Saturday, February 15

Husband belt whipped for overspending

I am in charge of the money in the household, and recently I was noticing that our credit card bill was very high and so I really scrutinized the spending. OMG is all I can say. david has been spending a lot of money lately. I have not really seriously scened his ass for some time now, so I thought I could kill two birds with one stone.

"david! wtf on the credit card bill!!! You have some explaining to do, mister!"

He looked guilty. He knew what I was talking about.

"Do you think you can just spend anything you please without consulting me?? Looks like I'm going to have to remind you who wears the pants in the family when it comes to money."

That was code. He knew he was about to be scened. He also knew he was about to be punished, for real, and some new rules, for real, would be coming down on his ass.

"I want you to go upstairs, shave yourself properly, top and bottom back and front, clean yourself out thoroughly in the backside, have a hot scented bubble bath, then get dressed in your schoolgirl outfit, and I mean all the way dressed: bra, panties, stockings, skirt and blouse You have one hour. I expect you to be back down here after that, sitting on the spanking chair in the middle of the living room with your knees pressed together and your hairbrush in your lap waiting for me. You've earned yourself a spanking, and a good hard one at that."

I thought it would be fun this time to have him go through the "feminine" ritual of preparing himself for me by himself. Shaving his private parts. Giving himself a "douche" in the bum. Sitting in a hot bubble bath. Putting on his lingerie (white stockings, garter belt, panties, bra), short plaid schoolgirl skirt, and little white blouse that bares his midriff and ties under his tits. I knew he would be worried as he was doing this, because he had a pretty good idea of what he had spent on that credit card, and had no idea how angry I might be. My little spendthrift wife was about to get her comeuppance, for sure.


I watched Olympics while this was going on, and after about an hour and a half I shut it off and went to the living room. I had deliberately dressed down, in old jeans and a rough work shirt. I wanted for him to accept his role as a "wife under discipline," and our relative dress would drive that home. I also had my heaviest leather belt around my waist which I was planning on taking off at some point...

Well wasn't he darling sitting there! He was dressed exactly as I had instructed, and smelled very nicely as well. His knees were pressed together and his hairbrush was on his lap.

I went over some of the more heinous expenses with him.


He looked sheepish at some of them, for sure. I told him that if he was ever going to put more than $500 on the credit card at a time he needed to discuss it with me first. He agreed immediately. I guess nothing makes a husband more agreeable than sitting there in women's clothing waiting for a licking.

I then told him that he would now be punished, and that he will learn to not make unilateral decisions in this household. I had him stand and took his place on the spanking chair. I pulled him by the wrist and put him across my knee.

I love women's clothing for the purposes of spanking. The skirt flips right up, and the panties glide right down, and did they ever, baring his backside framed by the white garter belt and stocking tops.


He would be spanked bright red from his mid-ass to stocking tops, and right over to the garter straps. Before I started, I parted his cheeks and was pleased to see that he had shaved himself around his anus up towards his testicles, and that the bumhole itself was squeaky clean, even upon close inspection. He had a pretty lavender smell about him as well. At least my little girl can follow her instructions.

I started with my hand to warm him up. He was still clutching his hairbrush, knowing that was next. When my hand got sore I told him to pass up the hairbrush and we could get started properly on his disciplining.

I really enjoyed reddening his cheeks with his hairbrush. He eventually cried out and kicked his stockinged feet, but I was relentless, punishing in the spot nature intended naughty males to catch it. I got a lot of "pleases" and "I'm sorry's" but I didn't care. I was going to make sure he was well punished with that hairbrush before I let him off my lap!

I made a point of first achieving a nice even red all over my designated target area. I then really layed into him just above his stocking tops and around the crease where bum meets thigh. This, of course, had him howling and begging for mercy. Music to my ears. The naughty spendthrift! Be careless with OUR money will he? Hmpf!

He was wiggling too much before I barely started on that phase, so I readjusted and threw my right leg over the backs of both of his. I also pulled his panties off his ankles and told him to stuff them into his mouth. david knew what was coming and was already begging me not to. He knew I would be lighting the fire of Hades above his stocking tops. But I was determined to teach a lesson, so for the next minute he would be scalded white by his hairbrush.

He screamed and shrieked, and when I was done, his eyes were wet. I stood him up and conducted him to face the wall, his panties still stuffed into his mouth. I put a piece of paper against the wall and made him hold it up with his nose. I then crossed his arms behind his back, holding up his little skirt in the process. This showed off a nicely beaten bare bum. I adjusted his stocking tops and straps for a more pleasant, symmetrical appearance.

My naughty little girl would be spending the next fifteen minutes in time-out showing off her spouse-spanked bum.


I walked away telling him he could stay like that until I had regained my composure, after which he would be taken to the bedroom, belt whipped, and fucked to tears with Adam. Let him stew on that, I thought. Holding up his skirt to display his bare bottom would concentrate his attention on his bottom, and I knew he would be hard pressed to think about anything else but the belting and punishment fucking that was yet to befall his already super sore derriere.

I let him contemplate his situation for the next ten or fifteen minutes and then went to collect him.

I grabbed him by the ear and dragged him up to the bedroom. Panty-gagged he remained. I piled three pillows on the bed and made him get across them, ass high. I then made him look at me as I scolded him some more. I told him for this infraction he was getting a belt licking across his already well-spanked ass. He watched worriedly, fixating on my belt, his panties still stuffed in his mouth.


He knew that my belt would be coming off and that he would be taught a lesson he wouldn't soon forget. As he watched I started unfastening my belt and pulling it out from the loops around my jeans. He looked very nervous as I drew out the anticipation.


My belt would teach him in no uncertain terms who wore the pants in this family, and who was the one who was required to be skirted, bra'd, stockinged, gartered, and ass up for a licking.


I cracked my belt hard across his ass cheeks. He yelled into his panty gag from my first stroke to my last. I didn't give him more than about fifty, but they were all very hard ones and they left a definite impression.

As I gave him the belt licking, we went over the new rule about consulting me before putting larger expenses on the credit card. I got him to repeat the rule back to me over and over, which was funny, as he had to mumble it out through the panty gag, and only halfway through saying it I would bring the belt down hard across his bare fanny which made him scream out and interrupted his little one-sentence speech. You can imagine it took him dozens of tries before he said it anywhere near to my satisfaction.

By the time I was done with him, his bottom and thighs were nicely marked up. The right cheek had clearly taken more damage than the left, and I had some nice rectangular strap marks clearly visible. My boy would not be sitting comfortably for some time to come!


Of course, dishing out a beating of this calibre makes me very hot and bothered. And he was still looking adorable, ass high, skirt flipped up, stockings and garter belt framing my canvas, little legs shaking...

He was looking so feminine and submissive like that that it was no chore at all to put on my strap-on right over my jeans, lube him up, and sodomize his asshole. My thought was that the rough fabric of my jeans pushing up against his sensitive ass cheeks and stocking top thighs, with him still skirted and in feminine lingerie, would really drive home our relative sex roles in the bedroom, especially after I had just belt whipped him into submission.

I had earlier promised to "fuck him to tears" and I was determined to do so. Yes, it was my larger dildo, Adam, I used on him. And while I am always careful and considerate of his asshole, there are degrees of that, and this time, as it was a punishment fucking, I pushed in just a little bit faster than he was ready for. This elicited a spitting out of his panty gag and some high-pitched begging from him for me to slow down, "please slow down!"

"Who told you you could take your gag out? Would you like me to add a fucking for disobedience on top of the fucking you've already earned for overspending, or would you like to put the panty gag back into your mouth?"  Very rational, I thought. With males, you always need to give them a choice so that they think they have some control.

He put the panty gag back into his mouth.

I started thrusting. Again, while always considerate of his bum, there are degrees, and I went slightly on the side of "too hard, too fast, too deep."


I'm not sure exactly how long I fucked him for, but I was sweating and exhausted when I pulled out.  Banging your man that hard takes effort!

He knew I wouldn't stop until he was crying, so he obliged me by sobbing pitifully into the bed sheets towards the end. I know because I bent over on top of him, dildo still firmly inserted, turned his head towards the side by the hair, and felt the moisture beneath his eyes. Good enough, I thought. He had been fucked for punishment and knew that any time I chose I could fuck him like that again. Unlike him, my dick never softens.

I pulled out and was pleased to see that my Adam was only marginally dirty towards the tip. david had done a decent job cleaning himself out for his fucking this time.

"go stand against the wall," I told him, "and hold your ass cheeks apart so I can see your punished little hole."

He did that, and I was most satisfied to see his punished thighs and cheeks, and his widely distended and shiny lubed-up freshly fucked asshole on display.

I stripped, lay on the bed so I could see him, and got out my Hitachi. Without another word to him I got myself off just looking at what I had done to him. Mmmmmm. Oftentimes I will get him to use his tongue on my asshole as I get myself off, but I was still a bit angry for real at him, and I didn't think I wanted him doing that to me this time.

Once I had taken care of my own needs, I released him from his display. He had hardened in the meantime. I didn't care.

"Yeah? You hard, baby?" I said as I stroked it. "For extra punishment, you don't cum for a week, got it?"

david looked like he was about to say something.

"Or do we go another round with my belt and dildo? I can do this all night if I have to."

He thought better and agreed to his not cumming for a week. I told him that included masturbation, and no edging of himself, in case of accident. At the end of the week I told him I would stick his little vibrating plug into him, handjob his cock, and then he would be dining on his jizz that night. I'm thinking maybe chicken breasts with cum sauce for him? I told him I would see if I could get either Michelle or Sue over for dinner that night. He could explain to them why he was being punished with jizz sauce that night. And he should look it up in advance, measure it when it came out, and make sure to record the calories. Ha Ha!

59 comments:

  1. you are an incredible spouse. you run a wonderful household. i wish i was your 'wife'... :). love keith

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    1. Thank you keith! In case you didn't notice, I got impatient this morning and appended part 2 to the bottom of this post. So please have another read because i wouldn't want you to miss out on david's belt licking and punishment fuck!

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    2. Dear Ms. Julie,

      i did read part 2. however, as a devoted reader of your blog, i already knew what david was in for. i just love your creative ways of keeping him in line. what a lucky sissy gurl... i'm so jealous.

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    3. I'm glad you didn't miss it. I don't usually add-on to posts and felt guilty doing so this time!

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  2. You are amazing Julie! Love your story. Your making him eat his cum has inspired a new punishment for my sissy. She is responsible for the cooking and actually is a fine chef. On a weekend she is put in a single disposable diaper around noon and starts cleaning the house. She will start dinner at 6 and her diaper is soaked by then. After she serves me dinner she removes her diaper and sits in her high chair. The diaper is spread open on her tray and I put her dinner in it! The fabric of the diaper is loose and mixes with her food. I then go to the refrigerator and grab a baby bottle of my nectar for her to wash her pee tasting food down with. She eats everything or gets a belt whipping like David.

    Goddess Gretchen

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    1. Sounds very humiliating for her. I am curious, do you need to use the belt to encourage her, or does she choke it all down with only the threat of it?

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    2. She ate it the first time because I had belt whipped the day before because she refused to go into Walgreens in just her diaper to purchase more diapers!

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  3. OMG-Ms. Julie, you are a most amazing woman! I know your wife must realize how lucky she is- to be femininized, "made love to" and educated with the belt and the hairbrush is wonderful. I just love reading about your life with your wife and I love to live vicariously through your humiliation, feminization and discipline of your very lucky wife. Thank you for your thoughts and sharing your experiences with us!
    Submissive curtsy,
    sissy jennifer

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    1. I don't know if david feels that lucky when the hairbrush is scalding him, the belt is whipping him black and blue, and the large dildo is stretching him to tears. But I'm sure deep down he does.

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    2. Oh Ms. Julie, I bet david is VERY grateful for your interest in her feminization and behavior modification! I know that I deeply respect and love my wife for educating me in a similar fashion. My reply to your "forced feminization" blog entry around the first of January hinted at my discipline and humiliation at the discretion of my wife which also involves feminization,make-up, corporal punishment and training of my "pussy" with dildoes and sometimes Tampons. I find the addition of another woman to watch (or sometimes help) greatly increases my humiliation and seems to enhance my wife's pleasure and feeling of power. She never dildoes me when another woman is present but often will put two Tampons in me so that the strings will swing as I am punished with a hairbrush and then a paddle or strap. My wife's best friend Doris loves to participate in my make-up ritual and usually makes me beg for each item as she applies it. I have been very obedient for the last several years so that "punishment" is really not accurate. My wife simply feels that regular (and fairly severe) corporal discipline accompanied by feminization, make-up, and plenty of humiliation will keep our home the happy place it has been for many years. While I do not enjoy the pain or humiliation when it is happening, I truly appreciate and love my wife for caring enough to properly discipline me.
      Sincere curtsy,
      sissy jennifer

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    3. I know how your wife feels. "Showing off" my toy to another woman is always very empowering for me!

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  4. Thought you might enjoy this old classic John Wayne spanking seen from McLintock.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xIp3VTJ1GZY

    Emily

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    1. That's a good one! I need to get me a fireplace shovel.

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  5. Hi Ms. Julie,

    I feel horrible for David did he ever earn any relief? When I break a rule involving a "dominance" right that has been taken away from me (like David spending whatever he wanted without permission, or not yielding to what she wants), my wife puts me back in my place in humiliating fashion.

    In my closet we keep a pair of "punishment undies". It's a pair of white briefs (she knows I hate briefs) she makes me wear. Quick side note, this all came about after I had a little premature accident in my boxers during some vigorous foreplay one night after a weekly date night. She took away all my boxers replaced them with briefs and told me to wear a pair to bed the next night. She told me that as a reminder that her needs, desires and wants ALWAYS come first (come in more way than one) in our relationship. So that night she had me lay face up on the bed while she teased, edged and milked me right through this pair of underpants until I was begging her for relief. She teased me so close to the edge that I lost control and came (although I suspect she did this on purpose). After being soundly spanked, I serviced her. She does this any time I overstep my role now, leading to a bunch of cum stains all over the front of the pair of punishment undies, which she makes me hold in my mouth while she spanks me. Thankfully she has never shown an interest in pegging me. I definitely sympathize with David however, not being allowed to have a satisfying release for a week.

    Jimmy

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    1. This only happened a few days ago. I am planning his "relief" now for next weekend.

      I like the way your wife thinks, jimmy! Your story reminds me that david once had an "accident" in his underpants when kissing a girl in high school. My sister and I will not let it die. Ha Ha!

      david was certainly extremely humiliated by that event. I imagine you must feel a similar humiliation at your own lack of control? Only I imagine its worth as you have to hold that cummy mess in your mouth as you are spanked. And a "limp dicked" spanking is always worse, I know. Poor boy. Don't break the rules!

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    2. Aw, poor guy. It's happened to me before at a middle school "make out" party, but luckily the girl didn't know!

      It is very humiliating. In some ways having to watch myself lose control is almost worse than the spanking. Sitting there knowing I'm not supposed to but having no way to stop it, then realizing I can't stop and seeing that wet spot on my underwear starting spreading as my dick spasms is the worst.

      I try not to break the rules, but as Im sure you know with David, sometimes thats not always as easy as it sounds.

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    3. And then knowing you have to suck your undies dry during your spanking... Oh dear!

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    4. Well she doesn't make me "suck them dry" just keep them in my mouth. Her whole thing is making me see the cum stains on my punishment undies. She sometimes lays them out on the bed so that when I walk in I know what I'm in store for later.

      Do you mind if I ask about the story of david and his friend in high school? Those are always funny stories, but I don't want to pry so feel free to say no.

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    5. I've already recounted it on my blog. There were a series of posts regarding david's premature ejaculation issues you may be interested in around April-May of 2012. But basically he was necking and petting with a girl and came into his pants. She noticed and got grossed out and called an end to it. david suspects she told a friend of hers as well. Sooo humiliating!

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  6. I think you are going to see just how much more submissive and attentive david will get as the week progresses.....

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    1. I will watch for it, but he only agreed to the week so I'm not sure it applies.

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  7. The best thing about this post is that it followed the post where you so viciously defended david. I think the deepest love I ever felt for my wife was when she took up for me at a pool party.

    I'll do my best to make a long story short. The house wasn't decorated to her standard for a party at our house the previous week. The next day I was spanked to tears. Her mother arrived and I was "put on the stool" meaning ankles tied to the rungs and a huge dildo on top of a stool painted with non-slip paint. My legs would weaken until I was impaled on the dildo and made to hump until I erupted. I had to catch it all on a plate and have it as a buttered biscuit at dinner later that night with both of my in-laws.

    My wife made me go to a store and buy women's swim bottoms like she wore for triathlons. I had to wear them at the pool party. Of course, the guys picked on me but Frank crossed the line when he called me a bitch.

    My wife stopped mid-sentence and tore into Frank. She scolded him challenging his manhood. Frank sprouted a pup tent in his pants. A two hundred fifty pound man ended up running away in tears and left five others too afraid to say another word about me.

    The enduring love you display both in punishment and in defense of david fills my heart with joy.

    dana

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    1. How cute a situation that was! But I love the stool. I have one too!

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    2. Seeing the picture of your stool strikes fear into my core! My legs quiver and my feet ache as my mind flashes back to those terrible moments perched over that dildo. I tried to budget my strength and slowly progress. Invariably, the battle was lost and rather than a gentle accommodation, I ended up impaled. After the first time, my wife didn't have to worry about me keeping my legs in shape. Every time my trainer mentioned her amazement at my ability to do wall squats, my wife burst out laughing

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    3. I let david ease onto the dildo, but only because I favor belting his private parts behind his legs so he can sit on those, and have them rub against the sandpaper as I whip the fronts of his thighs.

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    4. Can't quite understand the function of this "stool" I think I need to see it in action. Sounds like it would be severe...
      Jim

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    5. Check out a post around February of 2013 where I describe my 'lil stool and its use in great detail!

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    6. Ok, I saw that stool... wow. You must be angry at him! I think I would behave if that was in my future. You can be quite a meanie sometimes.
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      jim

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    7. I still have my stool stowed away in a basement cupboard. Maybe I need good excuse to get it out again...

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  8. Reading over your blog I can't help but notice the similarities in our husbands and situations. I think your man would be a perfect candidate for diaper discipline / punishment. Have you ever considered this? If you think lingerie is humiliating and emasculating, a thick diaper before and / or after a spanking can make a huge impact on a naughty boy's attitude. And really, most men I know are just overgrown babies anyways! If you are interested in how I have incorporated diapers into our punishments or want some ideas, let me know and I would be happy to private email you. Love the blog!

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    1. Sure! Always interested in hearing. But I think it's a personal thing. I get hot and dominant seeing david in girls' clothes, I imagine it would be less so seeing him in diapers (I guess mainly because I love spanking him and fucking him, both activities unsuitable for "babies", but very well-suited to naughty slutty gurls!)

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  9. I really admire the film way you handle David. I am in the process of training my husband. He has endured brush and belt strapping which often ends with him crying for mercy. My own mother was a firm believer in domestic discipline. In her later years she confided that she would sometimes end a punishment session by making dad drink her golden nectar. We children were aware of the power structure athome, but since the action used to take place behind closed doors the details were secret. We only used to see a chastened subdued dad, sometimes red faced and often in tears or sobbing quietly. I intend to try out golden showers with my husband and train him to imbibe. Have you ever tried this? What is your advise on water sports?



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    1. My advice is be careful! I used to pee on a guy (pre-david) in the bathtub while he licked me. I would time it so that as I peed I came. It got so I only ever wanted that as an orgasm! So I have kind of sworn off it since. I was pretty young and just thought it was this relatively older guy's thing, because we didn't do any other dommy stuff. I have peed on david as "punishment", and I have made him drink a glass (though I watered it down for him) - AND you have just given me an ideal for dinner tonight!!

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  10. first off you were mention on fet life web site some body post thread about you

    https://fetlife.com/groups/5360/group_posts/5005447

    few people comment on the thread I haven't yet but I have fet life profile mikeinohio are you on fetlife?

    if david get hard belting for overspending hate to know what he get or why he get hard paddling or trip over your knee for punishment spanking

    mike
    Madison ohio

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    1. I am a little on fetlife, just enough so I can go see others there. Yes, someone sent me the link. I appreciate any and all attention. I am a girl after all...

      My paddle is easier than him the belt. I would say the ordering is:
      hand
      paddle
      hairbrush
      belt
      strap

      My paddle is pretty light hardwood. I guess I need a thicker paddle!

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  11. Rather than punish david for having a hair-trigger, you should try this. Give him a Viagra and "force" orgasm after orgasm from his body. MAybe arrange Adam behind him to train him to enjoy penetration more...

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  12. My wife does not usually use pegging as punishment, but there are exceptions.

    One was when she wanted sex (she likes vaginal sex a lot) and I had masturbated just before she came to bed; I'm supposed not to do that! She was a bit pissed and decided to peg me instead.

    On a few occasions, my wife punished "macho" or sexist behavior on my part by a spanking, enema and pegging. The pegging is not there to hurt but to remind me that I, too, get it up the ass. ;-)

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    1. david tells me there a moments of pain as he is adjusting, but then once he is stretched and i am going hard it's not so much painful as "uncomfortable". He genuinely wishes for it to end, but I keep going. No lasting pain, but quite uncomfortable while it is going on. It takes a fair amount of stamina from me, but I figure it's good exercise. Better than squats!

      I agree that a huge aspect of it is the psychological humbling of having to be on the receiving end from his wife. I think it only adds to it that it becomes quite uncomfortable and I am in complete control of much he needs to take.

      But I definitely applaud your wife on her judgement regarding making you submit to her peggings. That'll learn you!

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    2. Do you also peg David outside of punishment, that is, just for the sex?

      My wife has a dildo that sticks into her vagina and rubs her clitoris during pegging, and that stimulation plus the exciting situation make her hot; it has happened that she orgasmed during pegging. Most times, though, we finish with vaginal sex.

      My wife also likes to be penetrated anally from time to time (she even sometimes asks for it, even though she finds asking for THAT quite shameful).

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    3. Since David described his sensations and feelings, here are mine.

      The preparation is both shameful and strangely exciting. Even for "sex" pegging, my wife spanks me a bit so as to get me in the mood. The enema is a bit uncomfortable but very shameful, especially if she stays for "potty time".

      She uses lots of lubricant and takes it slow for initial penetration, but indeed, there can be a moment when the anus resists and it is somewhat painful. It depends; playing with the opening (dildo tip in and out) seems to help (and gets me a hard-on, which subsides after). Once the dildo is in, my wife let things settle until the muscles relax. Then I'm "open" and the fucking begins.

      I would describe my wife's peggings as thorough. She does not make wild movements that would cause me pain or worse, the dildo is no larger than my penis, but she has a deliberate air and wants me to really feel I've been fucked. Depending on position etc., she or I can play with my penis. Having an orgasm with the dildo inside is a weird and pleasurable feeling (one feels part of the pleasure coming from "back there"), but we more commonly do that sort of things with a plug (my wife quite often plugs me if she climbs on top of me for vaginal sex).

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    4. Yes, sometimes I peg him for sex, not always for punishment, although there always is an aspect of domination involved and he rarely gets pegged without first getting a red ass! Sounds just like you.

      And I think what you describe is quite similar to david's punishment pegging, maybe I go just a little harder. Perhaps it sounds worse than it is when I write about it... He does definitely want it to end, though. Do you want yours to end when it does?

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    5. I think one difference is that the dildo we use is slightly less wide than my penis, while yours is quite wide, isn't it? When we started pegging (before the word "pegging" was coined) we used a smaller dildo, but my wife said that it was appropriate that I receive the same size that she receives.

      Indeed, when we engage in anal sex it has some dominant/kinky feeling. The spanking is usually not very hard (so not necessarily a very red ass), but definitely brings on the submissive mood. Same for the enema: it's not painful, but definitely is embarrassing!

      Do I want the pegging to end? Depends. Sometimes, if I masturbate or she masturbates me during the act, I can start having a good feeling "from the back" (best position for thst is for me on the back, legs on the chest, butt wide open). But it's still fairly rough; and on her side the dildo feels good, but it's far stiffer than a penis, thus the sensation is also rough. So both of us generally prefer to continue by penis-in-vagina (possibly after plugging me).

      (Even though my wife likes to spice it up in different ways, she says that penis-in-vagina is what gives her the strongest pleasure. I myself prefer that also.)

      We don't often do anal sex as real "punishment". In fact, most of our spankings are not real punishment, even though we often have a pretext (e.g. "you're too nervous"). A hairbrush spanking as punishment + pegging as "reminder" is what I got for acting "macho", inconsiderately.

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  13. Just a comment about consuming his output. I'm required to maintain a supply of "cum cubes" in the freezer, which are, as you might guess, a mixture of a bit of water and my output. We tried it with just the output, but it gets freezer burn and disappears quite quickly without the water.

    The cum cubes are used as ice in my drinks, particularly when company is there. There I am, smiling at our guests, wearing pretty panties and perhaps a bra and/or camisole under my clothes, sitting on a freshly spanked and sore bottom, quietly ingesting my own output....without our guests knowing any of it.

    mark

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    1. Oh, but I think some choice guests should learn the truth...

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  14. Does your wife tolerate that you masturbate? My wife does not want any of that (unless I'm travelling or she's travelling and we're not together). Two reasons: 1) after ejaculation I'm "unavailable" for a while, including if she wants vaginal sex 2) she thinks it's "her" job.

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    1. I don't mind at all. I don't think it takes anything away from me that he makes love to his hand. I think it's cute. Besides, penis-in-vagina sex is way overrated in my opinion. Long live the tongue!

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    2. Ah, this is one aspect where my wife is stricter than you.

      My wife is very fond of penis-in-vagina sex; she likes the tongue too but most times as an "appetizer" so to speak. She can orgasm from only external stimulation (tongue or finger) but find it lacking. She likes mostly missionary-style and "woman on top", depending on the mood.

      So she thinks it's a "waste" that I'm limp because of masturbation. Plus, she thinks it is for her to bring me to orgasm and I should do it myself only if she's unavailable. So no "naughty hand" for me, unless on travel. And even then, I should be careful about what I fantasize about while I touch myself. Same for her: no touching except if I'm away (she uses a dildo as penis substitute).

      On occasion, we confessed to having dirty thoughts while touching ourselves. When I told my wife about the fantasies I was entertaining about some female co-worker, she spanked me (if I remember correctly, twice: before going to bed and in the morning), then put pepper oil on my glans so as to punish me where I had sinned.

      Now, she's as strict for herself as she is for me. She once confessed to masturbation with extramarital fantasies she thought were highly inappropriate, and asked for punishment. I spanked her and figged her vagina with ginger. She wanted to try a chastity belt but we could not find a suitable model (she wanted something that would prevent touching herself during my business trip, so we needed something compatible with daily life).

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  15. https://fetlife.com/users/1753002 would this be your fetlife profile i did a strict julie as search this profile pop up figure u look like canada city i did search with just name julie came up lot of them couldnt find you

    thicker paddle is what you should get the order you have is very good one least now dave or me anyone else know what to expcet to feel

    mike
    madison ohio

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    1. I don;t even know, mike. I rarely log in. Only if i need to follow a link.

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  16. I can relate to a lot of this. My punishment was 300 licks a day for a week. I even left my voice recorder on to go back and listen every now and then as a reminder. It's good to know that Im not the only guy out there that gets his tail blistered for these things.

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    1. And a good tail-blistering is exactly what you spendthrift husbands need! I applaud your wife's commitment.

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  17. Way to give it to him and fully dressed including bra, garter belt and stockings. Pity there wasn't someone else to witness it all. A vey suitable punishment for sure.

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  18. Do you punish David when you're angry or do you cool off first? This one looked pretty angry.

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    1. All my "punishments" are play acting. It's a scene. Not really punishment. But we pretend it is and I pretend to be very angry and lashing out accordingly!

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  19. Are you physically superior to your husband?

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    1. Not at all. He wants me to Domme him and so goes along with it.

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  20. Mistress Julie, This is another one of my favorite posts of your's. It has everything -- a real FLR situation (over spending); an angry, beautiful, strict, and domineering wife; OTK hand spanking and paddling; a belt whipping; and pegging. What more could a man want of his spouse? I'm left feeling jealous of david, again. I'm sure it hurt like the dickens. But, if it were me, I think I'd be craving another round just as soon as my butt stopped hurting. lars

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