Wednesday, October 27

Masturbate to Femdom for Me

I always have fun with things my readers send me. This week I received a lovely link to a video on xhamster that features a poor boy being made to fuck a grapefruit! Ha ha! He was just let out of extended chastity and his wife decided that, for a bit of variety, she would make him fuck a cored-out grapefruit.

Femdom Grapefruit Denial

She put it on his dick and gave him a one minute time limit to ejaculate. He tried soooo hard...

But it just wasn't enough time, and he had to be locked away again without cumming at all. Boo hoo.

This sort of thing puts me in a very dommy mood. I can easily see myself doing this to my man, any man. The idea that men would do anything to cum is certainly spot on. Even to the extent of completely humiliating themselves like this.

Of course, I went down the rabbit hole a bit more to find other videos that might amuse me, and that might arouse some of you more submissive "men" out there.

 

Here's one where a "man" is being forced to fuck a blowup doll while his woman encourages him with thestick.

Humiliating slave with his rubber girlfriend

Again. absolutely hilarious. You want to cum so much? Cum this way!

 

In this one the "man" has his ass towards us and his cock and balls pulled out back behind his legs. She has put him in stay-up stockings. She is applying a vibrator to his cock shaft and collecting the "leakage" into his doggy bowl that he will eat from next.

from Cum Shot Compilation 2020

Once he is done, she slaps out the remnants until he slaps dry.


I wonder if any woman would be at all squeamish doing something like this to her "man"? I certainly would not be. I would enjoy it immensely.


In this next one he's kept in chastity and is being milked via only anal.

Wife cages his cock and milks his prostate

There is not much quantity, but he should be made to swallow it all anyways. I have not tried this on my husband yet. I definitely will.


Here's another chastity one. It is bedtime and he is due for an unlocking. His wife asks him if he wants to be unlocked and he responds with a pretty surly/bitchy "yes", as if he was impatient for it.

Bedtime

So, she unlocks him.

But because he was surly in his reply she teases him, leaves his cage on, and makes him beg her to be locked for another 5 days. If he doesn't, it will be longer. He winds up begging her, with a compressed dick and painful blue balls.

Too bad, so sad!

I have had online subs who I've kept locked up for weeks at a time.  They put a little security seal on the lock and send me a daily photo. I must confess, sometimes I forget about them completely for a while, and then later just pretend I was being mean to them. When I let them cum, they make a little movie for me, and eat it, always.

My husband is not into this beyond a bit of roleplay, but if he was, I would be a cruel Mistress indeed! As long as his tongue is free, what do I care?


Here's a girl who has a good pee before going to fetch her slave.

Utter Humiliation

She brings him over, ties him to the toilet, and makes him lap up her peed-in toilet water.


Yes he fucking deserves it.

She graciously allows him to put his dick between the bowl and her stiletto heel and get himself off,


After he cums in her toilet water, she makes him lick up every last trace of his disgusting cum.

Whether it's on the bowl or floating around her pee water.

That's sexy!

 

Here a "man" in chastity is being humiliated  by three girls. I imagine his CEO wife has asked a few girls from the secretarial pool to pop by her house and let him out to have a cummy. They strip him, and strip down themselves to their underwear to "encourage" him, and then unlock him (temporarily!)

These girls are used to being fucked by real men. They find his tiny locked up dick to be hilarious! They love that their ball-busting CEO keeps her man locked up like this. They put him on his knees and laugh and laugh and laugh as he jerks his tiny dick. He is so fucking pathetic!

The decide to put him on his back with his legs up so that he can cum into his own face.


He finally achieves orgasm, getting most of it into his mouth. But, disgustingly, he misses with a few of his spurties and they make him lick it up off the floor and swallow it all down.

After that, its back into his cock cage while they go off to the club to find some real men to fuck them.


In this one, the wife is annoyed that her husband is taking so long in the shower. Losing her patience she storms in on him and is disgusted to see him fondling himself instead of getting on with it. She hauls him out of the bathroom and into the dressing room.

Miss Lina - Do I have to go?

He's like a little boy, caught red-handed by Mummy. He'll soon be red-bottomed too.

He'll now have to dress and go to a very extended dinner sitting on that red rump.

This is the sort of role I LOVE playing with my husband - the strict wife!

 

And finally, a slightly more extended one from The English Mansion Clips Store. His wife met some new friends at the country club. They got to discussing, what else, their husbands' poor behavior. She brazenly told her new friends that she's nipped her husband's behavioral problems in the bud by means of domestic discipline. She asked if they wanted a demonstration? Oh yes! She invites her friends over for tea and has her husband serve.

Humiliated in Front of Wife's Friends

He is already grumpy that he is being asked to serve, and in his apron to boot in front of these two women. His wife insisted on his serving, and on his attire, and one more word and he would be made an example of in front of them.

The friends are very attractive. "Trophy wives" to their asshole "alpha male" husbands who constantly diminish them. They are delighted to gradually have their eyes opened to a different type of husband and a different type of relationship.

In my real-life, I would say a good 50% of women would accept an invitation from a wife to see a husband domestically dominated, provided they perceive it as a safe and empowering environment for themselves. And then once accepted, they tend to go way further than you would expect! They laugh at him, they tease him, they have fun with it, they enjoy seeing him stripped and humiliated, they enjoy seeing him even quite harshly beaten on his bum, and they are eager to take their turns. Women readers, would you agree?

There is no excuse needed, the coffees are cold, and his subtle surliness continues during serving. He will be made an example of.


His wife scolds him, tells him he acts like a baby, and makes him put his thumb in his mouth and suck on it as the two guests howl in laughter at his blushing humiliation at the hands of his strict wife.

I like the thumb-sucking touch. A nice way to dominate and humiliate him in front of other women. I am taking notes!

She sends him over to bend over the arm of the couch and present his bottom.

Imagine his embarrassment realizing he will have to humiliate himself like this.

I like the gradual, incremental nature of his humiliation. First the apron and the serving, then the scolding, then the thumb in the mouth. now bending over with his ass up.

His wife tells him the he'll be spanked in front of her new friends and proceeds to swat his clothed backside.

After ten smacks she tells him to stand up and to lower his trousers. He stands but then is so reluctant to do so. He's begging her with his eyes not to.

I actually find this realistic. It's like spanking that way. You may really want and crave a spanking, but when it comes time to get hit on your ass, you don't want it in the moment. Same thing with humiliation. He may want it and crave it, but when it comes time to actually do it, in front of a couple of strange women, it is natural for him to hesitate.

His wife seems to relish his little act of defiance. She seems eager to "show off" in front of her new friends. She stands square up to him. Puts her hands on his shoulders, and then knees him in the balls!

The friends laugh, of course, as he doubles over in pain.

It's generally true that women find men hurt in their balls very funny, for some reason. I have never kneed or kicked my husband in the balls, but I know he has suffered this during his martial arts training and survived just fine afterwards. Maybe I should add a mild version of this to my game, especially in a context like this?

She takes matters into her own hands and begins to lower his pants herself.

There we go!


The ladies point out how embarrassed he must be, standing there in his underpants like that. His wife tells him to get back over the arm of the couch.

They take note of his completely smooth shaven legs. His wife says she keeps him that way to emasculate him. One of the ladies asks permission to feel, which is immediately granted by the wife. It's so smooth! The result of diligent lotioning, his wife tells her.

His wife pulls his little pants up higher and smacks him on his bare low bum cheeks.

Again, a very realistic touch, to those of us who play this way, converting "vanillas", to introduce them in small measures to increased humiliation, spanking, and nudity. The next step always seems small and natural. At this point, you can well imagine those women want to see his underwear pulled down.

The cold coffees impacted their guests as well. The wife asks if they would like an opportunity to punish him as well for their cold coffees. They both eagerly agreed.

Once again, entirely realistic. At this point, even vanilla women are just itching to smack a little man ass.

He is told by his wife that he will now be spanked by their two guests.

He is told to kneel down in front of them. He does as he is told and they inspect his underpants-clad bum making disparaging comments regarding his masculinity, or rather, the lack of it.

The ladies decide to strip him of the jeans that were around his ankles (which are then confiscated by his wife) and direct him to kneel up onto the sofa between them.

Once there, they are the ones that suggest his underpants should be lowered. They ask his wife and she agrees to the underpants lowering, which they then eagerly carry out.


How embarrassed he is. His wife encourages the ladies not to be shy and to give his a good smacking!

If you're a man, can you imagine how embarrassing this would be for you if this actually played out like that? There you are, bent over with a bare bottom in a position more traditionally associated with female sexual submission. Then you're being spanked as if you're a child, and worse still, you're crying out at the spanks like a baby. These strange ladies are seeing you at your most vulnerable. I've had my husband in similar situations on multiple occasions, and I love the associated power rush, being Mistress of Ceremonies.

They both give him a resounding spanking, very considerably reddening his cheeks in the process.

Again, realistic. Some of the fiercest spanks came from girls completely new to spanking in my experience. I sometimes cringed a bit, but if I didn't think it was dangerous, and since david didn't safeword out, I allowed it to go on.

Doesn't it look like he has red panties on already?

After some more scolding, he's sent by his wife to stand in the corner.

The lady nearest him spontaneously arranges his shirttail and apron to provide an unobstructed view of his bottom.


Given his earlier lack of obedience, his wife decides to test his obedience by requiring him to spread his bottom cheeks. He does somewhat, but it is not good enough and he is told to really pull them apart for them. The girls all laugh at his humiliating display.

His hole is completely on display! His wife impatiently pulls his underpants down to the floor as he bastes in his humiliation as all three ladies intimately examine his exposed anus while laughing and teasing him mercilessly.

You boys reading this, I want you to imagine yourselves in exactly his position, because it's just what you deserve!

His wife slaps at his thighs and makes him wiggle for them as if he was a girl receiving anal intercourse up her bum.


His wife then gets him out of the corner and makes him undress in front of her friends.

They laugh as his completely shaven hairless abdomen, testicles, and penis are revealed to them. His penis is puffy and red, a little engorged from his humiliations. Once he is naked, they make him do a few turns for them.

His body is not in good shape, and his penis looks absolutely ridiculous, red and semi-chubby as it is. How shamed he is.

But his shaming is not yet complete. His wife pulls out his completely humiliating red panties and the ladies laugh uproariously that he will be made to wear them.

"It's the red panties. the dreaded red panties, isn't it? go on, put them on!" his wife says. He is very slow to take them and put them on. Becoming impatient, his wife tells him to lie with his back on the floor and to lift his legs.


She puts his red panties onto him as if it were a diapering. As she does so she tells the ladies that this is panty punishment for him, that he absolutely hates his red panties, yet he'll be required to wear them for quite some time.

Along with his panties they put him in his garter belt and black stockings.

His wife wedgies his panties and hands the ladies some spanking implements: a swatter, a spatula, and a wooden ruler. She then pulls down the front of his panties and extracts his penis from them with long kitchen tongs, holding it there outstretched as he is swatted.

She then attaches clothespins to his nipples and shaft, has him turn to the ladies and hands off the tongs, which one of them holds as they both attempt to smack the clothespins off, having a merry old time doing it.

Of course, in the process his penis gets well-smacked. After the clothespins are all off the lady in the white blouse gives him a bit of a wank with the tongs which leaves him quite humiliatingly erect, and with no "relief" in sight.

Next he is made to clean up in just his stockings and panty, his bare beaten bum still on display from his wedged-up panties, not even allowed to put his penis away at all, but having it bare and dangling vulnerably in front of his wife and her two new friends. The implication is clear: if he is not sufficiently obedient, the tongs and rulers may have to come out again to give his penis another, even more severe, smacking.

After he comes back, his wife makes him get down on his hands and knees in front of her and shows him the dreaded hairbrush.

He's to be spanked once more before she's done with him. This time severely, with the hairbrush.

She has him lie face down on the coffee table with his hands on his head. The ladies volunteer to hold him down during his beating, an offer graciously accepted.


One of them sits so his head is clamped between her thighs as the other prepares to sit on his back.

His wife teases him, "that's quite a thrill for you, isn't it? But that's as close as you're ever getting."

The lady in the white blouse sits on his back and tugs up hard on his panties to bare his cheeks while, for the finale, his wife uses the hairbrush on him to excellent effect.

What a scene! I love playing out things like that with my husband. We did it just the other day with a "demonstration" for Sue's new significant other (David Spanked in Front of New Girl), and that had many similarities to this scene.

There's something just so much fun about it for all the women involved (and the 'fella too!).

If you enjoy the pictures and scenarios, please buy something from The English Mansion Clips Store or English Mansion web site to encourage them to even greater efforts!

 

Now for your "homework", boys. Look at the photos. Watch the video. read my descriptions. Then I want you to masturbate specifically to this scene (if you are unlocked and/or allowed). Let us know in the comments how you came, to what thought, text, and/or image. And, of course, I expect 100% compliance with my little rule (you know what it is!)

Julie

70 comments:

  1. Strict Wife is not role playing in our home. I've been caught masturbating, and that bath brush insures sitting is not possible. My wife has decided not always to go out to dinner after such a spanking. She enjoys seeing me squirm, and if a female waitress she knows. Just part of the punishment. Jack

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    1. It's nice that she's so strict with you and trusting that you are consenting all the way.

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  2. Ive seen that grapefruit video before. I love that! This may sound strange but what turns me on even more than the video is her voice. I usually get turned on by hearing a dominant woman's voice, when she is the one filming, if that makes sense. Like her voice when its a POV scene haha. Here is an example

    https://xhamster.com/videos/strapon-in-dudes-pussy-1067497

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    1. Yes, I like the audio too. In your video, that poor guy! Anyone who's been fucked in the ass knows that it can be tough to take, especially that long, deep, hard, thick. With me, mercifully, David uses his real cock, which I think is easier to take than a dildo of the same size, and he cums before too long. With a woman giving a pegging, she can go and go and go, like the Energizer Bunny!

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  3. My mistress has been known to make me kneel with legs spread to be kicked in the testicles. Kicks with the flat top of her foot is not too damaging, but certainly leaves them very tender! David needs this!

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  4. I do have a scenario that I do very much enjoy when Dominating my male partners that they "hate" oh so very much. You see, men are oh so very macho and opinionated and it takes a lot to break them down, even the ones who want to be broken down! Talk about wearing out my paddle on their ass, much less my hand well before some even begin to be truly remorseful.

    You know when that veeeery quickly changes? When I have their balls in my hand. Boy oh boy are they meek and compliant then! Even if ballbusting is a limit, and I've agreed not to hurt my submissive there, just by my holding their balls they completely change! Complete obedience, very attentive to every word I speak, I love it! I try to incorporate it into all of my scenes with my male subs.

    Men and their precious little balls. So much fun!

    -Kasey

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    1. Agree TOTALLY! A firm grasp of their testicles have them doing anything you want (and answering in a nice high voice!)

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    2. I just love how meek they become! So much thought and emphasis is put into the penis, and how their whole world revolves around their penis... which is partially true... but a penis in my hand? The bratty boys will still be very, well, boyish, still. Their little balls, held in my ever so soft palms? A tiny little squeeze to let them know I'm there? Complete 180. They cant listen to my orders closely enough, they're the most obedient little boys in the world.

      So, from experience, I'd say their world revolves around their balls! And boy is their change of character comical. I reckon I could setup some sort of show and charge good money to show other women just how much males change when their balls are on the line!

      -Kasey

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    3. I've definitely observed that as well. One of the chapters of my first book, Chapter 10, describes a fictional encounter of a man being "trained" via a good hand-on-ball by his neighbour (played by me), in front of his wife and two grown nieces. the fiction was very much informed by my husband's reaction when I grab his testicles like that. So true.

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    4. Due to all this Femdom talk, it has gotten me to wondering whether my experience is unique or whether it is shared. You know how, with Dominance and submission, even if there is no targeted age-play, it's still there in the background. Especially with spanking and domestic play, less so with other BDSM activities such as Shibari or, idk, blood play.

      So, what I've noticed is that with my male play partners they tend to regress a lot more than my female play partners. They very much want to be taken in hand and treated like a naughty little boy again, and to the best of my ability to interpret their signals to me, I get the feeling that it's probably around the ages of 7-9. Maybe a tiny bit older. My female partners who submit also regress, but only to that almost sassy teenager level. 14-15-16. Desperately wanting the attention of the adults in her life, even if it means in the most humiliating or painful ways possible.

      Is this something you've noticed too? Or is it unique to me and my situation with my partners?

      -Kasey

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    5. Hi Kasey - this one got caught in the Spam folder :-( grrrr.

      Certainly when I regress it's to that 14-16 range, absolutely. And yes, both from my experience with david and other online subs, i would say boys regress to that younger age before they needed to start "being men" (ha ha).

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    6. And, btw, I love "mothering" david. I even love embarrassing the 8-year-old after his spanking by making him take Mummy's breast...

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    7. No worries at all! Especially considering your other shenanigans at the time. And right? It's so fascinating to me. I'm so glad I'm not alone in my experiences and my understanding of my male subs.

      Also, I'm sure after the fact, David knows that just like any other little boy to grow up good and strong he needs booby time. You're a strong Mummy who doesn't care what others think, your boy needs his booby time and he will get it!

      -Kasey

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    8. Just a few comments:

      One, I never thought of it like that, but you're right. Every time I get spanked I imagine it like I'm around 8-9 years old. Not that I try to pretend I'm actually that young, but that's how I want to be treated.

      Two, any women holding my balls in her hand has my COMPLETE attention, lol.

      And three (and most important), ball-busting is fine...until it's not. It's not my kink, but my son used to nail me (accidentally, of course) with some regularity when he was really young. It would hurt, and then I'd get better. But one time he really caught me...and it didn't get better. It healed up some, but my left nut now is about ten times more sensitive than my right one (which is normal), and even just riding a bicycle hurts if I go over a bump. It's been over five years now, so I have to think it's a permanent injury.

      I love the idea of having a woman grab my sac and *threaten* to do horrible things to it, and that would get instant compliance, but actually having it happen? Nope. Not knowing what I know now.

      So I would advise against anything other than very light taps or finger-flicks to the balls (which, let's face it, are enough to get your point across anyway). Everything will seem fine...until the day it isn't, but by then it will be too late.

      Hopes this saves some people some pain (of the wrong kind),

      Anonymous C

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  5. Thank you Miss Julie for your treats. I am a young male. I went carefully through your post, rubbing my penis as I went, edging, and focussed in on your final scenario, with the wife and her friends. The image I ejaculated to was the one where the blonde in the white blouse was holding the tip of his dick with the tongs as she and the other woman slapped the clothespins away. I closed my eyes and imagined myself in his position. I tugged up on the end of my cock as if it was being held like that and slapped it, then went back to rubbing using my own spit as lubrication. I imagined the three women laughing at me. I came very hard, with multiple spurts. When I was done I cleaned myself with my fingers and put it all into my mouth. I got up my knees and imagined you looking down on me and laughing as I showed you what was in my mouth. I swallowed it. I had spurted a little on the floor, and got on my hands and knees and licked it up like the guy in the mask earlier in your post. I am really ashamed of what I did but I hope it makes you happy to read this.
    -matty

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    1. Hi matty, are you new here? Welcome! I hope you are of legal age... It feels nice to be ashamed in a sexualized context. I get off on it myself. But if you feel ashamed and down on yourself because of it, please don't!!!! Literally everybody has their little "secret lives" that we don't see. What's important is to integrate it all into a healthy productive whole, not fight against it. That's what my husband and I have always strived for. Freaks and proud of it!

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  6. It does sound fun to dominate a guy like that. If I was asked by another woman to watch her do it to her husband or boyfriend, I'd agree for sure.
    Jordan (the girl kind)

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    1. Hi girl Jordan. Drop me an email! (address in About Me top right). Maybe I can make your wish come true?

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    2. Haha! Girl Jordan should have known our Julie here never shies away from a challenge. Poor David... given just how much Girl Jordan has already seen on this website (provided she's given it a bit of a read) it's going to take a truly, truly horrifically humiliating and embarrassing session to expose her to anything new... maybe that's just what the doctor ordered? A next level humbling for dear David? ;)

      -Kasey

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    3. Don't scare her off, Kasey! ;-)

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    4. Not scared, but really far away from you. Is it ok if I send you an email anyways? I could use some advice if that's ok?
      Girl Jordan

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  7. The last one definitely works for me and is pretty similar to the role play that Irene and I engage in frequently, with her playing all the female parts.

    A couple of slight differences. Often I’ve already been put in the red or pink panties before the other women are invited in. Sometimes I’m already tied up and otherwise naked. Other times, Irene will announce I’m wearing girly panties, another woman will express doubt and I’ll be pantsed. It’s always interesting to see which of the newbies will spank the hardest.

    Oh and Irene loves to knee me in the balls. It’s oddly stimulating within reason, unlike an errant blow with the riding crop.

    I’m truly sorry, but Irene does not allow me to masturbate, she requires I save all my cum for her.

    Thanks for sharing. Where can I find the last video, please?

    Rosco

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    1. Hi rosco, I provided a link in the caption of the first photo. Or you can google the title from that caption and find it that way.

      Yes, playing variations on a theme is great fun. Sort of like vanilla sex. The sex acts are basically relatively few, but with a little imagination...

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    2. Irene and I watched the first two episodes. We kind of like it, but our sexuality is based on my disobedience. The woman in the video call her husband pathetic and worthless, which is not our thing and a bit hard to ignore. (The lady also says “pathetic” over and over - she needs a thesaurus.)

      Sorry to be fussy. I’d like to see the rest where the real punishment takes place, but m afraid it won’t really be appealing.

      Rosco

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    3. I agree - I don't like that sort of dialog myself. I guess that's why I make up my own scenarios in my head (which I described here) as I watch!

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  8. I believe its from the english mansion.Steve

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    1. Thanks steve! Found it based on that and edited the post to properly direct and attribute.

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  9. You've been a busy girl! I like the grapefruit video. It looks like healthy vitamin-C fun! I watched the anal orgasm video. Interesting. I don't think he was just expressing prostate fluid. It is too milky. Interesting,nonetheless.

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    1. Perhaps Mrs. Lion can buy a grapefruit for you?

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  10. Haha poor guy... I bet she made him eat the grapefruit after ;D
    Is it me or is there a lot more chastity in femdom these days? I'm not complaining... the devices themselves don't do it for me, but the thought of all those desperate young men doing increasingly degrading things to earn their monthly cum certainly does!

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    1. My husband feels the same. He does not get off on being locked for extended periods, but he likes to incorporate brief stints and the threat of more into our play (as do I).

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  11. I had a similar experience on my 42nd birthday. I got spanked on my bare ass from my ex-girlfriend (she wasn't an ex-girlfriend then) and her three girlfriends. It was very embarrassing. By the end of the evening I was completely naked and my cock was sticking out. The girls laughed and commented on it. Then I was kneeling in the corner with my buttocks and balls exposed. It was an absolutely amazing experience. I apologize for my poor English (maybe it is a reason to be punished, to improve it a bit?).
    Best regards
    Ralf

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    1. Very cool, ralf! What a nice birthday gift. What were the friends' experiences with spanking/domination/BDSM. Were they new to it and wound up eager to see and participate? Or were they old hands?

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    2. One of them was our friend with experience in bdsm. The other one was her friend, also a bit experienced, but I met her for the first time that evening (what a shame!). The third girl was our vanilla friend, but very curious. after all, she was the one who spanked my ass the hardest. She was also the first to catch my balls and play with them. All three girls were happy and satisfied;) For me it was an evening of real shame :)

      Ralf

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    3. I told you! It's always the new "vanilla" girl who most goes to town! Ha ha!
      Amazing experience!

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    4. This is exactly what it is. I remember meeting her for coffee a few days later and her ironic smile ;)

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  12. The last one seems to be a great. Can't wait to watch it with sound and in the absence of the wife ... i.e. when she leaves home later today.

    Yes, I am one of those who are secretly submissive with a vanilla wife showing no inclination towards anything like it.

    It's hard to find a balanced video on this subject. It either goes too far too quickly, the dialog and/or setting is too 'porny' .. or something else that puts me off. This video seems like it's the right balance of submissive and humiliating things the guy 'is made to do' and him obviously enjoying them.

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  13. Oh what delicious?! homework. I found your description of the video more engaging than the video itself (although I enjoyed the video too). On the whole, I found the building humiliation to be the best part and the scene that sent me over the edge was when he's on all 4s, wearing his panties and she takes out the hairbrush and shows it to him. I have to admit to violating the little rule in the past, but I finally made myself do it, every last bit off my palm ... it wasn't as bad as I anticipated :)
    Thank you for the best spanking blog on the net!

    roger

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    1. I know what you mean! I watched and listened to the video, and then "re-wrote" the scene and the attitudes to be "better" (for me). That's what I then imagined.

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    2. Interesting.

      I write dialog in my mind all the time, turning everyday encounters into first time intense sexy spankings in as realistic a way as possible.

      If it’s with Irene, it’s not the first time she spanks me but the first time she allows another woman to take part. I’m going to work on a scene where we’re in a nice restaurant and I can’t take my eyes off a shapely blond woman sitting at a bar. When I come back from the bathroom, she’s in my seat talking to Irene. Irene, says “Rosco, this is Julie Delmar. She says you’ve been ogling her all evening.”

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    3. You would be in soooo much trouble!

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  14. Thank you for your incredible post and homework.

    I always have an early start in my law office and took that opportunity yesterday morning. I read through the entire post then started my homework at the beginining. Didn’t get past the grapefruit video. And this morning I’m about to enjoy it again. Might take a long time to do the homework through the entire post. And a lot of slurps along the way.

    Always appreciating you.

    peter peter

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    1. Well shame on you for not lasting past the first scene! ;-)

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  15. Fantastic! Wich other words?
    You know Julie that I would have been attracted by this. I like most three first posts. The humiliation of being so desperate for an orgasm to submit to those tasks. And then...homeworks too....with your "special little rule"....
    Does it is a challenge? Prove to not be a pussy and lick it all up? Or maybe a submission? For those who can't hold on and suffer consequences for not be able to keep quiet the hand and the penis? However it is, is greatfull.
    I'm not allowed to masturbate, but this time I think that I will looking for a secret litte time (very little, it doesn't need so much) to honor you (and degrade myself).

    Thanks Julie

    Martin

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  16. Just loved the one of him being cained while doing the doll.. I was hoping she would have hit him more often....

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  17. i have alway soon after reading or watching spanking video blog yes your blog i go and have idea i need masterbate go my bedroom lay down pull pants down rub my cock hard thinking of spanking or getting spanked

    either from you who punish spanking me cause your blog or any female iam top fan of spanking me just regular normal female out about or one i know spanking me

    iam sure any female like you catch me rubbing myself i be in big trouble or may laugh i can picture myself if caught by you or any female who i dream be spanked byi would blurt out rub my cock masterbe TO THOUGHT OF YOU SPANKING ME i yell out with out you or them knowing i want Spanking from them or you at time

    Sure we both know what would happen then iGET THAT SPANKING I WANT

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    1. Yes indeed, mike. If I caught you doing that, you'd be across my knee in a flash!

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    2. Well
      Be painful long hard spanking pasing very strict paddling hairbrush spanking i earn

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  18. Do you encourage or do anything special to get spanked in front of others? Have you been spanked on the bare bottom in front of others? I find that you enjoy controlling people to get sexual full fillment, nothing wrong with that at all. My wife when a spanking cannot wait will and has spanked me in front of others, her mother, girlfriends, but I must really step over the line. She always spanks on the bare bottom and I always have a erection, the women present just make jokes about it. It is gone shortly after the spanking begins. Afterwards I always dance around rubbing, they enjoy the show, but enjoy seeing me facing the wall more. Not always but have been told to undress, stand there getting scolded like a naughty little boy. So as a male who needs a woman to be in charge, I have done what was needed to be spanked in front of others, but my wife knows I'm doing this and the spanking is soundly given with the bath brush. I stand facing the wall and when asked if I did this on purpose I always say Yes. The worse part is that my wife will then have me call her Mommy, and she reminds who ever is present that when I'm a naughty little boy, she is the Mommy and Mommy spanks naughty little boys. I then get teased, asked if I was a naughty little boy,
    they enjoy this. So the female is more mature than the male, for when the male thinks he is getting away with something, he is not and in my case Mommy will give me a very sound spanking no matter who is present. Jack

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  19. Check this out, it looks like Sue and her gf playing with David
    https://m.vk.com/video-178896922_456240958

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  20. You wrote:

    In my real-life, I would say a good 50% of women would accept an invitation from a wife to see a husband domestically dominated, provided they perceive it as a safe and empowering environment for themselves. And then once accepted, they tend to go way further than you would expect! They laugh at him, they tease him, they have fun with it, they enjoy seeing him stripped and humiliated, they enjoy seeing him even quite harshly beaten on his bum, and they are eager to take their turns.

    You and I discussed this earlier and we traded theories as to why this may be the case. Past poor behavior in a workplace by men? Mansplaining that women grow tired of. A myriad of reasons are plausible.

    But one thought crossed my mind upon re-reading this: The Phil Zimbardo Stanford Prison experiment of 50 years ago. If you aren't familiar with it, much has been written on it. (If you Wikipedia "Stanford" I think it's the second listing that pops up.)

    Ethical standards prevent it from ever being repeated but basically people subdivided at random and placed in the "guard" group and the "prisoner" group ended up nearly immediately reacting in manners one would expect of the group they were randomly assigned into. Guards became quite aggressive and acted with impunity. Prisoners had immediate declines in their mental health. (That's an extremely brief synopsis.)

    It made me wonder if that could partially explain your theory as to why potentially vanilla women when exposed to a scene where there is impunity in their behavior towards a man they may not know, who are told he implicitly consented to their whims (hopefully within certain pre-agreed upon limits), morph into not-so-vanilla dommes.

    It's a thought-provoking theory. But essentially when the rules of society are suspended temporarily and they are told, "it's ok, he craves this," do they change? Or was it within all their human behavior already, albeit at most times dormant? Or do they feed upon each other and a group of 3-5 becomes more domineering and pushes the envelope further than a group of 2?

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    1. I have read about that Experiment. Is does feel similar. And yes, the more in the group the crueler they become!

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    2. Perhaps similar to the group behavior from "Lord of the Flies." Groups/mobs do things individually most would say they never would consider.

      I would assume this is why some fantasies are FFFF/m or some variation of that.

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    3. I think it's just the increased comfort level and the social approval.

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  21. Your use of quotes with the words "man" and "men" was a very nice touch to this. I can definitely identify with that classification. Loved your descriptions of the scenes as always!

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  22. Ms Julie, i have read your post as i always do but definitely can't follow your orders. my Wife has me locked securely in chastity. It has been over a year since she allowed me to have an orgasm,i'm not even allowed an erection. any release of sperm only happens by way of Her pegging me

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    1. Ask for special dispensation, just this once ;-)

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  23. Not a chance i'm going to do that. The last time i asked for an orgasm i was caned. Lesson learned!

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    1. Oh come on, I'm sure it will go better THIS time :-)

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  24. None of these appeal to me...except one.

    The third pic with the guy fucking a blowup doll. In my case not a doll, but a real woman. Fucking my GF while a friend of hers "encourages" my performance to greater heights with a strap (not a cane).

    One time that almost happened. Told GF that was a fantasy and she went all deep-voice on me: "Oh, God; I'd do that..."

    Almost lost my mind. She even pulled out her cell phone and her photo collection so we could evaluate which of her GF's we might want to play with us.

    In the end it didn't happen. Logistics and scheduling never matched. The fantasy? It's still there!

    A.

    Closing question: If Julie was asked by one of her GF's to handle the strap in this scenario, what would she say/do?

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  25. Oh hell, that's a great bunch of vids. I love everyone and checked out all of them. This forced presentation in the last one is one of my biggest turnons. I watched it completely and came at the end when he was spanked and the two others are sitting on him. It's extremly arousing but also my worst nightmare getting punished and humiliated in front of my girlsfriends hot female friends fully nude getting an intense body and cocksize rating. My head would explode and I would die in shame (I don't think I could see or meet them after it). But this is all fiction, we don't do BDSM in our relationship.

    Thanks Ma'am!

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