Saturday, July 6

Michael's Public Party Humiliation

One of the nice things about my "blog job" (hey, love your work, right?), is that I frequently get emails from fans thanking me for the blog. I almost invariably ask them to tell me a bit about themselves (especially, or exclusively, the kinky bits, naturally). I think I have a pretty good "bullshit detector", and can usually figure out exaggerations or outright fantasies. Amidst some of that, I receive many true accounts that are downright weird and wonderful. I came across one the other day where I asked permission to recount it, which I received.

The event in question occurred at a "play party" at a private couple's home and involved considerable embarrassment for this "poor" 'fella.


He is a mid-50’s gentleman who lives in the suburbs, and is named michael. michael is slender and decent looking, although quite hairy all over (if he was mine, he would not be for long). He has had femdom fantasies for as long as he can remember, and after his divorce a few years ago he decided it was time to explore them. So he's engaged in a lot of kink over the past few years. One of the things he is quite into is chastity. He locks himself up regularly, much to the amusement of his play partners (and myself - as you'll see shortly).

One thing he was not that experienced at was having foreign objects shoved up his butt, so I personally helped him to get over that, insisting he put larger and larger things into himself, and sit on the washing machine on his dildo to really loosen himself up. Naturally I demanded photographic evidence of his "stretching regime", and received it. World, meet "michael" as I know him:


I often receive naked pictures of men, and quite enjoy it. Sometimes, as in this case, I demand them. Most ask me in advance if they may send them to me. I find that to be quaint but unnecessary. I am perfectly fine receiving unsolicited "dick pics" in my "strictjulie" email account. I also enjoy bumhole shots, well-stuffed butts, red asses from a really well-administered self spanking, and pics of "men" in frilly lingerie. It's what this email account is there for after all. But be careful, they might just get published and your stuffed butt and caged little dick might get shown all over the Internet as is poor michael's here. I don't know, but if I were a guy, I would not go around showing off that tiny little thing and well-stuffed butt, would you? But to each their own I suppose...

Recently michael (pictured above) has gone to a few private play parties mostly with a kinky man and wife couple he had met at a Kink Munch. He really hit it off with this couple on a personal level. She is dominant, and he is into being encased in latex and other materials (and generally being a subby). He's by now helped her wrap him up a few times.

At one party they were playing privately in a bedroom where he was receiving a strict paddling from her. After his paddling she told him to get her a drink, and she said it in a tone of voice that he could tell meant "This is something you are Required to do" as opposed to a friendly request. He was being given an order. He was naked and in the bedroom and the kitchen was across the house. This was his very first public play party. Imagine his embarrassment!

Of course, everyone there was into kink and knew that people did what they did. But he realized he was being sent - deliberately - across the living room, where people were going to chat in between doing things more privately in bedrooms and basement. And he was bare-assed naked with a bright red well-paddled ass. For a split second he was about to point that out, but very quickly said to himself that he was serving, and that he was going to do as he was told. So he walked... across... the living... room... He felt like it took forever and that he was very much blushing, and looking down, not meeting anyone's eyes. His little cock bounced, he was not even erect! He went into the kitchen, filled up a glass for her, and had to walk alllllllll the way back. He heard some snickering, and someone joshed "get the camera!" He says that it was deliciously embarrassing.

As I mentioned above, and as you could see from michael's selfie, chastity is something he is very much "into". The wife of the couple loves his chastity. The husband is not so keen on doing it himself, so she enjoys michael talking to her about it.

Once he was doing a 9-day lockup, and on the last day he was going crazy. He was working at home that day, and so was she - so he texted her and asked if he could do anything for her - errands, chores - and she said he could pick up a bottle of wine for them, or he could walk the dog, or he could give her a backrub. Being exceptionally subby after being in such extended lock-up, he opted for all three. He also gave her a foot massage and extensive foot worship for the first time that she enjoyed.

The couple had a BDSM party in the offing, and he was starting a lockup. She was going out of town for a bit, and she teased that he should lock up when she left, and unlock when she got back. He immediately suggested she take the key with her out of town. She was unsure, worried about losing it. But he told her it would be on a strong key chain; and the spare key would be with him - locked in a small box with a 4-digit code, that she would set. So she would truly be in charge. This must have intrigued her, because she readily agreed.

So he went over to her place a couple of days later to deliver the key, without unlocking himself; and the idea was that she would return the key in more than a week, making it a 12-day lock-up. While sitting there, he was bold, and asked her permission to stay locked until their party. Three weeks total, 21 days with no orgasm. She could not have been happier. (And her husband really enjoyed watching his wife handle that key!)

michael finds that the hormonal imbalance that chastity brings to be quite enlightening. He tells me that the longer a man goes without an orgasm, the more the dopamine builds up (the "courting" hormone); and that once a man cums, the dopamine bottoms out and the prolactin floods in, making the man surly, tired and generally disinterested in what a woman wants.

When he locks himself up, after about 4 or 5 days, he reports that he starts to really crave to do things for a woman - not sexual things (necessarily) but chores and errands. At 9 and 10 days, his body begins to panic about not cumming, and it is a very volatile time. At that point he says he will do just about anything. After 10 days the body and spirit settle in to a place of low-level and almost routine submission. He becomes a different person.

All of michael's previous experiences had been self-lock-ups. This time it was quite different to be locked and know he didn’t have the key on hand and that he had no way of deciding to give up. He was frequently aware of the cage, and aware of the "permanence" of his imprisonment. The sense of being owned was more than a passing fantasy for him. He hadn’t counted on quite how much it would hit him that he was not the "master of his domain" in any way. During this period he did have several text conversations with his key-holder about Female Supremacy, and the Natural Dominance of a Woman. He shared his growing desire to be "filled up", now that his cock was not doing anything - this desire to have some stimulus somewhere. She pointed out to him that he was becoming "ungendered" - not female but certainly not male anymore, just a receptacle to be filled.

During his lock-up he did (with permission) get to give a mutual friend of theirs a little service - he wanted to learn how to paint a woman’s toenails, so he visited this mutual friend to share some wine and chat while he pampered her feet. He recounts that it was a relief to be able to give someone some attention - that this is what chastity does to a man.

The day of the party came, and he was just getting back from a long weekend, still locked up of course . He got to the party towards the beginning, not early enough to help set up, but was able to do a few things, and help get the kitchen in order. It was a suburban house. Common living room for people to hang out, food in the dining room. But the house was quite outfitted with BDSM devices. Upstairs there was massage, fire and wax play, vac-u-bed and other fun activities. The basement was outfitted with a Saint Andrew’s cross, a "stockade", a makeshift bed, and places to attach chains and cuffs on the ceiling and floor. Plus a hang-out couch and some chairs. A little bit of something for everyone.

The wife and he had a nice moment to themselves in the basement, and she discussed how she wanted to use him that evening. His unlocking was to be as public as possible, as was his "punishment" before he was to release. Also, he was going to be plugged, something for which I had prepared him and that his bumhole craved after so many days of having been completely un-manned by her. All of this was to happen in as public a manner as was possible.

The party started. To an onlooker from outside (up to this point) it looked like a perfectly normal party - nobody was walking around in kink gear, everyone was still in their casual street clothes. They were in the living room with a group of guests when the time came. She told him to stay there while she got "the key". As she came back she also called in everyone from the dining room to come watch as well.

michael's heart pounded as he realized his fate.

In front of this fully clothed audience, she announced that he had been in chastity to her for three whole weeks, and she dangled the key. This was quite amusing to those assembled. He was quite embarrassed by it already, just having it spoken about so openly. He had trouble meeting anyone’s eye - he kept his eyes on her. He could feel everyone’s delight in his being put on display. She made a big deal out of his chastity “accomplishment” and told everyone he would be unlocked and then taken downstairs to be subject to a little rough treatment before being made to cum. On her terms, of course. This got everybody's attention!

She had him strip, fully, in front of everyone. He had been naked at a party before, but usually in a bedroom with few people (apart from his "walk of shame" described earlier). This was like being under a spotlight naked. She unlocked him, and took off the front part of the cage. She told him to take off the rest himself, while everybody watched. He had to squish his penis down and through, and pull his balls through one at a time. Imagine having to do this, fully nude, in front of an audience of mixed men and women, younger and older, all watching you intently. When he was finally free, people applauded (!!!) One of the younger women said "I'm so happy this is my Saturday night!" referring to being able to witness a man in his fifties, fully naked, have his cock cage removed.

Once he was out, everybody knew that the next stage was to be a punishment followed by a forced cumming. For that, they went downstairs, with most of the guests following.

This first order of business was a humiliating ass plugging in front of the crowd. For this he bent over and was made to spread his cheeks. He was then lubed by his hostess wearing a pair of latex gloves, and then had a butt plug inserted deeply into his ass.

She then had him get up on the bed on all fours. He was facing away from the "audience" with his plugged butt towards them.

She used a small strap that says "boy beater" on it that is just the right size for the inside of the thighs and hitting small delicate areas. He was smacked all over, with special attention played to his dangling balls. She smacked his balls right up to his pain threshold. He only used his first-level safe word once (the safe word that means "hang on a sec, that's about all I can take of that" and not the safe word that means "we need to stop everything").

She also had a flogger and a long-handled clothes brush. He felt her moving the bristles of the clothes brush over his cock and balls teasingly. She then whacked him pretty hard with the business side of it. There was also a long leather strap that was padded on one side (thuddy) and flat on the other (sting-y) and he got both sides. The most lethal thing she used was a small hardwood purpleheart paddle that stings like hell (and she knew it). She got him to cry out and moan loudly with that one.

In between paddles she would push hard on the butt plug, and pull on his balls. It was stimulating, and he began "leaking" a little, in front of everybody.

When she was finally done beating him (it lasted a while), she had him turn on his back and took her Hitachi wand. He had never actually had one used on him before. She pressed it on the underside of his cock and just let things build up until he was squirming. She made him beg for his release in front of everybody. He looked her in the eyes as he was given permission and then started to orgasm. This was of course all observed by the crowd, and met by applause. As a final humiliation, he was made to scoop up his own cum and consume it to another round of applause.

After that, the party started for the others and he was privileged to witness many very erotic BDSM scenes play out.

Past midnight people started to leave, and he was the last guest there. With all the goings on, the wife and her husband had not managed to get their own playtime in, and there was a lot to clean up. So, he got as close to his favorite fantasy as he could, telling them to go downstairs and have their play while he cleaned up the kitchen. He could hear sounds coming from the basement as he put food away, washed dishes, wiped down counters and took out trash and recyclables. Even though he was no longer caged and had had his long-awaited orgasm, he was still very gratified to be able to do that for them.

Was that not just a lovely experience for michael? Lucky naughty boy!

28 comments:

  1. It’s still shocking and bizarre to me that you’ve never had David’s dick locked up...a Goddess like you deserves it! The benefits and rewards just explained by this Michael character are only the tip of the iceberg.

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    1. My husband is not really into it like michael is, so therefore not worth pursuing. Besides, I love having his cock readily available to tease and torment!

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  2. I've been to spanking parties as a dom but never full on BDSM parties like this...would love to go as a sub!

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    1. To me it's not as exciting as more "accidental" public exposures, like letting a waitress know he is spanked, but michael's case is the exception that proves the rule!

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  3. "But be careful, they might just get published and your stuffed butt and caged little dick might get shown all over the Internet" How could one sentence be so arousing? You are like an erotic poet.

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    1. Yes, men don't seem to understand the extent to which they are humiliating themselves by sending me this stuff (or maybe they do... :-)

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    2. Indeed. I would understand but still do so of course. Although, despite you stating that you're perfectly fine receiving such pictures unsolicited, I'd still be hesitant to do something like that. I think I've seen too many Dommes on Tumblr complain over the years about the pictures they received in their inboxes.

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    3. Yes, certainly do not apply this to all women on the Internet! Not even sex workers, of course. For my part it does not offend me, and I usually get a giggle out of it. Especially from the boys who seems so proud of their junk. Ha ha!

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  4. Dear Julie,

    I would love to write you about myself, I just don't know your E-Mail address and also am struggling to find it anywhere. Please Help!

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    1. Top right, under "about me", you just need to replace the word "at" with the @ sign and voila!

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  5. Ms Julie we’ve been suggesting for years that you convert David to david and lock him up. All his monkey masturbating is, as you say, making him “surly, tired and generally uninterested in what a woman wants”. Wouldn’t it be nice to have him painting your nails and serving you rather than gaming and watching YouTube videos? Worth a try for a weekend? You know you want to. Mr D

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    1. It's a consensual relationship, so not only about what I want. If it was his kink, I would in a second! But I also like my little monkey...

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  6. This is the first post I recall reading that you don't like body hair. I thought so from your pictures of david. Mrs. Lion keeps me hairless too. By the way, michael's chastitu device is way too long. He might do better in one that fits.

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  7. Thanks, Julie, for publishing my account. Certainly we only see the incidents that you choose to share about you and David -- we don't get to see all the "normal" things that you do as a couple (except maybe seeing opera), and how your relationship goes. Chastity can contribute positives, but it certainly seems to me that you have found your mutual kink and David is pretty submissive when he needs to be (or when you want him to be).

    My cage is perhaps a little long; usually I fill up more of it. It is a custom fit based on several measurements (all taken several times) but I have thought that the length could easily be 1/4 inch less, mmmmmmaybe a half inch. It can be adjusted by the company, but it is an expensive change so I am holding off until I am sure what I want to ask for (and can afford it).

    I don't go to many events and parties, and have only played in front of people within the last year -- and always with the same couple. So I feel safe with them. And in this case the party was invitation only, so nobody was a total stranger (even if I hadn't met them before). It was a "safe" place to be humiliated by someone I wanted to please.

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    1. Based on your picture,you are more like one inch too long in the cage. It looks like a Jail Bird. I have one and have shortened it twice. A good fit would have the head of your penis always touching the end of the cage. Just sayin'

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    2. cagedlion Thanks for that - I've seen your blog and you know a lot about the subject. It's a Queen's Keep. I will keep that in mind when I eventually resize.

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    3. Yes, more satisfying for the woman if there is less room for painless “expansion”. :-)

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  8. You always have the prudence and the professionalism to test out on yourself what you prescribe to your correspondents.
    No doubt that you sat on the washing machine for a single test session of asshole's enlargement.
    However, which method did you prescribed to Mickael ?
    The one with the dildo head duct tape to the agitator or the more feminine one of the suction cup dildo on the cover ?

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    1. I did not try this one, but think it would be fun in my pussy. Will report back!

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  9. You mention Michael is quite hairy and if he was yours he wouldn’t stay that way for long. Would you have him clipped, shaved or waxed? Any general preferences on hair removal for your subby online boys? Thanks for a great blog.

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    1. I think clipped then professionally waxed.

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  10. I agree with you about supposedly "accidental" public exposures being exciting. The time you said "No backtalk or I'll take you across my knee when we get home" in front of a waitress is one of the most memorable posts I have read.
    My partner has spanked me many times, but I found one episode that did not involve an actual spanking extremely exciting. We were going somewhere by train and while we were waiting for the train to arrive we were talking about spanking. My girlfriend clearly found the conversation exciting. When we boarded the train she swatted me on the seat of my pants and after we sat down she said: "It's a pity we are not at home, I'd like to put you over my knee and spank your bare bottom!". The passengers in the neighboring seats must have heard her. At the time I was embarrassed and avoided eye contact with the other passengers. Now I wish I had looked at them to see their reaction. It might have led to an interesting conversation: "Do you really spank him?" - "Oh yes, I use a paddle on his bottom. After a session across my knee he can't down for the next few hours. I think all women should spank their husband or boyfriend."

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    1. I love those little humiliations as well!

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  11. i am sure if you were at party you would had plenty of evil kinky things to do to old poor Michael right Ms Julie i know how u are or can be cruel very crule

    maybe u spanking him hard over your lap in front everyone when he has butt plug deep inside his ass then make him stand in corner bare ass bright red panties in his mouth butt plug still inside of him

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  12. This mistress, central, could have been you or Violet. She looks like the great mistresses of Toronto.
    As long as they attend these munches.
    The story does not have the clarity of the previous epistolary adventures of subbies.
    But for what reason would it be suddenly revealed what has been so far hidden?
    The rest is a matter of scenery and crowd, that is always the crowd, which has fun, makes fun, applauds, likes to humiliate.
    Michael describes precisely the consequences of the durations of "chastity", in any case, they correspond to those which a man can experience when its potentiality of ejaculation is held on a leash by the caprices of the desire of the one who has the power of prohibiting it or allowing it. No need for a real cage for this. The sense of being owned can be articulated on the index of an authorization that will come, or not ....
    The wait is neither male nor female. Has a woman ever really wanted only to be well stuffed? Michael implodes and like a balloon that deflates he needs an injection.
    I love this moment of calm satisfaction when he accomplishes his housework while his gods kiss in the cellar. Like a nice little lapdog.

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    1. Yes... a woman has wanted to be well stuffed...

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  13. Thank You, Miss Julie, the scene with Michael was very exciting and kept me hard all the while I was reading it. And, it also made me want to be in Michael's place as i too am into chastity. Like Michael was before this experience I have only been self locked but the idea of having another person hold onto and control the key is most exciting. I could almost feel the humiliation that Michael went through as the story progressed. Thank You for sharing.

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