Gender and malesub Spanking Porn

Last time I did a post on Realism in femsub Spanking Porn and promised that I would do a malesub equivalent. I think femdom/malesub spanking is the ultimate gender bend.

We can perhaps agree that maledom/femsub in spanking is the "archetype". The woman is spanked by the stronger man to get her under control. Once under control, then the penis is used to humble her and reinforce their relative positions. The ultimate humbling is when the woman is given anal intercourse from her man. Vaginal intercourse is a reward for good little wives. Oral makes her into a slut. Anal is to punish and dominate her. She will know her place after a hard spanking, deep oral, and rough anal (it's how I learn best 😉).

So what does it say when the roles are flipped, when it is the man being spanked by the woman? For me, it's truly the ultimate gender bed, which is why I love it so.

How does the man find himself across the woman's knee? Sure, sometimes it might be force.

And while this is amazing to think about and a great fetish, usually it is not this. Usually it is a woman psychologically dominating her man. It's usually because the man deeply craves this type of attention, feels at some level he deserves it, has mummy issues; and the woman is eager to do it for fun, for profit, for empowerment, to modify behaviour, for control.

Spanking is of course painful and humiliating for a woman. While it can be just as painful for a man (with appropriate implements), I would argue that it is much more humiliating for him.

For example, here is my man.

Why does he allow himself to be put into such a degraded state? You can see he was spanked and forced into little thong panties. It was me and a very pretty young (former pro-domme) female fan of the blog that we met up with (see Fangirl Dominates Hubby - there are a ton of amazing photos of David on that blog with glimpses of me and the lady in question). Why? Because he craves it and has mummy issues. We do it because it's fun, sexy, and empowering.

I like for David to maintain his weight at a healthy level. When he strays, by mutual agreement I get him back on the straight and narrow through humiliating discipline (which he craves, but hopes to avoid the worst of it, and please me so I keep doing it, so it works).

Here was my setup when he violated his diet a few days in a row (note the big red bar - one I forgive, but the next two days, not yet recorded, he also ate like a pig!).

I gave him the the hand, a taste of the paddle, and then his real paddling and then the belt. In between I put him in an embarrassing corner time and informed him he was going onto the blog.

(See Fat Loss and Spanking for my philosophy and techniques for fat control using spanking on a subby as a tool, and also for a full recount of this particular sorry episode.)

Even his young, previously vanilla but happily corrupted female trainer dominated him.  This was one of the worst she gave him.

See Husband Severely Switched by Trainer

That is him in the downstairs gym, his gym shorts and panties lost, bent over an exercise ball, after his switching from this young woman who was almost half his age and half his size.

This is a "man" being treated as a woman. Women submit to spankings because they have to. When he submits to a spanking, he is being a woman. Or, he has been made into a woman. It's really a form of psychological castration.

With that in mind, let's look at some photos from the web.

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This is the photo I led with. You can see he has been forced into stockings and panty. Then he has been taken across the older woman's knee for a humiliating panty lowering and spanking while the younger women look on and laugh. It's so unusual! He's in the position they themselves fear being put into by a man. There is a sense of giddy glee seeing a "man" treated like this.

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Here is a husband and wife who understand that spanking is gender bending. She put him in a bra, garter belt, stockings, high-heels, and panties for his spanking. Imagine how humiliated he would be if other female relatives and friends saw him treated like this. Is there any doubt who the "woman" is in this spanking tableau?

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Here is the reaction we so often see from a young man about to be spanked. He is being humiliated and dominated, and is about to be painfully spanked to tears. Yet his penis betrays him, adding to his embarrassment.  In this photo his slender womanly appearance contrasts with the presence of his spanker. Her body dominates his, not least her "motherly" breasts.

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And isn't this what it's all about after a sound spanking? Why does he, a man, allow himself to be put across his woman's knee? Men are led by their cocks. He will agree to almost anything for a chance to get off at a woman's hand. This is psychological domination by a woman. Women can control their own sexual wants and needs. Men seem not able to on balance. (present company excluded? The exception that proves the rule?)

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Another illustration of this. Yes, there is a lot funny about the male orgasm. How they wriggle and moan and beg to the female touch on their silly little wieners. And then with the barest of touches they uncontrollably spurt.

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Timeout after a spanking from his wife or girlfriend. Pants at ankles. Tighty-whitie undies at knees. Bottom bared. How long will he be made to stand there? If visitors drop by, will he get a reprieve? Certainly not in my household.

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Some men are treated more harshly than others. I venture to say that he will not be sitting comfortably for some time to come.

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This is quite the humiliation for this loser husband. His wife brought her two friends to see the show. He should not have gone, and certainly not spent all that money on lap dances at his friend's stag party. Now he will fuck the doll until he ejaculates into her. Then he will display his cunnilingus skills and lick her out while they watch. After that will come the butt beatings and extended time in the doggy cage.

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Oh yes. Now you're embarrassed, "young lady". If you truly think that housework is "women's work", well I've just made it easier for you. You will stay like that. When I get back, if this house is not spic and span, expect a good hard spanking across my knee with those panties around your stocking tops. If you persist I'll hire an experienced housekeeper to train you with a stout strap in her hand to correct you. And yes, you will be dressed like that while you're being trained.

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Wives have many bounties to offer their husbands. But if the husband misbehaves, it is either the cold shoulder and sleeping on the couch or submit to a spanking.

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I actually enjoy the captions. That belt looks to be coming off with a purpose, caption or no. Can you imagine how fast her little man is stripping and bending over!

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A couple of girls on a picnic with their boyfriends. They want to get into their panties. The girls want them to know who's in control. They don't seem to mind.

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Wouldn't it be nice to have such an understanding wife as her?

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Being prepared for your spanking. Your genitals are of no interest to her. All that interests her is spanking your butt so hard that you'll be crying like a little girl before she's done.

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Fact check: true

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The cute little socks helps keep him in his place. So does the spanking. Love the genital and anal exposure while across her lap. Must be embarrassing. Love the tippy-toes touching the ground. The blouse looks rather feminine as well.

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If only my husband and I had the physical attributes of this couple. He'd be the one subject to 24x7 spanking discipline, not me!

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Now he's going to learn a lesson. Can you doubt that those undies will be coming down?

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Yup! Down they came. Who do you think she's talking to? Perhaps the next door neighbour wandered in for a cup of sugar and was invited to stay and watch the remainder of this husband's punishment. How embarrassing would it be to be walked in on during your spanking?

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Who's Janey? Perhaps his grown daughter. Your grown daughter will watch you get spanked by her step-mom.

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He was warned that if he did not serve properly he'd be losing his panties as well. And he can expxect a spanking after dessert as well.

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Better than going to prison and becoming a registered sex offender. Do you boys dream this was you bare bum and spanked in front of a classroom full of girls?

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It's for your own good.

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Now he'll get to the ironing!

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Keeping the legs pulled apart helps get that strap right up into the crease between the cheeks. He'll be sleeping on his tummy that night and sitting uncomfortably for several days.

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This spanking is just starting, the first blow about to land. But she took such care in positioning him, you know it won't be ending anytime soon.

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Brassiering as a form of punishment.

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The fate of late, rude, misbehaving husbands the world over.

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He was caught masturbating one too many times. Perhaps the shame of being made to do it in front of the pretty next door neighbors will cure him?

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If you really need to teach a lesson in obedience. Have your personal secretary shop for and feminize the boy, then let her stay and watch while you spank him.

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When you go to the Doctor's with a bad case of constipation. She feels the old-fashioned cures are the best and has the nurse give you a good old-fashioned enema. But you get so hard during it that the nurse takes pity on you and ejaculates you onto the towels.

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This is not sex that is about to happen. This is punishment. If he does it again, she'll invite her sister over to watch him take it up the ass next time. He will learn his fucking place if she has to do this every day.

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I masturbate my husband like this. Do you wish your wife emptied your balls like this?

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Your sister and you have got into a "thing" when your parents are out. You lick her asshole as she sits on your face and masturbates. She jerks you off with a finger up your bum.

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That's it Baby. Come for Mummy.

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Pro-tip: the trick is not to stroke them all the way to ejaculation as you loosen up their bumholes. The trick is to get them right to the edge so that they cum from your dicks up their asses alone.

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Yes, in case you were wondering, yes it is demeaning.

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It can be so embarrassing waiting there, head hung in shame, as she takes her time getting you for your spanking.

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My experience of boys in timeout waiting for their spankings.

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The embarrassment factor is ten times worse when Mom strips you bare for your spanking while allowing your sister to watch.

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When you bring your friend from next door over to increase his embarrassment as you strap him nude.

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My husband in his gym gear (including red shirt, blue shorts, and orange panties, across an exercise ball, after having received a switching from his trainer. I kept telling her to spank him on his sit spots. Was she deliberately being obtuse?

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Why is your sister always so mean to you when she brings her friends over?

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"I don't care if you're getting second thoughts. You WILL go out there dressed like that, and you WILL include obedience in your vows. Do I make myself clear, mister?"

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If he really screws up he has to mumble out his apologies, over and over and over again, with his tongue as deep as it will go up my asshole. Another 30 minutes or so should do it.

Lovely little collection, don't you think? Tell me which ones are your favourites in the comments!

These images do turn me on and put me in the mood to totally dominate my husband. He won't know what hit him tonight!