Wow! I finally, finally, put a chink in my husband's armour around playing with a guy! I know... crazy!
As you know, we've played with Violet Mays on numerous occasions, and we chat every now and then, especially about some of my boys I sent to her over the years.
Well, she made an intriguing tweet yesterday...
I showed David this tweet and asked, "What do you think? Want to get spanked by Daddy?"
"Maybe..." he responded.
I practically fell off my chair! What? Oh, it's on, baby! I have my toe in that door now. He WILL crumble!
Peu être parce que j'ai connu les fessées qu'avec des femmes, et j'ai même essayé avec un homme , comme dirai un humoriste de chez nous, « Coluche » il faut essayer pour ne pas mourir con , mais franchement je n’ai vraiment pas aimer ça, presque donné la nausée...
ReplyDeleteNon vraiment je ne pourrai jamais plus, je reste avec les femmes que je connais; dans ma famille, mes filles, et amies, toujours subjugué par leur atouts cachés sous leurs culottes...
C'est bien pour ça que le moment du déculottage est un moment tres sexy , très excitant que je ne connais qu'avec « mes femmes » et d'autre part lorsque moi moi je suis sur leurs genoux, je le suis parce que se sont des femmes...
Après, bien sur je ne juge surtout pas, les hommes avec hommes, si cela leur donne le même Plaisir, l'important c'est d’aimer ce que l'on fait ou subi ….
"Maybe because I've only experienced spankings with women, and I've even tried it with a man, as a local comedian would say, "Coluche" you have to try to avoid dying stupid, but frankly I don't I really didn't like it, almost made me nauseous...
DeleteNo really I will never be able to again, I stay with the women I know; in my family, my daughters, and friends, always captivated by their assets hidden under their pants...
That's why the moment of taking off my pants is a very sexy, very exciting moment that I only experience with "my women" and on the other hand when I'm on their knees, I am because it's are women...
Afterwards, of course I don't judge men with men, if it gives them the same Pleasure, the important thing is to love what we do or undergo…."
It's about expanding, trying new opportunities, and loving them!
Je suis d’accord que ce serait bizarre, pas de désir. Faites attention à ce que vous souhaitez
ReplyDelete"I agree it would be weird, no desire. Be careful what you wish for"
DeleteI wish for an interesting experience! If makes him gay, I can live with that (but it won't!)
I'm straight, but I have been spanked by men a few times. I didn't like it, but didn't hate it either. I think with a partner involved it'll probably be more enjoyable and I actually had an online woman friend involved in some of those spankings which at least made the before and after kinda fun.
ReplyDeleteI'd be down to do it again if my current partner was the one planning everything: finding the man and setting up the spanking. That would actually be pretty hot as I would have no idea what to expect, beside some teasing and hints beforehand maybe. An interesting fantasy for sure... My partner is way, way too vanilla for it though so it'll definitely remain a fantasy haha
I just want him to feel the power of a man's bare hand so he'll get what I have to go through!
DeleteIf it's only a hand spanking it shouldn't be too bad, the humiliation might be the hard part as he seems more sensible to that.
Delete"Only a hand spanking" - a big, strong, 6'+ guy IS bad. Trust me. The voice of experience!
DeleteYes men can give surprisingly hard hand spankings, especially if they are strong enough. But still doesn't compare to a spanking with a solid hairbrush or bath brush in my experience, even from an average strength woman if she knows what she's doing.
DeleteTrue, but I have "hand envy".
DeleteOh I definitely agree with you. Hand spanking is the best way to start. You don't want to scare him away haha. Or at least not too much ;)
DeleteIt's also more humiliating for him to be brought to his limit from the hand alone.
DeleteBe careful with David. An ass beating given by a strict daddy leads to other activities and they say that there’s no going back after you’ve sucked cock or been anally penetrated.
ReplyDeleteAt the same time, it's incredibly arousing if the guy hits hard.
Anders
No point unless it's a proper man-spanking!
DeleteAnd, yes, "other activities" would be hot.
Agreed. Has to be proper and well, if there's no going back, then there's no going back. Too hot to worry about that!
DeleteI want a >real< grade-A punishment spanking for him. No holding back. It's "only" his hand...
DeleteI doubt, David is not a sissy
ReplyDeleteHe certainly is!
DeleteWow Julie!
ReplyDeleteNever thought that you would get him there:)
My advice
Edge him frequently with a nice dildo up his bottom while you whisper hot stories of daddy putting him over his muscular lap and pulling his pretty panties down and blistering his bare bottom
But good!
Let him come a few times to that hot little fantasy and make him ask you to set it up
Before you let him cum;)
Oh and Daddy will want a tub of Vaseline at hand to lube up his big fat manly finger before he pushes it right up David’s bottom hole to lube it up good before he works a large butt plug up her pretty little bottom:)
He would of course trap David’s stiff penis firmly between his rough blue jeans as his big rough manly hand belabors his bare bottom and sternly lectures David about what ever naughtiness you tell Daddy that she has been up too:)
I’m thinking that you keep catching him dressing up in your underwear
And despite promising you that he will stop doing it
He doesn’t and you are at your whits end!:)
Bet that little story made you wet?
Also bet it make David cum hard:)
WC
There will be anticipation!
DeleteIt's funny to note that for many of your commenters, a spanking is immediately followed by an ass fucking.
ReplyDeleteIt's going a bit quickly.
A real spanking, administered by a man, in front of witnesses (?), constitutes for a man of David's age an ordeal whose thorough preparation will undoubtedly be a source of numerous and varied humiliations, assuming he doesn't backtrack.
Louis
I'm happy enough with just the spanking (as a first step).
DeleteOooh yes a big strong Daddy for David, can't wait to hear about it. Hopefully he learned a few things from Mr Daniels...
ReplyDeleteArranging it!
DeleteHe signed his death warrant with that "Maybe..." and he knows it. And he knows that you know he knows it. Poor little boy is about to get a hard spanking from daddy.
ReplyDelete-Kasey
Yup!
DeleteDo you think naughty little David will be put over Daddy's big knee? Or do you have other ideas Julie?
Delete-Kasey
Thinking he presents in his red panties, nothing else. The guy forcibly strips those off him while he's still standing. Then he takes him bare naked over his knee for a VERY extended and super hard hand spanking. I like the idea of the guy forcing david to call him "Daddy". I like the idea of feminine pronouns for david and his body parts... now I just need to imagine a scene with all those elements!
DeleteForcibly stripped TOTALLY bare, and TAKEN over the knee is how it happens because he doesn't WANT a spanking. And he certainly does NOT want to address another man as if he were his father. WAY too embarrassing!!! But when I've misbehaved, I am a boy not a man, and the spanking does not even start until I am crying out to "Daddy" to spare my upturned and sensitive bare behind. He calls me "Princess", which makes me want to punch his face, but he's just too big for little old me. All I can do is kick and squirm like a fish out of water, my deflated clit rubbing against the material covering his strong hard knee. Do you prefer to see a guy take his punishment like a big tough man, or a soft little boy getting the first REAL daddy-spanking of his life?
DeleteDefinitely the latter. I will insist there be no shows of stoicism. I want a total MELTDOWN across his knee (David does this in scene with me, it's not artificial, he just lets himself go to get deeper into the emotions - I will insist on nothing less when acriss the man's knee).
DeleteThat is how it needs to be. I pray for stoicism. My ego does not allow me to surrender like this, even if I was just acting a scene out as a character in a role play. I must be overwhelmed and defeated. I am deeply humbled and shamed because I am nowhere near as tough as I should be. A grown man reduced to a vulnerable little girl, and all it takes is a spanking on his bottom over his daddy's knee.
DeleteWhen you do have the sort of dominant grit my husband has, he could take even a very hard spanking without vocalizing at all. But he needs to let that part of himself go and surrender. It's not an act. Being stoic would be the act. He needs to externalise what comes naturally.
DeleteIf you don't possess that grit, then that marks you as a 100% total subbie-boy, which too is delightful!
The focal point of the experience is how it is viewed by her. Without her perspective and opinion, a spanking from daddy is only a very bad thing I never want to think about. She knows I desperately want to be a man in her eyes but that I am ultimately unable to maintain even a shred of such dignity. What she thinks of it, the words she uses to describe me and what she has seen is the gain I get from the pain. I don't identify with a lifestyle or role myself. Due to embarrassing circumstances, I'm just being punished. Her feelings about it, which could be anything, define it for me. If she is delighted to see a "total subbie-boy", that is one possible view that works to greatly amplify my shame.
DeleteI prefer to think of it as a man who acts like a child getting an overdue lesson in responsibility.
DeleteP.s. I followed your profile to your blog and left a comment and added you to my blog roll. Will now go and read your first story. It's been a while since you posted. Get back in there! I love your theme!
An overdue lesson in responsibility is one possible way to assess the situation. Your sober judgment of the spanking in terms of its legitimacy as a punishment, and that it is appropriate for a child, would magnify the shame and humility in ways that other types of scenes could not.
DeleteI forgot about my blog. I'm curious to see what story I wrote.
There will be scolding!
DeleteMy wife spanks most of the time but I have also been spanked by men..I would call it the best of both world!!..Soreassboy
ReplyDeleteDavid often expresses the feminine when I spank him, this is just a ratchet.
DeleteOnce again with this topic females are more open to sexual adventures than most males. I for one would not want this, but each to his own. Jack
ReplyDeleteI don't think he "wants it" exactly. Perhaps, as a spanko, he needs it?
DeleteMost spankos have a streak of masochism, which can cause a person to desire things they don’t exactly want. Also, the fact that YOU want it is important, I think.
DeleteYes! Both those things.
DeleteVery intriguing! Looking forward to a follow up post of what happens when David is thrashed by a man while you watch!
ReplyDeleteThere will be teasing!
DeleteI wonder where it would take place. It would be more destabilizing for him if it happened outside (at Violet's?)
ReplyDeleteCan you imagine him getting in the car with you to go get spanked by a man!)
And how would he be dressed? Butt naked, it would be perfect.
Yes, we'll keep our anonymity and go to her studio.
DeleteHi Julie: I've been spanked by several men over the years and I can tell you that there is no more humiliating experience than having a man take you pants down and take your panties off and put you over his knee for a serious spanking, either with his hand or a paddle. I've had both and I can tell you men hit much harder and longer than women. Good luck getting David to that next level.
ReplyDeleteOh, I know about how hard their hands are, don't need to tell me, but he doesn't really know... yet!
DeleteAnd good idea on the panties. Put him in a more receptive frame of mind.
"Somebody" is feeling very Domme-esque lately. ;)
ReplyDeleteTrue!
DeleteI think it would feel more humiliating to be spanked by a man, since I am not gay, but I think it would be really hot, especially if my wife wanted to see it. For many years our FLR included cuckolding. Well, I thought of it as “cuckolding”, but I think my wife just thought of it as extramarital sex. I met a couple of the men she dated, which felt somewhat humiliating, but I was never a participant in their bedroom activities. One guy my wife went out with for a couple of years was interested in our FLR, and he liked to hear about it whenever my wife spanked me. He didn’t want to be spanked himself. In fact, hearing about my wife spanking me made him want to spank her, and she let him do it a couple of times. I had a feeling that spanking my wife was a way of expressing dominance over me too, though we never talked about it. According to my wife, the knowledge that his cock was much bigger than mine turned both of us on equally, so there was a definite D/s vibe between us. I was too embarrassed to tell my wife or him, but I used to fantasize about being feminized and spanked over his knee. I loved when my wife would tease me about his superior endowment, and I often fantasized about being forced to show my submission by sucking his big cock after being spanked by him. I imagined how big it would feel in my mouth. To be honest, I still fantasize about it, and I regret that I never revealed that fantasy to my wife and him. Maybe they would have been into it if they knew I was. Too late now though. *sigh*
ReplyDeleteNever want to pass up an opportunity. Life is too short!
DeleteJulie, a question occurs to me. Will you and Violet Mays be in the room to witness David being spanked by the “daddy”? I ask because my intuition is that a M/M spanking in front of you and Ms. Mays will have a bit of an F/M vibe. I think that’s how it would feel to me. I would feel as though the other man’s spanking authority was delegated to him by my wife. Being alone with the guy spanking me, on the other hand, would increase my consciousness of submitting to the domination of another man. I would be interested in knowing whether David’s agreement to being spanked by a man is based on the premise that you will be present throughout the procedure.
ReplyDeleteWe'll definitely be watching. It's a lot for me. I want to see it!
DeleteOh, yes yes yes! Long overdue. Not nearly enough homoerotic unease on your blog. And, well, if the spanker gets aroused, your husband might have to choose who satisfies him...
ReplyDeleteI think he loves you and knows this is one of your fantasy scenes and he will eventually do it for you whether he really wants to or not. You have proven to him that you will do almost anything for him whether or not you were really into it. I think you will get your wish.
ReplyDeleteAin't love grand.
I think so too, but it's not only for me. He dreams of taking on the female role in our play. Feminized, ass fucked, spanked like a chick, talked down to using female terms. This is just pushing it one more notch...
DeleteDress him up as a schoolgirl or a maid. Discuss his misbehavior with Daddy as though David was not even there. Have David stand in front of him while he gets a lecture. Then over Daddy's knee. When he is finished, a heartfelt apology and corner time,
DeleteI like!
DeleteFinally! A potential big step for David (and you)!
ReplyDeleteYes, indeed!
DeleteYou, Violet and your husband can do all three girls. David is fully femenized, full hair removal, ball inverted chastity cage, natural breasts and male-pussy.
ReplyDeleteThe male spanks him like he would spank a girl so that she learns to be obedient.
Sissyboy
I like the last sentence for sure!
DeleteThis is very exciting. I know it’s something you’ve been thinking about and David has been resisting for a long time. I imagine it will be a combination of humiliation and pain that will surprise and possibly overwhelm David in the moment, no matter how much he tries to mentally prepare for it in advance. I know it would feel like that for me. I would be very afraid of failing this test and bailing out early with a safe word. I’m such a pussy with pain. Kudos to David for pushing his limits for you. If you were my spouse, I would have already done it, or at least made the attempt. Yes, I would agree to the “other stuff” too. Hopefully you would have the persuasive tools to make me go all the way. But what am I saying? My spouse would never even hint at something like this, much less enforce it. I guess that’s why I’m here. To watch. - david
ReplyDeleteI'm only going to take it to the spanking, this time. Maybe a bit of man-handling that goes with the territory. Will leave the guy's cock in his pants for a first outing. I'm not going to be greedy and risk losing what ground I made!
DeleteThere's no way my david will safeword out from just the pain. I'm going to ban the yellow from him. True punishment-grade. Maybe a once in a lifetime experience, you know? If he has to lie in his tummy in the backseat of our car on the way home, so be it.
What are you thinking for context? The why. A full roleplay of some sort? Do you want him spanked as a sissy or “little” boy?
DeleteYes, a roleplay where he's my husband and is panty trained and spanked by a man for punishment for being lazy maybe?
DeleteHe has to repeat in front of the man and Violet what he confessed to you (and using exactly the words he used): that when he is in panties, his asshole itches and he craves to be penetrated like a little whore.
DeleteThis will certainly make the big guy in charge of blistering his butt laugh a lot.
Hmmm. Confess that you involved family members in your spanko escapades which made people uncomfortable. Violet is to punishment spank you while David is to be punishment spanked by this man. Each having to watch the other get punished, cornertime etc
DeleteGreat ideas there!
DeleteVery interesting development. I have done a couple of posts on my blog that involved M/m spankings. The reaction from the commenters is almost universally, "Not for me!" So, I guess I'm the odd man out among my commenters. For me, it's about control and, more specifically, not having any. I'm stronger than my wife and, even though I never have resisted a hard spanking, deep inside I always know that I could. With a man, on the other hand, if he was big enough there could be a real possibility that if I were to try to resist, it wouldn't be successful. Of course, if it ever were to happen (very, very unlikely) it would all be consensual, but psychologically I think it would be very different just knowing that there could be scenarios where resistance was overcome.
ReplyDeleteI think we must attract a different crowd. My commenters seem universally for it!
DeleteI agree with you. When I have david over my knee, we both know he can stand up anytime. When I'm over his knee, no way! I want him to experience that. He has been tied down, but it's somehow not the same as being man-handled.
I agree. I've been tied down a couple of times, but it didn't really have the psychological impact I thought it would.
DeleteYes, husband and I have both had that experience. Strange...
DeleteYes, Yes, Yes, super shy about the whole thing. Wishing it was me....Used infront of you and David. Spanked by an Alfa !!
ReplyDeleteChris
My husband could spank those cheeks raw for you. He holds back on me!
DeleteAbsolutely weak at the knees at the thought , blushing, aroused. Would it end with a spanking or would the two of you otherwise humiliate and use me?
DeleteChris
End with a good old fashioned spit roasting.
DeleteYes Mam, and Sir
Delete👍🏻
DeleteHello,
ReplyDeleteIs the date she will receive her punishment-spanking already set?
and can you, for your European commentators, explain the meaning of
"this is just a ratchet"
"6'+ guy"
"ball inverted chastity cage"
Thank you so much
a French admirer
I've got the go ahead and have communicated with Violet who knows just the guy. Sometime in January pending schedules.
DeleteA "ratchet" is a mechanical device that turns one way, but does not turn back the other way. So "ratcheting" means making a bit of progress and locking that in.
6'+ means a man taller that six imperial feet.
I >think< that's a device where you push the balls back into the body (I think that's possible?) and then the penis also and lock them there with a metal plate? Something like that!
Hmmm, HOpe it happens and you let us know how it went
ReplyDeleteI think it will!
DeleteWow! I feel like I've been waiting for this for years, with only a faint hope of it ever happening.
ReplyDeleteDelicious!
My mind, this morning, went on a little tangent, imagining David over the spanker's lap...with you comfortably positioned so that David's face is resting between your bum cheeks from him to be able to readily tongue your hole.
And you comfortably able to give yourself Hitachi pleasure at the same time.
My vision has the spanker controlling the first part of the spanking, reducing him to a blubbering mess, while David is struggling to maintain focus tonguing your ass.
At some point a handover of spanking control to you, where the spanker deliver's a firm spank for every "yes" you utter. I imagine that this orgasm producing favourite of yours (ass tonguing with Hitachi) would be enhanced by the spanking, and your ability to deliver rapid-fire spanks by breathlessly uttering constant streams of yes producing a most intense orgasm.
Or two or three.
You are facing away from the spanking, not even watching David's ordeal, the focus of the spanking being your pleasure.
peter peter
Fun concepts!
DeleteIt's totally different for me than from a female. Only way I even imagine it is if my punishment is witnessed by a woman who gets off on my humiliation. It's the ultimate humility. A spanking over daddy's knee, and the witness can be totally sure that I am hating hating hating every single moment of it. I honestly shudder to think about it because of the ambiguous homosexuality. With a woman there is the desired sexual part even if it's real punishment. And daddy is bigger and stronger than me. I might struggle, but I have no choice but to take my medicine, every last burning spank until I am a sobbing pleading mess, and daddy is certain a bad boy has learned his lesson. If my enthralled witness talks to me about it after the event, the best/worst case would be her trying to embarrass me even more than I already am, further reddening my face, but still not nearly as red as my blistered bare bottom. Over my daddy's knee, the witness gets to see just how fragile I can be. That sounds really gay, but I am totally straight. Go figure.
ReplyDeleteYou've captured it perfectly. Nice!
DeleteIs your husband reading all of this or is he barred from reading your blog until the day he will be publicly spanked?
ReplyDeleteWe don't talk about the blog much. That's "my thing". He knows where to find it though, so I never know.
DeleteForbid him from reading it. This will excite his apprehension/urge to disobey...
DeleteI think I can be pretty open about it. There will be no surprises on his first spanking from a man.
DeleteI have said this before, a female and sexual desires far exceed what a male can fathom. My wife/mommy made the comment that the bond between you and David is so strong that he will follow your lead. Nothing wrong with that, it is your relationship that matters. She added that one person said a man can insure the woman does not get off his lap until the spanking is done, well there are females who are able to do the samething, ask Jack. Jack
ReplyDeleteHe only "follows" where he deeply wants to go anyways. Sometimes we need a gentle tug on the leash, though.
DeleteA first little anthology of what awaits your husband.
ReplyDelete"I want a >real< grade-A punishment spanking for him. No holding back. a VERY extended and super hard hand spanking.
I want a total MELTDOWN across his knee.
If he has to lie in his tummy in the backseat of our car on the way home, so be it."
It could make him nervy...
Not at all. It's what he craves.
DeleteI was reading all the comments after I posted my comment, I neglected to shut down my computer when I finished reading. Wife came in and saw my post and all the comments. She confronted me with it and told me that it has been far too long since a had a male spanking. She called her brother in law who has spanked me in front of her several times and arranged for him to come over later this afternoon to blister my bottom.
ReplyDeleteIn the past he had reduced me to tears like the little sissy b*tch wife tells me I am.
It's going to be a painful and humiliating afternoon. Wife insists that I wear panties for him to take down
Great topic, looking forward to hearing more.
Oopsy!
DeleteGlad I was able to help, though!
Do come back and post another comment after you've been punished.
Yay! Brainstorming reasons why he needs an alpha spanking from daddy (not mummy). His behaviour brings all men into disrepute. It’s pathetic that; he can’t bring his wife to orgasm vaginally; he’s too homophobic to suck cock for his wife’s entertainment; he prematurely ejaculates; he watches young girl porn; he exploited women in massage parlours and he still ogles other women thus disrespecting his wife. He’s perpetuating male stereotype myths and his fellow men have had enough! MrD
ReplyDeleteAll true except for the exploiting women in massage parlours. At the prices they charge, they're the ones exploiting his desperate need to have a strange woman pay attention to his silly cock, which is cause enough for punishment!
DeleteDon’t go easy on daniella - throw her in the deep end! Force her to suck daddy’s cock for you whether she likes it or not.
ReplyDeleteHere’s where you get payback for having to swallow not spit Miss Julie. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. And no side cheek faking!
Right down the throat! I'll spend the time between now and then training that gag reflex out of him with my strap-on! 😉
DeleteYes he mustn’t embarrass you and Ms Violet. For practice with a soft toothbrush get him to brush his tongue as far back as he can go without gagging. Bit by bit he’ll move back and desensitise that gag reflex like a good girl slut.
DeleteOoh? Does that work? May try it myself 😉
DeleteAssuming David is straight, there will def be a different dynamic then when he is over your knee. I've written you my experiences on here before. I only had it happen twice and only with guys I already knew from 'the scene'. As in met, talked to in person.
ReplyDeleteThis will be different, but at least David knows the intermediary. And you, his wife, will be around to keep things from getting out of hand. that's more than I had in terms of support in one way: All the people, in both scenes, were scene friends. Not family, and not someone I could invite over to my house at the time.
So long as nothing is coerced, I say go for it. May you all have fun.
He is very straight, which makes it all the better. It's all consensual, of course, but he needs his limits pushed for his own good.
DeleteWouldn’t a cock sucking competition be fun!?David and daddy get in 69 position and, under appropriate encouragement from you and Ms Violet, the first to swallow every drop wins. Loser (surely danielle) goes over the knee.
ReplyDeleteNo cock sucking this time out!
DeleteMore’s the pity - but from acorns oak trees grow!
DeleteYes!
DeleteWhat are you going to do with his big penis (8" when erect if we believe you - and after all, you must know since it's you who takes him from behind!) once you arrive at Violet's with a little boy to spank, hard as wood?
ReplyDeleteI advise you to put him in a cage when you leave your home and keep him there all evening.
Believe me? I've posted pics and videos. Check it out for yourself!
DeleteOh no, I think it would be delicious if he gets hard at the concept of going across a man's knee.
I’m typically an advocate of chastity cages 24/7, but I agree with Julie on this one. His bare cock needs to be in contact with “Daddy’s” lap.
DeleteMistress Andrea
Yes, his wriggling over a man's lap, cock and balls out, excites me!
DeleteJulie, have you (or Violet) considered requiring David to be shaved and plugged before taking him to his spanking appointment to add to his humiliation?
ReplyDeleteMaybe a plugging afterwards for more punishment?
DeleteHappy to read you are still pushing the envelop of adventure
ReplyDeletebottoms up
Red
Indeed!
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