david and I were out at a restaurant. A moderately upscale trendy sort of place.
Our waitress was a very cute black girl. She seemed like fun, so I thought we should play.
And guess what? Do you like apples? Yeah, of course you like apples.
It started with our drink order. I chose a cocktail and ordered two of them. "Yes, I'll have the Mandarin Cocktail, and so will my husband."
After she left the table david said, with a smile, "oh, it's going to be like that, is it?" Yes it would.
Somebody else brought our cocktails, and a little while later the waitress showed up again to take our dinner order. I ordered first, and then I let david order. As usual, he ordered some horribly calorific and bad for him foods.
"No, david," I said, "do I need to have another talk with you about this?"
"No ma'am," he said meekly.
Our waitress looked just a tad confused!
I went on, "he'll have the green salad, dressing on the side, for his appetizer, and the poached trout for his main, easy on the sauce."
She got a grin on her face, scratched out his old order, and wrote down my new one for him.
Poor david did not get the greasy meat feast he was craving. Good! We nonetheless had a lovely dinner and vanilla conversation. The food was very good. Even david's fish (my steak was great!).
Our waitress came back after the plates were cleaned, and asked us if we would care for any dessert. I perused the dessert menu and chose the sorbet. david said he'd have the same.
"No," I said. "No desert for you. I'll spoon feed you a little of mine."
"Awwww! Honey!" he complained.
"Shush!" I said, "No backtalk or I'll take you across my knee when we get home."
"Honey! Please!" he said, looking and sounding quite distressed at the casual implication of a spanking in front of our pretty young waitress.
"Oh my, you sure do keep him in line!" she said with a smile.
david an I have done this before, and usually we don't get any kind of comment from our server. Usually it's just an embarrassed smile. I took this as encouragement.
"I do," I answered as she was not rushing away, and continued, "a little discipline is just what a husband needs."
"I totally agree!" she said and we both laughed.
"Do you discipline your man?" I asked her.
"No. Nobody regular now. But sometimes I wish I could have with some of my exes." she said, conspiratorially.
This conversation was absolutely amazing. It was blowing my mind. I thought, in for a penny, in for a pound,
"Well, if you want to come over sometime and help me discipline mine, leave me your number on the check."
She tilted her head and looked at me, and said, "I'll think about that..."
My heart was beating hard. Takes such nerve to do this! As it was I left it up to her. I figured I wouldn't get her number, but you guys know better!
When she dropped off the check she smiled at me, I said, "thank you for being such a good sport." And then she thanked us for being such "interesting" patrons, "you made my night," she said.
I was nervous as I opened the leather portfolio with the check. There was a card from the restaurant in there, and handwritten on it was her name, her number, and a little smiley face. I slipped the card discreetly into my purse, but waved it a bit at david and mouthed "I got her number!!!"
I took my credit card out and stuck it in there. She spotted it and came back with a card machine. She must have noticed her little card missing as she looked at the bill and punched in the amount. I gave her a generous tip, and said "Thank you so much!" She said "Thank you!" back and then we left.
Wow!!!!
I sent her a text message late that same night at around the time I knew they would be closing down.
Me: Hi! Julie here. We were those customers!
Her: Hi 😀
Oooh! A grinning face. That's encouraging.
Me: Really interested in helping?
Her: Yes!!!!
Me: He'll be butt naked...
Her: I hope so. I stay dressed?
Me: You stay dressed.
Her: Do I get to spank him?
Me: Of course!
Her: How about one for me?
Me: It can be arranged. 🌝 Me or him?
Her: You!!!!
Me: But then the clothes have to come off. He'll be watching, but not touching
Her: yes ok
Me: What evenings are best 4 u?
Her: I'm off M/T
Me: Monday then. I'll txt you address and we'll make him pay for your cab. 8pm?
Her: 8pm! Amazing!
Me: Will be fun.
Her: 😈😈😈
Oh... my... gosh...! What a forward little hussy!!! I love the attitude of young women nowadays. Up for an experience always, seemingly! I am looking forward ridiculously. Love Domming david in front of a new girl!
Om my... we have to hear all about this!
ReplyDeleteOf course!
DeleteMS Julie I love the way your mind works. And you have another double spanking lined up for David and for a treat David gets to watch you spank her. Just a thought maybe after she gets spanked you can both spank David again.
ReplyDeleteHope you post the meeting.
archedone
Well, I predict that david might get a little "excited" after seeing her get spanked. Thinking perhaps he should masturbate for our amusement?
DeleteSomeone else suggested a hand job with some prolonged "after orgasm torture". That might be good also!
DeleteAbout 10 years ago I had a neighbour who ran Weight Watchers classes. Very good looking lady in her late 20s, I didn't know her well but always found her attractive.
ReplyDeleteOne December evening I was at a party held by a mutual acquaitance who lived round the corner. This lady had had a few drinks and was chatting loudly to a couple of her friends.
She told them that she was enrolling her boyfriend in Weight Watchers in the New Year. "I've told him I won't accept him being overweight. I do the cooking and I will make sure he loses it" Her friends looked shocked! Her boyfriend then walked into the room to an embarassed silence and said "I hope you weren't talking about me"
She calmly replied "Yes dear, I was telling them about how you're going on a diet in the New Year, two stone off that's what we've agreed isn't it?"
The bloke went bright red, I felt sorry for him at the time but I would love to go back in time and take his place now!
And sounds like there would have been "consequences" for disobedience, too! How delightful!
DeleteShe was clearly a very firm and bossy lady. Am not sure whether physical "consequences" were on the cards or not but the way she said "we've agreed" clearly meant "I've decided" and I have no doubt at all that she will have got some weight off him one way or another! I wasn't overweight myself at the time but nowadays I could really do with losing a couple of stone. Which makes it easier to picture myself in his position. I bet she got good results from her clients, you just know that she wouldn't have accepted any excuses!
DeleteSince it's "stones" you and she must be from the UK? Home of corporal punishment, and especially the cane. I'll bet he got that!
DeleteYes, both English. She was originally from the home counties so her "posh" accent marked her out as a bit different when she moved up North. That and her sexy glasses gave her a real air of superiority.
DeleteAnd she owned a cane...
DeleteJulie, Picking up young girls in a restaurants now, and getting them naked and spanking their bottoms. You deserve a good spanking for being a bad girl:) Maybe you can convince her to go into to bedroom afterwards for a little one on one action. She seems to like you and who wouldn't. Can't wait to hear the results:)
ReplyDeleteJohn
I'm feeling more... domestic discipliny this time. Of course, if she wants to experience a spanking who am I to deny her that?
DeleteOMG! You definitely have it. That is sooo hot. It makes my heart race just reading your description. Can't wait. What a lucky boy.
ReplyDeleteI do! Not sure if I've "picked somebody up" before!
DeleteOh my! You hit the jackpot! A cute young black woman who wants to spank an older white guy and get spanked herself.
ReplyDeleteSo many transgressings!
(Fans myself)
And no doubt, after David's butt has been roasted and little Miss' derrière has been teased and toasted, you'll find an opportunity to threaten David with a good ass fucking. And Miss will be fascinated and want a go at him herself.
Because of the late hour you'll have to schedule another session, promising her a thorough intro to 'Ass Fucking your Man'.
In the week between dates you'll text her resources about pegging to get her even more excited about doing David.
Is that the plan?
Tomas
I like your relative description: "roasted" versus "teased and toasted". You know me so well!
DeleteBut I don't think our bedtimes will enter into it if the game is afoot! I do own 2 strap-on harnesses and 2 dildos (unfortunately for him, one of them is Adam).
Ohhhh, what delicious! I hope david can get some pegging too! Maybe Adam can lend a hand (or should I say... a arm)?
ReplyDeleteThe necessary equipment will be washed and ready in case things start heading there!
DeleteIs this for real or made up? but for the likelihood it is and the new girl would like to meet a guy who is also into being spanked/dominated and lives in toronto to converse with, my email is littleplayerme@gmail.com and my kik is chasetillinfinity.
ReplyDeleteVery real!
DeleteBut I don't mix blog life and real life if I can at all avoid it, for obvious reasons!
Oh, my. Love this! Yet another one of my fantasies played out by the kinky Miss Julie. Wouldn't we all like to be in David's place come Monday evening? What will you wear for this double spanking? Something sexy and revealing, but not too? Or will you go full-on Domme? Can't wait for the post about it?? 💖TL
ReplyDeleteThinking more retro domestic 50's wife sort of thing? Want to emphasize the disciplinary / humiliation aspects of it for my husband. His shitty diet and persistent slight overweight gives me ample excuse!
DeletePerhaps you should weigh him in front of her and give him a lecture about his lack of self discipline before the spanking actually takes place!
DeleteNo. He'll just get a scolding first. A real tongue lashing from me!
DeleteHer: Do I get to spank him?
ReplyDeleteMe: Of course!
Her: How about one for me?
Me: It can be arranged. 🌝 Me or him?
Her: You!!!!
Poor David. He never gets a break.
A.J.
Ha ha! Well I was the one who picked her up. david was the sideshow. ;-)
DeleteI think that you should take some pics of her before and after you get through with her!!! Congrats!
ReplyDeleteThat might come off a bit creepy!
DeleteJulie, I love your blog, and think that you have a nearly perfect insight into what men want. However, one thing that I haven't seen you engage in (or even mention, that I can remember) is post-orgasm torture. Tie david up, give him a hand job to make him climax...and then keep stimulating his glans as a form of punishment.
ReplyDeleteIt occurs to me that (if the girl is willing) this might be a perfect opportunity. Spank david, spank the young lady with david watching. He will undoubtedly get hard. As punishment for getting aroused by another woman, tie him spread-eagle and very securely to a stout bed, give him a hand job (preferably as the young lady watches, and make him watch her as you do it), then when he climaxes continue the stimulation for a good two or three minutes as punishment. If you haven't done this before, he will be leaping all over the place (insofar as the restraints allow) and begging you to stop. He will also agree to pretty much anything. How humiliating for him; how empowering for you, and probably how fun for the young lady. Win-win-win all the way around.
Anonymous C
Interesting! And I agree, very humiliating for him! I went on pornhub and watched a couple of "post-orgasm torture" videos. I know how sensitive I get after I've cum, I'm sure it would be safe torture for him!
DeleteOh yes. Not just spanked, but rendered completely helpless and begging on top of it...and all in front of a young woman he doesn't even know.
DeleteI've seen a bunch of those videos, and agree with one of your sister blogs (Becoming a Mistress? I think that's the one...) that most women don't do it right. A lot of those videos just have extended jerking off, by which I mean that the woman just keeps moving her hand up and down. That will work to a certain degree, but it's much better to *only* stimulate the glans, and not the shaft at all. I prefer to have the woman just sort of rub/squeeze the head with her fingers, while keeping the penis trapped with her other hand. Impossible to get away, and all the sensation is concentrated right where you want it. Also, the technique shown in Becoming a Mistress (a clip in the post about POT) would probably work very well, too. Just personally, there's something about fingers... :D
Anonymous C
Well of course it's the tip that is most sensitive. I would have thought that would have been super obvious!
DeleteYou'd be surprised. I think that probably every man who follows this blog will agree that your instincts seem to be a lot better than the majority of women out there.
DeleteAnon C
Ha ha! My instinct to cause pain!
DeleteWow! Love how bold you were and it certainly seems like it paid off. Also love how open people seem to be these days when it comes to kink. It really brings hope to the rest of us. Hope the situation works out well for you!
ReplyDeleteI keep saying it, younger women are very cool with it nowadays. I can see that from my blogstats as well, where of the women I do get, they concentrate way into the younger demographics (18-25)
DeleteGee whiz! What a stunning interaction.Thank you Miss Julie for giving us all a great idea and a script to follow as well. My slight prob is that i don't have a partner but think this can be overcome by taking a dominant pay lady for supper. Kindest regards Ted xx
ReplyDeleteYes! That sounds like a fun date for the right provider!
DeleteDavid is so fortunate to have you. A woman is able to approach strangers for play and it won't be perceived as creepy or dangerous like it would if a man did the exact same thing. Every time I am by myself in a restaurant and a pretty waitress asks what I would like, I want to say, "A spanking," but I never do.
ReplyDeleteSubmissively,
david
You should just turn gay, I'm sure you'll have much better luck!
DeleteMistress, you know I could never do that unless really forced and I had no choice!
DeleteHmmmm... I know somebody who could "really force" you to do something...
DeletePlease don't!
DeleteWe'll see...
DeleteAnonymous C had an intriguing idea but here is a way to make it even more intense (and embarrassing for david). Have you tried giving him a prostate massage (with or without direct penile stimulation)? It almost guarantees a most intense and humiliating orgasm for him over which he has no control. Besides, with a regular orgasm he might still be able to be sexually stimulated again when he is spanked. Milking him dry would end that possibility!
ReplyDeleteKen2
I have never done a prostate massage to completion without any penile stimulation. Would want to experiment with that first alone with him to be sure it happens!
DeleteYou are amazing! I know Mrs. Lion is extremely unlikely to ever invite anyone to join us; certainly not a stranger or relative.
ReplyDeleteI was most impressed about how you actively controlled david's food intake. We haven't moved to that point yet, but we discussed it today. It's a very big step for her. It will be for me once she takes control that way.
Wow! I'm truly impressed.
I have so much fun with other women. At first I imagined it would be threatening, but as it unfolded, not at all!
DeleteOh this is a good one! Well done Ms Julie. David will certainly get hard watching you spank her. You have many options for punishing his arousal like the post orgasm torture mentioned above, but have you also considered edging or ruined orgasm? Ha it's so unfair you have all these sideline coaches while he has none.
ReplyDeleteI have, but I think I'm keen on the torture. Extract a few more promises from him after he's cum!
DeleteFair enough Ms Julie. On another matter, I wonder when you will begin pushing against his hard limits of chastity and males? Perhaps not in front of this girl - but soon? If you start by just waving an appropriate cock cage around and threatening him with it from time to time he might start to get used to the idea. The look on his face might be amusing as well. If this happened where would you keep your key Ms Julie?
DeleteI think a cock cage would make for a fun shopping expedition which would be right up his alley!
DeleteAnd, of course, I would keep it on a little gold chain around my neck, nestled between my breasts.
Wow! As someone carrying a bit of excess weight I could really benefit from someone taking charge of my food intake like that. Am single and a bit lacking in self discipline!
ReplyDeletePerhaps there's a pro in your area that you can pay to hold you to account?
DeleteHi Julie,
ReplyDeleteDo you have any diapers left? Put him in one a couple of hours before she comes over so when he is stripped his soaking wet diaper will be in full view!
Goddess Gretchen
I think I'll make him change into panties and then come down to us like that. It seems to humiliate him more than the diaper (he says he just feels silly in the diaper, but humiliated in his panties).
DeleteMen wear panties all the time but only sissy babies wear diapers! Ask the waitress what she prefers!
DeleteGoddess Gretchen
Youch! Baby julie no want that! Wahhhh!
DeleteHave you ever spanked a black bottom before? They take longer to turn red :D
ReplyDeleteI had not. Now I have!!!
DeleteAnd yes, they colour very differently...
so do you have plan to spank her give her spanking too?
ReplyDeleteor her to spank david AS well you can teach coach her in way to give out spankings
sound like she feel safe with you and david very interesting as well maybe learn few trick from her sound like to me from her comment she willing to do spanking. mostly as spanker didn't she say wish she had few of her exs
Spankings were for both of them!
Deletewell cool Bet both cant wait for spankings from you I am sure you make sure it spankings good one
Deletesound like she want be spankee not spanker what do you think she is spankee or spanker
Must. Have. Update!!!
ReplyDeleteComing! Sooo much awesomeness happened it's taking a while to write it all down!!!!!
DeleteYea!
ReplyDeletePosted!
DeleteJust hot...even if it does not happen. Hot
ReplyDeleteAlways
Ron
But it did! Fun!
DeleteAn outstanding share! I've just forwarded this onto a friend who was conducting a little research on this.
ReplyDeleteAnd he in fact bought me lunch simply because I found
it for him... lol. So let me reword this.... Thank YOU for
the meal!! But yeah, thanks for spending time to discuss ths topic here on your site.
It takes such courage to bring it up 'the offer' with the right amount of subtlety. I'm sure the moment you saw the number you were like bloody hell it worked :d
ReplyDeleteYes! I had a hunch, but I thought it was only a 1 in 10 chance.
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