We went to bed a bit early. Put on some music. We got naked as two little bunnies, got under the covers, and started kissing and fondling one another.
I whispered to him to put his butt plug in. We keep it charging by the side of the bed. It has a little button that I can push to make it vibrate and I can control its intensity. This drives him wild when combined with other stimulus. He got his butt plug and some lube, and I watched intently as he strained and popped it in.
I picked up the baby oil I keep handy, rubbed it on my hands and on his dick. We then lay back down side by side and we continued our kissing and fondling, but now with some more intense slippery fondling of his cock. I can make him buck and moan when I do this, and its fun to do as he is trying to kiss me.
I then had him turn around to do some "69". We adjusted ourselves along the diagonal of the bed. I parted my legs so that he could lay his head on my lower leg, and I could clamp down on it with my upper. I put his slippery cock back between his legs like this.
I put my face into the "pussy" formed by the absence of his cock in front, and I started licking him there. "Just like a girl..." I said as I licked him. Meanwhile, he was licking me and doing a damned fine job of it.
I turned his vibrator on and kept rubbing his slick cock up and down and up and down as I licked his blank pussy. It was shaping up to be a race to orgasm.
I told him that he shouldn't dare cum before me or he'll get a limp dick spanking and then be made to finish what he started.
Instead of slowing him down, oddly enough this made him even more excited, a situation I egged along by turning the vibrator up to its highest setting and rubbing his penis even more intensely. He tried valiantly to get me off, but I was having none of it. And he was fighting a losing battle. Before very long he spurted semen down the back of his legs.
He has always been a premature ejaculator. And while it's getting better with age, it's still a very uneven contest. I've tried everything over the years, including exercises to help him, punishments, and even shaming in front of my sister (see Trained in front of Sister). So it's not for lack of trying on my part ;-)
I immediately disentangled ourselves, grabbed him by his ear, and moved us so that I was sitting by the side of the bed and he was across my naked knee. I could feel his gooey, spent, slippery penis rubbing against my thigh. I turned his vibrator off but left the plug lodged in there. He had had no time to recover at all from his orgasm, but I did not let that stop me as I reached for the maternal bedside hairbrush and started spanking him with it. Hard.
You have to understand, this is a "limp dick" spanking. He is not hard. He is not sexually excited. There is nothing but submission and fanny pain for him. Ahhhh! And yes that does appeal to me. More than it should...
"This is what you get for cumming before me!" I admonished him as I spanked his butt red. "If you could hold off, like a MAN, I wouldn't have to do this," I told him. "Little premie bitch," I said as I continued spanking him. "So selfish!" SPANK SPANK SPANK. I ended his spanking and said, "NOW GET BUSY AND FINISH WHAT YOU STARTED!"
He had to get between my legs, and with a limp dick, and with a spanked red fanny, and a butt plug in his rear, lick me until I came.
and he sure did... Mmmmmm!
What and exquisite story, you sure are having fun ! Thank you for sharing. It's not the first time I've read about mistress complaining on their partners being a little quick...
ReplyDeleteBut isn't his orgams the result of the toy internal pressure addition plus his perineal muscles stretching ? I think Lady Lubyanka demonstrated the importance of reducing muscle stress to prevent a male orgasm.
I think you misunderstand. I wanted to spank him limp!
DeleteM. SJ:
ReplyDeleteI've only had a few swats after an orgasm never a real spanking. Fortunately, Irene doesn't read your blog or she might get ideas.
But maybe not. Irene also likes/needs me inside her after she comes, so she makes sure she comes first. For decades now we almost always employ the "reverse cowgirl cunnilingus" position as she likes the control of being on top - both physically and emotionally.
Recently, however, she said leaning over was putting too much pressure on her wrists so she told me to put a hook in the ceiling. Instead of leaning over onto her wrists, she holds onto a knotted rope hanging from the hook. We have only done this a few times, but it seems to work great for her.
I love licking her pussy more than anything - especially when I have a red hot just-whipped bottom.
-Rosco
And that rope hanging there has a few other possible uses I could think of as well (thinking a diaper position paddling for you, rosco)
DeleteIrene has mentioned such uses for the rope - I mainly hope when it happens that my most sensitive parts are tucked on the front side of my thighs, not the back where they would suffer dearly from any errant or maybe not so errant whacks.
DeleteRight now, however, Irene is enjoying the control from hanging onto the rope. She has always had powerful orgasms (I used to tease her that we should call the seismology center at the local university before we have sex), but this new wrinkle has provided her the opportunity to control exactly how her pussy is being licked and later fucked.
She said when she was younger she might have been self conscious about having a hook in the ceiling, but now (albeit it is slightly concealed by the overhead light).
We totally recommend others try this - note she is not hanging with all her weight. In our case the hook was simply screwed in.
Keep writing, M SJ
Oh, but I love whipping his "junk" when it's hanging out. For this I use the flogger. I mainly aim for his ass, but if the flogger tips go astray, no >*serious*< harm done!
DeleteToo often men climax way to fast and I solve that by giving her fantastic oral sex first then mounting her or she mounts me. In this case you might have pushed him into squirting with the plug and the position of his cock and balls but then maybe you wanted to give him a good spanking and then get great oral sex. I also love doing 69 on the side very comfortable for both. I can only imagine how his spanking hurt after a climax ouch.
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Yes, he did exactly what I wanted him to do. I enjoy spanking him after his orgasm. I was surprised when I did web searches for "69" images, and found most of them to be top and bottom. We've always done side by side, so I thought that was the more common!
DeleteSo wonderful. I can't help but think that you must still have an almost full package of diapers stashed away. Seems like a fitting punishment for a premature ejaculator who can't control his messes. It would go nicely with his limp dick spanking!
ReplyDeleteIt's always nice to know I'm not the only one who has a premature ejaculator on her hands :)
ReplyDeleteDiane
You Ladies are just too much for us!
DeleteThat's the whole idea!
Delete*blush*
DeleteThis made for truly fantastic early reading. The idea of you tucking his manhood away and then going down on his blank sexless groin is mind-blowing
ReplyDeleteDid he get 69 Spankinns Spanking from you when in 69 postion be cool if use 69 implement on him too when giving the spankins right now i want get in that postions
ReplyDeleteOh yes, he gets a few swats in that position as well.
DeleteJulie,
ReplyDeleteAnother great post and again it hits home for me. The best thing ever for me as far as taking control of bob falls into the having sex. Before he gave up control to me he always got satisfied but often left me unfulfilled. Sometimes I'd even be on the verge of having an orgasm and he'd have his and be done leaving me on the edge.
I love him inside me and it feels great. So since taking charge the rule is if he comes in me before I orgasm then he'll finish me off with his mouth which means having to clean out his own cum. As you can imagine he doesn't like this at all so after a few times of having to do it he's learned to make sure I orgasm first. Now I enjoy sex as much as him and want it more often as well. So it works out for him as well. And as far as paddling after an orgasm your right this is very effective.
Dianne
Nice consequence for cumming too soon! Ha Ha!
DeleteJulie,
ReplyDeleteLongtime reader here, since the beginning;I think I got sucked in from your Topix post. Your column encouraged me to want my wife to be more dominant, especially in the bedroom;she will never be a spanker though. Instead of spanking, we ended up going the direction of chastity and orgasm control. Basically I can't cum unless she allows it, and I get locked up mostly at night to help me stay clean of that nasty male masturbation habit. Sometimes we go longer, and I am currently on day 4 of a longer lockup. Yes I am writing this with a plastic cage locked around her cock and having to sit to pee. And I am thinking I want more of this. Which seems crazy.
Why I am writing is that so many times I read your blog and wonder why David hasn't been locked up yet. It is such a natural fit for the two of you that I just can't believe you haven't done it yet. I don't see it as a full-time thing for the two of you but more like "I caught David playing with himself so I had to remind him that his cock belongs to me" sort thing;and he ends up the weekend with a sore ass, an overworked tongue and blue balls. I'm ready to start a gofundme account to get poor David locked up!
Locking up a husband's cock is the biggest mind fuck there is (a lot of truth in the blogs about the benefits of chastity) and the most empowering thing a man can do for a woman. My wife tends to be a little submissive, but when she has the key it's her way or else. A little lock certainly has renewed the romance in our marriage; we are like two teenagers except she gets a lot of oral sex. Thanks again for a wonderful blog-Chuck
Well, believe it or not, what my husband and I do is actually consensual, and he is not into that. I think he values his masturbation too much!
DeleteSo has your e subbie had any sissy st patrick's day assignments or anything else to complete?
ReplyDeleteSarah
No. Its been a bit quiet on that front. I think I scare them away with some of my more challenging assignments! Ha Ha!
DeleteJulie
ReplyDelete"Submission and fanny pain" just a little bit of heaven to me and then being allowed to lick you to orgasm...oh my just wonderful. Amazing
Always
Ron
A bit of heaven for me also!
DeleteHi M Julie. I love this post so much I've read it four times. I would love to be licked like a girl while being clamped between a Domme's thighs. No wonder with all those overdrive senses poor David couldn't control himself. With all the sub pleasure drained it would have been an ordeal rather than pleasure spanking. Perhaps pushing home the girly theme maybe it would have been good to be put in panties and bra for the rest of the night. kim xxx
ReplyDeleteGood suggestion. Next time!
DeleteAaaaaarrghhhh so wonderful Ms Julie!!! I doubt I could hold out and would be subject to the same punishment!
ReplyDeleteRespectfully,
doc
Oh no! Not another premature ejaculator!
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