So, I did get flogged as promised in my last blog post, a while ago now (I'm still spending a lot of time editing my new book - looking good!). That flogging was as a result of a mainstream TV show ("How to Build a Sex Room") David and I watched.
I must say, the flogging was very "myeh".
This is our flogger:
It's leather. It can be used lightly and also can pack a good "thwump" if used harder.
We were going for a more sensual S&M sort of vibe as opposed to our usual domestic discipline stuff. Honestly, it annoyed me more than anything. Midway through I got up, took the flogger from his hand, put him on the bed, and flogged him with it, considerably harder and considerably more skillfully than he had done me. Then, as I was in the mood, I strap-on fucked him in his ass and then came with my Hitachi sitting on his face as he ate out my asshole. I left him hard, which was his punishment for not knowing how to properly flog a girl. Though honestly, I didn't feel I was into it at all from the first stroke.
I really like the domestic stuff. A good spanking to tears across his knee, ideally for doing something real-life bad, but I'll take a good "naughty wife" or "naughty daughter" roleplay instead. Hand, hairbrush, wooden spoon, paddle, switch, strap, belt (swoon!). Scolding. Corner time. Mouth Soaping. Teary forgiveness after. I'll do anything for him in the bedroom after that. I guess I'm just not an S&M gal. DD all the way. (At least on the receiving end. On the giving end I think I'd make a great leather-clad dungeon mistress to a deserving boy - I can be cruel and not bat an eyelash!)
On a slightly different topic.
When I eventually got my act together and went back to university as a more mature student, I treated school like a job. I was M-F 9-5. If I wasn't in class, I was in a cubicle in the library. I started my assignments the day they were handed out and finished them with time left over. I read all the assigned course readings and supplemental readings. I never missed a lecture or a tutorial. I still had evenings and weekends free (which was good, as I worked as a server and a bartender). Highly recommended if you want to do well at University.
In my new book, this is the same regime that Aunty Sue requires David adhere to, along with a work diary detailing time of day, activity, and duration which she reviews periodically. David gets spankings if he did not put in the time. He gets spankings if his assignments are not progressing as they should. He gets spankings based on results (or the lack of them): anything less than an A on anything earns him a spanking. Like many young men, David is tempted by video games and by online porn. When Aunty Sue discovered him red-handed padding his work diary yet playing video games, there was hell to pay (hell in the from of 24 overlapping hard strokes of the Delrin cane to his bare backside in front of his Aunt Chrissie).
I think many, many young spanking fetishists could benefit from this sort of attention. There is never a shortage of spanking offenses, and there is always a desire to avoid the worst of the spankings.
What do you guys think about consensual discipline such as this? Would it work on you?
What do you guys think about consensual discipline such as this? Would it work on you?
ReplyDeleteIf it worked on me, it wouldn't be because I'd fear getting spanked so much (I'm too much of a masochist for that to work) that I would start studying hard, but rather that this type of disciplinary arrangement would be so arousing to me that it would really motivate me to keep it going for as long as I could.
So it would be all about achieving good enough results (while working as little possible since I'm pretty lazy haha) that the top / spanker would feel like the disciplinary arrangement is working.
But of course this is purely a guess from me, the reality would perhaps be very different...
I think you're exactly right. Did this for years with my husband's fitness trainers. He >really< enjoyed his fitness sessions, and his trainers really did work him. Isn't that what it's all about, getting the motivation to go do your exercise? He was VERY motivated.
DeleteIf I had that type of attention as a teenager, I would’ve been living my best dream and worst nightmare. Always wanted the embarrassment of being spanked in teens and early 20’s but ironically I couldn’t handle that embarrassment either.
ReplyDeleteI think the missing ingredient is the consensual aspect. It needs to be a consensual arrangement, and the arrangement needs to be over any time the sub wants it to be. But as long as its on, its on! It would be a very hard thing for a confirmed spanking fetishist to walk away from that (so long as the discipline is not unfair and not abusive).
DeleteOf course it works. Spanking my bare butt stopped me from smoking. At first I thought it would be fun getting punished, but then it got a lot and hard. I was gradually limiting to a few cigarettes a month. But my wife was ruthless. I have not been smoking since winter. Recently, I broke the rules and smoked 3 cigarettes at a party with friends. The next day I got 30 stripes on my bare butt. Then I was standing in the corner with my bare ass. During this time, my wife was on the phone with her female friend and told her all about my punishment.
ReplyDeleteRalf
It's such a fine line. If you never smoke again, you never get spanked. What torment would it be if you were allowed one cigarette a week? I'm not 100% sure, but probably the negative health impact would be relatively low (?). And yet you would stay addicted and craving that weekly ciggy. You'd get spanked for sneaking an extra one in, or smoking it before the 7 days had expired.
DeleteMy sophomore year in college I had a Teaching Assistant for “Giants of American Literature” names Peggy Johnston. She dressed oddly formal with her hair in a bun, long skirts, boots and high necked blouses.
ReplyDeleteI was a poor literature student but I sat in the front row and would participate to try to get involved. The first couple of weeks she liked me. But after a while, my frustration with the subject slipped into a bad attitude and I fell out of her favor.
Miss Johnston would have been the perfect one to teach me a lesson. Shed reprimand me in class and ask me to come see her. She’d have a riding crop in her office, hanging on the wall. She’d make me wait then finally look up and deliver a curt severe lecture. I’d apologize,
We’re not done, she’d say. Lower your pants and bend over my desk, you’re getting a whipping. She whipped me til I cried, then put me in the corner and tell me to rewrite my essay.
I was called back for ten straight weeks, whipped harder each time it seemed, then did my work in the little corner.
Thanks for stirring this memory - the real part and the fantasy. She really did seem to play the part of a Victorian governess in some sense - sort of Mary Poppins without the smile.
- Rosco
Sounds like she dressed the part with the boots and all. I'll bet she read all the naughty Victorian age novels. Sounds like she would have made an excellent disciplinarian.
DeleteWell, your flogging may have been myeh, but the brief description of what transpired when you became Strict Julie and flogged David was a welcome return to those activities. Sorry to hear that you weren't into it, I sure was, even with the brief description. I love that you fucked his ass, then came while sitting on his face as he ate your asshole. Then the grand finale, he was left hard as a punishment for being too soft to flog a girl properly. Oh, swoon!
ReplyDeleteYes, I got annoyed and took the reigns myself!
Delete“On the giving end I think I'd make a great leather-clad dungeon mistress to a deserving boy - I can be cruel and not bat an eyelash!” I got stuck on this sentence and marinated on it overnight after taking a maximum dose of viagra (no cumming). I desperately dream that I could be a “deserving boy” for you. I imagined how you would look in leather and what time with you in a fully-equipped dungeon would be like.
ReplyDeleteRewinding my life, I think a consensual spanking relationship could have done me A LOT of good as a youth. I could have accomplished much more in my college years with the proper incentive and I already had the desire to be dominated. But I also may have rebelled against it and walked away from the opportunity that certainly would have set me on a different path.
At this stage in my life, I would certainly welcome a domestic discipline arrangement. I have no doubt it would make me a better, more productive person. There is still a chance I would rebel against it, only to come back, begging for it to resume.
Now I’m back to leather-Julie and wondering if events and opportunities like you describe early in my life would have lead to me discovering someone like you to live the rest of my life with. - david
I always talk about consent and all that, of course, and do absolutely practice it in my real life. But...
DeleteIf you do get into an arrangement like that, and it's fair and not overly abusive, I think you would stick with it.
Julie, I'm with you. Punishment spankings are the way to go. Floggers look nasty but are really just more bark than bite. To be punished for some real issue might lead to sex as in (aftercare) but it really does need to hurt and not be wanted.
ReplyDeleteYes, I crave that which I don't want.
DeleteI warned you of this! Bondage ladder, bondage frame. You can’t just lay over pillows on a bed and use a flogger, and expect it to be different that domestic discipline. You have to change the tone of the setting all together.
ReplyDeleteNot sure. for me it's the lack of the punishment dynamic that leaves me wanting more than anything. If we roleplayed me being a prisoner or something, then I could get into it.
DeleteIf my wife decides I needed this, I would do as told, learned protesting makes it worse. The bath brush hurts like hell, suppose this hurts worse and facing the wall afterwards the bottom would be truly a sight to see. Jack
ReplyDeleteI can only imagine.
Delete"Hand, hairbrush, wooden spoon, paddle, switch, strap, belt (swoon!). Scolding. Corner time. Mouth Soaping. Teary forgiveness after."
ReplyDeleteSo much this! But with a strict-yet-loving "Mommy" I'll take DD over SM any day.. Swoon indeed!
-FL
We're of a mind.
DeletePicture 1
ReplyDeleteThe father, standing in his son's bedroom, warns him of what might happen to him if...
The boy, very short shorts, bare thighs, glasses, sketches a mocking smile.
Picture 2
The father, seated in an armchair in the living room, disapprovingly reads his son's report card. The latter, standing, no longer laughs. Does his position reveal a slight bump on the front of his shorts ?.
Picture 3
The father, seated on a chair without armrest, gives his son the promised spanking, shorts and underpants at the ankles, bare and red round buttocks.
This little story, "A poor report card" posted on the St Stricktlands school website on July 20, 2022 (see your blogroll) shows in its simplicity the benefits of a consent spanking. Strict rule for the progress of the spankee.
The same for daughter of course. A spanking in case of return beyond the hour allowed on Saturday evening is good policy and if she has to be back at home before 9:30 p.m it's not 9:31 p.m.
Went to see it. Yes! Exciting spanking. Love the theme of the warned about and justly deserved spanking.
DeleteRegarding the punctuality point, In my new book, David gets a grounding. Part of it is that he must spend 1 hour a day from 5-6pm with his nose in the corner and his pants and underpants down. As Sue says, "I want you standing in position at 5pm sharp, according to my watch, without exception. No excuses. Not being called to stand there, not getting ready to stand there, not standing there and still pulling your pants down, not standing there with your underpants up, but standing there, bare bottom, in position at 5pm sharp." David took that seriously!
I had the same 'Meh' reaction to using the flogger. It felt like snapping a towel in the showers but less satisfying...
ReplyDeleteLove the idea of students having to treat their studies as a 9-5, enforced by severe discipline and spankings. Imagine walking through a college library, noticing which of the students are shifting uncomfortably in their seats ;)
Imagine what it would do for society if university students applied themselves like this.
Delete"On the giving end I think I'd make a great leather-clad dungeon mistress to a deserving boy - I can be cruel and not bat an eyelash!"
ReplyDeleteI imagine this line caught the eyes of many readers...
Could you please share any more thoughts/details in regards to these lines for your eager fans? :)
- The Leather-clad parts
- The Dungeon Mistress parts
- The Cruel parts
- What describes the deserving boy
Thank you,
Long Time Lurker/Fan from Japan
Ha ha! It's mostly about finding a male willing to submit absolutely to my will. Let's say that was you.
DeleteYou'd have to sign legal disclaimers and everything. Then we'd rent a nice soundproofed dungeon space. I'd dress in the sexiest leather outfit and tall boots. You would be tightly bound the whole time. No second thoughts. No safewords. I imagine you ass up kneeling straddling a spanking horse, fully bound with broad leather straps, arms, legs, waist. I wouldn't injure you (seriously / permanently) and I'd stay away from your balls. But your ass and the backs and insides of your thighs, and inside your ass crack will be beaten without mercy for a very, very, long time. They'd be messed up before I was done. To tears and crying for mercy (crying and begging me for mercy is a requirement of my ending it. Necessary but not sufficient as they say). You'd be broken. Stockholm syndrome. I'd make you kiss my toes. I'd let you jerk off (if you still could) and splatter my toes with your cum and have you lick and suck them clean.
Something like that. It excites me.
Oh my, the Julie of my fantasies, though I kind of think of being over your knee and scolded a bit too. Still, the end result is the same.
DeleteJulie, where do I sign? No need to spare my balls, either! I know full-well that I would instantly regret letting myself be bound like this-I was secured to this type of apparatus once before-helpless feeling. I know I would be crying and begging for mercy embarrassingly quickly. I know you would ignore my pleas and make sure I had the full experience. And yet, knowing all this makes me want it all the more. I’m craving what I know will be intolerable agony. What is wrong with me??? - david
DeleteClarence - the OTK is also very exciting to me, of course.
Deletedavid - I have a sense how quickly you would break, and quite frankly, that would annoy me and make me a quite bit angrier. The beating would likely go on much longer and much harder as a result.
I’d love to be bound and spanked without mercy like that. Then forced bi - make me suck another man’s cock until it’s hard and then have him fuck my ass. After her cums, make me suck his cock straight from my ass while you fuck me with a huge strapon.
DeleteJulie, your sense of how things would go lines up exactly with mine. Knowing my reaction and yours makes me wish for it all the more. The idea of “consensual non-consent” takes up a big space in my fantasy life. Obviously, it’s not something I can pursue IRL without someone I trust completely as I have come to trust you. Now if I may, I would like to accessorize your Leather-Julie outfit with a frighteningly large strapon. I would watch it bobbing obscenely from your hips as you beat me into a begging, sobbing, blubbering, broken mess. I imagine you would enjoy breaking me internally after breaking me externally by administering a coup de grâce punishment fucking. - david
DeleteYes! All of that.
DeleteSo we can think that you gave yourself, daily and during all these years of study, mental spankings. Do you continue?
ReplyDeleteI'm dying to read the adventures of student david
Yes, I guess so! And yes, I have turned into a very well disciplined woman.
Deletethe way my brain s wired,(like you I'm a DD as opposed to leather as well), but it has to be one step removed, so to speak. I find the simple "you didn't do this so now I will do that" kind of crass in a way, so I need " you didn't do such and such and thats a symptom of a greater problem and we will address that now" that works well. So by way of example, "you didn't get the mail so so you get a spanking, that seems vulgar, whereas, " you forgetting to get the mail is symptomatic of a larger issue" that works wonders. Oddly enough I also do well with " just because", but then again thats philosophical as well. So somehow for me,there needs to be a deeper reason.
ReplyDeleteI know what you mean. Being punished for a simple mistake seems wrong. Being punished for a recurring pattern of behaviour seems very right!
Deletelol, silly Canadian can't even spell "meh" right. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LjJYYaeFNmQ&ab_channel=sqwuade
ReplyDeleteI use a bit more "y" in mine.
DeleteWhat do you guys think about consensual discipline such as this? Would it work on you?
ReplyDeleteInteresting question. I think that it would work on me as a mature adult (ie, from my 40s onward), but I don't think it would have worked when I was in my 20s. I spent most of my youth trying and failing to get women to spank me. I was always a switch, and could find (mildly) sub gfs with no problem, but dom women were few and far between 30-40 years ago. Or at least, I didn't know where to find them, lol.
But I think that in my 20s there would have been too much of a tug-of-war in the relationship if I'd been subject to any sort of real domestic discipline. Looking back on it, I'm not sure I was really self-confident enough—although appearing very self-confident on the outside—to have been able to accept being subject to a woman's discipline like that. Now I could...but it would definitely have to be the right woman. I couldn't see it with my wife (who is plain vanilla anyway, so it's a moot point), but there was a woman named Akiko who I dated for a while in my early 40s who it might have worked with. She and I had a lot of fun switching with each other, and our sexual dynamic/chemistry was the best I've ever experienced. There was one incident that I'll tell you about that would have served as a great excuse for a "real" spanking:
We went to one particular movie theater a lot, and it was located on the 6th floor of a shopping building. The elevators were all on the south side, with an interior set of stairs on the north, and you could see through from one end to the other. Of course, we always took the elevators up when we went to see a movie.
One time Akiko got the idea that, the next time we went to see a movie, we would go to the building separately. Then she would hide somewhere on the 6th floor and I'd have to come find her. I *really* didn't want to play this game, but I knew in a flash that she would hide in the stairwell (opposite side of the floor from the elevators), so I said okay. I faked her out a little by saying stuff like "You can't hide in the women's bathroom" and so on so that she would think I was really into it, and totally fooled her.
So on the day at 5:59 I got out of the elevators on the FIFTH floor, walked over to the stairs and snuck up to the 6th. Sure enough, she was there, back to me and peering around the corner to see me come out of the elevators like she expected. I snuck up on her and grabbed her from behind, startling her, and tickled her a little bit before she was able to twist away. I was pleased with myself for faking her out, but she really wasn't happy about being outflanked like that.
We had our date and everything, and the relationship went on, but I always kind of felt guilty about the incident afterwards. It wouldn't have cost me much to go up to the 6th floor and pretend to look for her for a few minutes, and it would have made her happy. So I felt like a jerk the longer time went on, and since then I've thought that if she had wanted to tie me up and put me over her knee for a real spanking because of that, for being a bad/uncooperative boyfriend, it would have been okay. No safeword, whatever implement she wanted, I would have said all right.
That's not precisely the same as being in a long-term dd situation, but if that particular spanking had ever happened, I think that it could have provided the opening to turn into one pretty easily. And I wonder how my life would be now if I'd stayed with her vs being married to the woman I eventually chose.
Anon C
Fun story. Would have, could have, should have! Been there.
DeleteI think the key for a younger man is an older woman to discipline him.
Yes, you could be right. A sexy 40-something might have worked when I was in my 20s. But she would have had to have been a very take-charge type, and she would have had to have kept herself in shape (I'm a body-Nazi type, lol).
DeleteIt's interesting that what it really comes down to is psychological dominance. I doubt that any woman I might have been interested in would have been able to physically subdue me (although I did fantasize about female bodybuilders here and there), but I think with the right combination of circumstances, it would have been possible to do it psychologically. She would just have had to push the right buttons: find something I was somewhat ashamed of having done; suggested a spanking for it with a sexual overtone; gotten me to agree to being tied up and for her to decide when it would be over.
Anon C
The source of COVID has now been figured out:
ReplyDeleteThe Huanan Seafood Wholesale Market in Wuhan was the early epicenter of the COVID-19 pandemic
Science magazine, July 26 2022
https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.abp8715
Abstract: Understanding how severe acute respiratory syndrome coronavirus 2 (SARS-CoV-2) emerged in 2019 is critical to preventing zoonotic outbreaks before they become the next pandemic. The Huanan Seafood Wholesale Market in Wuhan, China, was identified as a likely source of cases in early reports but later this conclusion became controversial. We show the earliest known COVID-19 cases from December 2019, including those without reported direct links, were geographically centered on this market. We report that live SARS-CoV-2 susceptible mammals were sold at the market in late 2019 and, within the market, SARS-CoV-2-positive environmental samples were spatially associated with vendors selling live mammals. While there is insufficient evidence to define upstream events, and exact circumstances remain obscure, our analyses indicate that the emergence of SARS-CoV-2 occurred via the live wildlife trade in China, and show that the Huanan market was the epicenter of the COVID-19 pandemic.
Nothing in that article is inconsistent with the mountain of evidence that points to the Wuhan Institute of Virology being the source. Odd the article made zero mention of the nearby Institute, and did not address the "smoking gun" that unlike for SARS, no intermediate evolutions in animals prior to the one that was very contagious to humans were identified for C19. Nor did they mention the Furin cleavage site. That article was heavily funded by Fauci's NIH, btw.
DeleteSee https://strictjuliespanks.blogspot.com/2021/12/origin-of-sars-cov-2.html for the full argument.
Why are people talking about Covid? Was there like a secret code in the story I missed?
Deletemaybe not so odd, because they are actual scientists, and not bloggers pursuing a political story
Delete05:51 Anon: Good question!
Delete11:30 Anon: the material I point to was also done by actual scientists. I just reported on it. There is mixed opinion on the question. Your article was suspect because it did not reference the other side of the discussion at all and could not logically draw the conclusion it did (animal origin) from the data it presented (that early cases were in the seafood market). It would be highly, highly unusual for a virus that originated in animals to not be able to trace the lineage back to something much less infectious to humans. If the earliest identified samples were already highly infectious to humans, it points to a lab-developed pathogen (that lab was performing gain of function research to make bat viruses infectious to humans, and the closest relative to C19 was in fact from a bat collected by that same lab).
What you think more effective flogging over clothes jeans or Pants. or do you feel effects more on bare buttt. just like. spanking be done in bare butt
ReplyDeleteBare forever!
DeleteYesterday, behind the wall of my team leader's office, I heard the voice of the HRD talking about me with her. He would tell him that I was lucky I was only here for a one-month replacement or "I'd train him." He wouldn't take long to come and eat out of my hand. You've never seen me train a pretentious newbie like him;
ReplyDeleteHe added "I swear after two weeks he spreads his ass when I snap my fingers". She laughed.
I felt humiliated and angry, but found it safer to act as if I hadn't heard anything. In the evening at home I was excited.
You should go to him, tell him that you overheard, and beg to be trained like that by him.
DeleteI always hated flogger as I told one person who used a flogger on me. Flogger are like politicians they are loud but do nothing.
ReplyDeleteI am with you paddle, hair brush belt etc.
Agree!
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