Friday, October 8

Husband's New Bum Toy

I did a thing! I ordered a new bum toy for my husband and we have been having a load of fun with it. It's totally remote controlled. Oh, the possibilities!

Lovense Edge 2 Prostate Massager.

This post is going to seem like an advertisement for this product, but it is really good (and I am NOT being paid to promote it!).

Both of david's old prostate massagers are busted. Somehow the charging doesn't seem to work anymore. I think it may be the plug receptacle in the device. I really enjoy shoving something up his bum and vibrating it, and so does he. It helps him to cum extra fast, and he has been known to "leak" (drip precum out his tip) when made to stand in the corner with a prostate massager up his bum, most famously in front of Sue and her two feminist lesbian friends! Here is an excerpt from that episode:

Husband Spanked in front of Feminist Lesbians (part 5)

After our discussion I walk over to david, and you can't imagine what I see! All this Feminism talk has apparently turned him on, and his dick is as big and the head is as engorged as I've ever seen it. Moreover, he is actually leaking out of his tip. Now I have heard about it, but I have never seen it from david before! Not spontaneously like this. This is a first. He is not a spontaneous leaker at all, but today he is. (In retrospect, the prostate massager may have had a big part in it!). There is a sticky strand hanging down an inch or more from his cocktip, and several clear white-tinged drops already on the dark wood floor.

Afterwards, poor david told me what he had gone through. Standing facing the wall, he was already very ashamed, erect, and excited at his treatment. As the plug vibrated in his butt, he felt he had to clench his cheeks hard in order to keep it from popping out onto that carpet behind him. Of course, after a time his muscles could not keep it up and unclenched, but then the plug again risked popping out so he had to re-clench. Over and over again, almost fucking his own ass with his pelvic muscles. His hands were laced at the elbows behind his back and he did not dare move them. As all this was going on, he was also listening to us talk about him and his situation as if he were not there. This mentally turned him on terrifically. As well, the plug was vibrating hard right up against his prostate. So it was the "perfect storm" for leakage, and his penis began its slow leak.

He knew it was doing it, but he was powerless to stop it. He had had a similar (very embarrassing) experience once after a (legit) massage, where he had briefly touched himself and then the pre-cum had started flowing in a way he could not make stop (posted here). This time he did not dare unclench his arms from behind his back to attempt to control it by clamping it, also because he knew from that previous experience that it would only make things worse. He was contemplating calling me over for help, but was legitimately too ashamed to do so. So it just gently leaked as he stood there squirming and terrified at his eventual exposure.

When I saw it, I had to make a quick decision about whether to deal with it discretely, or to make a big deal of it in front of the women. Of course I made a big deal about his leaking penis in front of the women!

 "Oh my gosh! Daniella! Bad girl!"  I get a paper towel and hold it underneath without touching. I make him turn around and face the women, arms still clasped behind his back, panties at his ankles and bra with C-cup level inserts on his chest, still trying hard to keep that plug in with just his pelvic muscles.

"Just look at her leaky little clitty!" I say.

"Oh My God!" said Sue. "Bad Girl!"

Beverly and Joyce said something along the lines of "Oh No!" and sort of laughed at the sight. It was funny. He was soooo embarrassed standing there like that, erect leaky penis on full display with his arms clasped behind him, and it was comically obvious how embarrassed he was. He needed to continue with the clenching as the last thing he needed was for the toy to pop out his backside as well, with the potential mess along with it, so he continued his clenching and unclenching routine in front of us, which made his penis bounce and gently pulse out the pre-cum.

"It's a good thing it dripped on my wood floors instead of my carpet," I scolded him. "After we're done you'll clean that mess up on your hands and knees," I said. I then carefully wiped away the leaking strand from his cocktip, barely touching him, well aware that I could be dealing with a "hair trigger".

This treatment and "scolding" did nothing whatsoever to abate his erection, and the vibrating plug continued to work its magic against his prostate gland, so right there, as we all stared at it, another drop of fluid formed at his tip and began elongating into a strand. He told me later that he had never experienced this before, and he was very afraid he would cum right then and there, without even his cock being touched.

I addressed the women, "so you can clearly see the level of sexual excitement associated with his forced feminization and his humiliation." As I said this I collected the lengthening strand and dabbed again gently at his cocktip. "But this doesn't change the equation," I went on, "the re-programming is every bit as effective, if not more so, when she is in this state of arousal." I watched another drip form and collected it.

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Without any delay that would admit an awkward moment, I picked him up by his ear, and started leading him out of the bedroom and down the stairs. He yelped at the ear tug, scrambling hastily to his feet and following me awkwardly down the stairs. The ladies followed. When we were back in the living room I forced him down onto his knees at the spot he was standing earlier. I bent over and looked down. There were still three prominent drops of pre-cum easily seen on the dark hardwood floor. "Lick it up!" I said, pointing to his mess. "I'll tell you when to stop," I added.

He bent over and licked it all up, dirty floor and everything.

When I was satisfied I bent down to grab him by the ear again. I pulled him up and walked him over to the living room corner. I gently but firmly pushed him into the corner, saying, "tits and nose touching the two walls. If you move you get a strapping. You don't come out until I say so." He had lost his panties upstairs, but he still had his bra on.

"Ladies," I addressed my guests, "shall we go onto the patio for a glass of wine?"

Ah, memories. So you can see how unacceptable it is for us to be without his Prostate Massager!

I did a bit of research and decided I would buy him the Lovense Edge 2 Prostate Massager. It was well-reviewed and had a lot of great features.

It's not massively large, but he definitely feels it in there.

The vertical shaft part goes into his bum. The top bulge on the shaft is designed to hit his prostate. The bottom bulge on the shaft is designed to stimulate his anus. The bulge on the end of the horizontal part stimulates his perineum. A triple threat!

There are two electric motors in the device, one in each arm. According to the manufacturer the motors are the most powerful in their class, while still being relatively silent. david and I can vouch for that!

Here are some of the features.


The angle between the two shafts is bendable metal, so you can adjust it to hit him just right with a little trial and error. I like the upgraded battery and the magnetic charging port, as our other units had troubles both with their battery and with the charging port.

But in addition to all this goodness, the big feature is that it's entirely remote controlled from an iPhone app!

You load the app on the phone he carries with him, or on my iPad. It connects totally seamlessly using bluetooth. And, if he is remote and has his phone with him and connected, then I can go to the app on my iPad and control his bum toy remotely. So many possibilities!

To fire it up, you press the button on the end of the toy until the red light blinks. Then you open up the app on your ipad or whatever and "connect".

I was able to name the Edge 2 "david's bum toy". Ha ha! You can see it's battery status and how well you are connected to it.

Once connected, on the main screen you have a bunch of options to control it.

On the "Remote" tab you can directly control (independently) each of the two motors:

You can put a finger on each bubble and drag them both up and down to create waves or just leave it at a certain setting. You can also record the patterns you make for playback later and for sharing with the community.

I stripped him, lubed him, and put the bum toy into his bottom. We adjusted the toy to be at a more acute angle which helped hit his prostate better. We found that if he is standing with the bum toy in, or walking around, it was not possible for him to keep it in. The more he clenched the more it popped out. His old prostate massager was better this way.

I'm nothing if not resourceful. I got a stretchy fabric belt out.

Then I wrapped it around him and tightened it down. That kept it firmly in place.

As I stood him in timeout with his shirt off, his hands on his head, and his pants at his ankles, trussed up like that, I sat on the bed and gleefully played with the two powerful motors in his bum toy and watched his squirming reactions! I thought it would be better if his balls were more in contact with the outside arm of his bum toy, so I "humbled" him in the usual way and then continued playing with my toy. I took a bunch of photos of him squirming and made an animated gif for you. Ha ha!

He was not actually squirming as violently as the gif indicates, but this is more amusing than his "slow grind". With his genitals humbled like this, his balls are pushed right against the vibrating external arm (which also presses against his perineum). And then his cock pushes up against his balls, so it gets a bit of secondary vibrations as well. I was playing with the controls, keeping it low then suddenly maxing it! Trying fast waves, slow waves, all sorts of stuff like that.

On the "Patterns" tab is where you can replay previously stored patterns, or find new contributed ones. I donwloaded a bunch specially for david:


"squirt for Daddy" is my favourite so far. Thank you daddydom81. As I was playing it for him, I kept reminding him what it was called, and what he must do for me: "C'mon baby, squirt for Daddy..."

On the "Music" tab you can play songs and have the vibe go in rhythm with it. I chose Britney's (my favourite) "Work Bitch" to give david's bumhole a good workout.

After his squirming timeout, I did a lot of experimentation with the bum toy with david naked and lying face up on the bed beside me. I finally let him stroke himself off to "squirt for Daddy", but making him ask "may I please squirt, Daddy?!?" just as he was on the brink. I granted him permission. Of course he had to eat it after he came.

The motors are indeed pretty quiet. If it was a louder restaurant or bar they would go unnoticed even at full strength. I can't wait to take him on a "field trip"!

 

62 comments:

  1. We’ve got something similar. Fun stuff. Especially when trying to order at a restaurant.

    Somebody needs to invent a butt plug that doesn’t slip out.

    Rosco

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    1. A firm control long-leg pantie girdle works for me. I bought a vintage one from Ebay but Rago still makes them. If it has a split-crotch, it is easy to sew it shut.

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  2. WC here

    I wouldn’t have let him cum:)

    Otherwise good job!!!!!

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    1. WC here

      The proper response should have been

      NO!

      Your real Daddy’s is coming over tomorrow

      To spank you personally

      Bare naked

      He personally told my that I am not allowed to let you cum…

      Sorry:)

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    2. That would have been fun.

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    3. He Just ate his cum, I think it's a big punishment already!

      Good idea Julie, a remote butt vibe seems very good! I would likes to try! I suggested It to my wife, she's not so much interested what a pity!

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  3. Miss Julie, you have taken femdom cruelty to its height. He is very lucky that you have this imagination to think of these sorts of things. I could just imagine how I would feel in that situation I'm sure it would be beyond anything I could take.

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    1. What, my little field trip I am planing?

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    2. Oh my. I better prepare for your visit. I guess I'll find out if I can really take it or not.

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    3. I guess if you're coming on a field trip to see me I better be prepared. I guess you can take more than you think I would find out if you showed up at my door

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    4. I meant if you thought my planned field trip fro DAVID was cruel.

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  4. LOL U go girl 👍

    Make him dance 😂

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  5. I like the touch of making him call you Daddy like the little buttslut he is.

    Maybe after his buttstuffed field trip he can return the favor and buy a remote toy for your puss. Then a mutual plugged switchy field trip tormenting each other. First to cum gets a good spanking and must submit to the winner's sexual desires.

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    1. Yes. If it's from the same company you can apparently synchronize them!

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  6. Oh wow, that's hot. Can you imagine how deliciously naughty it would be to take him out with the plug in, for a surprise panty shopping trip?
    I bet it'd be awfully sexy to see him squirming around, trying to hide his excitement from the cute salesgirl showing him the panties.

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  7. Need this! (And a way to buy it without wife seeing the charge…and someone to control it…) I’m imagining being sent on a “shopping trip” with this being played with by a remote mistress. DLC david

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    1. Go ahead and order it and ask wifey to play.

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    2. You know me and you know that will never happen!

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    3. But if I do figure it out, you’ll get some good video to enjoy and share.

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  8. I’m guessing a nice tightly taped up diaper would hold things in place pretty well. Also having the added bonus of protecting against any spontaneous “squirting” he might do! Maybe add it to the list for the field trip!

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  9. I am sure if you'd offer you could even keep a friend list of other subs that have the app to control along with david. One fun thing that i heard from couples and others who use the app is to make a point of having to use it during a sporting match and assign a song when a certain team scores a goal etc. with sues new gf I bet you could even arrange a little dinner date inside and a little dancing. though i'd say if david spontaneously combusts again he should be subjected another humiliating round of diaper play. Its been a while for that

    Emily

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  10. “Locktober”…and the new remote toy?

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  11. I have the perfect song for the music sync setting.

    New Order - Blue Monday
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FYH8DsU2WCk

    Plenty of rapid rhythmic beats. You should go for it!

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  12. You should rename the device, if you think about how blue tooth works, people not in the scene will be able to see it on their phones whenever it;s in range, this includes children, your neighbors your neighbors children, law enforcement, etc etc, You see your neighbors wifi fron your computer at home right? And you see other bluetooth devices from your car right?

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    1. They thought of that. It's only the name in the app, not the innocuous name you connect to.

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  13. I think your fingers or even toes are better than this toy.

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  14. Julie is David an enthusiastic cum eater?

    My own experience is my desire diminishes as soon as I’ve shot my load.

    Of course my wife still make me eat it, and I suffer dire consequences if I resist.

    Just wondering if you find the same reticence?

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    1. No. Not at all enthusiastic. He's like you. After he's cum he hates it! But... he's required to. What good for the goose...

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  15. He is still as effeminate in the way he wiggles his butt. But this charming asset is less round than in the past. Probably not enough paddlings recently.

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    1. Yes. I agree. He needs more butt exercises. He's getting older and so needs to work harder!

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  16. You bring a whole new meaning to remote CONTROL Julie!

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  17. Take him for a sporty excursion.
    Make him wear very short shorts and panties, a bit too wide for him to worry about them falling out to his knees.
    Make him use his left hand to hold the shorts at the back and to keep his new bum toy deep in his ass and to be sure that it doesn't slip out.

    I advise you to do a test it when you go shopping for example, to see what effect it has. Without the "thing" in your ass of course. Place your left hand opened on your lower buttocks and anus area. You'll see, you'll feel like you've pooped in your panties, like when you were a little girl, do you remember?

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    1. I never pooped in my pants, even as a little girl!
      I think I'd prefer a harness that keeps it in deep and makes it hard for him to walk.

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  18. There's something exceptionally humiliating about buying a toy like this for your husband. It looks like you are having more fun than he is with it.

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    1. I think we're both having fun... but I am having a LOT of fun, I admit.

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  19. julie,

    i have the same one and it takes some getting use to in order not to have it slip out. a high and tight wedgie is just the ticket for keeping it in.

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    1. Yes, I thought of that. Need some way to ensure the wedgie stays tight unassisted. Maybe a chapstick twirled around, front and back?

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    2. take your bathrobe rope out. tie the balls in front. pull rope over shoulder and through the leg holes of the panties in back and synch tightly. viola... or get him some huge over sized granny panties (silk or cotton... silk hurts more...and put his arms through the leg holes and pull up over his shoulders. looks like a onesy female bathing suit. embarrassing, humiliating and sure to make you laugh which will get him pitching a tent through those silky panties and guaranteed to make a pre cum stain. have him stand in the corner while you have a glass of wine on the bed watching a girlie show.

      love u.

      sgirard

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    3. Thank you! Great suggestions!

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  20. Julie, I have 2 lovense toys, the large hush and the domi 2. The hush is a vibrating plug and the domi is a vibrating wand. I've never manage to achieve the level of excitement with the hush as David did with the edge. I have managed orgasms in my chastity cage when permitted by my keyholder. Yes, I am locked in a small chastity cage.
    I also enjoy being spanked, although not with the intensity that you enjoy.

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    1. I think I need the hush for the public play! "Neck was carefully designed and tested to ensure it STAYS PUT during use". Do you have the 1.5" or the 1.75"?

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  21. Did you watch Dave Chappelle's The Closer? Absolutely brilliant special.

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    1. Yes, saw it. It was ok funny. Not Seinfeld funny. Could not at all see what the controversy was about. If anything, he bent over too far backwards to appease the LGBTQ2+. But it had its moments, for sure.

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  22. How did he manage to LOSE HIS BRA ??
    I would never allow this of my husband.
    If he is getting penetrated (by toy or strapon) he is wearing one of HIS bras.

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    1. No, it was his panties he lost, not his bra. I agree with you,

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  23. I just started googling my name for lovense toys and came about this post, So just wanna say thank you for your comment on my pattern it was nice to hey a shout out! Yes I am the real daddydom81 on lovense!

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    1. Wow! A celebrity indeed!

      We've used that pattern many times by now, on both of us. It's not only a great pattern (nice and long, lots of variety, exciting build up), but it's also named so perfectly.

      I've used it solo on myself and pull up your pattern. I imagined it was literally you standing there at the controls, exhorting me to "squirt for Daddy", even though I don't know you at all, or know what you look like. The fact that your mind came up with that is all I need to feel utterly dominated by you. I'm not a squirter, but so wish I was! To please you, Daddy (I do cum very hard for you, though).

      Thank you so much!

      Will you write me at strictjulie at gmail dot com. I'd love to do a feature post with a bit of an anonymous biography of you. Like, what are you into to? Girls and boys too? Gay, straight, bi? Are you a Dom? How did you create it? Was there a partner involved? Did you perfect it on yourself? So many questions!

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