to do this!" and then...

    Sofia: I guess... you... oh my God! It's our Daddy issues! Like we kind of want a little bit of a Daddy! We do!

    Violet: Oh My God! I want a Dad!

    Sofia: We kind of do. If you really think about it. I'm the same way. I'm like, I need someone to babysit me, not the other way around.

    Violet: Yeah I think that's what deeply I've always yearned for and I just never admitted that, I guess, until right now. Oh My God. Wow. Ok. So that is what I'm looking for. My Dad.

    Sofia: I have never admitted it publicly, but I guess here we are, both of us. But yeah, I agree."

    And I second Lion's surprise at how you seem to be slumming around the 'net. But hey, wherever you find your inspiration! - Frank

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    1. That was my point!
      And 'net slummin' is my thang.

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  9. It also holds true that big boys crave being spanked and humbled by a strict Mummy... and maybe by a strict Daddy too ;)

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    1. I related to to all the desires stated above. Naughty boys deserve/need to be spanked and humbled just as naughty girls :)
      Keep it up Julie
      Alex,

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  10. Like the last photo, I do it this way. I spank the lady with her own slipper / sandal to add to the humiliation so that she remembers it every time she wears one.
    But my wife, I use my own slipper.

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    1. Adds to the impact. I brush my hair with the hairbrush he uses on my ass!

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